“Done that” “Died the way he chose to die” 30 years later, he still can’t say suicide or killed himself. Kurt was his best friend. Krist truly loved him. They were best friends, but there last interaction was a fight, with Kurt’s last words to him being “fuck you”. I really wish they made up and Kurt stayed around. If he saw what it would do to Krist he would have never done it.
That story about Krist looking for a left handed guitar every time he passed a pawn shop shortly after Kurt died is one of the most heartbreaking things I've heard
It's surprisingly common, death isn't something rational to people. We can't fully grasp then idea of someone just going away, just disappearing, it's an odd idea for our brains. My mother lost her mother in a transit accident, and years laters she was still thinking about buying her kitchen items, just to be reminded that she was not there. Same happened to Krist, and it's really sad, one second he was at the top of the world jamming with his best friend, the next one, his best friend is gone, it's easy to see why it took Krist son long to fully process it
The most underrated bass player in rock history... over Shadowed by two huge rock stars in Kurt and then Dave. He had some pretty complicated baselines that dance around Kurtz simple chords. Underrated. Very humble and clearly proud of Dave Grohl to anyone who ever thought he was jealous
@@REJEKT_DEAD Probably my favourite Nirvana song (or one of) and what inspired me to start playing bass in my mid teens. I don't care what anyone says, the tone of that bassline is perfect.
@SamuelEMPowell131He is not a virtuoso but he was the perfect bassplayer for Nirvana. He didnt play the root notes of the chords all the time. You are the fraud.
@@jejealin It also must be awful to spend your whole life denigrating people because you don't agree with their politics. That's going to look rather shallow when and if he ever gets any recovery.
It's so painful how he can never bring himself to say "suicide" or "killed himself". Listening to Krist talk about Kurt is different than Dave because they were friends and band mates longer and grew up in the same place. There's a stronger connection.
I have always said his death has affected Krist more than anyone else even more than Kurts mother sister wife or child. Sadly, we see that same synamic recently between Dave Grohl and Taylor Hawkins... speaking as someone who lost his bandmate who was also my highschool best friend to a drug overdose couple years ago... The Band of Brothers Best friend...two cogs of the ssme wheel connection we had was impenetrable. Thank god we completed a demo. Putting something together for his daughter before publication. Krist has a very visible hole in his soul and is still very much full grief. The manner in which he defelcts and avoids, says it all.
I think about this often. It's difficult to articulate but there's something beautiful about it. When you're that close to someone and have a long shared history, being angry at that person doesn't mean you don't love them or that you aren't friends. It's kinda taboo to so plainly state that someone should not have committed suicide, but he goes directly there every time, even though it kinda derails interviews and makes people uncomfortable. He still expects Kurt to hold up his end of the friendship. I think it's a fair expectation of brothers. He has every right to never accept what happened and to judge Kurt for it. In some way, it keeps the friendship alive.
Just imagine founding an high school band and when you're 15 with your best friends and just playing a lot of random shit cause you have anything else to do...and then you're band became better and recognize on his local scene...and a couple of years later that ting that you creat with your friend became the most popular band in the world in a couple of months and everybody wants to sounds like you, to looks like you...all the rock and social culture of an entire young generation around the world is gravitating around you're band...You're the new Elvis, the new Beatles, that one in a million band who succeed to reach the higher step....and then it all stop THAT WAY. Man this is heartbroking, big respect and love for Krist !
Poor Krist still carries the weight of the loss around with him. Whenever I see him with Dave I get the feeling that they love eachother a lot, but there's also a lingering sadness because them being together reminds them that Kurt isn't here.
Krist has a beautiful soul. Whether death or divorce, when someone you love leaves it stays with you. Time makes it easier, but I don’t know if it heals.
Nirvana were and still are my favourite band of all time. When Kurt died I'd been 16 for less than a week and actually cried when I heard it on the news. I'm now 45 and that was the only time where someone I'd never met passing away moved me to tears. Kurt and Nirvana had an impact on more lives than I think they could comprehend.
Around 6:00 he talks about being in his 40s and looking at Kurt, who is still in his 20s, and I think of that all the time. I was a teenager when Nirvana got huge, and to me, they were so cool, and adult, and Kurt was already married and had a baby… Now that I’m in my 40s, and have a kid in her 20s, I look back and see them as big, goofy, kids. 😂 It’s really weird to outlive people you admired and thought of as “the grownup in the room.”
