Prenuptial Agreements in India
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- Опубліковано 24 лис 2019
- Prenuptial agreements are not valid in India, but there is a loophole you can use to your advantage to save yourself from false accusations and to avoid paying huge maintenance. Every man in India who is planning to get married should get this done.
Update: After hundreds of people asked me to talk more about prenups, I added a chapter on it in this short ebook I wrote called "7 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED: STORIES OF FALSE CASES AND LEGAL BATTLES IN INDIA"
It is available on Amazon India here:
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It is India .. half of them will decline the offer after being asked to sign such documents 🤣 .. good advice indeed ..
Very good point. The women in the couples for whom I have drafted these prenups, at first, protest very strongly. But when they are shown how the law is misused, they agree to it. And if they don't, the man should understand that there is a wrong intention
Yes no problem I don't want my old parents to suffer
@@bettercallamish well said.
@@bettercallamish Why isn't proper prenup enforced in India unlike other countries and should a man pay maintenance for a wife despite she is able to support her self.
@@siddharthjmt8216 any agreement which restricts someone's right is not enforceable in India.
e.g. Mr. A takes car insurance. Insurance company also made Mr. A to sign that if his car destroyed, insurance company won't pay any damages.
This type of agreement is not enforceable coz Insurance company restricting right of Mr.A to claim damages
Just shared it with my 2 friends who are getting married. Hehehe...no doubt it can save innocent men who are facing unnecessary problems because of false allegations.
Yeah, it can protect them. Rather than gifting expensive gifts on wedding, a book on how laws can be misused against man and a appointment to a good marriage related lawyer(for protecting him from possible future problems) would be a good idea.
Appointment on what things should be done from the start of marriage for protecting from these laws.
You will either be hated a lot or loved a lot by them :)
@@prashanthb6521 Hahah.
Now sir you are a true friend
For men Marriage without prenuptial agreement is like signing blank cheque.😂😂🤣😂😂
well said
@@rajdipdas69 😂
Danke ki chot par suna tha..
Gante ki chot par suna diya..
Dear can I please eat those yellow mellow faces ? ? ? ? ?
😂😂
Indian society is not yet ready for such a discussion. I truly respect you for putting out this valuable information.
Yes, those Indians are still stuck in pooja status culture.
@Antisimp_ pahadi OH yes the Muslim world is extremely fanatical. You are rite... but largely the west is way more open minded than us. That's what I ment to say. 👍
But they are ready to file false allegations
@@midshipsport f*** off whats the hell our religion pooja gas to do with this . it's all happening because dumb like you support radical left who use feminism to manipulate the laws. Throw your inferior mentality that your tradition heritage is bad.
@@phoneicad1887 relax.. I ment pooja culture coming from the woman's side. 🤣 you freaked out like a true keyboard warrior.
Anyways this video has widened my way of looking at things.......never had these points in my minds horizon
😱
The points made by you in this video are good but unfortunately whether to grant maintenance/alimony and the quantum of it is left to the discretion of the judge.
1, A better approach is that a boy should never marry a girl who doesn't earn 50 to 70% of the income what the boy makes. This will ensure that the girl is marrying boy for reasons other than money.
2. Never allow the girl to quit her job for trivial reasons. The amount of maintenance a boy pays depends on how much girl earns.
3. Don't buy any property in the name of the girl if she is not contributing financially to it.
Great points
Isnt this nice, men have to marry down(who earns less) but women marry high then them
@Sam Tel .. there you are , you hit the bull's eye ... 👌👌👌👌
@@cbazxy2697 it's day dream as far as India is considered.
I have been doing this so much occasion that put up such conditions that girl should be earning more than me, I even ready to manage household activities. But to no avail luck showered on me.
Girls runs after the money it's open truth, look at the matrimonial sites , girls earning Rs.15-20 lakhs per year aging around 40 still expecting/waiting for Prince to come to them earning Rs. 50+ lakhs.
@@kavishwarmokal124 if women earn more than men then marriage isnt gonna last long, she thinks she can do bettter than current husband
Thank you so much for this information. I'm in my early twenties and although I'm still a student,my parents are planning to do my wedding when I'll be at about 27-28 this will really help.
