I'm not sure why the criticism of Bilal's behavior is being turned into a racial issue. Are we not allowed to criticize someone for treating their partner like crap just cause they're a black man? He's rude, controlling and disrespectful towards Shaeeda. If he acted differently, no one would be criticizing him.
Yes. I dont like the other host. She doesn't go in and ask questions that we are all obviously yelling at the tv screen to ask ..😄 i dont think she even watches the show
@@sylviadavis2208 honestly!! there's so many times im sitting there like CAN YOU JUST ASK THE REAL QUESTIONS!!! like i love melicia does a recap because she does interview the couples and give them a space to talk while asks the questions we most likely want answered or even recalls bad behavior on folk.
@@jesshiidoe we need to get a petition started..😄😄 ..i think i dont really watch the tell alls all the way through cuz im so mad my question didnt get asked..
I’m a Muslim woman and Mohammad is DEAD wrong. He is acting like a hypocrite. You can’t pick and choose what suits you and then condemn someone else because they sin differently than you! Girl, send him back to his MOM!
I am very happy about your comment. All my muslim friend does not know this “rule” set. It is his countrys rituals and heritage , for men to be in power over women! He gladly lives in the House she payed for! He has no money, no right to judge her and no respekt for women what so ever! He liked her from the first time in bikini, not it is bikini or him! Very childish an pathetic Behavior!
he did tell her to get a bigger coat cuz the outline of her underwear was showing. In this regard,I think he was looking out for her. She knew what she signed up for.
I love Melicia. I love that she went back to review the comments and reflect on it, to see if it had validity. And on top of that her narrations are 100. She's the reason I know what's going on on 90 day fiancée franchise.
With Bilal, people calling him a narcissist has nothing to do with him being black and everything to do with the way he would treat Shaheeda. He irks me so much. I could not handle a man talking to me and treating me the way he treats her.
@Christina Jones I agree with your statement. People throw the term around too easily. I was referring more to how she was using race as an excuse and denying his actions. I don't think he's an actual narcissist but I'm also not a therapist who can diagnose that.
@Christina Jones it's quite interesting that you reduced it to "someone acting in a way you don't like," in order to invalidate the point being made. That's extremely manipulative and gaslighting. But you know that. Ppl are called narcissistic when they exhibit traits consistent with the definition of that word. Narcissistic and BEING DIAGNOSED with narcissistic personality disorder is two completely different things. One can have some narcissistic traits and not have narcissistic personality disorder. Noone is saying he has NPD. Also how do you know Bilal didn't suffer abuse in his childhood? We don't know these ppl, but we are judging them based on their actions.
Not Biniyam trying to have one foot out the door trying to secure that green card so he can leave Ari and set up a better life for himself and his family.
Ari's parents have been taking care of them this whole time. Now that her parents are saying they have to pay the bills for the apartment. She's all pissed off knowing she has to get a job and pay for her man to live. If he was a real man he'd get a cash job and work his ass off to help his family. Like any other illegal alien. Both of them live outside the realm of reality!
I don’t think Yve understood why she needed a longer jacket. She would if she saw herself from behind. That black thong looking through was not classy. Also her friends are unpleasant. Sorry. Are they trying to join them in bed or something? Why those personal questions they have no business asking?
Thank you! So degrading as a Woman period! And why would she bring someone here to the US she doesn't know? She's acting like she doesn't know his background. I don't buy it!
All I kept thinking while watching that scene was, what if the rolls were reversed? What if Some guys were asking those inappropriate question to a female?
I thought I was the only one that saw it! I couldn’t figure why she would want to go out like that and he is right if some man ask her for some, then she wants to take offense. Don’t advertise if you can’t deliver!
Whatever you may think about Mohammed, Yves friends were dead wrong for asking him inappropriate questions and yes, the dress didn’t look good on her. She may be older than Mohammed but she is immature just like him.
Exactly women scream me too, yet if Mohammed say Eve at a table full of men who asked her how she was in bed and how did she learn to have sex! It’s wrong they totally sexually harassed him. Besides that he truly acts like Eve is his sugar momma and he only wants one thing citizenship to get into the country then come out of the closet. I believe he’s truly gay and can’t open up in Egypt
Bilal seems much more present and enthusiastic with his smiles and free flowing words while discussing the negative social media reaction to last week’s show than he does when we see him ‘alone’ with shaaeda.
@@GoReTTii yet shaaeda said different. Oh geez, who am I to believe 😳 the people not in the relationship or the people acting like relationship professionals? 🤔
@@simondadrilla2607 believe the relationship professionals. Ppl in relationships with something to gain like shaeda will obviously side with the man she consistently complains to abt his actions while trying to tell the public they're wrong for repeating the same thing abt Bilal that she does in different words.
And apparently ignorant too. She picks a Muslim man. Muslim is a religion that is not very separate from daily life, its a way of living. Most ppl. in the States have a religion they seem to only practice when they attend Church.
I hope Shaeeda leaves him as fast as she can, I haven't seen him be sweet, kind, caring, or loving toward her. He lectures her, tries to demean her, doesn't look at her when she is speaking to him. She is waaaay too good for him and shouldn't waste her child bearing years with someone who is going to treat her like a child and dangle children in front of her as if she can't get anyone better. And no, no one is saying bilal is toxic bc of his race or his skin color, they're saying it bc its true. When other wealthier men have come on the show, they were not treating their women like this, he is awful to her. Maybe it's a cultural difference, but I would not tolerate bilals b.s. at all. He is GROSS. Mohamed was correct abt the friends being weird, but I understand them wanting to see where his head is. The only relationship I believe may last is Thais and her man. The other ones are not based on love.
I can't stand how he talks about having always wanted a special person and be married yet he was. WTH! So many ppl. looking for fantasies that can never materialize. Wonder what happened to his marriage, why couldn't that have been his ideal! I can already tell he is fantasizing about this new one bc she wants kids and in his fantasy it seems she does not want kids ha, ha, ha.
Yves friends were wrong to ask questions about his sex life and for her to allow them to ask him questions like that shows her disrespect if him. I 100% believe they were doing the things they were doing and saying to get a rise out of him as a Muslim man. He should be upset with her for running and telling her friends everything that happens between them. It's one thing to discuss your sex life with your friends but to allow them to throw it in his face is wrong.
Naw I think she tells them everything and they are overprotective of her so they ask invasive questions. Not necessarily because they want a rise out of him.
I agree Yve shouldn’t have told her and even more important her friend shouldn’t have brought the subject. But I don’t think it’s because she disrespect him, it’s a common thing for long time friends to discuss about their private life. It’s just distasteful embarrassing and inconsiderate
Yve lost her smile in an instant, what a shame. For an older lady to still have spunk and have this younger guy take her light, it so very sad. She is not smiling as she is getting verbally harassed by this guy that needs to get out of her life, no joy is not worth it. I pray she sees this is going to be a cage and a sad life and she drops him off at the airport, one way ticket out of her house and life. She deserves better, it's better to be alone than unhappy, and the scene in the car proves it.
Excuse me, she picked a MUSLIM guy. That is a religion with strick rules you do know? Muslims don't separate regular life from religious life. It's all in one.
She chose him. Plus, as a soon to be married Woman, why would you wear a see through dress? So degrading. She knew his background. As an educated Woman, why not research it? If she didn't know his background, why are you bringing him into our country? Ugh
@@SheraDeletic1 because she's fell in love and got swept away with the whole situation it's understandable she's got her hands full In the USA, love is blind I totally get why she's done it bless her
Hey Melicia and ET, can you please click on the auto-captions UA-cam options for deaf viewers like me? It costs nothing yet gives the multi-millions of people with hearing loss access to your videos. Thanks!
