@@BradBrowning Mr, Brad my ex blocked me on social media bcuz I was trying to bring her back and she gave me a warning never to call her again, please sir what can I do
Brad I love this! You have the best insight! My question is when you go no contact with an ex or even a girl you’ve been seeing and she goes cold and distant so you back away as well and she text you something like ‘’why are you not speaking to me’’ after a few days. This has happened numerous times in the past and never know how to answer. Thanks!
How long have you been in a relationship with her? You can say something like, "Oh I just thought you were busy and I didn't want to disturb you. I've been very busy myself!" or something along those lines. Make sure you have avenues to spend time on like your hobbies, going out with friends, etc. and lastly make sure you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule and disregard her random talks. Good luck!
I sent the apology text to my ex yesterday and she texted me back,I started the "no-contact phase" after she replied back,I'm going to do 30 days and see where that gets me. Wish me luck
Another dating coach advised never to accept "friendship" (or make moves that indicate you just want friendship) if you know you want an intimate relationship. Basically don't settle for platonic friendship or else it makes you seem weak. What's your thought on that? And does these tactics you mentioned in this video work even if your ex is already with someone else?
@@BradBrowning HI BRAD I'VE BEEN WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS ON UA-cam I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH MY WIFE I HAVE A QUESTION CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME OUT WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR WIFE SAYS I LOVE YOU BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU ? THAT HURTS ME TOO MY SOUL 😑😣
I'm trying the no contact thing but I sleep in same hostel with my ex and I see him everyday and everywhere.... But listening to Brad strengthens me to keep up the no contact
I broke with my ex day 7 of this month because she didn't loved me as much as I love her. The next day I called her saying that I was regretting my decision. She said that she decided that she only wants us to be friends. One week later I called her saying that I love her and she said she felt more than friendship for me, but that she doesn't want a relationship so I told her that I need time and that if she still wants to be friends, that we will be. I messed up right? That call was 2 days ago. What can I do now? No contact? I want her back...
Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ua-cam.com/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/v-deo.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/v-deo.html
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A few weeks ago my husband said I made him feel he wasn't good enough and that he feels he can't be a husband to me (he has requested a divorce). I wanted to send him this message before going no contact, is it too much? Hey, no pressure to respond to this but have been thinking about how I made you feel and just wanted to give you a reminder that You were the best husband, man and companion. I should have said that more often. You are good enough and very important
Yes, it's worth a shot. If he's losing confidence, nothing but a boost from his wife will help resolve that. However, that is assuming that this is really the reason he wants a divorce or he could be letting you down easy. While I don't really know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
Hi Brad. I am devestated. I’ve been with this guy for over 4 years now. We been thru alot. Cheating. Lots of fighting. To make the story short, i broke up with him when he returned from vacation. That was a week ago. And the only thing he said was “you deserved better. I cant be a perfect person you want me to be”. And i dont response to that message. That was actially my birthday. After that, i havent heard from him. And he’s not like that. Usually, he’ll come to my place to talk or text me after a day or two. What does it mean? I am also under a no contact. But i miss him so bad. Please help me.
One doesn't have to be "perfect" to not cheat. Looks like he's just coming up with excuses? Stay strong! This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/sFi45h907hw/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me in December and then i got into begging and pleading and then i saw your videos and started the no contact. SRecently i had my high school farewell and she came upto me to take pics, was wearing the necklace i gifte her on her birthday and thanked me for the necklace and hugged me saying "for old times sake" like she really changed , she used to ignore me in person on purpose till now. Then she started texting me and it went cool for 2 days. Then yesterday she told me about how she kinda likes this guy but she can't cuz she's not over our relationship. I dont really know what to decipher from this situation but i just left her seenzoned. The next day (today)she sent a pic of me from farewell saying "you could've looked better if u smiled" and i just replied with an "oh" after 7 hours lol. Tbh idk what to do further. Yes i love her but since she told me bout this guy , I'm losing the nice behaviour towards her. Maybe i should just focus on my ownself and my exams and get better physically for myself and my happiness. Maybe I'm being quite too much of a nice guy to hear everything she has to talk about
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
I’m in a long term relationship my gf broke up with me and when i talked to her about it she said that she always wants me and in many times she wants to call me but she prevent herself for doing so and when i ask her why she didn’t answer and sometimes she cries , we stopped talking about month and half ago and she still searching for my account and see my stories , i don’t know whether i should talked to her to know why she is doing such a thing or not ?
Brad Browning i just finished this phase , my question is whether it’s better to take the relationship step by step by hanging out and etc or i has to encounter her with my confusion of her status !
What if your ex is a horrible person now and we both had ended our friendship really badly to the point of saying a lot of horrible things to each other and blocking each other off? I have no intention to get back together with her, but as a sign of respect to what we had and our friendship, I do want to send her a letter which says goodbye to her in a positive way while apologizing for the horrible stuff I said to her and wishing her the best for her future. It's been more than a month now. Still not sure if I even want to do it since she had been having a thing with my best friend behind my back for months - it was partially because of this that I went haywire on her.
Hey Brad! I have been following since a month now.. You have been a very supportive person thank you for that!.. I have question for you, my girlfriend was telling me lately that I want you as my future partner but I want to be free also.. I'm confused.. My brain says to leave you but my heart say to be with you.. How should I respond to her and what should I do now??
It's all part of the process when one goes through a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed signals. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/RN6ndJZ0J-w/v-deo.html This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hi Brad! I have a few things and need your help: - How to do if she responded my first text of asking for help (Acknowledgment or passion about)? - Should I am the one who ending the conversation? - Can I combine other topic beside the above one? Very appreciated for your response and sharing!!!
Yes, you can combine it with my other texting tips depending on which phase you're on. Make sure you don't rush it. And yes, end the conversation first and focus more on your life. Good luck!
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
Hi Guys, my ex and I broke up over the weekend and I employed no contact straight away, on the first day she text me 3 times "are you okay" "ignore me then" and "why?". I stayed strong and didn't reply, the second day of no contact she text once again saying "just let me know youre okay" then just "Olly!!!". I could tell she was getting angry so I just answered saying I wasn't being rude just been busy and that I needed space after the breakup. she replied she "understood and gosh this is hard have a good evening". yesterday was the 3rd day of no contact and It got to 11:30 last night and she text me a random thing about a restaurant near us, I ignored. then at 3am she called me 6 times! which woke me but again I did not answer. should I have picked up the call or did I do the right thing by ignoring them? thanks in advance. Also thank you Brad for the great videos!
