Mia & Kayla | Help! I'm In A Secret Relationship | Full Episode | Series 1 Episode 1

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  • Travis Mills and Rahne Jones are here to help investigate why some partners are keeping their relationships hidden.
    In this episode they meet Mia and Kayla who are engaged - but Mia hasn’t met the family yet and wants to know why. Mia won’t go on with the wedding without answers. Rahne and Travis are ready to help Mia find the truth.
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  • @tyisha2105
    @tyisha2105 7 місяців тому +572

    I’m confused by ending contact with a child you raised for 6 years because a partner doesn’t feel comfortable with it. That’s sad. I’m also confused by “best friends” and sisters not sharing all this info.

    • @comedianpottymouth
      @comedianpottymouth 7 місяців тому +27

      I've had 6 step dads and most people don't feel comfortable with you taking care of a kid with an ex of that's not your kid I was o, the kid end of that and when the new guy comes around he don't want the ex there either

    • @user-tv7kh7vw5m
      @user-tv7kh7vw5m 7 місяців тому

      😊Stop sleeping with men and expecting women to be the father!!!

    • @crys313
      @crys313 6 місяців тому +23

      ​@comedianpottymouth
      Wow! 6 stepdads?!? It sounds like you were surrounded by immature adults who didn't take your needs into consideration. I'm sorry!

    • @goldteea
      @goldteea 5 місяців тому +2

      The man that raised me my moms new man didn't want her to keep in contact with him because she could never let him go so I'm feeling it might be like that with them BUT I haven't finished the episode

    • @diannewilliams1371
      @diannewilliams1371 4 місяці тому

      Just the hat

  • @Dataisthetruth
    @Dataisthetruth 7 місяців тому +466

    I would NEVER stop talking to a child I helped raised for a potential new relationship. That’s foul to me.

    • @belizeangal3409
      @belizeangal3409 6 місяців тому +23

      Mia was jealous of a child who Kayla help raised met her family before she did is sickening to me.

    • @evarene07
      @evarene07 5 місяців тому +15

      @@belizeangal3409can we get past that talk about the manipulation of the family … I don’t think it was “jealousy” of the child as it was more insecurity in that relationship…Mia obviously felt things were being withheld from her.

    • @fallenbee
      @fallenbee 5 місяців тому +21

      ​@@evarene07mia still has red flags herself. The whole gold star thing is the biggest red flag. Kayla feeling the need to lie about the gold star thing says more about Mia then it does Kayla. Ngl.

    • @megarainbowluv1
      @megarainbowluv1 2 місяці тому +2

      Foul AF

  • @CijiCloud
    @CijiCloud 7 місяців тому +179

    The fact my friends/family knew information about my significant other and didn’t tell me I’m gone have a problem with everybody now lol

    • @MySingleLifeADollShow
      @MySingleLifeADollShow 3 місяці тому +4

      Yep, it happened to me. My ex-husband was sleeping with everyone around me, including my mom and probably my sisters , and nobody told me until I left him, and I let all of them go.

  • @TheLoveOfGodPodcast
    @TheLoveOfGodPodcast 7 місяців тому +201

    This is like catfish on steroids 😅

    • @kaidiver4306
      @kaidiver4306 7 місяців тому +3

      FOR REAL, PERIOD

    • @Suavay5
      @Suavay5 3 місяці тому +2

      Right!!! Sheesh 😂😂

  • @oliey8539
    @oliey8539 7 місяців тому +455

    I just enjoy how Rahne and Travis look from side to side as they talk.😂 its like they are watching a series unfold.

    • @baassik8419
      @baassik8419 4 місяці тому +1

      Wow! Thought it was just me!

    • @fragrancialima
      @fragrancialima 3 місяці тому +1

      Like watching some ping pong game 🏓 😂

  • @christina2101
    @christina2101 8 місяців тому +1269

    Wellll tbh I felt bad for Mia (only the beginning of the episode) till she said she asked her fiancé to STOP talking to an ex that she raised a child with for SIX YEARS! That poor baby thats not fair to them AT ALL .

    • @christina2101
      @christina2101 8 місяців тому +163

      I'm still not done with the episode, but I love how everyone jumps to her cheating with Shauna instead of maybe she's maintaining a relationship with the child ????? 🤔

    • @LoratoBotshelo
      @LoratoBotshelo 7 місяців тому +51

      ​@@christina2101yea I think the cheating is a biiit of a reach. I'm not done with the episode as well and I think she's just in communication with her ex for the sake of her child,period.