@@tommyjones6866 yes please!!! I would watch your show for sure.i can't read lips. Thank you very much. Life is hard enough not being able to afford hearing aids. Deep appreciatetion
@@briannaje5419 the channel didn’t initially have auto-generated caption on nor captions added. Now cc button works because they changed setting. Thanks for looking out!! 😊
@@trinii999 I don't get why people don't understand this, maybe they don't understand why Shaun can't say certain things. Melicia is able to speak freely because of this platform. We don't want her getting tied up in the politics of the Tell All where they will censor her.
the dress thing, honestly, its not even about respect for your man, its about respect for yourself. Dont go out with a dress thin as hell where your underwear shines trough 🥲
But this isn’t the first time Biyam has been to the states and stayed with her parents, so they know what he is. It’s not there place to choose a mate for Ari and for whatever reason she loves him cause she keeps coming back for more. Before I grill Biyam I would definitely get into my daughter’s a-! Cause she is the one I raised, and am supporting. The only issue I would have with Biyam is his sister throwing wine in her face. As her husband/spouse he should have stepped in and stopped that. That was a no no. As a protector and provider he messed up on that one. At no point have I seen Ari with a stable plan or even a work option. She just politely ask mom/dad her national bank to provide and they do. Now after how many years of providing, the parents are fed up. Please they should have felt that way long ago. If the parents paid for college; that should have been the end of big spending on Ari. It’s pathetic, instead of her stepping up she use Biyam as her down fall.
Melissa is right with Yves telling her friends, you don't tell your friends everything. It's personal. The same way her friends don't ask him first time they meet about sex and porn. WTF 😂
In all fairness, you can. I think anyone is allowed to vent about their frustrations with their spouse with their closest friends. Maybe not in front that spouse but still. And while they shouldn't ask him randomly about his sex life and p0rn, a lot of that could be attributed to the fact that in a lot of circles in the US, especially liberal ones like this seems to be, these are normal conversations. So it's basically ignorance on their part. Probably thought that their liberal friend was talking to a Westernized Egyptian.
@@imacarguy4065 Theres a difference between venting to your friends about your SO...and shit-talking your SO to your friends. She was talking shit. She said that to embarrass him and so they would jump on him.
Shaeeda looks like a strong woman losing her light and voice on 90 Day. It has nothing to do with Bilal being a black man as this observation has been made by many people of color. I know the producers edit the program to look a certain way but in the end he is saying and doing what was filmed. As for Yve and Mohamed, I would appreciate that someone told me if my thong was visible as it looked tacky and I would not bring my fiancé to a "firing" squad, their questions were highly inappropriate. However that said, I would never marry him as I know it would never work out, too many cultural and age divides. And yes Melicia you are right, once he decided to live and sleep with her before marriage he lost all right to criticize Yve.
Shaeeda is using him and he found out on day 1. He lost that connection and is now just following production rules to entertain viewers for ratings. He's quite embarrassed because he was warned but didn't listen. He's now just going along with this staged show.
@@natalierivera5997 The show is clearly staged! They were married before filming. I just found that out. The scene regarding the stay at his childhood home and all was all fake. You're busy trying to make me look stupid but the show has you by the hair. Proves my point, exactly. Here's the link, everyone: she's been here and they got married right away folks as well as the younger couple living in south Dakota, for about 2 years now! This show is so FAKE! ua-cam.com/video/rXHtoJiYtnM/v-deo.html
I don't care if he was purple, Bilal has dark energy. And.. Shaeeda - I feel sorry for her. Guess if you want something bad enough, you'll convince yourself what's sour is honey. Kudos for her at least attempting to speak up for herself to Bilal. But I disagree with her pithy reason for why people don't like Bilal.
My husband and I did the 90 Day Fiancé, got married, ect but not on the show. We did it on our own. I tell you what, with all the hate from people that don’t matter, I am so glad we didn’t put our lives on TV. It is no wonder so many of these couples don’t make it. To top it off, it is absolutely spun whatever way the show wants.
Harsh and distasteful?? Kinda like threatening to drop a woman who is 100% dependent on you on the side of the road? Or leaving her to fend for herself at that Friday service? Or cancelling date night after she gets dressed?🙄🤦🏾♀️
Ikr, shaeda will put up with anything Bilal throws her atp because she wants babies and is already 37, ntm he makes good money. To give up on him and start over now she literally can't as her best bet is to be long suffering inorder to become a mother and love comfortably in that nice house. As a result she responds to the criticism with gaslighting and manipulation because despite everything, if she sticks with him, and the narrative of the public is that he's bad, then it reflects badly on her as a desperate woman. Therefore she has no choice but to defend him and her decision to put up with that crap so that she doesn't have to feel ashamed that ppl pity her and don't respect their relationship.
The porn question was not necessary. Porn is disgusting and very fake and can ruin a marriage or a relationship. How hard is that to understand. At least he has moral values.
Not being able to wear a bikini is ridiculous 🙄 But yeah showing your underwear through your dress is not classy 😅 If she wore skin colored underwear that covered a bit more it would have been fine.
How is Bini able to pay for these classes if literally neither of them are working and bringing in any money?? They can’t afford their rent and utilities but can afford to pay for training?
Yves friends need to grill her she was the one who bought a 25-year-old into her space and expects to connect with him even though they have nothing in common. Biniyam is clueless and Ari needs to give it up she is insecure, wants to control everything and has no interest in working. Once again, all the focus is on the men when these women are making very poor choices.
@@eveheart2876 me too I would change my outfit if it is showing my underwear but he is wrong to try to change her and ladies we should neveret mens tell us what to do or how to wear
WTH Bini has no business doing MMA with a woman 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ In stuff like this they want you to train with your same gender, same weight, same height.
They are so incompatible! He literally started messaging her because he liked how she looked in a bikini. If that’s what started your relationship, how can you criticize her for the same thing. I respect his Muslim faith but he has no right to force his beliefs into her. She is twice his age, she’s not a Muslim and relationships are about compromise, not control.
I hope Shaeeda is using him and leaves him as soon as she gets her citizenship or when a real man steps to her and is willing to do a better job than bilal, which is pretty much anyone.
Good thing he found out on day 1 and is just going along with producers of the show to entertain viewers and for ratings. That man isn't stupid. Im sure he felt stupid and embarrassed day 1. This staged show has him just playing along now.
Why? I’m confused why shaeeda gets soooo much hype after treating bilal horribly on the first day they met because of materials smh then to lay hands on him in the car and now he’s a bad man??? Y’all need to wake up smh this woman reckless and entitled
I’m totally not on Mohammed’s side. But I will say that Yve probably was not aware of how revealing her dress was from the back. I feel like she wouldn’t have been comfortable had she known what it looked like.
I find it laughable how people think Ari is trying to be controlling, yet her man is living in Lala land thinking the US is a place where everything is easy and there’s no need to work LOL
He is coming a little late into the game to think he is going to make a living in MMA..... There are many MMA leagues in the country and not 1 of them pays enough to make a living at... Until you make it onto a PPV even or an undercard at many main events.. You dont make squat. My Friend was actually a UFC Title Holder ( Clay Guida) and you don't make a living off of it... Binny has no experience except fighting in a hall with his friends in a third world country... 2-4 hours a day traing ? Try 8-10 hours if you are sreious... You have to know many different martial arts and wrestling....