Looks like you're already playing your cards right, man! Keep it up. Remember it could also be your ex's way of coping, so try not to get too affected by that. If they continue to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. If this does not describe your situation, however, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning Thanks brad, she messaged yesterday saying she had gone to hospital as she fell and hurt her back and potentially broke it. I replied when I woke saying I hope she was okay. then she replied later at night saying she "understood what level we were at but didn't expect that little care after being in hospital all day" as I considered this an emergency as she's been in hospital, I replied for a few texts checking up saying to rest up and her family can help her out etc, but she tried make me feel bad that she had nobody to help her, but then she also turned cold and when I ended the conversation she just said "thanks, take care"... that sounds like an end to me. did I ruin it by responding? Thanks in advance
Hi, my ex has been obsessing over if I’m talking to someone new or not here lately. The past two weekends he has gone crazy and flipped out on me because he thinks I’m talking to someone new. Every time he sees me with a guy that’s my friend, he flips out and assumes we’re together. He broke up with me but he’s acting like I dumped him. I just don’t understand why he’s treating me like this. I would like to get back together I’m just waiting for us to talk about it. But his constant obsession is becoming hard to live with.
It happens. He doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Don't fall for that trap because chances are it will become an emotional roller coaster ride leaving you drained. Always start with the "no contact" rule! Follow the tips from my other vids as well so you'll know what to do next. Good luck!
Hey brad I have a question after my ex and I break up after that we talk daily since then I want to use this No contact methond will it be a good choice?
I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/obBIttQSak4/v-deo.html
Hi Brad! I am not sure if you'll see this, but it's worth a shot! My ex broke up with me and I did the 30 day no contact rule, but after he was still set on ending the relationship. There was no communication for 6 months before he phoned me out of the blue one day and said he missed me and that he made a mistake and he would do everything to make it right. So we met up and he told me that he actually just wanted to be back in my life as a friend and continue talking. About a month or so later of having friendly, positive conversation he leaves me on read! What gives and what do I do??
It doesn't look like he's ready for a serious/committed relationship. Sorry but consider moving on from this because I doubt the situation would change anytime soon because you're not showing him how valuable you are. But if you still want to try and make it work with him, don't let him come and go as he pleases. Make sure you follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
It was my natural intuition to do No Contact. I am not a coach or anything, but first contact will have to be made by her. If not, there will never be contact between us again.
How do I show him my self-improvement when he has me un added on all social media? Plus we’re long distance so we can’t even meet up unless one of us drives 3hr
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html however, due to the current global health crisis, everything may be put on hold. Remember, your health comes first!
What if your ex break up with u because they like being single and independent? Also they are the type that don’t get jealous at all. They’re introverts. What do I do?
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
what does it mean if ex bf said he will think again about what will be between us? and should i ask him if he think about it already or just wait for him to tell me ? and I already done no contact rule and he contacted me and we chat a little
No, never. It should come naturally when things between you two start to get better. Don't rush it. You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Brad Browning But how do I know if he means he will really think about it? Or he just says it and dont wanna think about it? And what if he will forget about it?
I need help. So my ex said that he needed to be alone and find himself. He also said that he lost feelings for me but later said (one day later, after my desperate messages) and said how could he just lose feeling for me indicating that he didn’t. He also said that he wants to be just friends. A day later I sent desperate texts to which he responded in an annoyed way. I sent one last message saying we can, or can’t be friends, and that I don’t want to be pathetic and ask for someone to love me. He hasn’t answered since. Should I text him and do you think there is any chance to get him back. I know it’s pathetic but I am in a depressed state and still have hope. I haven’t texted him for 3 days now. And we haven’t seen each other for a while. I was also very confused because we were supposed to see each other that day, and a few hours before we were all happy, a day before he said he loved me. I understand that he needs space but he was the one that always called me. We did have stupid arguments and I realized that loving him wasn’t enough but I had to put In effort. I told him that I realized this but he rejected me.
You made your stance clear, didn't you? Now its his turn. Theres nothing more you can do. Work on yourself and become the best person you csn be, that raises the chances of reattracting him once you see each other again. And you probably will.
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
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Hey, so I didnt do no contact, we were still flirting and stuff after the break up, but stopped a week before meeting up. When we met up she told me she doesnt have any feelings for me anymore and doesnt feel attachment? We are LDR but will be working together for a few months in the summer, is no contact the right way to go? I didnt beg or talk about getting together when we met up.
You met up too soon. Don't rush it, man. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ua-cam.com/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/v-deo.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
I broke up with my ex 5 months ago she doesn't want me anymore she got enough of me but I actually talk to her everyday like 4 times a day but she doesn't want me back. She doesn't love me she told me so. We dated for 5yrs. What should I do and I want her back. She left me because ofarguements over small issues and she thinks she was the bad guy in that relationship. What should I do??
Stop forcing things. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ua-cam.com/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/v-deo.html Good luck!
That's one of the reasons why you don't text or call. Employ the 30-day no contact rule instead. Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
OMG! Brad! I need you help I used a jealousy tactic when she was already on her way back now I’ve done this she’s not as flirty not as fun to talk to but she does try contact me on a daily, what can I do to get her back Cos she was mega into me but I said something about other girls?
You can mention other girls but make sure you don't play it way too cool with her. Go as planned as mentioned in my other vids. Do a vid marathon if you must just to refresh what you need to do next. Good luck!
Hi Brad , I told my girlfriend to forget about me after she broke up with me and I see her everyday because she live in my street ,she didn't close the access for me in her facebook so how should I implement no contact ?
Unless you live together, I think it's still very much possible to cut off contact with your ex. If you're wondering how to handle if you bump into each other accidentally because you live close by, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and he was continuously keep in touch with me. He is so stubborn person and was saying he will not getting me back again. He was saying even though he doesn't love me he needs me to be ok and marry a good guy. But sometimes he reminds me about our past love life and romance we had together. I was chasing him before and that time he was saying me that he will not meet me in person thinking that I may not go to another man after meeting him again. From yesterday I started no contact period. Is there any chance for me to get him back?
Be careful, though. You could be officially friendzoned by your refusal to cut off contact when you’re supposed to. Watch this first: y2u.be/rtXh72eWtYI and why being friends is never a good idea: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html So it's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
So my ex reached out after almost 4 months of no contact. she made it very clear she missed me, but she said she didnt "like" me romantically. She seemed emotionally distraught and started talking about her problems to me.. she started crying and it was heartbreaking to me. It was about something totally out of our relationship, and i told her "i am not your shoulder to cry on, go to your friends. Come back when you fix yourself" she said shed try to and we said our goodbyes. Any thoughts on if i handled this correctly? Thank you 🙏❤
Bryan Santiago im wondering the same. My situation I feel like she’s using me as an emotional support person than a partner but when I need her she’s not there, it’s hard because I want to help her but not sure if it’s the right thing to do
What happens if you broke no contact already and are you able to re start? Like am I able to send the good initiative text then do contact or like what ?
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU What sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
That should help change your mood, even for a bit. I know a breakup is already painful enough, so no need to get all serious lol I'm glad you appreciate it. Thanks and take care!
My gf broke up with me about 1.5 month ago onto a small fight, and later she told that we can not be together because we have different future goals and she has find someone who has same future goals as her and that new person is almost 4 years younger than her. She also said she would not come back to me. Im completely shattered, we had a lovely 4 years relationship and now im not able to get her out of my head. Plz guide me how should i bring her back in mt life. I really love her a lot and i believe that new person might be putting stuffs in her mind against me
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
Is there truth to what she said?Because if it is true, then you two are on different paths and there is less likehood to achieve reconciliation from that, man. Sorry.
