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  • @shanicerallele2602
    @shanicerallele2602 4 роки тому +858

    "It's not us against each other. It's us against the problem". Wow I'm taking that tip for my marriage.

    • @aminaosman1490
      @aminaosman1490 4 роки тому +8

      Shanice Rallele I need it down here too jst got into it with my husb. We all so sad now. Not talking for a whole day.!

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 4 роки тому

      Shanice Rallele this

    • @thandiweluluphiri5
      @thandiweluluphiri5 4 роки тому +10

      But sometimes a person can be a problem,some people have a very stubborn nature and are extremely inconsiderate be careful to differentiate sweety..if the person is the problem or the person caused a problem and wants to learn how to amend it.

    • @veronicaivanova
      @veronicaivanova 4 роки тому +2

      That's so important!

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 4 роки тому +1

      Shanice Rallele same girl!

  • @karenb7724
    @karenb7724 4 роки тому +830

    “Yawl could love somebody but that doesn’t mean that he’s the one” yessss

    • @radiokilledthevideostar3329
      @radiokilledthevideostar3329 4 роки тому +8

      KAREN BAYRD a word

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 роки тому +6

      AMEN! THANK U TELL IT!. GRACE TO ALL gh. Should be taught in homes, school's. U will have a better life if u can accept that as a true fact!.

    • @niquey8368
      @niquey8368 4 роки тому +13

      WORD! wasted 12yrs of my life. Looking to start over now with my 2 children.

    • @karenb7724
      @karenb7724 4 роки тому +7

      Niquey I applaud the bravery ! Congrats 🎉 you’ve over come the hardest part: leaving! You’ll be fine!

    • @tparker8370
      @tparker8370 4 роки тому +5

      👀😁🤣 IT'S SOOOOOOOO TRUE GOD MAY HAVE OTHER PLANS, NOT OUR WILL BUT HIS ......OUR STEPS ARE ORDERED☝🏽 😉

  • @wendykakota2150
    @wendykakota2150 4 роки тому +1615

    Sounds like Tamera’s perfect weekend is quarantine lol

    • @rikanejose2611
      @rikanejose2611 4 роки тому +18

      Right......lol 😆

    • @queenbutterfly4888
      @queenbutterfly4888 4 роки тому +22

      Yerp!!! Mine too

    • @madisilver460
      @madisilver460 4 роки тому +17

      Maaan, she is such a cancerian woman!😆😆😆 The differences of naps-omg, so on point.😊

    • @adamandtamerahousley7644
      @adamandtamerahousley7644 4 роки тому +4

      That's why IM happy!!!

    • @brenda808
      @brenda808 4 роки тому +4

      Gosh i love you guys 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @riannas8351
    @riannas8351 4 роки тому +289

    “ Thats not a nap that’s a coma “ 😂😂😂😂 Adam is freakin hilarious!!

  • @MariahTheKing
    @MariahTheKing 4 роки тому +242

    Tamera is literally a goddess! She’s so beautiful for one but, just as important, her energy just radiates love and understanding. I aspire to be like this!

  • @donajean33
    @donajean33 4 роки тому +592

    Take it from a lady that’s been married 38 years.... never stop talking and never get mad at how the other one feels, everyone has a right to their feelings! After 38 years we still have work on it and the main thing is to never ever ever stop touching, kissing and making the other one feel wanted and loved intimately!

    • @aminaosman1490
      @aminaosman1490 4 роки тому +2

      Jean Williams how abt the other person always feels he has a say to things even when is not needed; like he feels as I don’t have voice, he don’t appreciate in agreeing wit me in times of need of understanding, and he so negative certain times when I go to work and come back home jst. A minute late..Bow will you work that error when it come to love and touching and forgiving “some people will call it.”

