And other times they want to know that the money is being used for what they gave it for. Remember some organisations leaders might pocket some of that money for themselves and there would no proof.
We don’t do things just because of 1 reason, usually it is this feeling to help others. Out of all the reasons to help, feeling good about themselves, gain some PR, actually seeing other people happy, will all be there at psychological level
I'm pretty sure most people would still donate if it was mandatory to be anonymous. They're not donating for the recognition. They're choosing not to be anonymous when they do it for the recognition. It's like a bonus, not a motive for the donation itself.
Selfish? What do you mean by it? People have basic psychological need of respect, worthiness, liked by others so if someone trying to fulfill it there's nothing wrong in it . Something will BE WRONG WITH YOU if you ignore these needs.
Well I would like to put my two cents in and just say that I don’t think it’s a darker motivation behind me taking credit for a charitable action. I would like to let people know that you don’t have to have a dark motive ultimately behind your every move. It just makes more sense to me to let people know hey, I am so and so, and I donated to this charity to help. If it helps make the dark intention more minuscule, I’ll like to point out that I don’t care if it’s openly and publicly announced. It is a different scenario when you are in a role of leadership and are very well known by the public. That’s just an entirely different reasoning on its own, you have to look good in front of a crowd, or else you wouldn’t be in that role of leadership for long. And I honestly don’t care about whether or not someone thinks my actions are good or bad. Or the intentions behind the actions are good or bad to be more specific. I know for a fact that what I am doing is in fact what I am doing. So I would love to know what the author of that book would say to me about what I just said in this reply. I would be happy to listen :) If people really have a dark intention behind their interests, I would like to say You Need To Grow Up. If people can’t do that. I would like to say Start Evolving MF.
I dont see the need to tell people I'm so & so & I donated. Because, who cares. Why would anyone want to know? I just do it. People in the public eye usually do it for image & PR , which 90% of us are savvy enough to realise.
Cringe when i have to give my money have to give my name to the organization because donations on line has to do with credit card. Alteristic behavior is always a question , however never tell your self the money you sent to feed children in Ethiopia is based on ego , you may feel better you gave money to feed the children, but your donation was based on the children's need in the first place. This man works for a dark lord possibly... don't let him keep you from giving money or time.god loves you no matter your religion.
Reflections of the Unseen Self In the mirror’s gaze, self-deceit hides, Virtue signaled in silent strides. Luxury's whisper, status's song, Laughter bonds, where we belong. Education's badge, subtly shown, Charity’s sash, gently thrown. Politics, a tribal hue, Care in health, a gesture true. Art’s voice, a silent scream, Faith, a communal dream. Conversations, a mind’s parade, Body’s truth, in silence laid. Veiled mirrors, souls entwine, Hidden motives, silently shine.
Last chrismas me and the lads from work went for breakfast and i picked up the bill which was around 70 euro. My boss started laughing and said that i didnt do it out of niceness but that i did it because i wanted something back. I felt embarrassed because he was right, i waa thinking if i bought breakfast for all the lads for Christmas they would see me in a good light. Then when i was home i cleared my mind and thought about what my boss said I came to the conclusion that every good deed is nothing more than a transaction for something in return. It could be just to hear someone say thankyou. It could be a manipulation tactic to plant seeds in a persons head. It could be for alot of things but one thing its not is for nothing and any person who says they do it for free are lying through there teeth Or dont have the intelligence to understand
Hi I wanted you to suggest a book that will help me stand up to my friends, to the people who always put me down , a book that will help me give better and more savage comebacks to other people., A book that will increase my knowledge of human behaviour please please please could anyone help
In Islam you have to give sharity anonymously There is a speech of the prophet Muhammed peace be upon him i don't memories it but it means that give (sharity or anything) but your right hand doesnt know what your left hand spent The meaning is not literally telling you to hide stuff from one hand, the meaning is that you give anonymously, like even your left hand doesnt know what your right gave , wich means keep it beetwen you and almighty God, you only need recognition from God
Eh its damned if you do damned if you don't when it comes to things like having a platform and making donations. Lets say you do an event specifically for making donations and then everyone wonders if it was even done in the first place which is normal imo because the internet sucks then a portion of viewers are calling someone out for being "greedy" because of their lack of knowledge x ____'s modesty
