Q&A, Advice for marrying young. How did you start wearing Hijab.

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  • @TotalSchoolJunkie
    @TotalSchoolJunkie 4 роки тому +9

    Love that you brought up learning about their mental issues at the beginning, so you can be better equipped to help them. So important but frequently overlooked until the issues arise.

  • @mad4raisins
    @mad4raisins 4 роки тому +15

    Totally agree about getting married young and being old and having your own way ect

  • @mahfuzahmed9133
    @mahfuzahmed9133 4 роки тому +7

    I think the good age for a girl to get married is from 18-26 years old but also if you feel ready for it...

  • @ebrub6440
    @ebrub6440 4 роки тому +28

    Sorry the idea of getting married at a young age is so weird. Getting married is about becoming a team. You will spend the rest of your life learning about each other, and every now and then things come out of the blue. But the beauty of marriage is that if you choose the right person and you both love each other, you will always find a way to get through it.
    P.s. at a young age you have other things on your mind and you are not busy getting married and starting a family. This is also why so many divorces arise.

    • @aminabousba886
      @aminabousba886 4 роки тому

      It's a habit in my culture and it's a traditions to marry young even in age 16 years old (girls),,, many of them in age of 25 years they'll have at list 3 children

    • @ayshh_____97
      @ayshh_____97 4 роки тому +4

      Not necessarily. I think it’s very much about maturity. With maturity comes the willingness to compromise which is key in any form of human interaction. Maturity doesn’t necessarily come with age, so I think if someone is mature at the age of 18, go for it!

  • @AA-ek5kz
    @AA-ek5kz 4 роки тому +5

    You are such a beautiful person and love your openness and I love how you changed the course of your life and the fact that in the end you chose happiness and health for you and your child. You and your man really come across a perfect fit.

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Awww Thank you so much we appreciate your love and support ❤️

  • @shiinohassan1835
    @shiinohassan1835 4 роки тому +5

    I just started watching your videos as beautiful young muslim woman a lot of girls can learn from you because you have good advice for them Iam happy for you guys keep doing what you doing keep shining

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @babyblueskies9462
    @babyblueskies9462 4 роки тому +5

    I hope you save enough to travel to all the places you both wish to, in shaa Allah ❤️

  • @discreet7867
    @discreet7867 4 роки тому +3

    Aslamu alaykum Sister and brother. Firstly, I just wanted to stay Ramadan Mubarak to you and your family. May Allah (SWT) bless all of us this on this holy month Ameen, and may he accept our deeds. Second of all, you guys don't know how happy I am for you. I'm sorry sister about your past, but Alhumdulillah your husband is so kind and caring and I hope Allah (SWT) blesses your family forever and protects you and family from any evilness. Please make more videos and also, you deserve way more subscribers. Aslamu alaykum.

  • @wonderseeker9771
    @wonderseeker9771 4 роки тому +6

    As-salāmu ʿalaykum sister. As brand new muslimah (taking my Shahada 24.may), I would love to see a hijab tutorial from you. I love your style, very pretty. Ramadan Mubarak

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +1

      In sha Allah sis! And so happy for you welcome to the family ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sajihaaskar8364
    @sajihaaskar8364 4 роки тому +6

    I love your hijab style! You should do a hijab tutorial of this “side turban”

  • @mannagurung8449
    @mannagurung8449 3 роки тому +3

    May God bless both of you Always ' Both of you are positive' genuine ppl Beautiful couple ❤❤

  • @aqleemarida8936
    @aqleemarida8936 4 роки тому +3

    I just saw this video it's amazing and inspiring for young couples ❤️ and I am happy to see uh happy and live happy always and keep making more vids

  • @Dayss856
    @Dayss856 4 роки тому +3

    I’m so happy for you both, be blessed and happy 😆 make more videos

  • @Amberere
    @Amberere 4 роки тому +6

    Very articulate, intelligent and great head on your shoulders. I love hearing that your very understanding and open and appreciate your respect you show especially for your family, husband and the people in your past. Living positive as you do is always the answer. Wish you success with your 5 - 10 year plans 💖

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️

  • @saiqamanawar7790
    @saiqamanawar7790 4 роки тому +6

    Love you guys so much. You both look so good together so happy for you ❤️

  • @iqraa3725
    @iqraa3725 4 роки тому +5

    Love you guysss💕. Thanks for the advice💙

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +2

      Iqra Ahmed We love you to and Your welcome if you have any more questions feel free to ask😁

    • @iqraa3725
      @iqraa3725 4 роки тому +1

      Ash & Pai subhanAllah i havent got any more questions just wanna say Ramadan Mubarak. May this month bring you peace and blessings in shaa Allah.