There's no really benefit for men in marriage expect if u want child, lot of cons less pros
Don't marry.. It's not worth it...if something happens your parents will only be able to provide lip service
@@cbazxy2697 Wait, you can get child by surrogacy also. Why want marriage if you only want child?
@@anonymousanonymous6424 There's a lot of restrictions on who men can adopt at any age.
As a married dude myself, do not get married......long term regret guaranteed.
I went through these 10 years ago. And now my brother is going through these now. It's really painful.
Sorry bro. Same with my brother. I am still unmarried that's why thinking of this.
@@rohitmehta1216 Be as careful as you can be. Parents guidance will help a lot in avoiding situations like this. Enquire well with Friends and Relatives about their family. Then if all is good, proceed with care regarding marriage. This agreement might also help.
@@s.a.tirumalai my parents are very simple. My brother is C.A married in 2019 after from the very first month she started to give threats of divorce and sucide.
She is in her home now From last one year. No case filed. She wants to come back. But we want either a written statement from her father or divorce.
They are not giving anything.
How to proceed with contensted divorce ??
@@rohitmehta1216 Arranged marriage is cancer. Most of the time the brides family have evil intention of marrying only for money. Don't marry if you don't know the girl properly or shes your childhood friend.
@@rohitmehta1216 Can you tell if she was doing job or simple housewife? I think most of such cases come from those who don't do jobs. They harass to extort money. It's high time to marry job doing girl. They have self respect.
Senior of one my school was married in 2015 , that time there was no concept of Prenup or anything, Within a year wife started hooking up with her ex bf, When husband confronted her she falsely accused him Of dowry and Physical abuse, husband was sent to jail upon hearing that his son is being sent to jail father had stroke and passed right away, he was in jail about nine months when her only mother also passed away as she was alone and none was around to take care, at the end the lawyer and one of his best friend uses honeytrap to find proof against the women and when it was found that the case was false,he was released and women was given 6month of jail period .
Equality Huhh?
He lost his mother, he last his father, he last his govt job, with almost a year of endless pain and torture, while she got 6month of Jail time.... Bravo Indian Judiciary Bravo
"Story is of Agra" Can't reveal the name though
Don't get married, as simple as that. Yeah it's easier said that done, but this is what I am getting inclient to.
this has a movement mgtow
Don't get married and settle abroad.😎
sab yehi bolte he. Maybe you are young now. When you feel the pressure, tab pata chalega
@@SteveJobzz Who cares about "pressure"? Living our life the way others expect us to is pathetic.
@@SteveJobzz its your life, surround ur self with right people who support u.
Now I see why government says
' law will destabilize the institution of marriage'
Being Girl I can say, this will reduce all the false marital cases in India by 50%.
Although, It is not void in court of law in India, but it’ll help men a lot.
It's a great Idea. However if a girl signs it. She should also sign a divorce scenario to be agreeing upon a lump sum amount based on factors such as husband income, wife current Status whether she was working and left it for marriage etc. Also 0- 5-10-15-20 year time period should be made a clause. This way both genders are protected.
@@tauseefahmad87Why"re u saying all this u"ve to stay in kitchen with fully covered burkha & make 8-9 kids & obey ur man without question all ur life So ur opinion doesn't matter
I wish you said, " I will fight for men, how can men not treated as an equal gender", but sadly you just mentioned few of your opinions. This is why men suicidal rate is 4times than women because nobody cares.
50% hahahaha
Best is not to get married, absolutely nothing to gain for men, if your parents relatives start pressurizing you remember they will not be their to defend you in court or pay for legal fees, neither will the maintenance be paid from their bank a/c. Its you who will be the loser at the end of the day.
Indian people only see the wahmen side of a marriage ... I just turned 20 and my relatives are telling me to marry just because I make good money ... I mean I make good money I can hire a Servant to clean my house and cook my food ... Then why tf do I need a wife for ... I am sick of telling them to shut tf up
That’s why i have no plans or wishes to marry. People say that oh when you will become older you will get lonely and hence you will need someone. My point is, first of all, im very habitual of being alone and i have my interests that occupy me. Now let’s say even if i do feel alone in the future, atleast its much better than being stuck in legal processes like these where men have to lose so much. Whatever a man has built or secured will be shattered. So yeah, not up for marriage. I need a risk free life.
This guy in the real lifestyle guru . Kudos to you sir 🙌.