It’s more simple than people think, it’s not that complex. Men get so confused over why women date and sleep with bad boys but say they want a nice guy, only to friendzone him? It’s because she wants both qualities in a man. She wants the bad boy who will, over time, warm up to her and treat her like a princess, while also maintaining the bad boy persona. She wants a blend of both, perfectly balanced without leaning too far into one or the other. Depending on her mood, basically. 😂 In a nutshell, women want a *attractive* man with emotional and psychological depth, which usually implies a dark past. He’s gone through some rough shit in his life, it’s made him guarded, aloof and slightly cold. He’s been traumatized, betrayed and lost, but he chose strength and willpower, instead of learned helpless with a victim mentality. He’s adopted the “I don’t give a F” mindset. She wants to take this man, give him all of herself and love him so deeply that he softens up to her and only her. This is the core of the Disney Prince Charming archetype. Beauty and the Beast is the quintessential bad boy fantasy. A literal beast, completely untamed, wild, has a dark past, a troubled soul, aloof and callous, but warms up to her and fall in love. There’s a lot of things one can do to create the projected image of being a bad boy, but unless you naturally are, you won’t ever be unless you do Shadow Work. Everyone has a dark side, a primordial evil deep down. You have bring it forth unto your conscious awareness, otherwise you’ll experience your dark side as events in the world, believing it’s misfortune or bad luck. You have to accept your dark side, embrace it and make a pact with it, allowing it to come out in healthy, productive ways. You can get the tattoos, become aloof and distant, ignore women and refuse to commit, get in shape, act mysterious, drive a motorcycle and wear shades inside. The thing is, you don’t have to be a bad boy to your core, meaning you have the past of a bad boy along with the potential personality dysfunction that’s associated with it(Narcissistic personality). You also can’t actually dress or try to behave like a stereotypical bad boy either, because truly, there’s not really a look. I most certainly don’t have the look, but rest assured, ask any of my exes and they’ll tell you a different story. The biggest thing you can do is so simple, yet men can’t wrap their minds around it. Don’t be nice and caring and sweet to women simply because she’s a pretty woman. This is objectively fake. It just is and that’s why women despise it. It’s repulsive, because you’re revealing your intentions immediately. Are you this kind and sweet to everyone? Probably not. Do you treat the ugly fat girls that well? Highly unlikely. So why does the pretty girl you like deserve special treatment? What has she even done to earn it? You can’t be nice just because she’s aesthetically pleasing. The easiest way to work on this is to understand women, first and foremost. Got to be smooth. Which is essentially being good at conversational banter. Using wit and humor to poke fun at women, playing off each others statements in a somewhat flirty way. Banter is key to the kingdom. It’s a laid back attitude, not taking anything seriously. So… Pick up an improv class or watch more stand up comedy. Practice, practice, practice. If you can’t do improv, that’s fine. Practice like this: Rule of thumb is, treat women the same, across the board. ALL of them. And you do it as I described above. Practice your banter with the ugly ones, the fat ones, the older ladies, the middle aged ladies, all of them. Once you get good at it, you’ll be comfortable to do the same with the hot ones.
If you donate to charity, you receive a sizable tax return for it, especially if you’re wealthy. People who publicly do things to “change the world” or “help those in need”, are doing so as a means to boost their morale, and essentially shut people up if they’re ever criticized, “Ohhh! So, I’m rich, greedy and corrupt? Righhht! Okay… How much did you donate to charity this year, again? I forgot… Oh, you haven’t! Well. I donated 1.5 million in the past month… I’m so evil aren’t I?” Exactly like George Soros, many people take up for him and rebuke any and all criticism concerning way he got rich, how he bankrupted a whole ass country, how he’s the largest investor into the Democratic Party, fueling this Woke narrative for decades, essentially having power to place a president into office, and criticizing what his intentions are with the Open Society Foundation. Many, many people defend him solely because he’s a philanthropist, who gave his whole fortune away. 😂 Which is utter nonsense. He’s a billionaire, worth 8B, to be exact; at least his worth in taxable money… He’s not giving his money away, or giving money to non profit organizations, he’s LAUNDERING his money through these organizations. People are so naive. Fan boys of Musk do the same shit.
The actions of which you are speaking (altruism with ulterior motives) is related to what is known as communal narcissism. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a worldwide epidermic, a generational curse, and has been made exponentially worse with the digital age and social media addiction. Now you can begin to see through the “generous” actions of so many “influential figures” such as Bill & Melinda Gates, and even Mr. Beast. 💜✌🏻
On the day of judgement, there will be no shade except the shade of Allah. Those who give charity in secret that his left hand does not even know what his right hand has given are so beloved by Allah that Allah will shade them by His Shade, among seven other people.
