STORY OF OUR FIRST DATE (i ghosted her)

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  • @greggray6602
    @greggray6602 3 роки тому +228

    You guys always say how you can’t believe how many people follow you. But I think this video shows why. You guys are genuine and honest. And it’s obvious how happy you are.

  • @MoreThanJustSkinDeep
    @MoreThanJustSkinDeep 3 роки тому +164

    Julia should seriously never think she was ugly! She’s not just “not ugly”-both of you ladies are stunningly beautiful

    • @BrownieCountess
      @BrownieCountess 3 роки тому +3

      That is so true! Both are so gorgeous

    • @simonedulcie3853
      @simonedulcie3853 2 роки тому

      I agree! beautiful!...plus, you shouldn’t talk about yourself that way!- you should just stop saying that! ❤

    • @tmilian46
      @tmilian46 2 роки тому

      Honestly I watch to see Julia 🤭

  • @skye9384
    @skye9384 3 роки тому +148

    julia u were never ugly u were always so pretty and your hair was definitely cool😂

  • @juliafaye8764
    @juliafaye8764 3 роки тому +87

    Can you PLEASE do a relationship advice video. Like how do you keep the “spark” alive after having a baby and how you learned to communicate with each other etc. I look up to your relationship!

  • @aaronm4210
    @aaronm4210 3 роки тому +67

    I was thinking about why I and others enjoy watching relationship channels, and I think it boils down to the fact that despite life and relationship difficulties, there are people like these two here who can live happy lives and keep moving forward. It's a joy and a privilege to be allowed on your journey!

  • @racheledwards4884
    @racheledwards4884 3 роки тому +42

    Harbor is such an amazing and chill baby!! He loves his mamas to bits and is so happy. It's apparent.💕you should have brought him mittens. But stuff happens. Just throw an extra jacket and mittens in the car and/or in the diaper bag and you're all set...also I always had paper towels with me. I always needed one for something or another.

  • @trees____383
    @trees____383 3 роки тому +15

    i was actually smiling throughout the whole video. you guys are so cute together and i’m very grateful that you’re letting us have these tiny peaks into your lives 💕

  • @miahatt8565
    @miahatt8565 3 роки тому +29

    Your relationship is so cute. Like your love for each other just makes my heart swell. Happy holidays ❤️

  • @hreto
    @hreto 3 роки тому +2

    0:59 can't get over that cute lil baby gibberish which almost sounds like a "yeah"

  • @laurawalker9968
    @laurawalker9968 3 роки тому +7

    I love all these old stories! You should do one with lots of pictures throughout. So good

  • @shrutiravivarman
    @shrutiravivarman 3 роки тому +17

    it crazy i remember you telling the story the first time I cant believe I have been watching for over a year love y'alll

    • @carlavitoria9216
      @carlavitoria9216 3 роки тому +2

      abbie julia namorada namoro com a gente se encontra em um lugar e o bolo de Páscoa para o dia das mães para você ver se a mãe quiser eu

    • @carlavitoria9216
      @carlavitoria9216 3 роки тому +1

      abbie julia namorada namoro com a gente se encontra em casa e o que a pessoa vai ficar bem com você ver a sua família que eu tenho e a sua vida

    • @carlavitoria9216
      @carlavitoria9216 3 роки тому +2

      abbie julia namorada namoro com a gente se encontra no shopping ainda o dia das mães e o bolo de Páscoa para o dia das mães e o que

    • @carlavitoria9216
      @carlavitoria9216 3 роки тому +1

      abbie julia namorada namoro com a gente se encontra no shopping ainda o dia das mães e o bolo de Páscoa para o dia das mães e o bolo de Páscoa para o família

  • @rosawhalley1002
    @rosawhalley1002 3 роки тому +18

    I am isolating for covid and am feeling really sick. It this just make my day so much better!

  • @moneysports1793
    @moneysports1793 3 роки тому +7

    Harbor is such a little gentleman. Sooo cute ❤️🙏🇦🇺🌈 Julia is the most stunning woman. She is beautiful. So natural.

  • @youreviewer
    @youreviewer 3 роки тому

    Julia, you are so not ugly. You are the biggest reason I watch your channel. Your smile is gorgeous and endearing beyond understanding. Abby is not alone in finding you beautiful!