    • @Ebunoluwa13
      @Ebunoluwa13 4 роки тому +5

      @@aminaosman1490 Therapy? Or if he has any sisters or girl friends that get along with you and you're close with, make a plan with them to act out your scenario and then see how he acts. People always act differently when they see things happening to lived ones even though they do the same cause they know it's wrong, then you can give him a reality check about your situation. You could also behave with hil like he does with you, as long as he doesn't hit you which is a no no. Hope this helps x

    • @jennymayashley
      @jennymayashley 4 роки тому +3

      wow now i love this advice thank you i'm in a early relationship of 2 1/2 years

    • @suem5213
      @suem5213 4 роки тому +13

      JennyMay Ashley My husband of 47 yrs passed away 4 yrs ago. I've always told my daughter and my daughter-in-law that in the big scheme of things those little things don't matter one bit. I bet that when a husband gets angry with his wife, most of the time they don't feel respect. Women need love, men need respect. You certainly don't have to be a doormat, but when you start fighting over something not important, go to him, put your arms around him and tell him what he means to you. That little spat will be dissolved! On the big things when you disagree with one another find a special place in the house where you can sit down with one another and discuss your points of view. Pray together! I promise you if you pray together over something you disagree over God will hear you both and provide a solution. Never fight in front of your children. Don't go to bed angry. And now abide faith, hope and live, these three; but the greatest of these is love. May God Bless your life and your marriage.

    • @ForzaTerra89
      @ForzaTerra89 4 роки тому +2

      Jean Williams thats so hard to find

  • @curlytelly4007
    @curlytelly4007 4 роки тому +641

    Aiden is such a mommy's boy in a cute way. Snuggled so close you can tell he loves his mommy so much. 😍

    • @charles1413
      @charles1413 4 роки тому +10

      bocause there is a non cute way to be a mama's boy?

    • @katherinegruber499
      @katherinegruber499 4 роки тому +29

      He grew inside her for 9 months that’s why there’s such a strong bond. I’m 7 weeks 5 days pregnant. I can’t wait to have my baby 🥰

    • @queenbutterfly4888
      @queenbutterfly4888 4 роки тому +11

      @@charles1413 Yes! Like grown beta males

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 4 роки тому +5

      @@charles1413 dude shut up lmao

    • @katherinegruber499
      @katherinegruber499 4 роки тому +3

      Winter Bleu I don’t know what I’m having yet.

  • @DDJones-yi1pm
    @DDJones-yi1pm 4 роки тому +266

    I think...
    Good nap: 2 hrs
    Power nap: 45 mins
    Cat nap: 20 mins

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 роки тому +23

      agree!!

    • @jshelley5836
      @jshelley5836 4 роки тому +4

      Cat naps are amazing if you have no time!!

    • @DDJones-yi1pm
      @DDJones-yi1pm 4 роки тому +2

      @@jshelley5836
      For sure, JShelley!

    • @DDJones-yi1pm
      @DDJones-yi1pm 4 роки тому +3

      @@tameramowrytwo
      I like to watch Tamara Housley: The Housley Life. Just viewed this week's episode a short while ago! 🙂

    • @amiegene6805
      @amiegene6805 4 роки тому +1

      I agree with this.

  • @hunadimakgatho3403
    @hunadimakgatho3403 4 роки тому +212

    Kids these days are being raised in households where parents are open with each other and affectionate towards each other in front of their kids.. I LOVE IT.. raising kids who wont have to heal from their childhood❤️❤️

  • @AnvyMusic1
    @AnvyMusic1 4 роки тому +293

    I don't even have a boyfriend, but I still appreciated the marriage advice. Thank you!

    • @roseslifestyle1583
      @roseslifestyle1583 4 роки тому +4

      Me too😂🤣

    • @nclullaby1
      @nclullaby1 4 роки тому +3

      Same lol

    • @betzy7560
      @betzy7560 4 роки тому

      Anvy de Tour yup

    • @youngbenfranksinatra
      @youngbenfranksinatra 4 роки тому

      Me and you should change that together Anvy 👸👑 Know we can be a much hotter married couple and make us some beautiful children together 😉🛐💍💏🏩💒💐🌹🌼

    • @deashiapayton311
      @deashiapayton311 4 роки тому

      Anvy de Tour same😭

  • @Chipster724
    @Chipster724 4 роки тому +386

    5 minutes isn't a nap it's blinking😂😂

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS 4 роки тому +325

    The energy this family radiates just feels good.

  • @BexandAiden1111
    @BexandAiden1111 4 роки тому +348

    Who ever edits these videos is doing a fantastic job.

    • @sosmcs
      @sosmcs 4 роки тому +11

      Agree.

    • @anipineros6939
      @anipineros6939 4 роки тому

      Is it me or is he a little tough on her?