    • @christina2101
      @christina2101 7 місяців тому +54

      @LoratoBotshelo yea she wasn't cheating. & when Mia found out she spoke to Shauna & actually cried. I was so disgusted. It screams insecure. Like I said I feel bad for that baby who had to lose someone who was in their life for SIX years

    • @Lelo.Machaka
      @Lelo.Machaka 7 місяців тому +64

      @@christina2101
      Its not like that (cheating with your ex) is not something that happens a lot of times with partners you trust
      So her feeling insecure about it is totally justified
      And the thing is, if it’s not cheating and it’s innocent, why take it in secret? Why not tell her about the call
      Something innocent can turn bad if you make it a secret and suspicious

    • @christina2101
      @christina2101 7 місяців тому +53

      @Lelo.Machaka in my opinion she only took the call in private because she knew Mia would have an issue which she did. Now I'm not saying she's right for not telling her about the call.. but what I will stand behind is Mia had no right to ask her to give up communication with a CHILD she raised for 6 years! It's not about exs . If you read my comments, my concern is for that baby. At 6 years old, you may not understand a whole lot, but you definitely understand that all of a sudden, one day one of your moms just up & disappeared no phone calls visits ? That's traumatic to a young child. Mias wrong for ever asking her to do that & Kayla is wrong for obliging her. Like I said it's about the child not either of them

  • @MONIQUEGREEN365
    @MONIQUEGREEN365 7 місяців тому +364

    I feel like Kayla has more lies and the only reason these topics were discussed, is because they were the only topics brought to the forefront. She's proven that she'll lie about anything to avoid different levels of confrontation.

    • @VeeDriven1
      @VeeDriven1 7 місяців тому +50

      This is the one. It was the body language, and she never confirmed she wasn't cheating with the ex by skipping past that question.

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 7 місяців тому +34

      Right. Cause she lying about the dj situation

    • @bdaybday1184
      @bdaybday1184 7 місяців тому +4

      Me too

    • @leahc731
      @leahc731 6 місяців тому +2

      💯💯💯

    • @FloatLikeButter
      @FloatLikeButter 5 місяців тому +2

      Wow, my Sam's thoughts.

  • @brittanybennett911
    @brittanybennett911 6 місяців тому +115

    The ending made me cry so hard. The way Mia said im sorry you had to deal with this alone. We all want that in our life. ❤

  • @keciaaskew5166
    @keciaaskew5166 7 місяців тому +50

    This is why I rather stay single.

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 7 місяців тому +3

      Facts 😂

  • @Prev8ster
    @Prev8ster 7 місяців тому +213

    Kayla is a lil too comfortable lying for ME big or small doesn’t matter how we fitna start off the foundation of our marriages with mad lies

    • @tmsfrequency7848
      @tmsfrequency7848 5 місяців тому +2

      Facts! I feel like there's more to the story

  • @ladygoodmen7399
    @ladygoodmen7399 7 місяців тому +96

    I know this show is fake but, GURL!.. She is for the streets.🤣🤣 THE LIES she tells. 🤣 Not a tear in sight🤣🤣

  • @flowergirl9685
    @flowergirl9685 7 місяців тому +125

    Why does it sound like she's still lying to me😂😂😂

    • @alanacopeland3377
      @alanacopeland3377 5 місяців тому +2

      Yessss

    • @RETROESKIMO3ATC
      @RETROESKIMO3ATC 4 місяці тому +5

      The truth sounded very convenient \

    • @Suavay5
      @Suavay5 3 місяці тому +3

      Yes & Covid story sound a lie too 😂😂

    • @kingxjefe
      @kingxjefe 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, everything seemed convenient. Well, thought out and well planned.

