What do ENFPs find attractive + INTJs and ENFPs attraction is real?
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
- Who do ENFPs fall for? What do we feel attraction for? from the perspective of a female ENFP. I also talk about INTJs (min 1:47 ) and my own experience with them in terms of attraction, since there’s this belief that both types attract each other.
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Even her hair is ENFP.
Haha is it really?
Well said 😂
My hair is like zig zags and it sticks straight out like fancy Nancy. It made we wonder if there's a correlation between our physical features and personality
YASS We (ENFP) LOOOVVVEEE finding out a man is DEEP AND HILARIOUS/Witty, and if they use both logic AND Empathy to make decisions we want to tear their clothes off!! I am so serious!! 😂😂😂😭😭
INTJ here...very often we're not trying to be mysterious. That's just how we are. We're attracted to ENFPs because they have an energy/aura that is like a magnet. Most would find it off putting. Ironically it's being around that energy that gives us joy.
ENFP here, I’ve always said INFJs are a great match, but there’s always just something sexual about the INTJ!!
Yessss! Well said. INFJ is a sweet soulmate. INTJ is like soulmate plus fire (sexually, mentally)
According to C.S. Joseph INTJ and ENFP are the highest sexual compatibility for each other. So I mean... it tracks.
As an INTJ reading this - I still don’t understand how you draw that conclusion; but hey 😏 I guess we’ll learn to open up and turn off the analysis and just EXPERIENCE
I am an INTJ and I don't know why I like you already.
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Mindimalist Seems you friendzoned him already lol.
I’m an INTJ (female) and I like her too ☺️
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INTJ’s tend to test a potential partner’s loyalty as they can be paranoid in trusting someone. Luckily, NP’s like ENFP’s have that patience and perseverance to still pursue that INTJ. Think of Naruto (ENFP) chasing after Sasuke (INTJ). Sasuke acknowledged Naruto at last and has his ultimate trust. Relationships of NP’s and INTJ’s tend to unfold that way. To the NP’s out there, we INTJ’s are sorry for giving you obstacles but are thankful for your loyalty and perseverance. Guess it pays off ultimately.
The things I have shared here are what I have learned from CS Joseph’s channel here on YT. You guys may also check him out for the nerdier side of mbti.
Itsa fine, we like obstacles and discovering stuff! Justa be who you wanna be!!
- ENFP mario
That which you call obstacles for the ENFP is that "mystery" that we want to uncover, which I mention in the video. That's why we don't run away. It's kind of cute, honestly.
But it's cute because ENFPs can see through INTJs, the same doesn't apply to ISTJ, or many other types. We cannot see through, we cannot trust them, etc.
@@Mindimalist If it helps, as an INTJ, my brother is an ISTJ. If he is representative, they are HIGHLY trustworthy and loyal. They might be emotionally opaque, but it's there.
@@KatanaKamisama true, i shouldn’t have generalised:) thanks for sharing!
All the ENFPS i know want to figure out how to meet an INTJ, so I told them we are usually in our homes or the cave we built, but very rarely we come out to events that really interest us. So when we're out you better catch us if you can. For some reason, most ENFPs have a radar that can detect an INTJ a couple miles away. I'm surprised every time i meet someone and they introduce themselves as an ENFP. I just smile and nod.
Oh yes, that radar is true... because if we are into MBTI we would do the maths and will want to have the quiet guy/girl near us asap!!! 😅
"Oh, it's... another ENFP, that I've now met for the one billionth time because no one likes me except for ENFPs." 😂
So true, we are like Batman, always in the Batcave and only out when something important like the joker or Gordon calls.
I have a funny story on your first thought.
I found this guy at Uni four years ago, we didn't talk that much back then, but there was something that attracted us to each other. He was most of the time looking at me silently from the opposite side of the central backyard on the campus. One day, I remember he kept distantly staring at me for 20 minutes or so, (we were at a concert there), I was standing by my own and when other students came by he walked towards me too and stood up beside me but without saying anything, after some minutes he walked away.
As we started to get along, he always came up with games, psychological ones, like trying to decipher me and getting into my mind. Eventually, he would ask me to hug him, which secretly, was a huge gift for me too but was somehow weird to trespass that physical barrier I had. I enjoyed his company so I gave in to his playing and felt intrigued to know him as well.
Long story short, we lost contact for years until he reached out of the blue again and then we became inseparable friends. Now, we know we're an INTJ - ENFP match and everything makes sense, hahaha. He's my favourite person (but he can't know it yet).