I married a Korean and moved to South Korea. My husband and I never fight because we respect each other and we both compromise when possible. We respect each other’s cultures and fuse both cultures in our lives. If these guys can’t do that then their marriage won’t work
@Mark Armstrong lol .. we know where he is. Lol. This comment is useless. She àsked why he doesn't have on his seat beat. He's not used to wearing it, and until he's told, how will he know. Having lived in Egypt, I answered from my experience. You could have kept your answer. Lol 😂😂😂😂
@Mark Armstrong hahahaha I bet in the next scene he won't have it on again. Do guy strike you as someone who cares about any law other than his countries and Muslim.. lol he doesn't care. That why he should go back where he is comfortable
Absolutely! It never occurs to Ari to go look for a job. She says she traveled the world during her 20's, who paid for that? I think the parents realize the created an entitled princess. She was not prepared to be an adult
1) I no longer feel bad for Shaheeda. She clearly sees Bilal’s behavior yet makes excuses for him and she tries to make the viewers look like the villains who are “misjudging” him. Girl bye. 🙄 2) The relationship with Mohammed and Yve is not at all compatible or healthy. They both have completely different expectations, and different values. They’re both in different seasons of life, and they’re very different from each other in every sense of the word. This was a temporary moment of lust that was mistaken for a long term relationship. Hope they realize that soon and let each other go before either one of them wastes each other’s time.
To make a long story short HARAM is HARAM. Wrong)))) They. brought this behavior to the viewer. Now your the victim. Really. This in not def not ISLAMIC. BEHAVIOR. ON THOS WHO FEAR ALLAH AAMEEN
Yve and her friends are so cringy, like the old crowd trying to be cool, but Mohammed is out of line. I didn't like her underwear showing either but didn't he know what kind of woman she was? If he wanted a conservative lady he shouldn't have let it go this far.
I kinda understand what Mohammed was saying about her friends asking inappropriate questions.... I'm honestly surprised Yve didn't say hey that's enough because you can see that he felt uncomfortable with that conversation of porn that's really none of their business.
As a Muslim, there is a huge difference between culture and religion. He doesn’t want eve to be a Muslim for him, he wants her to be a culturally oppressed women that does what he wants. He needs to go back to Egypt
Bilal is a very bad choice for Shaeeda..she needs to go home and let it go..Bilal is a control freak and she needs to take her rose colored glasses off
Yes I agree Melicia, they are not compatible at all! 🤣 I think Yve was going through a mid-life crisis and she jumped on the chance to hang around with a boy toy, hopefully she realizes she messed up and sends him packing! Do the right thing Yve, choose the bikini! 🤣🤣🤣
@@girisha_laxmi11 ce n'est pas la religion le problème. C'est plus le fait qu'il soit immature et qu'il cherche une seconde mère. Comme tu dis un homme de son âge aurait été plus approprié
C’est rare d’avoir des français ici haha ! I don’t they would work as a couple either. Je suis désolée aucun rapport avec le fait d’être musulman. Je suis musulmane et ma famille est très ouverte. Je porte des bikinis etc. Et tout le monde est ok avec ça. Le problème vient de la mentalité du type
This is what to expect when you marry an Arab man. Not all Arab men are like this, but most are. My ex-husband was very controlling, ESPECIALLY when it came to what I was wearing. I wore a dress once that was literally two inches above the knee and him and his mother disapproved and made a HUGE deal out of it. Another time I hung out with his two cousins (which he was invited but he refused to go) and he - and his mother - got mad because I was there with his male cousin. I wasn’t alone with him, because his female cousin was with us. He KNEW that, but he still refused to go and still made a big deal out of it. He was a very controlling man and pure hell to be married to. If you don’t want to be controlled, you probably want to evaluate your man before you marry him.
@@jackiemartling5321 I sure did, but people sure do wear a mask until it’s time for the reveal. I was also a very young girl that was blinded by love and manipulated and told that I would be given a good life and that he wouldn’t hurt me.
Yves friends are acting like investigators. They were way out of line. Yve shouldn't be discussing her relationship with Mohammed with her friends. This relationship is not going to go well.
I wish American people would stop for a moment and learn about the culture of the person they have interest in. If your partner is insecure then work to build them better, stop assuming the worse. If they are controlling then encourage them to address it or leave. Sometimes it’s not about insecurity as much as it is security! My ex visited me at work one evening and was wearing a skirt that was a little revealing, I don’t make issue of it but she was leaving alone and going home alone, so I In fact did advise her about it. It’s not about changing or control, but that I saw something she didn’t see. Just as she once told me to change my shorts when her friends came over because they didn’t look appropriate around other women. Was she trying to change or control me?
Personally I think the exchange between Yve's friends and Mohamed was perpetrated and scripted by 90 day/TLC. There is no way would I question my best friend's man about his sexual experience or if he watched pornography. That scene was distasteful to say the least. I don't buy what TLC was selling with that scene. I do agree this couple is not compatible on any level. What's the point? Mohamed needs to go back to Alexandria and Yve needs to find someone who is suitable for her.
I know what he meant as father of your child he’s better off with a green card to financially support their child regardless if they stay together or not
Well, he moved to America, he doesn't work, he doesn't really help around the house. He literally just wanna be a king of the house without any effort. If he wants everyone respect him he has to behave appropriately.
Ewwww....a 48 year old woman don't know how to look in the mirror before she leaves the house. And has the audacity to have an issue when her dude told her underwear was showing. What she'd rather go out and have people comment and judge her based on her appearance.
She’s immature. She’s going to let her special needs child be watched by her new man child boyfriend? Also, why is she going out to eat with her g string showing? How is that not distasteful? And why couldn’t she confront him earlier, she had to wait until all these other women were seated around her 🙄pathetic woman.
@Mark Armstrong that explains in reaction. He sees her in a light that showing her thong under her dress is not becoming of the status he gives her. Thanks for proving my point.
How you gonna go to Egypt to get a man with these values and adjust yourself , then have him come to America to be yourself. I don’t understand this show and all the grilling of people from other countries. It’s rude as hell. And why can’t our ladies and men find someone who is accustomed to the madness that is our country 🤨
I'm 57 years young I'm not changing for anyone unless they are willing to compromise with me. Yve is proud of her body embrace who you are. With Bini they was like wolves about paying the bills. How can he work without having a visa.
57yrs young... but did you see that dress she had on??? Her behind wasn't firm and like Mohamed said, he can see everything. Older women should be proud of their looks but classy sexy is best...and to all older women, show good role model and wear clothes appropriate to your age...classy sexy or class, period
When your dating someone from another country or religion you should do research on his religion. I myself come from a very strict Christian religious background and we have many rules. That's why I dress conservative even though I don't like dressing that way but that's just how it is and we have to respect it even if we don't always agree with the rules.
Raised by Christian pastors they emphasized a genuine relationship with God over what you wear. When you travel and live in many countries you realize how much stuff is just made up so create the World you want new rules, rules change every century. Just dress in what makes you feel beautiful.
Just sounds like a shut up and get over it statement. This is why I have a hard time when it comes to religion. I am Christian but it literally should not matter how you dress yourself if you have faith and love for God. God isn't going to judge you and condemn you to hell for being able to see your panty line in a dress. When rules have been added about how to dress, what a women can and cannot do. Who has control in a household its no longer about God but about social constructs in society.
My bf is from Egypt as well and i am from Germany. He does not tell me what i can wear and stuff. Of course he isnt pleased with my choices all the time but he doesnt say i should change. He also does not mind that i drink alcohol or eat pork because he understands that im not muslim. And thats how it should be ngl.
@@ginakarakan8271 what is he following he is living with a women without being married having a physical relationship this is not allowed before marriage so why is he expecting his partner to do the same another thing is he can't force her to become Muslim. This guy really needs to work upon himself before giving others advice lol
@@husssain140 they were married in his country before he came to America. They had nikah which is a religious ceremony. He isn't forcing her to become Muslim. He is showing her things about Islam and that is what he should be doing as a Muslim. She has to be the only one who decides if she is going to convert because if she is forced then she is not a true Muslim. Also if she converts just to please him then again she wouldn't be a true muslim
Not trying to body shame here but we all know what each of us is working with and the kind of clothes that compliments our shape and size. That black g string is not for the dress. Sorry! I honestly expected more class from Yves. When you are a certain age and in a different point in your life, you dress differently. You can still be sexy AND classy.
