I liked your video very much. My last girlfriend was in 2010. She came from Tennessee to Massachusetts to be with me. She lived with me for 2 months but could not let go of the woman she lived with to come live with me. She felt she had to call her every day just in case we didn't work out. We had more arguments over that and until I told her that she had to go because she wouldn't let go of her. If you're going to be in a relationship with a woman, be in it wholeheartedly. Don't play the silly games and tear both your lives apart.
I'm very sorry she hurt you and wasn't ready to move on from her prior relationship. But don't give up. Hot lesbians are everywhere, and someone way better is out there waiting for you.
Wow. I didn't realise I was doing a lot of these and why I was doing it. As a lesbian, I've always liked the attention I get from men I consider to be good looking, though I have no interest in being sexual with them, I gained some sort of gratification from them thinking they have a chance with me. This video made me more aware of my toxic behaviour and I'm already working on changing this, as chances are I've subconsciously done this to other women.
It's really great to be self-aware and willing to work on changing the things we do that hurt other people. Lots of people will never care or be brave enough to self-reflect and change in that way. - But the lesbian community is small, so even just one person increasing awareness to avoid hurting other women will have a big impact on everyone. 💪🏻 🌈 💪🏻
I'm here at the start of a new relationship that's getting serious. I specifically looked for Women v Women so that I wouldn't believe these things happen because I'm a man. Thank you
I’m really glad I watched this. I always felt guilty about my reactions to how I was being treated. I can honestly say that every woman I’ve ever dated has played one game if not all at once. To make it worse, online dating seems to be all about power games. They get you interested and 👻 as soon as you make plans
I'm sorry you've interacted with so many women like this. Not all women play games though, so just move on as fast as possible from the ones who do, and keep believing in love.
I think all the single lesbians on here who had their heart broken from these games should date eachother. That way you can all skip the bs from shitty dating sites. I know that's close to how I met my gf and we've been together nearly 3 years now.
I'm done w/games. These dumpster dive dating apps can all burn. They're cesspools for codependency, dysfunction & mindf*cks. I'm going to live my life & me & my wife will have to bump into each other out in the world. Likely at Home Depot.
I'm sorry you've run into bad situations on the apps. I encountered some toxic women there as well. But dating as an adult (regardless of whether you are on the apps) means you end up connecting with some unsavory humans and getting hurt here and there. But it's nothing we can't heal and bounce back from. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. The truth is, practically every woman who is single and serious about starting a relationship is on the apps. There are lots of gems, hidden among the riff-raff. Unfortunately refusing to engage on the apps results in missing all of the high-quality women who are searching for you there. I experienced the dumpster dive that the apps can be, and I got my heart kicked around too. But in the end, I found my life-partner using the apps. And I advise all the women I coach to stick with it, despite the nonsense.
I am manifesting the perfect woman for me. My only lesbian relationship lasted two years. HOLLY Molly, it was not a positive experience for me. I wish I had those two wasted years back.
I'm so sorry that the relationship wasn't a positive one. I hope there are (at the very least) some lessons you can learn from the experience, so that next time you'll see the red flags and it won't happen again. 🙏
I truly love your videos. I just wish I knew some of these things that I have been through by being used and played with in the wrong way. Wow. Thank you
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you had to learn these things hard way. But at least, with this new clarity, you can start to trust yourself that it won't happen again.
Uhm where are all of these hot Lesbian women you mentioned at the end of your video. I need answers right now! Lol! I’m STEM and love gorgeous women. So what country, city and state do I need to be in 😂 or dating app I don’t have on my phone already (although I haven’t used them much lately lol. The online dating streets are wild.
What I’m wondering is what solution fits if this girl seems to have flirted with someone I know bc she liked the attention. I already dont know what to do bc the first time introducing her gf to us she said she needed her gf to change her social anxiety and maybe she just doesn’t think of her words well enough but .-. They can be cute I’m sure but the stories they have told me and another just seem off. I won’t do anything bc it just seems like an odd thing but nothing harmful or if it is we don’t know it….
Been there done that. Interestingly though, these toxic games are way more pronounced in straight relationships I feel like. I'm not a bi though, just been through a lot of comphet experience.
