It's not uncommon for a student, especially a minor, to develop a crush on a teacher, and it's not like you can stop those feelings from developing. It really only becomes an issue when they become overly vocal about it and/or have deluded themselves into thinking that the teacher likes them back and that the hypothetical relationship between them would be healthy.
I agree. Everyone has had a crush that they know wouldn’t be appropriate whether it’s age or things about the person. And you can still like someone. My friends (I’m in high school) literally thought that I was crazy by thinking it was normal that my bf liked me and someone else. He was dating her and he dated me before her. He liked us both but he chose me because I was supportive and told him it was normal. He felt so bad like he was betraying her because of feelings he couldn’t control and she flipped on him. We have broken up but that is not important. They thought I was being a push over until I explained. You can’t control if you think someone is hot or if you have a crush. The important thing is your with the person you want to be with and that you know what who you want out of the people you like
I'm 15, I have a crush on one of my teachers, and I goddamn HOPE she doesn't feel the same way. Like, she's pretty and cool but she's a goddamn adult and I'm not about that life.
I never had a crush on a teacher, but my school's choir teacher is really pretty and nice. But I would NOT like her to look at me the same way. That's gross. Humans are attracted to either people in their age range or maturity. So yes, it's normal for kids to have crushes on adults. However, it's biologically and morally wrong for it to be the other way around.
Anyone else notice the “TC” community is almost entirely very young girls? I feel disgusted even reading most of this I couldn’t imagine finding some about you..
when they write "I dream of having a man like him one day #TC" I just don't know what to think. But it's very wrong either way. Just two different, parallel levels of wrongness.
@@KPater-mf4je That quote made me cringe. What I hate about the "true crime community" is that they're actually the "murderer crush community". As someone who is interested in true crime (for the psychological aspect of it) I hate that I can't bring it up without people assuming I want to fuck a killer
in middle school one of my “friends” was going through a Lana Del Ray daddy phase and constantly called a teacher daddy. It was very uncomfortable to watch that.
@@musicinmymind623 yeah -_- I get so annoyed with that term because it doesn't mean eyes, so I have no idea why the term is even used. I literally click off a fanfic if I see orbs.
I'd be annoyed cause that always happens with new teachers (have a problem where I can't talk in front of a class, but the grade you get for it can make up to 30% of your final grade,, rip)
If I were to be asked to stay after class, I'd get so scared. Like I've developed a bit of anxiety because I'm always expected to have good grades so I get so scared if it sounds like I did something wrong D:
My dad is a teacher. His students have crushes on him, a married man with a daughter their age. It's weird. It's so weird. Just stop.. same with my mom (who's also a teacher) where some of her students like her. They don't like you. They know you like them. It's just weird for everyone.
HONESTLY. my friend's dad is a choir teacher and by god it's so awkward hearing the stories from them. my friend had a girl give them a note towards their father explaining their feelings and i don't think i've heard a more revolting or stupid idea.
I used to work as a substitute teacher. One HS girl had the worst crush on me. She was not a bad kid but God it was so awkward. After she saw me out with my boyfriend, she wouldn't speak to me anymore. It was honestly a relief
It’s honestly disgusting, there is a male teacher at my high school and nearly every girl in the school flirts with him. AND THE DISGUSTING PART IS THAT HE DISCREETLY FLIRTS BACK 🤮🤮
My friends act like that, I'm 13 and their all 12, we just make jokes about being a top or a bottom, but it's kinda awkward for me cause I just wanna cuddle my friends without talking about sex- something I'm planning on not doing EVER T~T
Fun fact “Age is just a number” used to be really wholesome. It was used when old couples did things that were considered childish, or wanted to get married, do “young people things” but it’s been perverted and it makes me sad.
I skipped school once and went to walmart and my mom saw the detention teacher and told me to keep my head down because school was happening. So she saw us and said hi and then said that she was "sick" too. I don't know how to feel. Scared? Happy? Idk!
I saw a post on tumblr, it said: “You’re an adult, they’re a child, you have to take responsibility as an adult, a guardian. The child may be naive, but you’re not.” It was something among those lines. It was regarding Teacher crush things.
Gross. It shouldn't be someone else's fault for others' feelings. That's like telling the teachers to cover their whole body with a hazmat suit and use a computer generated voice for teaching kids.
@@Lunar_DeBrie I think their comment just meant that a teacher shouldn’t encourage a student’s crush or respond positively to it, not that the teacher should be covered in a hazmat suit all the time.
I feel like a lot of TCC people are lacking affection so they want it wherever they can get it from. Sometimes having a particularly nice teacher that actually treats them like a person might just confuse them when they are in that vulnerable state. This is why i think a lot of kids grow out of it, they find friend groups, they find someone who is at their maturity level.
Very this! I was an anxious, lonely kid in high school and had more than one "crush" on teachers that were kind to me. I think it's part of that developmental stage - teenagers pine for connection and understanding, and if their peers don't provide it, they latch onto adults that do.
This. I was raised in an emotionally depriving cult. Anytime anyone showed me common decency, I would lap that up and assume that they were romantically interested in me.
personally i was really depressed and my parents didn't pay attention to me so i found that in one of my teachers who used that against me and groomed me at 11-12 years old. i moved to a different school and started crushing on another male teacher who i hoped would be like the first, but he kept his distance and was very polite about it. i hope to god these tumblr users WON'T have their feelings reciprocated, even though i know how bad that hurts. i'm thankful to the second teacher for being normal.
Aquin I’m not a teenager I agree with you there. Teenage hood is like a hormonal haze as you advance into adulthood. It’s slowly fades as the tragedies of being alive take its toll.
I threw my hair into a messy bun, put on eyeliner and black hightops, with an arctic monkeys shirt, and walked out the door. Suddenly I fell onto the concrete and into the sewers. I then saw Splinter, the rat from teenage mutant ninja turtles, staring at me. I looked into his sultry green orbs and met his piercing gaze. His face was in mine, merely inches apart. "I love you, Splinter" I said, and then he stabbed me with a wrench.
Oh man my poor 7th grade teacher had 2 different girls write and draw NSFW things about them together two school years in a row. He almost got fired, even though none of it was his fault. He's still teaching, but I still feel bad for him.
That‘s terrible! We also had one younger teacher a lot of the girls were openly lusting after and it felt terrible to me because I was worried for that poor guy‘s career. They were trying to ask him out on dates, posed in front of him seductively and whatnot...
@@combinemetrocop4213 I wouldn't be so sure about that bro... I've never heard of anything like this in the US, but here we are (tho it's probable it doesn't happen TOO much)
In high school, my psych teacher gave me 'special attention'... making small talk with only me in a class of 40, winking at me in class while teaching, asking me to do him favors like help him grade papers, clean his desk space after hours, etc. As a 16 year old with low self esteem, he was an absolute dream and I had the BIGGEST crush on him. Over time, his favors grew more and more inappropriate and isolated. At the time, I thought it was normal for teachers to treat students this way. It wasn't until now that I realized his method of treatment towards me was grooming. Additionally, his coworker/friend/other teacher witnessed his attention towards me. I guess that signaled to this other teacher that it was okay to touch me inappropriately and pressure me to travel to another country with him. When you are that young and vulnerable, you soak that attention up, especially with low self esteem. It is only now at 22 years old that I realize how incredibly inappropriate it was and how traumatic it was for me. I still have vivid dreams about both teachers. All in all, just want to say that it isn't always the student's fault for having predisposed issues with parents/authority, which I suspect is usually the psychological root for teacher crushes. Unfortunately, there are predators that hold teaching positions that abuse and seek out these kids in these psychological situations.
Natalie Schopen Oh my god!! I hope that you’re okay now! That is so terrible and I hope you feel better after that terrible situation. Stay safe, boo. ☹️
You are absolutely right, and I'm glad you got out of that situation. It isnt always the kids fault..sometimes teachers take advantage of teens who are still trying to figure themselves out. It's a little scary, but the biggest thing is just being aware of the situation, which in many cases, the student isnt. Being informed, it's very easy to recognize bad situations early before they get to toxic
I think most of these kids realize that they shouldn’t act on their feelings, and they’re just kinda expressing themselves on tumblr where it feels safe Edit: this is the most amount of likes I have ever gotten on a comment wowzers thank you
i can promise you they aren't though lmao on tumblr there is a whole community of 12-18 year olds who fetishize pedophilia and are in relationships with "maps".....It's....really bad on there right now
Rachel H Personally I don't think this is that unusual, in highschool (mid 80s) kids made the same comments from time to time. It was just the vast majority of teachers were not attractive enough to catch highschoolers eyes. Mostly though, I'm sure they just fantasized at home in their rooms. Here the difference is they have a platform to express openly that before was only done at home and talk at slumber parties.
@@nyancat8655 just look up "minor supporting maps" on tumblr or look up "map" on tumblr. They typically claim to be non offending but consume cp so yes they are offending. If not offending, me and a few friends have gotten a few reported already
“That mini heart attack you get when he asks to see you after class” yeah I do that with any given teacher because *I DID SOMETHING WRONG DIDNT I PLEASE NO*
One person in the Teacher Crush Community at my high school had a huge thing for our choir teacher. And she wrote a sexy fan fiction on Wattpad about him and herself in his office getting it on on his couch. The school board found out about it and he got suspended for a few days while they investigated. It was discovered that the fan fiction was just fanfiction. But, it almost cost the guy his job, and cost my school a really chill, cool teacher. This community is actually quite harmful.
Name of fanfiction? Not saying I’m interested, just saying I wanna write so many comments about how fucking wrong it is, and because I came from your comment.
If I were that teacher I would probably have curled up in a corner, died, and never gone near another child again. That's really shitty that her gross fantasies almost cost him his job.
Just before I left school I spoke to one of my teachers and she told me that when she was a teen she dated a teacher for two years after leaving (at 16). She said that reflecting on that now as an adult she realized how wrong it was, especially as she now teaches children of the same age. She said she felt taken advantage of and even though she was consenting to the relationship at the time, if she could go back she would never have done it
when kids or teens "consent" to having sex with an adult they aren't really consenting, because they're (often) too young to fully know what they're getting into, and don't know the repercussions or the fact that it's wrong. especially when this person is some kind of authoritarian figure to them, like a teacher. they think this person knows best and that they should go along with what they say, because they don't have the knowledge to realise how wrong it really is. it's sad that there are so many disgusting people that would exploit and take advantage of people for their own sick needs like this, and i'm sorry that your teacher went through that. glad she told you though so that she can educate people on it, and prevent it from happening to others
That happened to me but online i was like 13 and this dude who was 20 or something was really sexual and shit with me and I didn’t think it was wrong and now looking back on it I regret the fuck out of it but I’m just thankful that it was online and not in real life. I remember him saying that he had gotten a gf and it turns out she was underaged too and shit god he was so creepy.
This is exactly what happened to me, when I was 16 and he was 25 and he was my art teacher. We dated for 2 years as well! But I have never looked back on it and thought it was wrong... I think sometimes it just happens, I looked and acted much more mature for my age, could easily pass for 18+ or older. Now I am 26 and he is 35 and we are still good friend and occasionally meet up to hang out, and he has only ever dated older people since me. I was a one-off situation and it was never his intention to take advantage of me. I can however see why it might appear that way to others, but I feel like every situation is different based on the person and their intentions.
Teacher: *doing roll call* Teacher: “Hailey?” Hailey: *moans* “my name sounds so beautiful coming from your lipssssss” Teacher: “please go to the principals office, I’ll be calling your parents.”
EK Dav before i read your comment i thought it was just an aesthetic for woodsy tree nymphs, flowing tulle dresses and flowers and vines and stuff, yikes 🥴
As an educator, I *mildly* expressed my disgust of this community on Tumblr and was met with a barage of threats and insults for several MONTHS. The *only* positive feedback was from other educators who use Tumblr for correspondence. Kids: We don't want you. We don't even want to know that you want us. Part of growing up is dealing with rejection and the social reality that a teacher dating a student is just inappropriate. Be healthy and explore the dating scene among your *peers* Thanks
HrhMk I’m so fucking sorry you had to go through that. Just the thought of dating any of my professors/teachers (I go to high school and college) disgust me entirely. I hope that you are having a better tumblr experience these days. Tumblr is really only good for shitty meme videos and pics and basically everything else is super incredibly toxic
HrhMk Sorry to hear about your threats. That just sounds awful. I mean there’s looking up to someone in admiration and respect for their wealth of knowledge (which was the relationship with most of my favorite teachers). But then there’s this. Having a little crush on a teacher is one thing (and it was easy to tell who had them because they always asked the teacher stupid questions and would giggle like an idiot). But then there’s going to stalker levels of creepy.