Speaking as a INFJ: Thinking and feeling is a balance. INFJ’s can be chameleons in social situation, if need be. INFJ’s are always in there heads. Our Introverted -intuition is a great way to see things in ways that is sometimes hard to explain to others. INFJ’s are gentle souls but not push overs.
Lorenzo Smith INFJs have a very sharpen intuition. I love that!
Yeah while I can adapt to anything it feels like too much of a hassle. It's not just me is it?
Completely agreed.
Thanks to my ENFP friend, I started to open up and he's the first person I think of when I need to make a confession, it just comes more natural for me. Also, he's the first one I hand over my writings to.
You enfps are good at getting in
The Anime Libarian haha thanks 😊
Being a INTJ, with a history of 13 years of marriage and a slew of girlfriends/Relationships over the years. I am now in the Zen of singleness. About 3 years of just focusing on myself. Its difficult at times, but get alot more accomplished,and strangly more at peace with myself.
I love this because I am an INTJ
The world needs more of you guys!
And enfps seem to remind intjs that we have a place and a great part to play, if only everyone else was as uplifting, thanks.
Low emotional compatibility makes the sexual tension between intj and ENFP more higher
INTJ male here. I had a relationship with an ISFJ, and I felt since the beginning the lack of connection, and it never improved, I felt so frustrated. Now I'm obsessed with ENFPs (I had an enfp girl friend before and the connection was sooo deep, so pure and almost spiritual I'd say.)
One thing I don't understand about extroverts in general, is when they don't understand how introverts including myself are open to certain people (close friends & family) but are like a closed book to others and they (or most extroverts) look at it as being fake, when that's just our nature #INTJ .
I totally understand it. I guess because I've been surrounded by introverted people my whole life :)
Thanks for sharing!
@@Mindimalist If you weren't surrounded by introverts, what would you make of it? Would you think we're fake or strange?...etc.
@@e.o.a101 No idea. Maybe? But again, I'm an ENFP and I believe in the "I just get you" thing with INTJs.
@@Mindimalist What thing?
Omg…there is a person I have a crush on and I noticed they post pictures of a book, cat, etc. They shared they were an INTJ. This is crazily accurate…
Enfps are decent charismatic idealistic heroes for the underdog as described by most online profiles of the type, but I think a lot of that profile is specific to enfp folk when They are being eventful.
A lot of the time (just going off of my own perception) enfps are looking to piece themselves together using other people's perspectives.
I'd swear you guys would send your selfies to the F.B.I. to get a full write-up informing you of your height, weight, ethnicity, even going into weirder stuff like fetishes, relationship background, library checkouts, etc.
I can relate as I am an Entj and I share a somewhat similar weakness with Si.
The difference is I don't consciously value Introverted sensing. Most of the time I'm feeling (as in sensing) in causation rather than effect.
The enfps I know get disappointed when I forget some of our shared experiences. I try to get them to see the *BIG* *picture* oftentimes by relating it to the thousands of fragmented myopic images They want to show me for my opinion.
I would describe a conversation between an Entj and ENFP as a staredown between a Great White and a fishing net full of canned tuna.
Also, a lot of ENFPs are very *WOW* like they will comment on a lot of things with a wowful wow.
Deep down, though, you guys and gals are straight troopers.
You all should have buzzcuts, though. 😉🐈
I haven't personally experienced the "being angry because someone forgets something"... I am forgetful myself, lol. My Si would show up indeed with other people. I'd suddenly need order and structure in the house or in a project and if I'm running this with another person, then that would be asked from that person too. This is actually a great subject for a new video, I was even thinking about it today. Si in ENFPs. Under stress, we want perfection and organization. It's almost sick haha
The thing is though, I think that an INTJ wouldn't really be on a dating app. Like, it's so superficial and for the most part you're kidding yourself if you think you're going to have an in-depth and meaningful conversation on Tinder! 😂 Especially, being an INTJ, people just think you're weird, for the most part, because you actually want to use the app for finding someone for life, which isn't really what most people want and it makes you look incredibly boring an uncool. So, at least, for me, they literally NEVER work and I have tried a lot of them! I don't know why it doesn't work. I guess, it's the type of people who use dating apps (I'm generalizing) but en masse it's a particular type of people that I don't really gel with.
When I think about dating apps personally, I always just have this uneasy feeling, like it's just so formulaic and I just know that the type of person I would search for won't be on there anyway.
ENFPs would join the app with the hopes to find an INTJ in one of those chances they give to the dating apps 😂 It works sometimes :)
And I agree, I wouldn’t go to Tinder either. There are plenty of other apps, people! Lol
And another remark is that the dating apps seem to be filled with Extroverts... and most of the people behave like sensors. So, INTJ friend, I feel you too!
