A Billion dollar dowry and a love that cannot be celebrated | Gigi Chao | TEDxTinHauWomen

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  • Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
  • Marriage is the ultimate public demonstration of two people’s commitment to each other. Despite recent recognition around the world, marriage equality lags behind in Hong Kong. Gigi will talk about her experience with marriage and how individuals, and Hong Kong, can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for same sex couples - allowing the rite of passage. Gigi is an accomplished architect who was thrust into the spotlight
    in 2012 when she turned down her father’s dowry offer of 500 million
    HKD - later doubled to 1 billion - to any man who could walk her
    down the aisle. The complication? She’s a lesbian already in a long-term relationship. Since then Gigi co-founded Hong Kong Marriage
    Equality, an NGO that aims to eliminate discrimination and bring equality to LGBTI in Hong Kong. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @VeryMerryLou
    @VeryMerryLou Рік тому +19

    I had the chance to meet Gigi in 2000 when she was in her 20's. Even back then, she was this very cultured young woman who treated the people around her with kindness and respect. And in all fairness, Mr. Cecil Chao is also very kind and a generous person. Thanks for the opportunity to have known and experienced myself the kindness of this family.

  • @simpearl7831
    @simpearl7831 3 роки тому +12

    I have accepted LGBTQ 30 years ago when I was in Switzerland & everywhere I travelled to,even in Singapore.
    Awesome speech & excellent English,sometimes I listen to your speeches & pronunciation to help me speak & write better English.
    It also helps me prevent dementia,Alzheimer's & from becoming senile.
    Have a sister who does research for viruses(including Aids) & another sister is a doctor.
    Will still support LGBTQ cause for marriage equality as we're all human beings.👍👍👍Kudos!

    • @diollinebranderson6553
      @diollinebranderson6553 Рік тому

      Too bad LGBTQSTDs wanna destroy traditional marriage and trying to sexualise kids. People like you are the worst

  • @maytan1622
    @maytan1622 6 місяців тому +1

    So cultured and speaks so well

  • @helenlim688
    @helenlim688 3 роки тому +4

    She looks like her mother. I like them both!

  • @paulinewat9543
    @paulinewat9543 5 місяців тому +1

    Gigi showed her true 👍 👏

  • @ashleywong288
    @ashleywong288 Рік тому +5

    gosh, I love her, she's my idol, she's absolutely perfect

  • @ilovetrentinoslowlifeitaly
    @ilovetrentinoslowlifeitaly 4 роки тому +8

    Thanks for sharing your personal story. Lovely to hear beautiful story.

  • @raulromero6462
    @raulromero6462 Рік тому +3

    Me playing the video so I can send her a letter.. and me finishing the video crying and wanting to invite them both to dinner, whit me cooking obviously! ..I'm not good at this 🤦‍♂️

  • @NaeemAmin
    @NaeemAmin 4 роки тому +10

    Loved it! So personal yet universal and resonates with so many people :)
    P.S. I am so happy to see that no one disliked this video,

    • @madantyagi4993
      @madantyagi4993 3 роки тому

      Allthinghs bright and beautiful allthinghs great and small. Allthinghs wise and. Wonderful. The good god made them all. So love to all

  • @Kevin-luce
    @Kevin-luce 2 роки тому +5

    What feels right can’t be wrong

  • @amazinggrace313
    @amazinggrace313 2 роки тому +2

    She earned my respect 🙏. Beautiful too..

  • @conniecheng519
    @conniecheng519 4 роки тому +16

    Her English is so damn good,.

  • @vradventures579
    @vradventures579 4 роки тому +1

    Hi mam
    Really great story from your inner heart.
    Pls support people who are needy in this current situation.

  • @dominenceleo4773
    @dominenceleo4773 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with marriage equality

  • @angel555b
    @angel555b 3 роки тому

    Really enjoyed that, thanks!

  • @vaniavcuautle144
    @vaniavcuautle144 Рік тому

    ❤❤I admire you being true to yourself. Even when hon Kong it is not aceptable.

  • @ninifungna8530
    @ninifungna8530 4 роки тому +2

    I like your style..

  • @BlackwoodEric
    @BlackwoodEric 2 місяці тому

    This is hilarious. never knew
    he was a standup comedian !!! Better than Ronney and Jimmy....

  • @premchandkumar5636
    @premchandkumar5636 4 роки тому +1

    So interesting

  • @bgiri_brand
    @bgiri_brand 4 роки тому

    Great to see you

  • @justinidiot7161
    @justinidiot7161 4 роки тому +7

    Yeah, I came to see what's-up for a billion dollars. Not really. I heard about it when it was TMZ fare. I was kinda sad for her. My understanding was that her dad wanted her to marry a man. So, effectively, he cut her out of her inheritance. Then, set up a dowry with it so she'd have to be in a traditional marriage to be re-entitled. Awesome that she didn't give in to it. She could have married a dude, then carried on covertly. My kind of woman.

  • @chunkyjasonplays1631
    @chunkyjasonplays1631 3 роки тому +1

    That's wild.

  • @dominenceleo4773
    @dominenceleo4773 3 роки тому

    I like your story babe

  • @PracticalPerry
    @PracticalPerry Рік тому

    Hi Gigi. I am one of the men who applied to be your husband in 2012. ; )

  • @AkashSharma-fx2tx
    @AkashSharma-fx2tx 3 роки тому +1

    😊😇

  • @aryanvk4131
    @aryanvk4131 3 роки тому

    Hi

  • @tractorvlogup2651
    @tractorvlogup2651 3 роки тому

    Hi I am agree to marriage

    • @enlightenment9581
      @enlightenment9581 Рік тому

      Did you even listen to what she was saying you low brained npc?

  • @maytan1622
    @maytan1622 6 місяців тому

    Gee she looks like her dad

  • @aryanvk4131
    @aryanvk4131 3 роки тому

    Marry me

  • @akkshitaakkshita9591
    @akkshitaakkshita9591 3 роки тому +1

    Dowry and prostitution both are same thing

  • @dominenceleo4773
    @dominenceleo4773 3 роки тому

    Can i be aoart of your family babe

  • @johnwong5399
    @johnwong5399 2 роки тому

    喜歡看她型格打扮,成熟套裝不好。式明兩表姊妹我都喜歡。

  • @rubencampos1477
    @rubencampos1477 2 роки тому

    Mmm me parece q solo buscan fama n mas asi sean millonario jiji porque pagaria si mi hijos son feliz como son punto de eso se trata la vida estamos de paso fin

  • @ravikurup8350
    @ravikurup8350 5 місяців тому

    Looks like a guy

  • @lilysiy5166
    @lilysiy5166 Рік тому

    "I want her to be my wife" yet her partner is the one who has short hair,wears pants & suits, looking like a tomboy. Lol 😂
    They both refer to each other as "wife"? Hmmm...🤔