  • @lolstudio1947
    @lolstudio1947 4 роки тому +5

    Please make dua form me guys, to live a happy life with the one that I want 💛❤️

  • @Muskan-de5jy
    @Muskan-de5jy 4 роки тому +3

    Yeyyy m the 6th to comment btw wish everyone a Happy Ramadan and please don’t forget to give charity to the poor and love ur channel😊

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      JazakAllah, Ramadan Mubarak!! Happy to see your love and support for our channel and yes everyone please donate to those in need this Ramadan.

  • @rreviewblog
    @rreviewblog 4 роки тому +2

    Makeup tutorials please 😍

  • @readlisten7298
    @readlisten7298 4 роки тому +3

    May you have a blessed Ramadan, sister.

  • @sajeda_.x1302
    @sajeda_.x1302 4 роки тому +2

    So gassed I stumbled across your channel truly love your videos 🥰

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @afeisha1522
    @afeisha1522 4 роки тому

    It's a good idea to marry young, once you have some degree of financial independence. But at 18 or 19 I feel that a woman's focus should be herself.. Education, learning a trade.

  • @fozia4651
    @fozia4651 4 роки тому +1

    So pretty Ma’sha’allah 💘💘 Didn’t realise you are from Rochdale. Kinda local then 🙇🏽‍♀️♥️

  • @hansaazam2285
    @hansaazam2285 4 роки тому +5

    You guys are so inspiring

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Hansa Azam Thank You! We do hope to keep you inspired and entertaining😊❤️

  • @foreignbxtchvv8009
    @foreignbxtchvv8009 4 роки тому +2

    I have a new born baby, and my partner abuses me. I don't want to be with my anymore as he harms me. However Im scared on where to go and how will we Co parent, he once said if we break up I have him 4 days he has them 3. I don't really liek that, I' don't want to be with out my newborn for 3 days however I don't knwo what to do he shouts at me

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Can’t you go through court?

  • @jasmineflower2122
    @jasmineflower2122 4 роки тому +2

    You are sO Beautiful and you are very wise so happy tht ur in a happy relationship/ marriage

  • @jakia2020
    @jakia2020 4 роки тому +4

    Hi Ayesha, i dont have instagram so i’d like to post my question on here 😊, what advice would you give to someone who is struggling to get married or find the right one ? Im in this situation myself aswell.

    • @jakia2020
      @jakia2020 4 роки тому

      Also im 23 now its making me think a lot to settle down aha x

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +2

      Jakia Khatun I don’t think there’s ever a right time to settle down. If you feel like you’re ready just keep praying and wait for the right person to come along. I think when you try too hard then you can end up with the wrong person. So just go with the flow❤️

  • @shiinohassan1835
    @shiinohassan1835 4 роки тому +2

    You welcome 🙏

  • @bellamuhammad5333
    @bellamuhammad5333 4 роки тому +1

    Do you have video for your first time seeing each other?? What you felt when you saw each other?!!!

  • @aliciaallt5607
    @aliciaallt5607 4 роки тому +3

    You are so courageous ❤️🤗😘

  • @TheSublimeFactor
    @TheSublimeFactor 4 роки тому +1

    You are so beautiful 😍❤️and the hijab looks very elegant on you.

  • @HDY0903
    @HDY0903 4 роки тому +2

    I live in Bolton! Moving to London next year iA. Will miss the nice slow life here

    • @abdulmumin6251
      @abdulmumin6251 4 роки тому +1

      Omg busy busy london busy roads cramped tube and millions of people out n about day night dawn lol good luck

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +1

      HDY yeah it’s very different if you compare the two. Having lived most my life in London and now I’m in Manchester. I can say that London is a good place if you don’t have little kids as it’s too packed and busy. I do wanna move back but once my kids are older maybe

  • @foryouea
    @foryouea 4 роки тому +1

    You are so lovely and very smart. Usually girls who are pretty are dump. You have both and looks that u have great personality. Please when u have time learn us how you style hijabs, if u can three or four ways, with hijabs that u have bcs they look so nice on you, they show pretty face.