    • @azoladusubana9488
      @azoladusubana9488 2 місяці тому

      I don't know if other people heard it right😂but she said the ex is a man right?? But than say, Shauna the ex gave her an ultimatum to come out to her mom👀so she did..And said her mom said all those things about sin and abandoning her😅😅Why would her mom say all that if she's with a man??or Shauna tell her to come out??
      Gurl is lying so much, she can't even keep up with her own lies😂😂

  • @RecklessInspirer
    @RecklessInspirer 7 місяців тому +43

    I don’t understand why Kayla couldn’t just tell Mia about how her family is. Idk something just isn’t adding up here

  • @ayoolivergreen9330
    @ayoolivergreen9330 7 місяців тому +49

    WHERE DO PEOPLE GET SUCH UNDERSTANDING PARTNERS

  • @rashadhartzog6560
    @rashadhartzog6560 7 місяців тому +198

    I think people are softer on Kayla because the way she looks. Regardless of the reason she was lying to her partner. Mila feels insecure because she hasn't met her family. That will make any person feel like they're not enough.

    • @dbeloved02
      @dbeloved02 7 місяців тому +11

      I was thinking the same thing!😢

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 7 місяців тому +5

      I agree

  • @franchesskaw36
    @franchesskaw36 5 місяців тому +53

    People are saying Mia is messed up for being uncomfortable with Kayla talking to the child, when it’s actually is uncomfortable with K talking to the ex. Sometimes, people use their child(ren) so they can pull the person back in.

  • @mckia333
    @mckia333 6 місяців тому +38

    She lied about being a goldstar, lied about being in contact with the ex, and she’s in the closet….yea this ain’t gonna work but cute little ending for the show I guess

  • @AlwayzMe1
    @AlwayzMe1 7 місяців тому +72

    SOMETHING DON'T FEEL RIGHT... Kayla lies to easily. I don't think everything she said was facts 🤔🫣😬

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 7 місяців тому +6

      Yea...she lied about not messing with shauna.

  • @shannonblackshire7712
    @shannonblackshire7712 5 місяців тому +65

    Mias fiance' is still in love with her ex-girlfriend. They didn't break up because she didn't love her, she was forced to. They've been together for 3 years. Why would an ex that you haven't communicated with just randomly call you about her daughter? Regarding covid symptoms? And you live on a different State? She's still lying. Mias best friend said she saw several texts and calls.

  • @trinidazzling684
    @trinidazzling684 7 місяців тому +89

    How do you raise a child and walk away for your new partner? The ultimate red flag…..

  • @FeatherstoneApothecary
    @FeatherstoneApothecary 6 місяців тому +62

    this relationship is over. the trust is gone. when that goes, it's over. there was nothing so bad that shouldn't have been openly discussed before marriage.

    • @m00n.kitt3n.z00m
      @m00n.kitt3n.z00m 3 місяці тому +4

      Well, Mia shamed her for being bi from the start. As a bi woman who lived as a lesbian 15 years, I totally get that. Mia should have created an environment where it was easy for Kayla to be completely honest with her from the jump.

  • @shyna5672
    @shyna5672 7 місяців тому +32

    So she's lying because she doesn't want her past revealed 🤨 She's still lying because she's covering up lies... Chiii I can't 😅

  • @feb2173
    @feb2173 7 місяців тому +91

    so she just disregard the fact that her and her sister slept with the same guy and she's still associating with the guy...😳

    • @Lexxusc
      @Lexxusc 7 місяців тому +20

      Exactly , MIA needs to run!!!!

    • @natunfiltered2.0
      @natunfiltered2.0 5 місяців тому +11

      Right! Like that in itself is weird af.

    • @kaizentruth8098
      @kaizentruth8098 5 місяців тому +6

      I mean if she is close to her sister and they are engaged is she supposed to pretend like he doesn’t exist?

    • @kellsliving3220
      @kellsliving3220 5 місяців тому +6

      That’s nasty that’s they slept with the same guy

    • @christellefrancios2038
      @christellefrancios2038 4 місяці тому +3

      It’s probably they blood cousin … they way this story is going

  • @GetIntoTheBLACK
    @GetIntoTheBLACK 7 місяців тому +196

    27:15 hope to be like Mia one day…she set her boundary and put things into action immediately. She said you will not enjoy me and my energy unless I get what I need love it! And the way she expressed it so great. First time watching but I’m liking this show

  • @techbear6498
    @techbear6498 Місяць тому +2

    The amount of ANXIETY that woman had to hold in to try to be perfect for everyone around her. Literally had me in tears! Both beautiful women and the truth made everything clear. This was great!

  • @naomihunter9412
    @naomihunter9412 7 місяців тому +30

    Kyla lying about the sister marrying her ex boyfriend. There’s something more going on to this situation.

