situation right now I wish I can physically leave I packed his stuff but he refuse to leave I cant its my house it would of been easier if it was his then i would pack my stuff and leave with our son😢
Spot on. After 20 years with no change, I decided to leave my husband. But I left him mentaly three years before I left physically. And once I left mental his cheating and abuse did not hurt me anymore. I just did not bother at all. And I think thats what confused my husband, he thought I finally accepted his cheating ways. Because the three years before I left physicall where so peaceful, I did not argue, I did not care whether he gets home after 3 days. I was too busy working on a plan to survive and provide for my children, making sure the absence of their father is not felt.
They are so stupid, they think the 'stupid, nagging' person they were exploiting, was finally trained, but when a woman does not care, she does not bother fight
It’s definitely true she try her hardest to stay , but he did not pay attention to her needs so she decided to leave for own sanity, peace of mind, Amen🙏🏼
When a woman stops talking....she stops caring...she stops loving and her feet is ready to go. Once she leaves,,,there's no looking back, there'll be no turning back...and i did!
I checked out in 2022, and I still live in the same home as him. I've been wanting to leave physically away from him. There's no hope nor a desire to change my feelings. I no longer love him or in love with him. I care about him and always will. We share a daughter, and I wish him nothing but the best in life, I hope and pray he finds someone else to love. I'm planning on telling him and making plans to separate physically come 2025. Please pray for me to be able to do this with ease and gentleness. I'm in no way angry with him, nor do I want to hurt him intentionally. I just can't keep living in a lie. I'm on a different path right now in my life. It's spiritual, and I need this time with God in my life to be immersed in a positive environment. Again, lift me up in prayer for peace in my mind, spirit, and body. Thank you for creating such an inspiring channel.😊
A women never all of the sudden decides to leave a relationship it was signs that was ignored. If men think back on the journey of the relationship it was clear as day why. Disappointments, disregards, unwillingness, can only go on for so long. When she leaves she has already left months, years ago. And a men wonder why nothing can bring her back. No tricks, no guilt trips, no contact, no manipulation, nothing. Women seldom go back because of these reasons. She was long gone before you knew it and her heart has broken to heal and it's no longer for you.
A woman's sanity is far more important than any other thing. Most times, some ladies try their best to follow through with the man not because she is desperate but rather because they need confirmation from themselves that it's finally done. However, some guys forget that though patience is a virtue, when the lady runs out, forget it she is done and done for good. Pleasant surprises ahead ladies 🎉
Absolutely Chris a woman never leaves she will give you chances waiting that the man will one day pay attention but if these never happen then she will definitely leave and will never look back she is gone for good, people never appreciate what they have until they lose it, then it becomes a memory for them, keep that love coming Chris I enjoyed your message ❤❤❤❤
Refusing to hear her needs or wants is important to her. Communication needs to be expressed by both parties. Once she checks out mentally, its suddenly over.
I agree, when I fight means I care for relationship, but when I decide to leave I never bother even to explain. It's becoz I did all the work when it meant everything to me.
This hits home because I'm currently in the "making a lot of noise phase", but all I hear back is, "why are you so negative and critical all the time? Its dragging the relationship down. You didn't used to be this way". I didn't use to be this way because I was silent about my needs, hoping he would simply SEE me and desire to be a net positive in my life. But now I'm worn down, I feel underappreciated, and I can't stay silent anymore.
@@moriah1901 Often times a narcissist will try to flip things like your the one arguing and nagging. They don't want to see themselves are be held accountable for their toxic behavior.
This hit home, I checked out long before I left. And gave him time and chances to compromise and improve. It never happened, false promises and lies, it was just a matter of time.
Yes 💯 a woman has thought long and hard over her decision to leave especially when kids are involved! When she know longer speaks and is now quiet the plan is already emotion. There is nothing left to be said………..🤷🏽♀️
After four decades, I am throwing in the towel. It turned into the work of Sisyphus. I have nothing left. Hopefully you reach others while they can still make it work.
