Having a baby Expectations vs. Reality
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- Having a baby Expectations vs. Reality
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1:44 Some people think just because they have a not so good experience,they think it should be like that for everyone else🙃😅
I’m pregnant and the amount of people who have projected their own bad experiences onto me is wild. I think it kind of bothers some people that I don’t have any fears or concerns and feel positive
I kept my daughter in my room till she was a year old and she wouldn’t sleep in her own room until she was 4 !!! put my son in his own room at 5 months and it was the best choice I ever made , he’s now 14 months and goes to sleeps every night in his own bed!!
Anyone else video blurry?
Mine is
Ya me too but I can still see them.
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Ya the quality is horrible…the highest is 360.
@@SamiG247not all of they’re podcasts are like this
I also think some comments are related. I live in the same area , attend the same church. I don’t think your jobs are easy but having your partner there 24/7 is a blessing because that’s not the case for many. As well as returning to work .. yes you have a job but you’re able to take your daughter with you, or have your husband and you trade off. That is not the case! Parenting is hard and is different for everyone!!
She’s just showing HER experience. She never said it wasn’t different or hard for other people.
My daughter has autism and she had a complete meltdown on the way back from a trip we went on to my brothers wedding. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever went through cause she was 5 and it looks like she is normal… she doesn’t understand stuff and it was tooo much for her. An older man told me to shut her up ☹️ I’ll never take her on a plane again.
I don’t think those people are “hating” on you. I think they’re explaining that’s not people’s reality when they have no maternity/paternity leave and have to go back to a 9/5 job only a few weeks after giving birth. You had/have it super easy where you can stay home all day everyday with your daughter where as most people have to go back to work and then also take care of their baby. They are just explaining that you are EXTREMELY privileged to be able to “work from home” and get a bunch of free stuff from brands
They are financially well which can make things easier on a parent but we can't dissmiss this as extremely easy. They do manage a business together and have social media to maintain. Its not easy or otherwise there would be a ton more business owners out there. We both saw her modeling days after giving birth. She really never took a break and there are other family vloggers who took weeks off and even decreased the amount of content after having kids. Its not most people's realities but it doesn't make hers seem like its nothing.
@@TA-np4mc I’m talking more about the fact they have before mentioned in a podcast that they have a house cleaner, lawn care people, and they both stay home to work.
This is significantly easier than most all people. Yes she was “modeling” days after but she didn’t need to.. she chose to.. much different than people who HAVE to go back to work. And they never took a break from what? Their job is filming and editing.. sometimes they have to go to their warehouse and pack for a few hours.
And no it’s absolutely not people’s realities which is why people are telling her that her experience (while hers and absolutely valid) is not what most all other people experience because of the privileges she has. She’s acting as if everyone has cleaners and lawn care people and work from home jobs and they don’t so it comes off extremely tone deaf to the people who struggle because they don’t have that help
@@Atlastitan312 its not tone death. She chose to model and work after giving birth so she could afford cleaners, etc. I'm sure her body is growing through all the same pains as other women who gave birth. Again, shes worked hard to be able to afford help since she started her channel. I'm not an influencer but had to work full time while going to school full time. I can too now afford help around the house because I worked for it. Are we not allowed to congratulate women who succeeded in life instead of calling them "priveleged" for making it?
@@TA-np4mc she wasn’t getting paid to model… she has other models who could’ve absolutely done it without her. She didn’t need to do that to afford cleaners. She still would’ve sold workout set (which is how she gets paid) without having to wish brand model. And yes it is tone deaf. She saying it’s easy because of the help she gets and most all people don’t have that. She’s telling people a reality they most likely won’t have
@@allenaadonohuee yes but in their tik toks talking about how it’s not as hard as people say don’t know that they have services to clean to help with everything so it’s giving the people who don’t have those things a false reality
Awesome podcast Josh and Katie! Topics on expectations vs. reality were interesting and thought provoking. I so appreciate how you both express your thoughts and feelings, both the positive and negative. You are amazing parents! Skye is a happy baby and that is because of the two of you. Much love Brueckner family 🤍🤍💕🐶
How do you guys literally say everything perfectly all the time. You guys are so sweet! And Skye is so precious!!!
I appreciate y'all's positivity!!!!! It makes me excited and motivates me. Thank you!!
love you guys
I ❤ U Guys So Much!
katie looks so beautiful after pregnancy its really made her soooo pretty!!!!! (sorry josh u look very good too) 🤗
I think its so easy since you have one and have a healthy relationship, you can take her with you to your job, you make your own hours and can pretty much afford whatever is necessary. I love that for you guys. Jealous yes but i don't wish my experience or situation on anyone.
When you have 3 kids and can't afford a sitter you pretty much are always stuck.
I fell while i was pregnant on a hospital,i fell off of the bed so i had an emergency c-section,my child was due on April 4th and he was born on March 2nd,2005 the nurses and doctor thought my baby was dead after the fall i had but they did an ultrasound and his heart was just beating fast but he was fine! I had no children before and did not know what to do i can remember alot of my child's baby-toddler life and some of my family doesnt believe I do but i think i do because that was a special thing in my life!😊
I turned 31 on the 10th!!! New year. Always goes well when you age another year at the start!
