Alison SO helps me heal from injured love expectation-beliefs and truly value what I can now more clearly observe about male behavior. Thank you for being part of my healing process of thinking differently.
He protects his time and state of mind specially when he is working on something important at work or anything bigger than himself. Because, we women are such a huge distraction that can easily make them lose focus and even weaken them. And likewise, a man doesn't want to just give us attention for the sake of giving us attention so we won't feel angry or sad. But they want to give us their full quality attention once they are finally done with those important issues they have at hand. At least that is what i've observed with my Japanese boyfriend who holds a key role at his work, and he works a 12hour shift 5 days a week plus 1/2 on saturdays.
I just started dating someone and I've been having the hardest time trying to figure out what it meant when he said "I think I'm in love with you". My poor female brain went right to "you THINK? Does he love me or not?! How does he FEEL?" This interview was VERY illuminating and now I don't doubt how he feels. Thank you!!!
That's most men they talk about themselves and how great they are at everything they do.. there so confident and sure of themselves .. full of themselves in other words
Wow! This is absolutely amazing content!! Alison is so beautiful and brilliant! Great knowledge shared in here! How come she's not popular on UA-cam?! Lots of ladies ought to connect with you both! 💞
Thank you for sharing us this great information. I can relate to the texting part when I don’t get a response from my BF for a day or two. I know that he has ‘seen’ my text messages but there was no response especially if they’re only statements not questions. One time, I discussed this with him and told him I feel that he did not care about me. It would be nice for him to respond even just a thumbs up or an emoji to acknowledge it. He then explained that he is not a text person and that he likes to save his response when we talk over the phone or video call so there is something to talk about. ☺️ Now, I understand why. 👍😊 But since then, he responds to most of my text messages with emojis or thumbs up. 😁
I love this channel! It's so awesome to discover experts who may not be considered main stream. Keep up the amazing and transformative work! And thank you for videos like this.
What to do when someone says “they are private” that’s why they don’t want to share their previous relationship which last 4 years and they left in bad terms.
Gosh I get so turned off when a man doesn’t need anyone but himself to have a conversations... one of us is not necessary! Not for me... he was just too full of himself. Tried all that and he was not aware/conscious.
My experience is that men talk a lot about themselves. Which I enjoy, but feel it’s odd I have to try hard to interject-this is in dating mind you- Why aren’t they naturally curious and I have to interrupt?
Would it be safe to say that a great majority of men initially connect due to physical attraction? With that, asking the question you suggested and what it means in regards to physical attraction, kind of kills the need for the woman to go further?
Men are visual so theres no need to assume. It's a fact that we are initially attracted to looks. The funny thing is, Women are too, you just don't like to admit it
Alison Armstrong is without any equal or parallel. Nothing is more attractive than a woman of understanding. Alison Armstrong embodies an understanding that is like 800 horsepower vehicle that only goes forward. And does a 5 second quarter mile, if not 4 seconds. As contrasted to an individual with a push scooter not knowing what direction they want to go in. Alison Armstrong could sell anything to me with absolute confidence. Alison Armstrong is a national treasure! She should have secret service protection at all times.
Yes! If you have too much of an alluring exterior men will be forever distracted by that and they will never be prompted to dig any deeper and meet and connect with the inner parts of you. Also, you’ll have a very high standard to maintain so if something were to happen to you in regards to your health, where you either lost a lot of weight or you gained a lot of weight then because that exterior appearance is such a strong contingency, well…..that’s where the house of cards may fall.
Actually Steve Harvey said , He said first ask “ What do you think about me “ then he said , after he explains what he thinks about you , ask him “ What he feels about you “ I am not sure about the care part . Most men I dated said they cared about me, but married someone else. Plus they had all their freedom when they “ cared “ about me . I have seen this happen to other friends too. So I don’t know what they actually meant when they said that .
If you want to know how men communicate, have your man hold a bbq. Once the bbq is lit, sit down and hush. Listen and think and don’t interfere. Men can communicate all ranges of emotion with friends around a bbq pit and not say very much. Watch your husband light a fire in the bbq and within minutes, all men in the backyard are standing around the pit. Only one man speaks at a time. Buy so,e decent steaks and have your man invite friends over. Sit back and watch and for shit sake, listen.
Bragging is an effort to cover up vulnerability. If some dude needs to regale you with tales of his own glory he is definitely feeling a general lack of it. He's trying to increase his value by inflating it artificially. Strong men don't waste their time on such nonsense.
