This is fascinating. I'm a self-projected projector (3/5) and I'm falling in love with an emo manifestor (4/6), and without knowing anything about the Mani type, I intuitively gathered /sensed almost all of this. I even had an innate knowing that I couldn't (or shouldn't?) ask questions (even though I knew generators love and need that), it was just a distinct feeling that it wouldn't work or would be weirdly awkward?? So I naturally found myself "informing" (this can be the cutest and sweetest communication vibe, its not aggressive or accosting). But I do feel a little pointless sometimes, because I KNOW my projector abilities are/will be pretty rarely prevailed upon 😅 HOWEVER, I am finding that it is actually very healing for me because (especially during those periods of the manifestor creative flow where they need total solitude or independence) I am invited to re-invest energy and attention into my other relationships and my own creative work. It's liberating, actually. The only thing that is causing some anxiety is "what if i am not recognized properly", and "what if I don't get invited in the ways I need to be"? And I know he's feeling "what if I'm rejected?". When two people are solid enough in themselves and have done some good healing, I think it all boils down to compassion, communication (using correct interaction god willing lol) and true love. That's my take, anyway! Projectors, we just gotta stay lighthearted, laugh at things and ourselves, and surround ourselves with many loving and recognition-fueled relationships so we don't feel deprived by our manifestors. But also like...don't put up with bullshit. A Mani who is good for you will be informing you ALL the time.
Im a female Manifestor & remember asking my Projector partner out when we first met. And he lit up and said Yes!! We got married a year after dating. I greatly admire the Projector’s emotional & social intelligence. We ran into many roadbumps bc of the differences you covered here- but I think we’re getting better with time. It’s always a pleasant surprise to realize Projector wants me to do the things I love (even if they cant relate or understand).
Manifestors are in my heart as a projector. Generators have put us down with their energy and chaos for too long. Still many many good generators, they are majority of human population. We need to keep reflectors to ourselves too.
I'm in a relationship with a projector and everything you said is so accurate. While watching this video, I messaged him that I recognize and acknowledge him. We'll see how that goes lol. But regarding your question on how we manifestors learn...I will say (for me at least) that I 100% learn by making mistakes. Sometimed I purposefully do it to experiment and learn how to not make the same mistakes again. My projector bf knows and gives me very wise warnings. This always angers me but he's learned to just let me do my thing. He knows I make mistakes on purpose sometimes to learn. Another thing you're right about is the manifestor "bully" energy. When I was at my most unaligned as a manifestor, I was extremely abusive towards him. Keep doing what you're doing. You see and present things with such accuracy! You're a great projector.
So glad you enjoyed my video and thank you for sharing from personal experience! I love hearing about the Manifestor side of the equation and how awareness has been a game-changer in relating 🙏🏻😍
I’m so glad I found this video. I’m a 5/1 Emotional Projector and my partner of 9 years is a 6/2 Emotional Manifestor. I feel like I’ve been banging my head on the wall. It has felt like chronic projections and they don’t mean it but I can’t inform them enough with meeting a brick wall and even more projections and continuous blame. This has help me understand things and I’m realizing I’m the one that needs to change. I pray I do well. She’s an INFJ and very empathic, but when the projections start happening all of that is out the window. For so long I thought I was a. As person but that wasnt in alignment with me bc all I want to do is help.
Thank you Melanie. I am a 4/1 emotional projector and my husband is an emotional manifestor. I found human design because of marital difficulties. Your presentation explained everything. I am truly appreciative !’
Hello! I am a Single Definition, 5/1 Splenic Manifestor, female, LAX Refinement. Thank you for creating this video, and sharing this information. ❤️🌹✨ The ability for a Projector to penetrate my Manifestor aura has saved my life on several occasions, especially Mental Projectors. With my type, it’s easy for me to hermit, and push everyone away at the detriment of myself. I am humbled by this information. I’m going to let it sink in, and respond to some of the messages presented here. Thank you 🙏🏾🥰✨🦋🔥
Just made an awesome friend who is a 6/2 Emotional Manifestor and we connected so much we literally just talked for hours about philosophy, psychology and spiritually. I’m a 5/1 Mental Projector, but one thing I did notice is that sometimes he appears a little more independent and detached and even though I feel I’m independent I feel I attach to others a little bit more but I’m really learning boundaries and he pointed out (well he clarified he doesn’t really know me yet so he didn’t want to assume but he said it kind of appears I’m more attached or “clingy “ but again he didn’t want to assume but I did feel a little hurt by that but I told him I don’t think attachment is a bad thing at all) so I can already kind of see where our conflicts could possibly come from and in astrology he’s a Virgo sun and Libra Moon and I’m a Cancer sun and Aries moon so it kind of makes sense. He’s a little more analytical and detached and I can be more emotional and passionate.