  • @marvelmaweni1451
    @marvelmaweni1451 7 місяців тому +66

    OMW! Where can I get a partner who's as loving and supportive as Mia? 😢

    • @tammywilliams1569
      @tammywilliams1569 7 місяців тому +3

      Wow, I wish my wife who I have been separated from since 2016. We got married in September 2011 an it has been a rollercoaster ride every since. I Love her still, not in Love tho. We won't divorce each other for some strange reason.🤔🤔. Mia I wish U both the Best. Tammy Williams.

    • @tammywilliams1569
      @tammywilliams1569 7 місяців тому +4

      Sorry I was trying to say I wish my Wife would of been more like Mia. She was alot like Mia's girl in alot of .ways. she also had been with alot if guys. Had two Kids who I took care of more than they deadbeat daddys did. I really could of used their help n my messed up relationship 😢😢

    • @marvelmaweni1451
      @marvelmaweni1451 7 місяців тому +3

      @@tammywilliams1569 I’m so sorry you went through that Tammy, I wish you the very best. You deserve so much better ❤️

    • @flowboss2439
      @flowboss2439 6 місяців тому +1

      Il right here 😅

    • @Georgino893
      @Georgino893 6 місяців тому +1

      Right?! Stg any person I’ve been in a relationship with, has been shady in some way or another! Ready to just go back to women & pray for the best ❤😂

  • @larenda82
    @larenda82 6 місяців тому +29

    When Travis and Rahne took that very deep breath at the end, SO DID I. 😆😆😆

  • @Shannete572
    @Shannete572 7 місяців тому +26

    Oh no this seem suspicious, I think Kayla is seeing someone, and I think Kayla is hiding something from Mia, Kayla is just making excuses, why is Kayla being like that? Mia needs to meet Kayla’s parents. Nah Mia can do so much better, I think Kayla is using Mia for likes, comments, followers, and for clout, well everyone is chasing for clout. This is why I am single, this not a healthy relationship.

  • @marie-bc1dx
    @marie-bc1dx 7 місяців тому +118

    If you lie about one thing, what else would you lie about?
    What else would you hide from your partner ?
    And how could they trust you with anything?

    • @jamedraa8472
      @jamedraa8472 7 місяців тому +15

      I was thinking the same thing. To carry on a deception like that for that length of time is.... concerning.

    • @Suavay5
      @Suavay5 3 місяці тому

      Right! I had breathe & it’s not relationship or related to this ppl 😂😂😂😂 im sorry Mia need to leave

  • @VelvetAnnn
    @VelvetAnnn 5 місяців тому +15

    I just turned this on and instantly vibe with Mia. Im in her corner and hoping she has nothing but blessings she seems genuine. ❤

  • @michellegabriel7640
    @michellegabriel7640 6 місяців тому +21

    Mia is such an understanding partner....RESPECT

  • @srezzy1326
    @srezzy1326 8 місяців тому +173

    Such an incredibly moving episode! BUT THE WORST THING EVER ON REALITY SHOWS……NO TISSUES! Can you get the lady a tissue? Thousands of dollars for camera crew and you can’t afford tissues?!

    • @bunny1114
      @bunny1114 7 місяців тому +10

      She did have one silly koala. 32:39

    • @jessikabulli2027
      @jessikabulli2027 7 місяців тому +12

      ⁠@@bunny1114silly Koala🤣🤣🤣😂

    • @Amen0507
      @Amen0507 7 місяців тому +1

      😅😢😂

    • @nosiphochonco9608
      @nosiphochonco9608 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@bunny1114Silly Koala 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thedopemom7697
      @thedopemom7697 7 місяців тому +1

      Right😂😂😂😂😂

  • @aprilmiddleton8982
    @aprilmiddleton8982 7 місяців тому +14

    Never once heard Mia say that Kayla can not see her child

  • @IndiaMonetspeaks
    @IndiaMonetspeaks 7 місяців тому +15

    Shes's manipulative and dishonest. Dont fall for it .. Too many lies , a sad story for each lie

  • @kayn8252
    @kayn8252 7 місяців тому +84

    👉🏽blaming her parents as the reason she’s hiding her🙄
    👉🏽blaming her sister and the fact that she smashed her sis ex as a reason she’s hiding her🙄
    👉🏽blaming the guy she used to and is STILL entertaining as a reason she’s hiding her🙄
    👉🏽basically blaming everyone but herself.🙄🤡
    I’m sorry, but this isn’t gonna work. It’s too much to unpack. When someone shows you who they are, and shows your friends and family too, do yourself a favor and cut your losses. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽I wish them well. But to be honest, in 2-4yrs tops it will be donezo (which is 10-20 yrs in lesbian time). Prayers out to Mia and her family.