One thing to be attracted to a teacher while realizing that you should never act on that... another thing to make a blog and actively work to be with an authority figure
But are really people taking it seriously? I am in the TC community and I have a crush on my teacher (I’m on my fourth year of college btw) and I vent on this tag because I think it’s funny…..Not because I actually consider anything with him. It’s a fantasy, I thought everybody on the tag was like that
Melanies song ’Teachers Pet’ highlights how these relationships are toxic, and how you regret them in the future. These girls definitively dont know that
I was literally thinking of that song, and really wanna listen to it now, cause oh boy, is it relatable when you had a crush on your teacher that you had to get over.
A lot of people use this song as a teacher crush anthem when it’s literally about how toxic that kind of relationship is and how you shouldn’t engage in that
I had an attractive, young teacher my senior year of HS and I think it’s normal to be a little attracted to them. But to full blown FANTASIZE about them? Imagine a relationship with them? Genuinely want to be with them? That’s unhealthy and obsessive and creepy. Not to mention illegal and inappropriate.
alize0623 I agree. I actually have a teacher rn who I think its pretty attractive, but its more of just a "oh, you're an attractive person" sort of thing, not a "omg! I have a crush on you". Its completely natural to find some people that are older than you attractive. I mean, lots of girls would usually have posters of famous guys on their bedroom walls because they find them attractive, or like something about them. But to be completely sexually and romantically attracted to them is just wrong. One person here posted a comment about how someone in their school wrote a fan fiction about doing it with a teacher, and the school found out. Apparently the guy almost lost his job because of that girl writing a messed up fan fiction about him. I just realised how long this comment was 😂 I apologize.
pinkbotany ya, I think its alright as long as its just a slight sort of "you're attractive" thing and not a messed up crush that you're going to act upon.
In reality, teachers (unless they're horrible) look at their students as nothing more than kids D: You could be 17 turning 18, and I would still see them as a kid, it's a lil creepy that kids look at their teachers like that
Not necessarily creepy but I'll admit it is odd about romanticizing it, a fantasy such as that is only alright until you wish for it to be true. Tho for the most part it's virtually harmless
i knew about a teacher who actually married a cheerleader at our school. ppl already suspected there was something going on. though he waited till she was 18 obviously. all in all its fucking gross imo
Starbeam please don’t think all teacher crushes mean the student wants to ‘do it’ with their crush. I know this from personal experience be honest you’ve had an innocent non sexual crush on an adult when you were a kid
As someone who started teaching when I was 22, I was shocked (and creeped-out) by how bold some of the young women were. They will straight-up ask you out in the middle of class and it's very awkward. Part of me wants to look older sooner just to stop that from happening
Honestly, I think I would make a good teacher (idk for sure but whatever) but this is the one thing that puts teaching low on my list of jobs I’d want. I’d be so scared that this would happen literally all the time, and my students would probably think I was an anxious mess :’)
The thought of you, a piece of fucking garbage that whines about video games not giving you titties that you feel somehow entitled to, who spreads rampant misinformation, teaching you people fucking terrifies me beyond measure.
@@Cdr2002 Do me a favor and please don't clutch your pearls too hard. I wouldn't want you to bruise your hands because then you won't be able to whine online anymore. Which is how every productive and rational person spends their time.
Damn, this just threw me back to high school when we got a freshly graduated history teacher, must've been about the same age as you. She was decently pretty as far as I remember, so all of the guys loved her, very vocally, right to her face. But the worst thing was that SHE FLIRTED BACK. I believe it was only ever light-hearted, but it was still weird as hell, and she wasn't exactly well-respected amongst the girls. If she'd been a guy there was no way that shit would fly.
I'm not gonna lie. My gay ass had a huge crush on my health class instructor, but I couldn't imagine ever thinking about the possibility of a relationship with him. I can see where they're coming from: being attracted to an authority figure like a teacher, but they take it way too goddamn far.
@@OjaZack I had two. One was an ex navy asshole that was rumored to watch our asses jiggle as we work out The other is a big woman with nice glasses and was also the 8th grade math teacher
I've had some crushes on teachers, but it wasn't like I was ever having sexual fantasy stuff about them. It wasn't like I was daydreaming about relationships with them. Fuck.
When I was 9, my then teacher was such a sweetheart. I mean that in a... Not sexual way. Like, he was just so nice. He was a gentle giant. Anyways, long story short, one day I said "I want to own a lizard with you." (I was a weird kid) The next day he had a lizard in a tank and showed me it. It was so fucking nice and cool. The lizard is still alive and retired with him. I still talk to him, he's became kinda a mentor I guess? Like a tutor? He's prepping me for high school math which I thank him for. He and my mom are friends actually. And before you go apeshit, I HAVE NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON HIM. LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD ME HAD A CRUSH ON MY BEST FRIEND (lol lesbian problems). HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME. IT WAS JUST A TEACHER GETTING ALONG WITH A MENTALLY CHALLENGED CHILD. He has always been so kind to me. Even when we first met, he didn't belittle me for my hf autism. He just believed in me. He helped me go through elementary school when my bullying got at its worse. I respect him for that.
This is so cute OMG. As someone who has high functioning autism (which went undiagnosed til well after I finished high school), I wish I'd had a teacher be that willing to bond with me and not judge me for it. I'm glad you all got to continue your friendship (I guess that's what it is?) with him beyond school because he sounds awesome.
I remember having a crush on my teacher, who at that time was 24 and I was 18, but he was engaged and y'know, it was something so unrealistic, I just stopped paying attention with it. It was there, I knew it, I ignored it. That was it. Funnily enough, towards graduation, cause he was our substitute for the last 4-5 months of our final year, he became sort of my best friend. Y'know these teachers designated to be there for students and students can come and talk to them for help for basically anything? He was one of them, so I used to go to him with my family issues, still living at home and all, it endagered me passing my finals. Dude even took his time to drive me to my "boyfriend" whilst we were having a massive fight cause I was terrified of going alone. Obv, it was outside of school times, but he helped me cause he knew my mental issues and whatnot. Broke up with that boyfriend and felt better than ever. Even now, 2 years after I've graduated, I sometimes go to my old school to meet up with him, talk about how my life at home is improving and all and check on my old school. He's like, a dad to me now. A best friend. Someone outside of all my issues who can give me a clear opinion if I need it. It's great. He's a great person and unsurprisingly, the school's favorite teacher. I'm so happy for his new class that they have him, 'cause I know how great of a teacher and person he is! Also fun fact: He married my music teacher this year - they're adorable together and make literally the cutest pair. Plus both were my favorite teachers in school! Wishing them well. :)
I think there's a time in your life (some people) where you think every non-family relationship has to be romantic. Idk if it's the inundation of main character romances in books and movies or what but I've noticed this a few times in people's life stories.
Kemerald Exactly, like I think most people have a crush on a teacher once or twice but most people also know that it’s not something they should pursue
One of my students was reading the Twilight books for SSR. Room completely SILENT. She literally shouts "FUCKING WHAT" and throws the book like it was on fire. At the time I hadn't read any or even knew what was in them and kids tend to bring their own books from home. So she explains she's sorry for swearing but she couldn't deal and shows me the passage where he's like "Oh awesome I'm a life mate with your daughter that's been born that's chill" We mutually agreed she could just avoid the book talk at the end of the week.
My new history teacher at the high school is super young, 26. One of the male friends in my friend group who is bi has a HUGE crush on him. He won’t shut up about it. He even made a him x teacher Pinterest board and shared it to the group chat. To put it lightly there was a lot of bondage and other BDSM. He just turned 18 and has his first class with him. I feel so bad for the teacher. Edit, 1 year later since this is still getting replies: My friend has since graduated, he never acted on it, and the teacher never found out :)
One girl in my highschool (freshman year) had a crush on a teacher and she wrote him a love letter and gave it to him. she wasn’t allowed in his classroom anymore
That whole situation is C R I N G E. The embarrassment. Imagine explaining that to your guardians/parents. And if it's in high school imagine the weird vibe that would surround that persons relationships with any teacher for the next couple of years.
"you make me overthink everything you do. You also make me overthink everything I do. I think I just overthink a lot when it comes to you." Sounds like me analyzing every move my teacher makes during a test to deduce from body language if I've messed up
They stand around you too long - they believe you are about to mess up, but you can prove em wrong. Light scoff- you made a mistake, so pick your next best choice. Light chuckle - You made a big mistake, change choices even if you have no idea what the answer is. Light sigh with shoulders a bit drooped - okay, there is a pretty high chance you might fail this but if you keep going I'm sure you'll do good. And, besides, a 50 is not that bad. They walk away shaking their head - ask to use the bathroom and go cry about what a massive failure you are and how even if you do good on this, your parents will still pay no attention to you and will still prefer Jason over you. Fuck you, Jason.
"Oh shit, they're looking straight at me... they know I'm fucking cheating don't they?? But what gave me away??? Did they see the notes inside my pencil case, the ones written on on the edge of my desk or the one I'm sitting on right now!? Oh god oh fuck oh shit oh fuck."
There was one teacher at my school when I was like 12 and almost every girl had a crush on him because he was in his early twenties and was somewhat attractive. The worst part is that he knew the girls liked him and was super cocky about it so he would always flirt with them and it was so uncomfortable to watch. Like he would always flirt with one of my friends in particular who hit puberty at like age 9 so she was definitely more developed than the rest of our year group but she loved the attention he gave her, and it genuinely was so gross to see an adult act that way.
@@mme.veronica735 oh it was super wrong. I don't think it's because he had any interest in any of the girls, it seemed more as if he just liked the ego boost that came from all these girls idolizing him which is still weird in it's own right. He actually started dating an ex student after she became an assistant at the school when she was like 20, which again kinda rubbed me the wrong way but they were both consenting adults at that point so
That's disgusting... I hope to become a teacher and it's just so uncomfortable to think about people half my age crushing on me, so to actually flirt back just makes me wanna vomit tbh
@@lieutenantlemons2260 honestly all the other teachers would joke about him being a flirt. Like I said I don't think he was necessarily predatory or anything, he just had an ego. Like it's still super fucked up, but it seemed like he just enjoyed the attention, especially since he always tried to be the young chill teacher so the guys all loved him too.
Child of two teachers (mom's 2nd grade, dad's middle school Spanish). They do complain about students a lot. I can honestly say that I don't think there are too many that they ever disliked to the point of not wanting them in their classes however. I think that's the case for most teachers.
True. In all fairness, about half the shittalking is about parents as well. Really, in many cases the parent is as much to blame as the child. I've had kids that misbehave and run wild...and later find out that Mom doesn't discipline or believe in saying "no" at home, so he gets to act however he wants there. Plus another common extreme...the helicopter parents. Oh god, the helicopter parents. On the flip side, there are loads of great parents that cooperate and my profession is one where you see enough cute/well-behaved kids to get baby fever at least twice a week.
sksksks i wanna be a teacher for highschool and i have no idea what the fuCK id do if someone my own age right now, 16, wanted a relationship and obsessed over adult me. i mean just entirely having a blog for someone is creepy as fuck!!!! the fact that the person is in a position of power is worse and then the cherry on top is the age gap even if its late teens and early 20s what the fuck man?? the maturity gap also
We had this one teacher that got together with a 17 year old girl. He was fired, but they ended up getting married (we found that out because their wedding pic was literally his profile one). So... he is a priest now
Lol this reminds me of this interaction my friend told me about between this chick and a teacher who a lot of students were crushing on where the chick walked up to him and said "I'm 18 now 😏" and he completely shut her down with "you're disgusting".
The only time I am okay with the “teacher crush” is when someone writes a fan fiction about a college kid dating their 20 something professor...cause adults 😂
Yess that's how my parents were. My mom had a crush her crazy, passionate, and weird teacher in college and woop what do ya know they started dating and a few years later they got married and I came along
Oh man, in eighth grade we'd gotten a younger teacher, like this was his first teaching job and the poor man was not prepared for the several girls in class not only having crushes on him but in no way being subtle about it. His desk started out just kinda to the side of the classroom and by midyear he'd made it into a barricaded fortress because we'll, this is the south so these girls had been raised on the concept that chasing a man was okay and age gaps meant nothing. The few of us girls without crushes tried to run interference and by the end of the year he had one of the female teachers sitting in on classes. I have never seen a grown man look so hunted.
that's so fucked up, holy shit. the thing is, it would be perceived as so much worse if it were the other way around but it doesn't change that the guy probably felt so helpless and EXTREMELY uncomfortable. ewwwwwwwwww.
I’ve had teacher crushes when I was younger, its a normal thing a lot of students can experience, but i’ve never creepily obsessed or write weird “AU’s” about them.
When I was a kid I have always have that weird imagination where me and my teacher go play with each in the park or imagining them as my mother or big sister since some of them were young.