This is so sad. 😟😔 As true friends since they were kids, we know Krist really love Kurt by the way Krist is answering questions about Kurt, he carefully avoids using the word suicide or killed himself. 😟😔
I think what would have been good is if Kurt just disappeared out of the spotlight for 10 years and focused on raising a family, then come back with an Unplugged type album. He could have made so much more great music.
I lost my best friend, and it really never goes away. I never met Kurt, and I miss the hell out of him, I love his music, death is just such an unexplainable thing, as humans it just sux..ya know
The truest window in what it’s like to grieve is when Krist says that he would notice left-handed guitars at shops for years after Kurt died. It’s such an ingrained behavior that he couldn’t stop even though it only reminded him of his friend’s death. You never get over losing a loved one. It gets easier to live with over time, but that’s all. It’s never gone. It’s always there.
Reminds me of my best friends death after I saved him from sex trafficking he got back and was drugged up on some untraceable substance he wasn’t the same after ,he kept talking about how nobody would ever trust him again and things were all over for him I never got the message because I didn’t see him as the type but I guess you never do because the next day he pulled out his shitty little revolver and erased himself as well as my social battery it was so hard to talk to others after I had no friends in high school because I was still getting over his death to this day I think about it all the time
2:05 the fact hes always mentioning things of this sort when asked about kurt cobain shows how much he thinks of these things. and how much the thought of 'what could i have done to save him' resonates with him everyday for 30 years, safe to say
Krist never had the same light in his eyes after Kurt died. When he says "he could have lived in a, in uh..." and stops abruptly. Kurt was openly leaving Courtney, Nirvana and talking seriously about buying a castle in Scotland and disappearing. Dead men don't pull triggers #Justiceforkurt and watch the AmericanSpyFox.
Just listen to nirvana and you will know for sure kurt was depressed and suicidal, if you look at some lyrics you’ll see that he was a mentally ill person that needed help, especially in in utero. There is a song literally called “i hate my self and i want to die” Btw sorry for bad english i am not native
He didn't do it. Either Kurt was Murdered by Cali DeWitt on the orders or Courtney OR he faked his death and became Rivers Cuomo...either way, it wasn't Suicide. Kurt Cobain did not kill himself.
Krist physically fought Kurt the last time they saw each other. He punched Kurt and held him by the neck. The intervention that he attended is what pushed Kurt over the edge. If Kurt had survived, Nirvana was going to break up either way.
@@gracesedan4759he was generally lashing out, threatening to fire them and refusing to accept tours or band rehearsals. He was just not responding or treating people the same way near the end
I don't think he was murdered, but then I remember there is hundreds of millions of dollars worth of royalties on the line. These aren't pennyroyalties. However, at the time Cobain likely didn't know that part about the hundreds of millions. He was probably thinking maybe 25 million dollars was there, and I'm sure he did want his daughter taken care of. He should've just waited it out and took a break, extreme suicidal feelings will pass. Unless Love knew a divorce, disbandment, and writing out of the will was imminent. It didn't seem like Cobain had the energy for that kind of thing to bother with a divorce right then.
When kurt was in rome courtney tried to kill him there but only took it so far because she would have had to pay for kurt body to be shipped back to the USA he knew she did that that's why he changed she chased him back to the USA and got to him, she wanted in nirvana but that was his band he knew she was out to get him. She wanted to stop nirvana so she did.
I mean that's relative.. what life is.. sadly he is in hell, and in God's words that is death... Whatever you think/feel about that statement.. appparently Kurt knew what he was getting involved with when he sold his soul as young as 15.. there's a video on youtube of him doing a satanic ritual. He did, and he got famous.. very famous... They've always been my fav band, and Kurt's influence is STILL prolly the reason i'm still into hard drugs.. but yeah
No he's not. I hate when people say stupid stuff like this. His music may live on forever but the person decided to take his life when he still had a good 60 years to go. Kurt died in a garden shed in 1994, depriving himself of another 60 years of life, living, experiences, music, artistry, joy and sorrow, the human experience. It was stupid and selfish.