"The elephant in the brain"
I saved your time !
Thanks lad
Ty
Thanks :)
thanks man
Tq
Loved how he also used the dark psychology of holding the book without showing the cover and then saying the name of the book in the end of the video.
applied psychology tactic
That's why I downvoted this video and removed channel from recommendations
He gave you info and the name and opinion on it but he still a coward in your eyes .
Psh he’s a peasant. That’s all I have to say 😤
@@GuiltyBystander8hahaha lmfao
As Shakespeare once said "rich gifts wax poor when givers prove unkind"
Was*
Criminal behavior should be treated professionally not elected to public office
Self-interest has always been tied to humanity. That doesn’t make it dark, and that doesn’t discredit what we consider moral action or charity
Mastering Mind Games: The Art of Psychological Influence..... May you review this book please
Thank you for telling me that humans are worse than I thought now I can sleep less peacefully at night
People in our time refuse to believe the truth is the truth
Wdym
Truth is hate speech today.
Thank you for telling everyone already knew
I like how he made me wait to the end. Not mad about it cause I got to listen to that luscious😅😊 voice
I donate blood and money anonymously. I don't want any credit or anything else in return
Well you just invalidated that statement 😂
@@Yalle2 Ya, that's true
your no more anonymous now 😂
Well saying that proved it right
we don't need people like you , we have be like you !
Thank you. Going to read it next
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Thank you for sharing this free resource! 🎉💙
And other times they want to know that the money is being used for what they gave it for. Remember some organisations leaders might pocket some of that money for themselves and there would no proof.
We don’t do things just because of 1 reason, usually it is this feeling to help others. Out of all the reasons to help, feeling good about themselves, gain some PR, actually seeing other people happy, will all be there at psychological level
I'm pretty sure most people would still donate if it was mandatory to be anonymous. They're not donating for the recognition. They're choosing not to be anonymous when they do it for the recognition. It's like a bonus, not a motive for the donation itself.
Selfish? What do you mean by it?
People have basic psychological need of respect, worthiness, liked by others so if someone trying to fulfill it there's nothing wrong in it .
Something will BE WRONG WITH YOU if you ignore these needs.
Skinner wrote about this way back and explains one possible cause of it in Beyond Freedom and Dignity
This is juts like superhero’s in movies and series the constant need for appreciation and acceptance the hunger for attention that’s like real life to
Giving charity publicly is not always bad it can have good motives behide it if a person is sincere but I know its hard to be sincere
Your voice just broke my screen
Well I would like to put my two cents in and just say that I don’t think it’s a darker motivation behind me taking credit for a charitable action. I would like to let people know that you don’t have to have a dark motive ultimately behind your every move.
It just makes more sense to me to let people know hey, I am so and so, and I donated to this charity to help. If it helps make the dark intention more minuscule, I’ll like to point out that I don’t care if it’s openly and publicly announced. It is a different scenario when you are in a role of leadership and are very well known by the public. That’s just an entirely different reasoning on its own, you have to look good in front of a crowd, or else you wouldn’t be in that role of leadership for long.
And I honestly don’t care about whether or not someone thinks my actions are good or bad. Or the intentions behind the actions are good or bad to be more specific. I know for a fact that what I am doing is in fact what I am doing.
So I would love to know what the author of that book would say to me about what I just said in this reply. I would be happy to listen :)
If people really have a dark intention behind their interests, I would like to say You Need To Grow Up.
If people can’t do that. I would like to say Start Evolving MF.
I dont see the need to tell people I'm so & so & I donated. Because, who cares. Why would anyone want to know? I just do it. People in the public eye usually do it for image & PR , which 90% of us are savvy enough to realise.
Yt update saving the time these days 🗿🗿
Hahaha yes people don't like hearing that at all, I've tried explaining it before 👍
True bro
Why would i not do something that benifits me. 😂
Not everyone wants recognition and benefits from doing a activity bcz some wants to see others happy😊
@@Aban-cm1brthat’s still essentially a selfish desire because if you didn’t feel good after helping others, you wouldn’t want to help them.
Show book cover
He proving the books point
And also most expensive book😅
Cringe when i have to give my money have to give my name to the organization because donations on line has to do with credit card.
Alteristic behavior is always a question , however never tell your self the money you sent to feed children in Ethiopia is based on ego , you may feel better you gave money to feed the children, but your donation was based on the children's need in the first place.