I mean yeah, but I didn't want them to like me back. It was sorta like me just looking up to him to a point that I wanted validation from him (nothing inappropriate). Sorts like a big brother type thing? I don't think it was completely romantic
My older brother is becoming a teacher and the idea of a girl half his age crushing on him and writing this obsessive stuff honestly grosses me out so much (it repels him too, he feels sick just thinking about it.) These kids in the TCC honestly don't know what they're talking about and just trying to act older than they really are.
cherub a I didn't necessarily mean that a small tiny crush was bad, but the TCC is full of young impressionable kids who write those obsessive posts and could potentially be taken advantage of.
Some kids have this hero worship of their teachers (or of much older celebrities, etc.) and can't really distinguish the two., especially if they don't have these figures in their home lives. But congratulations to your brother!
I think the biggest problem with that it gives space to teachers that actually want to abuse their students. It gives room for inappropriate touches that these kids won't see anything wrong with it, and even actual abuse.
It also creates a space where a student being abused and trying to open up to a peer about it might get hit with one of those awful “if I was in your situation, I’d have liked it” or “you should be grateful”.
Yeah i had an innocent crush on my english teacher in junior high. I knew it could never go anywhere, and tbh i didnt want it to go anywhere. I knew i was a child and he was an adult and it would be horrible innapropriate if something were to happen. I just enjoyed getting butterflies in my stomach during his classes. It never distracted me from school or the subject he was teaching either so i'd say it was healthy.
@@goyjin5676 literally me in chemistry tbh >< I was lowkey a puddle sometimes, and even though he was pretty young (17 me and 22 him if I remember right.) it still would've been massively inappropriate and unbalanced no matter what.
I think its a lil funny bc imagine a 14 year old girl obsessing over a teacher who is only nice to her bc shes a student and she has good grades, but he actually finds her super annoying bc she's always bugging him "i need help with this" , "can i come in after class for help?" "How was your day?" And the teacher just wants her to stfu. sorry i just started thinking about this thats hilarious
The big issue with any age gap relationship is the power imbalance. financial/ social/ sexual. It can lead to some pretty messed up situations. Hell if the age gap is big enough, most will assume their is some kind of exploitation happening. I want to give adult couples the benefit of the doubt, but some people are good at hiding that kind of abuse :/ * I'm sure some gap relations work out, but I've personally never seen it happen.
I don't have an issue with ages gaps in relationships, IF both parties involved are mature and responsible grown adults that know what they're getting into with that commitment. I agree that some relationships can appear very predatory, and it's kind of worrisome that someone older would be taking advantage of a younger adult. It's really not my place to tell people what they can and can't do in relationships or to get involved at all, what you do is only your business. But personally I would be a little concerned about a 20yo in a relationship with like a 35-40yo- because people who are 20 are barely more than teenagers, they may not know what they're doing or be mature enough to handle a relationship like that and make smart decisions. While a 30-35yo with a 45-50 year old, I maybe wouldn't be quite as worried about- it depends on the specific relationship, but I think that once they become an established and mentally grown adult with experience they would be able to handle themselves and know if the situation was becoming toxic or predatory.
I think healthy age gap relationships can work if everyone involved is at the same place in their lives, but that's a fairly unlikely "if" - ie, a 35 y/o might be looking to settle down and have kids, but their 25 y/o partner might be starting a new career or saving money to explore the world. People tend to want different things as they get older, and that can erode even a perfectly healthy age gap relationship over time.
@Annabelle MacDonald Oh! I have a great example... My step-mom and father have a gap of 11 years and it's alarming to some, but rest assured that they met when she was a mature adult and they did date for a while before marriage. Their relationship is actually really well balanced and my father has become a much happier and better person through it. I greatly appreciate my step-mom being in my life because both of my biological parents were abusive in the past, and she also had a rough childhood and is a really good listener. She's also rather learned in mental health(having dealt with it personally) and has helped me, as well as my father and younger brother, learn about our ADHD, coping mechanisms, and we're now diagnosed and better off. I know that there are lots of examples of bad turn-outs with age-gap relationships, but this is a time where it made both people happier. C:
@@chaos9364 Your step-mom sounds like a awesome lady. I'm happy you have parents with a healthy relationship. Honestly the world would be amazing if we all had better role models. Thank you for sharing.
So I'm a senior and I've been experiencing the multitude of crushes on this poor teacher for 4 years now. One teacher at my school is pretty young, 26 and I feel so bad for him when all the sophomores and juniors (some freshmen and seniors, but not as much) flirt with him, stare at him and/or try to get close with him. You can see his uneasiness, but he doesn't wanna shame the girls so he tries to get out of the situation or be direct with them on why he can not date them. He has a girlfriend and the girls in my school r actually full on jealous of her and I can't wrap my head around it. Sure he's nice and he's younger then most teachers at the school, but fuck. Control your hormones, he's not interested.
Oh god I watched a teacher like that have such an awkward exchange once. Innocently he told a sophomore girl he liked her tshirt because it had some pop culture thing on it that he was a fan of, she said something like "thanks you're cute too, I like your butt" and he just had the biggest *NOPE* expression on his face and then walked completely backwards across the classroom to his desk and was silent for the rest of the period. For the record she would say stuff like that to everyone on the planet. I later went to that teacher's wedding (long story) and the ordained minister in his speech mentioned that the teacher and his now wife had been together for seven years and that they hadn't even kissed in that time.
they're teenagers, this is likely the first time they're experiencing these things. they're also too stupid and naive to handle the situation appropriately. fact is, teens get this all the time cause well yeah their hormones are out of control and they're young and dumb. the onus is on the adult in the situation to handle it approrpiately.
This is why I understand students crushing on teachers (even though I never had one), you're either in the phase where "you want to marry everyone" or you can't control yourself because of hormones. Putting "control" and "hormones" in the same paragraph as "teens" is also an oxymoron, they can't help it more than we could at that age because we had no idea what was going on.
I believe having a small crush on an older person when your a kid is normal but anything beyond having a crush like pursuing it is not okay under any circumstances EDIT:also obsessing over it and thinking your teacher could date you(i know it's technically possible but it's illegal)
exactly! crushing on an older person bc they're more mature and seem a little more mysterious or bc you're just subconsciously curious is totally age-appropriate! pursuance and/or obsession are not lmao
I never had a crush on an older person. I liked the same girl from the moment I met her when we were 13 until the night we graduated highschool and she ghosted me
I had a crush on my piano teacher, who was about 23 or 24 and I was 17. I thought she was gorgeous and kind and all but I knew it would never be more than a puppy crush and that was fine. Like you said it’s fine and actually fairly normal but you also have to know it’s not appropriate and won’t happen
I honestly never understood how people could read stories/fanfics with "y/n"(or in this case the words "your name") appearing often in them. Like, how can you be immersed in that? Not to mention, a lot of the times it's written like:"y/n, come look at this","y/n, I like you", "y/n this" "y/n that" like, normal people don't address you with your name *every* time they want to say something to you lmao.
@@Robin-234 i did read y/n fic when i was a child and tbh i never substituted my name in because i always forgot so i always pronounced it "why en" idk if this was a universal experience tho
we have three gym teachers, two of them are like those cool uncles who would tkae you to the movies and the other one is basically the political aunt you always avoid
i've never hated a teacher (i can say they're annoying but unless they were genuinley unfair and scummy i didnt hate them) but i didnt love a teacher either, except for one teacher, she was our english teacher and i was very good at her subject so shed sometimes act casual with me but i saw her as a big sister.
Same I actually called one a stupid bitch and had to go home for it that day I told my family that and they pretended to be mad but the second it was just us we all laughed
We actually had a gym-teacher that constantly tried to hook up with students. He had a rumour around the school that he even got fired from his last job because he had a ”relationship” with a student who was only 16 years old. Now, this man wasn’t exactly OLD so when he hit on 19-year olds it wasn’t really a big deal since he was like 30. But the fact that he constantly tried to get laid with STUDENTS (he hit on multiple of my friends, inviting them to events outside school) was just really fucking weird
Married to a High School teacher. Can confirm: (non-predatory) teacher thinks of you as a CHILD. Even if you're 16, and you're like "I'm a teenager not a child!" Not to your teacher. Sorry. They're like your dad. They don't even want to think very much about you dating EACH OTHER, nevermind date you themselves. It's uncomfortable, as it should be, you're CHILDREN.
One of my six graders is trying to date another one of my sixth graders by showing off how good he is at math and she's helping him with his English and during break time they draw llamas together and make superhero comics - if they weren't shipping themselves I'd so ship it. But, of course, that all comes from the category of this being sincerely one of the more pure things I've ever seen. Outside from the "WORLD IS ENDING!" part I think the pre-dating that my kids do is okay; mostly negotiating who buys who chips leaning on each other whenever they're allowed. Navigating the social dynamics of breakups, who you like, how you show it, how you get over it... it's hugely important (because it's my life goal to never see a student of mine on a toxic incel community post)
Ahh true. And to be fair... I had a student once begin to speculate for whether their older brother (a former student of mine) was still a virgin to his friends and it was the most horrifying 30 seconds of my teaching career thus far.
Lol. NO!!! God No. Married to *A* High School Teacher. Definitely not mine. I'm 9 months older than my husband and we didn't meet till we were both at University together and were BOTH STUDENTS. God no. NO. That would be so wrong. When hubby taught at a boarding school, we lived there in like, a little mother-in-law house attached to a boys dorm. "House Parents." I'm sure some of them were objectively attractive, particularly to girls their own age, but I couldn't tell you which ones, because they were "my boys" as in "my children," as in "oh my boys are all getting good grades, I'm so proud." Hell, one of them was 19. Still a child to me. Our "responsible older brother" child who could be left to look after the others sometimes (according to the rules too, because he was our house Prefect) but a CHILD to me. They were in our care. "No girls upstairs" was a big rule. You want to have a lady friend over, you had better be hanging out with her in the COMMON ROOM. There was ONE kid I didn't really think of as a child, and that was because he had these drag-out screaming verbally abusive calls to his long distance girlfriend about what he was entitled to "as a man" and refused to mind me because I was a woman and honestly all I could think was "we need to do something about this abusive misogynist asshat before he goes off to college and becomes a campus rapist." Fear that you're going to commit a very adult crime is not the reason you want your teacher to stop thinking of you as a child.
honestly the Teacher Crush Community and True Crime Community using the same tag is ICONIC!!! i mean it makes a lot of sense if you think about it. if a teacher actually did do anything like that with a student it would truly be a crime, so it makes a lot of sense to lump them together in the same tag! 💀
I lost myself staring deep into the dark depths of her chocolate orbs. Her piercing gaze lingered and I could feel it like a gentle touch upon my soul.
My friend had a crush on our language arts teacher in 8th grade. She’s over it now but I was in hell for a year. Her: “It’s just not socially acceptable [for them to be together]” Me: “NO, IT’S ILLEGAL”
this is a weird one because i think it's pretty normal for teenage kids (essentially little bags of hormones) to start feeling attraction and it tends to just get placed on the nearest reasonably attractive person. it makes sense that this could easily be someone you see everyday like a teacher, who is more mature than the relativley immature kids your age. on top of that, attraction to authority figures speaks volumes about your previous relationships/interactions with authority (i.e. your parents) which is why most of these kids will feel they have 'mommy' or 'daddy issues'. used in quotes because this ranges from absent parents to genuine abuse. as long as these kids aren't actively looking to date older people, leaving them vulnerable to predators, many will grow out of these attractions in their own time. kids are kids. as long as its not the teachers initiating these crushes, its not really harmful. i think the harmful things is the communities like the tcc tag where alot of people bounce their emotions around and things can get warped. ive seen abused kids start beliveing that abuser 'loves' them because they think posts about age gap relationships being ok applies to them. kids still need to be taught about healthy relationships. sure it makes a whole lot of us feel genuinely uncomfortable because we see it from an adult perspective, but these kids are just trying to figure out alot *sorry for this absolute unit of a wall but its just an opinion
What really makes me uncomfortable about this is that I used to have the biggest crush on my drama teacher. My EX drama teacher, I should say. He was entirely kind to me and was closer to me than what is appropriate between a student and a teacher, and this was probably extremely noticeable to literally anyone. He always said that when I graduated, we'd travel together. I didn't even notice how inappropriate this was because he was the only friend I had at that school, so I fell head over heels for him. Recently, he got arrested for sexually grooming a number of underage female students. TLDR; if a teacher is super close to you for no apparent reason, don't be a big stupidhead about it
I've never had a crush on a teacher :/ I've always thought of them as parental figures. Once a tutor/teacher of mine lived near-by, so she would bring me coloring books :D
@@emanatingauras4017 same! my old preschool teacher comes to my school a lot (my school is pre-k - 8th) and it's like seeing a family member you haven't seen in a while
When I first started highschool (I'm 13 yrd old) someone started a rumor about me that I have a crush with my teacher who I'm friends with (kinda? Idk, we're close tho). That rumor just died but after that, my teacher doesn't want to speak to me anymore outside class. Thank you, whoever you are for destroying my relationship to a supposed-to-be parental father figure.
