It’s actually pretty easy to be self-disciplined (if you stop getting distracted)

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  • Self-discipline comes from clarity, not force. It's not difficult for a writer to get up early to write. It's not difficult for a bodybuilder to eat healthy. It's become a part of their identity. They just do it.
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    5:24 Discipline Comes From Clarity, Not Force
    8:57 Removing Distractions
    9:47 Life As A Game
    12:46 Reinventing Yourself
    14:34 An Unconventional Path To Becoming Self-Confident
    16:54 Deconstruct Your Goals
    17:32 Start A Business
    20:47 Write In Public
    22:31 Make New Friends
    24:37 Publish Your Work
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 278

  • @XandersHub
    @XandersHub 22 дні тому +82

    1. visualise what you want to become.
    2. Learn skills to become that version of yourself.
    3. Put into action what you have learnt.

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 12 днів тому +15

    When you start a business… by yourself…. YOU ARE THE PRODUCT. Figure out your strengths, personality, and skills. Market YOU. Connect with customers that MATCH YOU. Target people YOU WANT to help.

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 28 днів тому +84

    self discipline is the byproduct of knowing what you want and accepting nothing less from yourself.

  • @questinpodcast
    @questinpodcast 28 днів тому +112

    “They don’t know what you know”
    Good wisdom to understand why some people won’t support your efforts

    • @diabeatit5189
      @diabeatit5189 17 днів тому

      And going a step further, if they did, they'd still find a way to strike it down. That's why its so important to not need anyone to understand us. When I reached that level, I can't even tell you the mental freedom.

  • @WildCornovii
    @WildCornovii 28 днів тому +103

    You describe me. A million goals to focus on. Never achieving any. Spread too thinly.

    • @sejwalvishu
      @sejwalvishu 27 днів тому +12

      Same bro same! So many ideas so less execution. Plus ADHD

    • @debayandasgupta488
      @debayandasgupta488 27 днів тому +11

      @@sejwalvishu don't stigmatise yourself this way, you can dismantle this identity. All the best.

    • @delusionalpath
      @delusionalpath 27 днів тому +6

      Start habit tracking and prioritize the most important habits

    • @Bsurfing
      @Bsurfing 25 днів тому +1

      Find someone who can help you automate some of the tasks, work on this first.

    • @KatJaguar1122
      @KatJaguar1122 19 днів тому +1

      In part that is due to being highly creative. So don’t view it negatively.
      Just empower yourself to get things done in whatever way works.

  • @FromTh1sDayForward
    @FromTh1sDayForward 27 днів тому +28

    You are on an entirely different level with your guidance.

  • @Fillup82
    @Fillup82 28 днів тому +129

    Discipline is freedom.

  • @meherzadirani3889
    @meherzadirani3889 27 днів тому +31

    My Understanding from this Video:
    - Many people struggle to focus on their big goals due to distractions and external influences.
    - Parents and society often dictate what people should care about and pursue, which may not align with personal goals.
    - Overcoming distractions and achieving goals requires self-discipline, which comes from clarity and knowing what you want.
    - Self-discipline involves saying no to distractions and maintaining a clear vision for the future.
    - To achieve self-discipline, one must remove distractions, view life as a game with challenges and goals, and reinvent oneself by changing behavior and identity.
    - Confidence comes from pushing beyond limits, failing, and learning from those failures.
    - Starting a business, writing in public, and making new friends are key steps to building self-confidence and achieving goals.
    - Publishing work and exposing oneself to criticism and feedback is crucial for improvement and building confidence.
    - Confidence is a journey of continuous improvement and self-discovery, requiring dedication and a willingness to face challenges.

    • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
      @user-kn1vp8vo3k 20 днів тому

      Dam my brotha this is hit right here man appreciate the wisdom my man✊ you got the right mindset fasho

    • @bramlilipory4116
      @bramlilipory4116 18 днів тому

      Excellent work. Thank you

    • @user-if5ls5td7k
      @user-if5ls5td7k 11 днів тому

      Overcoming distractions and achieving goals requires self-discipline, which comes from clarity and knowing what you want----------sometimes we don't know what we want or just feel helpless to find or achieve it
      Dan Koe : You can watch this and do nothing with your life because you " don't know enough to start" OR You can finally take the leap and dedicate ur life to learning and building rather than expecting everything to be given to you

  • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
    @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 23 дні тому +176

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 23 дні тому +2

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 23 дні тому +1

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @morseemily
      @morseemily 23 дні тому +1

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 23 дні тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 23 дні тому

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @nickiboy33
    @nickiboy33 15 днів тому +1

    Im glad I transformed and doing everything Dan mentions in this clip. I also working to get closer to enlightenment, there are 4 stages and according to head monk in a temple I was staying for a while Im close to stage 2 so I just “float” around, not worrying much, working every single day towards fine tuning my goals and MY future and being selfish. You all should do the same. We come with nothing into this world and will leave it same way. Make your life count and BE HAPPY. Ask yourself what do I really WANT? Now in this very moment and in your lives.

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 27 днів тому +10

    Hi
    I'm from India. I can relate to every word you spoke. You are doing a great job and the world needs great value creators like you

  • @hockinghillsalive3624
    @hockinghillsalive3624 26 днів тому +3

    I subbed yesterday after realizing I'd been loosely watching your channel for several months without being subscribed.
    🙏🏽
    I appreciate you, Dan.

  • @Angel-lx6xe
    @Angel-lx6xe 28 днів тому +7

    Out here changin lives, Dan.
    For real.
    Good for you.🌸
    I'm glad you exist.

  • @carlapires7732
    @carlapires7732 24 дні тому +1

    Listening to you feels like digging deep into your emotional & psychological self to uncover hidden flaws, preventing you from being who you are & advancing in life. More effective than any session at the psychoanalyst. Thank you for raising people up through your impactful words!

  • @bobbiebobbob8761
    @bobbiebobbob8761 27 днів тому +2

    The succinct explanation and questions used to gain clarity in this video is so much more practical than 99% of the BS on UA-cam, great job.

  • @rajbala6010
    @rajbala6010 28 днів тому +13

    Contrary to the notion that the mind craves order, it is, in fact, inherently chaotic. The mind operates by diverging into multiple directions, enticing distractions, and perpetually scanning the environment for threats and pleasures. Attempting to sit still without thought proves difficult, regardless of the meditation technique employed. Nevertheless, achieving success in any domain necessitates understanding one’s mind and imposing a degree of order upon it. This task becomes particularly challenging in our modern age, where myriad distractions constantly vie for our attention.

    • @Vilify3d
      @Vilify3d 27 днів тому

      The only comment that matters.

    • @homelessmillionaire1
      @homelessmillionaire1 18 днів тому

      Excellent comment

    • @billpavlou9467
      @billpavlou9467 17 днів тому

      You have knowledge you can use my friend 👌 You have a problem to solve, solve it then teach it .

    • @rajbala6010
      @rajbala6010 17 днів тому

      @@billpavlou9467 I probably should. Lol. Thanks for your reply.

    • @Bittzen
      @Bittzen 11 днів тому

      Our Will seeks Order, but the rest of the brain is causing erratic disorder and affects the mind. Developing a stronger Will will help us assert Order over Entropy. I believe the region of the brain that neuroscientists say is the seat of Willpower and potentially even the will to live is called the Anterior Mid-cingulate Cortex, if I recall. It can be grown larger and developed, but most people don't know how to develop it and do things that shrink it.
      Addictions weaken it. Doing things we don't want to do grow it, which makes it easier to do what we don't want to do and develops our Willpower. The opposite, falling into bed habits and addiction, shrinks it, which obviously makes it harder to crawl out of and weakens the Willpower.