Why do most Americans act like someone bringing up a green card is the worst thing in the world.. like wtf ? Bini already lost his first child because the woman went to the US and he couldn’t be apart of his life. He doesn’t want that to happen with his second baby, Avi. Wow a dad wanting to stay in America for his child, whether he’s with the mom or not! Shocking!! Y’all need to grow up and Americans need to stop acting like America is this great place that all these people are just trynna come take over 😂 and if it’s so great like you said, why does it bother you that people want to stay and live a better life??? The entitlement of white people is amazing. Like wow. Lmfao
I agree, why are they surprised that he brings the green card ? Isn’t it the document that allows you to WORK and STAY in America (where the kids are living) ??? Like he’s supposed to talk about what other solution
I think scamming and decieving ppl into marriage and love is wrong , but bini is being straight up here , to her and also to her and his family , so he ain't scamming anyone
It's not about race. I think many Americans don't want someone using them for green card purposes. And they have a right to be concerned. Because the givernment holds the American financially responsible for up to 10 years, even if the foreign spouse winds up being a liar and moves in with a new love. The only way that spouse is of tge hook is if the foreign spouse remarries or leaves the country.
@@rediettadesse2828 in a way he is. He knows Ari wanted to marry for love. I'm glad he said it though because if she divorces him, which I think she should, she can hold him liable for deceit.
That conflict between Mohamed and Yve where he told her what she was wearing was inappropriate was not at all private. It was filmed for all of us to see and her friends would eventually watch it anyways. His argument that she should’ve kept that situation between them private makes no sense.
In that moment, it WAS private. Sure, they would have found out about it months later. But by then it would have been water under the bridge. Also, the sole reason she brought it up was to embarrass and shit talk him in front of her friends. Its not cool.
I'm not sure why the criticism of Bilal's behavior is being turned into a racial issue. Are we not allowed to criticize someone for treating their partner like crap just cause they're a black man? He's rude, controlling and disrespectful towards Shaeeda. If he acted differently, no one would be criticizing him.
Amen!!! She’s just excusing him because of his color!! And it’s wrong!!!
I'm balck I can see what his wife is saying , but he has issues too
exactly, tired of the race card, shes just diverting the real issues
I'm black and he disgusts me
Yeah, I don't see how his terrible attitude has anything to do with him being a black man.
Can we please HAVE Melicia AS A 90 DAY TELL ALL HOST she's so coherent and calls people out on bad behavior
Yes. I dont like the other host. She doesn't go in and ask questions that we are all obviously yelling at the tv screen to ask ..😄 i dont think she even watches the show
@@sylviadavis2208 honestly!! there's so many times im sitting there like CAN YOU JUST ASK THE REAL QUESTIONS!!! like i love melicia does a recap because she does interview the couples and give them a space to talk while asks the questions we most likely want answered or even recalls bad behavior on folk.
@@jesshiidoe we need to get a petition started..😄😄 ..i think i dont really watch the tell alls all the way through cuz im so mad my question didnt get asked..
@Mark Armstrong lol it’s Darcy and Stacy are gonna cry
@@sylviadavis2208 lol I watch whatever is on UA-cam about them since it’s the only way I can
Mohamed needs to book the next flight back to Egypt so he can be loved correctly by his mom.
“So he can be loved …correctly by his mom” Thank you for PERFECTLY stating it !! I needed a good LAUGH, you nailed 💯 POOR Mohammed 😝
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This comment made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅
This comment is so true it’s killer lmao
I’m a Muslim woman and Mohammad is DEAD wrong. He is acting like a hypocrite. You can’t pick and choose what suits you and then condemn someone else because they sin differently than you! Girl, send him back to his MOM!
And she's not even muslim. He also has to respect her religion and beliefs
I am very happy about your comment. All my muslim friend does not know this “rule” set. It is his countrys rituals and heritage , for men to be in power over women! He gladly lives in the House she payed for! He has no money, no right to judge her and no respekt for women what so ever! He liked her from the first time in bikini, not it is bikini or him! Very childish an pathetic Behavior!
@@therealakkherself1296 actually, he was attracted to her in the bikini, know he wants to control her. SMH...
What is he dead wrong about?
he did tell her to get a bigger coat cuz the outline of her underwear was showing. In this regard,I think he was looking out for her. She knew what she signed up for.
It's Biniyam fumbling his bag for me...💀🤦🏽♀
No one, LITERALLY NO ONE asked him about the green card 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 it was so cringy, like Bini, say less lol.
I mean TLC does edit a lot lol. They could have very well have and they left that part out to make it look so dramatic
@@zari2662 i was just thinking the same thing
Lol
HE DECLARED HIS INTENTIONS ON THE TABLE IN FRONT HIS IN LAWS LOL MUCH AUDACITY!!!😂😂😂😂😂
I love Melicia. I love that she went back to review the comments and reflect on it, to see if it had validity.
And on top of that her narrations are 100. She's the reason I know what's going on on 90 day fiancée franchise.
I don’t even watch the show. I just wait for her recaps.
She is the best!!
I think Melicia should be the reunion speaker she would ask excellent questions. Shane is terrible
@@aussiegardener1773 lol it's Shaun haha. She's such an awful host that we don't even really know her name LOL
With Bilal, people calling him a narcissist has nothing to do with him being black and everything to do with the way he would treat Shaheeda. He irks me so much. I could not handle a man talking to me and treating me the way he treats her.
Exactly. Shaeeda is saying one thing on the actual episode then say contradictory things on the interview. She doesn't know if she's coming or going.
Agreeded
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@Christina Jones I agree with your statement. People throw the term around too easily. I was referring more to how she was using race as an excuse and denying his actions. I don't think he's an actual narcissist but I'm also not a therapist who can diagnose that.
@Christina Jones it's quite interesting that you reduced it to "someone acting in a way you don't like," in order to invalidate the point being made. That's extremely manipulative and gaslighting. But you know that. Ppl are called narcissistic when they exhibit traits consistent with the definition of that word. Narcissistic and BEING DIAGNOSED with narcissistic personality disorder is two completely different things. One can have some narcissistic traits and not have narcissistic personality disorder. Noone is saying he has NPD. Also how do you know Bilal didn't suffer abuse in his childhood? We don't know these ppl, but we are judging them based on their actions.
Not Biniyam trying to have one foot out the door trying to secure that green card so he can leave Ari and set up a better life for himself and his family.
😂😂😂
@@ashleyhadfield6592 oso
Ari's parents have been taking care of them this whole time. Now that her parents are saying they have to pay the bills for the apartment. She's all pissed off knowing she has to get a job and pay for her man to live. If he was a real man he'd get a cash job and work his ass off to help his family. Like any other illegal alien. Both of them live outside the realm of reality!
I don’t think Yve understood why she needed a longer jacket. She would if she saw herself from behind. That black thong looking through was not classy. Also her friends are unpleasant. Sorry. Are they trying to join them in bed or something? Why those personal questions they have no business asking?
Thank you! So degrading as a Woman period! And why would she bring someone here to the US she doesn't know? She's acting like she doesn't know his background. I don't buy it!
All I kept thinking while watching that scene was, what if the rolls were reversed? What if Some guys were asking those inappropriate question to a female?
No one cares about the men all we are seen as is muscular narcissist.
I thought I was the only one that saw it! I couldn’t figure why she would want to go out like that and he is right if some man ask her for some, then she wants to take offense. Don’t advertise if you can’t deliver!
@@SheraDeletic1 exactly !