Im bi and i find men a lot easier to understand and relate to. My body and presentation are feminine but i have a male mind and no nonsense atitude. I wish i was just straight because Im really annoyed with women RN.
@@etcwhatever Interesting. I feel most comfortable usually with rather masc women, but not fully butch either. Most men probably don't understand me, or they just don't want to deal with my 'nonsense'. But I found a lot of straight women prefer that masculine attitude, though.
I’d pay good money to wake up straight in the a.m. . Doesn’t really matter now that I’m nearly 58, and invisible. And bitter as hell. Lesbians are SO effed up! Everything she mentioned here has happened to me several times. She nailed it ! At least 20 years too late. I learned one of my favorite music artists recently decided she was a lesbian. Poor woman.
My dear Im 35 ONLY and extremely sick of womens games. Im bi and lean more towards women but Im sick of it. Men became so atractive after 2 failed lesbian relationships. Men also dont aggravate me to my Core like women do. The sad part is that 2 women together have great potential but it never happens in the right way
No she wants me more and i dont play emotional games, im just not interest and give a woman silent treatment, while she acts unspokingly weird or stands in the middle of a room, repressing my own choice to speak with others. Like shes not "my world". I think a woman should accept a no anf go on with their own life. Having no interest and ignoring out of being annoyed from needy attention seeking is not playing emotional games I was 13 years porn addicted and after cutting it was so abnormal...i think most women today watch porn, mind games and netflix, infiltrating their mind with toxic shit against any loving bond and self care. Emotional games drain my energy and are time waste I have a pluto semi square moon aspect and the best recommendation is: no porn, no netflix, healthy communication and instinct expression for subtle manipulation tactis. Use it for teaching others and let grow your strong emotions. Write, draw, sing, hear music, dance, walk, talk feelings out authentically. Pluto is feminine and transformative, let it be for the better
Every lesbian I have ever met plays an emotional game usually a power trip play. So the game perpetuates because I'm not getting played- I'm going to play her first... Ugg... This cycle has gone on and lesbian history as far back as I can remember. That's why I keep a side dude- no drama lots of gifts ,lots of sex. You don't have to go to the other side to be happy but it helps to have something on the side cuz the girls are mostly game players and monkey Branch girl to girl.
@@RiseofTaitoShirei ...I totally get this. Just got ghosted from someone who was all into me. Yet out of the blue: she falls off the grid. I'm done. This societal mindful*ck of dating is EXHAUSTING.
Short n Sweet: women want me to do all the heavy labor including the driving, housework, yardwork, play the guy in dress-up games. Men just want to tie me up LOL.
I liked your video very much. My last girlfriend was in 2010. She came from Tennessee to Massachusetts to be with me. She lived with me for 2 months but could not let go of the woman she lived with to come live with me. She felt she had to call her every day just in case we didn't work out. We had more arguments over that and until I told her that she had to go because she wouldn't let go of her. If you're going to be in a relationship with a woman, be in it wholeheartedly. Don't play the silly games and tear both your lives apart.
I'm very sorry she hurt you and wasn't ready to move on from her prior relationship. But don't give up. Hot lesbians are everywhere, and someone way better is out there waiting for you.
@@jordanamichellegutman Thank you! I really hope so! ;)
Wow. I didn't realise I was doing a lot of these and why I was doing it. As a lesbian, I've always liked the attention I get from men I consider to be good looking, though I have no interest in being sexual with them, I gained some sort of gratification from them thinking they have a chance with me. This video made me more aware of my toxic behaviour and I'm already working on changing this, as chances are I've subconsciously done this to other women.
It's really great to be self-aware and willing to work on changing the things we do that hurt other people. Lots of people will never care or be brave enough to self-reflect and change in that way. - But the lesbian community is small, so even just one person increasing awareness to avoid hurting other women will have a big impact on everyone. 💪🏻 🌈 💪🏻
@@jordanamichellegutman thank you, I'm glad that's the case
This is actually all good advice for straight dudes as well.
Right on 🙌🏻
I'm here at the start of a new relationship that's getting serious. I specifically looked for Women v Women so that I wouldn't believe these things happen because I'm a man. Thank you
And for straight women- because straight men play these games, too.