  • @danbry2707
    @danbry2707 7 місяців тому +21

    The other girls fear of rejection is overtaking her more than anything. It seems like she left out some details but it is what it is.

  • @cicelyodom
    @cicelyodom 7 місяців тому +17

    It’s so many layers to both these two people. My heart breaks for both. My goodness!! 😢😢 May all wounds heal.

  • @trinaseymonne3153
    @trinaseymonne3153 7 місяців тому +93

    Mia is so cool flyy and mature..I luv her creativity and energy❤❤❤

  • @Shellxo420
    @Shellxo420 7 місяців тому +55

    She needs to leave that broad alone! She’s playing you smh

    • @brilliantlybb
      @brilliantlybb 7 місяців тому +5

      I mean LEAVE her alone ASAP!

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 7 місяців тому +2

      Immediately

    • @queenjazlyn
      @queenjazlyn 7 місяців тому

      Right just throw her in the trash and she a lying mfka too

  • @stonneyrosebudd9932
    @stonneyrosebudd9932 7 місяців тому +20

    It’s giving the new catfish !!! I’m here for it MTV !!!!

  • @mafiafatale
    @mafiafatale 7 місяців тому +55

    I am eating Cheetos now and I look at Mia's hair and look right back at my Cheetos.

    • @TeejayeeeeMartin
      @TeejayeeeeMartin 7 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ms.sevenohfo
      @ms.sevenohfo 7 місяців тому

      😕😂

    • @LeDoux_T
      @LeDoux_T 7 місяців тому

      💀🤣🤣

    • @Suavay5
      @Suavay5 3 місяці тому

      😂😂 just about go get some Cheeto

  • @GetIntoTheBLACK
    @GetIntoTheBLACK 7 місяців тому +73

    18:10 this made me start crying…I believe everyone deserves to be loved and to have someone who is openly expressing that love to them. It’s sad to know there are people still to this day feeling sad about expressing themselves to their families about who they love.

    • @OddGeekOut
      @OddGeekOut 6 місяців тому +6

      Tears! Mia is so proud of Kayla and how she loves her, and she deserves the same!

  • @gracestv7001
    @gracestv7001 7 місяців тому +11

    She has no idea because you haven't told her!!!

  • @linnaewillis8975
    @linnaewillis8975 8 місяців тому +58

    Who else watches this show, because they have a crush on Travis? It's the purple hair, and tattoos for me 😍

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 7 місяців тому +3

      Right!! He’s the cutest

    • @OddGeekOut
      @OddGeekOut 6 місяців тому +2

      *Rahne 😍

    • @dudeitznikki9781
      @dudeitznikki9781 2 місяці тому

      Yaaaazzzz! Sent me back to high school 😅
      Low key, Miss the gauges!

  • @MsJaye7
    @MsJaye7 7 місяців тому +37

    I don't get it...She wants her family at the wedding that will be an abomination and it hurts her family. She's been a liar...and now "WE" believe this new story...I don't understand.

  • @OddGeekOut
    @OddGeekOut 6 місяців тому +13

    Never knew this was on UA-cam!! I adore Rahne and Travis' energy!🤍

  • @kayyttaylorr
    @kayyttaylorr 5 місяців тому +9

    I think Kayla is still hiding stuff... and all that she said, I feel if she loved Mia for real , she could have definitely been honest within the 3 years ... I need an update in like a year lol

  • @DeJaJ96
    @DeJaJ96 7 місяців тому +17

    Rahne is gorgeous 😩😍

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 7 місяців тому +1

      Very!! ❤

  • @W3Slots
    @W3Slots 7 місяців тому +16

    My mom met my other half within the first 6 months of dating each other ❤2 years later

  • @nikkiajackson6651
    @nikkiajackson6651 6 місяців тому +10

    Never continue with someone who makes you feel like a secret or like you can’t trust them
    What untruths do too the mind and heart are unforgettable