So true, I've done this. Men ignore the red flags of a woman saying what's wrong in the relationship and what needs to change. After so long, we just give up but we physically stay until we find someone better or a way out.
True. So sad going through this. When we've fallen, and then they let us slowly drift, it is agony, everyd ay. Losing the love of my life, while he is still next to me. I can't be the only one who tries. I've felt the pain of losing him, and trying to heal without being around him. And the pain of slowly losing him, while he is still right there next to me is worrrllldddsss more painful. It takes A LOT for a woman to lose hope in the love of her life. But when my heart breaks more (due to his lack of effort and just to take the time to hear me, not that I’m right or anyone is wrong, but just for him to hear what I’m saying) because I’m in his presence, experiencing his inaction in loving me, then I have to leave. I do believe there’s love, or that he thinks he does, and maybe he does, but love is a VERB. Not an EMOTION. So don’t know how to act in love for someone either. I fight I am here to show him what and how unconditional love looks. So hopefully, he knows more about how to when the next girl is around. Because there is a big lesson for us both in me choosing to leave. Painful as it may be for us both. Love respects, and pauses to listen, love marries, or gives birth. Love cries and hugs, and love melts. Love forgives and defends. Love expects greatness, love sets a standard, love communicates. Love tries to understand. And love leaves when it’s too painful loving someone who doesn’t reciprocate action back. He is sitting next to me, while I try not to start crying. Thank you for the video
You're not alone. I'm hiding out in the bathroom stalling so that he'll hopefully be already asleep by the time I've brushed my teeth & I'm ready to go to bed. It's awkward & uncomfortable otherwise
I did "lots of noise" for 6 years but got called too sensitive, making drama out of nothing, those were jokes and so on but slowly I felt how I mentally and emotionally was drifting away more and more until 2 years ago when I got new friends who I opened up to and gave me the confirmation I needed but knew a long time ago: I'm not crazy and he doesn't give a shit. Broke up with him 2 weeks ago and last week he came talking about being sorry, having a hard time controlling his ego and so on... I still turned my back to him and kept walking away.
Chris this is spot on plus more. For me, Im still here and in 39yrs. Should of checked out long time ago. We give way to many chances as you said because we Hope we can get a person to understand and they would change things. Fast forward to now, and both loosing our jobs in 2020 and now together more, I thought I could lovingly motivate, do & share things together, have healthy talks etc. But now have realized 100% that the person cares only for themself. I started to search for the last two years for reasons on behaviour.......coming across something I had never new but was all my answers...(Narcissisum). Chris I heard to talk briefly on this once. **This leaves you emotionaly, mentally drained with your health effected. * Planning an exit and Hopefully one day soin. God Bless you Chris and everyone here. ✝️🙌💗
I Am Very Emotional Drained From All This Rollercoaster Of Emotions He Put Me Through,25 Years of This Games I Am Very Grateful And Stronger Than Before
The first obviously sign for us women that we are checking out is we start to develop crushes on other men. When a man has your attention and affection, he is the only one you care about.
Men think in their ego that they got it on lock because other girls are constantly barking up their ego tree.. but a REAL woman.. LIVES IN HER HEART! It takes LOVE APPRECIATION RESPECT LOYALTY ATTENTION… I mean a male wants these things too right? You get what you give.. and you give what you get.. yin and yang
This explains my divorce after 22 years of marriage. When you leave for your sanity, it's over. No looking back. If she is going to be lonely, she chooses to be alone 😢😢
Love your work Chris. Women and men are very different... Sometimes feels like we're speaking a different language. My guy said "I'm so happy you come back to me when I can see how miserable it makes you." 😮 He just didn't understand how hard I tried, how long I waited, and now I've left he's angry with me. You're spot on.