As a 6/2 Ego Manifentor I can feel that the door to connections is opened by me. To be honest it is the most attractive to see the projector doing their own thing and on these moments I feel the most drawn to initiate the connection and invite them to shine. But it is rather hard to stand in our power and be aware of it. It can be consuming.
2/4 Self Projected projector. We need to find the right balance to nurture the right spirit of initiative in you and the right spirit of guidance and support in us. With the right initiative and our right guidance with respect and honesty, manifestors and projectors can run the world that these chaotic generators are messing up.
Thank you Melanie for your content! Nice to get a little more insight into this relationship. I am an emotional Manifestor 1/3 and recently I discovered that many family and friends are projectors (quite a few of them with a 5/1 profile). Now that I know that, it also explains the ‘push and pull’ that I experience with many of them. I was previously unaware of my Manifestor impact and could then roll over them, especially when the Projector friends mostly gave me unsolicited advice. Then I immediately got into my anger. This caused me to cut off some contacts quite abruptly. In retrospect, I found their penetrating energy very intense, it felt like I couldn't move freely with their eyes that absorbed me (yep, true Manifestor;)) I now see that Projectors can be a wonderful guide for me and that if I inform and make them aware of their Projector power (waiting for my invitation to share their advice and give me direction), it can be a very valuable relationship to be in. My need for this possible deep connection is growing. More people around me are aware of Human Design and that makes it possible to connect more deeply. In authenticity; our uniqueness. Thanks for sharing and smile from Brazil:)
THIS WAS THE BEST explanation and so much jam packed knowledge in this video! Such a great job. Thank you so much! As a 5/1 manifestor. Surrounded by projectors (they literally drive me insane) 😄
I’m a female 1/3 splenic ego manifestor and tend to draw projectors into my life who really teach my to set firm boundaries. It’s always a mess and often times doesn’t feel good for both sides because I feel the bitterness after my rejection so deeply. This video is amazing and helped me a lot to understand… THANK YOU!!
Wonderful detailed presentation. I’m a 3/5 SPP Projector. Your beautiful explanation, shine so much clarity on my many encounters with the manifestors in my life. I can now look back with clarity and smile. 😊Thank you 🙏🏾❤xx
Extremely valuable. Thank you for putting your thoughts on paper and explaining the intricacy so well. I am married to a projector and this was off spot on
Wow Melanie I found this at the perfect time. I’m a manifestor male and have a projector daughter and wife. This was incredibly valuable for me to learn their designs interaction with mine. I hate being told what to do, and see the strain it causes them. Finding ways to hear and recognize them has been my primary focus for years now, and I will say there is a lot of push and pull. Overall we have immense power and impact, our fiends always comment on it. Finding ways to navigate the inner world has been the challenge. I appreciate this wisdom
This was such a good video!! As a manifestor (4/6 emo mani)…. Yes, lol. Understanding consequences of my actions was (and is) definitely something I had to live out - versus someone trying teach me. It has indeed been a v empowering part of my journey. :)
Omg! This was so fascinating. I'm a Manifestor female and my twin flame is a Projector male. Talk about push and pull. That's literally the twin flame experience. And yes, I have to learn things the hard way.
I got a lot out of this, Melanie-thanks so much. A different approach from many of the HD vids I’ve been watching and I really appreciated it. I’m a 4/6 ego-projected Projector with a 6/2 emo MG hub. 💙 Renge’
Thank you. I am a Manifestor women and I was .. I am together with projektor man. It is not good. Because they never were interested in who I am..really sad..that man are often not looking deeper... testosteronfreaks.
I had to watch this video because as a projector I have a gen-man friend that I do appreciate. We used to go in vacation together but I noticed that her energy drains me too much. I am depleted afterwards. I feel an intrusion with her and a push and pull. I just want to run away or I get tired because I try to block her all the times..really a weard vibe. I needed to understand the mechanics behind that. Thank you
It just happened, Male Manifestor told me, I call you later, and I was perfectly able to wait and it was just lovely when he contacted, but sometimes he ghosts me and I feel terrible, information matters
At first I really like Manifestor but to me they are selfish and don’t see or appreciate Projectors. My manifestor friends approach to things is very one sided and too serious for me. I like it in the beginning and look at him like an older brother but something isn’t clicking.