  • @privatecarrilho3108
    @privatecarrilho3108 7 місяців тому +64

    She used to date her sisters fiance? Huh I'm processing this...😅

    • @BriannaDaylon
      @BriannaDaylon 7 місяців тому +12

      Right! That’s weird AF

    • @DontChilla
      @DontChilla 7 місяців тому +23

      I mean Kayla dated the dude first, then the sister got with him later on. Still weird ,but less weird than saying it like that.😅

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 7 місяців тому +8

      Not weird, it's gross!@@DontChilla

    • @DontChilla
      @DontChilla 7 місяців тому +5

      @@moniqueuu8777 well yeah lol but it’s gross on the sisters part, not Kaylas.

    • @kayn8252
      @kayn8252 7 місяців тому +5

      It’s gross for both. Kayla lied about dating men in general. So we don’t even know if THAT is infact the truth. 🥴🥴

  • @michellefreeman9886
    @michellefreeman9886 7 місяців тому +9

    I think she is a straight-up liar!! Why would the ex think its ok to call her if they haven't been talking in the first place.

  • @tonilove2577
    @tonilove2577 7 місяців тому +30

    Mia is such a sweetheart ❤️☺️ I hope they work it out😘👰🏽‍♀️💐👰🏽‍♀️

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 7 місяців тому +7

      No. I hope Mia moves on to someone who really loves her

  • @bigggredd246
    @bigggredd246 6 місяців тому +11

    This girl been lying for a long time. Baby she can not be trusted. If she’ll lie once she’ll lie again. And these are small things except for the lying about family & being with a man.

  • @earondianna9353
    @earondianna9353 7 місяців тому +47

    It's really hard to respect either one of them knowing she helped raise a child then tossed her to the side and the fiance is pretty much ok with tbis

    • @bigshyt
      @bigshyt 7 місяців тому +7

      @@belltowndaisyit’s not fair to child neither if her partner not with it then she’s not the one

    • @kayelise-qp9fv
      @kayelise-qp9fv 7 місяців тому +7

      @@bigshytmost people aren’t gonna be with it. She didn’t abandon her own child, she stopped raising someone else’s. It’s not her responsibility to take care of someone else’s child and she shouldn’t let someone else’s kid stop her life.

    • @bigshyt
      @bigshyt 7 місяців тому +2

      @@kayelise-qp9fv I personally wouldn’t care because I’m thinking about the child and possibly the bond they have but I get it your right not everybody gon do that or think like that

    • @mizz18yaya
      @mizz18yaya 7 місяців тому +6

      And when the mom has a new partner then what?? What you think gonna happen to the ex???? Don't be so naive, that's not her child and it's actually more counterproductive to continue a doomed relationship. Where is the child's father?

    • @Lacieluxe
      @Lacieluxe 6 місяців тому +3

      As someone who helped raise my ex partners child for nrly 9 years before we broke up and this time we’ve gone no contact.I can give a different perspective on this
      Having another persons child in your life no matter if you love them as your own or not can be overwhelmingly confusing for the child especially when you still love each other but can’t be together for other reasons
      It’s too hard to have to say goodbye but no contact is even harder
      I honestly do feel like for me personally I have to do it for my own sanity and his fathers sanity
      We can’t heal around each other and it isn’t fair on the child to see the constant pain in their parents eyes
      Even at6 he picked up on this stuff as we broke up so many times it was disruptive to his little life
      I miss him everyday constantly every second I miss his little face his hugs the way he smells of candy and stale farts and fabric softner all at once and his cheeky little smile.
      But now it’s time to find love and make my own child
      One I don’t have to say goodbye to

  • @user-yj5ug1kp4s
    @user-yj5ug1kp4s 7 місяців тому +37

    Mia your the bomb, your whole personality and how you handled this information is amazing!!!! I wish yall the absolute BEST!!!!!

  • @seldom9511
    @seldom9511 7 місяців тому +26

    This had me bawling! Loved the ending ❤

  • @THO1Nation96
    @THO1Nation96 7 місяців тому +21

    This is why you need to be with people who are willing to compromise. it sounds like Kayla just went with everything that Mia wanted and in the end, it backfired and she had to lie about important things about her life.

