The #1 SKILL Most People Suck At!

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    Do you want to know a skill you're probably bad at?
    Do you also want to know how to learn it? Then this video is probably for you. Watch till the end and also subscribe!
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  • @VarunMayya
    @VarunMayya  2 роки тому +73

    Want to know another skill you suck at? Subscribing :P
    Please train your skills on this channel, I won't mind :P

    • @srushtilokhande1143
      @srushtilokhande1143 2 роки тому +3

      Try to make your videos in hindi too.. like ranveer allahbadia.. it expanded his audience massively and his subscribers also went up pretty quickly..
      Overall amazing content man!

    • @yogeshkumaryt
      @yogeshkumaryt 2 роки тому +1

      @@srushtilokhande1143 He is learning Hindi as well to speak well. He knows good written English

    • @akhandpratap__
      @akhandpratap__ 2 роки тому +1

      When you don't judge others it gives room for people to open up.
      Trust me! People are so much filled up, they will be happy to have a person like you in life who accepts all.

    • @akhandpratap__
      @akhandpratap__ 2 роки тому +1

      Pink+Blue background is lit 🔥
      It shows something like Masculine+Feminine

    • @sandhyasharma9208
      @sandhyasharma9208 2 роки тому +1

      Great content Varun. Have loved CERO, both 1 and 2. Loved Scenes. And now the content here too is straight from the heart. You are our unfair advantage.

  • @memeset4242
    @memeset4242 2 роки тому +129

    I've learnt this from Garyvee "when we stop judging ourselves then we will stop judging others" (& Vice Versa). This concept has been a game-changer🚀.

    • @being1better801
      @being1better801 2 роки тому +2

      If you have link of that video then share here.
      Let me try to find that video

    • @nixantcreatives
      @nixantcreatives 2 роки тому +1

      Good stuff good stuff

    • @varshithkumar7782
      @varshithkumar7782 2 роки тому +2

      How to not judge ourself? How do we correct ourself then?

  • @messpice
    @messpice 2 роки тому +35

    Talking to people without being judgemental is the highest level of sophistication

  • @aryannaranje8937
    @aryannaranje8937 2 роки тому +46

    The skill : How not to judge anyone the moment you met them

  • @yashpachghare469
    @yashpachghare469 4 місяці тому +1

    There's a thin line between judging people on first glance and ignorance of red flags

  • @emr2710
    @emr2710 2 роки тому +18

    I made a snap judgment when the editor misspelled 'Racist' at 03:56

  • @indiansouls8357
    @indiansouls8357 Рік тому +1

    90 % agreed with you. Rest 10 % of self- judging based on intuition & experience & feeling, is also must for good survival.
    Imagine a drunkard driver behaving weirdly to a lone lady in car, shouldn't she judge him based on her life experience and be cautious.
    Remember everything cannot be black & white 😊

  • @pasupuletinitishsai3696
    @pasupuletinitishsai3696 2 роки тому +22

    Another good one and super cool setup!!

  • @MohitSharma-tz1xl
    @MohitSharma-tz1xl 2 роки тому +5

    Dude,your content is amazing .
    I don't learn this much even in my college semester. Keep doing it.🙏😀😀😊😊

  • @Mohit-zj8ln
    @Mohit-zj8ln 2 роки тому +14

    Make a live session with shewtabh gangwar .

  • @DesiGymReviews
    @DesiGymReviews 2 роки тому +1

    People don’t have a problem with positively judging someone, they have with negatively judging them. You can’t have one without the other.

    • @VarunMayya
      @VarunMayya  2 роки тому +2

      You shouldn’t do that either. You should reserve judgement till you know the person. It’s called the halo effect.

    • @preetisayscheers
      @preetisayscheers Рік тому

      And the Golem Effect and Pygmalion Effect

  • @themoneylancer
    @themoneylancer 2 роки тому +34

    Varun you shouldn't dilute your level of content that you provide just to get some more subscribers. Great content. Loved this video and the content you provide. ❤️

    • @Shaileshexpo
      @Shaileshexpo 2 роки тому +1

      These days Varun is trying to reach more audience and when they will be here, they can peak into his life and see all of the smart information and his well documented journey has to say and learn from it and become smart as it is the agenda in the end

    • @Shaileshexpo
      @Shaileshexpo 2 роки тому +1

      Just my perspective

  • @barfy.man3624
    @barfy.man3624 2 роки тому +20

    That's 100% true
    I was thinking about it recently and this video just dropped.
    Thank you very much

    • @soumendrapatra2342
      @soumendrapatra2342 2 роки тому +1

      YT algorithms know what you will think before you know it.... Scary, but true......

