I Was Sexually Assaulted | Tell Me Your Story Ep.3

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
  • At 21, Jaylene woke up one morning and suddenly felt a pain where she shouldn't. She then realised she was sexually assaulted.
    In this episode, Jaylene bravely shares her story about her journey to recovery after this traumatic experience and shares some advice to anyone who might have experienced the same situation.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 166

  • @backrice8791
    @backrice8791 4 роки тому +1035

    This lady deserves mad respect for giving advice and telling people of this problem and her experiences. This might help ppl come out with the same exp. Mad respect yo

  • @jaylenehong
    @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +394

    Hi Viewers of MOS like myself.. I saw John’s first video TMYS and I was motivated to share my story on this bigger platform - in hopes to reach out to more victims out there. My reminder to everyone is : if you ever encounter such situation, CALL THE POLICE. Don’t be stupid like me. Not calling the police is my regret. At a young age, i didnt know what to do. I ran away from home for MONTHS. Until a few months later my father felt something was wrong and my grandma then told him. It was too late as there was no more evidence. Just call the police. Ok. ❤️ To all victims out there, be strong. Let’s go through this together. If anyone needs further help, I am here to extend my arms. 🙏🏼💪🏼

  • @hypothesised4453
    @hypothesised4453 4 роки тому +172

    “they owe it to me” hit hard

  • @Wuyh99
    @Wuyh99 4 роки тому +335

    technically her tears is there rolling TT. wat a strong women

  • @x3y3z3k
    @x3y3z3k 4 роки тому +34

    Mental scars are worse than physical scars

  • @chuajiajun625
    @chuajiajun625 4 роки тому +170

    She deserves better she should get treated well I feel so sad for her.

  • @ryovan
    @ryovan 4 роки тому +95

    Kudos to you girl for bravely telling out the story. Words cant describe the utter disgust and disappointment to the guy that actually betrayed your trust. Despite all that, I respect your courage to admit that you are hurt and seek for counselling. Glad that you are happy and found someone who truly treats you well now.

  • @VKBKK
    @VKBKK 4 роки тому +148

    Jaylene shown great strength, it takes alot to confront n talk about your past and share with many others who might fall into the same trap.

  • @charmainewee6592
    @charmainewee6592 4 роки тому +34

    She’s so graceful even through the hurt. Teared up when she shared about how her father consoled her. Glad that you’ve carved out a happier life for yourself now 💛

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +1

      Charmaine Wee You are too nice. Thank u ! Yes. My heart hurts remember how my father must have felt after being a parent myself now.

  • @emillua242
    @emillua242 4 роки тому +218

    Realise that losing the virginity or the physical pain is very temporal. But the emotional struggle, the tremble and the scar will last for a long time. She is brave to give a chance to him, seek professional help and koodoos to her current husband for accepting her

  • @penguin6700
    @penguin6700 4 роки тому +39

    I am so angry at the married man who did injustice to both you and his wife..and I don't even know him.
    Wish you all the best in your road to happiness.

  • @michalphang
    @michalphang 4 роки тому +7

    So strong!! And I'm also boiling in anger! Justice needs to be served. To all the girls out there, if this happened to you (I'm so sorry it did), please lodge a police report .

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Michal Phang YES!!! Remind everyone around u by sharing this vid!

  • @keithyeong3319
    @keithyeong3319 4 роки тому +27

    I am so sorry this happened. What happened to you was seriously wrong and should not have happened. Hope that you live a happy life from now on :).

  • @blackspadex22
    @blackspadex22 4 роки тому +4

    Mad respect. Teach your children well, so they will never make the same mistake as you did. It is so rare to meet angels like you who can still heal yourself and others while suffering in silence. God bless you.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Blackspades Thnk u so much!! ❤️❤️

  • @gladuhys
    @gladuhys 4 роки тому +63

    don't keep mum even if u really want to or feel like u should, don't ever do this alone

  • @eliciayeo
    @eliciayeo 4 роки тому +90

    should have called the police :(

  • @xlben10
    @xlben10 4 роки тому +17

    Its good that she went counselling.However their are studies done that low self-esteem people tend to attract abusive people.Its good that she stand strong and move forward with her life.