This man works for a dark lord possibly... don't let him keep you from giving money or time.god loves you no matter your religion.
Reflections of the Unseen Self
In the mirror’s gaze, self-deceit hides, Virtue signaled in silent strides. Luxury's whisper, status's song, Laughter bonds, where we belong.
Education's badge, subtly shown, Charity’s sash, gently thrown. Politics, a tribal hue, Care in health, a gesture true.
Art’s voice, a silent scream, Faith, a communal dream. Conversations, a mind’s parade, Body’s truth, in silence laid.
Veiled mirrors, souls entwine, Hidden motives, silently shine.
Amazing
Sir in India every one donate anonymously
If you ask me to spell anonymous for you, it’s Jane Doe.
Last chrismas me and the lads from work went for breakfast and i picked up the bill which was around 70 euro.
My boss started laughing and said that i didnt do it out of niceness but that i did it because i wanted something back.
I felt embarrassed because he was right, i waa thinking if i bought breakfast for all the lads for Christmas they would see me in a good light.
Then when i was home i cleared my mind and thought about what my boss said
I came to the conclusion that every good deed is nothing more than a transaction for something in return.
It could be just to hear someone say thankyou.
It could be a manipulation tactic to plant seeds in a persons head.
It could be for alot of things but one thing its not is for nothing and any person who says they do it for free are lying through there teeth
Or dont have the intelligence to understand
He also using phychology trick and show book in the end lol we catch u. 😂😂😂
The reason for not donating anonymous is that we can teach lessons to our younger generations to do the same... ig
Unless you're super famous it's likely not gonna do all at much. You can teach your child and siblings while being anonymous
Is he saying don't donate to charity? Wait, that just contradicts everything.
Too costly😢😢😢😢😢😢
I say, do good to glorify God only.
“The Left Hand Shouldn’t Know What The Right Is Doing”
Where I can get soft copy
you can check in ocean of pdf
Thank you sir
Who wrote it?
SHOW THE BOOK FOR A BIT LONG TIME
🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸 "The elephant in the brain"
dang that 1 percent of people be like
Obviously.
Bullfrogs have entered the chat
all that shity chit chat blahblah for a slight book glance that was mirrored
Doing good rewards you? What is wrong with humans? Why do you want find reason not to do good?
Hi I wanted you to suggest a book that will help me stand up to my friends, to the people who always put me down , a book that will help me give better and more savage comebacks to other people., A book that will increase my knowledge of human behaviour please please please could anyone help
Author??
In Islam you have to give sharity anonymously
There is a speech of the prophet Muhammed peace be upon him i don't memories it but it means that give (sharity or anything) but your right hand doesnt know what your left hand spent
The meaning is not literally telling you to hide stuff from one hand, the meaning is that you give anonymously, like even your left hand doesnt know what your right gave , wich means keep it beetwen you and almighty God, you only need recognition from God
Are you talking about the rapist suicidal "prophet" ?
@@psyche1988 I don't know what are you talking about
Eh its damned if you do damned if you don't when it comes to things like having a platform and making donations. Lets say you do an event specifically for making donations and then everyone wonders if it was even done in the first place which is normal imo because the internet sucks then a portion of viewers are calling someone out for being "greedy" because of their lack of knowledge x ____'s modesty
U r telling this , to earn money on UA-cam, right? Everyone needs gratification.
It’s more simple than people think, it’s not that complex. Men get so confused over why women date and sleep with bad boys but say they want a nice guy, only to friendzone him? It’s because she wants both qualities in a man. She wants the bad boy who will, over time, warm up to her and treat her like a princess, while also maintaining the bad boy persona. She wants a blend of both, perfectly balanced without leaning too far into one or the other. Depending on her mood, basically. 😂
In a nutshell, women want a *attractive* man with emotional and psychological depth, which usually implies a dark past. He’s gone through some rough shit in his life, it’s made him guarded, aloof and slightly cold. He’s been traumatized, betrayed and lost, but he chose strength and willpower, instead of learned helpless with a victim mentality. He’s adopted the “I don’t give a F” mindset.
She wants to take this man, give him all of herself and love him so deeply that he softens up to her and only her. This is the core of the Disney Prince Charming archetype. Beauty and the Beast is the quintessential bad boy fantasy. A literal beast, completely untamed, wild, has a dark past, a troubled soul, aloof and callous, but warms up to her and fall in love.