Whatever you may think about Mohammed, Yves friends were dead wrong for asking him inappropriate questions and yes, the dress didn’t look good on her.
She may be older than Mohammed but she is immature just like him.
Exactly women scream me too, yet if Mohammed say Eve at a table full of men who asked her how she was in bed and how did she learn to have sex! It’s wrong they totally sexually harassed him. Besides that he truly acts like Eve is his sugar momma and he only wants one thing citizenship to get into the country then come out of the closet. I believe he’s truly gay and can’t open up in Egypt
Lol the dress was hella see through on the flat booty😂 the camera man had the nerve to zoom up so the producers I guess agreed 🤣🤣
Bilal seems much more present and enthusiastic with his smiles and free flowing words while discussing the negative social media reaction to last week’s show than he does when we see him ‘alone’ with shaaeda.
Proper narcissist. He cares about his own image (never about her).
Exactly
That's cause he puts on a mask for the rest of us.
@@GoReTTii yet shaaeda said different. Oh geez, who am I to believe 😳 the people not in the relationship or the people acting like relationship professionals? 🤔
@@simondadrilla2607 believe the relationship professionals. Ppl in relationships with something to gain like shaeda will obviously side with the man she consistently complains to abt his actions while trying to tell the public they're wrong for repeating the same thing abt Bilal that she does in different words.
Yve is immature for her age. Her obsession with her friends opinion, dating a younger boyman and her fluactuating emotions.
And apparently ignorant too. She picks a Muslim man. Muslim is a religion that is not very separate from daily life, its a way of living. Most ppl. in the States have a religion they seem to only practice when they attend Church.
Thank you
@@mayc8674 yup and just because it’s different doesn’t make it all bad. Toxic western ideology is no accepting of different cultures
She's old enough to know that they are a total mismatch.
I Totally agree
Bini defended this stranger more than he did Ari against his sister throwing wine at her
I was SHOCKED he did NOTHING NOTHING to defend his girl like 🤯🤯🤯
He doesn't seem happy with her. Plus Ari is entitled as hell ... That wine to her whoville face was probably the wake up call she needed
Yo.... I thought I was the only one who saw that? 👀👀👀
so true!!! agree!!!
You are SO right!
I hope Shaeeda leaves him as fast as she can, I haven't seen him be sweet, kind, caring, or loving toward her. He lectures her, tries to demean her, doesn't look at her when she is speaking to him. She is waaaay too good for him and shouldn't waste her child bearing years with someone who is going to treat her like a child and dangle children in front of her as if she can't get anyone better. And no, no one is saying bilal is toxic bc of his race or his skin color, they're saying it bc its true. When other wealthier men have come on the show, they were not treating their women like this, he is awful to her. Maybe it's a cultural difference, but I would not tolerate bilals b.s. at all. He is GROSS.
Mohamed was correct abt the friends being weird, but I understand them wanting to see where his head is. The only relationship I believe may last is Thais and her man. The other ones are not based on love.
At all lol ..
She won't..she's too hard up for that green card
She wants that green card. She is using him and he knows it and he feels scammed. His pride is high and he's definitely embarrassed!
I think she’s not in love with him, she wants the money she wants the green card, she wants children with a wealthy man because she is not stupid.
I can't stand how he talks about having always wanted a special person and be married yet he was. WTH! So many ppl. looking for fantasies that can never materialize. Wonder what happened to his marriage, why couldn't that have been his ideal! I can already tell he is fantasizing about this new one bc she wants kids and in his fantasy it seems she does not want kids ha, ha, ha.
Yves friends were wrong to ask questions about his sex life and for her to allow them to ask him questions like that shows her disrespect if him. I 100% believe they were doing the things they were doing and saying to get a rise out of him as a Muslim man. He should be upset with her for running and telling her friends everything that happens between them. It's one thing to discuss your sex life with your friends but to allow them to throw it in his face is wrong.
Naw I think she tells them everything and they are overprotective of her so they ask invasive questions. Not necessarily because they want a rise out of him.
I agree Yve shouldn’t have told her and even more important her friend shouldn’t have brought the subject. But I don’t think it’s because she disrespect him, it’s a common thing for long time friends to discuss about their private life. It’s just distasteful embarrassing and inconsiderate
Yve lost her smile in an instant, what a shame. For an older lady to still have spunk and have this younger guy take her light, it so very sad. She is not smiling as she is getting verbally harassed by this guy that needs to get out of her life, no joy is not worth it. I pray she sees this is going to be a cage and a sad life and she drops him off at the airport, one way ticket out of her house and life. She deserves better, it's better to be alone than unhappy, and the scene in the car proves it.
Excuse me, she picked a MUSLIM guy. That is a religion with strick rules you do know? Muslims don't separate regular life from religious life. It's all in one.
She chose him. Plus, as a soon to be married Woman, why would you wear a see through dress? So degrading. She knew his background. As an educated Woman, why not research it? If she didn't know his background, why are you bringing him into our country? Ugh
Thank you. Always. Blaming the man shit I feel sorry for some of yall
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@@SheraDeletic1 because she's fell in love and got swept away with the whole situation it's understandable she's got her hands full In the USA, love is blind I totally get why she's done it bless her
Hey Melicia and ET, can you please click on the auto-captions UA-cam options for deaf viewers like me? It costs nothing yet gives the multi-millions of people with hearing loss access to your videos. Thanks!
Signal boost!
Thank you!
@@tommyjones6866 yes please!!! I would watch your show for sure.i can't read lips. Thank you very much. Life is hard enough not being able to afford hearing aids. Deep appreciatetion
Hey there!! There’s a subtitle option on the right hand corner on most phones that says “CC” to see captions.
@@briannaje5419 the channel didn’t initially have auto-generated caption on nor captions added. Now cc button works because they changed setting. Thanks for looking out!! 😊
Can we all agree that this host is not only very wise but is super funny LOL
Run run he is toxic,, that voice ,, please stay quiet
She should take over from Shaun for the tell all
@@spicykennag i was thinking that too but then she might not be able to speak as freely as she does on here… i would love to see that though😩
She needs to Host the Tell All
@@trinii999 I don't get why people don't understand this, maybe they don't understand why Shaun can't say certain things. Melicia is able to speak freely because of this platform. We don't want her getting tied up in the politics of the Tell All where they will censor her.
the dress thing, honestly, its not even about respect for your man, its about respect for yourself. Dont go out with a dress thin as hell where your underwear shines trough 🥲
Not even underwear, but a gstring lol
@@jannalam6861 same same, but even if it was not black but skincolor it would maybe not be noticable🥲
Seriously!! He did her a favor. That was not cute. I hope that was staged because if not 😳 Lol
It wasn't pretty ...she is too old n heavy to dress like that.
My husband is not Muslim and he would have had a problem with that dress - put a slip on or something I agree with him on this one.
Melisa calling out on Mohamed living and being intimate with Eve was on-point. Kudos for her HONESTY and FEARLESS COMMENTARY.
they are married.
@@redox6160 they weren't married at the time he did those things with her
@@fatimafaat4207 they had done their Nikkah
He isn’t straight about not wanting kids, puts her in awkward position with his family
When the homeboy biniam started talking about that green card thing in the room went silent you done know he already messed up LMAO😆😂😂😂😆
HE MADE A FOOL OF HIMSELF LIKE HE DON´T CARE ARI AND AVI ONLY THE GREEN CARD 😂😂😂😂😂
this guy has the IQ of a Jellyfish, what did you expect? lol
@Mark Armstrong you are speaking the gospel right there my brother😄✌👊
Well his other kid is here. So I hope he trying so he can see his oldest son while he is here in the states. But we will see
But this isn’t the first time Biyam has been to the states and stayed with her parents, so they know what he is. It’s not there place to choose a mate for Ari and for whatever reason she loves him cause she keeps coming back for more. Before I grill Biyam I would definitely get into my daughter’s a-! Cause she is the one I raised, and am supporting. The only issue I would have with Biyam is his sister throwing wine in her face. As her husband/spouse he should have stepped in and stopped that. That was a no no. As a protector and provider he messed up on that one. At no point have I seen Ari with a stable plan or even a work option. She just politely ask mom/dad her national bank to provide and they do. Now after how many years of providing, the parents are fed up. Please they should have felt that way long ago. If the parents paid for college; that should have been the end of big spending on Ari. It’s pathetic, instead of her stepping up she use Biyam as her down fall.
