Why We Almost Broke Up
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You could tell. Cuz before Geo use to act hard and how she didn't care, like not wanting a ring or a wedding or proposal etc but you could tell she was emotional and wanted it but she didn't want to be vulnerable
lol agreed and when she got her breasts done, that was it.
100%
geo is alot more vulnerable in front of bart vs other cast mates of jk
Yup
Different love languages. Bart is more acts of service. While Geo is more quality of time and word of affirmation. Bart is doing a lot for them, thinking of their future and investing in it. But Geo was looking for someone who can just say the right thing and just showing that they are emotionally caring. BAM! know your love language!
yipyiphouray how much do I owe you for this psychiatry appointment? 😂😂😊
Do you have nothing better to do than to leave comments talking about someone elses' relationship?
This guy read the book.
@@Nicolas-fo8qd wtf? Why the pessimistic perspective? This was a great analysis and some people could learn from the comment.
@@Nicolas-fo8qd Then why are you here? Ask yourself the same question, bubbah.
I appreciate the humility & amount of guts it takes to actually open up & express these deepest, darkest parts of your relationship. It means a lot to most of us. Thank you for being great role models, both together & separate.
Every couple experiences trials and tribulations, and it's great they're open about it because it's normal.
@@jdoe3240 I feel relieved someone said this.
especially in public
There's nothing wrong with Bart wanting to provide financially and monetarily for his family. His drive is very commendable. I do hope he understands that balance is very important, especially now that they have Taika and especially because he's a boy and there is already societal pressures to "man up" and not show emotion. It's very important for Bart to learn how to feel, understand, process and communicate his emotions in a healthy way and lead by example for Taika and their future kids. The effects of having a parent who's emotionally distant but financially stable are farther reaching and harder to correct than being "poor" but having emotionally healthy parents who help you to be emotionally healthy.
That last sentence is so sooo freaking true
OMG PREACH
So powerful everything you just said wow
He's a man, his sole purpose is to provide, as men providing for women we ask for nothing in return, yet it's always more a d more with yall, "I don't feel this, I dont feel that, you're not doing this, I'm not getting that" a mans nature is to provide, a womans nature is to understand endure and support, we provide the pillars and the foundation, women provide the love and the affection, when we begin to understand this is when we'll start seeing better results in relationships.
I’ve always noticed during videos how much focus Bart gives Geo As she talks to him. He always seems engaging. Just an observation. Hope everyone is doing well today while under quarantine with their partners.
Fruity Pebbles Bart is a really good role model! It’s very inspiring how he went from high school delinquent to where he is now, completely respectful and caring, but tough when he needs to be. He has great qualities for a strong father figure.
James Zhang FOREAL!!!
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage. I guess I can consider myself the old man in this group chat, as I'm 50 and married now for 28 years and known my wife for a total 32 yrs; seeing couples like Geo and Bart gives me hope. I wish I saw more young couples commit to one another.
Rique Rod - I think some people fear commitment. I also think those people haven’t met the right person who they want to be committed to. Like some “”players”” will settle down with the right person. And I do believe some people are meant to be free and untied to anyone lol
Sorry geyser. Womem killed marriage and relationships. Thats why mgtow is increasing in popularity. Hopefully women get the fucking reality check they need and quit that "i dont need a man". shit.
And before anyone tries that 'you're sexist' shit let me remind you women initiate 70 percent of all divorces and men loose 99% of the time in family court. Marriage and divorce only benefits women PERIOD.
@@Hextin I get the whole red pill stuff but you can't keep going forward by pointing the finger. The courts make woman have an advantage so to avoid it all together. Go out with women with a positive attitude and wanting to have fun. It's not good to overload with so many videos of mgtow either. Good luck man
L V sure, agreed. But women who want commitment have to realize that men have limited options for commitment. Marriage for a lot of guys is generally off the table, especially the more successful he becomes. When we are talking about ways to be balanced and respect one another, smashing men for criticizing marriage is one of the most emotionally manipulative positions women can take.