There’s a lot of things one can do to create the projected image of being a bad boy, but unless you naturally are, you won’t ever be unless you do Shadow Work. Everyone has a dark side, a primordial evil deep down. You have bring it forth unto your conscious awareness, otherwise you’ll experience your dark side as events in the world, believing it’s misfortune or bad luck. You have to accept your dark side, embrace it and make a pact with it, allowing it to come out in healthy, productive ways.
You can get the tattoos, become aloof and distant, ignore women and refuse to commit, get in shape, act mysterious, drive a motorcycle and wear shades inside. The thing is, you don’t have to be a bad boy to your core, meaning you have the past of a bad boy along with the potential personality dysfunction that’s associated with it(Narcissistic personality). You also can’t actually dress or try to behave like a stereotypical bad boy either, because truly, there’s not really a look. I most certainly don’t have the look, but rest assured, ask any of my exes and they’ll tell you a different story.
The biggest thing you can do is so simple, yet men can’t wrap their minds around it. Don’t be nice and caring and sweet to women simply because she’s a pretty woman. This is objectively fake. It just is and that’s why women despise it. It’s repulsive, because you’re revealing your intentions immediately. Are you this kind and sweet to everyone? Probably not. Do you treat the ugly fat girls that well? Highly unlikely. So why does the pretty girl you like deserve special treatment? What has she even done to earn it? You can’t be nice just because she’s aesthetically pleasing.
The easiest way to work on this is to understand women, first and foremost. Got to be smooth. Which is essentially being good at conversational banter. Using wit and humor to poke fun at women, playing off each others statements in a somewhat flirty way. Banter is key to the kingdom. It’s a laid back attitude, not taking anything seriously.
So… Pick up an improv class or watch more stand up comedy. Practice, practice, practice. If you can’t do improv, that’s fine. Practice like this: Rule of thumb is, treat women the same, across the board. ALL of them. And you do it as I described above. Practice your banter with the ugly ones, the fat ones, the older ladies, the middle aged ladies, all of them. Once you get good at it, you’ll be comfortable to do the same with the hot ones.
If you donate to charity, you receive a sizable tax return for it, especially if you’re wealthy. People who publicly do things to “change the world” or “help those in need”, are doing so as a means to boost their morale, and essentially shut people up if they’re ever criticized,
“Ohhh! So, I’m rich, greedy and corrupt? Righhht! Okay… How much did you donate to charity this year, again? I forgot… Oh, you haven’t! Well. I donated 1.5 million in the past month… I’m so evil aren’t I?”
Exactly like George Soros, many people take up for him and rebuke any and all criticism concerning way he got rich, how he bankrupted a whole ass country, how he’s the largest investor into the Democratic Party, fueling this Woke narrative for decades, essentially having power to place a president into office, and criticizing what his intentions are with the Open Society Foundation.
Many, many people defend him solely because he’s a philanthropist, who gave his whole fortune away. 😂 Which is utter nonsense. He’s a billionaire, worth 8B, to be exact; at least his worth in taxable money… He’s not giving his money away, or giving money to non profit organizations, he’s LAUNDERING his money through these organizations. People are so naive. Fan boys of Musk do the same shit.
lol i seeen this comment whne i was at end of the video
Bro need donation
The actions of which you are speaking (altruism with ulterior motives) is related to what is known as communal narcissism.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a worldwide epidermic, a generational curse, and has been made exponentially worse with the digital age and social media addiction.
Now you can begin to see through the “generous” actions of so many “influential figures” such as Bill & Melinda Gates, and even Mr. Beast.
💜✌🏻
so .. donation , recognition & fame r bad , selfish & dark 🤨🤨 what
Communal Narcissistic
i donate and nobody knows, i do it for the sake of Allah i don't care about people
Now we know
Voice 😢
Dikhaya bhi to ulta... ❤de
Sorry, I skipped to the end because I already understand that your human nature is to manipulatively waste our time. :-)
My husband and his girlfriend are gonna kill me and no one will listen
If this is where you go for help, its probably for the best
Dude your cute
I hate psychology.
Is this not common sense???
Depends on what you mean by "this"
On the day of judgement, there will be no shade except the shade of Allah. Those who give charity in secret that his left hand does not even know what his right hand has given are so beloved by Allah that Allah will shade them by His Shade, among seven other people.
Bad take let people be nice and stop trying to make nice people look bad
You need to work on your diction