It's always best to come to terms with the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
That's right. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Since no one can really tell is and when their new relationship will end, take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
Last week my ex agreed to hang out with me and sit next to each other during the school celebration and she is looking forward to watching a movie as one of the activities with me for the celebration because I wanted to. What does that mean
You could be officially friendzoned by your refusal to cut off contact when you’re supposed to. Watch this first: y2u.be/rtXh72eWtYI It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning hey so um my ex recently told me that she misses me somtimes and misses everything about the old me and she says it is her fault for changing the way I act and behave.
i really need advice. my gf broke up with me 2 days ago (we were also long distance) because she said she lost interest. i asked her why and she said “idk i don’t ever know what i want i’m sorry”. but i really do think it was my fault because we used to talk a lot on the phone everyday but later on we would just call and do our own thing like watch tv or go on our phones. i’m pretty sure that’s why she lost interest because our relationship in the beginning really made her happy. not only that but she also told me that i was the first boy she could ever act as herself in front of and that’s why she started dating me. we were doing so well but she just broke up with me out of nowhere. on the day of the break up i spam texted her and told her that i think she’s the only thing that’s making me get through life and i’m pretty sure that pressured her to break up with me. but when i spam texted her she said that i started to get annoying and left me on read. the question is how do i fix things? do i send her a short apology text and start the NC? or did i mess up all my chances when i begged and spammed her when we broke up? and if i do start the NC how long do i wait?
Sorry to hear. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
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You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
My ex and I are long distance after the breakup. She has friends there. She's having good times, hikes with them. I'm doing no contact. Will she forget me and move on because of friends keep her happy all the time. Won't she reach out?
I don't predict those things you asked, man.No one can. Anyway the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
hi brad, please help me what to do my ex message me after a 2weeks she break up with me, i dont know what to do, i want her back, she ask me if im fine? what im planning to do, and also she said sorry for what happen, but i dont know if it is goodbye. please help me.
We broke up two days ago. And idk if we ended on a bad note or not. I did try to convince him to stay but it didn’t work. Should I send a text before the no contact period excusing my behavior.
Hey brad my ex contact me after 15 days of no contact period,she asked me about how am i, n more on...she told me that she's contact me for some work..but i know the truth she's missed me so much that's y she contacted me.. and then yesterday we met at domino..she's happy to see me..i m also excited to met her.. but her sign that she still don't wanna come back, but last day, i saw she still loves me she hugged me on bike ride..!! I totally follow ur suggestions brad.. now i really don't know what should i do next thing to win her back.. please tell me brad what should i do next thing..!!
It;s too soon to be interacting with your ex, man. And it's not what you should do next but rather what you should do first, which is employing the 30-day "no contact" rule.
@@BradBrowning should i continue my no contact rule because after 15 days of no contact she met me then should i continue no contact? Or should i do something else?
My ex I begged for him back for two weeks after being blocked due to a bad argument it’s been a week no contact and I’m still blocked do you think he has a new girlfriend ?
You really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and why they seem they want nothing to do with you: ua-cam.com/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/v-deo.html
So I did the covert jealousy thing I had a date for superbowl and my and my exes mutual friend posted it on Facebook and she started blocking all of our mutual friends because she didnt want to see me but shes also in a rebound relationship any thoughts??? Why would she react this way
She's clearly affected and is trying to heal. Don't overthink though. Just make sure you focus on yourself and let go of other people's actions...coz you have no control over that. Take it one step at a time, all right? Good luck!
My boyfriend and I are still together but there have been issues between us recently which made him ask for a break up. I feel like he is drifting away and I want him back just the way he was before. We are still in a relationship but it's not the same. What can I do to make things right between us?
Some time apart may be good for you guys. I know it's hard and may even feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
Brad. I need your help and advise on this. My girl and I broke up or atleast we’re distancing ourselves from each other because her parents made us broke up because I’ve made a mistake with them and I want to apologize but she said that it’ll make things worse If I do. A forced break-up because of the parents. She still loves me very much and wants a relationship with me and I do too. She tried several times to talk to her parents about it but it always ended up with them arguing and not solving anything. What should I do Brad? I’m really desperate
If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning we're both 15-16 years old. We love each other very much. The parents got involved due to her strict parents finding out about us and they forced us to break up.
@@BradBrowning I did the no contact and he came to beg me after 2weeks but he only want me as his friend and I sack him because I need him as my lover. So what should I do to turn him up because now I think he isn't interested
Yeah, sucks doesn't it? That aspect is all out of our control. This pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Brad, before my girlfriend broke up with me, we had a fight and we didn't speak for a few days, so she called to talk and told me that she hadn't missed me these days, that we were distant and didn't think the relationship would work out. The most advisable is to use non-contact now? It's been 10 days and I just responded to the birthday congratulation she sent me.
In this case, use the good note initiative as soon as possible, and then cut off contact! And of course follow the rest of the steps when you get into it. Good luck!
Hey Brad, so the girl I wanna get back, we were only dating for a month, it was going amazing until she pulled away out of the blue. I think I showed her too much affection and came off as needy. Do you think this will work on her?
I didn't know what exactly you've done, but if it's a case of too much too soon, yes, she might have pulled away due to it and need some time and space to gather her thoughts and feelings.
Meade did no contact for just two weeks and he was like what's happening calling and calling i could not continue 😀🤣i broke the no contact.i think no contact is amazing how can I continue?
Me and my boyfriend split up 3 weeks ago it was mainly his decision I didn't want to. We have had no contact at all. He has just message saying ' I hate the way things are can we please just talk?. I don't want things to be like this between us .... how do I reply ? . We were together 4 years not living tougher. Thanks Brad Sarah
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
I said to my ex that since your love fade away let us focus on our study (she start feeling like I am her best friend) and then I told her that after we finish school and if her love ignite for me again maybe we can go back in relationship we are both 16 by the way.Can I still get back into relationship?
Not gonna happen. Nobody ever changes their mind and "decides" to be attracted to someone again. But anyway life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
There's a few posted a few years ago. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here first: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Depending on how you handle things, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html
Hi Brad the no contact rule is hard for me since it's an ex at work and we work in the same team, should i just put on a friendly face and act as just a colleague and ignore her if she messages me?
I understand where you're coming from. Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Hey Brad me and my ex broke up about a month ago I just started to use the no contact rule 2-3 weeks ago after I did some begging unfortunately. I didn’t know that could hurt my chances until I watched your videos 2-3 weeks ago. Valentine’s Day coming up and i wanted to be with her what should I do?
Sorry, but it's best you show her you accept the breakup. This means Vday is out of the question. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey my boyfriend recently asked my sister if I was talking to someone new. Then he told her he wanted to talk things out with me since I wasn’t talking to anyone. It’s been 3 days and he hasn’t said anything to me yet. I’m just confused as to why he’d say this
It's because he's also confused.It's all part of the process when one goes through a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed signals. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/RN6ndJZ0J-w/v-deo.html This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Which kind of message should I send to him if messed up and offended him? I said sorry to him many times, then sent clean slate message, but he doesn't respond. What should I write to him to get his trust back?