  • @RL-we7dg
    @RL-we7dg 4 роки тому +35

    Respect to Jaylene 👊🏻 your courage is highly admirable. Wishing you a bright future ahead

  • @valerieting3115
    @valerieting3115 4 роки тому +18

    You are so strong Jaylene. So proud of you as a woman who heal herself and knows you deserve every single chance. :)

  • @mightyo0o
    @mightyo0o 4 роки тому +9

    Very strong words and a strong woman. It is hard to just give another person a chance to change themselves. To that guy out there, you are given a chance by this beautiful lady to redeem your self worth to your wife and son. Please change and control yourself.

  • @__-mr3fw
    @__-mr3fw 4 роки тому +6

    I really admire her for her journey to self-love because nobody deserves anything like that

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      __ thnk u so much!! It wasnt easy and i went thru a lot of up and downs. Glad i manage to get out of it all!

  • @iamboydreamer9447
    @iamboydreamer9447 4 роки тому +13

    She deserve million respect! Brave girl

  • @youngfadula
    @youngfadula 4 роки тому +3

    Its something that should not be taken lightly, it’s so disappointing to see people blaming the victim rather than punishing the culprit and moreover, giving excuses for the culprit. It can happen to you whether you’re a boy or girl - she’s so strong 💪🏻bless her

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Yang Yul Yes victim shaming is real in the world and sad to say we have no law against it. So lets have a supportive community to let victims speak up! ❤️❤️

  • @sharmisthamanimaran6614
    @sharmisthamanimaran6614 4 роки тому +24

    She’s so strong, thank you for sharing your story❤️ mad respect for u

  • @jasminelee8887
    @jasminelee8887 4 роки тому +4

    She is inspiring for being strong to get through all the struggles to becoming the happy woman she is today. I feel ashamed of myself for feeling depressed and weak over a small matter 😢

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Jasmine Lee Heys girl~ dont say that!!! Everyone have their reason to be down. However, do find that strength to get back up and going! We are all truly capable of various things. I am not good at work, but I dare say I am the most efficient home-maker! Dont feel bad for what u make lack of compare to others! Feel good for what u are good at because u are you! No one can take that.

  • @jackcena1800
    @jackcena1800 4 роки тому +21

    Respect to her sharing her story, stay strong !

  • @divyavignesh3066
    @divyavignesh3066 4 роки тому +22

    Huge respect to her for sharing this story 🙏❤️

  • @KimiLovesYouxoxo
    @KimiLovesYouxoxo 4 роки тому +2

    I spent this whole video feeling such anguish for her that when you asked if there was anything she wanted to say to him I literally just shouted: KNNBCCB LA. but the fact that she responded with such a gracious answer... I cannot. made me tear up. 😭 what a strong beautiful woman you are, jaylene.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Kimi Ang took me a minute to give John that answer! Great question that i never thought of before. Thank u for ur words! We are all strong ❤️❤️

  • @aaron5014
    @aaron5014 4 роки тому +21

    Mad respect to this lady!

  • @kamranhaidertunio
    @kamranhaidertunio 4 роки тому +2

    she is really strong. feel sorry for what happened to her. I think she almost cried during the interview. loved it when she still shows compassion for guy's family. Actually they are victims too

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Kamran Haider Tunio i wont cry anymore!! I tear up because i really miss my dad and feel his pain when he heard about what i went thru.