@@Hextin It seems like you have met every single woman on this entire planet and you really have gotten our whole gender put together and generalized. Amazing work! Appreciate it LOL
Bart is a good interview. He stays quiet and lets them spill their guts lol
I've only been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. But I stumbled across a tiktok? It gave valuable love advice I would love to share - when your car runs out of gas, do you just get out the car and abandon it? No, you make the decision and effort to drive it to gas station. And fill it up with fuel. Just like a relationship, when there's no fuel, you don't just abandon it. You make the decision and effort to refuel it. Love you two ♡♡♡
love this and thanks for sharing
Not really sound advice
Trust me you newbie just when it gets nasty toxic all of this goes to hell an advice from a experienced guy, have been in a relationship for about 4 years now and very happy but still it sucks sometimes cuz my other one compromises less but yeah one thing both need to work in order to get the shit out
if the car drains your gas way too fast (aka toxic), it might be time to look for a better car
@@tenglei2 nice one
It sounds like the two are way overworked and just tired. And the tiredness and stress is consuming all facets of work-life, leaving no energy for anything else outside. Home should be a place of comfort, not another source of stress where you are not pressured to do much or self improve, etc. Enjoy home, enjoy the weekends, enjoy the time together even just doing nothing, and regain the headspace from whatever happens at work.
I love how Bart hands Geo so much power over the outcome of the relationship;
Bart: "I'll never break up with you, the only way we break up is if you break up with me."
That is such an amazing level of implied trust and confidence, that even I struggle to truly believe in within my own marriage.
Aren't they married? So wouldn't breaking up mean divorce or separating? That's what married couples do not break up.
@@tigertank06 You'd be surprised how often married couples end up divorcing, and its often over a lack of trust over its success.
Hearing Bart's rant, sounds like he didn't value or respect emotions and sentimental feelings. His logic and reasoning usually decides it’s not necessary and it’s even something negative. I guess he is slowly learning they are important for him and especially others.
BALANCE as Geo said
@Mike Tran lol. You think problems stop at being lesbian? 😂😂😂
from 13:00 on when he talks about the girl that felt like she had to put up a shield and pretend like she wanted pragmatic love when in reality she wanted romance, and that the same thing happened to Geo...
I guess more people are going through this than I've realized.. But now that I think about it same exact thing happened to me. I got into the relationship with my ex thinking I didn't want or need all that lovey dovey stuff, even though in the beginning we were super infatuated and crazy about each other, we weren't as romantic as other couples out there can be, then after a while the honeymoon faze ended and I found myself wanting the romance still, whilst he detached and went much colder, so in order to not loose him I found myself acting like I didn't care about romantic things, or that I wasn't romantic, but I've realized that I actually wanted romance, I wanted surprises and displays of affection. I vaguely remember kind of talking to him about it, and he told me that he thought that I wasn't a romantic type of girl and that I stressed this a couple of times in the past which is true, but I realized along the way, once I was in love that I actually was romantic, love changed me, before I used to be a stone cold person but after falling in love I found this new side of me.
And it was one of the many reasons why we fought all the time, I wanted attention and display of affection, he wasn't about that anymore, and this is one of the MANY MANY reasons we broke up.
But yeah crazy to see that this happens more often than you'd think and it's not really talked about, so thank you.
I think this happens when you're the type of girl that is seen as " one of the guys" and that is completely herself with her partner, you become best friends, so you both think that you don't need the romance, but in reality the girl ends up realizing that under all that toughness she is still a girl and wants love and attention, and gestures. At least this is what happened to me, and I think Geo is like that too, I might be wrong.
Dang you wrote a whole essay
@@KevOnRicks14 yeah so?
@Its Arii nothing it's just I could only right the first paragraph
@@KevOnRicks14 ok??
Damn I can relate to this so much
The best relationship advice ive been given is from my grandparents (married 60 years) is that understand that the person you met will never be the person you know today as people always change and grow. however, make sure you both grow together. Conflict comes when you feel not valued and seen as an equal. He loved my grandmother so much. After any fight they’d have he would cut her a piece of pie or bring a sweet to her and she would make some tea and they’d share a laugh together after a good cry. I’ve only seen him cry when he would sit with my gran.
They sound like the cutest and wisest old ppl 🥺I wish I had grandparents to tell me advice about love :,)
It seems like they’re opposites of each other, Bart is more systematic and Geo is more emotional. I see my relationship in theirs. I definitely had problems with my bf if he didn’t spend enough time or etc but he thinks I’m always complaining about the little things. I think if they both find their own hobbies, they can come back home and share. Especially if you’ve been with the same person for years, you gotta find some ways to cope with each other.