Take it from an Old Person - it's fine to have a crush but don't try to act on it. At best, your teacher will reject you (as they should) and it will be awkward. If your teacher is into you? Either you will have a horrible breakup of some kind, such as being transferred to another class, or you'll end up in a really unequal, unsafe relationship. It seems like it'll be fine at the time. It will never be fine. Fantasies and reality need to stay separate!
There's also the possibility that the teacher will be arrested on a statutory rape charge and you'll both end up on the local news. So, bad times all around.
One of my teachers actually married one of his students when she was of age and they have like 7 kids There’s like a 22-year age gap between them or something edit: their youngest kid is in 8th grade and the teacher is like 70 it gives me the creeps
Oh God. In my elementary school the principal dated & married this super young teacher that started right out of college and that already made me literally nauseous.
Lavan Volkov okay morally (to be a teacher with a crush on a student) but very unhealthy and abnormal - maybe a bit different if you’re a college professor or something and you’re closer in age and they’re not a minor, but still not something to indulge in even in fantasy
i see them more as? weird relatives *math teacher* is my kinda annoying cousin *theatre teacher* is my second mom *history teacher* is my strict uncle *orchestra teacher* is my funky cousin *english teacher* is my meme loving aunt *science teacher* is my fun uncle and when you think about it like that, its even MORE not ok to have crushes on your school extended family :^)
Ooh I wanna do that too for my old high school teachers 🤣🤣 *English teacher* is like my grandma *Afrikaans teacher* is like a weird uncle *maths teacher* is a distant cousin who I have no emotional connection to *History teacher* is my grandpa *Business teacher* is a Pervy uncle that cracks dumb jokes *economics teacher* is a bipolar aunt - mother's sister definitely
Same. My 12th grade English teacher was like an older sister. My chorus teacher was like the homophobic aunt, my art and Spanish teachers were the drunk aunts that had wild stories.
Fawn Queeen i feel like my history teacher is my toddler that I have to protect from the world😂 this guy is not ready for adulthood and is just a child in the body of an older man😂
hello i am aro ace there are so many of us (including aros but not aces and aces but not aros and anyone under the umbrella) on the internet but none irl )': lol
i mean, does anyone else view their fave teachers as parental figures rather than crushes? my math teacher is more like a funky uncle than a crush..
Same here
pinkbotany My favorite teacher is like a cool older brother to me lol
Yeet
Yeah pretty much all my favorite teachers were like cool aunts and uncles.
Yessssssss
It's not uncommon for a student, especially a minor, to develop a crush on a teacher, and it's not like you can stop those feelings from developing. It really only becomes an issue when they become overly vocal about it and/or have deluded themselves into thinking that the teacher likes them back and that the hypothetical relationship between them would be healthy.
And also when the teacher, an ADULT, reciprocates those feelings
LANCE!
I agree. Everyone has had a crush that they know wouldn’t be appropriate whether it’s age or things about the person. And you can still like someone. My friends (I’m in high school) literally thought that I was crazy by thinking it was normal that my bf liked me and someone else. He was dating her and he dated me before her. He liked us both but he chose me because I was supportive and told him it was normal. He felt so bad like he was betraying her because of feelings he couldn’t control and she flipped on him. We have broken up but that is not important.
They thought I was being a push over until I explained. You can’t control if you think someone is hot or if you have a crush. The important thing is your with the person you want to be with and that you know what who you want out of the people you like
Daniella Sosa a lot
I’m not gay, but Ah a I see you’re human of culture as well
I'm 15, I have a crush on one of my teachers, and I goddamn HOPE she doesn't feel the same way. Like, she's pretty and cool but she's a goddamn adult and I'm not about that life.
exactly. ive had multiple little teacher crushes but i never wanted them to be real
Reblog.
I never had a crush on a teacher, but my school's choir teacher is really pretty and nice.
But I would NOT like her to look at me the same way.
That's gross.
Humans are attracted to either people in their age range or maturity.
So yes, it's normal for kids to have crushes on adults. However, it's biologically and morally wrong for it to be the other way around.
A lot of students have teacher crushes, but nobody wants to actually have a relationship with a teacher
I’ve had crushes on my teachers but it would be a nightmare if they reciprocated
"Age is just a number!!"
" _P r i s o n i s j u s t a b u i l d i n g_ "
snapping a neck is just an action
The guillotine is just a machine.
@@kaga.mine. it isn’t murder I just stabbed him repeatedly
The eletric chair is just a chair
Dropping the soap is just a little accident
why can't these poor kids just be normal and just write fanfics starring OCs that just happen to be eerily similar to people they know
It's better.
you used the word just 3 times in one sentence
This is scarily accurate to what I did as a kid I’m-
I agree with this
tbh? MUCH better than crushing on adults
i cant even imagine how weird it would be to find one of your students' blogs or notes about all the sexual things they would do to you....gross
My skin was crawling in sympathy for those poor men.
Anyone else notice the “TC” community is almost entirely very young girls? I feel disgusted even reading most of this I couldn’t imagine finding some about you..
lmao the only time i had a crush on a teacher I never imagined anything sexual with him. maybe something is wrong with me?welp lol
@@maggotsfeast3897 not at all, actually, you're part of the norm
@@cocoabeanz6171 oh, you actually make my day better? thanks brosky :b
“Your soulmate isn’t even born yet 🙈😍💕✨”
Did Onision write this quote???
Onion boy*
A creep named Greg*
UA-cam psychobrat*
I almost disliked this out of disgust until I remembered you quoted this
Oml I refuse to sing the banana song because Onision wrote it -.-
Teacher Crush Community: Uses TCC abbreviation
Texas Community College: *Concerned/Distressed detective Pikachu*
“yyyYEEEEEE HAAAAWW WE’RE IN DANGER-“
oh boy
As a texan I am losing my shit over this
@@FiSH-iSH why must you speak of my accursed old name
@@yahairagarcia7208 same
The teacher crush community and the true crime community being the same abbreviation tbh gives me life.
this put me in tears i-
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crushing on ur serial killer teacher
when they write "I dream of having a man like him one day #TC" I just don't know what to think.
But it's very wrong either way. Just two different, parallel levels of wrongness.
@@KPater-mf4je That quote made me cringe. What I hate about the "true crime community" is that they're actually the "murderer crush community". As someone who is interested in true crime (for the psychological aspect of it) I hate that I can't bring it up without people assuming I want to fuck a killer
Both communities are equally worse
"She doesn't exist yet"
Oh my god I'm puking
My god this one was so terrible I want to die
It was fine until that very sentence.
my dad is 13 years older than my step mom so like that kinda be applying to my parent tho😂👀
Spooky I’m hoping, that the narrator is talking to a child, like a four/five year old but I know that I just really don’t want the real theme to exist
@@beanzrgross2648 same except 12
in middle school one of my “friends” was going through a Lana Del Ray daddy phase and constantly called a teacher daddy. It was very uncomfortable to watch that.
Lmao
why you gotta drag our queen Lana into that
Just pulled a neck muscle in the biggest involuntary cringe I’ve had in well over two years so yeah thanks for that.
@@Zealous_Delusional That sounds painful.
Sehe called him daddy to his face?!?!
WAIT WHY DID THE TEACHER IN THE IMAGINE HAVE EYES
THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO HAVE O R B S
I'm fucking-
*what?*
Banye west 2 Electric boogaloo fanfic terms, usually the eyes are called orbs as a way to be dramatic
@@musicinmymind623 oh??? I've never heard of that before. Thank you, that clears up allot!
@@musicinmymind623 You beat me to it lol, thanks though haha
@@musicinmymind623 yeah -_- I get so annoyed with that term because it doesn't mean eyes, so I have no idea why the term is even used. I literally click off a fanfic if I see orbs.
I wouldn't have a heart attack if my teacher asked to see me after class, I would have a panic attack.
I'd be annoyed cause that always happens with new teachers (have a problem where I can't talk in front of a class, but the grade you get for it can make up to 30% of your final grade,, rip)
Same in my mind its always like "wtf did i do wrong!?"
If I were to be asked to stay after class, I'd get so scared. Like I've developed a bit of anxiety because I'm always expected to have good grades so I get so scared if it sounds like I did something wrong D:
Same, they always want to talk to me about my anxiety but the stress of those talks make me even more anxious
literally me whenever i pick up my phone
My dad is a teacher.
His students have crushes on him, a married man with a daughter their age.
It's weird. It's so weird. Just stop.. same with my mom (who's also a teacher) where some of her students like her.
They don't like you.
They know you like them.
It's just weird for everyone.
HONESTLY. my friend's dad is a choir teacher and by god it's so awkward hearing the stories from them. my friend had a girl give them a note towards their father explaining their feelings and i don't think i've heard a more revolting or stupid idea.
That's daddy issues. Tell them that just because their daddy doesn't want them doesn't mean they can borrow yours jkjk
@@Larkin4840 My God! 🤣
Man, that must suck for you... :'( im sorry
I used to work as a substitute teacher. One HS girl had the worst crush on me. She was not a bad kid but God it was so
awkward. After she saw me out with my boyfriend, she wouldn't speak to me anymore. It was honestly a relief
It’s honestly disgusting, there is a male teacher at my high school and nearly every girl in the school flirts with him. AND THE DISGUSTING PART IS THAT HE DISCREETLY FLIRTS BACK 🤮🤮
*OH FUCK NO NO NO NO PLEASE GOD N O*
Tf- call 911 damn-
Tell the principal.
Wow, nooooo. Noo, that's a nooo.
I was going to like this comment but it’s at 68 and there’s no way in hell I’m making it 69
13 yo: "I'm a top XD"
Me: "The only thing you should be on top of is your homework and chores"
PERIODT
PERIODTTTTT
PERIODDTTTTTTTTT
I'm 13 and I approve this message
My friends act like that, I'm 13 and their all 12, we just make jokes about being a top or a bottom, but it's kinda awkward for me cause I just wanna cuddle my friends without talking about sex- something I'm planning on not doing EVER T~T
“Age is just a number”
*So is 911*
also, prison is just a place
edit: just saw your other comment, fuck lol
a human, duh lmao sorry 😂
OOOOOOOH-
so is a prison sentence
Fun fact “Age is just a number” used to be really wholesome. It was used when old couples did things that were considered childish, or wanted to get married, do “young people things” but it’s been perverted and it makes me sad.
_when I see my teacher in public, I literally run the other direction bc no_
shit I'm in college and this is still a mood
I saw my 5th grade teacher a few weeks ago and I SPLIT
Same I saw my old History/Geography teacher at work and I literally froze in fear because I knew I couldn’t run away or hide during a shift lmaoooo
I saw my teacher in a store a few years ago and even though she saw me I hid behind my mum so she couldn’t see me anymore 😂
I skipped school once and went to walmart and my mom saw the detention teacher and told me to keep my head down because school was happening. So she saw us and said hi and then said that she was "sick" too. I don't know how to feel. Scared? Happy? Idk!
"Today we are looking at the teacher crush community"
Me: The what now?
Cynthia Erune Welcome to tumblr; there’s a community for everything
Ashley Olsen THERE IS! I SWEAR I FIND A NEW ONE DAILY 😂😂
*YOU WHAT*
Better than the school shooter crush community
YOU HWAT
I saw a post on tumblr, it said:
“You’re an adult, they’re a child, you have to take responsibility as an adult, a guardian. The child may be naive, but you’re not.”
It was something among those lines. It was regarding Teacher crush things.
Gross. It shouldn't be someone else's fault for others' feelings. That's like telling the teachers to cover their whole body with a hazmat suit and use a computer generated voice for teaching kids.
@@Lunar_DeBrie I think their comment just meant that a teacher shouldn’t encourage a student’s crush or respond positively to it, not that the teacher should be covered in a hazmat suit all the time.
@@enjoyerofnonsense3392 facts
@@enjoyerofnonsense3392 I just ruined the 69 likes
I feel like a lot of TCC people are lacking affection so they want it wherever they can get it from. Sometimes having a particularly nice teacher that actually treats them like a person might just confuse them when they are in that vulnerable state. This is why i think a lot of kids grow out of it, they find friend groups, they find someone who is at their maturity level.
Preach!!!
Very this! I was an anxious, lonely kid in high school and had more than one "crush" on teachers that were kind to me. I think it's part of that developmental stage - teenagers pine for connection and understanding, and if their peers don't provide it, they latch onto adults that do.