The Manifestor needs to be nurtured to make the right initiative. As for selfish, projectors can be even more selfish, using our penetrating aura to see others but not guide them sincerely but manipulate them according to our narcissistic mindset. Both sides should first to be sincere then act.
There are a lot of factors that come into play with relationship dynamics between people no matter their design - entering into the relationship correctly according to Strategy & Authority would be the most important. Although Manifesting Generators have a very different aura than the Manifestor, and although you're designed to be asked not informed, depending on the way you're configured there may still be overlap in terms of the way you're energetically perceived by the Projector and how the Projector's energy can feel to you if you're not available.
Thos video is very informative and interessting! I thank u for ur work and sharing. I noticed in genetic mateix on my body graph, that my typ is generator. When i display my design graph, then i would be projector. Does this mean my uncounscius aura is projector and my counscoius aura is generator? How can i make sense of this. I‘d love to hear ur opinion.
Hi Tony, thanks so much and that's a great question. There is actually a lot of confusion about this and a ton of misinformation floating around. The bottom line is that we are a binary consciousness. Although we have a distinct Personality and Design which can be viewed separately with software, who we are is always the QUANTUM of both. Our auric frequency and the mechanics of our overall design is always as a result of the way the two come together. Does that help?
Yooo.. you're content is straight Gangster homie... I'm really digging your insight, interpretation and your articulation... Thank you so much. Eternally grateful my friend 🤍♾️🤍🚬💅💃 (And your slides obviously duhhhh 👌)
This is fascinating. I'm a self-projected projector (3/5) and I'm falling in love with an emo manifestor (4/6), and without knowing anything about the Mani type, I intuitively gathered /sensed almost all of this. I even had an innate knowing that I couldn't (or shouldn't?) ask questions (even though I knew generators love and need that), it was just a distinct feeling that it wouldn't work or would be weirdly awkward?? So I naturally found myself "informing" (this can be the cutest and sweetest communication vibe, its not aggressive or accosting). But I do feel a little pointless sometimes, because I KNOW my projector abilities are/will be pretty rarely prevailed upon 😅 HOWEVER, I am finding that it is actually very healing for me because (especially during those periods of the manifestor creative flow where they need total solitude or independence) I am invited to re-invest energy and attention into my other relationships and my own creative work. It's liberating, actually. The only thing that is causing some anxiety is "what if i am not recognized properly", and "what if I don't get invited in the ways I need to be"? And I know he's feeling "what if I'm rejected?". When two people are solid enough in themselves and have done some good healing, I think it all boils down to compassion, communication (using correct interaction god willing lol) and true love. That's my take, anyway! Projectors, we just gotta stay lighthearted, laugh at things and ourselves, and surround ourselves with many loving and recognition-fueled relationships so we don't feel deprived by our manifestors. But also like...don't put up with bullshit. A Mani who is good for you will be informing you ALL the time.
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Im a female Manifestor & remember asking my Projector partner out when we first met. And he lit up and said Yes!! We got married a year after dating. I greatly admire the Projector’s emotional & social intelligence. We ran into many roadbumps bc of the differences you covered here- but I think we’re getting better with time. It’s always a pleasant surprise to realize Projector wants me to do the things I love (even if they cant relate or understand).
I can relate so much with everything u wrote. It was the same for me & my boyfriend
As a Manifestor, I have to say that hitting my head on the wall learning the consequences of my choices have taught me the biggest life lessons 😊
Manifestors are in my heart as a projector. Generators have put us down with their energy and chaos for too long. Still many many good generators, they are majority of human population. We need to keep reflectors to ourselves too.
As a manifestor I have never felt more seen in this video. It was so amazing and so well thought out ❤
4/1 emotional manifestor
I'm in a relationship with a projector and everything you said is so accurate. While watching this video, I messaged him that I recognize and acknowledge him. We'll see how that goes lol.
But regarding your question on how we manifestors learn...I will say (for me at least) that I 100% learn by making mistakes. Sometimed I purposefully do it to experiment and learn how to not make the same mistakes again. My projector bf knows and gives me very wise warnings. This always angers me but he's learned to just let me do my thing. He knows I make mistakes on purpose sometimes to learn.
Another thing you're right about is the manifestor "bully" energy. When I was at my most unaligned as a manifestor, I was extremely abusive towards him.
Keep doing what you're doing. You see and present things with such accuracy! You're a great projector.
So glad you enjoyed my video and thank you for sharing from personal experience! I love hearing about the Manifestor side of the equation and how awareness has been a game-changer in relating 🙏🏻😍
Use it and drop it. It’s a tool to control just like anything before. Read it and drop it. Go live! You always knew this: it’s just a reassurance.
