that was so scary, i think he really did just swallow it wrong and like choked on some saliva, but u both handled it so well ur such good mamas, im glad he’s ok
It reminded me of how sugar makes my asthma act up. I don’t know if you could get him checked for asthma but sugar can trigger it sometimes. And basically the muscles in your throat contract closed and make it hard to breathe. A drink of water usually makes it stop. I was like freaking out,” get him a drink!” I sure hope he just swallowed wrong tho
@@chouser19 very true but not mushy paste material. It’s almost like cheese does when it gets stuck. It just kind of stays there but since he was coughing there was air getting through so some water could help wash it down
We had a similar scare with our 11 month old. He actually choked on a coin though that one of our bigger kids dropped on the floor. I had to flip him upside down and tilt his head to the floor and practically beat his back to get it out. He was choking for maybe 45 seconds but it felt like an eternity. It's such a scary thing to happen. You guys handled it well I think and I definitely don't think you were being dramatic or over reacting. You reacted appropriately. Glad he is ok!!!
Just learnt recently that when you get pregnant the fear centre of your brain grows in size and stays that way after birth! This info really helped me normalise my own anxiety. It's always scary when you're giving them new foods/when they seem like they are choking. You guys handled it great.
Having a baby is very scary, but you have to let him try new things and, have faith that it will all be ok. Try not to freak out or he will too. You guys are great parents. Harbor is one very blessed little boy!
You were not being over dramatic, you were concerned parents, that’s what we do.. My son is 27 and I still over worry..I love your bathroom, great job, you ladies have serious skills.. Enjoy each and everyday with your lil family, what a blessing 💕
I know that was probably scary, but he wasn't choking! He was gagging on his spit mixed with the frosting! I would highly suggest taking a CPR class, a lot of places offer them! Just as a reminder, a rhyme they taught us was 'Loud and red (which he was) they're not dead, silent and blue they need help from you!'. Patting their backs or reaching in their mouths can actually cause the gagging (which is the bodies natural way of preventing choking and working things up) to escalate into choking! Definitely not dramatic!
Never over reacting when it comes to your child’s safety. My daughter had choking problems when first born she’s 3 now and to this day I still watch and worry with every off sound. Abby’s face once he started making an off sound true love of a parent hard part about parenting is the worry that comes with all the wonders. Love you both! When I watch y’all my daughter loves saying Harbor!!
Your bathroom is so cute! It's crazy how a room can change so much without crazy renovations. Also, I wouldn't recommend you to keep a medicine cabinet in your bathroom. I've seen that's pretty common in the US but the humidity and heat that it's constantly on bathrooms isn't good for medicine. It can shorten the shelf life of many products. Hope this helps 🥰 Extra: In my country (and most LATAM) we are used to keep our medicine on top cabinets in the kitchen, I find it kinda weird to put medicine in the bathroom area since it's easier for children to find
absolutely not overreacting. he was trying a new food, so him coincidentally choking a little on swallowing it wrong lines up with, "oh god, we did not prepare for if he had an allergy". if that happened with my best friend's baby brother, i'd be scared too. a lot of people are suggesting learning baby cpr, which i didn't know was a thing, but that sounds genius
That defiently wasn't over reacting, it was really good you both were there you could tell Abbey when into shock to so luckily Julia was able to quickly snap out of it, as parents we all have scares like this and sometimes it can be worse but kids are extremely scary at times haha 💕
That was so scary I felt my heart stop for a second when I saw his face turn red. She most likely swallowed it wrong and choked on it for his saliva. You guys did the right think takeing him out of the chair to. Good job guys 🥰 glad he is okay
My kiddos when they had sugar get a lot of saliva that’s thick and they choke on that. Look into getting CPR training. It really helps in those scary moments. You guys did great though!
