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Almost 2 hours. I thought what story takes 2 hours. I have to admit this has been the most resonating “Marriage Saved” process interview videos Geoffrey’s done. Well done Cameron 👍🙏
This was an amazing interview. It helped me open my eyes more to the situation I am currently in, I loved the reference to the moles because I am currently and slowly going through the moles.
@@GeoffreySetiawan another thing I found was the way I used to masculinity was wrong, I believed it was control, mask emotions and having all the answers what I now see it as being there emotionally instead of just existing in the area. I also now see that I used to only focus on the things that benefit myself instead of what benefits both and what helps her.
I really loved this interview. Even though I'm not 100% the same as Cameron. The competition, cup, and overflowing message mentioned by Geoff really hit home. That was brilliant.
I am just starting rhe changes in me. And I do believe that this process takes a LOT of time. As per my partner, she said she is done, she don't love me anymore, she does not want to talk about us. But we do talk everyday. I learned a lot from this video.
This interview give me hope to become a man that can keep a relationship thank you for showing all your experiences. No more excuses I am going to join
My ex definitely did not feel emotionally safe. I would always use logic and shut her down. Lost patience several times and now we’re in the middle of a divorce. Very sad but I can relate to these guys. If I could do what these guys are doing I may win her back
Another great interview!!! A lot of precious info 🙏🙏🙏. There is so much that people just don't know... With Geoffrey is just another level. No bullshit. Thank you so much 👍💯
We get impatient about the long term work because it’s hard to stay all chill when another guys hands are on your sweet wife. Your wife you know so well and it kills you to know that special thing that only you two were supposed to share is now someone else’s
THIS!!! My wife asked us to be friends, while she is dating another guy. Then she asks for the divorce because I had to inform her family why I was moving stuff out of a house on their property. Logic has failed, so how does one handle this
Any update man? I'm grappling with this right now. This is probably the hardest part of going through Geoffrey's advice from these videos. For a while your wife has no consequences, and that is because you want her to feel safe with you. But she gets almost a free pass for at least a short time to do the worst things in the world. This is the part that really stings and it's rarely addressed. If you push on this issue, like asking to wait until after divorce, my wife then said she won't wait until after the divorce to see other people. They are testing you and wanting to see how you react. They might even deliberately cause you excessive pain (like my wife and my friend's ex-wife) and you cannot crumple in these moments. If you keep growing the outcome won't matter, if Geoffrey's advice doesn't work for that particular relationship you will at least rid yourself of an abusive partner and bring your improvements to the next relationship.
My husband tells me I’m making him complacent and I’m the reason why he cannot grow, on top of that he doesn’t love me anymore.. he wants a divorce because of that, we’ve been married for a year now
How can I join the program? I'm married for 29 years. My wife doesn't want to work at the marriage. She's cold towards me. She has a separate bank account now. My wife plans on moving out as soon as possible. I did all the wrong things, Crying, Begging, Pleading, Compromising. Nothing worked. Now i'm trying to give her space by not texting or contacting her. I say hi when I see her or ask if she needs anything. I tried telling her i'm working on myself so I can be a better husband, But she does not care. Is there anything I can do? Please help.
Hello, I am going through something similar, my relationship is 20 years old and 2 weeks ago my wife left me alone and if I understand and accept all my mistakes, but she tells me that she does not want to or does not care if I change or not, that I am no longer there chanses and I really want to get my wife back. I have class tomorrow and I'm super excited because I really want to make changes in my life
Most men never want to deal with the problems to fix in the relationship. They just want the problem to disappear or remain unresolved. The woman cabt even bring it up to try to fix. Whennwill men learning how to keep a health and safe relationship.
Hello goeffrey and everyone, will be seeing my ex in a couple of weeks planting the right seeds we had a really nice convo a couple of days ago and before 2 sessions of questions in which i feel like she gave out everything that bothered her. It will probably be a long talk when we see each other f2f. I have 2 questions , one should i bring up the fact that i would like to start over slow and ease into a relationship or should this come from her since she initiated the split and 2 should i show her this resourceful channel and watch a video or 2 together?
1) This all depends on the depth and quality of your growth. But if she is not initiating coming back, that's a tell tale sign that your growth was either not in the correct direction, not consistent enough, not deep enough, or not FELT by your partner enough. (Note - allowing your partner to FEEL your changes is not done by you TELLING her about it, but through the subtle creation of safety). Don't fall for the paradox of logic - Look my my video on this. 2) We should always be the one to lead the healing process. If you try to start the healing process simply by showing my videos, you're not creating safety directly with her, but with me. That does not work. It's the same pitfall that a lot of my clients fall into when trying couples therapy. Look up my video on this as well!
@@GeoffreySetiawan thank you so much ! Really appreciate your response . Another question how important is besides your changes , the willingness of the partner to come back ?
Hey guys, hope this was helpful! Want results like Cameron? Want to apply for the Relationships Revival program? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS & To Apply for the Relationships Revival program -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
🎉 Click here to see more inspiring stories from our clients from the Relationships Revival program: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
Almost 2 hours. I thought what story takes 2 hours. I have to admit this has been the most resonating “Marriage Saved” process interview videos Geoffrey’s done. Well done Cameron 👍🙏
We need an update interview of Cameron and his wife please
This was an amazing interview. It helped me open my eyes more to the situation I am currently in, I loved the reference to the moles because I am currently and slowly going through the moles.
Awesome! Glad it was valuable! Besides the mole example, any other major takeaways that you found eye-opening?