I’m so glad I found this video. I’m a 5/1 Emotional Projector and my partner of 9 years is a 6/2 Emotional Manifestor. I feel like I’ve been banging my head on the wall. It has felt like chronic projections and they don’t mean it but I can’t inform them enough with meeting a brick wall and even more projections and continuous blame. This has help me understand things and I’m realizing I’m the one that needs to change. I pray I do well. She’s an INFJ and very empathic, but when the projections start happening all of that is out the window. For so long I thought I was a. As person but that wasnt in alignment with me bc all I want to do is help.
Thank you Melanie. I am a 4/1 emotional projector and my husband is an emotional manifestor. I found human design because of marital difficulties. Your presentation explained everything. I am truly appreciative !’
Hello! I am a Single Definition, 5/1 Splenic Manifestor, female, LAX Refinement.
Thank you for creating this video, and sharing this information. ❤️🌹✨
The ability for a Projector to penetrate my Manifestor aura has saved my life on several occasions, especially Mental Projectors.
With my type, it’s easy for me to hermit, and push everyone away at the detriment of myself.
I am humbled by this information. I’m going to let it sink in, and respond to some of the messages presented here.
Thank you 🙏🏾🥰✨🦋🔥
Just made an awesome friend who is a 6/2 Emotional Manifestor and we connected so much we literally just talked for hours about philosophy, psychology and spiritually. I’m a 5/1 Mental Projector, but one thing I did notice is that sometimes he appears a little more independent and detached and even though I feel I’m independent I feel I attach to others a little bit more but I’m really learning boundaries and he pointed out (well he clarified he doesn’t really know me yet so he didn’t want to assume but he said it kind of appears I’m more attached or “clingy “ but again he didn’t want to assume but I did feel a little hurt by that but I told him I don’t think attachment is a bad thing at all) so I can already kind of see where our conflicts could possibly come from and in astrology he’s a Virgo sun and Libra Moon and I’m a Cancer sun and Aries moon so it kind of makes sense. He’s a little more analytical and detached and I can be more emotional and passionate.
As a 6/2 Ego Manifentor I can feel that the door to connections is opened by me. To be honest it is the most attractive to see the projector doing their own thing and on these moments I feel the most drawn to initiate the connection and invite them to shine. But it is rather hard to stand in our power and be aware of it. It can be consuming.
2/4 Self Projected projector.
We need to find the right balance to nurture the right spirit of initiative in you and the right spirit of guidance and support in us. With the right initiative and our right guidance with respect and honesty, manifestors and projectors can run the world that these chaotic generators are messing up.
Thank you Melanie for your content! Nice to get a little more insight into this relationship. I am an emotional Manifestor 1/3 and recently I discovered that many family and friends are projectors (quite a few of them with a 5/1 profile). Now that I know that, it also explains the ‘push and pull’ that I experience with many of them. I was previously unaware of my Manifestor impact and could then roll over them, especially when the Projector friends mostly gave me unsolicited advice. Then I immediately got into my anger. This caused me to cut off some contacts quite abruptly. In retrospect, I found their penetrating energy very intense, it felt like I couldn't move freely with their eyes that absorbed me (yep, true Manifestor;)) I now see that Projectors can be a wonderful guide for me and that if I inform and make them aware of their Projector power (waiting for my invitation to share their advice and give me direction), it can be a very valuable relationship to be in. My need for this possible deep connection is growing. More people around me are aware of Human Design and that makes it possible to connect more deeply. In authenticity; our uniqueness. Thanks for sharing and smile from Brazil:)
THIS WAS THE BEST explanation and so much jam packed knowledge in this video! Such a great job. Thank you so much! As a 5/1 manifestor. Surrounded by projectors (they literally drive me insane) 😄
As a manifestor THIS WAS AMAZING! the car signalling blew my mind.
I’m a female 1/3 splenic ego manifestor and tend to draw projectors into my life who really teach my to set firm boundaries. It’s always a mess and often times doesn’t feel good for both sides because I feel the bitterness after my rejection so deeply.
This video is amazing and helped me a lot to understand… THANK YOU!!