Major portion of Indian population don't know About legal rights and remedies.
..jaspal bhatti : " .... dowry aggrement mei maine clause likhwadiya tha ki agr meri wife ki vajah se mujhe heart trouble hui to saara kharcha meri wife ke gharwale uthaenge !! "....😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🙏🇮🇳
I'm just in my 20's but this is some legit information. Thank you for this.
This is the right age to be aware of all these things! India is very biased against men in all sections of law and order. Welcome the to rabbit hole my friend.
Well said...! Better a little awkward moment instead of being made so helpless by our wonderful Indian laws where men are valued lesser than dust and counterintuitively helps women to bring upon huge amounts of injustice on men via the justice system itself.
MGTOW4lyf
Red Pilled !
Yes
@@SajalNagwanshi yup always
Men need this advice before marriage. Don’t hopelessly trust her!!
Your channel is one of the best things on UA-cam that I have ran into.
Amazing work
Marraige, love, relationship all are becoming scams now these days, thank you so much sir for helping us with valuable advices and information.
Thank you now I can avoid marriage alltogether
@amishaggarwalla what about postnuptual agreements
sir you are life saver, i think every boy in school should made it mandatory to have a course or workshop about it, becuse in upcoming generations 95% marriages will be for money and status.
In any we can support you please mention, you're doing a really decent job brother, and saving 100's and 1000's or even lakhs of life. God bless you man :-)
🔥🔥 Men and women of our nation must be educated on Prenuptial / Postnuptial Agreement. If #Prenup / #Postnup is not legal here, it should be made legal ASAP on priority basis.. the quicker, the better. Many marriages and lives will be saved, That will sort most of the issues.
Without agreements, there are many reasons why a marriage continues, it may be due to fear of arrest, fear of demands, fear of law etc . But when agreements are done, the only reason to stay together is love, knowing that they are legally allowed to be separated without any issues, they still chose to stay together, thats the benefit of prenup/postnup agreements.. love will be only factor why marriage will stick ..
Good. I didn't expect to see a video from you on this topic, but was pleasantly surprised when I searched "prenuptial agreement in India" and saw you in the search results. Thank you.
Great video. I feel that your channel is still underrated compared to the great content on your channel. What I feel is that every Indian needs to know the details you have provided.
Harvey specter hairstyle,like it. I am watching your videos since a few days . Your speech is really well structured ,a lot to learn.
I'm a law student and trust me we are not informed about this. Thankyou for the information ❤️❤️❤️
U are a bad law student
you'll learn more in practicality than in law colleges. you can trust me on that.
This guy is a god send 🙏 , he's a savior for India ... If I meet him I will touch his feet !!!!
I want to be like him
Thank you Sir for your valuable guidance. Eager to hear more from you regarding the biased judicial system against Men and how to improve the system and defend the truth. #MensDayOut
Amazingly Good channel. Super Excited to watch many of your other videos!
What a brilliant informative video this was! Thank you very much
Please make more detailed video for this topic and let us know what other points can be included in this agreement 👍
Great info bro
Thankyou sir..you are literally saving thousands of lives
The state takes keen interest and intrudes in the personal life of consenting adults.
He is like a elder bro which we all need .
What you're doing is no less than social service, Thank you Brother. _/\_
Thank you Amish for these insights.
Really don't know how to show my gratitude to you.
These are very very very very essential and informative videos, must watch videos.
Also if you can make another video covering all the possible points or a draft template.
That would he highly helpful.
Thanks for dispelling my confusion ,, I was thinking of getting a prenup ,, but now I know that it doesn't stand ,, again thanks for highlighting other points
"NO शादी" End of All Problems 🙏😂😂😂
Super insightful, Amish!
Thank you!
many situation will come in married life which are more awkward than signing the document like this.. and if she denies this awkwardness and tries to trap you in words like love, trust etc then walk the fuck away..
Absolutely .. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
It is sad. The girl will act innocent before marriage. Later she will turn out to be a feminist or gold digger or both. Stay single, stay safe.
If marriage is a holy or sacred thing then why adultery is allowed and if adultery / cheating is allowed then why not a prenup, what a messy judicial system.
Get your basic homework done. Laws are made by parliament, not by judicial system 😏
Great Video ....thank you for such Informative video. Really appreciate your Efforts 👍
Very informative and mature. With a rising and richer middle class, the issues you raise are impending and not largely discussed.