    • @alexisyates28
      @alexisyates28 4 роки тому +1

      Mila Gra I think it’s just banter x

  • @abbagaylekitchen7815
    @abbagaylekitchen7815 4 роки тому +252

    This is my relationship goal. Can’t wait for god to send me my purpose partner. ❤️

  • @suem5213
    @suem5213 4 роки тому +91

    When God said, "do not be unequally yoked." He was telling us that in order to make things easier for us.

    • @ifejesu.adewunmi
      @ifejesu.adewunmi 4 роки тому +2

      I really like this guy who isn't a Christian. It hurts 😩

    • @MIforever22
      @MIforever22 3 роки тому +1

      @@ifejesu.adewunmi temporary hurt, is better than a life time of hurt. Praying that God sends you the one His planned for you❤️

    • @ifejesu.adewunmi
      @ifejesu.adewunmi 3 роки тому

      @@MIforever22 thank you so much. 💞❤️

    • @ellona3645
      @ellona3645 3 роки тому +2

      I was about to go on a date with a non-believer, my mind was clouded with the idea of love. But glad I didn't go, praying for a Godly man.

  • @het711
    @het711 4 роки тому +410

    The way Adam talks about your sleeping sounds like my husband 😂. Don’t hate on a girl that can get her nap on. They just jealous lol 😝 #napnap

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 роки тому +156

      I didn't choose the nap life, the nap life chose me!

    • @rikanejose2611
      @rikanejose2611 4 роки тому +8

      @@tameramowrytwo 😆😆😆😆

    • @sharonereed81
      @sharonereed81 4 роки тому +8

      @@tameramowrytwo I LOVE IT!!!!!

    • @dominique8210
      @dominique8210 4 роки тому +2

      SAME WITH MINE LMAO. It is absolutely jealousy 🤣

    • @PeacefulAlli28
      @PeacefulAlli28 4 роки тому +1

      My husband calls me the nap Queen! I love it! ❤️

  • @dereckamcknight3247
    @dereckamcknight3247 4 роки тому +130

    I love that statement “ it’s us against the problem”

  • @SamiRoB43
    @SamiRoB43 4 роки тому +169

    Adam rolls his eyes when tamera said “a little quickie” but he definitely knows she’s right hahaha

  • @bronzefire955
    @bronzefire955 4 роки тому +67

    Taking showers together for me works wonders with staying connected to each other. You can have conversations, wash each other or whatever while bathing together. I love the bonding and closeness it gives ❤

  • @boyandcatmum
    @boyandcatmum 4 роки тому +25

    This is why Tamera looks so young sleep is fantastic for keeping you looking young

  • @karlamoralesbarreto
    @karlamoralesbarreto 4 роки тому +106

    Awe Aiden cuddles on his mom is so cute ❤️

  • @TrailingCloudsofGlory
    @TrailingCloudsofGlory 4 роки тому +45

    Tamera knows the secret to looking young, unfogging the mind, and being happier....THE 2-3 NAP! 💝🙏💝 TRUTH!!!

  • @stephlyndsey3932
    @stephlyndsey3932 4 роки тому +112

    This coronavirus definitely has couples needing advice! We need to get through this without killing each other! 😫

  • @sherecarose-foster5925
    @sherecarose-foster5925 4 роки тому +62

    "Its not us against each other. It's us against the problem" That was such a wow moment. Amazing advice.

  • @MsKDennaetheDiva
    @MsKDennaetheDiva 4 роки тому +116

    .... I love how Aden is just laying there like "I just want Mommy... talk about whatever, but give me Mommy".... 😄

  • @henrydog80
    @henrydog80 4 роки тому +51

    Tamera is so pretty!!!

  • @khalakhata
    @khalakhata 4 роки тому +41

    Ok I just have to say this... Tamera is gorgeous!!

  • @ladyfaith8601
    @ladyfaith8601 4 роки тому +72

    1. Deuteronomy 31:8
    The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
    No matter what lies ahead, we can rest assured that the Lord Himself will go before us. For some, they will have to deal with the fallout of daily family tension from everyone cooped up together. For others, they face job loss and immense financial stress. And others will have to face loss of family members and dear ones.
    Through every trial we face, we can know that God walks with us.
    Our job is to remain in-step with His Spirit, and not let discouragement take over.
    Love y'all
    Have a blessed day
    🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

    • @deshatailor4776
      @deshatailor4776 4 роки тому +3

      I live this, thank you for your words of wisdom.