  • @NIKKICTV-nq4io
    @NIKKICTV-nq4io 6 місяців тому +11

    26:50 I’m so glad to see Mia put het foot down. I will not see u until we handle this. People only do what u allow……… Mia has allowed her to not meet her family. If she would said this to her , she wouldn’t have even needed the show. But kudos to Mia👏🏾

  • @kandietwists
    @kandietwists 7 місяців тому +26

    She has barsss 🔥

  • @sarondagill751
    @sarondagill751 4 місяці тому +3

    All we want in this life is someone to love us unconditionally because they want to.
    I hope they make it.

    • @ryanc5572
      @ryanc5572 3 місяці тому

      Beautifully said ❤ I hope they make it, too.

  • @bdaybday1184
    @bdaybday1184 7 місяців тому +15

    Please this girl is lying her teeth out lol. She’s definitely lying about stripping, sleeping with her ex, her sister ain’t dating her ex boyfriend she still is, and definitely lying about more stuff

  • @W3Slots
    @W3Slots 7 місяців тому +11

    If the girl can lie about everything else like a phone call then she’s lying about her ex dude. Stop the cap. I hope this ain’t scripted like some of the other shows

  • @sugar-spice38
    @sugar-spice38 7 місяців тому +8

    I already love this show

  • @big_neek9124
    @big_neek9124 7 місяців тому +21

    This broad lying 😂

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 7 місяців тому +4

      They both are. How do you live with someone and not meet their family after all this time, give them ultimatums all of a sudden.........all for likes and visualization, up their followers.

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 6 місяців тому +7

    Man I can relate to Mia so much and she’s dope as an artist and person

  • @Carmah3
    @Carmah3 6 місяців тому +10

    They're a beautiful couple. I hope they're together for a long time ❤

  • @Krysandthefab5
    @Krysandthefab5 Місяць тому

    Loved this one❤❤❤❤.. what a great way to sit and get it all out!!

  • @octaviaanderson1576
    @octaviaanderson1576 7 місяців тому +43

    She definitely lost me after she said she had to stop talking to her ex she helped raise a child with nah I’m sorry but Mia should’ve took the child and her relationship into consideration just speaking from experience as I experienced my ex helping me raise “our” children they’re bond is sacred and I couldn’t imagine someone I deal with telling me I can’t talk to my ex who is someone I’m coparenting with

    • @user-tv7kh7vw5m
      @user-tv7kh7vw5m 7 місяців тому +7

      That kid has a father!!! Enough

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 7 місяців тому

      But Kayla said they barely talk anyway.

    • @mizz18yaya
      @mizz18yaya 7 місяців тому +14

      Be single forever then lol so everyone you date is a parent to your kids??? How many daddies are they gonna have by 18? Yall don't even be making no sense

    • @user-xz2mb4wr9k
      @user-xz2mb4wr9k 7 місяців тому

      ​@@mizz18yaya👏

    • @dorlisastjean4072
      @dorlisastjean4072 6 місяців тому +6

      Y'all are making it seem like it is Kayla's daughter she has cut off. This was her ex's daughter, so no, she doesn't need to do anything. Kayla made that decision in order to be with Mia. While this is bad for the little girl, that is up to her mother and father to raise her; not Kayla.

  • @brennacolleen
    @brennacolleen 2 місяці тому +1

    Rahne and her WIFE are so freaking sweet together 💛

  • @bellydancer3146
    @bellydancer3146 7 місяців тому +4

    I'm 51 and a "Gold Star". Yes...we are celebrated lol

  • @W3Slots
    @W3Slots 7 місяців тому +5

    Ok MIA got bars!! I’m not even halfway through the video, I just had to say that!

  • @Dawghome
    @Dawghome 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow, it's like I know them & feel proud of their courage to deal with the truth as hard as that is, I know what it's like to live with secrets, some of them have destroyed me & in turn my dearest son. R.I.P...miss you, wonderful one! Love you forever...❤

  • @JustLikeAFlower
    @JustLikeAFlower 7 місяців тому +28

    What I’m trying to figure out is how are you in a secret relationship but y’all do couples TikToks I’m sure her mom and brother have seen it

  • @Yanil730
    @Yanil730 6 місяців тому +6

    This made me so emotional Mia is beautiful so is Kayla I hope it works out...