I’m really glad I watched this. I always felt guilty about my reactions to how I was being treated. I can honestly say that every woman I’ve ever dated has played one game if not all at once. To make it worse, online dating seems to be all about power games. They get you interested and 👻 as soon as you make plans
I'm sorry you've interacted with so many women like this.
Not all women play games though, so just move on as fast as possible from the ones who do, and keep believing in love.
so true sis..I hate these kind of toxic behaviors
Glad you're active on youtube again :) I love your advice!
Thank you so much! 🙏🏼💃🏻
@@jordanamichellegutman I got back together with my ex fiancee I got bowel cancer how thanks her being with me at hospital all night last night ??.
I think all the single lesbians on here who had their heart broken from these games should date eachother. That way you can all skip the bs from shitty dating sites. I know that's close to how I met my gf and we've been together nearly 3 years now.
Hey I am #1 in line here of your idea, anyone wanna chat ? lets take it slow, Im very loving no games..can be seen on OK cupid, Dawn.
Welcome back!
Thank you! 💃🏻
When you want love and you are ready for a serious relationship, it's so hard. Where are the genuine women?
Women still deal with internalized misogyny so they treat other women the way men treat women. It’s really hard for ladies that want to spoil.
The silent treatment thing is so messed up.
Totally.
You're so articulate! I'm impressed
Yayyyy!! You're back! Very helpful.
Thank you! I'm glad this was helpful 🌈
It took me awhile to figure this out about a certain woman, I am happy to have learnt that she will only be an old fantasy 😉
I'm done w/games. These dumpster dive dating apps can all burn.
They're cesspools for codependency, dysfunction & mindf*cks.
I'm going to live my life & me & my wife will have to bump into each other out in the world.
Likely at Home Depot.
I'm sorry you've run into bad situations on the apps. I encountered some toxic women there as well. But dating as an adult (regardless of whether you are on the apps) means you end up connecting with some unsavory humans and getting hurt here and there. But it's nothing we can't heal and bounce back from. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
The truth is, practically every woman who is single and serious about starting a relationship is on the apps. There are lots of gems, hidden among the riff-raff. Unfortunately refusing to engage on the apps results in missing all of the high-quality women who are searching for you there.
I experienced the dumpster dive that the apps can be, and I got my heart kicked around too. But in the end, I found my life-partner using the apps. And I advise all the women I coach to stick with it, despite the nonsense.
@@aicofrena505 You're missing the point. It's hard for women who love women too. Besides, we are also competing with you when the girl is bi.
Whats the best apps? @@jordanamichellegutman
I am manifesting the perfect woman for me. My only lesbian relationship lasted two years. HOLLY Molly, it was not a positive experience for me. I wish I had those two wasted years back.
I'm so sorry that the relationship wasn't a positive one. I hope there are (at the very least) some lessons you can learn from the experience, so that next time you'll see the red flags and it won't happen again. 🙏
Woah yeah that emotional game is not cool at all. Everything you said is so true
Right on! 🙌🏼
I truly love your videos. I just wish I knew some of these things that I have been through by being used and played with in the wrong way. Wow. Thank you
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you had to learn these things hard way. But at least, with this new clarity, you can start to trust yourself that it won't happen again.
Spot on
Thank you 🎯
Wish saw this video some 13 years ago ! Damn so much truth bombs
Thank you! 🙌🏼💥🌈
I give up dating. Im lesbian but i never had a relationship with a woman. Idk im done. I have too much emotional baggage.
I love your videos! Super high quality and helpful. I would not be surprised if this channel took off at some point!!
Thank you so much 🙏🏼
It nice to know when lesbians go thru the same shit
Lesbian relationships are the hardest! Because it's made up of TWO women. Not just one.
What is this even supposed to mean 🙄
Uhm where are all of these hot Lesbian women you mentioned at the end of your video. I need answers right now! Lol! I’m STEM and love gorgeous women. So what country, city and state do I need to be in 😂 or dating app I don’t have on my phone already (although I haven’t used them much lately lol. The online dating streets are wild.
What I’m wondering is what solution fits if this girl seems to have flirted with someone I know bc she liked the attention. I already dont know what to do bc the first time introducing her gf to us she said she needed her gf to change her social anxiety and maybe she just doesn’t think of her words well enough but .-.