You girls were definitely NOT being dramatic. That was scary to watch. I'm the second oldest in my family and have three younger sisters. When ever I see one of them choking/having an alerget reaction it is a really panicking situation. Love watching your family's channel it's really calming when I have ruff days . Thank you for beingyou and for not being afraid to share that with the world, Thank you ❤
With the cookies you could always go the kids painting route. Put the cookies with blobs of icing on it in a zip lock bag and let him squish it around. Works great for art projects for kiddies and pets. So glad he’s okay! Definitely looked like a new texture that got a bit stuck on the way down 💕
Your going to have a lot more heart stopping moments being parents, so glad he was OK. There is no such thing as. Being over dramatic when it comes to children it's so much better to be cautious than not being better to be safe than sorry
I got nervous too, but he wasn’t breathing well because he swallowed it wrong. I was just waiting anxiously for him to breathe again. I’m very glad he is okay!! I love your bathroom! I’ve been wanting to do the two draped back shower curtain thing for a while now too!! Such a cute little space😊
You ladies handled it great! Abby you were so concerned about giving him the cookie in the first place and way to jump into action Julia! 💜 some good mommas.
you guys handled that very well! you definitely didn’t overreact, any sort of choking is terrifying to begin with but especially when it’s your baby! also as a side note i don’t know too much about bettas but perhaps a larger home will make it feel less territorial with the snails? maybe something to research! love that y’all kept calling it a tank and then you cut to a bowl lol
i think your reaction was totally valid!! as a viewer, i thought he was probably fine since he was coughing and that means he can breathe. im sorry that happened tho!! so scary :( hope you guys had a great christmas!
I love fish! I have had Betta fish for a long time. As for the snail problem I’ve gone through it. But what I did is added small stones and rocks (like the ones that are polished from souvenir stores). I added those at the same time I added a snail, and my fish never had a problem after that.
I have snails and danios and glow danios living with my betta. Since they are schooling fish, you can get a few in a smaller tank since they like to like in groups. And then the betta leaves them alone
One thing i know that can possibly help the pain for harbor teething is having him hold a frozen waffle in his mouth. Plus the built-in drool cups on the waffle are good. hope it works
You could half the fish tank with like plants or something one side for the snails and one for the other fishes idk if it will work but you could try it
A nice decorating style for the bathroom. You handled Harbor's eating challenge very well. Raising a baby doesn't go easy all the time, but you handled it well and all is good. Proceed on and have more fun as a lovely family. You are very good parents.
I also don't think u 2 where not exaggerating u are parents I'm so happy that u 2 are in my life because everything in my life is going down hill and u 3 are always making me smile thank u 3 x
When I was in school for medical assistant we learned CPR. Having the CPR knowledge made me feel prepared and gave me the feeling of " I know what to do". I reccomend CPR classes this helps a lot even if the choking only happens once, I felt safe knowing that I knew what I could do to help out and help others as well. In CPR there are many other signs that you will learn how to recognize in order to know which action to make. I'm not sure if the CPR advice was already given, the thing I learned best is "knowledge is everything".
It's better to jump into action all paranoid than be too relaxed!!!! Happy Harbor was okay. I wonder if it also could have been that weird, almost burning sensation excessively sweet things can give you in your throat?? I've had that a handful of times and it takes my breath away and I have to keep swallowing to get it to go away. Maybe he was experiencing that? As for your bathroom tile, what about those small hexagon tiles in white? Sometimes people also add in black too. I think that would be super cute!
As someone who works at Petsmart, the situation will most likely be fine. The snails are new to the Betta so he has to get used to them. I’d recommend having at least 5 gallons for bettas, they do like to swim.
Always remember if they are still coughing and gagging and making noise they are not choking they are gagging or coughing which happens a lot when learning to eat..
I looove how the split curtains in the bathroom!!! It’s so beautiful how the light gets let in! Does it actually block the water though? I’m wondering how it’s functional
you are amazing parents♥ you're not dramatic , you are caring... it's ok to worry for your baby. im so glad he's and you're okay !! love you guys ,take care ♥♥
It is absolutely understandable to worry about stuff like that, my son ended up being allergic to red dye in a similar incident. Never be too careful, it's only because we love em!
