The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Lesbian Dating

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  • Опубліковано 16 жов 2022
  • Have you ever seen a red flag when you were dating someone you wanted things to work out with?
    It’s a huge bummer when that happens, because red flags are evidence that the relationship you’re currently pursuing is doomed.
    And this means that the long-term emotional pain you will suffer from being with them is greater than any short term comfort and enjoyment you get out of the relationship.
    And there are 5 red flags that are so major that they should be automatic dealbreakers when they come up.
    I talk about all of them in this video.
    If any one of these 5 red flags comes up with someone you’re dating, it means the best thing you can do is end the relationship and start over.
    But if that happens, you really don’t have to worry.
    Because this world is full of beautiful, open-hearted queer women who are longing for love just as much as you are, and there is a huge number of those women who you would be extremely attracted to, who would feel just as attracted to you, if you were to meet.
    As long as you don’t self-sabotage or stay stuck in the wrong relationships, it’s only a matter of time before you cross paths with one of those women. And together you will be happy and build a life and get to experience all the things you want from love.
    And I will be so excited for you when that finally happens.
    Let me know what you think in the comments below!
    P.S. If you want lesbian dating advice from me more often, follow me on Instagram @jordana.michelle and subscribe to my podcast Women Wanting Women (anywhere you listen to podcasts).
    To book a one-on-one coaching session with me and get my personal support in finding the love you long for, go to womenwantingwomen.com/coaching/
    Want to find out what qualities the woman of your dreams will find most attractive about her when you meet? Go to lesbianattractionquiz.com
    Want my free guide to finding your lesbian soulmate? Go to attracther.net
    And if you want free access to some of what I teach in my online courses, go to WomenWantingWomen.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 53

  • @user-uo1xn7kv4r
    @user-uo1xn7kv4r Рік тому +21

    People don't change, so true. What you see is what you get.

  • @Laffingrl
    @Laffingrl Рік тому +47

    Being alone,is better than being with someone who is indifferent or a sneak and a liar.

  • @avaparkergray1983
    @avaparkergray1983 Рік тому +34

    i feel like this advice is applicable for any kind of relationship :)

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Рік тому +12

      I agree. I offer my advice from my own lesbian perspective, but if a broader group of people resonate with what I'm saying and find it useful, that's great. Not all dating videos offer advice that's fully applicable to lesbians, and that's why I try to speak from my own perspective and share what I've learned for others who are in a similar position. 🙏🏼🌈🙏🏼

    • @lyne3783
      @lyne3783 Рік тому +5

      Yes but this Is a lesbian channel

  • @P.willow
    @P.willow Рік тому +16

    I've had everything u said. Its horrible how 1 person can damage u in soo many ways.

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Рік тому +4

      I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's truly horrible how one person can do so much damage, but also empowering to know that next time, if you see the red flags, you can protect yourself by drawing boundaries and not letting yourself get taken advantage of 💪🏻 🙏🏼 💪🏻

  • @jenniferliman6670
    @jenniferliman6670 3 місяці тому +1

    Great advice. Thanks Jordana

  • @elisegray6962
    @elisegray6962 2 місяці тому +2

    Never believing in potentials ever again, I will now trust people when they show me who they are and what they have to offer right now, not in a week or a month time. I am not here to entertain anyone. If you cannot make the time and the effort to love me now, I will not stay because we're clearly not on the same page.

  • @retireddeloach
    @retireddeloach Рік тому +2

    OUTSTANDING videos. Great advice Jordana.

  • @RiseofTaitoShirei
    @RiseofTaitoShirei Рік тому +2

    I'm glad you're making videos. I like following you for the perspective.

  • @stephaniedodt2389
    @stephaniedodt2389 Рік тому +4

    This is all excellent advice!

  • @sarahwalters7701
    @sarahwalters7701 Рік тому +1

    You look fantastic! Thanks for the upload :)

  • @folkeholtz6351
    @folkeholtz6351 Рік тому +1

    Thanks vry much is so wise advice. Hope that many take hold of them.

  • @elissarios2195
    @elissarios2195 Рік тому +3

    this was so good :)

  • @jitkasuarez
    @jitkasuarez Рік тому +2

    Thanks Jordana!

  • @uscitizen3252
    @uscitizen3252 Рік тому +1

    Great advice!

  • @grahamcrackerjay
    @grahamcrackerjay Рік тому +4

    This is so true!!!

  • @marshmallow13585
    @marshmallow13585 Рік тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @simsim1293
    @simsim1293 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this video. It kick two bird with one stone for me. Appreciate it. It would have been hard to seen this video a few weeks ago.

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for your comment. I know what you mean, that sometimes certain truths are hard to look at. I'm glad this helped you clarify. Good luck!!!

    • @MichelleLohde-uv2rx
      @MichelleLohde-uv2rx День тому

      @@jordanamichellegutman my girlfriend of 12 years and we have a daughter together she jeslous and check my e mail and my phone what i do ?.

  • @emilytreu2312
    @emilytreu2312 Рік тому +4

    Please keep making videos!

  • @plworld5315
    @plworld5315 9 місяців тому +1

    These are great. I’d also add avoiding women who suffer from untreated addiction.

  • @maxinethompson37
    @maxinethompson37 5 місяців тому

    3:30 That's an interesting take on affairs I've never heard of.

  • @flawdanative3223
    @flawdanative3223 Місяць тому

    "No truer words have been spoken"! Save yourself a lot of pain, Ladies...

  • @Slx742
    @Slx742 2 місяці тому

    Absolutely 100%

  • @crytalcrytal2517
    @crytalcrytal2517 Рік тому +9

    This world is full of beautiful open-hearted queer women... Just not any in your city and/or state 💀 welcome to being a lesbian 💔

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Рік тому +3

      Lol. I know how you feel, and I've felt that way too. But I promise they are there, walking the streets, circling the peripheries of your social network. Don't give up.

    • @sparkleskystorm2855
      @sparkleskystorm2855 3 місяці тому

      Women are horrible ​@@jordanamichellegutman

  • @brittneybrown4849
    @brittneybrown4849 3 місяці тому

    I feel like my partner is just "settling" when it comes to me and the relationship, but then she tells me she loves me and im just being insecure. Its so comfusing and it has literally caused so much pain in my life.

  • @alanaban1840
    @alanaban1840 7 днів тому

    This is a video that show u how to do the wrong and call it right/

  • @selenem3384
    @selenem3384 2 місяці тому

    covert narcs are probably the most abusive

  • @Ariesstubbornbutt
    @Ariesstubbornbutt 6 місяців тому

    Stop using queer. When I was growing up it was an insult meaning also a molester etc. I suggest changing it.

    • @elisegray6962
      @elisegray6962 2 місяці тому +1

      Your comment is the direct reflection of your pseudo 😂😂 Please evolve with our present time, past is past. Just heal your trauma.

    • @Ariesstubbornbutt
      @Ariesstubbornbutt 2 місяці тому

      @elisegray6962 what trauma. You're the nutcase

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you!