  • @arvind4446
    @arvind4446 4 роки тому +6

    Damn girl, hearing this story is making me tearing up.Just thinking what a carnal hunger of a man could do to a woman is devastating.I hope you get to pursue a better life and get a good bf.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Arvind i am happily married! Thank u ☺️

  • @bbhee
    @bbhee 4 роки тому +3

    I only have respect for Jaylene and her courage for sharing. Again, thank you for the true and honest content John. Appreciate it.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      ivan Thank u! And yes thanks John for using his platform to share and reach out to more victims ❤️❤️

  • @bobbyking4766
    @bobbyking4766 4 роки тому +3

    Hi Jaylene, i was very inspired by your sharing. Thank you for your courage to share so others in the same situation will know what to do. As a Dad of 3 adult daughters, i doubt i will let that guy go if it happens to them. However, your sharing shown me another perspective.

  • @leeyangtoh5287
    @leeyangtoh5287 4 роки тому +2

    Honesty and bravery are rare. Hope this sends a message to those who are struggling with such matter give them a new perspective and able to talk to someone about it.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +1

      leeyang toh YES! I truly hope it reaches to victims like myself who thought that reporting to police is a bad thing . *roll eyes at myself lol*

  • @anggunbatrisyia6748
    @anggunbatrisyia6748 4 роки тому +5

    This girl is sooooo strong!!! Much respect to her and thank you for sharing all your stories. May you be happier and stronger in days to come❤

  • @donutstim7941
    @donutstim7941 4 роки тому +1

    Brave woman. Props to her for putting herself out there to face this. Respect.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      donuts tim thank u! ❤️

  • @yingqid.5731
    @yingqid.5731 4 роки тому

    i really can't imagine how much pain she has to bear with and yet still forgive him and give him a chance.

  • @bladewing9107
    @bladewing9107 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for posting such valuable content. It was really brave of her to step off her shell to share. From crying everytime she share, to now reaching a wide audience. Thank you John really appreciate these type of content. Cheers!! 😊😊🤗🤗

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Yeong Yi ❤️❤️❤️👍🏻

  • @unfailinglove23
    @unfailinglove23 4 роки тому +1

    So brave for sharing your story and bouncing back from the slope of mistakes after mistakes. Keep loving yourself!!

  • @pr9166
    @pr9166 3 роки тому

    Hi Jaylene, thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that happened to you and I wish justice had been served to protect you better. But I am happy to see how you've come out of that horrible period in your life and are living life for yourself now. All the best to you

  • @iamacutenub2
    @iamacutenub2 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this story and I hope you are so much better now, living the life you deserve!!

  • @samuelsim7857
    @samuelsim7857 4 роки тому +1

    Respect! You are much stronger than you think. Your courage is exceptional

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Wongtham Sim ❤️❤️❤️ thank u

  • @snksnk3860
    @snksnk3860 4 роки тому +1

    Respect to this lady. Happy that she is living her life now.

  • @ccc6658
    @ccc6658 4 роки тому +1

    thanks for doing the video while being apart man. after all the crap news these days, theres someone thinking straight and doing the right thing..

  • @vanyeo1137
    @vanyeo1137 4 роки тому +11

    Hey Jalene, u r soooo brave. I really respect you alot

  • @KrAz3c
    @KrAz3c 4 роки тому +1

    Huge respect to Jaylene. Hats off!

  • @fuhrerpolizei86
    @fuhrerpolizei86 4 роки тому +1

    Wow more of such content please rather than the usual chat sessions.... Brave gal and an amazing story of second chances and hope. Thanks!

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      fuhrerpolizei86 ❤️👍🏻

  • @h_r_99
    @h_r_99 4 роки тому +1

    fuck, this kind of shit makes me boil. to think the victim suffers even long after the incident while the perpetrator goes about their life not even thinking about it...respect to you ma'am for sharing your story!

  • @howardtjh5082
    @howardtjh5082 4 роки тому +15

    Even if I'm not her father, I will still go all out for you to bash that guy, cut his kukubird.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Howard Tjh 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jamestan9588
    @jamestan9588 4 роки тому +5

    Wow. Brave. Hope that Jaylene is happy now. 👍

  • @KaiChong
    @KaiChong 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for speaking out and raising awareness..