Melissa is right with Yves telling her friends, you don't tell your friends everything. It's personal. The same way her friends don't ask him first time they meet about sex and porn. WTF 😂
In all fairness, you can. I think anyone is allowed to vent about their frustrations with their spouse with their closest friends. Maybe not in front that spouse but still.
And while they shouldn't ask him randomly about his sex life and p0rn, a lot of that could be attributed to the fact that in a lot of circles in the US, especially liberal ones like this seems to be, these are normal conversations. So it's basically ignorance on their part. Probably thought that their liberal friend was talking to a Westernized Egyptian.
@@imacarguy4065 wrong lmao.
@@imacarguy4065 Theres a difference between venting to your friends about your SO...and shit-talking your SO to your friends. She was talking shit. She said that to embarrass him and so they would jump on him.
Come on! Everyone talks to friends. It doesn't hurt anything. Yves needs the support
Shaeeda looks like a strong woman losing her light and voice on 90 Day. It has nothing to do with Bilal being a black man as this observation has been made by many people of color. I know the producers edit the program to look a certain way but in the end he is saying and doing what was filmed. As for Yve and Mohamed, I would appreciate that someone told me if my thong was visible as it looked tacky and I would not bring my fiancé to a "firing" squad, their questions were highly inappropriate. However that said, I would never marry him as I know it would never work out, too many cultural and age divides. And yes Melicia you are right, once he decided to live and sleep with her before marriage he lost all right to criticize Yve.
Shaeeda is using him and he found out on day 1. He lost that connection and is now just following production rules to entertain viewers for ratings. He's quite embarrassed because he was warned but didn't listen. He's now just going along with this staged show.
@@SheraDeletic1 If that was true he wouldn't have married her. They are married now.
@@natalierivera5997 The show is clearly staged! They were married before filming. I just found that out. The scene regarding the stay at his childhood home and all was all fake. You're busy trying to make me look stupid but the show has you by the hair. Proves my point, exactly. Here's the link, everyone: she's been here and they got married right away folks as well as the younger couple living in south Dakota, for about 2 years now! This show is so FAKE! ua-cam.com/video/rXHtoJiYtnM/v-deo.html
I agree with most of what you said except that they got married in his country which is why he can sleep with her
I don't care if he was purple, Bilal has dark energy. And.. Shaeeda - I feel sorry for her. Guess if you want something bad enough, you'll convince yourself what's sour is honey. Kudos for her at least attempting to speak up for herself to Bilal. But I disagree with her pithy reason for why people don't like Bilal.
Wearing a see through dress that show her underwear when going out is not appropriate it normal for the guy to ask her to change
My husband and I did the 90 Day Fiancé, got married, ect but not on the show. We did it on our own. I tell you what, with all the hate from people that don’t matter, I am so glad we didn’t put our lives on TV. It is no wonder so many of these couples don’t make it. To top it off, it is absolutely spun whatever way the show wants.
Harsh and distasteful?? Kinda like threatening to drop a woman who is 100% dependent on you on the side of the road? Or leaving her to fend for herself at that Friday service? Or cancelling date night after she gets dressed?🙄🤦🏾♀️
Ikr, shaeda will put up with anything Bilal throws her atp because she wants babies and is already 37, ntm he makes good money. To give up on him and start over now she literally can't as her best bet is to be long suffering inorder to become a mother and love comfortably in that nice house. As a result she responds to the criticism with gaslighting and manipulation because despite everything, if she sticks with him, and the narrative of the public is that he's bad, then it reflects badly on her as a desperate woman. Therefore she has no choice but to defend him and her decision to put up with that crap so that she doesn't have to feel ashamed that ppl pity her and don't respect their relationship.
women never have no choice huh😆
Yve let the baby go back to his mother. You can't afford to take care of two babies safe yourself for your baby boy
The porn question was not necessary. Porn is disgusting and very fake and can ruin a marriage or a relationship. How hard is that to understand. At least he has moral values.
Yve needs to send that boy back to his mommy..and she needs to grow tf up!!!
Not being able to wear a bikini is ridiculous 🙄
But yeah showing your underwear through your dress is not classy 😅 If she wore skin colored underwear that covered a bit more it would have been fine.
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂💀💀💀💀 " the green card it's good for me "
How is Bini able to pay for these classes if literally neither of them are working and bringing in any money?? They can’t afford their rent and utilities but can afford to pay for training?
Tlc money
Yves friends need to grill her she was the one who bought a 25-year-old into her space and expects to connect with him even though they have nothing in common. Biniyam is clueless and Ari needs to give it up she is insecure, wants to control everything and has no interest in working. Once again, all the focus is on the men when these women are making very poor choices.
Noice!!! On point
Or you could just equally blame everyone in these relationships.
"The cameraman was wrong for that" lol
Ikr 😂. If my man calls me out on my dress / paint line showing. I will change the outfit.
@@eveheart2876 me too I would change my outfit if it is showing my underwear but he is wrong to try to change her and ladies we should neveret mens tell us what to do or how to wear
WTH Bini has no business doing MMA with a woman 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ In stuff like this they want you to train with your same gender, same weight, same height.
Not really I train MMA they have girls instructors or men but again all my instructors being men he should had say
He needs to train with a male
I feel like Ari went in there acting ridiculous as hell. The lady training with him should’ve beat her ass for that 😂
If I was Mohamed's girlfriend I would tell him I'm not choosing a bikini over you. I'm choosing my freedom to wear anything I want over you.😆
They are so incompatible!
He literally started messaging her because he liked how she looked in a bikini.
If that’s what started your relationship, how can you criticize her for the same thing.
I respect his Muslim faith but he has no right to force his beliefs into her. She is twice his age, she’s not a Muslim and relationships are about compromise, not control.
I hope Shaeeda is using him and leaves him as soon as she gets her citizenship or when a real man steps to her and is willing to do a better job than bilal, which is pretty much anyone.
Good thing he found out on day 1 and is just going along with producers of the show to entertain viewers and for ratings. That man isn't stupid. Im sure he felt stupid and embarrassed day 1. This staged show has him just playing along now.
Shaheeda is gorgeous and sweet and has self worth. She'll find a much better nicer loving guy than this ego-maniac.
Why? I’m confused why shaeeda gets soooo much hype after treating bilal horribly on the first day they met because of materials smh then to lay hands on him in the car and now he’s a bad man??? Y’all need to wake up smh this woman reckless and entitled
@@AudreySatori poor you, you must not know what a real man is
I’m totally not on Mohammed’s side. But I will say that Yve probably was not aware of how revealing her dress was from the back. I feel like she wouldn’t have been comfortable had she known what it looked like.
Hahaha wasn’t flattering at all
hat was a HORRIBLE looking dress from behind !
Right! And he wasn’t even rude about it. She looked a mess in that dress and he was telling her nicely that it wasn’t flattering
It was “private” when she told her friends, but I bet it’s not so “private” when he tells his mommy 🙄
We need to find out why Bilal wife left him and i bet it's because he is controlling and wanted to treat her like a child with all this lecturing.
I am convinced he's had a vasectomy too
Why his TWO ex-wives left him. Bilal already had one marriage under his belt before getting with his kids' mom.
