What We've Learned About Parenting - Part 1
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- We get a lot of questions about parenting, and right now we're all at home with our kids so we figured it was the perfect time to share a little bit of the parenting advice we've received over the years. We're answering your questions! Tune in next week for part 2. #StayHome #WithMe
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In our family, it’s tons of love along with a little bit of chaos every single day! We’re all about creating and sharing memories while we learn about the ups and downs of life TOGETHER. Our kids, Aden and Ariah, teach us that things don’t always go as planned… but they (almost always) turn out even better than we could have expected! This is The Housley Life! Join the fun every Wednesday at 10 a.m. EST! #TheHousleyLife
I really like Tamera when she is in her own environment. She glows when around her family.
She is beautiful
She really does 🥰 that's probably why she talks about them so much on the real because of how much love she has for her family!
She seems more comfortable and more "real" at home😉
@@thelifeuchoose yes, I enjoy her home videos more than the real. Maybe she could get a reality show on HGTV.
Tropically Mixed agree!
Can you tell us the story of how you found out you were pregnant and how you told Adam and your family? Of course only if you’re ok sharing, I know it’s very personal. Such a fantastic family.
She found out she was pregnant with her first child Aden on her and Tia's old reality show, Tia & Tamera. There may be clips online
Ranika oh yes I think I remember, didn’t she tell Tia when they were getting a massage or something along those lines.
@@BexandAiden1111 yup!
I Love that Adam and Tamera are such a MATURE couple!!!
He's "mature" as hell (how old is ol' boy?)!
Hey guys🤚🏽".....Adams a good man to drive 9 places to find his beauty a cinnamon roll during their pregnancy cravings. Love it! ❤️ Housley Life!
Tamera is just SO precious!Just look at her❤️❤️❤️
Hey...are you Ugandan?
Oh my!!! Thank you!
Hello from a fellow Ugandan 👻
With all the toxic stuff on UA-cam, this was peaceful. ✨
Very! ✨
Adam I loved you at Fox, you were my favorite reporter, and in my opinion the best reporter that fox had. What really brought you to my attention was your coverage of the Chilean mine collapse, you being bilingual, you were able to report a lot faster than most other reporters. I still remember the scene with the Chilean flag up to cover if anything went wrong. Tamera as a 37 year old male i am an everyday Real watcher and have been since season 1 and it is by far the beat morning talk show on t.v. keep up the good work. Love from Michigan.
Thanks Jon! We really appreciate your support 🙏
Thanks!!
I agree! We always lived Adams reports
@@tameramowrytwo do you all just comment on good comments or also negative ones?..just asking...advice
@@estherpierre1819 I hope they don't reply to negative comments. We have enough negativity on youtube and on the internet in general. I'm a dude and I come here for the good vibes and happy feelings! Keep it up Housely's:)
When Tamera mentioned Alena, Adam's face made me cry. Rest in peace beautiful
Beautiful family inside and out. Love from South Africa.
I don't have any children and don't plan on it because I'm older and have gotten into heavy traveling and studying art. My best friends have children. If you don't have children I think you are inevitably judgmental even when you don't want to be. I have a huge respect for parents and what they do. It's a blessing and a beautiful thing. You both are excellent parents from my view. ❤
Non parents are not the only ones who judge but parents judge other parents too. That is a fact I know and have observed.
I don’t have kids or a husband and I don’t plan on a family because I can’t. I’m open to marriage but look at the way men behave now. It’s hard. People always tell me I would be a great mom
First of all, Tamera's skin!! They have this organic relationship. Ag man!!!!
Tamera's skin!! >>
God bless you and your family
Yes, Tamera is looking gorgeous. Adam is handsome as usual but Mrs. Housley is glowing.
She love being home
I'm just a few minutes into the video and I'm already in aw over Adam smiling while Tamera explains how she's always wanted to be a mum
Wow, Tamera. You are what happiness looks like😍😊!
I’m nowhere near being a parent but I love this video, lol. Your openness is very much appreciated! From what your views see through the videos, you both are doing a tremendous job raising your sweet babies 😌💕
Thank you for your kind words Fatimah!
My heart broke when I saw Alaina. She seemed like she was the sweetest girl on the planet. I hope her family is healing well. Thank you for your honesty and advice about parenting!
I am a single mother, and the last two days have been rough and challenging. I questioned myself wondering if I was being a bad/mean mommy. I am so thankful for Tamera and Adam. I watch you on IG live every night because it really uplifts me. To see such down to earth real people, who are so so humble. You guys truly are a blessing from God! I appreciate you opening up your home with us. I feel a little at ease knowing that I am not alone in this! Thanks Adam and Tam
Lauren Mosely you’re doing amazing mama!