❤Chris your such a mentor to all men! We need you to teach our men of All ages! Yes even our mature men need schooling. Thank God for uou Chris Perry!❤
@chrisgqperry I say AMEN and God bless you Chris for everything i have learned from you and I say thank you 🙏 …37 years of my life i have giving all of myself to my husband and children, family like a puppy dog…Sweet, kind, loving and caring person 500% but all this time they took me for granted, but now i have lurned to love myself first and now the tables have turned and i never have been feeling better in my hole life…i ‘m not scared anymore and I feel like a queen now and i hope one day I can trust someone again because my body have So many scars of all the little lies they have give me…And now they all say i have changed…Well i don’t mind and i don’t care anymore because I have levelled up in my own postive energy and i like it🧘🏻♀️ And guess who are the little puppy’s now…Much love, Sabine from Belgium🌹
Thank Chris this vid made me cry . I tried with my narc for 4 years. He didn’t love me enough to fight and maybe because he never knew how. Painful it is. I told him he will never know how much he hurt me.
I was married for 15 years. The last few years was spent desperately trying to fix my marriage while also getting help for myself. He did not take it serious and put little effort into repairing our marriage. I began to detach. Eventually, I left because I felt like I was living with a roommate instead of a husband. I still cared, but staying was killing me...I was becoming suicidal. I had to choose my mental health in order to still be present for our children.
Sometimes we just leave with all the "lly's". Mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and financial in one Exodus. Because when you are done, you are just done.
Everyday...sooo many changes..men are tied up in what they think they're doing.".ohh I putting it down in the bedroom"...uhh maybe..even so that is only gonna so far.
Who told you this fact?I am so amazed by how you got to know this.This is so 100% on point.If I were aman,I would take this advice seriously. This is freaking true free advice to men seeking to have their wives for keeps !
It resonated. I was the best wife someone could have. However I was dealing with a covert who tried to destroy me because he hated my beauty, confidence, intelligence, independence, artistical talents and profissional success. He began acting cold, delusional, acting evil and listenning his mother, a rival who wanted to be me and steal my life and money I help him build. I warned him but he invalidated my feelings. I transformed myself and left him. Now I am trying to heal and rebuild my life. However these people keeping teasing me from distance. But justice will be used.
Good night. Everything your saying is the whole truth. I had experience this. That why. God bless you for your wisdom 😊. To open jong and older women's there eyes and mind.
Oh my gosh, I am so glad to have found your channel. Every single video relates to me 100%. It's amazing that you can understand women and their feelings. Great channel. I'll tell you now, not being ready to invest in another relationship is amazing, I'm more focused on myself right now
I've already shared it with him but he keeps sweet talking me and even getting his mom involved to keep me around. This has been going on since January of last year and I've been supporting him since. Everytime I stand up for myself they both keep making promises but never revealing them so I put it in God's hands 🤲
That part 💯👌 20 yrs and stayed loyal then i woke tf up always will have love for em but im on my own shit like when he meet me I wanted you I dont never need you and he broke my heart a couple times in that double life he was livin #boybyeyou20yrsolderthenme
By the time a woman agrees with this…. Showing this video to her man will only start a fight bc of lack of empathy or caring at all…not bring healing. As a woman dealing with this….I know this They only care when you walk a way and go silent except for answering questions in a short word or sentence and no longer desire conversation with him.
It’s funny you say that, but my problem is a mental problem and mental problems. Just don’t go away overnight. It’s a slow agonizing process that I have been overcoming and getting better every day and still she just doesn’t believe me that I’m not doing the things that I used to do I love her with all my heart and I’m doing everything I can to keep a positive positive attitude, and I always have hoping God that he gives me a sign that she still has hope and love for me because I’m trying with everything I have in my body to do everything I need to do let her know that I love her and I need her and I do right by her man I want to be the man that she loves the man that can be honest with her and open with her the man that’s going to stand by her the man that’s gonna give her everything that she needs support Financial everything the man who’s gonna be loyal to her man’s never gonna put her anywhere except in front and shoulders so the whole world can see that I’m in love with one person and one person only
This is so on the mark absolutely full-on truth I'm a very patient woman 28 years of marriage..It's all about him what he wants for himself he will never change.Im going to ask him too I want him to want too.Im Out♡
I know I have. When I get free this time, I am not doing this again. I'm 54 years old & my life has never been MINE. I want to know what that's like & all my relationships have ended the same way...betrayal. Betrayal trauma is real & it's so destructive. It's just not worth the risk of going through that again. Too old for the drama that I never wanted in the first place. There's no way I'm going to allow myself to depend on some man to take care of me at the end of my life. I'm the only one I trust enough to do that.
