Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
I'm trying to walk away from her. I'm so tired of her reaching out only to give me false hopes and fake promises. It just puts me down and lowers self esteem. Not worth it. She's not worth it. Help me walk away with dignity, with my head held up high. Help me let go, and not care. ❤💪
Same is happening with me. I’m 28 and she’s 19…we dated for 6 months…why can’t I let her go? 😞 I suppose because she left me, not the other way around. She’s so young, I should wake up and realize she’s still a teen so what the heck am I even doing? It hurts knowing she is most likely with another guy already…
@@kristoonz You can't let go easily because you're fixated on her. Still stuck in the fantasy of her, just like I was and still am with my girl. It's really hard to let that go. You're not alone in that. But she's young. She most likely wants to go out, have fun, and experiment around, as most people do at that age. If she is seeing another guy, chances are she'll drop him too in time, because she's in play-mode. Weren't you, at 19? You have to let it take it's course and accept the pain and the heartbreak. The rejection. You have to sit with the grief for a while. And it hurts like hell. I know... I've been going through it for 2 years over a girl. The best thing you can do is go into no contact and work on you. Don't focus on her. If she reaches out, then respond but don't be too available. She needs to earn you back, in other words she needs to do the work. If she tries to friendzone you, politely decline. Because if you allow that to happen, you'll be miserable. Ask me how I know. But you know what? There are so many other good women out there. Trust me brother. Get out there in the world and see other places.... Some great women out there. I wish you the best. Don't let this keep you down. Cheers 🤙
@@kristoonz Make sure you have enough going on in your own life so you don't end up mentally stuck on a girl like that. You're going to learn this the hard way 😑
You raise a very good point about friends who know us too well and have become disrespectful. I have allowed one friend in particular to get away with liberties and I have been thinking it was time that they became an ex friend . Its probably true as you suggest that if I had set some boundaries many years ago they would have changed their ways but not everyone is like that . I do think that there are certain kinds of people who push at boundaries and have 'frenemy' characteristics because of issues they have with self worth and envy .
i used to think all these energy books were just hype, but then i heard about Magnetic Aura from friends who suddenly seemed calmer, more in control, like they weren’t letting stress or negativity mess with them anymore. it’s not magic or anything, but i can’t ignore the changes i’ve seen in them since they read it. it’s hard to track down tho, so if you’re curious, you’ll need to dig a little.
you ever meet someone who just has this natural vibe, like they’re on a different level? i found out most of my friends like that all read Magnetic Aura and they swear it’s not about pretending, just being real and not letting negativity drag you down. it’s wild how hard it is to get tho, keeps disappearing everywhere, but maybe that’s what makes it worth it
so my friends read this book called Magnetic Aura and they all started acting way more confident-one got a job they didn’t even apply for, another’s meeting all these amazing people who actually lift them up. it’s like something shifted in their vibe, not in a flashy way, just subtle and real. it’s wild tho, this book keeps getting removed so fast cuz it’s apparently too powerful-good luck finding it if you’re curious.
well said, but I tried it on my Ex and she got really frustrated and mad at me. Because she constantly reached out to get in touch with me in some sort of way within a week usually. Whatever it was and however I tried to rekindle things from there, she just seemed she wanted to reject me once more. When I declined a really subtle friendship offer she got really upset and finally wanted to exchange our belongings. She said maybe we get together again in three years when we changed. This is all so absurd, really. How can you talk about it in that way and not make any step towards the other person even though you perhaps would like to.
i thought Magnetic Aura was just another self-help trend till i saw how it’s lowkey transformed my friends-like they’re way more grounded, confident, and people just wanna be around them. it’s not fake or try-hard, they just seem real and magnetic now. it’s tricky to find tho, gets taken down quick, but worth hunting for
27-year-old guy on the spectrum here. What is the "right" level of openness you can show to your girlfriend? I hear lots of very conflicting advice, especially from redpill bros with their eyes purely on your wallet. They say that you should only open up to your guy friends and close yourself off to your woman entirely. Whilst I know that the people telling you this have vested interests (you buying their awful course), it makes sense for you to remain somewhat closed off to your partner as a man- it's better than the alternative of coming across as desperate and insecure. What are people's take on this?