Mami Gets Real thank you for your encouragement!
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Even for me it's challenging and I'm a stay at home mom. Before, they went to school and that was my "break". My nanny is the tv.
Keep it up!! We’re all just doing the best we can right now. Don’t forget to take care of yourself, too ❤️
@@tameramowrytwo qll1nnn
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Tamera's gonna live to 200 years old. Why does she look 15 when she's 40 something?
Amie Gene God bless
Yup her hubby looks much older than her too
Black don't crack🤣
Cuz they call thaj to make the youth potion when they have wrinkles
@@creative_nation2429 adrenochrome
I'm a teacher and parent of 2. It's been a learning curve and balancing act- keeping my students on track virtually, while taking care of my own family. Hats off to all the educators out there that understand! God over all things.
I don’t have children yet but my niece is staying with me during the quarantine because her mother is working! I needed this! Thank you!!!
I'm in the same position . But I'm working from home... Doing conference calls with a 1 year old is no joke.
Tamera, I grew up watching you! Some of my earliest memories were watching every single episode of Sister, Sister. Now I’m watching you raise kids and be on The Real. Love you and many blessings ❤️
I like when she was in the movie 17 again with her sister and brother and played the younger version of their grandma
👍The most healthiest family ever! 💛Love you guys! ♥️ LOVE the maturity...the balance...the truth...the love...the discernment...the reality...the unselfish relationship...the trial and errors...the patience...the priorities...the fun...
the example...etc... I could go on and on!😉 So GLAD to see that these days!
THE STRONGEST PARENTS EVER!👏♥️👏
TO GOD BE THE GLORY FOR YOU GUYS!☝️
You know the love of a man if his wife glows around him. Adam God bless your heart your love and goodness towards your wife is a lesson for me as a young woman. Tamera your Joy is a light!
I’ve always said that my first born was the best teacher I’ve ever had. He taught me life lessons that no one else could have ever taught me. Some stuff are just naturally learned by personal experiences.
I'm from Jamaica. My sons are grown. Its not too bad here, but Jamaicans are practicing social distancing and so on. Stay safe and Blessings to you both and family💖
It's been an struggle for the kids because they aren't used to being home for long periods of time. But we are doing the best that we can to get thru this. Tamera and Adam I admire you guy so much because you just light up when your around Aden&Ariah who are really adorable, so sweet,and really respectful.
I know that this is off topic, but I love how clean, uncluttered and orderly your house is. Very light and beautiful. The OCD in me loves it.😊👍💕
I love Aden and Ariah. Y’all make cute babies. My husband is White American and I am brown Nepali!!! So I was kinda wonder how our kids looks like.
does it matter? don't fetishize biracial children.
@@lazyboyz it's not that deep, you always wonder what your kids will look like biracial or not.
They'll be beautiful.
Depends on your genes.
So irrelevant..
Such a lovely couple 💞. Yes, it’s a little stressful being a realtor, I work from home, especially now. With a middle schooler at home, keeping up with his schedule, which is all online due to the virus is a little hectic. Kudos to all the parents out there making it work during the pandemic. Stay safe ❤️
Sounds like you’re killing it ❤️
I loved this. I use to tell my husband the same thing when our kids were small learn to spend more time with our boys. He was always hanging out with his friends and I said when they get older don't get mad when they don't be around because they going to be into their own friends and doing their own thing. That's why our son's are more closer to me because even though I worked and went to college I still made time for them and we went places. I wish I could turn back those years.
I’ve told my husband this same thing as well with my younger daughter.
Love you two, I pray God continues to bless your lives and family.
It’s funny how people say when kids get older they don’t wanna spend time with you, only because I have 5 and my oldest is 19 and I’ve yet to experience that lol I thank God for that
It’s because your are a good mom.
I felt so sad with they mentioned Alaina because you can just see the pain in both of their eyes 😭😭 RIP baby girl! Such a beautiful couple! God bless
I don’t have any children, I would just say learn from your mistakes and allow them to be themselves as you already do. God Bless
Good advice Adam “Put the phone down!”👏🏼
Love the advice...
"Put your phone down"
100% Agree...be in the moment♥️
I just love Tamera & Adam. They have a Beautiful family. Their kids are smart & beautiful. 👏🏼💕👏🏼💕💕👏🏼👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕💕💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕👏🏼💕💕👏🏼
Tia's daughter looks so much like you, wow!