  • @aryanvp9190
    @aryanvp9190 2 роки тому +3

    I see the effort put into editing, keep growing Brother 🔥

  • @thedevil4974
    @thedevil4974 2 роки тому +6

    Isn't it funny that reality show and lawsuit judges should keep this in mind as well 😳

  • @prosofnes8823
    @prosofnes8823 2 роки тому +3

    Bro Your Videos Are Very Helpful. Keep Working Hard Brother. I Wish You achieve all your dreams.

  • @N1t_in
    @N1t_in 2 роки тому

    Thanks for this man

  • @2704balu
    @2704balu 2 роки тому +3

    Good stuff Varun. Love the layered positivity ❤️

  • @techentre
    @techentre 2 роки тому +2

    Man, you always inspire to be better with everything .

  • @abhirajkumar882
    @abhirajkumar882 2 роки тому +1

    "THINKING, FAST AND SLOW"

  • @hardikkarelia3783
    @hardikkarelia3783 2 роки тому +2

    Your videos are worth watching💯

  • @THEUNDERCOVERMONK
    @THEUNDERCOVERMONK 2 роки тому +3

    I notice a lot of intensity and involvement in what you do. You will grow fast if you routinely post videos. Good Conent. 👍

  • @abhigyanchatterjee1333
    @abhigyanchatterjee1333 2 роки тому +2

    hey varun noting to say about the content it's great!! Just a small input i wanted to share that the bg music is just too good and also another add is it might be good for you if you don't include a solo piece of guitar or any instrument because many a times it just gets amplified as there are many musical notes which might distract the focus of the viewer to the music rather than the words and wisdom it will be better if you use a music that doesn't have too many moving pieces in it.

  • @birjusharma8104
    @birjusharma8104 2 роки тому

    ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS BY VARUN ,GREAT WORK

  • @jaianshsharma6649
    @jaianshsharma6649 2 роки тому

    kudos bro waiting for more and more energetic video and one thing you english speaking skill are really good you have your own voice just keep going keep smiling :)

  • @nikita2841
    @nikita2841 Рік тому

    This is really good Varun!

  • @learnerforlife1338
    @learnerforlife1338 2 роки тому

    I've been working on this and you just put it into words.... Thankyou 🙇

  • @filterfiles5779
    @filterfiles5779 2 роки тому

    'Being a decent human being' I think was the core of the video
    without saying much on today's prevalent conditions, u said a lot
    Great buddy....keep it up

  • @shawnbraganza9020
    @shawnbraganza9020 2 роки тому +1

    Brilliant content bro.

  • @vishwajeetsingh99
    @vishwajeetsingh99 2 роки тому +1

    Aah very nice video , I've trained myself to not judge anyone , I've been hurt for so much time that I've learned to be happy for myself & others

  • @aadityakhanna3871
    @aadityakhanna3871 2 роки тому +1

    Nice one
    Thank you for your time

  • @preetisayscheers
    @preetisayscheers Рік тому

    Spot-on Varun...and nicely spelt out👏 And not many people realise this mistake....we all see the world through our own key-hole..it better be positive👍

  • @theyashgaur3236
    @theyashgaur3236 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing videos sir... Thanks for 🙏💕 this knowledgable content......

  • @harshjhunjhunuwala
    @harshjhunjhunuwala 2 роки тому +1

    Super cool setup

  • @adityams1659
    @adityams1659 2 роки тому +1

    *THATS SOOOOO DAMN TRUE!!! OBSERVED SO MANY TIMES!!*

  • @shloksuman6223
    @shloksuman6223 2 роки тому

    nice video... much needed thing for every person

  • @AdityaSingh-ql9ke
    @AdityaSingh-ql9ke Рік тому

    Quick Judgement help you to survive better, its not about accuracy, its about effectiveness.
    It is likely that an Indian in India who dosent speak English is less educated than a person who does.
    This is not same in other nations, but in India, this judgement is effective most of the times, though it not accurate.
    ..but extreme of anything is dangerous.

  • @karmveer36
    @karmveer36 2 роки тому +1

    Judgement is some sort of vague calculation. It's fine as long as you're not way too invested in it.

  • @user-px2gw5vt3o
    @user-px2gw5vt3o Рік тому

    good content bro

  • @rahulisgreat4911
    @rahulisgreat4911 10 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @itsdivanshugarg
    @itsdivanshugarg 2 роки тому

    loved it!