You’ll need a bigger tank setup if you want your betta to coexist with the snails. Otherwise he’ll keep pecking at them. I’ve got a ten gal tank with a snail, male betta and a loach all have been doing well and leave each other alone 👍 good luck 🍀
Bathroom looks great really great and I’m so glad everything is okay and did really a good job stayed calm but he most probably went down his throat the wrong way. Enjoyed this video a lot and thank you for being great mum’s
It depends on the beta personality I have 2 betas. one beta is housed with neon tetras and apple snails in one tank but I have another beta that kills everything so he lives alone if you neon tetras in with your snails would make a neat tank
I used to have a fish tank with just snails. I put some moss balls in there which are live moss plants and it was just such a vibe. The asthetic was really cool. So i dont think that would be wierd. Or they do make those tanks with a divider. So its still technically one tank but you can divide it so the fish is on one side and the snails are on the other.
Hi girls and Harbor! I see he scared you to death! This time is just the first of many! I don't know if this helps but remember if he is coughing he is breathing, and that's a very good thing. If he is grabbing at his throat and his lips are turning blue, he isn't breathing and that's bad obviously bad! I'm sure you have read up on child and infant CPR. It is helped my anxiety a lot when a woman told me this while my son was choking. Both of you are wonderful mother's. Harbor is a very lucky baby to have two amazing moms. Thank you for sharing this video!
Some live plants in the tank would be a great idea. Also the filter current looks quite strong which blows beta fish around, generally there top swimmers. Good luck
I love how the attention immediately turned to harbor and although there recording for us there kids is there first priority you guys are doing so great love you guys ❤❤❤
i think maybe since the frosting is so thick and he hasnt had it before he swallowed it weird and it got stuck. maybe in the future try to water down the frosting a little? im so glad hes okay, yall handled it so well i wouldve freaked out.
Hello!! Although I don’t currently own any snails, I’ve been owning bettas for 8 or so years now, and I have a few suggestions. One thing you could do, if you do get a separate tank for the snails, is add some bright and vibrant freshwater shrimp into the tank (If you don’t want them to reproduce, then you can buy amano shrimp). They look really cool, mainly feed off algae growing within the tank, and you can actually see through the amano shrimp. You could also buy a bigger tank in hopes that the extra space could give them more room to separate, decreasing the aggression. However, I do not suggest putting any shrimp with bettas, because from experience, the bettas are aggressive towards the shrimp. (I even have a female, and she’s always trying to find them. She’ll dig through the moss I have at the bottom of my tank to try and find them.) In other words, it’s really up to you. Just be cautious with what you add!!
Your bathroom looks great GOOD JOB First time moms always overreact because it is all new experiences you are dealing with now Never mind what other people will think You two are concern great moms who only want to keep their child safe from harm.
My kids choking was always one of the scariest things for me!!! My daughter did that baby led eating with her girls, and it freaked me out so much, lol! You both handled it like pros!
Yall did fine your were calm and handled it immediately. He probably just choked on his saliva, or went down wrong.I've worked with kids and have been trained,I would recommend parents,grandparents, or whoever is watching kids to be trained in first aid,adult,infant and child c.p.r.,and medicine administration.It's always good just know in case of emergency.
This was so scary to see but very good to see everything was going ok with harbor. Your both is very good mommy's to harbor. Everyone can do a mistake. I wish you all the best in Christmas time see you soon again in the next vlog.
I'm glad Harbor was OK. You guys did the right thing. My niece had to be taken by ambulance to the hospital on Boxing Day and they said the same thing - we did the right thing by calling them. You can never be too cautious with a baby because they can't communicate to tell you what they need or what's wrong. Glad Harbor's OK. My niece was too.
that was so scary, i think he really did just swallow it wrong and like choked on some saliva, but u both handled it so well ur such good mamas, im glad he’s ok
I know! They are amazing mamas 😍
It reminded me of how sugar makes my asthma act up. I don’t know if you could get him checked for asthma but sugar can trigger it sometimes. And basically the muscles in your throat contract closed and make it hard to breathe. A drink of water usually makes it stop. I was like freaking out,” get him a drink!” I sure hope he just swallowed wrong tho
@@myamazinglife4389 hlhviyvo
Spoiler;-;
ikr 😞
I would recommend taking an Infant/child CPR class. Knowing what to look for and how to react will give you some peace of mind.
Agreed. If the child is upright and you pat their back, it can knock whatever they are choking on further down their windpipe.