I love tamera and Adam vibe..i can see why they married each other! Such a beautiful relationship..may God continue to bless your family 😊😊😊
I already Homeschool and i already work from home. its hard but for me its worth it! the only difference for us and is not being able to go on fied trips, go to gymnastics, their co-op classes, etc. I have a routine for them because i homeschool by choice once you gent into a routine that works you will be fine! the best part of homeschooling is seeing your child learn something that YOU taught them is the best feeling ever! Tamera and adam you both are doing great!! I love the way you parents and i try to listen to all the parenting tips yall give! love yall!!
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I just love this family there’s so REAL and I love that :)
I totally agree when you said Tamera different strokes for different folks.
You are very good parents. Your children loves the both of you. I pray that God will continue to bless your family. Be safe
Yes!! Everything y'all said is so true! I had my first child at the age of 18, it was exciting, nerve racking, and just a whole bunch of feelings at one time. Pregnancy is such a journey, through the sickness, the scares, the contractions, then there are the really great moments too such as hearing the babies heart beat for the first time, seeing them on the ultrasound, the movements they make when they're in your stomach. It is truly a blessing to be able to carry a child and experience that. I have 3 children now at the age of 28 and let me tell you I am still learning as a parent, which obviously I will continue since I am only 28 🤣. it truly is learning with each child and their individual needs. I am very grateful that I am able to work from home, and see them. It can be a struggle at times since they're home and just trying to find a balance between work and school and having a 2 year old boy can be a challenge. Also, thank you for being so honest in your own personal experience, I really knew what postpartum depression was until I experienced it after my first and even after my 2nd and 3rd child. It can take a toil on you if you allow it to. There were so many good points that you brought out!! We are all in this together and we are all going to have those moments as parents where we feel like we are failing or where we are just trying to make it through the day without going crazy, taking a moment for ourselves is so very important for our mental. Having kids is truly a blessing, and being honest about the challenges we face as parents it really can help others out and as I said we can see that someone is going to have something very similar to us and that we are all in this together. Much love to you and your beautiful family Tamera and Adam!
I LOVE the Honesty you both bring to the table. It's so refreshing to hear you AND your husband tell the truth and NOT pretend to have all the answers. Looking at those Precious, Happy, Handsome and Beautiful babies you have, you're both GREAT Parents-keep living & learning! Please keep allowing us in your world, it's fun, funny, educational, creative and informative!!!
What I have noticed since I am a watcher of your daily Qurantine Cuisine is how patient you guys are with your children. I think that is indeed a gift because kids will try your patience. For instance the other when Ariah spilled the sauce she felt so bad, but you and Adam handled that beautifully and did not make her feel ashamed, etc.
I am 21 wks pregnant definitely enjoyed this please please please make another.
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Your kids are adorable and you are great parents. Treasure every moment as kids are a precious gift. I keep having miscarriage after miscarriage so I’ve given up on parenthood for now. 😘
God Bless you. Stay strong. Sorry for your loss.
I am sorry for your loss and pray that God blesses you with a beautiful child 💖
Adam your wife is so precious to you, and two beautiful children Jehovah God has blessed the two of you.
I totally agree here becoming a parent is 1000% a learning process which will allow us to become better.
This video is sooo good.😊Great content!!👍🏾👍I'm already excited for Part 2.
Yay!! Glad you enjoyed ❤️
I think it's cool that you alls kids' names are Aden and Ariah; while mine are Aden and Mariah.
I really appreciate the openness about each of your backgrounds and perspectives as parents.
We loved u guys, God bless u more 💞💖💞👑👑
I'm single mother with a 7yr old boy..... Work in healthcare as a nurse. The struggle is real for sure now days trying to juggle time with son and now with the home schooling....and work and my mental health😅
Glass of red wine.... a nice bath after work and also switching off the TV and watching youTube helps alot!! 😂🙏🏾
Adaptability is great parenting advice!
I still have my real baby! It was my favorite toy and I could never throw it away.
Omg no way!! That’s amazing!
NO WAY!!!! COOL!
You t w o are such a beautiful balance of all things , meaning that you know troubles can come but you choose to rise ABOVE it. I thoroughly enjoy everything that you all have put out...especially, now more than ever. Remain Blessed!
Tamera I really appreciate you talking about pregnancy and keeping it real !
*tam, you look AMAZING* 😻
Thank you for talking about different parenting techniques Tamera. I couldnt agree more. We need to stop telling parents how to parent
I grew up in an toxic environment. I never had dolls but I’m very nurturing. It’s hard to find a life partner. I don’t want to be a single parent. Being a parent is hard. It’s not easy from what I’ve seen. Tamera and Tia love being married and having a family. Their homes are beautiful. Those children are going to grow up in a loving environment never needing to want for anything. Being deprived of love food clothing basic things is horrible. It cost to raise a family. Don’t let anybody ever pressure you. I love you guys!!