  • @vernabonstein7199
    @vernabonstein7199 3 роки тому +8

    Harbor is so cute. He loves the camera He knows were it is he looks right at it. He has to loving mommy that love him and the way he looks at you he loves you to. He is lucky to have great mommys. Take care.

  • @vianneyplayz3615
    @vianneyplayz3615 3 роки тому +101

    At the end :
    Julia: showing her rip
    Abbie: don't show the internet my private property
    Me : 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @WendyLou72
    @WendyLou72 3 роки тому +26

    I met my husband on a blind date thru mutual friends, and it’s 30 years later, it was love at first site💕💕💕

  • @eriningram2792
    @eriningram2792 3 роки тому +11

    You two are GREAT, don’t ever let the haters get you down! ❤️

  • @dannisanchezgarfio9388
    @dannisanchezgarfio9388 3 роки тому +1

    Julia you were never ugly and you're not ugly. I do the same thing though... I've always thought I'm ugly and scored big with myfiancée Abbie. You two make the cutest couple!

  • @emilyb7730
    @emilyb7730 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you for your video! 💜 I had ghosted my husband too. We went on a date and then I didn't talk to him for 3 weeks. We've been together for 20 years in February and married for 18. We have 5 handsome boys! 💜

  • @theliteraryspinster
    @theliteraryspinster 3 роки тому +7

    You guys are so cute! I’d love to hear even more stories from your pre-UA-cam days, if you’d be up for sharing with us! ♥️

  • @gabiimg333
    @gabiimg333 3 роки тому +5

    Y’all’s videos always have me beaming from ear to ear! Love watching you guys! And Harbor is literally the cutest baby 💙😊😂

  • @PauliBelle
    @PauliBelle 3 роки тому +18

    I don't get over the image Julia has of herself. Such a beautiful girl who deserves everything she's got ❤️ Please, stop talking like that on the internet. I fear the effect that it has on the self esteem of younger girls! (mean this in the nicest way)

  • @Abi_wabbey
    @Abi_wabbey 3 роки тому +20

    i have a question, how did you guys come out to your family's, and how'd they react?

  • @leslieholland7843
    @leslieholland7843 3 роки тому +11

    Think Julia is lovely, so good looking - it's the cheekbones, and dark hair. My late huband was Native American (cheekbones!), with dark hair. Just a huge personal preference! Abbie is pretty, too. I think you mach so well!

  • @joreenfajardo21
    @joreenfajardo21 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for always sharing your story with us!!! You guys are so inspiring 💖

  • @maggies7520
    @maggies7520 3 роки тому +22

    Lmao I forgot it was a museum not an aquarium so I got very concerned about why the ray was that still for so long

  • @ernaj6073
    @ernaj6073 3 роки тому +13

    Best couple in the world 😍❤❤
    You are so lucky to have each other 🥰

  • @AshleysObsession
    @AshleysObsession 3 роки тому +2

    Ive been watching you guys since you were pregnant with harbour, and i
    JUST realized that i was not subscribed 😫 i think ive seen almost all videos you have posted so at least youtube kept that algorithm up for me to see.
    Ive subbed now

  • @jackvandersluis1723
    @jackvandersluis1723 3 роки тому +2

    Wow, girls what a cute/romantic story! Julia you are not ugly! You 2 belong to each other, now with Harbor even more! 💥😊😝

  • @sitisyufur_epho1734
    @sitisyufur_epho1734 3 роки тому +1

    Guys!!please love each other forever!!!!!

  • @kirti3025
    @kirti3025 3 роки тому +4

    Oooh excited to watchhh

  • @JulesPfaar
    @JulesPfaar 3 роки тому

    The two of you seem so connected. This chemistry is definitely not something you can fake. I love watching your videos and am always excited for the next! I am so happy for the two of you. Even with little misunderstandings, you still ended up together. The world would have really missed out if the two of you wouldn’t have gotten together! ❤️

  • @dead_frog6786
    @dead_frog6786 3 роки тому +3

    YAY! My mood just skyrocketed

  • @mirrorball_12
    @mirrorball_12 3 роки тому +2

    THIS FAMILY MAKES ME SO GIDDY

  • @ashleymora832
    @ashleymora832 3 роки тому +4

    AWESOME STORY! :D Harbor is so adorable as always and I hope and pray that u all had an amazing Thanksgiving! Take care and God bless!