@@chouser19 very true but not mushy paste material. It’s almost like cheese does when it gets stuck. It just kind of stays there but since he was coughing there was air getting through so some water could help wash it down
@Jessica Simpson I agree, probably should cover this in antenatal classes.at least give 1st time parents a leaflet when you go for a scan.
I think they did it’s in one of there vids
We had a similar scare with our 11 month old. He actually choked on a coin though that one of our bigger kids dropped on the floor. I had to flip him upside down and tilt his head to the floor and practically beat his back to get it out. He was choking for maybe 45 seconds but it felt like an eternity. It's such a scary thing to happen.
You guys handled it well I think and I definitely don't think you were being dramatic or over reacting. You reacted appropriately. Glad he is ok!!!
abbie julia namorar vídeo Harbor 18 👦😍💋♥️💖💌❤️🥰🌈😘🤩💕❣️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
So glad everything is ok! Can’t imagine how scary that must’ve been.
abbie julia namorar vídeo Harbor 18 👦🌈😘💕❣️😍💋♥️💖💌🥰❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
abbie julia namorar vídeo Harbor 18 👦💋♥️💖💌🥰🤩🌈😘💕❣️😍❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
abbie julia namorar Harbor 18 👦❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 vídeos 0:50 0:50 vídeos julia 🔪 coxa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋👍👍👍👍
abbie julia namorar Harbor 18 👦❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 vídeos 0:50 0:50 vídeos julia 🔪 coxa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 2023
My baby is the same age as Harbor… I would have freaked out a lot more lol so you two actually handled that like champs
Just learnt recently that when you get pregnant the fear centre of your brain grows in size and stays that way after birth! This info really helped me normalise my own anxiety. It's always scary when you're giving them new foods/when they seem like they are choking. You guys handled it great.
Having a baby is very scary, but you have to let him try new things and, have faith that it will all be ok. Try not to freak out or he will too. You guys are great parents. Harbor is one very blessed little boy!
Omg Harbor is growing so much. So cute!
You were not being over dramatic, you were concerned parents, that’s what we do.. My son is 27 and I still over worry..I love your bathroom, great job, you ladies have serious skills.. Enjoy each and everyday with your lil family, what a blessing 💕
I freaked out. 😬 You were not dramatic at all.You are great!
I know that was probably scary, but he wasn't choking! He was gagging on his spit mixed with the frosting!
I would highly suggest taking a CPR class, a lot of places offer them!
Just as a reminder, a rhyme they taught us was 'Loud and red (which he was) they're not dead, silent and blue they need help from you!'.
Patting their backs or reaching in their mouths can actually cause the gagging (which is the bodies natural way of preventing choking and working things up) to escalate into choking!
Definitely not dramatic!
omg that rhyme is terrifying
It’s scary when it happens, but he was 100% like “hey what are you doing, I want more frosting “ 😂
Not so worry.. everything is gonna be alright..
Never over reacting when it comes to your child’s safety. My daughter had choking problems when first born she’s 3 now and to this day I still watch and worry with every off sound. Abby’s face once he started making an off sound true love of a parent hard part about parenting is the worry that comes with all the wonders. Love you both! When I watch y’all my daughter loves saying Harbor!!
It always scares me so bad when that happens with my kids! You guys handled it so well!
Quick thinking guys - handled it like champs. Couldn't imagine how scary that must've been!
I've had a child start to chock your not over reacting it's a really scary thing to happen. I'm glad Harbor is okay ❤
Glad little dude is okay. He has awesome moms
I'm so sorry that happened,that was scary for me,i can't even imagine how bad it just have been for you guys. glad harbor is ok tho.
Omg that must of been so scary i hope her ok you guys are the best parents ive ever seen
Your bathroom is so cute! It's crazy how a room can change so much without crazy renovations. Also, I wouldn't recommend you to keep a medicine cabinet in your bathroom. I've seen that's pretty common in the US but the humidity and heat that it's constantly on bathrooms isn't good for medicine. It can shorten the shelf life of many products. Hope this helps 🥰
Extra: In my country (and most LATAM) we are used to keep our medicine on top cabinets in the kitchen, I find it kinda weird to put medicine in the bathroom area since it's easier for children to find
I love this suggestion. Thank you for explaining it so well
We do that too in europe
He Was choking. The frosting was probably too thick for him. It’s like when soggy bread gets stuck on the top part of our mouths and won’t go down.
absolutely not overreacting. he was trying a new food, so him coincidentally choking a little on swallowing it wrong lines up with, "oh god, we did not prepare for if he had an allergy". if that happened with my best friend's baby brother, i'd be scared too. a lot of people are suggesting learning baby cpr, which i didn't know was a thing, but that sounds genius
You guys were so calm. Nice job guys!