  • @shiinohassan1835
    @shiinohassan1835 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the reply ❤️

  • @kuliiabrahams5931
    @kuliiabrahams5931 4 роки тому +4

    Aspire to be like you one day IA💯❤❤❤🙏

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +1

      KULII ABRAHAMS Awwee that really means a lot love, I’m sure your an amazing and beautiful soul. May Allah bless you☺️💗

    • @kuliiabrahams5931
      @kuliiabrahams5931 4 роки тому +1

      Ash & Pai you too and your family❤

  • @skreemsama850
    @skreemsama850 3 роки тому

    You are such sweet articulate person so much love to you😘😘😘😘

  • @Zaza-qn9wl
    @Zaza-qn9wl 4 роки тому +17

    When you are early but dont know what to say

    • @AnnzzLyfe
      @AnnzzLyfe 4 роки тому +2

      Trust me😂

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +2

      Heyyy, We’re so happy to see your support and love for our channel we really appreciate it Thank You❤️❤️❤️

    • @Zaza-qn9wl
      @Zaza-qn9wl 4 роки тому +2

      @@ashandpai Awwwhhh this is so sweeet!! You're welcome!! :D ♥ Ilygsm!! and Great video btw

  • @ayan6985
    @ayan6985 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @FahmidaAnika
    @FahmidaAnika 4 роки тому +1

    U look like the indian actress Esha Gupta

  • @emilythan3701
    @emilythan3701 4 роки тому +2

    are you going to introduce your kids to the channel?☺️☺️

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Not yet. Maybe our son in the near future but baby girl is too small haha

  • @purplebear445
    @purplebear445 4 роки тому +2

    Can u do a hijab and makeup tutorial

  • @rehanarashid6
    @rehanarashid6 4 роки тому +1

    did you date your partner before you married him.or did you just chat on phone???

  • @gulziwar8591
    @gulziwar8591 4 роки тому +1

    Mashallah beautiful couple🥰🥰

  • @asmairachaudhry4658
    @asmairachaudhry4658 4 роки тому

    Your husband is so caring

  • @purplebear445
    @purplebear445 4 роки тому +5

    I have a question... how do u get a guy to commit at such young age? What did u do 😹 i just find nowadays guys are too afraid to commit and even tho they like me they dont wana marry consequently end up leaving them 🙄

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +3

      You just have to find the right guy. My husband wanted to commit and start a family haha so I didn’t have to convince him much x

    • @purplebear445
      @purplebear445 4 роки тому +2

      @@ashandpai ahhh i see 😅 when its meant to be it will be i suppose

    • @thf_
      @thf_ 4 роки тому +2

      Muslim wants normally to commit. Because there is no girlfriend in Islam and there is no better thing than raising a family and Muslims to be honest

  • @iqrashabbir539
    @iqrashabbir539 4 роки тому +2

    You are so postive about your life which is vary impressive ♥♥♥ god bless u ... u r soo cute mashaAllha .... plz come pakistan and visit my city (islamabad) ♥♥♥♥

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +1

      In sha Allah I can’t wait until I have enough to come visit ❤️

  • @shiinohassan1835
    @shiinohassan1835 4 роки тому +1

    Ramadaam Mubarak both of you

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Ramadan Mubarak to you too❤️

  • @najmabegum5876
    @najmabegum5876 4 роки тому +1

    U look stunning xox

  • @ubahrashid3722
    @ubahrashid3722 4 роки тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @azizabilal1939
    @azizabilal1939 Місяць тому

    Red lipstick is cute Asha

  • @theemodoctor
    @theemodoctor 4 роки тому +2

    How do you guys support yourselves financially?