@@liverpoollass9915 wow I didn’t even think of that, just imagine lmao yikes 😳
@Mark Armstrong you mean he been fired that many time,all that wealth can't help him, she need to run very fast to get away from him.
Exactly
I find it laughable how people think Ari is trying to be controlling, yet her man is living in Lala land thinking the US is a place where everything is easy and there’s no need to work LOL
He is coming a little late into the game to think he is going to make a living in MMA..... There are many MMA leagues in the country and not 1 of them pays enough to make a living at... Until you make it onto a PPV even or an undercard at many main events.. You dont make squat. My Friend was actually a UFC Title Holder ( Clay Guida) and you don't make a living off of it... Binny has no experience except fighting in a hall with his friends in a third world country... 2-4 hours a day traing ? Try 8-10 hours if you are sreious... You have to know many different martial arts and wrestling....
I married a Korean and moved to South Korea. My husband and I never fight because we respect each other and we both compromise when possible. We respect each other’s cultures and fuse both cultures in our lives. If these guys can’t do that then their marriage won’t work
I am obsessed with Melicia. You are hilarious!
That boy is seriously tripping!!🤨
Why is he not wearing his seatbelt!?
Yve devait le mettre à l'arrière sur un siège enfant
Cause in his country they don't wear seat belts or have car seats for babies.
@Mark Armstrong lol .. we know where he is. Lol. This comment is useless. She àsked why he doesn't have on his seat beat. He's not used to wearing it, and until he's told, how will he know. Having lived in Egypt, I answered from my experience. You could have kept your answer. Lol 😂😂😂😂
@Mark Armstrong good point!😂
@Mark Armstrong hahahaha I bet in the next scene he won't have it on again. Do guy strike you as someone who cares about any law other than his countries and Muslim.. lol he doesn't care. That why he should go back where he is comfortable
Ari wants Dr. daddy to pay her bills she's probably been spoiled her whole life
It amazes me how someone as intelligent and important as a doctor can have a kid that is so dang useless.
Absolutely! It never occurs to Ari to go look for a job. She says she traveled the world during her 20's, who paid for that? I think the parents realize the created an entitled princess. She was not prepared to be an adult
LMFAO Dr daddy
Dr Daddy is retired, so she needs to get off his invisible payroll
@@jackiemoore3442 right?!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I agree 💯 %%
1) I no longer feel bad for Shaheeda. She clearly sees Bilal’s behavior yet makes excuses for him and she tries to make the viewers look like the villains who are “misjudging” him. Girl bye. 🙄
2) The relationship with Mohammed and Yve is not at all compatible or healthy. They both have completely different expectations, and different values. They’re both in different seasons of life, and they’re very different from each other in every sense of the word. This was a temporary moment of lust that was mistaken for a long term relationship. Hope they realize that soon and let each other go before either one of them wastes each other’s time.
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To make a long story short HARAM is HARAM. Wrong)))) They. brought this behavior to the viewer. Now your the victim. Really. This in not def not ISLAMIC. BEHAVIOR. ON THOS WHO FEAR ALLAH AAMEEN
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Atleast Biniyam is honest about the green card. I give him A for honesty
Yve and her friends are so cringy, like the old crowd trying to be cool, but Mohammed is out of line. I didn't like her underwear showing either but didn't he know what kind of woman she was? If he wanted a conservative lady he shouldn't have let it go this far.
Yeah he is too controlling g but seriously her underwear showing was just classless and ugly
I kinda understand what Mohammed was saying about her friends asking inappropriate questions.... I'm honestly surprised Yve didn't say hey that's enough because you can see that he felt uncomfortable with that conversation of porn that's really none of their business.
A woman who respects her man will not show off for other men.
Melicia you should have your own channel. You’re so awesome
Thank you so much for what you said about different opinions being welcome and stepping back to see it from anothers POV! That is so rare these days!
Biny needs to stop telling his sister everything about his future wife ,and their problems.
As a Muslim, there is a huge difference between culture and religion. He doesn’t want eve to be a Muslim for him, he wants her to be a culturally oppressed women that does what he wants. He needs to go back to Egypt
love melicia she’s so honest and sweet
The man already told her family he wants a green card one way or the other.
Bilal is a very bad choice for Shaeeda..she needs to go home and let it go..Bilal is a control freak and she needs to take her rose colored glasses off
I believe they are already married.
@@cathyincolorado1432 LLAAAWD so not good ..!
@Mark Armstrong very bad for her..
Just send him back to his mom 🙂😒
Mom is probably dancing bc she's so happy he's gone.
@@tezsgino 😂
Yves friends were wearing their bombshell bras forsure lol
Non of these couples are s good fit for each other.
Yes I agree Melicia, they are not compatible at all! 🤣 I think Yve was going through a mid-life crisis and she jumped on the chance to hang around with a boy toy, hopefully she realizes she messed up and sends him packing! Do the right thing Yve, choose the bikini! 🤣🤣🤣
Yve est désespérée pour s'intéresser à un gamin. Renvoies-le chez sa mère, gardes ton temps et ton énergie pour ton fils
Agree
For real
Elle devrait avoir une relation avec un homme de son âge.Il es musulmain et a une culture differente a elle. Il ne changera pour elle.
@@girisha_laxmi11 ce n'est pas la religion le problème. C'est plus le fait qu'il soit immature et qu'il cherche une seconde mère. Comme tu dis un homme de son âge aurait été plus approprié
C’est rare d’avoir des français ici haha ! I don’t they would work as a couple either. Je suis désolée aucun rapport avec le fait d’être musulman. Je suis musulmane et ma famille est très ouverte. Je porte des bikinis etc. Et tout le monde est ok avec ça. Le problème vient de la mentalité du type
This is what to expect when you marry an Arab man. Not all Arab men are like this, but most are. My ex-husband was very controlling, ESPECIALLY when it came to what I was wearing. I wore a dress once that was literally two inches above the knee and him and his mother disapproved and made a HUGE deal out of it. Another time I hung out with his two cousins (which he was invited but he refused to go) and he - and his mother - got mad because I was there with his male cousin. I wasn’t alone with him, because his female cousin was with us. He KNEW that, but he still refused to go and still made a big deal out of it. He was a very controlling man and pure hell to be married to. If you don’t want to be controlled, you probably want to evaluate your man before you marry him.
You picked him!
Where is he from ? Cz not all Arab men the same !
@@jackiemartling5321 I sure did, but people sure do wear a mask until it’s time for the reveal. I was also a very young girl that was blinded by love and manipulated and told that I would be given a good life and that he wouldn’t hurt me.
@@Meyouletsgo Lebanon. Yes, I know they’re not all the same, but most are, due to their cultural beliefs.
@@nina99165 - Yeah, life happens. Hope you are doing better now. Cheers!
Yves friends are acting like investigators. They were way out of line. Yve shouldn't be discussing her relationship with Mohammed with her friends. This relationship is not going to go well.
"I would love to know what Yve loves about him, I haven't seen a spark yet" 🤣🤣💀💖 I totally love this woman TELL IT!
I wish American people would stop for a moment and learn about the culture of the person they have interest in. If your partner is insecure then work to build them better, stop assuming the worse. If they are controlling then encourage them to address it or leave.
Sometimes it’s not about insecurity as much as it is security! My ex visited me at work one evening and was wearing a skirt that was a little revealing, I don’t make issue of it but she was leaving alone and going home alone, so I In fact did advise her about it. It’s not about changing or control, but that I saw something she didn’t see. Just as she once told me to change my shorts when her friends came over because they didn’t look appropriate around other women. Was she trying to change or control me?