  • @allankamper5695
    @allankamper5695 7 днів тому +1

    Dan, excellent content and delivery. I'm hooked. Thx

  • @ImStephhhh
    @ImStephhhh 16 днів тому +1

    Needed this! I’ve been relentlessly pursing something not because of me but because of pressures. Thank you for the reminder

  • @STOIUM
    @STOIUM 27 днів тому +2

    Thanks man. This is my favourite video of yours that I've watched so far

  • @TheAubreyLynch
    @TheAubreyLynch 28 днів тому +2

    Thank you for these amazing videos. I’m building my channel slowly but surely with weekly posts. I take in everything you say and apply it when appropriate. I’m on week 20 and I’m committed to the long haul. I find your videos moving and inspiring. Keep em coming! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

  • @TimRidleyArt
    @TimRidleyArt 23 дні тому +4

    As an artist, I've always had the negative reaction to the word "business" just as you described. It's an unfortunate and limiting belief that has kept me working for studios and not for myself for several years. I'm excited to start Mental Monetization and finally start working for myself. Thanks Dan.

  • @stevekostakis2983
    @stevekostakis2983 27 днів тому

    This video is your finest hour…you laid out my life in full. Thank you.

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz 28 днів тому +2

    This is gold. Thanks!

  • @ishitaswarupp
    @ishitaswarupp 28 днів тому +3

    Your videos are such gem that i dont want the world to know about them 😭 but the content you share is reaching masses undoubtedly

  • @kellenkenlyn
    @kellenkenlyn 27 днів тому +1

    Thank you Dan. Your advice has bettered me as a writer and encouraged my faith in the practice.

  • @LightningStar21
    @LightningStar21 9 днів тому

    So on point, and so helpful. Thank you Dan

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 12 днів тому

    I am grateful for this video, your mind and desire to create this video, and the internet for providing wonderful mentors like yourself.

  • @MaxKomes
    @MaxKomes 26 днів тому

    May be the best video yet, Dan.
    I like how you explain identity formation and socialization. These messages of autonomy is what this age of distraction needs~

  • @mayammmm276
    @mayammmm276 17 днів тому

    Hi, this is the first video of yours I’ve watched, and I had to pause near the end just to say this is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched! You gave so much valuable insights, such clarity and really helpful information. I appreciate you!!!

  • @___JUANMAN
    @___JUANMAN 22 дні тому

    Thanks Dan. We appreciate your content.

  • @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc
    @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc 24 дні тому

    You are amazing. Thank you Dan.

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 28 днів тому +1

    all change is identity change! love that.

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 22 дні тому

    This is the path I have chosen for the rest of my life. I like this path so much. Thank you Dan for this value addition

  • @kikiposada
    @kikiposada 27 днів тому

    More clear and powerful with every video. Great stuff

  • @claudinelogrado
    @claudinelogrado 27 днів тому +2

    Learning more every day and starting to apply your teachings to my new online business this week. Thanks.🙏

  • @RafaelLopez-dv5vz
    @RafaelLopez-dv5vz 26 днів тому

    Thank you Dan.

  • @Thesionshow
    @Thesionshow 26 днів тому

    You drop gem after gem in your videos. Thank you.

  • @ihsankamil6279
    @ihsankamil6279 27 днів тому

    This is such an amazing video thank you dude changing lives for sure

  • @victormolina100
    @victormolina100 28 днів тому

    Thanks man, that really inspired me broo love from Brazil

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    @Sweety_24 28 днів тому +24

    The best thing I ever did was subscribe to your UA-cam channel!!!

  • @carolzaher2655
    @carolzaher2655 26 днів тому +1

    Dan, you are the modern day guru. Thank you

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      I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

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    • @KuramaUchiha-id1ow
      @KuramaUchiha-id1ow 27 днів тому

      Most people keep getting scared of taking risk,though I started with as low as $15,000
      actually because it was my first time and it was successful, She's a great personality in the state.

  • @user-lv1uw8ke9k
    @user-lv1uw8ke9k 27 днів тому

    Ahhhh , you are so lovely to listen to while I sleep❤

  • @kyrinmcl
    @kyrinmcl 12 днів тому

    Thanks Dan 🙏🏼🤍

  • @007d.a.b5
    @007d.a.b5 27 днів тому

    Holy Shit. Your videos are my absolute favorite. They always shake me with uncertainty and excitement, and help me realize the vast limitless of today if only I start taking more steps. Keep up the phenomenal work Dan!