    • @imanicecelia
      @imanicecelia 4 роки тому +2

      Amen! God bless you!

    • @ricaward8122
      @ricaward8122 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you for the reminder. God bless you. :)

    • @ladyfaith8601
      @ladyfaith8601 4 роки тому +1

      @@ricaward8122 You welcome

    • @briethompson439
      @briethompson439 4 роки тому +1

      going through a break up during quarantine right now and feeling isolated. thank you for this!

  • @SHARONSHORTOrchidsandGarden
    @SHARONSHORTOrchidsandGarden 4 роки тому +54

    ...And there is absolutely nothing wrong with loads of prayer. Stay in prayer 24/7...(Mentally) then see how far it'll take you!!!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 роки тому

      SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden you think prayer really works?

    • @veronikacee1435
      @veronikacee1435 4 роки тому +3

      SHARON SHORT' Orchids and Garden Yesss prayer does work amen 🙏🏽

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 роки тому

      I agree

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 4 роки тому +59

    I like the “are you happy?” checking in.

  • @emmahwanjira5514
    @emmahwanjira5514 4 роки тому +47

    Nobody gonna talk about how cute Aden looks sitting by Tam.... Love you guys 😘😘😘😍😍😍

  • @frankiemudzimba
    @frankiemudzimba 4 роки тому +178

    Adam killed me when he said"Naps are one thing, sleeping 21hours a day is another" 😂😂
    I'm with Tam...nomatter how long it is, if it's not yet bedtime..its called a nap😂.
    I love how Tam always say, "Its not what you say but how you say it." Learning how to communicate with love helps All The Time. 😍
    Aiden cuddling with mommy #feels😍
    YASS PLEASE! ! !
    Revisit your wedding&show us pics &videos.
    X❤X❤X from
    Harare, Zimbabwe

  • @soniagarcia9370
    @soniagarcia9370 4 роки тому +40

    At the end of the day marriage is a beautiful thing and so worth it when it’s with the right person ⛅️

    • @vivianmbangata7934
      @vivianmbangata7934 4 роки тому +2

      With the right person, that's very important or else it becomes a mess.... 😏

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +38

    I'm as single as single gets. I'm watching this video because I love the Housley family!

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 роки тому +2

      I've been single for a long time, but I figured I watch this to get advice for my next realtoinship plus I love the Housleys.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому

      syreeta cunningham I feel you!

  • @kimberlymadison9373
    @kimberlymadison9373 4 роки тому +26

    I love how they are a complete unit. It's not Tamera featuring her family. It's a genuine reflection of their family as a whole. I love how involved Adam is with his children.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 роки тому

      kimberly madison right!! I hope to have that someday

    • @overcomer-bgat
      @overcomer-bgat 4 роки тому

      Yes!!

  • @LifestylewithAbby
    @LifestylewithAbby 4 роки тому +85

    Hallelujah 👏🏾 you can love someday, but doesn't mean he's the one. Tamara, say it louder for the people in the back 🗣

  • @movi3srock
    @movi3srock 4 роки тому +169

    Women need more sleep! It's a fact that we need more sleep!

  • @carlalespinasse9342
    @carlalespinasse9342 4 роки тому +87

    I learned that naps should be no longer then 90mins but I’m definitely with Tamera lol my naps are 2-3 hours 😂

  • @crystalfulton7684
    @crystalfulton7684 4 роки тому +3

    You say you are not experts, I beg to differ. You Two have so much respect for each other.

  • @clawdeeuh07
    @clawdeeuh07 4 роки тому +54

    Im from the bay area and I definitely felt that when Adam said that having partners of a different race isn't something people have a second thought about because of the level of diversity here. It's a big melting pot. I think its amazing

    • @clawdeeuh07
      @clawdeeuh07 4 роки тому +3

      k b2543 totally agree! As a bay area native this was always normal to me but when i left my little bubble i was so shocked to see it's not that normal in other parts of the country. I'm happy they were able to discuss it!

    • @clawdeeuh07
      @clawdeeuh07 4 роки тому

      Ronald Butcher Lmao says the guy with the most generic ass white name

  • @glorialowe5881
    @glorialowe5881 4 роки тому +122

    Tamera you have a good guy. He is sitting under you with his arm around you talking. The closeness tell it all a match made in heaven ❤️❤️❤️🙂. Love keep you beautiful and you are beautiful. Love watching your family ♥️❤️♥️.