This. I was raised in an emotionally depriving cult. Anytime anyone showed me common decency, I would lap that up and assume that they were romantically interested in me.
personally i was really depressed and my parents didn't pay attention to me so i found that in one of my teachers who used that against me and groomed me at 11-12 years old. i moved to a different school and started crushing on another male teacher who i hoped would be like the first, but he kept his distance and was very polite about it. i hope to god these tumblr users WON'T have their feelings reciprocated, even though i know how bad that hurts. i'm thankful to the second teacher for being normal.
@@zazhands8866 I’m glad that you are out of that situation. I’m also really thankful that second teacher was a decent person.
being a teenager myself it is disturbing to think that there are people my age being this worryingly dense
BeanBoone get used to it, idiots reproduce with their own. It compounds every generation.
Another teenager here, and yes I find this both curios and disgusting. How are these people able to survive.
This was me when I was a teenager. In a couple years, you'll realize that you were also an idiot... Just in a different way. We are all idiots.
Aquin I’m not a teenager I agree with you there. Teenage hood is like a hormonal haze as you advance into adulthood. It’s slowly fades as the tragedies of being alive take its toll.
I had a crush on a teacher once
In my peer taught class
‘That distinctly FanFiction style, you know what I mean.’
I do. I really hate it, but I do.
I threw my hair into a messy bun, put on eyeliner and black hightops, with an arctic monkeys shirt, and walked out the door. Suddenly I fell onto the concrete and into the sewers. I then saw Splinter, the rat from teenage mutant ninja turtles, staring at me. I looked into his sultry green orbs and met his piercing gaze. His face was in mine, merely inches apart. "I love you, Splinter" I said, and then he stabbed me with a wrench.
@@JMunny Perfect!
@@JMunny They had us in the first half.
@@JMunny That... that was beautiful. 😂😭👍
I used to write fanfic occasionally (it was dusgostangh) and had SO MANY friends that wrote it. Still comes out in formal essays of mine LMBO
Oh man my poor 7th grade teacher had 2 different girls write and draw NSFW things about them together two school years in a row. He almost got fired, even though none of it was his fault. He's still teaching, but I still feel bad for him.
That‘s terrible!
We also had one younger teacher a lot of the girls were openly lusting after and it felt terrible to me because I was worried for that poor guy‘s career. They were trying to ask him out on dates, posed in front of him seductively and whatnot...
...maybe Russia tolerates pornography different, thank god. I've never seen or heard about anything like this happen in my school.
@@combinemetrocop4213 I wouldn't be so sure about that bro... I've never heard of anything like this in the US, but here we are (tho it's probable it doesn't happen TOO much)
@@jamontoast7467 scratch that, most Russian teachers were born and educated in the Soviet Union where pedophiles experienced hell on earth
Damn I woulda just fucking quit
In high school, my psych teacher gave me 'special attention'... making small talk with only me in a class of 40, winking at me in class while teaching, asking me to do him favors like help him grade papers, clean his desk space after hours, etc. As a 16 year old with low self esteem, he was an absolute dream and I had the BIGGEST crush on him. Over time, his favors grew more and more inappropriate and isolated. At the time, I thought it was normal for teachers to treat students this way. It wasn't until now that I realized his method of treatment towards me was grooming.
Additionally, his coworker/friend/other teacher witnessed his attention towards me. I guess that signaled to this other teacher that it was okay to touch me inappropriately and pressure me to travel to another country with him.
When you are that young and vulnerable, you soak that attention up, especially with low self esteem. It is only now at 22 years old that I realize how incredibly inappropriate it was and how traumatic it was for me. I still have vivid dreams about both teachers.
All in all, just want to say that it isn't always the student's fault for having predisposed issues with parents/authority, which I suspect is usually the psychological root for teacher crushes. Unfortunately, there are predators that hold teaching positions that abuse and seek out these kids in these psychological situations.
Natalie Schopen Oh my god!! I hope that you’re okay now! That is so terrible and I hope you feel better after that terrible situation. Stay safe, boo. ☹️
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you're healing!
You are absolutely right, and I'm glad you got out of that situation. It isnt always the kids fault..sometimes teachers take advantage of teens who are still trying to figure themselves out. It's a little scary, but the biggest thing is just being aware of the situation, which in many cases, the student isnt. Being informed, it's very easy to recognize bad situations early before they get to toxic
Bullshit! Your just seeking attention and putty it was two nice guys who never crossed a line and you have nightmares? That's weak as fuck
You got Kricfalusi'd.
I don’t think I can handle the word “crave” being applied to anything other than food
who? I crave sleep
K r a v e. c h o c o l a t e. c e r e a l
i crave good art skills
I crave d e a t h
Now I want pizza.
I think most of these kids realize that they shouldn’t act on their feelings, and they’re just kinda expressing themselves on tumblr where it feels safe
Edit: this is the most amount of likes I have ever gotten on a comment wowzers thank you
i can promise you they aren't though lmao
on tumblr there is a whole community of 12-18 year olds who fetishize pedophilia and are in relationships with "maps".....It's....really bad on there right now
Rachel H Personally I don't think this is that unusual, in highschool (mid 80s) kids made the same comments from time to time. It was just the vast majority of teachers were not attractive enough to catch highschoolers eyes. Mostly though, I'm sure they just fantasized at home in their rooms. Here the difference is they have a platform to express openly that before was only done at home and talk at slumber parties.
@@erenrodriguez8768 What the hell? I need those urls, they should be reported.
YES THANK YOU
@@nyancat8655 just look up "minor supporting maps" on tumblr or look up "map" on tumblr. They typically claim to be non offending but consume cp so yes they are offending. If not offending, me and a few friends have gotten a few reported already
“That mini heart attack you get when he asks to see you after class” yeah I do that with any given teacher because *I DID SOMETHING WRONG DIDNT I PLEASE NO*
One person in the Teacher Crush Community at my high school had a huge thing for our choir teacher. And she wrote a sexy fan fiction on Wattpad about him and herself in his office getting it on on his couch. The school board found out about it and he got suspended for a few days while they investigated. It was discovered that the fan fiction was just fanfiction. But, it almost cost the guy his job, and cost my school a really chill, cool teacher. This community is actually quite harmful.
Name of fanfiction? Not saying I’m interested, just saying I wanna write so many comments about how fucking wrong it is, and because I came from your comment.
Why.did.you.do.that
The fanfic was deleted after the whole fiasco. The girl switched schools shortly after that.
If I were that teacher I would probably have curled up in a corner, died, and never gone near another child again. That's really shitty that her gross fantasies almost cost him his job.
Omg what the hell, that's disturbing and I know that person must be super embarrassed
You know what they say
Age is just a number
And jail is just a place
and hell is just a sauna
@@d3cayingdolly a really hot sauna
my fist is just a body part ya know
the electric chair is just a seat
And murder is just keeping us from overpopulating.
Just before I left school I spoke to one of my teachers and she told me that when she was a teen she dated a teacher for two years after leaving (at 16). She said that reflecting on that now as an adult she realized how wrong it was, especially as she now teaches children of the same age. She said she felt taken advantage of and even though she was consenting to the relationship at the time, if she could go back she would never have done it
when kids or teens "consent" to having sex with an adult they aren't really consenting, because they're (often) too young to fully know what they're getting into, and don't know the repercussions or the fact that it's wrong. especially when this person is some kind of authoritarian figure to them, like a teacher. they think this person knows best and that they should go along with what they say, because they don't have the knowledge to realise how wrong it really is. it's sad that there are so many disgusting people that would exploit and take advantage of people for their own sick needs like this, and i'm sorry that your teacher went through that. glad she told you though so that she can educate people on it, and prevent it from happening to others
That happened to me but online i was like 13 and this dude who was 20 or something was really sexual and shit with me and I didn’t think it was wrong and now looking back on it I regret the fuck out of it but I’m just thankful that it was online and not in real life. I remember him saying that he had gotten a gf and it turns out she was underaged too and shit god he was so creepy.
CandyAshes I’m so sorry that happened to you, I’m sure you know this but that’s not your wrong doing at all.
erin adolescents are young adults.
This is exactly what happened to me, when I was 16 and he was 25 and he was my art teacher. We dated for 2 years as well! But I have never looked back on it and thought it was wrong... I think sometimes it just happens, I looked and acted much more mature for my age, could easily pass for 18+ or older. Now I am 26 and he is 35 and we are still good friend and occasionally meet up to hang out, and he has only ever dated older people since me. I was a one-off situation and it was never his intention to take advantage of me. I can however see why it might appear that way to others, but I feel like every situation is different based on the person and their intentions.
Teacher: *doing roll call*
Teacher: “Hailey?”
Hailey: *moans* “my name sounds so beautiful coming from your lipssssss”
Teacher: “please go to the principals office, I’ll be calling your parents.”
EK Dav it would be a girl named Hailey
What is nymph aeshetic?? Also lmaooo this comment is gold
@@starrynight_reverie nymphette is an aesthetic based around looking youthful and pure in order to attract older men. It’s super creepy, actually.
@@emilydavis162 that sounds next level creepy I couldn't imagine
EK Dav before i read your comment i thought it was just an aesthetic for woodsy tree nymphs, flowing tulle dresses and flowers and vines and stuff, yikes 🥴
As an educator, I *mildly* expressed my disgust of this community on Tumblr and was met with a barage of threats and insults for several MONTHS.
The *only* positive feedback was from other educators who use Tumblr for correspondence.
Kids: We don't want you. We don't even want to know that you want us. Part of growing up is dealing with rejection and the social reality that a teacher dating a student is just inappropriate. Be healthy and explore the dating scene among your *peers*
Thanks
HrhMk I’m so fucking sorry you had to go through that. Just the thought of dating any of my professors/teachers (I go to high school and college) disgust me entirely. I hope that you are having a better tumblr experience these days. Tumblr is really only good for shitty meme videos and pics and basically everything else is super incredibly toxic
HrhMk Sorry to hear about your threats. That just sounds awful. I mean there’s looking up to someone in admiration and respect for their wealth of knowledge (which was the relationship with most of my favorite teachers). But then there’s this. Having a little crush on a teacher is one thing (and it was easy to tell who had them because they always asked the teacher stupid questions and would giggle like an idiot). But then there’s going to stalker levels of creepy.
Tumblr is absolutely cancerous.
Aaliyah K. E. Which response are you talking about? The one above your comment?
@@epicjoyfulcreations4580 No, I was talking about the "hate" the original commenter received from Tumblr. Apologies for the confusion.
Beginning of video: "aw it's kinda cute, just kids with crushes"
Halfway through: "Okay nevermind"
My guy, 1:55 in and i’m already uncomfy
@@senorsombrero1275 okay to be fair I was a little barred out
im not that far in yet and im scared
One thing to be attracted to a teacher while realizing that you should never act on that... another thing to make a blog and actively work to be with an authority figure
true but a lot of the community does not want to get with their crushes, they just use it as a vent
@@nal3901 yes, but it's not a lil crush, it's a full unhealthy thing
But are really people taking it seriously? I am in the TC community and I have a crush on my teacher (I’m on my fourth year of college btw) and I vent on this tag because I think it’s funny…..Not because I actually consider anything with him.
It’s a fantasy, I thought everybody on the tag was like that
Melanies song ’Teachers Pet’ highlights how these relationships are toxic, and how you regret them in the future. These girls definitively dont know that
I was literally thinking of that song, and really wanna listen to it now, cause oh boy, is it relatable when you had a crush on your teacher that you had to get over.
A lot of people use this song as a teacher crush anthem when it’s literally about how toxic that kind of relationship is and how you shouldn’t engage in that
I WAS THINKING ABOUT THAT
@@marsp5636 SAME
@@mikanviola LITERALLY LIKE DOING THAT DISREGARDS THE POINT OF THE SONG
I had an attractive, young teacher my senior year of HS and I think it’s normal to be a little attracted to them. But to full blown FANTASIZE about them? Imagine a relationship with them? Genuinely want to be with them? That’s unhealthy and obsessive and creepy. Not to mention illegal and inappropriate.
alize0623 I agree. I actually have a teacher rn who I think its pretty attractive, but its more of just a "oh, you're an attractive person" sort of thing, not a "omg! I have a crush on you".
Its completely natural to find some people that are older than you attractive. I mean, lots of girls would usually have posters of famous guys on their bedroom walls because they find them attractive, or like something about them. But to be completely sexually and romantically attracted to them is just wrong. One person here posted a comment about how someone in their school wrote a fan fiction about doing it with a teacher, and the school found out. Apparently the guy almost lost his job because of that girl writing a messed up fan fiction about him.
I just realised how long this comment was 😂 I apologize.
It's inappropriate but it's not illegal. It would be if the teacher was the one wanting to be with the student. Right?
Alessandro M. Lupacchini Yes But the students with the crush desire the teacher to have a relationship with them, which is the illegal part
yeah, i think you can think “oh theyre cute” as long as you keep it to yourself and dont act on it.
pinkbotany ya, I think its alright as long as its just a slight sort of "you're attractive" thing and not a messed up crush that you're going to act upon.