  • @huseinfatehi2596
    @huseinfatehi2596 27 днів тому

    Thank you for this truly

  • @amonifinau4048
    @amonifinau4048 26 днів тому

    Thank you!

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 26 днів тому +1

    Love & Peace Dan - Thank you always :)

  •  25 днів тому +1

    Thank you Dan, I'm so depress today but you words give me courage. 🌞

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 22 дні тому +1

      Thanks I appreciate my work

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 22 дні тому

      So happen that made you depressed

  • @arkbjorn
    @arkbjorn 28 днів тому

    Very interesting and useful video. Thank you.

  • @TimeToTrinkTenTeas
    @TimeToTrinkTenTeas 28 днів тому

    Your writing, your language is really impressive

  • @Unikadanceeventsparties
    @Unikadanceeventsparties 28 днів тому +2

    Thank you Mr. Koe ❤

  • @gallarzo720
    @gallarzo720 17 днів тому

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @vivienneobineche3194
    @vivienneobineche3194 27 днів тому

    Just the validation I needed :)

  • @RYCTalks
    @RYCTalks 23 дні тому +1

    Very insightful Video. Caring about others only makes you weak by draining your energy. It’s better to utilise that energy to care and love yourself ❤️.
    My prayer and wishes to all of you who are chasing your dream🏃‍♂️.

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 27 днів тому

    Excellent point on the power of self-discipline in achieving goals! Remember, regular reflection on your progress and readjusting your strategies can also significantly enhance your focus and drive toward your personal ambitions. 🚀

  • @jslepx
    @jslepx 28 днів тому

    Great Insights

  • @storytellingforthesoulsarahc
    @storytellingforthesoulsarahc 25 днів тому

    Such a good video!

  • @keniavalenzuela1218
    @keniavalenzuela1218 18 днів тому

    Thanks for delivering to us such as informative and motivating video❤

  • @learnwithlerato
    @learnwithlerato 25 днів тому

    Thank you for this video

  • @Alirooble99
    @Alirooble99 28 днів тому +1

    Thanks ❤

  • @justathought7221
    @justathought7221 28 днів тому +2

    Thank you for this. I want to quit my job so much and just go head first into the deep end of my goal. I’m the only one bringing in a pay check and to make matters worse where I am in getting me nowhere. I need to be in another state to make what I want to work. But I have to start where I am. I can write. I can brain storm and I have an idea. This video is something I will watch again. I wish you could go even in-depth. Thank you Dan

    • @RYCTalks
      @RYCTalks 23 дні тому

      Good luck my friend 👍❤️

  • @greenrebellion84
    @greenrebellion84 27 днів тому

    Pure value.👍👍

  • @carmitcohen858
    @carmitcohen858 27 днів тому

    Brilliant, helpful, accurate 🤘👏🙌🙏

  • @thirdrockjul2224
    @thirdrockjul2224 28 днів тому

    Inspiring words! 👍

  • @SimracingArnout
    @SimracingArnout 27 днів тому +3

    Best video you have made this far.
    I used to game eu4 like always.
    I stopped and build yt videos instead.
    I cant go back to eu4. The yt is my new game.

  • @LearnUkrainianwithVakulenko
    @LearnUkrainianwithVakulenko 8 днів тому

    Meeen, it’s so resonating with what I’m going through right now.

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 16 днів тому

    love it love it ... 😅 cheers Danny

  • @theblackhippiechannel
    @theblackhippiechannel 21 день тому

    GREAT VIDEO 👍🏾👍🏾!! ❤

  • @diamondprincess9715
    @diamondprincess9715 16 днів тому

    This is too good!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @yahnaza
    @yahnaza 18 днів тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @user-hs5vp9if9i
    @user-hs5vp9if9i 27 днів тому

    I like to his video! Thanks again!

