I'm 34 years old and finally found some happiness

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024

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  • @conversationswithyou5737
    @conversationswithyou5737 3 місяці тому +8

    I’ve really been getting into listening to these raw, uncut video from people just sharing their thoughts. I really like the raw, uncut, not flashy videos. They feel more welcoming, and less in my face. And I think everyone has a story and lesson to share. Thanks for sharing yours.

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      @@conversationswithyou5737 thank you brother!

    • @conversationswithyou5737
      @conversationswithyou5737 3 місяці тому

      @@jake_enslinyou’re welcome! Don’t stop. Keep sharing your story :)

    • @marsgrrrl
      @marsgrrrl 3 місяці тому

      Me too, I’d much rather real stuff than highly produced ‘entertainment’

    • @CarolinNobles
      @CarolinNobles 3 місяці тому

      I feel that too!

  • @TedMattos
    @TedMattos 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless you, young man. You're finding wisdom and it doesn't matter if you're 34 or 134. Good for you!
    When you spoke of comparison, one quote that has helped me is a quote by Theodore Roosevelt: "Comparison is the thief of joy." and I truly believe that. If we are constantly looking at what we don't have compared to the other guy, we will NEVER find the elusive joy.
    Another thing that has helped me is asking myself (VERY OFTEN DURING THE DAY) - "Do I have ANY control over that (be it a person's reaction, a news story, politics, etc.)?" If the answer is no (which it is more often than not), then I say, "Okay... then the chips will fall as they will." That has also helped me.
    I look forward to hearing more from you! :)

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Ted! These are terrific words of wisdom. What a simple, but profound question to ask

  • @Skateboardfreakist
    @Skateboardfreakist 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm 27 and feel like i don't have a job that i care about and it is making my life feel not so nice sometimes. But i'm positive i will figure things out as time goes and it's great to hear you've gotten better

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      Wow ya i can relate to that. I’ve changed careers 3-4 times so far. We all run our own race. No rush to figure it all out by any means!

  • @jaredorr
    @jaredorr 3 місяці тому

    Love this, Jake. Appreciate you sharing.

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Jared! Very kind of you

  • @HealthandHustle7
    @HealthandHustle7 3 місяці тому

    Great points. Happiness is not the goal. Feeling all emotions intensely when they arise is the goal. That’s a rich life.

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      Ya I love that! Chasing perpetual happiness is just not possible. A rich life, that’s totally it. Thanks Thomas!

  • @carolinasjmj
    @carolinasjmj 3 місяці тому

    you are doing great 😊 keep it up!

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      Thank you! We all just gotta try our best!

  • @Ryan-ic1wj
    @Ryan-ic1wj 3 місяці тому +1

    Bro is handsome

    • @jake_enslin
      @jake_enslin  3 місяці тому

      My tired eyes first thing in the morning and crackly voice haha