I actually was allergic to red 40 as a kid !! It’s possible to outgrow but you handled it very well!
I know some adults that are allergic too!
That defiently wasn't over reacting, it was really good you both were there you could tell Abbey when into shock to so luckily Julia was able to quickly snap out of it, as parents we all have scares like this and sometimes it can be worse but kids are extremely scary at times haha 💕
That was so scary I felt my heart stop for a second when I saw his face turn red. She most likely swallowed it wrong and choked on it for his saliva. You guys did the right think takeing him out of the chair to. Good job guys 🥰 glad he is okay
A choking baby is the scariest..glad he is OK!!
My kiddos when they had sugar get a lot of saliva that’s thick and they choke on that. Look into getting CPR training. It really helps in those scary moments. You guys did great though!
It is amazing how you stayed calm...and got to the problem right away
You are such good parents 😊
You girls were definitely NOT being dramatic. That was scary to watch. I'm the second oldest in my family and have three younger sisters. When ever I see one of them choking/having an alerget reaction it is a really panicking situation.
Love watching your family's channel it's really calming when I have ruff days .
Thank you for beingyou and for not being afraid to share that with the world, Thank you ❤
I would have panicked too but you both handled it very well! Merry Christmas!
Are u serious?? Where are u from?
@@mehreensajid8473 ?
Omg thank god that the baby is ok!
I've never panicked so much love y'all so much
You guy's did great. You stayed calm and continued to evaluate until you could figure out what was happening.
I'm so glad Harbor is okay. U both handled it well! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
With the cookies you could always go the kids painting route. Put the cookies with blobs of icing on it in a zip lock bag and let him squish it around. Works great for art projects for kiddies and pets. So glad he’s okay! Definitely looked like a new texture that got a bit stuck on the way down 💕
OMG! How scary. First scare down ladies. You’ll be ok.💜💜💜
Your going to have a lot more heart stopping moments being parents, so glad he was OK. There is no such thing as. Being over dramatic when it comes to children it's so much better to be cautious than not being better to be safe than sorry
Jeez, that's terrifying! You two are such good mamas. He probably inhaled so of the frosting and saliva while swallowing. Merry Christmas you guys🎄🎊
I'm here in the First 5 Minutes !! Anyway, happy holidays sweet mamas. I hope yall had a great Christmas!! Much love and best wishes for 2022 ❤
Happy New Year! Perhaps you may enjoy our videos, and would like to check them out? Only if you want ☺️
I got nervous too, but he wasn’t breathing well because he swallowed it wrong. I was just waiting anxiously for him to breathe again. I’m very glad he is okay!!
I love your bathroom! I’ve been wanting to do the two draped back shower curtain thing for a while now too!! Such a cute little space😊
You ladies handled it great! Abby you were so concerned about giving him the cookie in the first place and way to jump into action Julia! 💜 some good mommas.
you guys handled that very well! you definitely didn’t overreact, any sort of choking is terrifying to begin with but especially when it’s your baby! also as a side note i don’t know too much about bettas but perhaps a larger home will make it feel less territorial with the snails? maybe something to research! love that y’all kept calling it a tank and then you cut to a bowl lol
i think your reaction was totally valid!! as a viewer, i thought he was probably fine since he was coughing and that means he can breathe. im sorry that happened tho!! so scary :( hope you guys had a great christmas!
Ohhh i loveee the lights above the mirror in your bathroom! Super cute!
For the fish and the snails the is tanks you can buy that has a piece of glass to separate the fish u can buy all different sizes
Hope he’s ok xx Happy New Year
I’m glad he is ok 👍. That was scary. Your all such a wonderful family.