  • @nairbvel
    @nairbvel 3 роки тому +5

    It's always fun to watch the two of you interact, kid around, and just basically enjoy being with each other -- just goes to show how awkward beginnings can lead to some really wonderful things! (Also, I have to say this... as a typical cis hetero guy, *neither* of you is "ugly," so stop putting yourself down, Julia, 'K?)

  • @emmaward174
    @emmaward174 3 роки тому

    Okay but can we talk about how good Julia's hair looks now? I'm so envious!

  • @Amsims
    @Amsims 3 роки тому +2

    You guys are both cute!! But Harbor is the cutest!!! 😊

  • @stacyl3695
    @stacyl3695 3 роки тому

    Your relationship is so refreshing, genuine, and loving. You're both beautiful ladies. Harbor is such a handsome little man. He sees how loving his Mamas are and does his best to emulate. I'm impatiently waiting for y'all to decide/announce when Julia is pregnant, or y'all are making the attempt. 😊😉 Happy Holidays. (too early for me to say Merry....)

  • @Mellovesdeep25
    @Mellovesdeep25 3 роки тому

    Okay Julia better never say shes ugly again. You both are beautiful and I loved this story. Nothing but love for you three ❤️

  • @sophiehanson1879
    @sophiehanson1879 3 роки тому

    I’m obsessed with that picture of your hair

  • @jilleastman-foss248
    @jilleastman-foss248 3 роки тому +1

    Julia, you are beautiful!! Don't say you are ugly. It is just not true! And I am a straight female - married to a man. But I love watching your videos. You two seem so sweet! And Harbor is adorable! Abbie reminds me of my cousin. Looks, mannerisms, sense of humor. Anyway - keep up the good work, Ladies!! ❤

  • @dorizjan3200
    @dorizjan3200 3 роки тому

    its been 3 years,, i still love these people..

  • @swsmuggy619
    @swsmuggy619 3 роки тому +1

    How to have a well-behaved baby like Harbor? he’s such a sweet baby.

  • @laurbelle
    @laurbelle 3 роки тому +2

    Julia is so beautiful, she is just gorgeous💗💗💗

  • @yelenamontoyarodriguez1717
    @yelenamontoyarodriguez1717 3 роки тому +1

    Every time Julia says she´s ugly:
    Me: She´s stunning, what does it feel to be fricking blind!? She´s seriously sooo beautiful!

  • @Grace9Barr
    @Grace9Barr 3 роки тому

    U guys helped find my true self. And you helped find my beautiful girlfriend Thank you Abby and Julia love you so much!

  • @AnoukvBuuren1998
    @AnoukvBuuren1998 3 роки тому +6

    The money story is actually so funny to me. In Dutch the bank and the couch are both called a bank. So you quite literally put your money on the bank

  • @jennagidman-duttam.a.9108
    @jennagidman-duttam.a.9108 3 роки тому +2

    JULIA!!!! You are beautiful inside and out!!!!! Abbie is lucky!!!

  • @MadisunArt
    @MadisunArt 3 роки тому +1

    Loving the hair Julia

  • @yankeerose258
    @yankeerose258 3 роки тому +1

    I love watching you guys you guys are so sweet to each other you can really see the love I'm glad you found each other you two are so funny to watch I'm glad I found this channel good luck in your endeavors

  • @tarahamilton4881
    @tarahamilton4881 3 роки тому +3

    I remember the first time y’all told this story!

  • @sharonadhiambo5994
    @sharonadhiambo5994 3 роки тому +2

    I love you guys,I can't wait to hear harbor speaking words which we can hear clearly 😂💞❤️❤️💖

  • @catedavies4102
    @catedavies4102 3 роки тому

    I just love watching just how much you love & respect each other…

  • @erictaylor5462
    @erictaylor5462 3 роки тому

    10:00 I was going on a first date once and the girl was late. In fact we texted when I got to her meeting spot and she said she would be there in 5 minutes. But she never showed up and never responded to another text.
    I finally went home disappointed and saw there had been a fatal car accident. It was the woman I had a date with her. She literally ghosted me, though I don't think she meant to.