I love Michelle as a host. She listens intently and asks effective questions. ❤
What i enjoy about Allison is her sense of fun! It’s like she’s in on some cosmic joke about men/women.
The mist amazing thing I've heard...and I am 67 and was married for 35 years! Now that I am trying to date, this is just what I need to know. Thanks!
Wonderful! Thanks for watching and for your comments too Susan! Much appreciated!
Alison SO helps me heal from injured love expectation-beliefs and truly value what I can now more clearly observe about male behavior.
Thank you for being part of my healing process of thinking differently.
He protects his time and state of mind specially when he is working on something important at work or anything bigger than himself. Because, we women are such a huge distraction that can easily make them lose focus and even weaken them. And likewise, a man doesn't want to just give us attention for the sake of giving us attention so we won't feel angry or sad. But they want to give us their full quality attention once they are finally done with those important issues they have at hand. At least that is what i've observed with my Japanese boyfriend who holds a key role at his work, and he works a 12hour shift 5 days a week plus 1/2 on saturdays.
This was amazing! I'm surprised her work doesn't have more views. Thank you for bringing her in, Michelle!!
Thanks for watching Tanziha! Glad you it!
She understands men better than men understand men. So insightful
The ending makes me cry. It’s so grateful I have someone cares about me. ❤️
One of the very best interviews ever.
I love watching Michelle and Alison giggling when they share their personal experience. Thank you to you both for the epic content! Lotsa love
Thanks for watching Sayli! Glad you enjoyed it!
I just started dating someone and I've been having the hardest time trying to figure out what it meant when he said "I think I'm in love with you". My poor female brain went right to "you THINK? Does he love me or not?! How does he FEEL?" This interview was VERY illuminating and now I don't doubt how he feels. Thank you!!!
We're so glad you found it helpful Amy! Thanks for watching and for your comment too! Good luck in your relationship as well!
Wow. I have been on the planet for half a century and had no clue. Thanks so much to both ladies.
Thanks for watching and for leaving a comment too Allison!
You are amazing!!! You have so many of the greatest experts, loving your channel!!
Thank you so much Arlene! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
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You two ladies are just stunning. So so lovely to listen to. Thank you so so much for that ♡♡♡
Thanks so much for your kind comments and for watching!
"I love you" to a woman can't last a whole day. "I love you" to a man lasts a whole week.
That can be true Kathleen. Thanks for watching!
That's most men they talk about themselves and how great they are at everything they do.. there so confident and sure of themselves .. full of themselves in other words
Wouldn't it be great if we wimen were FULL of Our S.E.L.F. as well 🤔
Bragging is an expression of weakness, not strength.
@@TheFeatureCreepBut it works. People get taken in by the surface. But to paraphrase Shakespeare:
“The Gentleman Doth Protest Too Much”
Date more mature men
Wow! This is absolutely amazing content!! Alison is so beautiful and brilliant! Great knowledge shared in here! How come she's not popular on UA-cam?! Lots of ladies ought to connect with you both! 💞
Glad you enjoyed it! Alison is amazing! Thanks for watching Jolie!
She describes it sooo well
Michelle - I just L O V E your job interview story !!! Love Alison THANK YOU for having her on!
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too!
Wow! Thank you so much for this amazing information!! It will definitely help me a lot with understanding and communicating with my boyfriend!
Thanks for watching and for your kind comments too!
Great interview, excellent information as always from Ms. Armstrong!
Thanks so much for watching Sharon! Glad you enjoyed it!
another awesome interview! was fun to watch you two laugh!!
Glad you enjoyed it Angie! We had fun recording it! Thanks for watching!
Thank you for sharing us this great information. I can relate to the texting part when I don’t get a response from my BF for a day or two. I know that he has ‘seen’ my text messages but there was no response especially if they’re only statements not questions. One time, I discussed this with him and told him I feel that he did not care about me. It would be nice for him to respond even just a thumbs up or an emoji to acknowledge it. He then explained that he is not a text person and that he likes to save his response when we talk over the phone or video call so there is something to talk about. ☺️ Now, I understand why. 👍😊
But since then, he responds to most of my text messages with emojis or thumbs up. 😁
Thank you for watching June and for your comments too!
Sean?
I love this channel! It's so awesome to discover experts who may not be considered main stream. Keep up the amazing and transformative work! And thank you for videos like this.