Yeah I think people just don't understand what a drug like heroin could do to you. I've known people that have killed them selves spiraling from opiate abuse.
I know there was tension between'xt Dave Grohl & Kurt Cobain towards the end thanks to the skankiest of SKANKS Courtney Love a-🍆, & I know he genuinely misses Kurt. Obviously Krist and Kurt knew each other back in highschool, yr's before Grohl joined. Consistently in interviews about the band, Krist novoselic has said " I miss my friend ". This is in no way a dig towards his Foo 'ness Mr Grohl, his hard hitting ferocity took Nirvana from good , to 😘🤏. ( That's the kissy chef gesture)
@@kevinmurphy5366 doesn't seem the case, she only fought in court for the nirvana rights during the greatest hits album. From what I know after kurt passed she didn't wuant nothing from the band till very much later, strange if that was her intention.
@@kevinmurphy5366 I saw it today, definatly put on me diferent perspective on how things might went, something weird about kourtney predicting some things but the biggest killer for me, is knowing that the suicide letter was not forged if you go look, most handwright experts say that the bottom half is actualy kurt's handwrighting. Still I would say that now I see it as 80% suicide and 20% murder.
“Done that”
“Died the way he chose to die”
30 years later, he still can’t say suicide or killed himself.
Kurt was his best friend. Krist truly loved him. They were best friends, but there last interaction was a fight, with Kurt’s last words to him being “fuck you”. I really wish they made up and Kurt stayed around. If he saw what it would do to Krist he would have never done it.
The way he says “he shouldn’t have done what he did” so many times just tells you how much Kurt meant to Kris he just can’t bare the words it’s so sad
That story about Krist looking for a left handed guitar every time he passed a pawn shop shortly after Kurt died is one of the most heartbreaking things I've heard
It's surprisingly common, death isn't something rational to people. We can't fully grasp then idea of someone just going away, just disappearing, it's an odd idea for our brains. My mother lost her mother in a transit accident, and years laters she was still thinking about buying her kitchen items, just to be reminded that she was not there. Same happened to Krist, and it's really sad, one second he was at the top of the world jamming with his best friend, the next one, his best friend is gone, it's easy to see why it took Krist son long to fully process it
We all feel the loss of a great musician/icon but Krist lost his best friend
Saddest part is when he’s talking about the dreams with him and they go and play in his dreams
And having to wake up realizing what he lost
hearing that really makes me super sad.
Krist had paid a heavy price to be himself. A lovely, compassionate man
The most underrated bass player in rock history... over Shadowed by two huge rock stars in Kurt and then Dave.
He had some pretty complicated baselines that dance around Kurtz simple chords. Underrated.
Very humble and clearly proud of Dave Grohl to anyone who ever thought he was jealous
There’s a kinda funky element to his playing that’s very individual. He swings.
@AnNWord Cook Lounge Act is always the first song I point people to. There was never any doubt in my mind that Krist came up with those bass lines.
@@REJEKT_DEAD Probably my favourite Nirvana song (or one of) and what inspired me to start playing bass in my mid teens. I don't care what anyone says, the tone of that bassline is perfect.
@SamuelEMPowell131He is not a virtuoso but he was the perfect bassplayer for Nirvana. He didnt play the root notes of the chords all the time. You are the fraud.
@@jejealin It also must be awful to spend your whole life denigrating people because you don't agree with their politics. That's going to look rather shallow when and if he ever gets any recovery.
Looking out for left handed guitar is heart breaking.
No heart break is as bad as losing someone you love that way.
Yeah man. When he said “I don’t have to do that anymore “…..brutal
It's so painful how he can never bring himself to say "suicide" or "killed himself". Listening to Krist talk about Kurt is different than Dave because they were friends and band mates longer and grew up in the same place. There's a stronger connection.
I have always said his death has affected Krist more than anyone else even more than Kurts mother sister wife or child.
Sadly, we see that same synamic recently between Dave Grohl and Taylor Hawkins... speaking as someone who lost his bandmate who was also my highschool best friend to a drug overdose couple years ago... The Band of Brothers Best friend...two cogs of the ssme wheel connection we had was impenetrable. Thank god we completed a demo. Putting something together for his daughter before publication.