  • @Youllbejsstfine
    @Youllbejsstfine 3 роки тому

    I ALWAYS get so happy whenever I watch your videos 🥰 and also harbour is so adorable and you guys are my fav couple ever !!

  • @rajkhatri8135
    @rajkhatri8135 Рік тому

    Julia - you are beautiful 😍…. Don’t be so hard on yourself.
    You’re both stunning & you make a gorgeous couple 💕🌈❤️

  • @phoebehmtan
    @phoebehmtan 3 роки тому +3

    I swear i heard habour saying "yeah i love.." after julia asked if he would love that at 0:58. How is this boy so big now!!!!❤❤❤

  • @aniketkarmkar8682
    @aniketkarmkar8682 3 роки тому

    Great to know this part of your lives at this stage of your relationship

  • @emceenanai2463
    @emceenanai2463 3 роки тому +4

    My favorite family ☺️☺️😘😘

  • @jean-lucliens4915
    @jean-lucliens4915 3 роки тому +8

    Abbi scared of the goat but not from the big shark.... lol
    In a few years he'll love this...
    you know I'm not the guy who likes every video I watch but this is so cute

  • @Bi_4_you
    @Bi_4_you 3 роки тому +2

    Can’t wait to watch 😝

  • @guefaifiasara7058
    @guefaifiasara7058 3 роки тому +3

    I love both of you 💕😩

  • @kristalvanhouten1228
    @kristalvanhouten1228 3 роки тому

    You guys are such a beautiful family. Harbor is such a handsome little guy. I love watching your vlogs. Not many lesbians couples are as mature and in love like you 2. Your wedding video was BEAUTIFUL!!! 🤍👰👰 Stay safe and healthy you guys. ❤️

  • @autumshitrockbottom
    @autumshitrockbottom 3 роки тому +2

    I love you both so much!

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 3 роки тому

    Harbor is looking so cute and the petting zoo was just so great, and enjoyed your story and love your channel and enjoy your videos a lot and thank you so much for a great video

  • @JG16riffin
    @JG16riffin 3 роки тому +1

    If people ghost me for weeks like that and then message me out the blue, I feel like I'm just an option to them or they're being really random, disrespectful and weird. I find it hard to push myself onto people like that.
    I mean all these stories about couples getting together after having to jump hoops for each other... If I try to convince someone to go out with me, they run away even more!!
    Like I get told by girls these days that they "don't feel a connection" even after they said I made a good impression on them 😕 I feel so much connection and all people do is throw it back in my face, so at this stage I'm just kinda thinking I shouldn't try too hard and girls either like me enough right away or they don't....
    I'm the sort of person who just knows instantly if I like someone from seeing photographs or if we have lots of things in common, so it baffles me that nearly every girl I talk to doesn't just know intuitively. I must be the most open minded, intuitive girl alive!
    Also, I take ghosting very seriously, because most of the time once people start ghosting me that means they're not gonna come back ever so I never go around hoping or believing that they'll return. Most people who ghost me are stubborn AF.
    I also feel like if I come on top deep with people, that scares them away, so I'm always waiting for the other person to show they care first before I'm open like that.
    I'm trying to take care I don't double text too much but the fact is if double texting bothers people that much then they're not relationship material. Sometimes I get quite passionate and excited about what I'm saying and it's such a stupid, petty thing to judge someone on.

  • @kevinsutherland3297
    @kevinsutherland3297 3 роки тому

    He certainly isn’t shy of the camera great vlog I really enjoy your vlogs

  • @jess1434
    @jess1434 3 роки тому

    you guys are really #goals ❤️❤️❤️ ..I've watched so many videos of couples like you , but you are the most sincere and authentic.
    I wish I get to do this with my partner -- talking/communicating. Ughhhh!!
    I hope one day. anyways, harbor is getting bigger and bigger now.. the cutest baby on earth, awww!❤️❤️❤️

  • @makalynstidham5439
    @makalynstidham5439 3 роки тому +1

    Love yall

  • @brendapeyman9302
    @brendapeyman9302 3 роки тому +1

    Where did you get your shirt Abby????

  • @anacarrillo4190
    @anacarrillo4190 3 роки тому

    Y’all are the cutest!!!