It depends, really. What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Hey Brad, my ex broke up with me a week ago an I begged an pleaded to work it out an fix it an he just blocked me right away an acts as if I don’t even exist and even though I’ve reached out through texting app numbers he still doesn’t reply or if he does it’s just a little an it’s just to say leave him alone an he won’t be working it out anymore. But he’s so used to me always doing that no matter what so I started the no contact so he could see it’s not gonna be the same pattern he’s used to an now Idk if I should use the clean slate text an then after that start the no contact again.
He told me we shouldn’t talk for awhile and we broke up 2 days ago but this is the second time we have broke up. It doesn’t feel like we are done and everyone is telling me to wait for him. That he has never loved someone as much as he loved me. When he came to get his stuff he was bawling and he hasn’t cried in 4 years when he got physical hurt. Brad I need help
ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html and also in my Ex Factor guide if you're looking for an in-depth step-by-step process to get an ex back. Good luck!
If you have no other means to reach out, then leave it be. As to being blocked, I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hi, I get the same bus as my ex occasionally. Today was one of those days, she got on ( I was already on the bus) and sat about 1 metre away from me, smiled. I smiled back then just stayed on my phone the whole time. 1 and a bit weeks into no contact, was this the right thing to do?
Dear Brad, I have been broken up with her for one year. During this year, I have been texting her once a month but she just read but no reply. Now I promised her stop texting her for no reason. What should I do to make her talk to me again? Please help me out. Thanks a lot
First off, in an attempt to protect my viewers from being scammed, please watch this first: y2u.be/nQbkeRI8--Q Anyway what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thank you for all you do I’m really going through it down this video seem to help a little bit but my situation is so complicated it’s crazy
Well i can do that "no contact" because he block me, I really want him back badly... and if he block me, how can I text for him, plus we is in long distance relationship, pls help me Brad :'(
Hi i was in long Distance relationship almost for 2 years I have not done anything for her I know it was my mistake now she have END with me please help me with this how you to total no contact now I’m not in contact with her because she was so angry on me now I’m trying to not to contact her so please tell me what can I do after 30 days I hope you will help me with this
How was it your mistake? What did you do? The distance will always be a major culprit, though. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
Me and my bf broke up because he said that the spark wasn't there but he still somehow loves me he said. Its gonna be a month now since this happened but during the last month we've been meeting up i've been visiting him talking to him how we should work and save our 4yrs of relationship but ended up making luv but he's not yet coming back saying he's not in the right shape for the relationship. What should I do? I messed up with the no contact is it still possible for me to apply it? Thanks!
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, my ex FaceTimed me the other day and we talked for over an hour. I stopped contacting him first for over 6 months and he expressed to me how I never put in an effort and it’s always him (so he clearly misses it), but I feel like he’s still not over the girl he talked to after we broke up (which is why I stopped talking to him, but he doesn’t know that) I have since messaged him a few times first, but don’t want to get into the same mess as before me texting him and him talking to other girls. It’s now been almost three years of us still going back and forth with this. What should I do?
Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
I know this is serious but the memes are killing me 😂😂 Great advice and most inspiringly, great editing. ✨♥️
Haha glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching! :-)
@@BradBrowning Mr, Brad my ex blocked me on social media bcuz I was trying to bring her back and she gave me a warning never to call her again, please sir what can I do
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
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Brad I love this! You have the best insight! My question is when you go no contact with an ex or even a girl you’ve been seeing and she goes cold and distant so you back away as well and she text you something like ‘’why are you not speaking to me’’ after a few days. This has happened numerous times in the past and never know how to answer. Thanks!
How long have you been in a relationship with her? You can say something like, "Oh I just thought you were busy and I didn't want to disturb you. I've been very busy myself!" or something along those lines. Make sure you have avenues to spend time on like your hobbies, going out with friends, etc. and lastly make sure you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule and disregard her random talks. Good luck!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
I sent the apology text to my ex yesterday and she texted me back,I started the "no-contact phase" after she replied back,I'm going to do 30 days and see where that gets me. Wish me luck
Good luck!
It’s been four years! How has it been?
Another dating coach advised never to accept "friendship" (or make moves that indicate you just want friendship) if you know you want an intimate relationship. Basically don't settle for platonic friendship or else it makes you seem weak. What's your thought on that? And does these tactics you mentioned in this video work even if your ex is already with someone else?
Talked about that in-depth here: ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning HI BRAD I'VE BEEN WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS ON UA-cam I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH MY WIFE I HAVE A QUESTION CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME OUT WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN YOUR WIFE SAYS I LOVE YOU BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU ? THAT HURTS ME TOO MY SOUL 😑😣
I'm trying the no contact thing but I sleep in same hostel with my ex and I see him everyday and everywhere.... But listening to Brad strengthens me to keep up the no contact
Great to hear. Stay strong!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Self improvement campaign sounds sweet
I broke with my ex day 7 of this month because she didn't loved me as much as I love her. The next day I called her saying that I was regretting my decision. She said that she decided that she only wants us to be friends. One week later I called her saying that I love her and she said she felt more than friendship for me, but that she doesn't want a relationship so I told her that I need time and that if she still wants to be friends, that we will be. I messed up right? That call was 2 days ago. What can I do now? No contact? I want her back...
Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ua-cam.com/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/v-deo.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks for your help!
I had a break up 3 months ago ,I lied him so he left, I really want him back in my life.
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/v-deo.html
Thank you for all the work you put into these videos
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
A few weeks ago my husband said I made him feel he wasn't good enough and that he feels he can't be a husband to me (he has requested a divorce). I wanted to send him this message before going no contact, is it too much?
Hey, no pressure to respond to this but have been thinking about how I made you feel and just wanted to give you a reminder that
You were the best husband, man and companion. I should have said that more often. You are good enough and very important
Yes, it's worth a shot. If he's losing confidence, nothing but a boost from his wife will help resolve that. However, that is assuming that this is really the reason he wants a divorce or he could be letting you down easy. While I don't really know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
Hi Brad. I am devestated. I’ve been with this guy for over 4 years now. We been thru alot. Cheating. Lots of fighting. To make the story short, i broke up with him when he returned from vacation. That was a week ago. And the only thing he said was “you deserved better. I cant be a perfect person you want me to be”. And i dont response to that message. That was actially my birthday. After that, i havent heard from him. And he’s not like that. Usually, he’ll come to my place to talk or text me after a day or two. What does it mean? I am also under a no contact. But i miss him so bad. Please help me.