Thank you for sharing this information.You are a great help.
Cold exclusion, prenuptial agreement !!!
If not don't get married to not get stolen.
India law is heavily skewed towards women.
@@non-believer990 , hate that stupid who drafted these laws.
Thanks man. Very informative
great suggestion to avoid problems in future. 👍👍. However, it would be very difficult, since most people now-a-days refuse to give in writing anything.
wow what a video, I watched lots of Hollywood movies hence comes across prenuptial agreements very often and knew it is not done in our country but through this video came to know about prenuptial declaration very clearly.
Knowledge is power..
Thanks a million
will subscribe your channel
@Amish Aggarwala, thanks for sharing such a valuable key information and reveal the harsh reality of feminine inclined gender-favoured laws in India particularly when it comes to matrimonial crisis. Right from its very existence to its enactment, the courts in India is (un) intentionally disadvantage innocent men over the generic perception of suppressing the women rights, her dignity and her life. Consequently, Preneuptial Agreements between the two parties has a greater relevance and offers as preventive measure in a crisis situation. More power to you.! :)
God Bless you Amish. Very valuable advice.
Thank you for doing what you do amish. This video is exactly what I was looking for🙏
Law will only change when a law minister faces all this
Law minister will simply get another wife.
Please make a detailed video, on all the points please. Really helpful.
Thank you Sir.
This is very helpful video.
Put all money and assets in a foundation, only beneficial for you.
Thanks for making this videos. I hope this video reaches to more men.
Prenup must be mandatory in marriages.... saviour of innocent man
Damn I'm worried now. But that's some good information. Sharing it with my guy friends
Why you're girl, you shouldn't be worried every law in India is in Favour of you guys, it's boys who should be scared .
Darr toh men ko lagna chahiye! Laws aise hain
Not every girl is out there to get boys. We have brothers and male friends too.
@@Sweetetika yea, but it's really scary that you're life will be meaningless just in a fraction of days and the one who'll do..will ne out there roaming 😑
I was wondering the same thing that pre nups were illegal here. Glad that there is a way.
honestly, if the woman or her family have issues with signing such documents, its a pretty clear indication of how they think and what their motives were for the marriage.
and if later on they say that "we will sign the documents. please dont cancel the wedding. we will agree to everything. lets not get emotional here." do not let them sign the documents, because if disputes arise in the future, this particular document will definitely be cancelled as their lawyers will argue the point that the document was signed under coercion as they stated that the marriage will not happen if the documents are not signed.
put these documents infront of your future wife and future in laws and their reaction will tell you everything you need to know about the marriage.
Thanks man I will share this among my friends.
im 35 and still unmarried..would not like to marry an indian woman..im searching someone in Malaysia or Philippines
Malayali aano?
ഞാനും..ഈസ്റ്റേൺ Europe ile girls more better than indian girls..
Thanks for the informations.
But my case it is little late.
Infact today one client called me regarding prenuptial agreement matter.. Thanks for this valuable information..
Saw a few such cases of people i know and now i am getting married so wanted to know how to protect my family and me if such situation arises in the future. This video gave me much needed knowledge. Thank you
The agreement should also include conditions on how money is managed and the share pf household chores and also the terms tp be followed during pregnancy period and who and how to take care of children.
Quite informative indeed, sir. I am law student & familiar with the legal standpoint of prenups in India . The fact the era of failing marriages that we live in, it does becomes sensible & rational to go with notary declaration as recommended by you. But my question being from philosophical point of view, aren't we creating an air of mistrust & manifesting foundation of marriages on it right from the beginning where marriages are failing predominantly for the usual reasons (dowry, job, etc) but also due other major incompatibility issues (with present generation having lower threshold & no compromise attitude) & implementing the recommended solution by you seems to be like a temporary relief from heartburning of going through litigation battle against the spouse but at first instance doesn't prevent or at least delay the time marriages failing (addressing the root cause?)
Era of blind trust has been gone , marriages are became contracts (and actually it's a contract governed by Hindu marriage act.)
if you want to think that trust is a commodity found in abundance nowadays. you are sadly mistaken. women either marry for status, money or property. love is just an after thought. its all a financial game. dont live in a cookoo land where women will believe the same things as a man.
