The way I see it, the first date is like a job interview. The only purpose of the first date is to get a second date. If you have three good dates in a row, then you start getting into relationship territory.
I pursued 3 times. All I got was a flake, acted busy (found out she lied to me) then just no response. So I stopped. Then she started reaching out to me but now I kind of lost interest. I'm going through abit right now and I can't be bothered with the mind games
Bro i got it even worse. I pursued this girl for 6 months. Sure the texting between us was always back and forth and she always complied and went on dates when i asked but she NEVER initiated asking me out. She NEVER came up with any date ideas. I always had to do everything. She NEVER initiated feelings. She NEVER talked about the future and when i did it was always like i was talking to her at arms length. I stopped pursuing and the relationship fizzled out.
I guess you're right. I might ask twice at best now. Recently got rejected 3 times by the same chick and realized that I probably over-pursued. Which would be "chasing"
I’m not %100 she is interested, she doesn’t ever reach out through the phone or social media but every time we are around each other she will go out of her way to talk to me or ask me about random things
If i talked to her twice at work and i asked for her number and she gave it to me, how long should i wait for her to respond? I texted her the night i got her number but its been 48hrs and i havent got anything from her. I dont want to come across as needy so im giving her space - given this video, should i follow up after a week and tell her that id like to take her out and get to know her better?
The way I see it, the first date is like a job interview. The only purpose of the first date is to get a second date. If you have three good dates in a row, then you start getting into relationship territory.
I pursued 3 times. All I got was a flake, acted busy (found out she lied to me) then just no response. So I stopped. Then she started reaching out to me but now I kind of lost interest. I'm going through abit right now and I can't be bothered with the mind games
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Bro i got it even worse. I pursued this girl for 6 months. Sure the texting between us was always back and forth and she always complied and went on dates when i asked but she NEVER initiated asking me out. She NEVER came up with any date ideas. I always had to do everything. She NEVER initiated feelings. She NEVER talked about the future and when i did it was always like i was talking to her at arms length. I stopped pursuing and the relationship fizzled out.
You are a cool human being. I wish I had a friend like you. Listening to this video was like having a talk with a good friend. Thank you.
Isn't asking her out more than once demonstrating desperation or neediness? That's a no-no.
It's a balance, it's like men still have to approach, and do the initial talking right?
I guess you're right. I might ask twice at best now. Recently got rejected 3 times by the same chick and realized that I probably over-pursued. Which would be "chasing"
@@derwoodhamburger Yeah it's a game man.
If you’re going to ask her for something, ask for head.
I’m not %100 she is interested, she doesn’t ever reach out through the phone or social media but every time we are around each other she will go out of her way to talk to me or ask me about random things
What causes someone with high interest love bomb for months and then all of a sudden vanishes despite our time together being intensely hot.?
If i talked to her twice at work and i asked for her number and she gave it to me, how long should i wait for her to respond? I texted her the night i got her number but its been 48hrs and i havent got anything from her. I dont want to come across as needy so im giving her space - given this video, should i follow up after a week and tell her that id like to take her out and get to know her better?
Move on. A red pilled man has many options.
Then who was talking about equality in the first place, when men has to be the leader.
Cause she is not interested in you. It’s not complicated
I was wondering this earlier today, my conclusion was simply that it's not going to work. Not great timing video