Exactly
Personally I think the exchange between Yve's friends and Mohamed was perpetrated and scripted by 90 day/TLC. There is no way would I question my best friend's man about his sexual experience or if he watched pornography. That scene was distasteful to say the least. I don't buy what TLC was selling with that scene. I do agree this couple is not compatible on any level. What's the point? Mohamed needs to go back to Alexandria and Yve needs to find someone who is suitable for her.
He needs a seat belt. Lol.. I couldn't get over him with no seat belt
Someone needs to tell Mohammed that in America, it is against the law to drive or ride in a car without wearing a seatbelt.
Lolol at camera man zooming into Yve’s behind
Belal acts like he’s on married at first sight with all his lectures
Shaeeda and Bilal probably wrote that instagram statement together 😂
I know what he meant as father of your child he’s better off with a green card to financially support their child regardless if they stay together or not
Right. It just came out the wrong way😂😂😂😂 that silence was loud af
Well, he moved to America, he doesn't work, he doesn't really help around the house. He literally just wanna be a king of the house without any effort. If he wants everyone respect him he has to behave appropriately.
The reason why so many of us r crying Narcissist is because so many of us have suffered Narcissistic abuse & we c the signs.
Everyone thats going through hard times i hope it will get better for you!
Thank you! I hope you are doing well?
The gaslighting 😩
Ewwww....a 48 year old woman don't know how to look in the mirror before she leaves the house. And has the audacity to have an issue when her dude told her underwear was showing. What she'd rather go out and have people comment and judge her based on her appearance.
I feel for yve. She seems like such a good person, and has good intentions.
I don't feel sorry for her, she chose him. She knew who he was, his religion, etc. She wanted him, now she has him. Cry me a river.
She knew who is was and his faith. Why should he change?
@@direne6558 Exactly
She’s immature. She’s going to let her special needs child be watched by her new man child boyfriend? Also, why is she going out to eat with her g string showing? How is that not distasteful? And why couldn’t she confront him earlier, she had to wait until all these other women were seated around her 🙄pathetic woman.
@Mark Armstrong that explains in reaction. He sees her in a light that showing her thong under her dress is not becoming of the status he gives her. Thanks for proving my point.
Almost all these couples seem so NOT in love.
NEVER change your clothes to make your bf comfortable.
How you gonna go to Egypt to get a man with these values and adjust yourself , then have him come to America to be yourself. I don’t understand this show and all the grilling of people from other countries. It’s rude as hell. And why can’t our ladies and men find someone who is accustomed to the madness that is our country 🤨
He told her she can't hang around men.but he hugs 3 lady's at the same time. 😕😕😕😕😕😕
At first.... I was like what ?? You can't see Yves underwear....... Ohhhh ohhhhh ok ....yup , yeah girl you might want to change your jacket.
I do not understand what a hardworking,smart,beautifull woman,sees in this spoiled, religious practices dominating,kid.Run fast!
I'm 57 years young I'm not changing for anyone unless they are willing to compromise with me. Yve is proud of her body embrace who you are. With Bini they was like wolves about paying the bills. How can he work without having a visa.
57yrs young... but did you see that dress she had on??? Her behind wasn't firm and like Mohamed said, he can see everything. Older women should be proud of their looks but classy sexy is best...and to all older women, show good role model and wear clothes appropriate to your age...classy sexy or class, period
When your dating someone from another country or religion you should do research on his religion. I myself come from a very strict Christian religious background and we have many rules. That's why I dress conservative even though I don't like dressing that way but that's just how it is and we have to respect it even if we don't always agree with the rules.
Raised by Christian pastors they emphasized a genuine relationship with God over what you wear. When you travel and live in many countries you realize how much stuff is just made up so create the World you want new rules, rules change every century. Just dress in what makes you feel beautiful.
Same with me I'm from consevative country and dress accordingly , otherwise I'll get roasted
Just sounds like a shut up and get over it statement. This is why I have a hard time when it comes to religion. I am Christian but it literally should not matter how you dress yourself if you have faith and love for God. God isn't going to judge you and condemn you to hell for being able to see your panty line in a dress. When rules have been added about how to dress, what a women can and cannot do. Who has control in a household its no longer about God but about social constructs in society.
Absolutely! It is shocking to me how ignorant some cast members are about other cultures, etc.
My bf is from Egypt as well and i am from Germany. He does not tell me what i can wear and stuff. Of course he isnt pleased with my choices all the time but he doesnt say i should change. He also does not mind that i drink alcohol or eat pork because he understands that im not muslim. And thats how it should be ngl.
Mohammad is so annoying he is not following Islam so why is he expected to follow him this guy makes me laugh
It's typical though. Happens all the time.
What didn't he follow? I'm Muslim and I can assure you that he hasn't broken a single thing
@@ginakarakan8271 what is he following he is living with a women without being married having a physical relationship this is not allowed before marriage so why is he expecting his partner to do the same another thing is he can't force her to become Muslim. This guy really needs to work upon himself before giving others advice lol
@@husssain140 they were married in his country before he came to America. They had nikah which is a religious ceremony. He isn't forcing her to become Muslim. He is showing her things about Islam and that is what he should be doing as a Muslim. She has to be the only one who decides if she is going to convert because if she is forced then she is not a true Muslim. Also if she converts just to please him then again she wouldn't be a true muslim
worse thing u can do is have ur friends have an opinion on ur relationship..
Not trying to body shame here but we all know what each of us is working with and the kind of clothes that compliments our shape and size. That black g string is not for the dress. Sorry! I honestly expected more class from Yves. When you are a certain age and in a different point in your life, you dress differently. You can still be sexy AND classy.
She should have worn a nude colored thong but was maybe thinking she'd have sexy time later and the black was the sexier choice??
I think the questions they were asking were totally inappropriate and none of their damn business!. Asking the man about porn how disgusting!
I love 💕 your recaps! You need to host the tell alls!
Girl, choose that damn bikini!👙
Why do most Americans act like someone bringing up a green card is the worst thing in the world.. like wtf ? Bini already lost his first child because the woman went to the US and he couldn’t be apart of his life. He doesn’t want that to happen with his second baby, Avi. Wow a dad wanting to stay in America for his child, whether he’s with the mom or not! Shocking!! Y’all need to grow up and Americans need to stop acting like America is this great place that all these people are just trynna come take over 😂 and if it’s so great like you said, why does it bother you that people want to stay and live a better life??? The entitlement of white people is amazing. Like wow. Lmfao
I agree, why are they surprised that he brings the green card ? Isn’t it the document that allows you to WORK and STAY in America (where the kids are living) ??? Like he’s supposed to talk about what other solution
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I think scamming and decieving ppl into marriage and love is wrong ,
but bini is being straight up here , to her and also to her and his family , so he ain't scamming anyone
It's not about race. I think many Americans don't want someone using them for green card purposes. And they have a right to be concerned. Because the givernment holds the American financially responsible for up to 10 years, even if the foreign spouse winds up being a liar and moves in with a new love. The only way that spouse is of tge hook is if the foreign spouse remarries or leaves the country.
@@rediettadesse2828 in a way he is. He knows Ari wanted to marry for love. I'm glad he said it though because if she divorces him, which I think she should, she can hold him liable for deceit.
I don't get it... Yve is extremely beautiful and mature and could easily get a man in her area. Why tf is she trying to settle for a manbaby?
That conflict between Mohamed and Yve where he told her what she was wearing was inappropriate was not at all private. It was filmed for all of us to see and her friends would eventually watch it anyways. His argument that she should’ve kept that situation between them private makes no sense.
They would of known later on their own. He is controlling and she is a chatter box.
In that moment, it WAS private. Sure, they would have found out about it months later. But by then it would have been water under the bridge. Also, the sole reason she brought it up was to embarrass and shit talk him in front of her friends. Its not cool.