You are such a precious couple. Your family as well. God bless.
I love y’all’s humor and the simplicity/humble characteristics y’all have. Tamera was/is hilarious as usual.
I love that I get to be home with my kids right now. My husband is still working. I feel the hardest part is home school. I just know I can never replace a teacher. I always told my kids teachers how much they are appreciated and I honestly feel like they are miracle workers. I just hope I'm not getting them behind. My oldest graduates this year, it sucks that it's not going to be a normal celebration. But more than anything I'm blessed that my family is all safe and healthy and we're together. You two are a beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing your life.
Hi guys!!! Love you both. Tamera, you and your husband really inspire me with your videos when it comes to my marriage and my kids. I just love the relationship you guys have with each other and how you interact with one another. I’m also enjoying quarantine which is so weird to say bc I get to see more of y’all 😊😍 FYI, giiirrrrllll, pls don’t take this the wrong way when I say, it is work especially when you’re hm with your kids 24/7 while the hubby’s at wk. I’m a stay at home mom and we homeschool our kids. They’re not in public school, and I have to say, it’s a challenge, but on the positive side, I am the onsite teacher, the cook, the nurse, everything and like Loni said on the show, they will grow up and they’ll thank us for being there for them when they were younger. Tam, when I was younger, I said I wanted to have 10 kids! I ended up having 2, so far. Idk what’s in God’s plan, but if we have more, then so be it, but yes, my number was 10. I wanted a big family! Love you guys and I can’t wait for pt 2!!☺️
Tamera and adam my husband isaiah and i are seeing a lot of parenting advice between two of us we have raised our nieces and nephews and trying to have a family after we got married my husband want me to a have a baby naturally. We went to a infertility client to get treatments from ivf ti iud and etc sincerely yours mrs Amber Mccutchen
Love you guys! You guys are amazing parents and it shows. Hoping to have a child soon God willing. Have had a lot of fertility struggles but like you Tamera I've always wanted to be a mom since I was little.
I love you guys! I love your videos! SUCH A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY
Time is so important. Ours are 17 and 20 and we are so happy that they still want to spend times with us. They are accustomed to it so it lasted longer than we could've imagined. So, time now means they'll want that time later too. Not as often, but they'll still want it.
"You're a perfect parent until you are one" - thanks Tam! I never wanted to be a parent because of that quote. I learned from others and know that parenting isn't easy at all, it changes your entire life and the dynamic of all of your relationships. My friends and family members have been very honest about the parenting journey and it's something I don't take lightly.
This whole entire time I was so confused on who is who. I recently got it . 'The twin thing'you guys look so alike . and I love you guys either way.
They are so different Tamara have the mole's and goofy but so sweet,Tia is a little more serious but they have the same laugh.I love the Twin's they are so real ♥️♥️👭
Not only am I thankful for this because I love Tamera. I also am engaged to a white man and actually feel alone sometimes. I get so many rude comments on Instagram and in real life. Thank you so much for sharing your love. So positive, both of you. And I’m saving this vid in case we decide to have children in a few years lol
R.I.P Alaina ❤️❤️ gone too soon
Whoisthis Kas miss her every day
I am just spending my time during this quarantine. By reading my bible. Watching tv, doing household chores. Also by watching and playing with my great nephew(he's 5yrs old.) I also watch the Real at home & the Housley Life. Sorrowful I've decided not to become a mother. For financial reasons. I love hearing and seeing how your family life is also watching how you raise your amazing children.
I really live this couple. They are so in love and real down to earth.
That is absolutely true about kids and dogs knowing.
I'm dealing with a pre-teen 6th grade and homeschooling her and I have a little boy with Autism. I give them therapy at home. mom's are super woman!! God bless you both 😀💪
Love Housley Life!
From: Beautiful Sunny Columbia, South Carolina!
You guys are so awesome!! What a beautiful beautiful couple you make and thus what beautiful children you have!! Just love you guys watch you all the time esp your cooking show - love love it! you’re both are just so funny together!! What an inspirational happy couple you are!! God bless your gorgeous family!! And please keep both your Instagram and especially your UTube family channel going!! I totally enjoy it!!! You guys make my day!!❤️
Thank you so very much for your support!
Tamera, you are glowing. 😍✨❤️
Tamera for future episodes could you pls talk about your depression at 19 more and how you got thru it? ❤️
I love you guys. I started watching The Real recently. I love your show 😘😍. Whenever Tamera talks about her husband, you can see a woman who is loved by her husband and also in love.