I love fish! I have had Betta fish for a long time. As for the snail problem I’ve gone through it. But what I did is added small stones and rocks (like the ones that are polished from souvenir stores). I added those at the same time I added a snail, and my fish never had a problem after that.
You both are just so incredible with him. Best parents ever! I love watching you!
I have snails and danios and glow danios living with my betta. Since they are schooling fish, you can get a few in a smaller tank since they like to like in groups. And then the betta leaves them alone
One thing i know that can possibly help the pain for harbor teething is having him hold a frozen waffle in his mouth. Plus the built-in drool cups on the waffle are good. hope it works
You could half the fish tank with like plants or something one side for the snails and one for the other fishes idk if it will work but you could try it
A nice decorating style for the bathroom. You handled Harbor's eating challenge very well. Raising a baby doesn't go easy all the time, but you handled it well and all is good. Proceed on and have more fun as a lovely family. You are very good parents.
I remember waiting for little Harbor to be born! He’s grown up so much since I last checked in! What an adorable little angel!
abbie julia namorada namoro namoro namorar
abbie julia namorada namoro NAMORAR
@@carlavitoria9216 okay? I know. Also, they are married. Not just dating
love you guys so much!! hope you had a lovely christmas
I also don't think u 2 where not exaggerating u are parents I'm so happy that u 2 are in my life because everything in my life is going down hill and u 3 are always making me smile thank u 3 x
It looks like he may have inhaled a chunk if icing. Good for you both. You acted fast and did everything right.
THANK YOU for posting this! I always water down everything I think is thick. Babies eating is so scary!
Glad Harbor is all right. Yous handled it well.
When I was in school for medical assistant we learned CPR. Having the CPR knowledge made me feel prepared and gave me the feeling of " I know what to do". I reccomend CPR classes this helps a lot even if the choking only happens once, I felt safe knowing that I knew what I could do to help out and help others as well. In CPR there are many other signs that you will learn how to recognize in order to know which action to make. I'm not sure if the CPR advice was already given, the thing I learned best is "knowledge is everything".
It's better to jump into action all paranoid than be too relaxed!!!! Happy Harbor was okay. I wonder if it also could have been that weird, almost burning sensation excessively sweet things can give you in your throat?? I've had that a handful of times and it takes my breath away and I have to keep swallowing to get it to go away. Maybe he was experiencing that?
As for your bathroom tile, what about those small hexagon tiles in white? Sometimes people also add in black too. I think that would be super cute!
Omg, that was such a scary moment. Such things should be kept away from kids. It's good that Julia took immediate action 👍🏻
Great Tank Mates for betta fish are Cory catfish, Ghost shrimp and Guppies
Oh woman,we just redone our hardwood floors...it's a big dusty dirty job..it took us 5 weeks to complete ..it's a hard job but so worth it
I love how u guys handled it. It was so good I thing he just swallowed it wrong! He’s fine
You and Julia are such a good couple and Amazing moms Harbor is such a luckily kid
You guys are so good in an emergency cause you both stayed so calm despite having a heartache.
woah that was scary! Good thing everything was fine. And Harbor grows really quick.
You were definitely not being over dramatic
Angry and red go right ahead… silent and blue they need you!
so sorry this scary situation happened! glad it’s ok
As someone who works at Petsmart, the situation will most likely be fine. The snails are new to the Betta so he has to get used to them. I’d recommend having at least 5 gallons for bettas, they do like to swim.
Always remember if they are still coughing and gagging and making noise they are not choking they are gagging or coughing which happens a lot when learning to eat..
Heureusement, tout est bien, qui finit bien ! Harbor devient un petit homme. Bonnes fêtes de fin d'année. Bisous de France
I looove how the split curtains in the bathroom!!! It’s so beautiful how the light gets let in! Does it actually block the water though? I’m wondering how it’s functional
Frickin lovin the bathroom. God it's adorable 💕
you are amazing parents♥ you're not dramatic , you are caring... it's ok to worry for your baby. im so glad he's and you're okay !! love you guys ,take care ♥♥
It is absolutely understandable to worry about stuff like that, my son ended up being allergic to red dye in a similar incident. Never be too careful, it's only because we love em!