I walked out on my fiancé exactly as Chris said. To this day l did not come back and he does not understand why l left. 😢 the lack of communication, effort, time, his female friends, no boundaries. He wants to get married but cannot be a husband. Wants the title but cannot be the leader, the man. To put me first, his priority, instead always being the handyman, the escort (escort his female friend to a party). Getting annoyed with me because l didn’t agree to him going. Dancing with other female friends at parties and didn’t see there was anything wrong. He lashes out unnecessary, make me to be the bad guy and I’m at fault. We were supposed to get married next year 🙁🙁
I had to lower my expections so I would stop being disappointed. Disappointed that he might initiate a night out, because he wanted to do something nice. Disappointed that he might clean up after himself or me cooking dinner because he knew I liked a clean house/kitchen and it would show gratitude for the effort I went to for him. Disappointed that we didn’t do hardly anything together. He was an island in our relationship and yet he was STILL shocked when I told him I’m out.
Ladies, do you agree that you leave mentally before you leave physically? 🤔
Drop an AMEN if this hit home.
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Alhamdullilah Rabb Alameen 💯true✨🙏🏼✨❤️☮️🌍
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That's so true
Amen💯‼️ We check out longggggg before we walk away👣👣👣✌️
Once she leaves you for her own sanity, she's not coming back, bro.
Truth 😭
Say it again!!!
Thank you
situation right now I wish I can physically leave I packed his stuff but he refuse to leave I cant its my house it would of been easier if it was his then i would pack my stuff and leave with our son😢
YUP.
When a woman is mentally over you, she's gone forever.💔
@@chrisgqperry a famous singer “when a woman’s fed up, their ain’t nothing you can do about it.” Straight facts.
you are so right
Yes true❤️
A woman doesn't make noise when she leaves. She made noise before, when she wanted to stay, but you didn’t notice.✌🏼
SO TRUE! 👍
Truth 😭
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Yes !
More like didn't care
Pure truth, Chris Men don't see it coming because they ignored every sign, every request, every tear... back when we still cared.
When a woman stops crying NO more tears.. its over!! She doesn't care enough to try or care she is looking for a way out. Truth!!!
You got it!
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Preach! By the time a woman walks she was long gone, she was just getting her affairs in order.
We surely do..
And by the time we get to the end we’re already detached!
Don't Take Her Patience For Granted! She Gets tired Of Fighting! You Are Absolutely Right!💡
Spot on. After 20 years with no change, I decided to leave my husband. But I left him mentaly three years before I left physically. And once I left mental his cheating and abuse did not hurt me anymore. I just did not bother at all. And I think thats what confused my husband, he thought I finally accepted his cheating ways. Because the three years before I left physicall where so peaceful, I did not argue, I did not care whether he gets home after 3 days. I was too busy working on a plan to survive and provide for my children, making sure the absence of their father is not felt.
you did not deserve to be treated like that
They are so stupid, they think the 'stupid, nagging' person they were exploiting, was finally trained, but when a woman does not care, she does not bother fight
Congratulations! It takes most women 3 to 7, or more years to leave once they've truly made their decision.❤🎉
Congratulations to you
It’s definitely true she try her hardest to stay , but he did not pay attention to her needs so she decided to leave for own sanity, peace of mind, Amen🙏🏼
Thank You but I’m too nice so I leave in peace
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I do it!!!!!
When a woman stops talking....she stops caring...she stops loving and her feet is ready to go. Once she leaves,,,there's no looking back, there'll be no turning back...and i did!