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 роки тому

      Yes, it all work out for her with Adam, because they had broken up& she went to a depression behind it. But because it was the Lord plan that they was for each other. It work out. I believe she is a wise women & he REALIZE what he had.!he isa bless man to have a beautiful, CLASSIC, smart , kind women who love him ENOUGH to give him another chance!. What a forgiven heart she had!. What a wonderful testament to true forgiveness, & REALIZE what u have & being wise enough to make that decision. Grace to all. gh

    • @Kirwina
      @Kirwina 4 роки тому +4

      No doubt they are a beautiful couple

    • @kevinlemond4461
      @kevinlemond4461 4 роки тому +2

      Let’s not forget this is the same guy who worked for Fox News and said Trayvon deserved to be killed because he was a thug Adam is no good guy he is just good at portraying a good guy her sister has a good guy a King and it has nothing to do with race but character

    • @glorialowe5881
      @glorialowe5881 4 роки тому

      You are right character is important. Speaking about his love for her and family hopefully is what made him a good guy. Yes Tia husband is a born sweetheart. Corey❤ Thanks.

    • @marlenecamacho3409
      @marlenecamacho3409 4 роки тому

      friendse happpy friendse
      youmsssfrendse happpy friendse happpy tameara friendse love youm

  • @ksamadoff
    @ksamadoff 4 роки тому +104

    After Tamara’s long and beautiful speech, Adam only focused on, “Wait there was someone else you loved before?” Hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣

    • @colourqueen22
      @colourqueen22 4 роки тому +7

      I thought he was gonna say something in relevance to her speech 😂😂 gotta love em

    • @jonkennedy1772
      @jonkennedy1772 4 роки тому

      The man only likes to hear about himself.

  • @nadjaat8241
    @nadjaat8241 4 роки тому +129

    Currently going through divorce and this is so wholesome

    • @candycakes7921
      @candycakes7921 4 роки тому +22

      Sparkles 24 sorry 😐 you’re divorce hope it all works out for the best u in the end

    • @adamhousley1731
      @adamhousley1731 4 роки тому +16

      Sparkles 24 stay strong

    • @mimomuiruri1552
      @mimomuiruri1552 4 роки тому +11

      I'm so sorry.
      Wishing you there best ♥ ♥ ♥

    • @ladyb129
      @ladyb129 4 роки тому +8

      🙏

    • @Rokia2003
      @Rokia2003 4 роки тому +7

      Stay strong! If you have kids be friends so they dont suffer,my parents didn't care about my feelings

  • @amoninyanabo1409
    @amoninyanabo1409 3 роки тому +8

    I love it that 'faith' is the most important purpose for you both. You don't know how much this means to a lot of us... especially in the world today.

  • @collethreid3810
    @collethreid3810 4 роки тому +19

    "Maybe there were something wrong with me" it was as sweet immediately Adam said "NO" the amazing part is Tam wasn't asking him a question. You can definitely see the pure and true love.

  • @Lauracgee
    @Lauracgee 4 роки тому +32

    I’m going to be turning 26 in 23 days. I hope I find my soulmate at 26 and have this lifelong relationship as openly communicative as yours💓

    • @hopemelody5898
      @hopemelody5898 4 роки тому +7

      L G awww I will pray for u and put God first he is the source of everything 💕

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 4 роки тому

      L G I pray you get your wish!!

    • @mattiec7072
      @mattiec7072 4 роки тому

      I turned 27 5 days ago still haven’t found my soulmate

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 4 роки тому +54

    "You can love someone but that doesn't mean he's the one." I felt that in my spirit. On a side note; Tamera's curls are poppin'. What products do you use?

  • @hanniecht3091
    @hanniecht3091 4 роки тому +69

    Yes Tamera you are so right when people dont speak up they just end up getting very angry. Or they end up depressed. Its so much better to just say whats on your heart❤❤. Thank you for this video!