Krist has a very visible hole in his soul and is still very much full grief. The manner in which he defelcts and avoids, says it all.
krist also had the airport fight with him a few days before he offed himself and it was the last time they ever saw eachother
No one seems to want to say it.
Kurt's last months he hid from everyone . They tried to check up on him but would not answer door and stuff.
I think about this often. It's difficult to articulate but there's something beautiful about it. When you're that close to someone and have a long shared history, being angry at that person doesn't mean you don't love them or that you aren't friends.
It's kinda taboo to so plainly state that someone should not have committed suicide, but he goes directly there every time, even though it kinda derails interviews and makes people uncomfortable.
He still expects Kurt to hold up his end of the friendship. I think it's a fair expectation of brothers. He has every right to never accept what happened and to judge Kurt for it. In some way, it keeps the friendship alive.
Just imagine founding an high school band and when you're 15 with your best friends and just playing a lot of random shit cause you have anything else to do...and then you're band became better and recognize on his local scene...and a couple of years later that ting that you creat with your friend became the most popular band in the world in a couple of months and everybody wants to sounds like you, to looks like you...all the rock and social culture of an entire young generation around the world is gravitating around you're band...You're the new Elvis, the new Beatles, that one in a million band who succeed to reach the higher step....and then it all stop THAT WAY. Man this is heartbroking, big respect and love for Krist !
Poor Krist still carries the weight of the loss around with him. Whenever I see him with Dave I get the feeling that they love eachother a lot, but there's also a lingering sadness because them being together reminds them that Kurt isn't here.
0:50
Man, that hits hard!
Krist has a beautiful soul. Whether death or divorce, when someone you love leaves it stays with you. Time makes it easier, but I don’t know if it heals.
I really think Krist didn't think Kurt was capable of that. I think the way Cobain went out was a genuine shock to Krist.
Nirvana were and still are my favourite band of all time. When Kurt died I'd been 16 for less than a week and actually cried when I heard it on the news. I'm now 45 and that was the only time where someone I'd never met passing away moved me to tears.
Kurt and Nirvana had an impact on more lives than I think they could comprehend.
💯
Around 6:00 he talks about being in his 40s and looking at Kurt, who is still in his 20s, and I think of that all the time. I was a teenager when Nirvana got huge, and to me, they were so cool, and adult, and Kurt was already married and had a baby…
Now that I’m in my 40s, and have a kid in her 20s, I look back and see them as big, goofy, kids. 😂 It’s really weird to outlive people you admired and thought of as “the grownup in the room.”
Krist was more than a brother to Kurt. It's hard to listen to him talk about his buddy, because he really loved him.
I feel you Krist. My best friend did the same thing in July of 2021. Rest in peace, Jacob.
i’m sorry for your loss 💔 my condolences
That bit about looking for the left-handed guitars, and how just getting one would make cobain write songs. That hits deep
This is so sad. 😟😔 As true friends since they were kids, we know Krist really love Kurt by the way Krist is answering questions about Kurt, he carefully avoids using the word suicide or killed himself. 😟😔
1:47”maybe we would’ve sucked look at the foo fighters 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Krist talking about Kurt cobain you feel the heartbreak in his voice
Dave is one thing but krist watched kurt and Nirvana go from nothing to everything to losing his best friend..that hurts
I think what would have been good is if Kurt just disappeared out of the spotlight for 10 years and focused on raising a family, then come back with an Unplugged type album. He could have made so much more great music.
His wife was a fucked up person it wouldn’t have worked out, he knew it himself
Is that been done with a famous person?
@@sadhu7191 forgot the name but there is a British singer of a band claiming he is dead and now living his life with his wife in Israel
That's really watching one person who truly loves another person, beautiful and so sad.
I lost my best friend, and it really never goes away. I never met Kurt, and I miss the hell out of him, I love his music, death is just such an unexplainable thing, as humans it just sux..ya know
I love that he dreams of him and still jams with him!
"We'd really bash it up." Krist is too wholesome for this world. Love him.
i miss kurt so much but also i couldnt imagine what he’d look like if he was still alive 😭
He would have proberly Adged pretty well if he just kept doing heroin and nothing else
Love ya, Kurt. 🖤
The truest window in what it’s like to grieve is when Krist says that he would notice left-handed guitars at shops for years after Kurt died. It’s such an ingrained behavior that he couldn’t stop even though it only reminded him of his friend’s death.