  • @jameelmohammed4887
    @jameelmohammed4887 3 місяці тому

    Lolol when she said yeah I’m ready I burst into laughter so strong I almost cried. I have never seen someone so ready and simultaneously unprepared to lie lol

  • @GetIntoTheBLACK
    @GetIntoTheBLACK 7 місяців тому +3

    5:38 aye she lowkey went off I love it! Nice flow

  • @goldteea
    @goldteea 5 місяців тому +19

    I feel so bad for mia but honestly for her to expect her fiance to just cut the child she's been raising out of her life is crazy BUT just like in normal situations people can't leave the mother or father of their child alone MAYBE its the same with Kayla

  • @bradlove9684
    @bradlove9684 7 місяців тому +16

    Kayla may benefit from therapy. 🙏🏼

  • @876finest
    @876finest 7 місяців тому +9

    Let's assume Kayla is speaking the truth when it comes to the guy thing. We say we want to know and wouldn't react terribly, but we all know that's not true.

  • @Flyn4thewin
    @Flyn4thewin Місяць тому

    Rahne talking to her fiance is HEART MELTING, like thats love ❤️

  • @jadegee3647
    @jadegee3647 7 місяців тому +8

    Yayyyy so happy to see you making big moves Kayla !!!

  • @user-rz1mz2bn4q
    @user-rz1mz2bn4q 7 місяців тому +5

    ❤ yes because it does hurt if someone is playing with you

  • @shalashala3571
    @shalashala3571 7 місяців тому +15

    I use to date Kayla’s brother as kids. It’s dope to see her on a screen now

  • @datruff7263
    @datruff7263 7 місяців тому +12

    Y'all wrong fa putting that sad ahh music in them parts ... Got me over here crying 😭😂 but on a serious note ppl don't understand the struggles we go thru being LGBT. We are literally SCARED TO DEATH of just being ourselves bcus alot of times that means sacrificing our loved ones. And then we have to deal with hatred from all other angles 🤦 It's really sad to think that just being yourself and living in ur whole truth takes this much struggle , hurt and sacrifice

    • @W3Slots
      @W3Slots 7 місяців тому +1

      Right! I read your comment as the piano started playing 😂

  • @truthseeker261
    @truthseeker261 Місяць тому

    So I guess “I sense a lot of fear in you” is the new way to say “I sense a lot of deception in you”. 😂

  • @Savannah-wk1hk
    @Savannah-wk1hk Місяць тому

    Shordy snapped on that lil rap at the beginning okay sis ! ❤

  • @kidosho00
    @kidosho00 6 місяців тому +2

    Mia should drop that location cause I'm single and that's the type of love I need.

  • @fiestyisland
    @fiestyisland 7 місяців тому +10

    Mia and jayka using this for clouts there's no way you didn't know anything about her family a d friends no way 😂

    • @Wunspam777
      @Wunspam777 7 місяців тому +1

      I think this is a show for entertainment not reality..

  • @melaniesmall3503
    @melaniesmall3503 4 місяці тому

    Wow, this was tough and beautiful in the end ❤

  • @Skywalker29
    @Skywalker29 7 місяців тому +7

    I’m a lesbian and why would she need to lie about being with a man I have a child I feel like Lex is still lying about something

  • @fulbertequellery
    @fulbertequellery 6 місяців тому +6

    I like Mia she seems so lovely, but I wouldn't abandon a child I have raised for 6 years!

  • @misspatti48
    @misspatti48 9 місяців тому +29

    Gonna be a show I’m gonna enjoy 🇨🇦👍

  • @user-iu1rs9pw8h
    @user-iu1rs9pw8h 6 днів тому

    I say this every episode but I ❤❤❤ Travis!!😍😍😍

  • @sass29
    @sass29 Місяць тому

    her voice getting higher each time makes it even funnier 😭😭

  • @user-tv7kh7vw5m
    @user-tv7kh7vw5m 7 місяців тому +4

    That kid has a father… get him to do it !!!

  • @puchi920
    @puchi920 Місяць тому

    It’s sad that she felt she had to go through all of that alone. I am glad Mia stepped up and they made things right.

  • @__iamrosegold9959
    @__iamrosegold9959 7 місяців тому +1

    When Travis read that comment under the a** pic 😂

  • @dominiquefletcher761
    @dominiquefletcher761 7 місяців тому +6

    Mia is super dope, and loving