  • @NO-su1gi
    @NO-su1gi 4 роки тому +25

    I'm loving how Aiden cuddles with momma.... Then comes "confident" Ariah! She's not sharing her sweet mum

  • @christinesmith7678
    @christinesmith7678 4 роки тому +9

    Been married 39 years and I see my husband and I in you two. Sounds like you are heading for many more years together!❤️👍

  • @KtotheB1218
    @KtotheB1218 4 роки тому +130

    Tamera is a Cancer sun sign. So she is more of a homebody. Adam is a Leo. He’s more extroverted lol

    • @tameramowrytwo
      @tameramowrytwo  4 роки тому +16

      So true!!

    • @KtotheB1218
      @KtotheB1218 4 роки тому +3

      The Housley Life omgggggg y’all responded!! Thank you. I loved watching today’s video. I learned a lot and you all have so much insight. Thank you!!

    • @kirstenpaul13
      @kirstenpaul13 4 роки тому +2

      True! I'm also a cancer, we have the same birthday Tamera!❤

    • @denisembaez
      @denisembaez 4 роки тому +3

      icecreamsandals well, I’m a Leo ♌️ and I’m a homebody. I do like being out but I prefer to stay in lol

    • @ladylioness4065
      @ladylioness4065 4 роки тому +2

      @@denisembaez me too love my house made it comfy to be in and enjoy. Leo love !!!

  • @smallie210
    @smallie210 4 роки тому +27

    I love how youthful you both are and act.

  • @christellekalala
    @christellekalala 4 роки тому +48

    I literally had to rewind if Tamera did say 21/2 -3 hours and Adam, she really did😂😂🙌👌

  • @loriivory
    @loriivory 4 роки тому +27

    I’m with Tam, a good nap is 2-3 and definitely 3. You wake up so refreshed! Sleep is everything!

  • @collethreid3810
    @collethreid3810 4 роки тому +6

    Cooking together is really a great way to connect. My husband and I enjoy cooking together.

  • @jocelynallem4870
    @jocelynallem4870 4 роки тому +22

    I remember the wedding episode on Tia and Tamera , I miss that show 😍😍

  • @zanellemutoko4372
    @zanellemutoko4372 4 роки тому +101

    Aden is such a mama's boy. You've got to love him💛

    • @ThatLadySadie
      @ThatLadySadie 4 роки тому +7

      Zanelle Mutoko I was thinking the same thing the whole time lol 💗so cute!

    • @kaelynbuchanan
      @kaelynbuchanan 4 роки тому

      Zanelle Mutoko it was annoying to watch why are there kids involved in adult topics

    • @blink5h576
      @blink5h576 4 роки тому +3

      Some kids are nosey as hell. But in this video I don't think they really know what they are talking about necessarily, unless both parents explain. Which I don't think they will because its not something that they should understand now as kids anyways.

    • @widow3583
      @widow3583 4 роки тому +5

      @@kaelynbuchanan It's always one! Also, watching wasn't mandatory soooo...🤐🤫.

    • @tashmack5157
      @tashmack5157 4 роки тому +5

      Kaelyn Buchanan it is important to expose our children to the different dynamics in healthy relationships to help them to understand what to look for in their own relationships later on. By surrounding them with physical and verbal interactions between their parents and as the family unit as a whole, the chances of them having strong values and connections in their future relationships will be greater. Neither of them were exposed to anything inappropriate. They were exposed to their parent’s healthy way of communicating and working through various situations in their marriage and family.

  • @fuluk.5336
    @fuluk.5336 4 роки тому +39

    Tamera you are so gorgeous man. Like effortly oozing with that "not trying too hard" kinda natural gorgeousness!

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 роки тому

      I agree. She doesn't have to try too hard to look good unlike Kim Kardashian.

  • @mea174
    @mea174 4 роки тому +30

    Truly admire your marriage and the love and respect you guys have for reach other ♥️

  • @maxxitee4761
    @maxxitee4761 4 роки тому +16

    I’m in total agreement with the notion that a lot of kids in the next generations will be mixed. Barriers are down in this area for sure

  • @ashawthing0520
    @ashawthing0520 4 роки тому +83

    I am so Team Adam on this one! I don’t like to burn daylight. I wanna be up and out if it’s nice outside. No time for sleeping.

  • @farahleong
    @farahleong 4 роки тому +19

    Tamera looks so sweet when she kept smiling!