  • @pranaybakkolla5446
    @pranaybakkolla5446 2 роки тому

    Wholesome video 🎉✨

  • @aestheticallycorrect1925
    @aestheticallycorrect1925 2 роки тому

    Shit Varun. That is so Real and deep. Judging is one of the core problems with our society and with us why we don't get ahead in Life. Thanks for this video.🍺

  • @mr.moviesofficial7388
    @mr.moviesofficial7388 2 роки тому +4

    I really was the first 🥺😊

  • @simranrajput9257
    @simranrajput9257 2 роки тому

    amazing i was really not aware about this

  • @karthikpaladugula5424
    @karthikpaladugula5424 9 місяців тому

    Just lovely ❤❤

  • @BboySaifi
    @BboySaifi 2 роки тому

    On point

  • @jaidipvalvi4403
    @jaidipvalvi4403 2 роки тому

    Seeing things as it without myself in mind

  • @asheessh
    @asheessh 2 роки тому

    Don't know judge people, judge their actions ~someone

  • @dhruvsahu726
    @dhruvsahu726 2 роки тому

    Absolutely true in life.

  • @arvindyadav6767
    @arvindyadav6767 2 роки тому

    Thinking fast and slow

  • @fazlu149
    @fazlu149 2 роки тому

    Absolutely 💯

  • @sharanyaaaaa
    @sharanyaaaaa 2 роки тому

    I do judge people however I never let that judgement come back to my head again and focus on thinking clearly

  • @suchitakujur4108
    @suchitakujur4108 5 місяців тому

    Great ❤

  • @sparksway4195
    @sparksway4195 2 роки тому

    Setup💥🔥🔥🔥

  • @arjungupta2687
    @arjungupta2687 Рік тому

    Can you provide link of the sweater?

  • @yubhav
    @yubhav 2 роки тому

    This is really very important, you're right. Could understand it even better with that mob mentality point.

  • @bharatsoni3716
    @bharatsoni3716 2 роки тому

    Production 🔥

  • @MillionaireTrader
    @MillionaireTrader 2 роки тому

    Awesome

  • @prosofnes8823
    @prosofnes8823 2 роки тому +1

    This Video Was Damm Amazing. It Made me think about my life Am I on the right track.

  • @Moonjir
    @Moonjir 2 роки тому

    Ok how to have hair like you being an entrepreneur ? What's ur hair care routine? Next video please 🙏🙈

  • @hehe900
    @hehe900 2 роки тому

    Can you share your advice on decision making

  • @DavidPereira-ue6hc
    @DavidPereira-ue6hc 2 роки тому

    Varun Mayya dropping value bomb!!!!

  • @sreekartammana
    @sreekartammana 2 роки тому

    Best way to practice to not judging people is being RESILIENCE

  • @harshjhunjhunuwala
    @harshjhunjhunuwala 2 роки тому +2

    Next video on how to setup like a pro plsssss

  • @mohitgadiya5902
    @mohitgadiya5902 2 роки тому +1

    #mouna

  • @varunmaharana
    @varunmaharana 2 роки тому +1

    Though the plants are edited in the scene, they look naturally kept.

  • @akhandpratap__
    @akhandpratap__ 2 роки тому

    Some people ask me how do so many people become friends with you so easily.
    The only reason is that I judge less. It's not like absent, subconscious is there.
    But I don't care where he is from, accent and all the drama.

  • @DownloadSuprSoul
    @DownloadSuprSoul 2 роки тому +1

    man, this content should be on trending instead of gf vs bf

  • @shubhrajadhav1588
    @shubhrajadhav1588 2 роки тому +1

    Lol I thought the skill would be communication.

  • @om14796
    @om14796 2 роки тому

    This video clearly explains the biggest problem going on in the country right now..

  • @deepantalukder8930
    @deepantalukder8930 2 роки тому

    I can't open my scenes app
    Can you help me out ?

  • @bhaveekjain4246
    @bhaveekjain4246 2 роки тому

    0:23 me: aham gacchhami

  • @shahzeb1303
    @shahzeb1303 2 роки тому

    literally just a week ago i was thinking the same .
    Iske alawa bhot si baar ham perception create kr lete h kisi insaan ke bare me sirf kisi aur individual se uske baare kuch sunkar
    aesa hi mere sath hua kisi ne mujhse ek bhayya h unke bare ke vi aese h vese h blah blah lken jb me unse mila matlab vo bilkul hi alg the

  • @harshchandawat2387
    @harshchandawat2387 2 роки тому

    Did you get the Sales Intern?

  • @sahilsahni1169
    @sahilsahni1169 2 роки тому +1

    The moral of the story, not to make assumptions?

  • @chetanwarrior3338
    @chetanwarrior3338 2 роки тому

    Same thing was mentioned in shwetabh Gangwar book
    First impressions is bullshit
    Data is the king which means in-order to form a conclusion about anyone you need a realistic amount of data about that person

  • @p.r.s8675
    @p.r.s8675 2 роки тому +1

    But experience also counts, I have seen people from certain walks of life who share similar traits ...I know the brain is trying to make sense of things by extrapolation of previous data but sometimes that is pretty useful. Esp. if you're dealing with dangerous people. Not everyone is worth going to and talking to... Sometimes that "judgement" does help. In the context of what you said how does one navigate this ?