One doesn't have to be "perfect" to not cheat. Looks like he's just coming up with excuses? Stay strong! This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/sFi45h907hw/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me in December and then i got into begging and pleading and then i saw your videos and started the no contact. SRecently i had my high school farewell and she came upto me to take pics, was wearing the necklace i gifte her on her birthday and thanked me for the necklace and hugged me saying "for old times sake" like she really changed , she used to ignore me in person on purpose till now. Then she started texting me and it went cool for 2 days. Then yesterday she told me about how she kinda likes this guy but she can't cuz she's not over our relationship. I dont really know what to decipher from this situation but i just left her seenzoned. The next day (today)she sent a pic of me from farewell saying "you could've looked better if u smiled" and i just replied with an "oh" after 7 hours lol. Tbh idk what to do further. Yes i love her but since she told me bout this guy , I'm losing the nice behaviour towards her. Maybe i should just focus on my ownself and my exams and get better physically for myself and my happiness. Maybe I'm being quite too much of a nice guy to hear everything she has to talk about
Utkarsh Kapil No further contact from you at all from now on. Let her reach out to you now no matter how long it takes.
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hey dude, how's it going now?
I’m in a long term relationship my gf broke up with me and when i talked to her about it she said that she always wants me and in many times she wants to call me but she prevent herself for doing so and when i ask her why she didn’t answer and sometimes she cries , we stopped talking about month and half ago and she still searching for my account and see my stories , i don’t know whether i should talked to her to know why she is doing such a thing or not ?
This depends on where you're both at. Review the vid. If you're still within the 30-day rule, you best not skip it.
Brad Browning i just finished this phase , my question is whether it’s better to take the relationship step by step by hanging out and etc or i has to encounter her with my confusion of her status !
@@husseinashraf3296 Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
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@@husseinashraf3296 he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
I will try, but even if this doesn't work, there are other women I can look right?
Of course! :-)In fact, I suggest you begin now. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
Really thank you
What if your ex is a horrible person now and we both had ended our friendship really badly to the point of saying a lot of horrible things to each other and blocking each other off? I have no intention to get back together with her, but as a sign of respect to what we had and our friendship, I do want to send her a letter which says goodbye to her in a positive way while apologizing for the horrible stuff I said to her and wishing her the best for her future. It's been more than a month now. Still not sure if I even want to do it since she had been having a thing with my best friend behind my back for months - it was partially because of this that I went haywire on her.
The clean slate text or email is perfect for that. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html
Now that my 30 no contact is up, I'm afraid to contact her. Don't wanna mess things up
Hey Brad! I have been following since a month now.. You have been a very supportive person thank you for that!.. I have question for you, my girlfriend was telling me lately that I want you as my future partner but I want to be free also.. I'm confused.. My brain says to leave you but my heart say to be with you.. How should I respond to her and what should I do now??
It's all part of the process when one goes through a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed signals. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/RN6ndJZ0J-w/v-deo.html This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thanks a lot
Hi Brad! I have a few things and need your help:
- How to do if she responded my first text of asking for help (Acknowledgment or passion about)?
- Should I am the one who ending the conversation?
- Can I combine other topic beside the above one?
Very appreciated for your response and sharing!!!
Yes, you can combine it with my other texting tips depending on which phase you're on. Make sure you don't rush it. And yes, end the conversation first and focus more on your life. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad :)
I know I won't get my ex back . still watching your video cuz this give me a hope to live
Be strong! She's clearly not the one for you if things are beyond hopeless as you think. Move on from this.
We were in ldr...he broke up with me and I end up pleading him ... Now how should I start the journey to get him back?
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
Hi Guys, my ex and I broke up over the weekend and I employed no contact straight away, on the first day she text me 3 times "are you okay" "ignore me then" and "why?". I stayed strong and didn't reply, the second day of no contact she text once again saying "just let me know youre okay" then just "Olly!!!". I could tell she was getting angry so I just answered saying I wasn't being rude just been busy and that I needed space after the breakup. she replied she "understood and gosh this is hard have a good evening". yesterday was the 3rd day of no contact and It got to 11:30 last night and she text me a random thing about a restaurant near us, I ignored. then at 3am she called me 6 times! which woke me but again I did not answer. should I have picked up the call or did I do the right thing by ignoring them?
thanks in advance. Also thank you Brad for the great videos!
Looks like you're already playing your cards right, man! Keep it up. Remember it could also be your ex's way of coping, so try not to get too affected by that. If they continue to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. If this does not describe your situation, however, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning Thanks brad, she messaged yesterday saying she had gone to hospital as she fell and hurt her back and potentially broke it. I replied when I woke saying I hope she was okay. then she replied later at night saying she "understood what level we were at but didn't expect that little care after being in hospital all day" as I considered this an emergency as she's been in hospital, I replied for a few texts checking up saying to rest up and her family can help her out etc, but she tried make me feel bad that she had nobody to help her, but then she also turned cold and when I ended the conversation she just said "thanks, take care"... that sounds like an end to me. did I ruin it by responding?
Thanks in advance
Hi, my ex has been obsessing over if I’m talking to someone new or not here lately. The past two weekends he has gone crazy and flipped out on me because he thinks I’m talking to someone new. Every time he sees me with a guy that’s my friend, he flips out and assumes we’re together. He broke up with me but he’s acting like I dumped him. I just don’t understand why he’s treating me like this. I would like to get back together I’m just waiting for us to talk about it. But his constant obsession is becoming hard to live with.
It happens. He doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Don't fall for that trap because chances are it will become an emotional roller coaster ride leaving you drained. Always start with the "no contact" rule! Follow the tips from my other vids as well so you'll know what to do next. Good luck!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Hey brad I have a question after my ex and I break up after that we talk daily since then I want to use this No contact methond will it be a good choice?
I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/obBIttQSak4/v-deo.html
Hi Brad! I am not sure if you'll see this, but it's worth a shot! My ex broke up with me and I did the 30 day no contact rule, but after he was still set on ending the relationship. There was no communication for 6 months before he phoned me out of the blue one day and said he missed me and that he made a mistake and he would do everything to make it right. So we met up and he told me that he actually just wanted to be back in my life as a friend and continue talking. About a month or so later of having friendly, positive conversation he leaves me on read! What gives and what do I do??
It doesn't look like he's ready for a serious/committed relationship. Sorry but consider moving on from this because I doubt the situation would change anytime soon because you're not showing him how valuable you are. But if you still want to try and make it work with him, don't let him come and go as he pleases. Make sure you follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
It was my natural intuition to do No Contact. I am not a coach or anything, but first contact will have to be made by her. If not, there will never be contact between us again.
The path to trying to get an ex back and moving on follows the same route. Whichever road you take after that is completely up to you.
How do I show him my self-improvement when he has me un added on all social media? Plus we’re long distance so we can’t even meet up unless one of us drives 3hr
Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and/or ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html however, due to the current global health crisis, everything may be put on hold. Remember, your health comes first!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
What if your ex break up with u because they like being single and independent? Also they are the type that don’t get jealous at all. They’re introverts. What do I do?
Edith Lisa yes I truly need help. I’m a guy btw. And it’s she lol. That’s his number? Alright
Edith Lisa it says invalid phone number.
Edith Lisa oh ok thanks
Edith Lisa uh bro? I think that phone is too long? Are u sure u gave me the right number
Edith Lisa I cant. The number is way too long
My ex wants to apologize to me and see each other, why? She broke up with me like three months ago.
Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html Good luck!
what does it mean if ex bf said he will think again about what will be between us? and should i ask him if he think about it already or just wait for him to tell me ? and I already done no contact rule and he contacted me and we chat a little
No, never. It should come naturally when things between you two start to get better. Don't rush it. You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Brad Browning But how do I know if he means he will really think about it? Or he just says it and dont wanna think about it? And what if he will forget about it?
I need help. So my ex said that he needed to be alone and find himself. He also said that he lost feelings for me but later said (one day later, after my desperate messages) and said how could he just lose feeling for me indicating that he didn’t. He also said that he wants to be just friends. A day later I sent desperate texts to which he responded in an annoyed way. I sent one last message saying we can, or can’t be friends, and that I don’t want to be pathetic and ask for someone to love me. He hasn’t answered since. Should I text him and do you think there is any chance to get him back. I know it’s pathetic but I am in a depressed state and still have hope. I haven’t texted him for 3 days now. And we haven’t seen each other for a while. I was also very confused because we were supposed to see each other that day, and a few hours before we were all happy, a day before he said he loved me. I understand that he needs space but he was the one that always called me. We did have stupid arguments and I realized that loving him wasn’t enough but I had to put In effort. I told him that I realized this but he rejected me.
You made your stance clear, didn't you? Now its his turn. Theres nothing more you can do. Work on yourself and become the best person you csn be, that raises the chances of reattracting him once you see each other again. And you probably will.
When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Great video Brad! 😊❤
I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)
I'm actually subscribed! ❤ but I'll share 🥰👍
Hey, so I didnt do no contact, we were still flirting and stuff after the break up, but stopped a week before meeting up. When we met up she told me she doesnt have any feelings for me anymore and doesnt feel attachment? We are LDR but will be working together for a few months in the summer, is no contact the right way to go? I didnt beg or talk about getting together when we met up.
You met up too soon. Don't rush it, man. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ua-cam.com/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/v-deo.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Thanx
You're welcome!
I broke up with my ex 5 months ago she doesn't want me anymore she got enough of me but I actually talk to her everyday like 4 times a day but she doesn't want me back. She doesn't love me she told me so. We dated for 5yrs. What should I do and I want her back. She left me because ofarguements over small issues and she thinks she was the bad guy in that relationship. What should I do??
Stop forcing things. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ua-cam.com/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/v-deo.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thanks Brad for your advice
What if he didn't answer my texting or when I call him and heard my voice he cancel the call
That's one of the reasons why you don't text or call. Employ the 30-day no contact rule instead. Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
OMG! Brad! I need you help I used a jealousy tactic when she was already on her way back now I’ve done this she’s not as flirty not as fun to talk to but she does try contact me on a daily, what can I do to get her back Cos she was mega into me but I said something about other girls?
You can mention other girls but make sure you don't play it way too cool with her. Go as planned as mentioned in my other vids. Do a vid marathon if you must just to refresh what you need to do next. Good luck!
Urgent !! Do I keep my ex unblocked or blocked during the no contact period ???
Jasmine Riel unblocked
Blocking is totally unnecessary.
Hi Brad , I told my girlfriend to forget about me after she broke up with me and I see her everyday because she live in my street ,she didn't close the access for me in her facebook so how should I implement no contact ?
Unless you live together, I think it's still very much possible to cut off contact with your ex. If you're wondering how to handle if you bump into each other accidentally because you live close by, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and he was continuously keep in touch with me. He is so stubborn person and was saying he will not getting me back again. He was saying even though he doesn't love me he needs me to be ok and marry a good guy. But sometimes he reminds me about our past love life and romance we had together. I was chasing him before and that time he was saying me that he will not meet me in person thinking that I may not go to another man after meeting him again. From yesterday I started no contact period. Is there any chance for me to get him back?
Be careful, though. You could be officially friendzoned by your refusal to cut off contact when you’re supposed to. Watch this first: y2u.be/rtXh72eWtYI
and why being friends is never a good idea: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html So it's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
So my ex reached out after almost 4 months of no contact. she made it very clear she missed me, but she said she didnt "like" me romantically. She seemed emotionally distraught and started talking about her problems to me.. she started crying and it was heartbreaking to me. It was about something totally out of our relationship, and i told her "i am not your shoulder to cry on, go to your friends. Come back when you fix yourself" she said shed try to and we said our goodbyes. Any thoughts on if i handled this correctly? Thank you 🙏❤
Bryan Santiago im wondering the same. My situation I feel like she’s using me as an emotional support person than a partner but when I need her she’s not there, it’s hard because I want to help her but not sure if it’s the right thing to do
Looks like it, yeah! Getting friendzoned is the worst thing that could happen, so kudos on handling it well!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
What happens if you broke no contact already and are you able to re start? Like am I able to send the good initiative text then do contact or like what ?
What should I say in the covert jealousy part if she asks if I’m going on a date with them?
Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/6AsawxKX2dg/v-deo.html
My ex has blocked me everywhere wht should ii doo
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
T e X t h m o n w a s s a p f o r h e l p,,
But what if after no contact I text her on fb and she text back but I don’t know how to keep the conversation going ?
Check out my other tips on this channel.
Brad I completed 30 days no contact after 30 I texted her no reaplay I call her no reaplay but u given good sugicion Tq bro but bad luck
@@gwynhughes6104 but I don't have money
@@gwynhughes6104 I'm not contacted him I contacted another one he sed 200 dollars but I can't give that much money
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU What sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Really in a sad place,but those memes got me dying literally fell of my bed .😂😂🤣😅
That should help change your mood, even for a bit. I know a breakup is already painful enough, so no need to get all serious lol I'm glad you appreciate it. Thanks and take care!
My gf broke up with me about 1.5 month ago onto a small fight, and later she told that we can not be together because we have different future goals and she has find someone who has same future goals as her and that new person is almost 4 years younger than her. She also said she would not come back to me. Im completely shattered, we had a lovely 4 years relationship and now im not able to get her out of my head. Plz guide me how should i bring her back in mt life. I really love her a lot and i believe that new person might be putting stuffs in her mind against me
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
Is there truth to what she said?Because if it is true, then you two are on different paths and there is less likehood to achieve reconciliation from that, man. Sorry.
Thank a lot
Super thank you..
No prob! :-)
I am scared about the worry and if they kiss someone or do something during the no contact
It's always best to come to terms with the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
Mr Brad u are a genius
Thank you! :-)
Hi Brad what if your ex is in a rebound . Do you wait till thf rebound is over ?
That's right. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Since no one can really tell is and when their new relationship will end, take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
She said to a mutual friend I’m a lovely guy but not right for her… I’m crushed. 9 weeks now.