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Kai Chong ❤️❤️❤️

  • @PanHuiYan
    @PanHuiYan 4 роки тому +3

    So much respect for your courage 💕

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Pan Hui Yan ❤️❤️❤️

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim261 4 роки тому +4

    thank you for sharing!!💓 sending loves to you

  • @99charactersilike
    @99charactersilike 4 роки тому +1

    thank you jaylene. you are a very, very brave woman.

  • @Jun-si4db
    @Jun-si4db 4 роки тому +5

    Sending you love Jaylene

  • @datascience1369
    @datascience1369 4 роки тому

    It pains to even hear Jaylene's story, glad that she eventually got help and she is happily married now, but not pressing charges on that guy is not good, as he may have continued to do it with others. I liked what she said on that guy and family, they all owe one for her.

  • @alansmith17
    @alansmith17 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing. Hope this empowers women who are mistreated to step forward. No one should be able to get away with this thinking its ok.

  • @sandyng5450
    @sandyng5450 4 роки тому +1

    What an amazing woman! I dont watch MoS but this is a really great video! Kudos to production team!

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Sandy Ng Thank u Sandy! 🧡 u should watch them. Many inspiring stories.

  • @TheFactWhisperer
    @TheFactWhisperer 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your story Jaylene.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      nijnail ❤️❤️ Share with ur ladies friends! Males too if applicable 😅

  • @maiyahoohoo
    @maiyahoohoo 4 роки тому +1

    Big respect for her courage!

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Cassy Dane ❤️❤️❤️

  • @goncarrasco
    @goncarrasco 4 роки тому +1

    It's moving to see Jaylene's strength and courage in overcoming what she suffered. Now, that is still a crime, and the preparator should be brought to justice.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Gonzalo Carrasco ❤️❤️

  • @joycejoy2185
    @joycejoy2185 4 роки тому +3

    sending love

  • @misslaptop8505
    @misslaptop8505 4 роки тому +2

    My heart feel soooo much for this woman :’(

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      I am me ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jerrysim6969
    @jerrysim6969 4 роки тому +9

    Jaylene, you are so strong, God will bless you and your family =)

  • @androslim7716
    @androslim7716 4 роки тому +1

    Respect how you face your life.... Keep living happily n love yourself.... Jia you....gambate....fighting...

  • @Jamie-yz5hs
    @Jamie-yz5hs 4 роки тому +1

    Feel so sorry for her...stay save and stay strong always!!♥️😎...

  • @user-wi2fw1jk9l
    @user-wi2fw1jk9l 4 роки тому +2

    My utmost respect that you can find it in your heart to wish the Wife and Son well. I wish you all the best too!

  • @dkking83123
    @dkking83123 4 роки тому +2

    She is really pretty!

  • @erikarugdee2855
    @erikarugdee2855 4 роки тому +1

    She couldve said to him “fuck you” but she told him to cherish his 2nd chance take care of his family. Admirable👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @atan9949
    @atan9949 4 роки тому +1

    Sending some love over to Jaylene!

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +1

      Angel Tan well received babe! ❤️

  • @NRSBRNND
    @NRSBRNND 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +1

      NRSBRNND 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ I hope it helped someone.

  • @mdharris9405
    @mdharris9405 4 роки тому +1

    That actual hit hard hearing that story

  • @servantsoftheunseen
    @servantsoftheunseen 4 роки тому +1

    strong woman. Respect

  • @joytotheworldddd
    @joytotheworldddd 4 роки тому +6

    Oh! She was from a UA-cam show. WINGDIM FAM? the smartlocal I think?

  • @n.zianahhhh
    @n.zianahhhh 4 роки тому +1

    such a strong lady ❤️

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Nur Zianah ❤️❤️❤️❤️ we all are!!