No he is not creating an era of mistrust, he is only stating the facts. I have been through this and know all abt it
Short term pain -> long term gain
After watching my brother's marriage, I have decided to remain single. We are the most docile family on earth and the other side are a pure dehati bunch.
Thanks Amish sir, really helpful video 👍
What other points can be put in a Prenup affidavit, please guide us... It'd be really helpful sir 🙏
Good content, now you have a new subscriber
Thanks for the video. Sent this to my friends who are about get married next month. I have to red pill them.
Sorry Andrew, this man is Top G for me from now 😕
Thank You for this Video Sir!!
Wow, very usefull information that too for free from a lawyer. Thanks
Thank you for the Information 💯
Superbly described about the Prenuptial agreement . S great work being done by you by creating such informative video thus preventing us from landing in trouble. I am Mahesh Chourasia from Jabalpur MP
I don't know about others, but what I have seen in marriage in my family & relatives , is we get the each and every item of dowry wriiten and signed by both parties , and there are witness to this , n we share d copy , its on a blank paper
This is a very complicated topic as a lot of women leave their jobs due to emotional abuse and pressure of unpaid work at home. So even though others did not ask them to quit their job, they end up quitting because of these other various indirect pressures. Can this argument be used against a prenup ?
I suppose this must be a very common argument so the prenup must be effective against it.
For the ladies who did signed the clause and still feel pressure to leave the job to do house chores, you must draw the line somewhere. Say you can only do this much and share the work or hire help. What's the benefit of being an earning, independent woman if you can't even stand up for yourself?
@@kvineet631 Well, again not that simple. Not all earning women in India are independent. At least not financially and that is why they are scared to leave their job because if they left their jobs things at home could become worse because of multiple societal pressures that we don't need to get into. What I was trying to ask was, is there any law against unpaid labor and emotional/verbal abuse that can help people? My example was from a women's perspective but I would like to know if people in general can protect themselves from such domestic cases.
@@ipsy7607 I think it should be mentioned in the prenup that its the choice of the girl to work or not work. The past salary and education will be taken into account to determine the maintenance I think. Note, I am not sure about the laws, just my guess.
@@ipsy7607 the solution is quite simple
The only thing it needs is courage
If your future husband wants you to leave your job but you don't want to leave the job , do not marry that guy as both of you are in disagreement
@ipsy
You are simp man. In today's world most of the house work disappeared due to electronic appliances and ready made food products. Blindly supporting women doesn't make any sense just because they have pussyy.
In reality , giving maintenance doesn't make any sense. Boys working like donkey whereas women simply getting free money.
I don't see how this will help. The girls can always change her stance and say that baad pe they started pressuring me and stuff
This is tough to apply where we are getting leads from our family network.....
If the lead is from online matrimony or traditional matrimony offices then I think I can speak of these points
The way to do it is to explain carefully and sensitively about the prevalent situation
If the leads are from the family network then it's easy to discuss it by involving the same family members .
Thank you sir....very correct advise!ty very much
This guy is my hero
Good advice, the problem is that even if you sign all this at the time of marriage, the girl can still go and say in the court that she was harassed after marriage for dowry etc. All these affidavits will only be at one point in time and no girl is going to sign them on a recurring basis.
Thank you sir to make this video
Amazing advice
I have few questions regarding providing maintenance in case of divorce:
1. If divorce is mutual?
2. If a wife is earning ?
3. If a wife is earning more than the husband?
Does the maintenance have to be paid by the husband in these scenarios?
Is there any provision where the husband can seek maintenance?
1. No such thing as mutual divorce. Who started it?
2. You still pay maintenance if she's working just a tad bit lower than if she isn't.
3. Then she has leeway to demand even more maintenance and alimony. Hence why it's adviced to marry a working woman who earns 50% or more at min of what you do.
Husband can only seek maintenance if he's disabled and can't work which is extreme case.
Thank you so much for this.
Sir please explain things in hindi as well, it will help even more people.
Thank u for info.. Will do prenup. As i faced same problem in past
Good work.
Prenuptial agreement and postnuptial agreement is must. Marriages are not sacred anymore in India.
Excellent
But then again any good layer can make a case saying these agreements were made by forcing her. And she was in stress while making the declarations. By the law these agreements are void.
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