I agree, also I try not to compare my relationships to others and overthink from that, however in a wide view of it all I definitely relate and look up to Bart and geos relationship over the years, relationships are hard and through it all you can tell they have a true soul connection with their humor :’)
Geo is definitely a _FP personality and Bart is a _TJ personality.
@@heyitsjujuu correct! Geo is an ISFP and Bart is INTJ.
Poor Bart if you see his body language this looked hard for him
That shit is hard seeing that you hurt someone you care for.
Average Mo .. what?
I completely empathize with Geo, I felt what Geo felt for a while too.
MOST PEOPLE JUST GIVE UP OVER A PETTY ARGUMENT OR SOMETHING HELLA STUPID. WHATEVER HAPPENED TO “FOR BETTER OR WORSE”!? IT’S NOT FOR BETTER OR BETTER, IT’S FOR BETTER OR WORSE! I AM ROOTING FOR THE BITH OF YOU UNTIL THE END! YOU GUYS ARE ENDGAME!
AND REMEMBER GEO, LEONARDO DI CAPRIO WS A SCORPIO JUST LIKE BART! YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH THAT ENERGY AND YOU BETTER STICK WITH HIM UNTIL THE END OR YOU WILL SCAR HIM OFF WHITE WOMEN/LATINA WOMEN FOR LIFE! AND ASIAN MEN LIKE BART ARE COMMITTED ARE IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL, AS IN A LIFETIME MARRIAGE! ASIAN MEN DON’T DO DIVORCE! AND JUST THINK OF TAIKA, HE DESERVES A COMPLETE HAPPILY WITH A MOM AND DAD! BART AND GEO, YOU TWO ARE VERY ROMANTIC AND DESERVE EACH OTHER! ❤️🐷
Gokai Green think you replied in the wrong box bro ...
@@BossGokaiGreen exactly. i still cant figure out what her problem was
etf42 she is comparing her current feelings to the reflection of her past. She then comes to terms that you can’t expect someone to not grow or even hatred comes from false and unfair expectations.
Same :( when she started describing herself more I was like, shit, that’s literally me.
Jeez I would been sad to lose a good UA-cam couple who work so good together and are my goal as friends and family and in relationships way I want what they have in my future wife
You guys probably won't even see this comment but I just want to say i'm so appreciative of you both sharing something so intimate about your relationship when it's not even owed to us and to give so many people hope that recovery and mending of a relationship is possible and comfort that even you guys went through real relationship problems :(
When Bart started running I immediately knew he was going through something. Like coping. Bart and Geo still look like they need some work and I'm rooting for their best outcome 🥰 ...Love ain't all about the pretty feelings. Dedication, commitment, and effort is needed to make love last forever.
When?
Lmao @ the running part
I agree, Love isn't a feeling. It's a choice and a commitment. The feelings are a roller coaster and a part of the journey.
@@7thking361 I think love is moreso about commitment than people think, think about it. You dont love someone UNLESS you are committed
This was such a real conversation it hit me right in the feels about my relationship and if we had the level maturity they had it would have worked, lot of learning about relationships on this podcast, that't why i love Bart & Geo's relationship because they kind of teach you like friends.
FOR ALL TIGERBELLY FANS
The episode Bart was talking about in the beginning is Episode 239 at 34:28
Dylan Vo omggggg thank youuuu 😭
Dylan Vo I’m confused?
THANK YOU
You're a hero
Bart I think you had the same problems David Goggins had in being judgemental, I just think once you understand that not everyone has the same work ethics as you and it's not a bad thing because that's just who they are. But there will alway be another group of people who can and will out work even you Bart and you'll probably think that they're crazy lol
The k drama thing hit me so hard😭. When you have to fill your romantic needs with k drama because you don’t get enough of it in the relationship.