  • @Kabulstories4
    @Kabulstories4 28 днів тому

    No Word to explain you bro next level ❤🎉❤

  • @AIMusicArtandWriting
    @AIMusicArtandWriting 27 днів тому

    THIS. God I love this. So resonates man 👌👊👌🎯🔥

  • @AmbientTonez-fr4pw
    @AmbientTonez-fr4pw 27 днів тому

    Wow this is deep and accurate

  • @priyaldamani
    @priyaldamani 16 днів тому

    Gonna watch this on repeat

  • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
    @user-kn1vp8vo3k 20 днів тому

    Respect big time my g✊

  • @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley
    @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley 12 днів тому

    This video is gold

  • @shianlichiam9654
    @shianlichiam9654 24 дні тому +1

    This is amazing

  • @aneshalove226
    @aneshalove226 21 день тому

    There’s no way I couldn’t NOT comment on this. The gems you dropped made me have to note them down. Thank you. ❤

  • @hrishetarajkumari977
    @hrishetarajkumari977 19 днів тому

    Nah, we turning our life around with this one. THANK YOU DAN!

  • @aday.withclay
    @aday.withclay День тому

    Might be my favorite video

  • @CrownedbyShirley
    @CrownedbyShirley 18 днів тому

    Too many truths to quote from this video. Wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jakewebb5371
    @jakewebb5371 22 дні тому

    Appreciate you! You helped me get through late night imposter syndrome. This video felt like a course in itself. I apologize but I found your courses on the dark web, I will buy your next one though :)

  • @novotnak_6099
    @novotnak_6099 27 днів тому +2

    "Caring only make you weak. They think you care, they walk all over you."

    • @coleculture1636
      @coleculture1636 22 дні тому

      It’s all about prioritizing your fucks that’s all

  • @aiyohwashereduh
    @aiyohwashereduh 28 днів тому +1

    I've started reading your blog instead of scrolling through reddit and I've been getting some ideas and further inspiration for starting an instagram brand. Appreciate you, man

  • @alanikeiser
    @alanikeiser 19 днів тому +1

    6:26 yeah… trolls and gamers are not the same 😂 can’t have them in the same sentence.
    My sister is a gamer and it has improved her life 100% after being ill and introverted. She has also used it to relate to her kids.
    She doesn’t troll.

  • @daisybluegroff
    @daisybluegroff 27 днів тому

    1:23 Truth. I usually go opposite of what they tell me. Very challenging.

  • @karims9379
    @karims9379 17 днів тому

    Yes we must focus on our selves first

  • @RavinderSingh-ft5dw
    @RavinderSingh-ft5dw 19 днів тому

    Superb

  • @HauPT369
    @HauPT369 28 днів тому

    ❤❤❤ Im alway wait your video😊

  • @ReginaldoKono
    @ReginaldoKono 7 днів тому

    In this video, again, there're so many important points to bear I mind for life, that Im not able list them all! At least I fell I'm being a little writer per this chat.
    A super video recommendation here.

  • @Goal-galore.football
    @Goal-galore.football 24 дні тому

    I have like 4 dreams and I'm gonna get on top of them

  • @LennyTim
    @LennyTim 28 днів тому +1

    A lot of people think they don't care but they actually do a lot.

  • @zhenren9703
    @zhenren9703 28 днів тому +1

    I do not know how to explain this feeling. You sound just like me when I'm talking with my kids. It eerie. Same words, same logic... must be on the same vibe somewhere lol.

  • @Cycle2life
    @Cycle2life 28 днів тому +1

    Amazing…wisdom beyond your years

  • @Neuro.Nation6
    @Neuro.Nation6 27 днів тому

    Gold

  • @user-yn6tf6wv6c
    @user-yn6tf6wv6c 21 день тому

    "You want to be a generalist in perspective to be able to navigate more situations in life without stress."
    absolute banger

  • @atlFalcons1184
    @atlFalcons1184 27 днів тому

    Love your content, Dan. Very much appreciated. 🤌🏼

  • @rawbinmo
    @rawbinmo 15 днів тому

    This guy is a good writer.