You never get over losing a loved one. It gets easier to live with over time, but that’s all. It’s never gone. It’s always there.
Reminds me of my best friends death after I saved him from sex trafficking he got back and was drugged up on some untraceable substance he wasn’t the same after ,he kept talking about how nobody would ever trust him again and things were all over for him I never got the message because I didn’t see him as the type but I guess you never do because the next day he pulled out his shitty little revolver and erased himself as well as my social battery it was so hard to talk to others after I had no friends in high school because I was still getting over his death to this day I think about it all the time
This is touching, thanks 👍🏻😁
When a dead person is visiting you in dreams they’re right besides you in the waking world. 😭
Krist Novoselic is so awesome! I admire him a lot as a person. He's really down to earth.
2:05 the fact hes always mentioning things of this sort when asked about kurt cobain shows how much he thinks of these things. and how much the thought of 'what could i have done to save him' resonates with him everyday for 30 years, safe to say
Krist never had the same light in his eyes after Kurt died. When he says "he could have lived in a, in uh..." and stops abruptly. Kurt was openly leaving Courtney, Nirvana and talking seriously about buying a castle in Scotland and disappearing. Dead men don't pull triggers #Justiceforkurt and watch the AmericanSpyFox.
1:08
Kurt wasn't leaving Courtney. his last words to her were he'd be at her alter. Kurt wasn't dead when he decided to off himself.
He is such a goofball in old Nirvana interviews. He really is like a different person now.
Just listen to nirvana and you will know for sure kurt was depressed and suicidal, if you look at some lyrics you’ll see that he was a mentally ill person that needed help, especially in in utero.
There is a song literally called “i hate my self and i want to die”
Btw sorry for bad english i am not native
That spyfox dude is a moron. He gets so much basic shit wrong, that you can't take him seriously.
Hearing Krist talk about his dreams of Kurt and realizing he didn’t need to look for left handed guitars anymore is heartbreaking.
Straight up friend ❤
I lost my best friend in 2018. He was larger than life as well. All I can say is, it’s tough.
Krist is great, and only one person to spek abut Kurt, instead his Mother and Sister ❤
I wish Kurt took a decade off to repair himself and come back. He got too much too soon
Kurt was so lucky to have a friend in Krist
Kurt n krist are soulmates ❤
If Kurt knew then what it would do to krist… he wouldn’t have done it
He didn't do it.
Either Kurt was Murdered by Cali DeWitt on the orders or Courtney OR he faked his death and became Rivers Cuomo...either way, it wasn't Suicide. Kurt Cobain did not kill himself.
💯
@@Glitch_sa_Mhaitris get lost with this dumb conspiracy theory.
Krist telling it as it was
I love that he walked out
Real love
It seems like yesterday ❤❤❤
always together. it's a shadow. from school. an ancient archaic past always gluing together
Krist physically fought Kurt the last time they saw each other. He punched Kurt and held him by the neck. The intervention that he attended is what pushed Kurt over the edge. If Kurt had survived, Nirvana was going to break up either way.
Krist honestly loved Kurt
❤ thanx Dave Chris cheers hey 🎉🎉🎉🎉
It's unfortunate that Kurt treated both Krist & Dave like crap near the end....
I know him and Krist had a fight, but what did he do to Dave?
@@gracesedan4759he was generally lashing out, threatening to fire them and refusing to accept tours or band rehearsals. He was just not responding or treating people the same way near the end
6:50 that's beautiful
They were family, not just friends
Thank you
They were all very good musicians.But Kurt was the best and the One and Only!
I appreciate you❤
I don't think he was murdered, but then I remember there is hundreds of millions of dollars worth of royalties on the line. These aren't pennyroyalties.
However, at the time Cobain likely didn't know that part about the hundreds of millions. He was probably thinking maybe 25 million dollars was there, and I'm sure he did want his daughter taken care of.
He should've just waited it out and took a break, extreme suicidal feelings will pass. Unless Love knew a divorce, disbandment, and writing out of the will was imminent. It didn't seem like Cobain had the energy for that kind of thing to bother with a divorce right then.