Wonderful detailed presentation. I’m a 3/5 SPP Projector. Your beautiful explanation, shine so much clarity on my many encounters with the manifestors in my life. I can now look back with clarity and smile. 😊Thank you 🙏🏾❤xx
Extremely valuable. Thank you for putting your thoughts on paper and explaining the intricacy so well. I am married to a projector and this was off spot on
Wow Melanie I found this at the perfect time. I’m a manifestor male and have a projector daughter and wife. This was incredibly valuable for me to learn their designs interaction with mine. I hate being told what to do, and see the strain it causes them. Finding ways to hear and recognize them has been my primary focus for years now, and I will say there is a lot of push and pull. Overall we have immense power and impact, our fiends always comment on it. Finding ways to navigate the inner world has been the challenge. I appreciate this wisdom
So insightful for me. If I must walk away I now know it is best for both parties. To understand and not be bitter. Go in peace 🙏🏼
This was such a good video!! As a manifestor (4/6 emo mani)…. Yes, lol. Understanding consequences of my actions was (and is) definitely something I had to live out - versus someone trying teach me. It has indeed been a v empowering part of my journey. :)
Thank you for delivering this information in a compact and beautiful way so that I could truly understand. Much Love ❤️
Thank you so much for doing this Melanie. Love listening to your voice and what you are sharing ♥️
Omg! This was so fascinating. I'm a Manifestor female and my twin flame is a Projector male. Talk about push and pull. That's literally the twin flame experience. And yes, I have to learn things the hard way.
100% on learning best from trial and error and loathing people trying to stop me or control me.
(2/4 Emo Manifestor)
That is a very good presentation. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you so much for your insight! I’m figuring out this projector thing
tbh the way manifestos recognise me makes me feel dominated, bulldozed over and just uncomfortable sometimes
I got a lot out of this, Melanie-thanks so much. A different approach from many of the HD vids I’ve been watching and I really appreciated it. I’m a 4/6 ego-projected Projector with a 6/2 emo MG hub. 💙 Renge’
Thank you. I am a Manifestor women and I was .. I am together with projektor man. It is not good. Because they never were interested in who I am..really sad..that man are often not looking deeper... testosteronfreaks.
I had to watch this video because as a projector I have a gen-man friend that I do appreciate. We used to go in vacation together but I noticed that her energy drains me too much. I am depleted afterwards. I feel an intrusion with her and a push and pull. I just want to run away or I get tired because I try to block her all the times..really a weard vibe. I needed to understand the mechanics behind that. Thank you
Amazing video! Funny thing is, as a projector, I appreciate being seen by other projectors the most hihi.
Amazing insights. Thank you very much!!!
Amazing video I wish I would have watched in 2019-2020 😂 projector lost chasing Manifestor 😅
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! 🔥🙏🏾🔥🙌🏾🧘🏾🤗🌅
1/3 Self-Projected Projector, Cross of penetration 2
Dang same, except I'm a manifestor
It just happened, Male Manifestor told me, I call you later, and I was perfectly able to wait and it was just lovely when he contacted, but sometimes he ghosts me and I feel terrible, information matters
thanks allot!!! 5/1 Emo Manifestor
Hello from another 5/1 emotional Manifestor.
I'm a Manifestor 1/ 3
I need hope
At first I really like Manifestor but to me they are selfish and don’t see or appreciate Projectors. My manifestor friends approach to things is very one sided and too serious for me. I like it in the beginning and look at him like an older brother but something isn’t clicking.
yes!!
The Manifestor needs to be nurtured to make the right initiative. As for selfish, projectors can be even more selfish, using our penetrating aura to see others but not guide them sincerely but manipulate them according to our narcissistic mindset.
Both sides should first to be sincere then act.
I am a manifestor generatorIn a relationship with a projector how does this compatibility work
There are a lot of factors that come into play with relationship dynamics between people no matter their design - entering into the relationship correctly according to Strategy & Authority would be the most important. Although Manifesting Generators have a very different aura than the Manifestor, and although you're designed to be asked not informed, depending on the way you're configured there may still be overlap in terms of the way you're energetically perceived by the Projector and how the Projector's energy can feel to you if you're not available.
Thos video is very informative and interessting! I thank u for ur work and sharing. I noticed in genetic mateix on my body graph, that my typ is generator. When i display my design graph, then i would be projector. Does this mean my uncounscius aura is projector and my counscoius aura is generator? How can i make sense of this. I‘d love to hear ur opinion.
Hi Tony, thanks so much and that's a great question. There is actually a lot of confusion about this and a ton of misinformation floating around. The bottom line is that we are a binary consciousness. Although we have a distinct Personality and Design which can be viewed separately with software, who we are is always the QUANTUM of both. Our auric frequency and the mechanics of our overall design is always as a result of the way the two come together. Does that help?
Yooo.. you're content is straight Gangster homie... I'm really digging your insight, interpretation and your articulation... Thank you so much. Eternally grateful my friend 🤍♾️🤍🚬💅💃
(And your slides obviously duhhhh 👌)