You should check out itaewon class
I’m single and that’s what I plan on doing for most of my life 🤣🤣🤣 filling my romantic needs with K-Dramas
Listening to Bart talk about the "at all cost" and "overtime". I feel that is a boss mentality that is unfair to an employee. Sorry but this resonates with me strongly right now. I work in healthcare and due to covid, there are lots of extra chaos and hours that we have to pick up. All we hear from the management are things like " we are all in this together", "lets not be calculative", " we can get through this together". We are essentially suddenly forced to work round the clock, forced to test for covid without a say, had our AL frozen. Basically make all the sacrifices with no extra benefits while the company benefit from the revenue of covid testing. So much for " in this together" when all they had to do was open their mouth to send and "order" down, but we are the ones struggling to carry things out. It's hard not to be calculative when things are done at your expense. Sorry if it isn't exactly related, just wanted to rant for abit.
Nope, agreed. Hearing him say that, it's clear that he does have that boss mentality that he doesn't even realize. You pay people for their work period.
Yeah it sounds his dream is not necessarily everyone else dream he works with. They most likely working to get paid to support their life outside of work. For example some people value family time more than work and don't want to miss their kids birthday for some work thing.
Thank you for your work. I don't work it healthcare but I totally agree with you. Being expected to work like a robot without complaints or a healthy life outside of work, expected to work overtime all the time, we're human beings... Sure, if it's your company, you can make all the sacrifices you want, but don't expect your employees to sacrifice their own life for your company.
He's clearly not talking about people like yourself. Most employees only work because they have to, and not because the want to. He's looking for the exceptions because he is an exception himself, and not a lot of people can relate to that.
@@jdoe3240 perfectly said.
Almost half of their relationship was a rough patch..ans they stuck through it... amazing. :')
i used to follow these guys from the start, before geo got pregnant and then i stopped watching for like 3 years and damn i missed you guys congrats on the boy i'm really suprised how much he grew up. god bless
I agree with Bart. Too many people complaining about stupid stuff. He is former military and so am I. I hate lazy people.
What a timing with this upload, its been 2 weeks since me and my girlfriend broke up. We both loved each other soo much, never really had any big issues. But for sme reason we had alot of mini arguments the past couple months. We were together for 2yrs and half also.
These past months we were a little toxic to each other and also our paths/goals in life was drifting apart and didnt line up anymore. I really thought she was the one for me and she did too but these past few months just didnt work out so we decided to part ways. We both broke up in good terms im assuming because we needed to grow ourselves. I do hope that one day life will bring us back together. Im scared that we might not end up together in the future.
Stay strong mate.
Life always finds a way. Even if you do not end up together, you two will both find someone who will be the right person and who's goals and life choices will align. Learn and grow from the relationship, and even if you stay in ezch other's lives, hope things work out for you dude!
Man everytime I see or almost see Geo cry, it makes me want to cry because she does not seem like the type of person to cry easily.
She's a drama queen.
kingbollywood22 you got the “queen” part right lmfao
@@JaySensei the best response to a prissy comment. Can I be that classy
Marianne Uptegrove lmaoo. UA-cam has a whole lot of those comments just prancing around
@@JaySensei Why are you guys mad at me... She literally said it herself that she is a drama queen. Bunch of simps.
it's crazy how this talk between Gio and Bart, opened my eyes on why it didn't go well in my last relationship.
Also the perspective of Gio, showed me what kind of "mistakes" people do, who are more on the rational side of the spectrum without realizing.
Thank you for your braveness to share such a topic with us.
i was rolling up and i almost dropped my weed wen i seen the title thought y'all broke up😂
lol you’re such a clown
lol?
No hes a person
chepe_616 clowns r ppl
Ahahah
Bart not remembering the tigerbelly thing correctly. He forgot to mention that Bob was back to using drugs (weed) and keeping it a secret. He was spiraling and the only thing that would push him to stop, was if Khalyla threatened to break up with him.