In reality, teachers (unless they're horrible) look at their students as nothing more than kids D: You could be 17 turning 18, and I would still see them as a kid, it's a lil creepy that kids look at their teachers like that
Not necessarily creepy but I'll admit it is odd about romanticizing it, a fantasy such as that is only alright until you wish for it to be true. Tho for the most part it's virtually harmless
i can tell you never had a bad teacher, although forming a community out of it is retarded
i knew about a teacher who actually married a cheerleader at our school. ppl already suspected there was something going on. though he waited till she was 18 obviously. all in all its fucking gross imo
Starbeam please don’t think all teacher crushes mean the student wants to ‘do it’ with their crush. I know this from personal experience be honest you’ve had an innocent non sexual crush on an adult when you were a kid
Hallam Family im 16 and i can safely say, fuck all of my teachers
"My name sounds beautiful coming from your lips" like when they call on you for attendance? Lmao
Legit Bridget this comment killed me hahahah
That's what i thought
Legit Bridget probably, yes
im skksksskskks omh
honestly i was like "is it nice when they yell at u?"
As someone who started teaching when I was 22, I was shocked (and creeped-out) by how bold some of the young women were. They will straight-up ask you out in the middle of class and it's very awkward. Part of me wants to look older sooner just to stop that from happening
According to this video, that will not stop it
Honestly, I think I would make a good teacher (idk for sure but whatever) but this is the one thing that puts teaching low on my list of jobs I’d want. I’d be so scared that this would happen literally all the time, and my students would probably think I was an anxious mess :’)
The thought of you, a piece of fucking garbage that whines about video games not giving you titties that you feel somehow entitled to, who spreads rampant misinformation, teaching you people fucking terrifies me beyond measure.
@@Cdr2002
Do me a favor and please don't clutch your pearls too hard. I wouldn't want you to bruise your hands because then you won't be able to whine online anymore. Which is how every productive and rational person spends their time.
Damn, this just threw me back to high school when we got a freshly graduated history teacher, must've been about the same age as you. She was decently pretty as far as I remember, so all of the guys loved her, very vocally, right to her face. But the worst thing was that SHE FLIRTED BACK. I believe it was only ever light-hearted, but it was still weird as hell, and she wasn't exactly well-respected amongst the girls. If she'd been a guy there was no way that shit would fly.
I'm not gonna lie. My gay ass had a huge crush on my health class instructor, but I couldn't imagine ever thinking about the possibility of a relationship with him. I can see where they're coming from: being attracted to an authority figure like a teacher, but they take it way too goddamn far.
@Professional Dragon Tamer well you see physical education and health teachers are different, but some schools will have them be the same teachers
@@OjaZack I had two. One was an ex navy asshole that was rumored to watch our asses jiggle as we work out
The other is a big woman with nice glasses and was also the 8th grade math teacher
@Professional Dragon Tamer no, my PE from my old school was young and healthy af and he wasn't even married yet
None of my teachers are attractive, so that’s cool. And most of them are married with kids.
I've had some crushes on teachers, but it wasn't like I was ever having sexual fantasy stuff about them. It wasn't like I was daydreaming about relationships with them. Fuck.
When I was 9, my then teacher was such a sweetheart. I mean that in a... Not sexual way. Like, he was just so nice. He was a gentle giant.
Anyways, long story short, one day I said "I want to own a lizard with you." (I was a weird kid) The next day he had a lizard in a tank and showed me it. It was so fucking nice and cool. The lizard is still alive and retired with him. I still talk to him, he's became kinda a mentor I guess? Like a tutor? He's prepping me for high school math which I thank him for. He and my mom are friends actually.
And before you go apeshit,
I HAVE NEVER HAD A CRUSH ON HIM. LITTLE NINE YEAR OLD ME HAD A CRUSH ON MY BEST FRIEND (lol lesbian problems). HE HAS NO CRUSH ON ME. IT WAS JUST A TEACHER GETTING ALONG WITH A MENTALLY CHALLENGED CHILD.
He has always been so kind to me. Even when we first met, he didn't belittle me for my hf autism. He just believed in me. He helped me go through elementary school when my bullying got at its worse. I respect him for that.
thanks you made my night that was really wholesome
Omg the 'i want to own a lizard with u' is sooo cute😭
That was wholesome thank you
This is so cute OMG. As someone who has high functioning autism (which went undiagnosed til well after I finished high school), I wish I'd had a teacher be that willing to bond with me and not judge me for it.
I'm glad you all got to continue your friendship (I guess that's what it is?) with him beyond school because he sounds awesome.
"lol lesbian problems" Do I smell the need for attention?
...Now I suddenly don't want to be a teacher anymore.
Children are largely terrible and the money sucks.
kids are annoying
same lmao, I already get enough rude comments from grown ass people, I don't want them coming from dumb kids too 😂
My dad is a teacher and he isnt very attractive like at all but now I wonder if the 7th grade girls he teaches-
I think you can be a teacher if you want to. I for sure think that it doesn't pay well, but if you want to go for it b=haha
I remember having a crush on my teacher, who at that time was 24 and I was 18, but he was engaged and y'know, it was something so unrealistic, I just stopped paying attention with it. It was there, I knew it, I ignored it. That was it.
Funnily enough, towards graduation, cause he was our substitute for the last 4-5 months of our final year, he became sort of my best friend. Y'know these teachers designated to be there for students and students can come and talk to them for help for basically anything? He was one of them, so I used to go to him with my family issues, still living at home and all, it endagered me passing my finals. Dude even took his time to drive me to my "boyfriend" whilst we were having a massive fight cause I was terrified of going alone. Obv, it was outside of school times, but he helped me cause he knew my mental issues and whatnot. Broke up with that boyfriend and felt better than ever.
Even now, 2 years after I've graduated, I sometimes go to my old school to meet up with him, talk about how my life at home is improving and all and check on my old school. He's like, a dad to me now. A best friend. Someone outside of all my issues who can give me a clear opinion if I need it. It's great. He's a great person and unsurprisingly, the school's favorite teacher. I'm so happy for his new class that they have him, 'cause I know how great of a teacher and person he is!
Also fun fact: He married my music teacher this year - they're adorable together and make literally the cutest pair. Plus both were my favorite teachers in school! Wishing them well. :)
So wholesome I love it thank you for sharing
I think there's a time in your life (some people) where you think every non-family relationship has to be romantic. Idk if it's the inundation of main character romances in books and movies or what but I've noticed this a few times in people's life stories.
@@ashleynoble2880 it's just you
Crushing on teachers is somewhat normal but posting about them obsessively or acting on it is y i k e s
B I G EW
Yeah
Agreed
Everyone's had a mild teacher crush I think. But like, this is obsession
Kemerald Exactly, like I think most people have a crush on a teacher once or twice but most people also know that it’s not something they should pursue
Teacher:is Ashley here?
Ashley:*moans*
Teacher:wtf?
bruh my name is ashley wtf
lmaoo
666 likes :0
I'm dead 😂😂
this kinda sounds like what a really- and i mean REALLY annoying kid named ashley in my school would do
Imagine walking into a hospital as a 22 year old pointing to a newborn girl and saying "I just wanted to meet my future wife"
I just threw up thanks
That's basically a plot point of the last Twilight movie
One of my students was reading the Twilight books for SSR. Room completely SILENT. She literally shouts "FUCKING WHAT" and throws the book like it was on fire. At the time I hadn't read any or even knew what was in them and kids tend to bring their own books from home. So she explains she's sorry for swearing but she couldn't deal and shows me the passage where he's like "Oh awesome I'm a life mate with your daughter that's been born that's chill"
We mutually agreed she could just avoid the book talk at the end of the week.
@@Kitsuiko Jacob was no longer hot after that. I remember it sent a chill down my spine when I was like 12.
My new history teacher at the high school is super young, 26. One of the male friends in my friend group who is bi has a HUGE crush on him. He won’t shut up about it. He even made a him x teacher Pinterest board and shared it to the group chat. To put it lightly there was a lot of bondage and other BDSM. He just turned 18 and has his first class with him. I feel so bad for the teacher.
Edit, 1 year later since this is still getting replies: My friend has since graduated, he never acted on it, and the teacher never found out :)
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*O H N O*
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I was that high school gay. Poor choir teacher, you never understood why I kept asking to have my range checked.
jeezus christ
teacher: alright kids, we’re going to do roll call. anne davis?
kid: i love when you say my name. it sounds _beautiful_ coming from your *lips*
Child pls. Pls no.
Got me dead lol
And then the teacher be like: wtf
If that happened my teacher would die laughing and then tell them to leave still dying of laughter
*Teacher, suddenly seduced*
“And with those lips I’ll touch them with your-“
One girl in my highschool (freshman year) had a crush on a teacher and she wrote him a love letter and gave it to him. she wasn’t allowed in his classroom anymore
oh my
she wrote- and gave it- oh my lord..
I just cringed so hard I turned into a cringe-black hole
THE C R I N G E
That whole situation is C R I N G E. The embarrassment. Imagine explaining that to your guardians/parents. And if it's in high school imagine the weird vibe that would surround that persons relationships with any teacher for the next couple of years.
*back to school season*
Every other youtuber- lol school supplies haul tiimme (even tho none of us go to school)
Teya- teacher crush deep dive timee
That's why this is the *longest* channel on youtube.
"you make me overthink everything you do.
You also make me overthink everything I do.
I think I just overthink a lot when it comes to you."
Sounds like me analyzing every move my teacher makes during a test to deduce from body language if I've messed up
They stand around you too long - they believe you are about to mess up, but you can prove em wrong.
Light scoff- you made a mistake, so pick your next best choice.
Light chuckle - You made a big mistake, change choices even if you have no idea what the answer is.
Light sigh with shoulders a bit drooped - okay, there is a pretty high chance you might fail this but if you keep going I'm sure you'll do good. And, besides, a 50 is not that bad.
They walk away shaking their head - ask to use the bathroom and go cry about what a massive failure you are and how even if you do good on this, your parents will still pay no attention to you and will still prefer Jason over you.
Fuck you, Jason.
@@ScaredCat4 lmaooo
"Oh shit, they're looking straight at me... they know I'm fucking cheating don't they?? But what gave me away??? Did they see the notes inside my pencil case, the ones written on on the edge of my desk or the one I'm sitting on right now!? Oh god oh fuck oh shit oh fuck."
There was one teacher at my school when I was like 12 and almost every girl had a crush on him because he was in his early twenties and was somewhat attractive. The worst part is that he knew the girls liked him and was super cocky about it so he would always flirt with them and it was so uncomfortable to watch. Like he would always flirt with one of my friends in particular who hit puberty at like age 9 so she was definitely more developed than the rest of our year group but she loved the attention he gave her, and it genuinely was so gross to see an adult act that way.
I think that's illegal... just maybe flirting with a little kid that hit puberty early is wrong.
@@mme.veronica735 oh it was super wrong. I don't think it's because he had any interest in any of the girls, it seemed more as if he just liked the ego boost that came from all these girls idolizing him which is still weird in it's own right. He actually started dating an ex student after she became an assistant at the school when she was like 20, which again kinda rubbed me the wrong way but they were both consenting adults at that point so
That's disgusting... I hope to become a teacher and it's just so uncomfortable to think about people half my age crushing on me, so to actually flirt back just makes me wanna vomit tbh
Did you report him to another teacher or any authority figure in the school or something?
@@lieutenantlemons2260 honestly all the other teachers would joke about him being a flirt. Like I said I don't think he was necessarily predatory or anything, he just had an ego. Like it's still super fucked up, but it seemed like he just enjoyed the attention, especially since he always tried to be the young chill teacher so the guys all loved him too.
I looked up that playlist and now I have "sexy teacher crush playlist" in my history now thanks
yaoihunter delete your history if you haven’t already
LMFAOOO
Llama Drama hell I’d delete the whole phone
Van Halen is on that playlist calling it rn
We have incognito mode for a reason.
I doubt that these students would be so enamoured with their teachers if they heard the amount of shittalking in the staffroom.
Can confirm as an adult person that works with kids, there's a lot of shittalking in the break room lol
Oh my god yes, they even shit talk about their own students
Child of two teachers (mom's 2nd grade, dad's middle school Spanish). They do complain about students a lot. I can honestly say that I don't think there are too many that they ever disliked to the point of not wanting them in their classes however. I think that's the case for most teachers.
True.
In all fairness, about half the shittalking is about parents as well. Really, in many cases the parent is as much to blame as the child. I've had kids that misbehave and run wild...and later find out that Mom doesn't discipline or believe in saying "no" at home, so he gets to act however he wants there.
Plus another common extreme...the helicopter parents. Oh god, the helicopter parents.