    • @preetisayscheers
      @preetisayscheers Рік тому

      Valid question... I guess that's our gut giving us a short-cut red flag by squeezing every experience our brain has documented... One way to use it is listen to your gut when it's pulling your T-shirt like your loyal dog...but do not judge proactively for gossip or sadism or narcissism.....we usually know the difference☺

  • @adbhutcivil
    @adbhutcivil 2 роки тому

    I don't know, I am good at snap judgement, saved me from lot of worse people

  • @mukul.k
    @mukul.k 2 роки тому

    I wonder why that tattoed person still turns out to be a bully.🤦🤦

  • @AbhishekPandey-gf5no
    @AbhishekPandey-gf5no 2 роки тому

    you look like Thomas Frank lite but in a good way

  • @jaisharma524
    @jaisharma524 2 роки тому

    sir podcast m kyuni jaate ho aap kahi

  • @nikita2841
    @nikita2841 Рік тому

    Do u know about rebt...I would suggest you to learn about rebt ...it's similar to what u r saying.

  • @sivamsinha322
    @sivamsinha322 2 роки тому

    So, if I have to figure out the random people whom I met once how he's he or not!
    So, that I can deside have to meat that people again or not. Coz this is harmful or harmless in any case.
    So, I think that's why our brain taking decisions on the basic of what he see.

  • @dexter6644
    @dexter6644 2 роки тому

    Bhai ads laga di?

  • @revanthnayak2493
    @revanthnayak2493 2 роки тому

    Nice background how to do it

  • @raikanxamay1662
    @raikanxamay1662 2 роки тому

    Stereotypes

  • @qwertyali2943
    @qwertyali2943 2 роки тому +1

    .

  • @goldenheartsmom5870
    @goldenheartsmom5870 2 роки тому

    I don't judge 🙂👀

  • @arjungupta2687
    @arjungupta2687 Рік тому

    Can proudly say, unrelatable.

  • @namit-gupta
    @namit-gupta 2 роки тому +2

    Doesn't this argument about not judging the other person holds true even when that other person seems admirable to you? Like then stop judging him as good, logical, sensible even if he talks well, sense, uses clear speech, because NO JUDGEMENT. Right?

    • @VarunMayya
      @VarunMayya  2 роки тому +9

      No. If you have enough context, you can judge people. The problem is "snap judgement".

    • @namit-gupta
      @namit-gupta 2 роки тому +2

      Also this idea seems hypocritical, because if you say that I don't judge people, then bruh, why do you act in ways that are accepted by the society. Like then you don't have to wear clothes, look smart, speak English. If you don't 'judge' anyone, the structural integrity of society would simply collapse. What do you think?

    • @VarunMayya
      @VarunMayya  2 роки тому +1

      @@namit-gupta i doubt. Peter Thiel has an incredible video about how many high performers have mild Aspergers, which makes them much less likely to give a shit. We'd have a much better world.

    • @namit-gupta
      @namit-gupta 2 роки тому +3

      @@VarunMayya Hmm Fair! But evolutionally, our brains seem to be have evolved in such a way, to be able to judge 'in a snap' to predict if the situation is dangerous or not, what are different courses of action.... Doesn't this idea goes against the evolution? I propose that we should be able to 'judge' in a 'snap' but practice not to 'incline' or 'rely' towards that initial judgement and treat everyone with decency no matter what.

    • @namit-gupta
      @namit-gupta 2 роки тому

      @@VarunMayya interesting... Thanks for replying 😃

  • @aksharoza21
    @aksharoza21 2 роки тому

    But then judging people who judge people is the same, isn't it?

  • @varunpujari8710
    @varunpujari8710 2 роки тому

    I don't think I could master this skill in my entire life cuz its a genetic thing

  • @jaidipvalvi4403
    @jaidipvalvi4403 2 роки тому

    Please bring kunal shah varun 2+2 = 1000
    Please

  • @messpice
    @messpice 2 роки тому

    When you know the other is dumb but you still being non judgmental go to talk and waste your time , energy on him
    This not applies here

  • @kingdeekshith7252
    @kingdeekshith7252 2 роки тому +2

    12like

  • @mr.moviesofficial7388
    @mr.moviesofficial7388 2 роки тому +1

    Please be a little more consistent 😸

  • @ankursharma9041
    @ankursharma9041 2 роки тому

    Oka I cant control myself, but it’s “Racist”. Nice content you create tho no doubt about that :).

  • @thedood5665
    @thedood5665 2 роки тому

    IT'S CALLED PRE CONCEIVED NOTIONS
    The most essential skill is to learn is HOW TO UN LEARN 😏

  • @gauravarora7473
    @gauravarora7473 2 роки тому

    Clickbaity title and thumbnail. Well done!