@Wan ToWan ep 239
@@DonnellG Wtf that's recent
@@kushalcurry4629 no that's the ep they talk about the incident happened last year i think ep 220
Weed??? Lmfao
@@jaythemachine3845 yes weed, Khalyla said it herself. She knows it's just weed but the way he was using it had "addiction" behavior (using it after his dad died, hiding it etc) so she knew that it could easily spiral
Geo is putting way too much blame on herself naturally, and Bart is letting her do it. When it comes to Bart's turn to reflect, he just does his usual default to "I'm logical, others are emotional." Also, love you Bart, but there are just different kinds of people with different temperaments, and there's no substitute for just chilling out and accepting that you can't criticize people until they change to a style that you like. Especially when you're the deviation from the norm -- you're the unreasonoable one with unreasonable expectations, so just chill out and stop trying to change people
I haven't seen the whole video but I think Bart was just letting her speak so he can hear everything she has to say but at the same time idk cuz I haven't watched the whole thing
Finally someone says it! This is the first time I’ve seen/heard their podcast and I really didn’t like that he brushed off all his shortcomings with “I’m just logical”.
It almost felt gaslight-ish so hear his girl blame herself for mostly everything and him not accept any of the blame for the years of a bad relationship.
i saw the title and immediately clicked ;~;
I totally get the relationship feeling cold and disliking your partner while still being in love... I ended up trying to distance myself from my partner because it felt like our communication or our emotions weren't meeting up, so to lessen the eventual hurt you try make it seem OK if everything were to end tomorrow.
As for finding your people, I would love to know how you guys make friends. I usually meet people through work or my partner but it never goes past an initial interaction. So it'd be great to hear a podcast about that 🙂
yeah, I wish I had friends too
thats fucked up
@@jacobleaver2450 it's a coping technique. We all deal differently with pain.
@@lopololo100 yes it is. But its still fucked up to do that to someone lol
"so to lessen the eventual hurt you try make it seem OK if everything were to end tomorrow." EXACTLY.
i havent been actually watching the vlogs recently, but i picked up like 2 to see, and i really felt that Bart n Geo had sumn sumn goin on behind the scene
Every relationship have sumn sumn goin on behind the scene. If you don't, you're probably not in a real relationship. Relationships are hard and it takes work. That's just a fact.
MOST PEOPLE JUST GIVE UP OVER A PETTY ARGUMENT OR SOMETHING HELLA STUPID. WHATEVER HAPPENED TO “FOR BETTER OR WORSE”!? IT’S NOT FOR BETTER OR BETTER, IT’S FOR BETTER OR WORSE! I AM ROOTING FOR THE BITH OF YOU UNTIL THE END! YOU GUYS ARE ENDGAME!
AND REMEMBER GEO, LEONARDO DI CAPRIO WS A SCORPIO JUST LIKE BART! YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH THAT ENERGY AND YOU BETTER STICK WITH HIM UNTIL THE END OR YOU WILL SCAR HIM OFF WHITE WOMEN/LATINA WOMEN FOR LIFE! AND ASIAN MEN LIKE BART ARE COMMITTED ARE IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL, AS IN A LIFETIME MARRIAGE! ASIAN MEN DON’T DO DIVORCE! AND JUST THINK OF TAIKA, HE DESERVES A COMPLETE HAPPILY WITH A MOM AND DAD! BART AND GEO, YOU TWO ARE VERY ROMANTIC AND DESERVE EACH OTHER! ❤️🐷
i saw title and immediately clicked on it
One thing that is so valuable in a relationship is to push each other to do better , yet still maintain respect for each other’s comfort zones. Bart, is genuinely trying to make the people around him better and stronger mentally.
There’s a therapist who says there’s only a few reasons why people break up and one of the main ones being contempt. “The feeling that a person or thing is beneath consideration, worth or deserving scorn” and that builds and builds with miscommunication and causes break up.
Damn, Geo really balance Bart out and I'm here for it
I am super introverted, too. I can relate to Geo's comment in this respect.
lol Bart’s marines background really shined through in this one, always so enjoyable to hear the views of these two 👍🏼
One thing I’ve noticed that I don’t think anyone here mentioned was that people had forgotten that Bart was once in the US military. He spent good amount of years in his life being taught how to be tough and within those years, he lived by the same rules everyday. I think that experience plays a role of who he is now. Also, he always mentioned about how he grew up poor and never had things he wanted as a kid. I’m sure he just wanted to make sure Taika and Geo can live comfortably and not experience what he experienced. But yes it doesn’t take away the fact that he had been emotionless as Geo mentioned. I think Bart just needed to have this conversation so he can realize that his ways weren’t effective. It goes both ways because Bart wouldn’t have known Geo felt this way until this conversation. It’s great that they were able to talk it out and work things through instead of just ending it. This podcast is very interesting topic.