Last week my ex agreed to hang out with me and sit next to each other during the school celebration and she is looking forward to watching a movie as one of the activities with me for the celebration because I wanted to. What does that mean
You could be officially friendzoned by your refusal to cut off contact when you’re supposed to. Watch this first: y2u.be/rtXh72eWtYI It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning hey so um my ex recently told me that she misses me somtimes and misses everything about the old me and she says it is her fault for changing the way I act and behave.
i really need advice. my gf broke up with me 2 days ago (we were also long distance) because she said she lost interest. i asked her why and she said “idk i don’t ever know what i want i’m sorry”. but i really do think it was my fault because we used to talk a lot on the phone everyday but later on we would just call and do our own thing like watch tv or go on our phones. i’m pretty sure that’s why she lost interest because our relationship in the beginning really made her happy. not only that but she also told me that i was the first boy she could ever act as herself in front of and that’s why she started dating me. we were doing so well but she just broke up with me out of nowhere. on the day of the break up i spam texted her and told her that i think she’s the only thing that’s making me get through life and i’m pretty sure that pressured her to break up with me. but when i spam texted her she said that i started to get annoying and left me on read. the question is how do i fix things? do i send her a short apology text and start the NC? or did i mess up all my chances when i begged and spammed her when we broke up? and if i do start the NC how long do i wait?
Sorry to hear. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Mr Browning you are totally amazing I am not sure how to thank you enough, but I love all your videos about relationships it really helps young generations like me out there again thank you for sharing it with the entire world you are the best please looking forward in seeing more of it! 😍😃💞👍🏽
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
My ex and I are long distance after the breakup. She has friends there. She's having good times, hikes with them.
I'm doing no contact.
Will she forget me and move on because of friends keep her happy all the time. Won't she reach out?
I don't predict those things you asked, man.No one can. Anyway the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
hi brad, please help me what to do my ex message me after a 2weeks she break up with me, i dont know what to do, i want her back, she ask me if im fine? what im planning to do, and also she said sorry for what happen, but i dont know if it is goodbye. please help me.
@@sandraly8465 i really love her,
@@melolopez9714 Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
@@melolopez9714 *Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
@@melolopez9714 he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
We broke up two days ago. And idk if we ended on a bad note or not. I did try to convince him to stay but it didn’t work. Should I send a text before the no contact period excusing my behavior.
Hey brad my ex contact me after 15 days of no contact period,she asked me about how am i, n more on...she told me that she's contact me for some work..but i know the truth she's missed me so much that's y she contacted me.. and then yesterday we met at domino..she's happy to see me..i m also excited to met her.. but her sign that she still don't wanna come back, but last day, i saw she still loves me she hugged me on bike ride..!! I totally follow ur suggestions brad.. now i really don't know what should i do next thing to win her back.. please tell me brad what should i do next thing..!!
It;s too soon to be interacting with your ex, man. And it's not what you should do next but rather what you should do first, which is employing the 30-day "no contact" rule.
@@BradBrowning should i continue my no contact rule because after 15 days of no contact she met me then should i continue no contact? Or should i do something else?
My ex I begged for him back for two weeks after being blocked due to a bad argument it’s been a week no contact and I’m still blocked do you think he has a new girlfriend ?
You really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and why they seem they want nothing to do with you: ua-cam.com/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/v-deo.html
About the second step what if there were no friend in common between us what should I do?
Skip that part and look to other tips because getting your ex back does not rely on having mutual friends, okay? It's just a bonus.
So I did the covert jealousy thing I had a date for superbowl and my and my exes mutual friend posted it on Facebook and she started blocking all of our mutual friends because she didnt want to see me but shes also in a rebound relationship any thoughts??? Why would she react this way
She's clearly affected and is trying to heal. Don't overthink though. Just make sure you focus on yourself and let go of other people's actions...coz you have no control over that. Take it one step at a time, all right? Good luck!
@@BradBrowningu could really use a one on one
@@BradBrowning what about this rebound shes in like its seems somewhat for real
My boyfriend and I are still together but there have been issues between us recently which made him ask for a break up. I feel like he is drifting away and I want him back just the way he was before. We are still in a relationship but it's not the same. What can I do to make things right between us?
Some time apart may be good for you guys. I know it's hard and may even feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
Brad. I need your help and advise on this.
My girl and I broke up or atleast we’re distancing ourselves from each other because her parents made us broke up because I’ve made a mistake with them and I want to apologize but she said that it’ll make things worse If I do. A forced break-up because of the parents. She still loves me very much and wants a relationship with me and I do too. She tried several times to talk to her parents about it but it always ended up with them arguing and not solving anything. What should I do Brad? I’m really desperate
If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning we're both 15-16 years old. We love each other very much. The parents got involved due to her strict parents finding out about us and they forced us to break up.
I can direct you to someone who help me get my ex back
@@sarahbill3085 nah its over n i don't really give a shit anymore
Am I doing the right, he doesn't chat me but whenever I text him he respond positive,so should I continue to text him or let him text me first.
This depends on where you're are with your ex. Make sure you never skip the "no contact" phase first!
@@BradBrowning I did the no contact and he came to beg me after 2weeks but he only want me as his friend and I sack him because I need him as my lover.
So what should I do to turn him up because now I think he isn't interested
She texted me again after no contact! The only difficult thing is having an ex 500+km away from you in a pandemic. How do I meet up with her again?
Yeah, sucks doesn't it? That aspect is all out of our control. This pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Brad, before my girlfriend broke up with me, we had a fight and we didn't speak for a few days, so she called to talk and told me that she hadn't missed me these days, that we were distant and didn't think the relationship would work out. The most advisable is to use non-contact now? It's been 10 days and I just responded to the birthday congratulation she sent me.
In this case, use the good note initiative as soon as possible, and then cut off contact!
And of course follow the rest of the steps when you get into it. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning I forgot to mention that we broke up peacefully and without any bad feelings for each other, so do I still need to apologize then?
@@samuelantonio3489 Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
@@samuelantonio3489 *Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
@@samuelantonio3489 he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Hey Brad, so the girl I wanna get back, we were only dating for a month, it was going amazing until she pulled away out of the blue. I think I showed her too much affection and came off as needy. Do you think this will work on her?
Yes, apply the 30 day no contact rule. I did the same mistake as you, be strong, don’t plead/beg, etc.. I’m on day 17 btw.
I didn't know what exactly you've done, but if it's a case of too much too soon, yes, she might have pulled away due to it and need some time and space to gather her thoughts and feelings.
Meade did no contact for just two weeks and he was like what's happening calling and calling i could not continue 😀🤣i broke the no contact.i think no contact is amazing how can I continue?
Me and my boyfriend split up 3 weeks ago it was mainly his decision I didn't want to. We have had no contact at all. He has just message saying ' I hate the way things are can we please just talk?. I don't want things to be like this between us .... how do I reply ? .
We were together 4 years not living tougher. Thanks Brad Sarah
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
I said to my ex that since your love fade away let us focus on our study (she start feeling like I am her best friend) and then I told her that after we finish school and if her love ignite for me again maybe we can go back in relationship we are both 16 by the way.Can I still get back into relationship?