On the flip side, there are loads of great parents that cooperate and my profession is one where you see enough cute/well-behaved kids to get baby fever at least twice a week.
my mom’s a teacher and she loves giving me the tea on her students, their parents, and even her coworkers.
“when ur a teenager u don’t see anything weird or wrong about it”
i see *so many* things
same💀
same bro
I feel like TV shows and movies that feature student-teacher relationships in a “romantic” way add fuel to the hormonal fire.
As a teacher, I am slightly disturbed that this community is a thing....
Shelsy WOAH TEACHERS CAN BE TUMBLR THOTS?
Oof run...
sksksks i wanna be a teacher for highschool and i have no idea what the fuCK id do if someone my own age right now, 16, wanted a relationship and obsessed over adult me. i mean just entirely having a blog for someone is creepy as fuck!!!! the fact that the person is in a position of power is worse and then the cherry on top is the age gap even if its late teens and early 20s what the fuck man?? the maturity gap also
GET OFF THE INTERNET IT IS A HORRIBLE PLACE YOU NEED TO BE PROTECTED
I don't know if y'all are joking or serious 😂
Ive never had a teacher crush..
I'm homeschooled 👌
VFD that computer screen lookin kinda fresh nowadays 🤧🙈😍😝🤪😌
... And that's how we can tell you're not from Alabama.
BUt what if you had a hot stepmom?
homeschool problems XD
I respect you.
We had this one teacher that got together with a 17 year old girl. He was fired, but they ended up getting married (we found that out because their wedding pic was literally his profile one). So... he is a priest now
what the fuck
what the fuck
what the fuck
what the fuck
Oh fuck no
Going from a teacher to a priest? That's a pretty big leap in careers.
What the-
Bullshit, priests aren’t allowed to get married, they take a vow of celibacy. Unless you mean pastor..
Lol this reminds me of this interaction my friend told me about between this chick and a teacher who a lot of students were crushing on where the chick walked up to him and said "I'm 18 now 😏" and he completely shut her down with "you're disgusting".
Good for him lol
IM WEAK 😂
I definitely would’ve paid money to see this go down ☠️☠️
Mission passed! +Respect
Trickster Cat llssss 😂
An opposing community centering around crushing teachers w/ very large and/or heavy objects, but uses the exact same tags
“I love the way my name sounds on your lips... as you let out your dying breath”
@@nehanair8475 I'm imagining some kid holding a giant rock over a biology teacher screaming, "WHO IS FAILING LIFE SCIENCE NOW?"
@@rhealastname266 *mega blursed*
Catch me literally crushing my chem teacher because she’s dumb
i need this so i can obliterate my elementary spanish teacher with that stupid wheely cart thing
The only time I am okay with the “teacher crush” is when someone writes a fan fiction about a college kid dating their 20 something professor...cause adults 😂
Sara You yeah in college teachers can be your age or only like a couple years apart so it’s not as weird...
Yess that's how my parents were. My mom had a crush her crazy, passionate, and weird teacher in college and woop what do ya know they started dating and a few years later they got married and I came along
Yeah but if you’re into the teacher thing you probably dig the power dynamic so as long as you’re doing it after the semester who cares haha
@@ovenbird1253 it's still weird to me, but whatever. Go wild kids
Beep Beep Free Giftcard Giveaway well it’s still weird just a little less than say 14/15 year olds crushing on 30+ year old teachers
Oh man, in eighth grade we'd gotten a younger teacher, like this was his first teaching job and the poor man was not prepared for the several girls in class not only having crushes on him but in no way being subtle about it. His desk started out just kinda to the side of the classroom and by midyear he'd made it into a barricaded fortress because we'll, this is the south so these girls had been raised on the concept that chasing a man was okay and age gaps meant nothing. The few of us girls without crushes tried to run interference and by the end of the year he had one of the female teachers sitting in on classes. I have never seen a grown man look so hunted.
that's so fucked up, holy shit. the thing is, it would be perceived as so much worse if it were the other way around but it doesn't change that the guy probably felt so helpless and EXTREMELY uncomfortable. ewwwwwwwwww.
Him: I am uncomfortable with the energy we have created in the studio today
I’ve had teacher crushes when I was younger, its a normal thing a lot of students can experience, but i’ve never creepily obsessed or write weird “AU’s” about them.
sarbear imagine hoping they like you back :(
Fanfiction is just fiction. There's people writing worse stuff so, eh. But irl... no, it's just creepy.
When I was a kid I have always have that weird imagination where me and my teacher go play with each in the park or imagining them as my mother or big sister since some of them were young.
I mean yeah, but I didn't want them to like me back. It was sorta like me just looking up to him to a point that I wanted validation from him (nothing inappropriate). Sorts like a big brother type thing? I don't think it was completely romantic
My older brother is becoming a teacher and the idea of a girl half his age crushing on him and writing this obsessive stuff honestly grosses me out so much (it repels him too, he feels sick just thinking about it.) These kids in the TCC honestly don't know what they're talking about and just trying to act older than they really are.
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Professor Bacon He'll be teaching physics! He's been working so hard and will be teaching in a few weeks.
schoolgirl crushes happen, it's just the obsessive stuff that is insane
cherub a I didn't necessarily mean that a small tiny crush was bad, but the TCC is full of young impressionable kids who write those obsessive posts and could potentially be taken advantage of.
Some kids have this hero worship of their teachers (or of much older celebrities, etc.) and can't really distinguish the two., especially if they don't have these figures in their home lives. But congratulations to your brother!
You look like a kindergarten teacher in this, ironically 😂
Not quite colourful enough
Jontron: " I don't like where this is going"
This made me have a realization that she does look like a kindergarten teacher, all the time, i cant unsee it
@@magicavocado6528 uhhhhhhum.... UHHHHHHHUM
I think the biggest problem with that it gives space to teachers that actually want to abuse their students. It gives room for inappropriate touches that these kids won't see anything wrong with it, and even actual abuse.
Also when the teacher IS NOT a predator, I can't imagine how stressful it would be to learn a student is doing this.
It also creates a space where a student being abused and trying to open up to a peer about it might get hit with one of those awful “if I was in your situation, I’d have liked it” or “you should be grateful”.
I feel like its fine to think your teacher is kinda cute, but i dont think you should fantasize about you and your teacher👏
Yeah i had an innocent crush on my english teacher in junior high. I knew it could never go anywhere, and tbh i didnt want it to go anywhere. I knew i was a child and he was an adult and it would be horrible innapropriate if something were to happen. I just enjoyed getting butterflies in my stomach during his classes. It never distracted me from school or the subject he was teaching either so i'd say it was healthy.
McLovin McLovin bruh same,, I had a huge crush on my english teacher in 6/7th grade but I never acted on it or let it mess up my schoolwork
We all had some teachers we wanted to shag/get shagged by but most of us knew it would actually be horrible if it happened
call me crazy but i think people can fantasize about whatever the fuck they want
@@goyjin5676 literally me in chemistry tbh >< I was lowkey a puddle sometimes, and even though he was pretty young (17 me and 22 him if I remember right.) it still would've been massively inappropriate and unbalanced no matter what.
I think its a lil funny bc imagine a 14 year old girl obsessing over a teacher who is only nice to her bc shes a student and she has good grades, but he actually finds her super annoying bc she's always bugging him "i need help with this" , "can i come in after class for help?" "How was your day?" And the teacher just wants her to stfu. sorry i just started thinking about this thats hilarious
You: big Ew.
Me, an intellectual: massive disgust
omg perfect
Al R-e me, as a genius: major uncomfortable
Me, ascended: t h o u s u c c s
@@insertarnombre1354
Me *_A S C E N D E D:_* *_THY MAKE'TH ME'STV DISGUST FELLING_*
me, a confused intellectual: momumental repugnance
The big issue with any age gap relationship is the power imbalance. financial/ social/ sexual. It can lead to some pretty messed up situations. Hell if the age gap is big enough, most will assume their is some kind of exploitation happening. I want to give adult couples the benefit of the doubt, but some people are good at hiding that kind of abuse :/
* I'm sure some gap relations work out, but I've personally never seen it happen.
I don't have an issue with ages gaps in relationships, IF both parties involved are mature and responsible grown adults that know what they're getting into with that commitment. I agree that some relationships can appear very predatory, and it's kind of worrisome that someone older would be taking advantage of a younger adult.
It's really not my place to tell people what they can and can't do in relationships or to get involved at all, what you do is only your business. But personally I would be a little concerned about a 20yo in a relationship with like a 35-40yo- because people who are 20 are barely more than teenagers, they may not know what they're doing or be mature enough to handle a relationship like that and make smart decisions.
While a 30-35yo with a 45-50 year old, I maybe wouldn't be quite as worried about- it depends on the specific relationship, but I think that once they become an established and mentally grown adult with experience they would be able to handle themselves and know if the situation was becoming toxic or predatory.
I think healthy age gap relationships can work if everyone involved is at the same place in their lives, but that's a fairly unlikely "if" - ie, a 35 y/o might be looking to settle down and have kids, but their 25 y/o partner might be starting a new career or saving money to explore the world. People tend to want different things as they get older, and that can erode even a perfectly healthy age gap relationship over time.
Completely agree
@Annabelle MacDonald Oh! I have a great example... My step-mom and father have a gap of 11 years and it's alarming to some, but rest assured that they met when she was a mature adult and they did date for a while before marriage. Their relationship is actually really well balanced and my father has become a much happier and better person through it. I greatly appreciate my step-mom being in my life because both of my biological parents were abusive in the past, and she also had a rough childhood and is a really good listener. She's also rather learned in mental health(having dealt with it personally) and has helped me, as well as my father and younger brother, learn about our ADHD, coping mechanisms, and we're now diagnosed and better off. I know that there are lots of examples of bad turn-outs with age-gap relationships, but this is a time where it made both people happier. C:
@@chaos9364 Your step-mom sounds like a awesome lady. I'm happy you have parents with a healthy relationship. Honestly the world would be amazing if we all had better role models. Thank you for sharing.
So I'm a senior and I've been experiencing the multitude of crushes on this poor teacher for 4 years now. One teacher at my school is pretty young, 26 and I feel so bad for him when all the sophomores and juniors (some freshmen and seniors, but not as much) flirt with him, stare at him and/or try to get close with him. You can see his uneasiness, but he doesn't wanna shame the girls so he tries to get out of the situation or be direct with them on why he can not date them. He has a girlfriend and the girls in my school r actually full on jealous of her and I can't wrap my head around it. Sure he's nice and he's younger then most teachers at the school, but fuck. Control your hormones, he's not interested.
Oh god I watched a teacher like that have such an awkward exchange once. Innocently he told a sophomore girl he liked her tshirt because it had some pop culture thing on it that he was a fan of, she said something like "thanks you're cute too, I like your butt" and he just had the biggest *NOPE* expression on his face and then walked completely backwards across the classroom to his desk and was silent for the rest of the period. For the record she would say stuff like that to everyone on the planet. I later went to that teacher's wedding (long story) and the ordained minister in his speech mentioned that the teacher and his now wife had been together for seven years and that they hadn't even kissed in that time.
they're teenagers, this is likely the first time they're experiencing these things. they're also too stupid and naive to handle the situation appropriately.
fact is, teens get this all the time cause well yeah their hormones are out of control and they're young and dumb. the onus is on the adult in the situation to handle it approrpiately.
Doggyfroggy2001 trooooo
Doggyfroggy2001 yeah, a teacher at my school quit his job because some horny 8th graders kept flirting with him.
This is why I understand students crushing on teachers (even though I never had one), you're either in the phase where "you want to marry everyone" or you can't control yourself because of hormones.
Putting "control" and "hormones" in the same paragraph as "teens" is also an oxymoron, they can't help it more than we could at that age because we had no idea what was going on.
I believe having a small crush on an older person when your a kid is normal but anything beyond having a crush like pursuing it is not okay under any circumstances
EDIT:also obsessing over it and thinking your teacher could date you(i know it's technically possible but it's illegal)
exactly! crushing on an older person bc they're more mature and seem a little more mysterious or bc you're just subconsciously curious is totally age-appropriate! pursuance and/or obsession are not lmao
I never had a crush on an older person. I liked the same girl from the moment I met her when we were 13 until the night we graduated highschool and she ghosted me
I had a crush on my piano teacher, who was about 23 or 24 and I was 17. I thought she was gorgeous and kind and all but I knew it would never be more than a puppy crush and that was fine. Like you said it’s fine and actually fairly normal but you also have to know it’s not appropriate and won’t happen
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Teya, an intellectual: curly font
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i'm-
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9:51 (your name)? Who uses (your name)? If they’re writing fics they should know it’s y/n not (your name)
when a fanfiction has [name] instead of y/n you know its written by someone too experienced and mature to be writting fanfiction
I liked this for your name and profile pic
Lol _that's_ the issue you found with this
I honestly never understood how people could read stories/fanfics with "y/n"(or in this case the words "your name") appearing often in them. Like, how can you be immersed in that? Not to mention, a lot of the times it's written like:"y/n, come look at this","y/n, I like you", "y/n this" "y/n that" like, normal people don't address you with your name *every* time they want to say something to you lmao.