Thank you for sharing such deep topics about your relationship. It really helps me as well to put my relationships into perspective and work out how I'm perceiving things. I wish people would talk more about these things cuz a long term relationship really isn't easy.
Tell me why I dropped my GOT marathon for this, the title got me 😂😂.
Anyway, Bart and Geo have a healthy relationship and I give them props for being transparent. I understand that they don’t share everything but damn what they do share can be helpful to the masses and I appreciate them for it. Relationships (romantic and non romantic) are hard. Some people lie to themselves and everyone else by pretending they aren’t. But them being honest and open reminds us all that no one has life figured out but you’ve got to put yourself first and figure yourself out. Otherwise you’ll be pouring out from an empty cup and you’ll be resentful.
Didn’t read the rest of your comment. Please stop watching game of thrones for your own sake I beg you
@@theassasinboy13 ew a city fan
@@mic.truong spurs...
Agree with the first guy. If you haven’t gotten to season 4 yet, I would advise you to stop watching after it. If you really can’t stop, just don’t watch season 8. It’s a pile of shit and it ruins the entire show (but the hints that the show was declining started to appear after season 4).
Oh lawd, save yourself and abandon GOT. Im still in recovery.
Interestingly enough.... my girlfriends therapist has told her that unconditional love doesn't exist and thriving for it is self harming. I personally disagree, but i feel like whatever a therapist says to you is never definitive and that's where you have to not only draw a line, but remember this as a focal point. Your love may just be very different from your partners.
can you elaborate on what her therapist meant by unconditional love doesn't exist?
@@LaiToTheLee Depends on how deep your relationship is. Do you have children? Was the cheating because they love the other person or pure lust? We aren't talking about just falling in love for a few months. We're talking about long term relationships love and relationships are developed. But doesn't mean they become a love that's unconditional at some point
i think unconditional love DOES exist. to your children though.
@@IKIGAIofficial sadly there are a lot of parents that demand their kids to pay them back and take care of them when they're old, doesn't seem so unconditional-_-
@@katherinep708 yes ive seen more of that case with my friends families than not.
it is sad and i cannot understand it.
like how could you not love your own kid no matter what?
What a PROFOUND AND RELEVANT dialogue! So glad I clicked Liked and Subscribed! Thank you so much Bart and Geo! This is what I believe in a relationship that has Authentic and Transparent Communication, Acceptance and Worthy of Trust for each other! I love this couple!
Stay strong guys. Relationships are a marathon not a race (:
Marathons are races...
@@Justaperson354 you get what they mean 🤦♀️
“I resist temptation” :( that made me so sad
@MsLoveablelizzie yeah that part rubbed me the wrong way. ofc there's temptation out there, but if you dont want it, it's not really resisting. you can find other people attractive but it shouldn't be this constant battle not to cheat. i hope bart just phrased it wrong but he didnt meant it like that b/c if i heard that, it would make me so sad.
oh boy, everyone ganging up on bart in these comments. he used to do shows all the time and bart n geo had to build trust because there would be girls that would want bart...and he always avoided infidelity
@@binhliang4618 Yeah I know. I'm not trying to bash Bart or anything-I know he has strong morals. It's just the way he said it-you only "resist" things that you want right? So if he didn't care for these groupies and loved Geo, then he wouldn't have to "constantly" fight his temptation.
@@purplehazee90 I don't quite think that's true at all, at all times those base level impulses will STILL be there. It's the curse of being a man, there.
Fools Crown hmmm idk, obviously ppl find others are attractive while in a relationship but the word temptation was a poor choice. He should have just left it at not cheating imo, I think if you have to “resist temptation” it implies that you are actively forcing yourself to not cheat on ur partner. I think if ur in a relationship then it should just be natural to not feel tempted. Temptation and attraction are different imo
I love Geo and Bart’s relationship. Even though they went through so much hardship together they never gave up on each other. Watching this podcast made me emotional bc you can just see how much they love each other. Love you guys!💕
I really admire Bart his words make me realize I’m lazy and need to work harder.