I love you guys im daysha i love your videos josh and Katie
I’m one who keeps the negativity to myself but the circumstances in which you have a baby in can dramatically change the experience. For someone who is struggling with parenthood due to circumstances that may be beyond their control it just makes parenting so much harder. It feels like if we can’t make it appear effortless and joyful then we must just not be good at parenting/be a bad mom. It’s a direct hit on your confidence. For me I had no real support system, my husband fell flat on promises and was not as involved I expected, we hit an unexpected financial challenge, and I had health complications from pregnancy plus a colicky baby. We made it through but it was such a hard time. I refused to let my child be impacted everything around us so I did double time to make up for it. When I went back to work I was slurring my words I was so sleep deprived. I worked my butt off to dig us out but we are so much better off now and my son is incredibly happy, smart, social and healthy. I get compliments constantly on how well behaved he is. He was worth it all. I can understand why some people are bitter and can’t relate though to parents who are having an easier time.
I’m a mom of 4 and one thing that is certain, even with all 4 having the same mom and dad, each child is definitely their own person. I’ll give advice that I learned as experience of years being a mom but that’s perspective of raising my kids. Also, when raising kids there is always stages that everyone can spin it a positive or a negative. You both are doing great!
You are so similar to me! My first was a girl and she was the best baby and never cried and was a good sleeper so i was SO blessed with her. She is still amazing and is 4 now! My second was a boy and he was a completely different baby so it got hard for me after him since i didnt know anything different than an easy baby. And now my third, another boy is 9 months and he is a great baby but dowsnt sleep the best so its crazy how different every kid is! Also i am the same right after i have a baby i feel the best and on this high and it always catches up around a month old for me also!
Video is kinda of blurry, not clear
It is yalls child do what u think is best,all children are different,so anyone who thinks a certain way is best has never gone through it and this comes from a mom of a respectful,smart and healthy young man who is 19 going on 30 but he has a good head and is good to all but being a 1st time mom i was scared because noone told me to expect anything or what to do it was excruciating being away from him even though i was not able to breastfeed because of a medical condition and did most like a single mom even though I wasnt!
I love this podcast but I now wanna go to the beginning and start counting how many times I’ve heard the word “ like” in such a short amount of time.
😂🤯
Love the pod and am a fan of u both ❤
But is it possible to improve the quality? Perhaps offer 1080p?
I feel the same as y’all my 3 m old is such a good baby when it comes to sleep he wakes up once at like 4am to eat and that’s about it. I feel like people are jealous/mad when they hear moms say that
Love you
i have two kids and as babies they were polar opposites in every way.
my oldest slept through the night from the day he was born, my youngest was up every 2 hours in the middle of the night. so sleep was very different for my with both my kids. i got so much sleep with my oldest and not alot with my youngest. they definitely were right, at least in my situation, when they tell you if your first one is a great sleeper your second won’t be or something like that.
as far as newborns being ugly, both my kids were so ugly but in the cutest way! my oldest looked like dobby the house elf and he had a weird shaped cone head, and my youngest just had this big nose that looked like it was bigger than his face.
Is Katie’s outfit from J80fit? She looks gorgeous!!!!
my daughter has always slept great too and shes 10 months so i feel like people think im lying too lol
Just remember only miserable ppl comment nasty things on social media😉You guys are amazing, love your positivity🙌🏻🩵
I think you understand you guys are in a privileged situation which is good. It’s good to spread the positive, don’t be afraid to do it. But of course misery loves company so people who really struggle, want to relate to you. The hate is always louder, but the majority of parents love having kids and spending time with them so don’t let the haters convince you that everyone hates their kids and you’re the only ones that love and enjoy being with them even if they aren’t sleeping. You guys are doing great, stay positive, and I only pray that your future babies are the same for you ❤
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Pump, while feeding her from a bottle few times. That way you can get a few bottles ahead.
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Katie do you have hair extensions
No she doesn’t have hair extensions that’s her natural hair
It’s sad that you guys have to feel scared to just share your experiences with having a baby because other people’s judgement. For me I feel like you guys should feel validated for your own experiences because every baby is different, people need to understand that
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Love you guys but this just isn’t the vibe
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Maybe they should delete this video
No they shouldn’t why would they thats there decision
It legitimately boils my blood listening to these people try and talk about “real life” 😂 y’all have no fucking idea. You don’t even have jobs and you can do whatever the fuck you want any time of day any time of week 😂
I am so happy you guys posted 💗
Is Baby Skye Mae sleeping on her own now or not yet
Depends on when this was filed but I think she sleep in her crib now and by herself but not 100% know if that is true tho
@@jatievlogsedits674 thanks for replying
@@jatievlogsedits674she only naps in her crib for now katie said she will fully move her to her room soon
@@sarahloyd7276 thx for letting me know
i have two kids and as babies they were polar opposites in every way.
my oldest slept through the night from the day he was born, my youngest was up every 2 hours in the middle of the night. so sleep was very different for my with both my kids. i got so much sleep with my oldest and not alot with my youngest. they definitely were right, at least in my situation, when they tell you if your first one is a great sleeper your second won’t be or something like that.
as far as newborns being ugly, both my kids were so ugly but in the cutest way! my oldest looked like dobby the house elf and he had a weird shaped cone head, and my youngest just had this big nose that looked like it was bigger than his face.