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      We both work ☺️

    • @aysatogi6503
      @aysatogi6503 4 роки тому +1

      @@ashandpai can you make a video on how you keep balance between work and household because as a women your prime purpose is to take care of children hmmmm it will be a nice video can you make it please

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      aysa togi will do ❤️

  • @asmairachaudhry4658
    @asmairachaudhry4658 4 роки тому

    I really want to get marry Bec I want peace in my life but my parents won't 😢

  • @Thissideoftheworld0520
    @Thissideoftheworld0520 4 роки тому

    Hijab does not include the neck?

  • @mariumfatima3732
    @mariumfatima3732 4 роки тому

    When you will come to Pakistan . Hijab suits your a lot ... 😍❤

  • @nihaalkeey7375
    @nihaalkeey7375 4 роки тому +3

    Love from Somalia

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      Lots of love to you❤️

  • @ambrinislam8442
    @ambrinislam8442 4 роки тому

    Can you do a story time about your divorce plz

  • @SB.Empowerment
    @SB.Empowerment 4 роки тому +1

    😍😍😍

  • @faithfullyfearfully2809
    @faithfullyfearfully2809 4 роки тому +1

    I freaking wuvvv thiss

  • @aysatogi6503
    @aysatogi6503 4 роки тому

    i think its boring to get married young what ifs never end can you give some advice how to get rid of this thought

    • @AA-ek5kz
      @AA-ek5kz 4 роки тому +4

      It is not boring if you find the right person, just live your life and what is meant for you will be there for you.

    • @emonhasan8776
      @emonhasan8776 4 роки тому +1

      @@AA-ek5kz Right

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +4

      Just think about all the things you can do together. Holidays, movie nights, arcades etc

    • @abdulmumin6251
      @abdulmumin6251 4 роки тому

      Aysa your so wrong so so so wrong. Getting married early makes you streaks ahead of the rest plant your seeds early avoid any haram relationships having kids early is better than having them late. I know people who got married early 20s mid 20s there kids can look after themselves look after them now. Getting married to late is not good Imagine getting married at 30 having a child at 35 then the 2nd at 40 then 45 will you be alive to see there graduation marriage or you gran kids

  • @kuliiabrahams5931
    @kuliiabrahams5931 4 роки тому +1

    As a muslim girl, I know we not supposed to date or be with someone of other religion but what happens if I fall for a Christian guy. How do I go about it?

    • @AA-ek5kz
      @AA-ek5kz 4 роки тому +4

      Get to know the person, I know plenty of friends who met a Christian and they converted for them. My Grandmother was Christian and she converted for my Grandfather. Love should not have barriers

    • @kuliiabrahams5931
      @kuliiabrahams5931 4 роки тому +1

      A A my mom is against it😶...he is my friend his a really nice guy but yeah

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому +3

      Yes definitely try to introduce them to Islam first and see how they would go about it or if they would be open to study and revert. If not then research on the rulings of marriage in Islam. I don’t think you should do anything against what says but I might not be right as far as I know you can marry the people of the books

    • @kuliiabrahams5931
      @kuliiabrahams5931 4 роки тому

      Ash & Pai Shukraan❤

    • @AA-ek5kz
      @AA-ek5kz 4 роки тому

      @@kuliiabrahams5931 You are an adult I am assuming? You have to make decision right for yourself, we are not in your life. You have to decide for yourself, your mother is not going to live your life for you, you have to know what is important for you. For me my religion is non negotiable therefore, I married someone with the same faith.

  • @munaobsiye3378
    @munaobsiye3378 4 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @shacniomer5408
    @shacniomer5408 4 роки тому +2

    ماشاءاللہ you beuatiful but cover your neck to complete hijab im your fan and i love you for the sake of allah

  • @Angelinapetrovaaa
    @Angelinapetrovaaa 4 роки тому +1

    Do u have somewhere I can't contact u on, I'm get abused by my partner and I have young child. Do u have twitter wil it be OK to message you

  • @safiahamed6747
    @safiahamed6747 4 роки тому +1

    I love you💖💖💖💖

  • @shanalitlp5114
    @shanalitlp5114 4 роки тому

    Appi ka accident ho hai

  • @nash5140
    @nash5140 4 роки тому +1

    Your videos are so low.

    • @ashandpai
      @ashandpai  4 роки тому

      If it’s the volume you’re talking about, working on getting a mic