Bart everything that you are so amazing, there is so many people like you and the way you look at the world. Dont change or doubt yourself. ❤❤
What I got from this is Bart always pushed Geo to do everything he wanted to to do. I even noticed it with the gun videos. It was so obvious then that Bart guilt trip Geo into it even though she clearly said she was u comfortable. I think Bart u need to let Geo mould into her own identity and the best thing u can do as a husband and father is to support her. Yes be encouraging but do not spew all your wants into her if she doesn’t want the same thing. Women tend to be more agreeable and even she said she did it all mainly cause of him. It’s ok to have different hobbies. As sad as it is, I’m glad for Geo’s sake that she has moved away from JK. Sometimes mixing and business and pleasure becomes a little bit too much in the end and it’ll swallow u up to no end and it’s just not worth it for the sake of your family. All the best
One wants the feeling of unwavering love no matter the type. The other is afraid of temporary abandonment becoming a habit, turning into full abandonment. Both are unwavering yet both take steps away. Ya'll machiavelli but like cute, hail mary
Beautifully put!
all the girls relating more to Geo and here's me hella relating to Bart 😂
Geo don’t doubt yourself :(( it really gateways to overthinking sometimes and this ‘gaslighting’ will really get you
Oh Geo I feel for u girl lol Bart is so set in his ways that it pains him to even TRY to put himself in someone else’s shoes or view things any other way than his own. I commend u for ur patience!
I feel you guys will be okay. You guys are processing the same pains at different paces, and it gets lost in translation.
It's clear that something happened during the running of their gym, Geo says Bart was too demanding, Bart obviously wishes Geo had done more. Geo couldn't have done more, she was pushed to her limit. Bart isn't forgiving as he could be to that. It's a loop, that ends with one party just fully acknowledging the other's pain, and then the other will follow.
It ends when both realize they aren't competing with each other for one truth, and fully allow the other person to feel what they want to feel, without taking it personally. Really hard for a couple as close as these two, but watch how every time they start to say how they really feel, the back peddle a bit. It also takes a lot of self-control to really explain your feelings clearly.
It's not selfish for either to want their pain acknowledged first, it's human. It's not weak to not try to acknowledge the other's pain, they are already in pain.
If the love is strong enough, they will see the other person truth above their own mutually, so neither have to be right, or wrong.
👏👏
If you do what you did at the beginning, there will be no end. Gentlemen keep dating your woman no matter how long you've been together. Or else someone else will
Damn, this is some real shit. Such great perspectives
I don't know why I find Geo to be an interesting person. I don't mean this in a disrespectful manner.
Watching this gave me an insight into my own relationships like never before, as I see a lot of myself in Bart.
Polarity is a big deal. I love being feminine and I tend to attract masculine guys. Which I love :S
Damn this reminds me of my last relationship :/ I was feeling like geo and he was not emotional or supportive. I was waiting for him to breakup with me but then I had to do it myself because I really didn't feel loved. Dag this podcast. Makes me question is I made the right decision because they came over the hurdles
I feel like Barts heart broke a little in this one
Wow this just popped up on my feed and this conversation was wow , I’m only 25 and I’ve been with my bf for 7 years now and we have gone through similar stuff . Absolutely loved this podcast !
Bart “you hated me 🥺👉🏽👈🏽
Geo really loves this guy.
Every time she talks, it’s about Bart. She always gassed him up 😂😂😂
37:42 aww, Bart loves Geo times infinity! xP deep shit guys. dang. good vid tho! *thumbsup*
I read the title wrong and I had a mini heart attack
20 minutes in and this is so enlightening and helpful for such a heavy situation Im in currently. There really should be more videos like this on UA-cam and other platforms! Showing that in SOME relationships there is a light at the end of a very dark tunnel.
Geo is So Diana Prince right now. The admiration that Geo is expressing just makes me so freaking jealous! Bart humble as hell again. I thought I met my soul mate and things did not work out I'm like WTF what now😳
Well, you are now alone forever. Sorry bud
Might I suggest investing into a Pornhub Account. As a society we must support humanitarian work, especially given these "uncertain times".
Bart misconstrued stuff about Bobby and Khalylas relationship.. they almost broke it off they didn’t actually do it and I don’t think that Tigerbelly is their main income source!! For Khalyla sure but Bobby no way
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What episode of Tigerbelly was Bart referring to?