You should be able to leave at any second. You should show it too. Don't get attached. You can share, but everything you say will be added to your con's list. She will compare you with her expectations constantly. Focus on what you want and demand it, if its not given to you, leave...
not gonna lie, i wasn’t into this whole “energy” stuff till my friend handed me Magnetic Aura-she wouldn’t shut up about it and now i see why, everyone i know who read it seems more chill and magnetic in this effortless way. it’s not a magic fix but it definitely hits different. finding a copy is a hustle tho, they don’t stick around long
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
look up shelly Renee white online, you will find all you need. thank you
I'm trying to walk away from her. I'm so tired of her reaching out only to give me false hopes and fake promises. It just puts me down and lowers self esteem. Not worth it. She's not worth it. Help me walk away with dignity, with my head held up high. Help me let go, and not care. ❤💪
Same is happening with me. I’m 28 and she’s 19…we dated for 6 months…why can’t I let her go? 😞 I suppose because she left me, not the other way around. She’s so young, I should wake up and realize she’s still a teen so what the heck am I even doing? It hurts knowing she is most likely with another guy already…
@@kristoonz You can't let go easily because you're fixated on her. Still stuck in the fantasy of her, just like I was and still am with my girl. It's really hard to let that go. You're not alone in that. But she's young. She most likely wants to go out, have fun, and experiment around, as most people do at that age. If she is seeing another guy, chances are she'll drop him too in time, because she's in play-mode. Weren't you, at 19? You have to let it take it's course and accept the pain and the heartbreak. The rejection. You have to sit with the grief for a while. And it hurts like hell. I know... I've been going through it for 2 years over a girl. The best thing you can do is go into no contact and work on you. Don't focus on her. If she reaches out, then respond but don't be too available. She needs to earn you back, in other words she needs to do the work. If she tries to friendzone you, politely decline. Because if you allow that to happen, you'll be miserable. Ask me how I know. But you know what? There are so many other good women out there. Trust me brother. Get out there in the world and see other places.... Some great women out there.
I wish you the best. Don't let this keep you down. Cheers 🤙
Stop being a simp
@@kristoonz Make sure you have enough going on in your own life so you don't end up mentally stuck on a girl like that. You're going to learn this the hard way 😑
You raise a very good point about friends who know us too well and have become disrespectful. I have allowed one friend in particular to get away with liberties and I have been thinking it was time that they became an ex friend . Its probably true as you suggest that if I had set some boundaries many years ago they would have changed their ways but not everyone is like that . I do think that there are certain kinds of people who push at boundaries and have 'frenemy' characteristics because of issues they have with self worth and envy .
i used to think all these energy books were just hype, but then i heard about Magnetic Aura from friends who suddenly seemed calmer, more in control, like they weren’t letting stress or negativity mess with them anymore. it’s not magic or anything, but i can’t ignore the changes i’ve seen in them since they read it. it’s hard to track down tho, so if you’re curious, you’ll need to dig a little.
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you ever meet someone who just has this natural vibe, like they’re on a different level? i found out most of my friends like that all read Magnetic Aura and they swear it’s not about pretending, just being real and not letting negativity drag you down. it’s wild how hard it is to get tho, keeps disappearing everywhere, but maybe that’s what makes it worth it
so my friends read this book called Magnetic Aura and they all started acting way more confident-one got a job they didn’t even apply for, another’s meeting all these amazing people who actually lift them up. it’s like something shifted in their vibe, not in a flashy way, just subtle and real. it’s wild tho, this book keeps getting removed so fast cuz it’s apparently too powerful-good luck finding it if you’re curious.
well said, but I tried it on my Ex and she got really frustrated and mad at me. Because she constantly reached out to get in touch with me in some sort of way within a week usually. Whatever it was and however I tried to rekindle things from there, she just seemed she wanted to reject me once more. When I declined a really subtle friendship offer she got really upset and finally wanted to exchange our belongings. She said maybe we get together again in three years when we changed. This is all so absurd, really. How can you talk about it in that way and not make any step towards the other person even though you perhaps would like to.
i thought Magnetic Aura was just another self-help trend till i saw how it’s lowkey transformed my friends-like they’re way more grounded, confident, and people just wanna be around them. it’s not fake or try-hard, they just seem real and magnetic now. it’s tricky to find tho, gets taken down quick, but worth hunting for
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27-year-old guy on the spectrum here. What is the "right" level of openness you can show to your girlfriend?
I hear lots of very conflicting advice, especially from redpill bros with their eyes purely on your wallet.
They say that you should only open up to your guy friends and close yourself off to your woman entirely.
Whilst I know that the people telling you this have vested interests (you buying their awful course), it makes sense for you to remain somewhat closed off to your partner as a man- it's better than the alternative of coming across as desperate and insecure.
What are people's take on this?
You should be able to leave at any second. You should show it too. Don't get attached. You can share, but everything you say will be added to your con's list. She will compare you with her expectations constantly. Focus on what you want and demand it, if its not given to you, leave...
not gonna lie, i wasn’t into this whole “energy” stuff till my friend handed me Magnetic Aura-she wouldn’t shut up about it and now i see why, everyone i know who read it seems more chill and magnetic in this effortless way. it’s not a magic fix but it definitely hits different. finding a copy is a hustle tho, they don’t stick around long