@@GeoffreySetiawan another thing I found was the way I used to masculinity was wrong, I believed it was control, mask emotions and having all the answers what I now see it as being there emotionally instead of just existing in the area. I also now see that I used to only focus on the things that benefit myself instead of what benefits both and what helps her.
I really loved this interview. Even though I'm not 100% the same as Cameron. The competition, cup, and overflowing message mentioned by Geoff really hit home. That was brilliant.
Another insightful, information filled video. Thank you for sharing Cameron and Geoffrey!
This is my favorite of the interviews that I've seen
I love them all but this one is easily in the Top 3
I am just starting rhe changes in me. And I do believe that this process takes a LOT of time. As per my partner, she said she is done, she don't love me anymore, she does not want to talk about us. But we do talk everyday. I learned a lot from this video.
Great you learned tons! What are your biggest takeaways?
Very very good interview, very helpful, I recognize myself and my situation so much!! Thank you!
Wow the accidently doing something good hit deep down. Immediately wanted to try it out😅 I'm waking up a little more everyday!
18:44..this is important.
Process, then outcome
This interview give me hope to become a man that can keep a relationship thank you for showing all your experiences. No more excuses I am going to join
Did join and what is the outcome
My ex definitely did not feel emotionally safe. I would always use logic and shut her down. Lost patience several times and now we’re in the middle of a divorce. Very sad but I can relate to these guys. If I could do what these guys are doing I may win her back
I learned so much in this interview
Me too.
Another great interview!!!
A lot of precious info 🙏🙏🙏.
There is so much that people just don't know...
With Geoffrey is just another level.
No bullshit.
Thank you so much 👍💯
Thanks brother! We try to give our best for every YT video, and pick our superstar clients for every single interview. Let's goo!!
This guy is a legend 🙌
We get impatient about the long term work because it’s hard to stay all chill when another guys hands are on your sweet wife. Your wife you know so well and it kills you to know that special thing that only you two were supposed to share is now someone else’s
THIS!!! My wife asked us to be friends, while she is dating another guy. Then she asks for the divorce because I had to inform her family why I was moving stuff out of a house on their property. Logic has failed, so how does one handle this
Same situation guys please update
Any update man? I'm grappling with this right now. This is probably the hardest part of going through Geoffrey's advice from these videos. For a while your wife has no consequences, and that is because you want her to feel safe with you. But she gets almost a free pass for at least a short time to do the worst things in the world. This is the part that really stings and it's rarely addressed.
If you push on this issue, like asking to wait until after divorce, my wife then said she won't wait until after the divorce to see other people. They are testing you and wanting to see how you react. They might even deliberately cause you excessive pain (like my wife and my friend's ex-wife) and you cannot crumple in these moments. If you keep growing the outcome won't matter, if Geoffrey's advice doesn't work for that particular relationship you will at least rid yourself of an abusive partner and bring your improvements to the next relationship.
My husband tells me I’m making him complacent and I’m the reason why he cannot grow, on top of that he doesn’t love me anymore.. he wants a divorce because of that, we’ve been married for a year now
I love this video
I’m curious how Cameron is doing and if he and his wife are still in a good spot
How can I join the program? I'm married for 29 years. My wife doesn't want to work at the marriage. She's cold towards me. She has a separate bank account now. My wife plans on moving out as soon as possible. I did all the wrong things, Crying, Begging, Pleading, Compromising. Nothing worked. Now i'm trying to give her space by not texting or contacting her. I say hi when I see her or ask if she needs anything. I tried telling her i'm working on myself so I can be a better husband, But she does not care. Is there anything I can do? Please help.
Can I ask how things are going?
Hello, I am going through something similar, my relationship is 20 years old and 2 weeks ago my wife left me alone and if I understand and accept all my mistakes, but she tells me that she does not want to or does not care if I change or not, that I am no longer there chanses and I really want to get my wife back. I have class tomorrow and I'm super excited because I really want to make changes in my life
I hope everything will work for you.
It is still fresh, give her some time and focus on yourself and becoming a better person for now
Most men never want to deal with the problems to fix in the relationship. They just want the problem to disappear or remain unresolved. The woman cabt even bring it up to try to fix. Whennwill men learning how to keep a health and safe relationship.
50:53
What is it about? What has happened?
Hello goeffrey and everyone, will be seeing my ex in a couple of weeks planting the right seeds we had a really nice convo a couple of days ago and before 2 sessions of questions in which i feel like she gave out everything that bothered her. It will probably be a long talk when we see each other f2f. I have 2 questions , one should i bring up the fact that i would like to start over slow and ease into a relationship or should this come from her since she initiated the split and 2 should i show her this resourceful channel and watch a video or 2 together?
1) This all depends on the depth and quality of your growth. But if she is not initiating coming back, that's a tell tale sign that your growth was either not in the correct direction, not consistent enough, not deep enough, or not FELT by your partner enough. (Note - allowing your partner to FEEL your changes is not done by you TELLING her about it, but through the subtle creation of safety). Don't fall for the paradox of logic - Look my my video on this.
2) We should always be the one to lead the healing process. If you try to start the healing process simply by showing my videos, you're not creating safety directly with her, but with me. That does not work. It's the same pitfall that a lot of my clients fall into when trying couples therapy. Look up my video on this as well!
@@GeoffreySetiawan thank you so much ! Really appreciate your response . Another question how important is besides your changes , the willingness of the partner to come back ?
Pretty much in the same boat as homeboy. And it sucks fucking bad