Glad you enjoy it! Thanks so much for watching and for your kind comments too!
Insightful and helpful information thank you
Great Video, thank you for the valuable Information and what a spirit Alison has ☺
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
This is a MUST-SEE.
Amazing knowledge. Just loved it. Thank you both do much.
Thanks so much for watching and for your kind comments too Otilia!
You amazing, dear Michele. Love your videos. Always some thing to think about and improve.
@@otiliamartins7310 Thank you so much for your kind words dear!
language is symbolic and symbols can reveal or they can conceal...
Thanks for watching and for your comment Glenn!
Wow fantastic interview 😍
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching and for leaving a comment to Fenella!
Can I have a turn - got me the response ‘the world doesn’t revolve around you’ ! ! (After listening for nearly 3 hours ....)
Oh dear! You are a patient woman if you listened for 3 hours. Thanks for watching the channel and best of luck to you!
The lady with the blue shirt is so beautiful and lovely ❤❤❤
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
What to do when someone says “they are private” that’s why they don’t want to share their previous relationship which last 4 years and they left in bad terms.
Gosh I get so turned off when a man doesn’t need anyone but himself to have a conversations... one of us is not necessary! Not for me... he was just too full of himself. Tried all that and he was not aware/conscious.
Hi there Arlene! You're right! It is frustrating when a man dominates a conversation. Take good care!
It wld be great if u interview men from different cultures India Mexico etc
I really like her 😍❤😍❤
Interesting but I wish she would also touch on issues such as narcissism (even if it is just to acknowledge these exist)...
Thanks for watching and commenting Suzy. There are other videos on my channel which address narcissism, but that was not the topic for this interview.
Narcissist are hunters..lol
Cool woman!
Thanks so much for watching!
My experience is that men talk a lot about themselves. Which I enjoy, but feel it’s odd I have to try hard to interject-this is in dating mind you-
Why aren’t they naturally curious and I have to interrupt?
Would it be safe to say that a great majority of men initially connect due to physical attraction? With that, asking the question you suggested and what it means in regards to physical attraction, kind of kills the need for the woman to go further?
Men are visual so theres no need to assume. It's a fact that we are initially attracted to looks. The funny thing is, Women are too, you just don't like to admit it
Alison Armstrong is without any equal or parallel.
Nothing is more attractive than a woman of understanding.
Alison Armstrong embodies an understanding that is like 800 horsepower vehicle that only goes forward. And does a 5 second quarter mile, if not 4 seconds.
As contrasted to an individual with a push scooter not knowing what direction they want to go in.
Alison Armstrong could sell anything to me with absolute confidence.
Alison Armstrong is a national treasure! She should have secret service protection at all times.
You're so right Alex! She is amazing! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@Alex Hastings 💓
Yes! If you have too much of an alluring exterior men will be forever distracted by that and they will never be prompted to dig any deeper and meet and connect with the inner parts of you. Also, you’ll have a very high standard to maintain so if something were to happen to you in regards to your health, where you either lost a lot of weight or you gained a lot of weight then because that exterior appearance is such a strong contingency, well…..that’s where the house of cards may fall.
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I'm available. I mean for interview. I'm an anti feminist/ gender study guy.
Actually Steve Harvey said , He said first ask “ What do you think about me “ then he said , after he explains what he thinks about you , ask him “ What he feels about you “
I am not sure about the care part . Most men I dated said they cared about me, but married someone else. Plus they had all their freedom when they “ cared “ about me .
I have seen this happen to other friends too.
So I don’t know what they actually meant when they said that .
Stop listening to Steve Harvey. Start listening to Kevin Samuels
If you want to know how men communicate, have your man hold a bbq. Once the bbq is lit, sit down and hush. Listen and think and don’t interfere. Men can communicate all ranges of emotion with friends around a bbq pit and not say very much. Watch your husband light a fire in the bbq and within minutes, all men in the backyard are standing around the pit. Only one man speaks at a time. Buy so,e decent steaks and have your man invite friends over. Sit back and watch and for shit sake, listen.
thank you, that is really good advice, I will remember that if God brings a boyfriend.
Bragging is an effort to cover up vulnerability.
If some dude needs to regale you with tales of his own glory he is definitely feeling a general lack of it. He's trying to increase his value by inflating it artificially.
Strong men don't waste their time on such nonsense.
Men beat me up. I know. Twas my fault.