Not gonna happen. Nobody ever changes their mind and "decides" to be attracted to someone again. But anyway life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**..m
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Lol I need a video of how to start a convo after 2 years of no contact😅
maine apko kal kisi ldki sath dekha tha kon thi vo😂😂
Same here! How to make him start initiating contact after 2,5 years...
@@polinash8683 use this trick
There's a few posted a few years ago. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here first: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html Depending on how you handle things, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html
Hi Brad the no contact rule is hard for me since it's an ex at work and we work in the same team, should i just put on a friendly face and act as just a colleague and ignore her if she messages me?
I understand where you're coming from. Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Hey Brad me and my ex broke up about a month ago I just started to use the no contact rule 2-3 weeks ago after I did some begging unfortunately. I didn’t know that could hurt my chances until I watched your videos 2-3 weeks ago. Valentine’s Day coming up and i wanted to be with her what should I do?
Sorry, but it's best you show her you accept the breakup. This means Vday is out of the question. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html For a complete, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey my boyfriend recently asked my sister if I was talking to someone new. Then he told her he wanted to talk things out with me since I wasn’t talking to anyone. It’s been 3 days and he hasn’t said anything to me yet. I’m just confused as to why he’d say this
It's because he's also confused.It's all part of the process when one goes through a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed signals. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/RN6ndJZ0J-w/v-deo.html This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Brad Browning thank you for replying. I’m going through week 2 of no contact right now.
Which kind of message should I send to him if messed up and offended him? I said sorry to him many times, then sent clean slate message, but he doesn't respond. What should I write to him to get his trust back?
continue stalking
@@harshawalia3974 I didn't stalk him man
Stop apologizing, the first time was enough. Leave him alone.
@@TG-to3dvI do give him a time. He will come back to me anyway
It depends, really. What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
For step two what if we don’t have any mutual friends ??
You can't do anything about that, so just skip that part out.
Hey Brad, my ex broke up with me a week ago an I begged an pleaded to work it out an fix it an he just blocked me right away an acts as if I don’t even exist and even though I’ve reached out through texting app numbers he still doesn’t reply or if he does it’s just a little an it’s just to say leave him alone an he won’t be working it out anymore. But he’s so used to me always doing that no matter what so I started the no contact so he could see it’s not gonna be the same pattern he’s used to an now Idk if I should use the clean slate text an then after that start the no contact again.
Use the clean slate text and continue on with the no contact rule.
He told me we shouldn’t talk for awhile and we broke up 2 days ago but this is the second time we have broke up. It doesn’t feel like we are done and everyone is telling me to wait for him. That he has never loved someone as much as he loved me. When he came to get his stuff he was bawling and he hasn’t cried in 4 years when he got physical hurt. Brad I need help
does this work with a really close crush i had, where we were on the verge of dating?
Melokuhle abigail thanks, but i just wanna know if it works in a situation like that
No, it won't. Sorry. The techniques I teach involves re-attraction building and a solid foundation to boot with.
@@Liv24_Productions Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
@@Liv24_Productions *Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
@@Liv24_Productions he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Where is the blank slate email on the website?
ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html
and also in my Ex Factor guide if you're looking for an in-depth step-by-step process to get an ex back. Good luck!
What if you started no contact without the good slate text because they’ve blocked you anyway?
If you have no other means to reach out, then leave it be. As to being blocked, I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
hey sir i am from india and want to purchase your ex factor guide or want to have your coaching please suggest me how can i contact you
Hi! Once you confirmed there's available spots left, you can sign up at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
Hey mate! I'm currently in Day 2 of No Contact. We ended on a sour note, do you think it'd be fine to break No Contact to add in the Fresh Start text?
Have you begged? This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
I broke up yesterday 🌚💔 my last text was emotional 🙂 how many days I should not text her ? 🌚💔
2 weeks max
Are you sure ?
@@jacobsumi9106 yeah man dont chase her no more let her chase u
She text me over and over again like she regret relationship with me and sayings better she gave up and whats next ? 🙁
30 days and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
Hi, I get the same bus as my ex occasionally. Today was one of those days, she got on ( I was already on the bus) and sat about 1 metre away from me, smiled. I smiled back then just stayed on my phone the whole time. 1 and a bit weeks into no contact, was this the right thing to do?
Didn’t talk to her, she didn’t make an effort to talk to me. Is this the right thing to do in future times or should I of done things differently?
Yeah, well played!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
Dear Brad,
I have been broken up with her for one year. During this year, I have been texting her once a month but she just read but no reply. Now I promised her stop texting her for no reason. What should I do to make her talk to me again?
Please help me out.
Thanks a lot
First off, in an attempt to protect my viewers from being scammed, please watch this first: y2u.be/nQbkeRI8--Q
Anyway what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. he was the one that helped me
I like the text after a month or so saying I just saw something that reminded me of you hope all is well
Yes, totally casual, right? Tailor it to what the actual reminder is of course, but you get the gist. Good luck, man!
@@BradBrowning Thank you for all you do I’m really going through it down this video seem to help a little bit but my situation is so complicated it’s crazy
Should I post thinks on social media during no contact?
Yes, post like you normally would but make sure to avoid posting dramatic or sad stuff.
I m telling to u all follow Brad what he tell if u do little mistake means u r ex will not get u
Well i can do that "no contact" because he block me, I really want him back badly... and if he block me, how can I text for him, plus we is in long distance relationship, pls help me Brad :'(
Hii brotha !!!! Love from india what if she gets married to another guy during this no contact period ???
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but it's time to move on. Discussed that here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc
Hi i was in long Distance relationship almost for 2 years I have not done anything for her I know it was my mistake now she have END with me please help me with this how you to total no contact now I’m not in contact with her because she was so angry on me now I’m trying to not to contact her so please tell me what can I do after 30 days I hope you will help me with this
How was it your mistake? What did you do? The distance will always be a major culprit, though. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
Thank you so much bro its work no contact now she’s talking to me but not like before now we are talking very normally and nothing else
Me and my bf broke up because he said that the spark wasn't there but he still somehow loves me he said. Its gonna be a month now since this happened but during the last month we've been meeting up i've been visiting him talking to him how we should work and save our 4yrs of relationship but ended up making luv but he's not yet coming back saying he's not in the right shape for the relationship. What should I do? I messed up with the no contact is it still possible for me to apply it? Thanks!
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my girlfriend broke up with me last 5 days and now she have new boyfriend what should i do.
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
How long for no contact with a long distance ex that blocked you? Do your messages change in this circumstance?
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
What if they ask to be friends but constantly calling and texting but saying y’all were never be together again
She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, my ex FaceTimed me the other day and we talked for over an hour. I stopped contacting him first for over 6 months and he expressed to me how I never put in an effort and it’s always him (so he clearly misses it), but I feel like he’s still not over the girl he talked to after we broke up (which is why I stopped talking to him, but he doesn’t know that) I have since messaged him a few times first, but don’t want to get into the same mess as before me texting him and him talking to other girls. It’s now been almost three years of us still going back and forth with this. What should I do?
Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up
*Text him would explain how it work +1 2 1 3 8 7 8 0 0 2 4..!!!!!!!!**
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