They can be cute I’m sure but the stories they have told me and another just seem off.
I won’t do anything bc it just seems like an odd thing but nothing harmful or if it is we don’t know it….
Been there done that. Interestingly though, these toxic games are way more pronounced in straight relationships I feel like. I'm not a bi though, just been through a lot of comphet experience.
Im bi and i find men a lot easier to understand and relate to. My body and presentation are feminine but i have a male mind and no nonsense atitude. I wish i was just straight because Im really annoyed with women RN.
@@etcwhatever Interesting. I feel most comfortable usually with rather masc women, but not fully butch either.
Most men probably don't understand me, or they just don't want to deal with my 'nonsense'. But I found a lot of straight women prefer that masculine attitude, though.
Thank youuuu
🙏🌈🙏
Thank you so much helps alot
Am a lesbian and I can't find one because of the place I stay, am dieing slowly please can any one help me out
Hy
I’d pay good money to wake up straight in the a.m. . Doesn’t really matter now that I’m nearly 58, and invisible. And bitter as hell. Lesbians are SO effed up! Everything she mentioned here has happened to me several times. She nailed it ! At least 20 years too late. I learned one of my favorite music artists recently decided she was a lesbian. Poor woman.
My dear Im 35 ONLY and extremely sick of womens games. Im bi and lean more towards women but Im sick of it. Men became so atractive after 2 failed lesbian relationships. Men also dont aggravate me to my Core like women do. The sad part is that 2 women together have great potential but it never happens in the right way
Keep making videos please
I will. Thank you!
No she wants me more and i dont play emotional games, im just not interest and give a woman silent treatment, while she acts unspokingly weird or stands in the middle of a room, repressing my own choice to speak with others. Like shes not "my world". I think a woman should accept a no anf go on with their own life.
Having no interest and ignoring out of being annoyed from needy attention seeking is not playing emotional games
I was 13 years porn addicted and after cutting it was so abnormal...i think most women today watch porn, mind games and netflix, infiltrating their mind with toxic shit against any loving bond and self care.
Emotional games drain my energy and are time waste
I have a pluto semi square moon aspect and the best recommendation is: no porn, no netflix, healthy communication and instinct expression for subtle manipulation tactis. Use it for teaching others and let grow your strong emotions. Write, draw, sing, hear music, dance, walk, talk feelings out authentically. Pluto is feminine and transformative, let it be for the better
Wow. I have pluto conjunct moon in Scorpio on the 8th house 😂
Every lesbian I have ever met plays an emotional game usually a power trip play. So the game perpetuates because I'm not getting played- I'm going to play her first... Ugg... This cycle has gone on and lesbian history as far back as I can remember. That's why I keep a side dude- no drama lots of gifts ,lots of sex. You don't have to go to the other side to be happy but it helps to have something on the side cuz the girls are mostly game players and monkey Branch girl to girl.
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Wtf????
excellent - thank you!~
🙌🏻 🌈 🙌🏻
My ex cheated on me with a guy and now she love me but she don’t want me to say hi or she get so angry at me idk why I miss her so much
Shes being Toxic. You need to move on. And its a bi woman telling you that.
This is the classic example of a narcissist. Man or woman.
I've finally found it.... WOMEN'S RED PILL
I won't date because I hate games.
There's no reason to be afraid of games because they're nothing you can't handle as long as you have good boundaries and high standards 💪🏻
@@jordanamichellegutman They're still childish and a waste of time. I don't want to waste time
@@RiseofTaitoShirei ...I totally get this. Just got ghosted from someone who was all into me.
Yet out of the blue: she falls off the grid.
I'm done. This societal mindful*ck of dating is EXHAUSTING.
Short n Sweet: women want me to do all the heavy labor including the driving, housework, yardwork, play the guy in dress-up games. Men just want to tie me up LOL.
Damn woman can be so complicated 😅💔
But nothing you can't handle!!! 🙌🏻
And then theres ones like me that are not at all complicated..
So can men.
Where on earth have you been? I watched your videos during lockdown then u went off the radar🙄
I'm back now, and there will be new videos 💃🏻
Also, I have a podcast called Women Wanting Women, so check that out for more content!
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