  • @mahila5129
    @mahila5129 3 роки тому +2

    You two are so cute! 😍

  • @WendyLou72
    @WendyLou72 3 роки тому +2

    You guys are just so cute

  • @renamariedali
    @renamariedali 3 роки тому

    you guys really are the cutest 😍💕

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 3 роки тому +2

    Your such a beautiful couple and Harbor is adorable 😍 💕

  • @MollyJessicaAnn
    @MollyJessicaAnn 3 роки тому

    This made me sad - Julia is beautiful! You both are! 😭

  • @fatmaezzahra5239
    @fatmaezzahra5239 3 роки тому +1

    Juliaa you re soooo pretty funny and smart ! Keep shining girl !!!

  • @mukkuramya6253
    @mukkuramya6253 3 роки тому +3

    U guys are in love. And the fact that you guys had indian food for ur first date makes me feel really glad me being an indian. Can u guys plz tell how did u like the food? I know I sound like someone asking for review 😂 but plz give me a reply I would really be happy 😁

  • @lollymae3079
    @lollymae3079 3 роки тому

    harbor trying to share his paci with the dinosaurs 😭 be still my heart!

  • @itsashleyfellows3226
    @itsashleyfellows3226 3 роки тому +2

    Hey I love you guys btw my post notifications are turned on and subscribed

  • @comradeleppi2000
    @comradeleppi2000 3 роки тому +2

    When you said about Indian food. I was happy. I am from India . Really love you guys a lot, I feel like you are my long lost sister's.

  • @abril6328
    @abril6328 3 роки тому +3

    I love you guysss

  • @giuseppestridi705
    @giuseppestridi705 3 роки тому +2

    I Love Abbie & Julia❤️

  • @bautistamarjorier.5348
    @bautistamarjorier.5348 3 роки тому +2

    Loveyouuuuuu guysssss♥️😍

  • @lizlakh5059
    @lizlakh5059 3 роки тому +1

    Julia looks like harbour 😍😍🥰🥰💖💖

  • @emilyfox-wallace2438
    @emilyfox-wallace2438 3 роки тому +1

    On Julia’s earlier Instagram posts I saw Abbie had dreads and was just wondering what made you decide to do that? And why’d you change it?(:

  • @jessievelthuis7049
    @jessievelthuis7049 3 роки тому +1

    For a second in the beginning I thought you said "Me and Julia were talking about how we like meth" and it has been a great start of my day.

  • @cashewthecashew2713
    @cashewthecashew2713 3 роки тому

    Watching this while trying to get over my 5 month crush

  • @sophiehanson1879
    @sophiehanson1879 3 роки тому

    Awwwwe look at his beautiful smiley 😃 face awwwwe

  • @wiggihaze
    @wiggihaze 3 роки тому +1

    I’m a married woman and I use tinder to see who in my town is on there. I don’t talk to anyone or even keep it open for long enough to be seen. Just a random stalker. 🤣😂

  • @wendyfilice7101
    @wendyfilice7101 3 роки тому +1

    Your not ugly. I think your both very good looking. 😀

  • @mrswinkleman
    @mrswinkleman 3 роки тому

    I have two Horray hero’s books and they’re amazing!! 🥰🥰

  • @jinx1724
    @jinx1724 3 роки тому

    Đáng yêu quá.chúc gia đình nhỏ. nhiều sức khỏe .và hạnh phúc 2 bạn 😘😘 nhé

  • @carolineenglish7273
    @carolineenglish7273 3 роки тому +2

    I Love u guys❤️❤️❤️

  • @Weltfrieden_5
    @Weltfrieden_5 3 роки тому +1

    If I remember correctly, the first time you did a How We Met video the channel was just Abbie's channel

  • @delseylove2615
    @delseylove2615 3 роки тому +1

    Wait where did you order the book from?? My kids would love something like that for xmas. I'm in Canada do the deliver down here?

  • @dunjapanic8532
    @dunjapanic8532 3 роки тому +2

    Two lucky mamas❤️

  • @michelledesjadon1476
    @michelledesjadon1476 2 роки тому

    Julia..why in the world would you say your ugly? You are actually beautiful, especially when you smile.😁💖💖✌