  • @vivianchan506
    @vivianchan506 4 роки тому +1

    💖 respect for you. You are so brave🙆🏻‍♀️

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Vivian Chan we all are! In our own ways :) ❤️❤️❤️💪🏼💪🏼🙆🏻‍♀️

  • @novantan
    @novantan 4 роки тому +1

    Powerful woman🙏 bless her

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Novan Tan Thank u ! ❤️

  • @savokisan
    @savokisan 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful mother

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      TL wiz*one thank u dear ❤️

  • @toestud3791
    @toestud3791 4 роки тому +1

    thank u for sharing :( sending love to u 💗

  • @gaild1689
    @gaild1689 4 роки тому

    Mad respect💜

  • @AstroooSG
    @AstroooSG 4 роки тому +2

    Its body reaction. Its been a decade and i still cant forget. Probably i need to sort help. I feel empty still. It was a married man as well. Still can remember blood in my mind. I am dumb. And the stupid married man still continue out there. How i know? He contacted me just 2 year back.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Clement Chia Sorry that i dont really get what u mean? Feel free to dm me for help. @jaylenehwl on ig

  • @hadeel1073
    @hadeel1073 4 роки тому +2

    You're badass stay strong!!

  • @kailee3703
    @kailee3703 4 роки тому

    you are fucking strong. you are really fucking strong. i don't know how you do it. but you are amazing

  • @sathiskumarvs
    @sathiskumarvs 4 роки тому

    U have my respect 🙏🏼 ms jaylene

  • @JourneyToUnwind24
    @JourneyToUnwind24 4 роки тому +2

    加油! Inspiration

  • @edricongkhaijieh8074
    @edricongkhaijieh8074 4 роки тому +2

    stay strong

  • @memyselfi9412
    @memyselfi9412 4 роки тому +1

    Respect 💯

  • @bnatbox
    @bnatbox 4 роки тому

    wow, she is wise

  • @fyz5250
    @fyz5250 4 роки тому +1

    Respect man omg

  • @mrnoobdau726
    @mrnoobdau726 4 роки тому +1

    her eyes is watery

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      7Jinn I didn’t know it was so obvious! I felt the most pain when I mentioned my late father. It hurts me to know he may have blamed himself for failing to protect his daughter.

  • @rashidahp8417
    @rashidahp8417 4 роки тому +1

    John can I get a permission to post this video on my ig story I will tag you if that's OK this is a very important story to me because I have had experience as such and I felt that some people like the young kids now adays need to understand that rape is a serious thing is not just about smashing girls when they are knock out.

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому

      Rashidah p Hi Rashidah, please feel free to share this video! Remember to credit MOS i guess. I am sorry to hear u experienced this shit too. It is very serious. Pm me if u need help. @jaylenehwl

  • @jordanthen6119
    @jordanthen6119 4 роки тому

    Nobody deserve this kind of traumatic experience. Rapist should all just rot in hell! damn. Stay strong! everyone is rooting for you.

  • @mapleleaves7345
    @mapleleaves7345 4 роки тому

    bastard! that guy shld go to jail!!!! u r really brave..i salute to you~

  • @fendi3093
    @fendi3093 4 роки тому +1

    Damn..Salute to her..

  • @lazydayspooh
    @lazydayspooh 4 роки тому +2

    Hugz jaylene... 🥰

    • @jaylenehong
      @jaylenehong 4 роки тому +1

      May Teo Thank u!! 🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️

  • @johnnynally
    @johnnynally 4 роки тому

    You are incredibly strong.. U are awesome..

  • @testor9
    @testor9 4 роки тому +1

    "atleast now when i talk about the the rape incident i will not cry anymore" i was like you almost cried just now. haha no disrespect but kudos for coming out! brave soul!

  • @kanfusheng1347
    @kanfusheng1347 4 роки тому

    This is literally so disgusting

  • @yaofongg
    @yaofongg 4 роки тому +1

    #respect!!!

  • @AudzeZie
    @AudzeZie 4 роки тому

    Jaylene jiayou❤️