@@voravincii "My first pandy" episode 239. It was just a short part in the whole episode they didn't really elaborate too much on it, I think it was around the 28 minute mark.
I just feel like Bart feels he is judgmental because he has too much of a boss mentality and it's not effective in the long run, emotionally. Not for him or his workers, but I can absolutely understand where he is coming from as well. because when you want to achieve a goal and you know how to achieve that goal, you don't want to get stopped while on your way. I think he's right in that he's not very emotional and quite robotic, but he's not a "bad" person, either, and I hope he doesn't think he's a bad person for it.
I'm glad you were able to talk it out :)
When did Khalyla say she doesnt love bobby anymore?!
Also Bart at 52.01 LIFE ISN’t a military world. That is why people enlist in military because they want and have the desire to do that. You don’t treat your staff the same way. You cannot see it cause you’re the business owner. I guarantee u if u were on the other side as an employee u wouldn’t be thinking like that. That is the very reasoning behind goods and services it’s give and take. You don’t expect people to give and give without a reward in the end. Perhaps maybe in a romantic relationship but on a business level I don’t think so.
I can't even express how much I love them. I can write essays but they have always been an idol to me from all the skits representing diversity and friendship to now I'm watching them as parents and every time I watch their vlog I feel so loved and as if they're my parents who're there to talk to me no matter what. I love them so much.
Fk em they are azz holes to their employees
12:00 when Bart says: I'm sorry
It's so cute
Geo:
Your soul did not meet Bart in your past. You really like Bart. Simple, right?
What headphones is Bart wearing ??
I really really relate to geo in this podcast... I’ve been having trouble loving myself and I almost left my amazing boyfriend Because of it. Never limit the love that you receive.
"you accept the love you think you deserve"
I went to high school with my partner and I would never want to work with him because we failed algebra for messing around too much. 😂
Oh Geo, I feel for you and I am so proud and happy for you that you have been able to become the woman you deserve to be
15yrs later and I can definitely relate to what you guys talked about. That was a phase in my relationship that we experienced too. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE 🙏
Geo:
Why do you love Bart? What is it about him that makes you love him?
"A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust." ~ Nanette Newman
is it really? 😧
😭 omg im scared to watch 😭
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Hi, do you know what was the name of the app for therapy?
For the blue light glasses... just install "f.lux" on your computer and activate night colour on your phone...
Dragonfire shield THANK YOU I NEED THIS
Very functional discussion between a married couple
Wow. Currently going through what Geo felt. But in my situation, there's other things that I feel can't be fixed. Things happened in the past that hurt me and still do...sucks.
I'm going through this too. Your feelings are validated.
Geo said it perfectly at 53.46 a balance person. Work like balance. Bart automatically used Joe as an eh of hustling th rough holidays without even considering that Joe is part owner. No Bart it doesn’t work like that. Have respect for your staff they have a life outside JK not like u where it’s one and the same seeing as it’s your business
The mics arms are too high. Clip them behind the table (behind the cameras) so that they stretch towards you from a lower angle. Other than that, this is a great podcast 👍🏻❤️
Your video speared in my recommendations. I think it gave me perspective and inspiration to save my marriage. Thank you.
Poor Bart. Can never find his people's. 😂😂
This was the most real thing I have seen in UA-cam in awhile! Thank you
Someone tell me the reason why
Chul Teet for real save some time lol. Cut to the chase
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Wanted an open relationship
@@manuelvalladares8088 I think it's just the fact that after the 1st 2 yrs of a honeymoon stage, bart turned into a workaholic and geo slightly felt betrayed, and wa Ted bart to be him and not a mad business man
it's kind of nuanced but basically imo they had a boss/employee relationship and down the line geo who was raised to be strong and independent began to feel belittled and that they were no longer of equals in the relationship (ie work life slipped into personal life). and bart was just hustling and didn't help bring her along for the ride, which i guess in this case means empower her, comfort her, and communicate to her that she's not being left behind. so, tldr don't date your boss or your employees unless you're willing to make it work.
Damn I've been watching JK since the "every day go to school to be a good boy" era and I never realized how similar I was to Bart lmao. Thanks for sharing y'all story. I really feel like I learned a lot about myself through this.