  • @Eve_Y
    @Eve_Y 4 роки тому +186

    Aden is really entertained by tamera’s hand movements while talking 😂

  • @zarimc
    @zarimc 4 роки тому +42

    I agree with Tam on the naps lol. There’s levels to it

  • @sandramungroking2018
    @sandramungroking2018 4 роки тому +9

    Nice to see healthy relationships. I've had 20 years of an unhealthy marriage and finally leaving. The rest of my life I will be building a healthy relationship with myself and showing a better example for my young adult children. God Bless!

  • @Adriana_Rantonio
    @Adriana_Rantonio 4 роки тому +21

    I always stuck to my preferences in men but one day I decided to open up and not concentrate on appearance. I’m married to a Filipino and I’m Mexican.

  • @sociallyminetube5635
    @sociallyminetube5635 4 роки тому +18

    Tamera is so Mature.
    She gives great advice.❤

  • @innocentiahmotanyane1837
    @innocentiahmotanyane1837 4 роки тому +26

    Aden is mommy's boy....so cute.

  • @laffietaffie
    @laffietaffie 4 роки тому +27

    "ariah knows what she wants" and that's why she's the star of the family 😂

  • @jarsavokai6489
    @jarsavokai6489 4 роки тому

    In every marriage chemistry is good but the connection you are able to make with your partner is better, someone you can talk with, and share every moments with, and most of all someone who really love the Lord

  • @rayneb.1058
    @rayneb.1058 4 роки тому +25

    This family always makes me smile😊

  • @donnicaduncan1379
    @donnicaduncan1379 4 роки тому +16

    I love yall relationship and I'm glad yall have God at the center of it ❤👌

  • @Beautyqueen-dp7cs
    @Beautyqueen-dp7cs 4 роки тому +50

    Tamera is such a Cancer they’re creative, homebody and loyal in romantic relationships.

    • @robertward8130
      @robertward8130 4 роки тому +2

      Issatu Sesay Really? Makes sense completely. I'm also a July baby.

  • @shawneeshareen
    @shawneeshareen 4 роки тому +4

    I loveeeeee naps! Naps for me are better than going to bed. I sleep way better during naps than when I have to go to bed. I NEED naps to function. 2-3 hours min. It takes me at least 30 min to fall asleep!

  • @candijones3962
    @candijones3962 3 роки тому +1

    LOVE YOU ALL, SUCH A BEAUTIFUL FAM

  • @secretwhispers9592
    @secretwhispers9592 4 роки тому +126

    2-4 hours is a nap. 30 minutes barely qualifies as closing your eyes 😂

    • @nightingalea.6733
      @nightingalea.6733 4 роки тому +10

      Secret Whispers facts..I can’t just close my eyes and sleep. I legit have to make up an entire imaginary movie in my head and by the time I fall asleep,it’s like 45mins to an hour later so🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 роки тому +4

      I kinda agree. I nap 45 minutes to 90 minutes. My bff naps for 20 to 30 mintues, but that's not a real nap.

    • @syreetacunningham899
      @syreetacunningham899 4 роки тому +1

      @@nightingalea.6733 omg I thought I was the only one who did things like that to fall asleep, but I haven't tried the movie on.

    • @Savagemode09
      @Savagemode09 3 роки тому

      agree 🤣👏

  • @michelinesejour9927
    @michelinesejour9927 4 роки тому +38

    Aiden looks like Tamera with Adam complexion n Aria looks like Adam with Tamera complexion

    • @feliciaglover1
      @feliciaglover1 4 роки тому +2

      Yep, yep I 've been saying that for the longest as well The both of them shared perfect genes. 🙌👏👏👏

    • @livinlife8280
      @livinlife8280 3 роки тому +1

      The children are better looking versions of them.

  • @hannahhj294
    @hannahhj294 4 роки тому +9

    It's so nice to see you guys so passionate and real accepting your powers and differences, despite what has become what we keep seeing these days people leaving separately. So nice to hear you talk about your belief, when it's so draining and looked down at to say I believe in God these days 😭 ❤❤ Thanks!!!

  • @zizi5137
    @zizi5137 11 місяців тому +2

    Don't worry Tamia, you are an empath. Us empaths sleep a LOT. Sleep is one way we power up. ❤❤❤

  • @peaches7140
    @peaches7140 4 роки тому +20

    I'm COMPLETELY with Tamara on the naps!😋

  • @meganjacobs8813
    @meganjacobs8813 4 роки тому +41

    It takes me 30min just to get into a deep sleep 😂 1h45min to 2.5 hours is perfect

  • @lolitawashington5547
    @lolitawashington5547 4 роки тому +5

    Tamera you and Adam are a perfect couple with two beautiful children. My advice is that your children have two perfect parents that really love them. May God continue to your family.