3:50 Krist still doesn't answer the question 😂
It's really the sad part of drugs
❤
When kurt was in rome courtney tried to kill him there but only took it so far because she would have had to pay for kurt body to be shipped back to the USA he knew she did that that's why he changed she chased him back to the USA and got to him, she wanted in nirvana but that was his band he knew she was out to get him. She wanted to stop nirvana so she did.
Kurt is going to live forever ❤
I mean that's relative.. what life is.. sadly he is in hell, and in God's words that is death...
Whatever you think/feel about that statement.. appparently Kurt knew what he was getting involved with when he sold his soul as young as 15.. there's a video on youtube of him doing a satanic ritual.
He did, and he got famous.. very famous...
They've always been my fav band, and Kurt's influence is STILL prolly the reason i'm still into hard drugs.. but yeah
@@mauroienna9145seek help
No he's not. I hate when people say stupid stuff like this. His music may live on forever but the person decided to take his life when he still had a good 60 years to go. Kurt died in a garden shed in 1994, depriving himself of another 60 years of life, living, experiences, music, artistry, joy and sorrow, the human experience. It was stupid and selfish.
Yeah man I've heard about him selling his soul ,and illuminati shit
@@mauroienna9145hells not real
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Krist wants Kracker 🥲😢
8 MINUTES!?!?!?!
And 1 second!
@@PRESTO-ERNESTO why did you put it on a timer?
@Psyclonus7 oh I didn't. Just came out that way.
@@PRESTO-ERNESTO it's ok! I still love you!
@Psyclonus7 we do free requests on our community tab on our page. Also live reaction of those requests on Wednesday nights!!!
it made me sad reading that last letter he wrote krist and just trashing on him :/
Habia leido en una pagina que antes de suicidarse habia tenido una pelea con krist, cosas del destino no?
Shit for Kurt
Tarantino wanted him to be in pulp fiction.......
Once he knew about the carater that he was suposed to perform, imediatly turned down I supose
0:34 Is that Cenk Ugyr from TYT?!!!
Yes
Thanks! I'd never have imagined Kris got interviewed by that maniac. I know Kris is left in politics but TYT! That's a shame
Dalah Lama
Roger Waters is the biggest rock act in the world. Foo Fighters are successful
Since Nirvana's End. You could argue foo fighters are the most successful rock band since. At least top 3
Maybe to you but Foo Fighters are still putting out albums that debut on the Billboard top 100.
Drugs and alcohol, then throw in bad luck and low mood. No, he never should have done that.
Yeah I think people just don't understand what a drug like heroin could do to you. I've known people that have killed them selves spiraling from opiate abuse.
I know there was tension between'xt Dave Grohl & Kurt Cobain towards the end thanks to the skankiest of SKANKS Courtney Love a-🍆, & I know he genuinely misses Kurt. Obviously Krist and Kurt knew each other back in highschool, yr's before Grohl joined. Consistently in interviews about the band, Krist novoselic has said " I miss my friend ". This is in no way a dig towards his Foo 'ness Mr Grohl, his hard hitting ferocity took Nirvana from good , to 😘🤏. ( That's the kissy chef gesture)
Butch mix suxxxxx
Monk
Don't do drugs
Krist is sincere about Kurt, but Dave is faking it.
It wasnt suicide... Dead men do not pull triggers
Makes me sad that he thinks Kurt committed suicide.
Because he did. He knew the man. You did not
NO one knows for sure ,I think he was murdered but I'm not sure 100%
Courtney killed kurt
What would she gained by doing it?
@ His entire estate
@@kevinmurphy5366 doesn't seem the case, she only fought in court for the nirvana rights during the greatest hits album. From what I know after kurt passed she didn't wuant nothing from the band till very much later, strange if that was her intention.
@ Soaked in bleach
@@kevinmurphy5366 I saw it today, definatly put on me diferent perspective on how things might went, something weird about kourtney predicting some things but the biggest killer for me, is knowing that the suicide letter was not forged if you go look, most handwright experts say that the bottom half is actualy kurt's handwrighting. Still I would say that now I see it as 80% suicide and 20% murder.
He was murdered. Justice for Kurt 2023
no he wasn't. get lost with this dumb conspiracy theory
forget that gen x theory.💀
:-(