You’ll need a bigger tank setup if you want your betta to coexist with the snails. Otherwise he’ll keep pecking at them. I’ve got a ten gal tank with a snail, male betta and a loach all have been doing well and leave each other alone 👍 good luck 🍀
Bathroom looks great really great and I’m so glad everything is okay and did really a good job stayed calm but he most probably went down his throat the wrong way. Enjoyed this video a lot and thank you for being great mum’s
It depends on the beta personality I have 2 betas. one beta is housed with neon tetras and apple snails in one tank but I have another beta that kills everything so he lives alone if you neon tetras in with your snails would make a neat tank
so glad he is ok love u guys the shower curtian thing was amazing
I used to have a fish tank with just snails. I put some moss balls in there which are live moss plants and it was just such a vibe. The asthetic was really cool. So i dont think that would be wierd. Or they do make those tanks with a divider. So its still technically one tank but you can divide it so the fish is on one side and the snails are on the other.
Hi girls and Harbor! I see he scared you to death! This time is just the first of many! I don't know if this helps but remember if he is coughing he is breathing, and that's a very good thing. If he is grabbing at his throat and his lips are turning blue, he isn't breathing and that's bad obviously bad! I'm sure you have read up on child and infant CPR. It is helped my anxiety a lot when a woman told me this while my son was choking. Both of you are wonderful mother's. Harbor is a very lucky baby to have two amazing moms. Thank you for sharing this video!
Some live plants in the tank would be a great idea. Also the filter current looks quite strong which blows beta fish around, generally there top swimmers. Good luck
Glad everything is okay!
Such a scary moment, i’ve experienced it too. You handled it well❤️
I love how the attention immediately turned to harbor and although there recording for us there kids is there first priority you guys are doing so great love you guys ❤❤❤
To help get the paint off the hard wood, use a heat gun, it will help with the paint removal
I had to fast forward..wasn’t sure what he was going to do..glad he’s ok! He’s such a happy boyfriend.❤️
i think maybe since the frosting is so thick and he hasnt had it before he swallowed it weird and it got stuck. maybe in the future try to water down the frosting a little? im so glad hes okay, yall handled it so well i wouldve freaked out.
It's a totally scary situation!! You guys did well. I honestly think it just went down the wrong way! Love you guys! 😍
they need filters and heaters, nettas like 78 to 80
Hello!! Although I don’t currently own any snails, I’ve been owning bettas for 8 or so years now, and I have a few suggestions.
One thing you could do, if you do get a separate tank for the snails, is add some bright and vibrant freshwater shrimp into the tank (If you don’t want them to reproduce, then you can buy amano shrimp). They look really cool, mainly feed off algae growing within the tank, and you can actually see through the amano shrimp.
You could also buy a bigger tank in hopes that the extra space could give them more room to separate, decreasing the aggression.
However, I do not suggest putting any shrimp with bettas, because from experience, the bettas are aggressive towards the shrimp. (I even have a female, and she’s always trying to find them. She’ll dig through the moss I have at the bottom of my tank to try and find them.)
In other words, it’s really up to you. Just be cautious with what you add!!
Your bathroom looks great GOOD JOB First time moms always overreact because it is all new experiences you are dealing with now Never mind what other people will think You two are concern great moms who only want to keep their child safe from harm.
My kids choking was always one of the scariest things for me!!! My daughter did that baby led eating with her girls, and it freaked me out so much, lol! You both handled it like pros!
Yall did fine your were calm and handled it immediately. He probably just choked on his saliva, or went down wrong.I've worked with kids and have been trained,I would recommend parents,grandparents, or whoever is watching kids to be trained in first aid,adult,infant and child c.p.r.,and medicine administration.It's always good just know in case of emergency.
God i’m so glad everything’s okay i would have reacted exactly the same ! 🥺
This was so scary to see but very good to see everything was going ok with harbor. Your both is very good mommy's to harbor. Everyone can do a mistake. I wish you all the best in Christmas time see you soon again in the next vlog.
I'm glad Harbor was OK. You guys did the right thing. My niece had to be taken by ambulance to the hospital on Boxing Day and they said the same thing - we did the right thing by calling them. You can never be too cautious with a baby because they can't communicate to tell you what they need or what's wrong. Glad Harbor's OK. My niece was too.