Y'all are just Adorable 💖
Yes,all 5 of my pregnancies were different .
I actually had a normal appetite with my twins!
When I first met my husband I was thinking 3 boys and 3 girls.
We were blessed with 5 healthy daughters!! 28,26,24,15,15.
3 out of the house, which is a great feeling of accomplishment !!
Tamara always looks her best in her own environment shout out to Tamara and a hello to her husband you guys are a beautiful couple prayers to you and your family stay safe
From Canada 🇨🇦
Love your family god bless you all thanks for sharing.... Gotta love Tamaras sensitivity in all matters, husband is cool 😎 ,,, stay focused on the important things.
Hi 👋
I enjoyed your program this morning , it was interesting 🧐 , Tamara
Did mention a lot of things on here , Seems like a happy time at home as a family,,which I love , we are a mixed family , watching your family on here ,,has been fun and also discuss the days topics ,,,the virus 🦠 the bible ,,, job market the governments plans , this virus has affected all people ,, from finances ,, to business everywhere , we are anxious like many and try hard to cope , it’s very sad 😢, watching this show is a great diversion from what’s out there , it’s painful staying home ,, depressing,, from Canada your neighbours from the North 🇨🇦...let’s stick together , distance does not separate ❤️ love,, blessed day to all.
I love this thanks for answering all these questions! I’m not a parent yet, but I use to be like Tamera I would judge the way people parent. I now know that I can’t do that because first off I’m not a parent and I don’t know how hard it really is.
Glad you enjoyed! Make sure to come back next week for part 2!
I can’t even believe the fact that y’all actually replied to my comment! My day has been made😊
I love u guys as a family and a married couple. Im a single mom to see someone on the same page growing and encouraging. I love parenting and mommy videos helps allot. Stay blessed Housley family. ❤🙏
Being a stay at home home I still find it challenging to keep up with house work, their school ( I have 4 children under 10), as well as finding time to take care of myself and my husband. It makes me feel so much better knowing I'm not alone ❤️
Tamera looks really young and she is practically glowing.
You two are such a wonderful example of couples. You are my role model
Good point spend quality time with your children because at time they will not want to be with you.My sons are 21 and 14 and all they want is to be with their friends.
I remember that episode of your show when you discussed with Tia about Cree sleeping with them.
I too remember that episode! And I remember Tam's advice to Tia. She told Tia when Cree was outside the door crying because he couldn't get in the bed, Tam told Tia to just go put him back in the bed and tell him to stay there! I believe in spoiling a child, but I also believe in consistent discipline! I was proud of Tam for that advice! But I also wondered did she ever come across the same issue?😁
I have 4 kids( one has passed away), but regardless I had 4kids and that will never change...I'm a stay at home disabled (many autoimmune diseases)mom/ military wife ...I always wanted to be a mommy as well I'm the oldest of 5 and I was always around babies and I loved it. During this quarantine it has had its many bumps with online schooling with 3 kids all different grades and 2 separate schools and having to navigate the online system was STRESSFUL in the beginning 😬 but we have gotten ahold of it and this quarantine have made us closer and do things more together. I met my hubs at 17,we knew within 6 weeks we were ment to be,we were engaged at 18 and married at 19. He joined the Navy at 18 and the rest is history, we are almost married 15yrs this july. My hubs said he never wanted kids until he met me and that changed and he's an AMAZING hubs and father. Our life has been very CRAZY esp with my health and loss of a child and now I need a double lung transplant so having a man whose son supportive and willing to be there for you regardless and without complaint has made it so easy. I suffer with PTSD /depression and many other autoimmune diseases and my hubs has been so amazing, and he never complains ....love yall
Love you all ,straight to the point. its good the family understand one another.
One of the good things that came from this trial we are currently living in- These Videos! I just love them!!
If there is an artist and person who I admire is you Tamera. You are amazing. God bless your family and you.
Thanks for posting first thing in the morning! 💕💕💕💕
I love you guys....you are so wholesome and wonderful 😊
I Just Love You Guys Soo Much ❤️
My kids are all grown and in their 30's buy they will always be my babies! I'm taking advantage of this time and making my oldest dinner once a week for her and hubby🤗 The other babies I get to visit on occasion. But my point is that they are all successful and happy. They all own homes and have great (necessary jobs) & wonderful families. (Great Parents) I am sooo proud of them and feel so blessed ❤️🙏 Watching you guys raise your family with so much love makes my heart warm. You're great parents and are so awesome to share your lives with us 💯 I love Tia too 💞