  • @YaritzaSuarez07
    @YaritzaSuarez07 4 роки тому +13

    I love when you said being strong will doesn’t have to be a bad thing means your passionate !!! I agree so much with that

  • @debrapinnock953
    @debrapinnock953 4 роки тому +8

    "Be in their memory" I totally get that.

  • @laffietaffie
    @laffietaffie 4 роки тому +6

    "sometimes i thank god for unanswered prayers" my new motto in my life

  • @natalieshepp641
    @natalieshepp641 4 роки тому +79

    Hey y'all! Tamera's hair is lit for the quarantine!! We over here looking busted and disgusted! 🤣🤣. Love y'all!!

  • @moniqueagbulos8124
    @moniqueagbulos8124 4 роки тому +6

    Adam is such a good partner he lets you talk most of the time 😊

  • @CA2SD
    @CA2SD 4 роки тому +9

    I beg to differ! You guys are experts in relationships. Both of you are an amazing couple and we can witness the authenticity in you love for each other💕🙌🏻

  • @monikandafuda4554
    @monikandafuda4554 4 роки тому +2

    Aden is such a sweet big brother. The way he switched real quick so the baby sister can sit with mommy. #I have a big brother and this love is everything.

  • @LRissa19
    @LRissa19 4 роки тому +11

    I love your outfit Tamera. Super cute! I need it in 5 different colors right about now or 7 for each day of the week lol

  • @cindybeck4015
    @cindybeck4015 4 роки тому +7

    Unconditional LOVE is beautiful!

  • @titos9809
    @titos9809 4 роки тому +15

    Your relationship is goals whatever Race people are. You are raising amazing children. You guys have learnt to Shut out the outside noise, they are just that... NOISE that don't matter. Forever ❤️ you've got it.

    • @180tunneltv2
      @180tunneltv2 4 роки тому +1

      Great video! I like the part about having a purpose partner and praying together. Yall fun to watch😄

    • @uniquebeauty633
      @uniquebeauty633 2 роки тому

      what race are they? lol human and they are both american , and a man and woman lolmmm very normal, people are so silly🤣

  • @tymejynx2395
    @tymejynx2395 4 роки тому +8

    Beautiful couple God bless you and your family!

  • @mariahfedosov1516
    @mariahfedosov1516 4 роки тому +7

    I'm with you Tamara. I could sleep all day! I love naps & chillaxing! My husband is also like Adam, he likes to get outside, do projects and on the weekend I often get dragged into the outdoors with him 😂

  • @Gidget0407
    @Gidget0407 4 роки тому +1

    I am with Tamera! I was an Elementary teacher for 30 years and a single mom. When my son went with his dad, I, too, looked forward to getting a nap after fluffing my pillows, all my favorite comfy blankets, and a book for a 3 (and sometimes more) nap! You work hard and deserve it!

  • @Severianaxo
    @Severianaxo 4 роки тому +40

    The nap thing is honestly probably a girl thing, I love taking long naps lol

  • @Adriana_Rantonio
    @Adriana_Rantonio 4 роки тому +6

    What a great video. I find it so important to talk about what makes a relationship. Especially these days when people are struggling to connect in a world of social media.

  • @jamiepultrum543
    @jamiepultrum543 4 роки тому +35

    Tamera! A NAP IS 3 HOURS LONG!!!!!!! Yup yup I’m with ya sista!!!!

  • @eberjom9119
    @eberjom9119 4 роки тому +16

    1) damn I need to work on my "stuck in the house quarantine look" 2)I had no idea they've been together over 15 years

  • @CouponsExpired2006
    @CouponsExpired2006 3 місяці тому

    Its not about the race, its about the love and connection a couple have with each other. I totally love LOVE the chemistry you guys have with each other and your babies, which by the way are both beautiful! Your videos make me laugh, sigh and pretty much happy. It is a pleasure to watch. Keep up the good job! Also, I watched Sister Sister back in the day and loved the show! Blessings from Chi-Town!