@@Robin-234 i did read y/n fic when i was a child and tbh i never substituted my name in because i always forgot so i always pronounced it "why en" idk if this was a universal experience tho
I see my teachers as parents/relatives. Like my P.E teacher is my hip, young, aggressive uncle.
we have three gym teachers, two of them are like those cool uncles who would tkae you to the movies and the other one is basically the political aunt you always avoid
“Age is just a number”
aNd pRiSoN iS jUsT a pLaCe
*AnD PeDoPHiLIa Is JuSt a WoRd*
FBI are only letters.
Cocaine is just addictive flour
*Addicted* *is* *just* *a* *personality*
You know what ELSE is just a number?
911
I remember hating all my teachers can't really relate to this tag at all
I hate every teacher in my school exept my u.s history teacher she's dope she's chill and loves star wars and has posters on her classroom ayyyy
i've never hated a teacher (i can say they're annoying but unless they were genuinley unfair and scummy i didnt hate them) but i didnt love a teacher either, except for one teacher, she was our english teacher and i was very good at her subject so shed sometimes act casual with me but i saw her as a big sister.
crystal trees same
Same tbh.
Same I actually called one a stupid bitch and had to go home for it that day I told my family that and they pretended to be mad but the second it was just us we all laughed
I legit hurt my neck when I heard "She doesn't exist yet" from it contracting
We actually had a gym-teacher that constantly tried to hook up with students. He had a rumour around the school that he even got fired from his last job because he had a ”relationship” with a student who was only 16 years old. Now, this man wasn’t exactly OLD so when he hit on 19-year olds it wasn’t really a big deal since he was like 30. But the fact that he constantly tried to get laid with STUDENTS (he hit on multiple of my friends, inviting them to events outside school) was just really fucking weird
Dave102693 yea basically
is this kamoshida
Married to a High School teacher. Can confirm: (non-predatory) teacher thinks of you as a CHILD. Even if you're 16, and you're like "I'm a teenager not a child!" Not to your teacher. Sorry. They're like your dad. They don't even want to think very much about you dating EACH OTHER, nevermind date you themselves. It's uncomfortable, as it should be, you're CHILDREN.
One of my six graders is trying to date another one of my sixth graders by showing off how good he is at math and she's helping him with his English and during break time they draw llamas together and make superhero comics - if they weren't shipping themselves I'd so ship it. But, of course, that all comes from the category of this being sincerely one of the more pure things I've ever seen.
Outside from the "WORLD IS ENDING!" part I think the pre-dating that my kids do is okay; mostly negotiating who buys who chips leaning on each other whenever they're allowed. Navigating the social dynamics of breakups, who you like, how you show it, how you get over it... it's hugely important (because it's my life goal to never see a student of mine on a toxic incel community post)
I may have been using the word "date" euphemistically. The pure stuff is cute, agreed.
Ahh true. And to be fair... I had a student once begin to speculate for whether their older brother (a former student of mine) was still a virgin to his friends and it was the most horrifying 30 seconds of my teaching career thus far.
YEAH. HORRIFYING.
Lol. NO!!! God No. Married to *A* High School Teacher. Definitely not mine. I'm 9 months older than my husband and we didn't meet till we were both at University together and were BOTH STUDENTS. God no. NO. That would be so wrong. When hubby taught at a boarding school, we lived there in like, a little mother-in-law house attached to a boys dorm. "House Parents." I'm sure some of them were objectively attractive, particularly to girls their own age, but I couldn't tell you which ones, because they were "my boys" as in "my children," as in "oh my boys are all getting good grades, I'm so proud." Hell, one of them was 19. Still a child to me. Our "responsible older brother" child who could be left to look after the others sometimes (according to the rules too, because he was our house Prefect) but a CHILD to me. They were in our care. "No girls upstairs" was a big rule. You want to have a lady friend over, you had better be hanging out with her in the COMMON ROOM. There was ONE kid I didn't really think of as a child, and that was because he had these drag-out screaming verbally abusive calls to his long distance girlfriend about what he was entitled to "as a man" and refused to mind me because I was a woman and honestly all I could think was "we need to do something about this abusive misogynist asshat before he goes off to college and becomes a campus rapist." Fear that you're going to commit a very adult crime is not the reason you want your teacher to stop thinking of you as a child.
Older men or serial killers? Why not both?
Orazelf oh my gosh hahahaha
Serial killing teacher crush
*yikes famalam*
@@Anon-rt3fx Ackchyually, ¿Por qué no los tres?
I mean, most serial killers are older men, and the type that would use positions of power to abuse people, especially children...
honestly the Teacher Crush Community and True Crime Community using the same tag is ICONIC!!! i mean it makes a lot of sense if you think about it. if a teacher actually did do anything like that with a student it would truly be a crime, so it makes a lot of sense to lump them together in the same tag! 💀
kakashi from naruto and aizawa from my hero academia are the only teachers I’ve had crushes on 😤😤
i'm here for this comment. bless kakashi!!!
Same...
I’m totally gaybo but Aizawa is a little bean in that sleeping bag
I knew I wasn't the only one who had a crush on Kakashi as a kid 😤
but seriously, I feel like virtually everybody had a crush on Kakashi to some degree
That distinct fan-fictiony type style? *looks down at the ~amber liquid~ that swirls in my glass* I have no idea what you mean.
Do you look down with your *azure/chocolate/emerald eyes* ?
sanityisrelative orbs**
Orbs which are the blue of deep dark water in mysterious forest glades
deep dark water I want to lose myself in. water that is hidden behind the glades which I have carefully treaded.
I lost myself staring deep into the dark depths of her chocolate orbs. Her piercing gaze lingered and I could feel it like a gentle touch upon my soul.
My friend had a crush on our language arts teacher in 8th grade. She’s over it now but I was in hell for a year.
Her: “It’s just not socially acceptable [for them to be together]”
Me: “NO, IT’S ILLEGAL”
Ellie B people had crushes on my 8th grade English teacher too! It’s so gross.
Oi, tjeres another comment on here thats like this one. You should talk with them
this is a weird one because i think it's pretty normal for teenage kids (essentially little bags of hormones) to start feeling attraction and it tends to just get placed on the nearest reasonably attractive person. it makes sense that this could easily be someone you see everyday like a teacher, who is more mature than the relativley immature kids your age. on top of that, attraction to authority figures speaks volumes about your previous relationships/interactions with authority (i.e. your parents) which is why most of these kids will feel they have 'mommy' or 'daddy issues'. used in quotes because this ranges from absent parents to genuine abuse. as long as these kids aren't actively looking to date older people, leaving them vulnerable to predators, many will grow out of these attractions in their own time. kids are kids. as long as its not the teachers initiating these crushes, its not really harmful.
i think the harmful things is the communities like the tcc tag where alot of people bounce their emotions around and things can get warped. ive seen abused kids start beliveing that abuser 'loves' them because they think posts about age gap relationships being ok applies to them. kids still need to be taught about healthy relationships. sure it makes a whole lot of us feel genuinely uncomfortable because we see it from an adult perspective, but these kids are just trying to figure out alot
*sorry for this absolute unit of a wall but its just an opinion
yes, i agree
@Sop hie very very very good point as well
What really makes me uncomfortable about this is that I used to have the biggest crush on my drama teacher. My EX drama teacher, I should say. He was entirely kind to me and was closer to me than what is appropriate between a student and a teacher, and this was probably extremely noticeable to literally anyone. He always said that when I graduated, we'd travel together. I didn't even notice how inappropriate this was because he was the only friend I had at that school, so I fell head over heels for him. Recently, he got arrested for sexually grooming a number of underage female students.
TLDR; if a teacher is super close to you for no apparent reason, don't be a big stupidhead about it
It's terrible you had to go through such a situation !! I'm glad he got arrested.
omg i wasn’t expecting that at the end! i hope you’re ok 💖
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Fucking true
but tumblr deep dives are either wholesome or creepy
Baby Jungkook AGREE
YES
Honestly yeah lol I could watch these for hours
I've never had a crush on a teacher :/
I've always thought of them as parental figures.
Once a tutor/teacher of mine lived near-by, so she would bring me coloring books :D
Awwe that's really sweet, and same. Unless a teacher is a bitch or heartless or something i tend to see them as family friends or something-
So true! I see all my cool teachers as funky uncles/aunts, and the one old teacher who gave me sweets in 3rd grade I saw as a grandma.
@@emanatingauras4017
same! my old preschool teacher comes to my school a lot (my school is pre-k - 8th) and it's like seeing a family member you haven't seen in a while
When I first started highschool (I'm 13 yrd old) someone started a rumor about me that I have a crush with my teacher who I'm friends with (kinda? Idk, we're close tho). That rumor just died but after that, my teacher doesn't want to speak to me anymore outside class. Thank you, whoever you are for destroying my relationship to a supposed-to-be parental father figure.
I'm so sorry
I won't lie, if a Long Furby taught math at my school, I'd totally have a TC on it.
MagicznaPanda yes
MagicznaPanda But honestly who wouldn’t
I’d have a dog with a long ferbie 😂
Same,furbies are the shit
Be jealous because he teaches home ec at my school
Take it from an Old Person - it's fine to have a crush but don't try to act on it. At best, your teacher will reject you (as they should) and it will be awkward. If your teacher is into you? Either you will have a horrible breakup of some kind, such as being transferred to another class, or you'll end up in a really unequal, unsafe relationship.
It seems like it'll be fine at the time. It will never be fine. Fantasies and reality need to stay separate!
There's also the possibility that the teacher will be arrested on a statutory rape charge and you'll both end up on the local news. So, bad times all around.
"you don't see anything weird or wrong about it-"
me, a 12 year old: I DO
One of my teachers actually married one of his students when she was of age and they have like 7 kids
There’s like a 22-year age gap between them or something
edit: their youngest kid is in 8th grade and the teacher is like 70 it gives me the creeps
Eli Soares wait SEVEN KIDS!!?!? You’re not exaggerating are you?
Jack Kreanxx nope, I kinda wish I was
Oh god i want to clay out my eyeballs
That happened at my high school too. And the guy was a HEALTH teacher. So not only was he a weirdo, but he was a weirdo who had to teach us about sex.
Oh God. In my elementary school the principal dated & married this super young teacher that started right out of college and that already made me literally nauseous.
my unpopular opinion: It's okay if the student has a crush on the teacher; it is NOT okay if the teacher has a crush on the student.
Lavan Volkov Agreed
@@KitchenWitchery agree
What Lavan Volkov said. Both are okay, but any actual romantic relation is not okay.
Lavan Volkov okay morally (to be a teacher with a crush on a student) but very unhealthy and abnormal - maybe a bit different if you’re a college professor or something and you’re closer in age and they’re not a minor, but still not something to indulge in even in fantasy
How is that an unpopular opinion
Well, at the very least it's better than teachers crushing on students...
Za warudo
Definitely. Teachers shouldn't ever be attracted to minors. (Nobody should be attracted to minors)
@@meikokun1166 9 seconds have passed
@@jt0n What about teachers in unversity?
dio..?
is that u?
i see them more as? weird relatives
*math teacher* is my kinda annoying cousin
*theatre teacher* is my second mom
*history teacher* is my strict uncle
*orchestra teacher* is my funky cousin
*english teacher* is my meme loving aunt
*science teacher* is my fun uncle
and when you think about it like that, its even MORE not ok to have crushes on your school extended family :^)
I just think of them as teachers.
Same, my French teacher is like an aunt to me
Ooh I wanna do that too for my old high school teachers 🤣🤣
*English teacher* is like my grandma
*Afrikaans teacher* is like a weird uncle
*maths teacher* is a distant cousin who I have no emotional connection to
*History teacher* is my grandpa
*Business teacher* is a Pervy uncle that cracks dumb jokes
*economics teacher* is a bipolar aunt - mother's sister definitely
Same. My 12th grade English teacher was like an older sister. My chorus teacher was like the homophobic aunt, my art and Spanish teachers were the drunk aunts that had wild stories.
Fawn Queeen i feel like my history teacher is my toddler that I have to protect from the world😂 this guy is not ready for adulthood and is just a child in the body of an older man😂
Teya: "Everyone's had that crush"
My ace self that saw teachers as not even the same species:
you sure you dont mean aro?
My aroace self as well
hello i am aro ace
there are so many of us (including aros but not aces and aces but not aros and anyone under the umbrella) on the internet but none irl )': lol
not the best time but HEY