As an INTJ female, I did try match.com very briefly. One of my very excitable girl friends got me onto it and I tried to be ready for it. Result? It freaked me out. I put such a bare bones profile and people were sending messages and stuff. INSTANTLY, I was like, "how can they possibly know they are interested in me without knowing me?!!!" Cancelled that membership.
NightsLament haha real INTJ thought and reaction. And yes, if I think about it, it’s a pretty shallow system to meet new people. Through looks other people get the idea that they know you and text you things because they assume things. Pretty creepy if I analyse it too.
@@SilverIncense Yeah, that's right. As a male you don't really even get any texts at all. I think there are a lot more boys on there than girls (and some boys are quite needy!)
INTJ gay male here, in the past I have used dating apps because it's practical and faster than actually interacting face to face. However, I met my partner (going strong after some years now) at a bus stop, so yeah.
Introverted thinking is what you need to create ideas. INTJs become intelligent by reading books written by INTPs. If you want true introverted intelligence then INTP is the best choice. Introverted thinking is the source of all knowledge.
Nice flex INTP
I just finished my first novel with an INTJ (maybe INFJ) lead with an ENFP love interest. I’d love for you to read it if you had an interest. It’s for middle grades but I thought you might be interested. Let me know.
what is it called??
Great vid!
Thank you!! 😊
Agree with everything you say...🙈🙈🙈🙈
Just want to sent you a 💖
ENFP😘
So you are telling me that I un-INTJed myself accidentally?
8:05, I guess you can say that shinny gold on our forehead is our third eye. They say anyone can develop this third eye through the practice of meditation while focusing on the spot on your forehead that is between and above the eyebrows. But I guess it comes naturally for us, because of our focus thinking throughout all of our life. And this thinking take place in the frontal cortex which reside right behind the third eye. enjoy exploring our third eye it's the doorway to our inner sanctum.
I never thought of it as something as deep as being enlightened. What I see is their intelligence and somehow I expressed it with that metaphor :D
The way you put it makes me think though, that that inner sanctum for INTJs is purely intellectual. Me as a feeler ENFP I have the idea that that sacred place is more of an spiritual one that has nothing to do with logic, but more with the contact with higher forces :)
@@Mindimalist I'm a intj , when i embraced my personality i physically felt the change in how i acted and how i approached ideas .Did you or anyone else see this greet this changes as positive or negative ,and if it not to personal in what way?
@@timhill356 It sounds positive, but I don't know in-depth your case.
@@Mindimalist I remember being antisocial and feeling bad about it.Its kind of a bad dream now , but knowing it was just a part of my personality inlightened me but also made me feel sorry for a younger me.I'm not a infj ,but people I cared about i could have help if I reached out more and help others more.Did discovering your personality make you regret how you where raised or regret losing something or someone that made you the person you are happy with being today?Not trying to be depressing I know who we are we should be proud of, but every personality had some kind of a hindrance before full maturity.
Reasons for INFJ being more compatible?
Hi Tim. That's in my opinion of course, and based on my own experience. The reason is that we are halfway opposites: same functions in the same order but opposites. Where I have Ne, they have Ni, where I have Si, they have Se. You can see more on this video I made on ENFPs-INFJs ua-cam.com/video/HahaP3DZ_Ng/v-deo.html
INFJ and ENFP have the highest 'social compatibility' which is not the same as 'romantic compatibility' ... Think of best friend vs. best lover. INFJ and ENFP cognitive stack line up perfectly so thinking/feelings/intuition/sensory all balance which is great for social compatibility. However, my perspective is INTJ offers a little more grit and sexual tension to the cognitive stacking for ENFP because the cognitive functions Ne -> Ni and Se -> Si line up, but our inner functions Fi and Te is where the flirtiness and necessary sexual tension/passion comes from.
@@elypelowski5670 INTJs have the same thing going on with ENTPs
Thanks
You are welcome! Are you an INTJ?
@@Mindimalist Yes. INTJ-T
Peter Simon that’s nice :) I hope it was accurate from your perspective too
Mindimalist We are the same with small talk. It's one of the things that makes me feel like an alien.
Nice video! - a Brazilian ENFP
Julia Emrish thank youuuu! So cool that you watch from Brazil! Greetings back from The Netherlands!
@@Mindimalist thank you too!
A Kim Lip enthusiast, I see that you are an intellectual with exquisite taste
@@Nesallienna thank you. i see you have great taste as well, dear orbitzen