Preach! 🗣️🗣️🗣️
I did the same
You go girl....👍❤️
Yeah, same with me, the only way 🪄✨💫
I checked out in 2022, and I still live in the same home as him. I've been wanting to leave physically away from him. There's no hope nor a desire to change my feelings. I no longer love him or in love with him. I care about him and always will. We share a daughter, and I wish him nothing but the best in life, I hope and pray he finds someone else to love. I'm planning on telling him and making plans to separate physically come 2025. Please pray for me to be able to do this with ease and gentleness. I'm in no way angry with him, nor do I want to hurt him intentionally. I just can't keep living in a lie. I'm on a different path right now in my life. It's spiritual, and I need this time with God in my life to be immersed in a positive environment. Again, lift me up in prayer for peace in my mind, spirit, and body. Thank you for creating such an inspiring channel.😊
Prayed for you and im proud of you.
You are brilliant, Chris! Ur words ring out so clearly and true! So happy you have a dedicated channel! ❤
A women never all of the sudden decides to leave a relationship it was signs that was ignored. If men think back on the journey of the relationship it was clear as day why. Disappointments, disregards, unwillingness, can only go on for so long. When she leaves she has already left months, years ago. And a men wonder why nothing can bring her back. No tricks, no guilt trips, no contact, no manipulation, nothing. Women seldom go back because of these reasons. She was long gone before you knew it and her heart has broken to heal and it's no longer for you.
I planned and left. He disrespected me and cheated, lied…why stay? Be strong ladies and plan then walk slowly away❤
Same here✋🏾
A woman's sanity is far more important than any other thing.
Most times, some ladies try their best to follow through with the man not because she is desperate but rather because they need confirmation from themselves that it's finally done. However, some guys forget that though patience is a virtue, when the lady runs out, forget it she is done and done for good. Pleasant surprises ahead ladies 🎉
My silence is your clue!!! 💜
Absolutely Chris a woman never leaves she will give you chances waiting that the man will one day pay attention but if these never happen then she will definitely leave and will never look back she is gone for good, people never appreciate what they have until they lose it, then it becomes a memory for them, keep that love coming Chris I enjoyed your message ❤❤❤❤
Refusing to hear her needs or wants is important to her. Communication needs to be expressed by both parties. Once she checks out mentally, its suddenly over.
@@kristineroethle5028 this happened in my last relationship . I talked to someone that had deaf ears. We are No longer together
Yes we do! After telling you how me feel in so many ways at so many different times, you ignore us, we dip out.
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Real fast without a second thought!!!
I agree, when I fight means I care for relationship, but when I decide to leave I never bother even to explain. It's becoz I did all the work when it meant everything to me.
This hits home because I'm currently in the "making a lot of noise phase", but all I hear back is, "why are you so negative and critical all the time? Its dragging the relationship down. You didn't used to be this way". I didn't use to be this way because I was silent about my needs, hoping he would simply SEE me and desire to be a net positive in my life. But now I'm worn down, I feel underappreciated, and I can't stay silent anymore.
Checkout what a Narcissist is, you will be blown away. It's what your experiencing and more. May God put his love and protection around you...✝️🙌💗
@@moriah1901 Often times a narcissist will try to flip things like your the one arguing and nagging. They don't want to see themselves are be held accountable for their toxic behavior.
This hit home, I checked out long before I left. And gave him time and chances to compromise and improve. It never happened, false promises and lies, it was just a matter of time.
Yes 💯 a woman has thought long and hard over her decision to leave especially when kids are involved!
When she know longer speaks and is now quiet the plan is already emotion. There is nothing left to be said………..🤷🏽♀️
Your Words Are The Truth!!! When a woman stays she will undoubtedly, "Be Hurt By Staying With You,"...~~~
This man right here”KNOWS” what he’s talking about
After four decades, I am throwing in the towel. It turned into the work of Sisyphus. I have nothing left. Hopefully you reach others while they can still make it work.
wow, how many times have i said that...... I have nothing left to give, the emotional tank has grinded to a halt
@@beatrixatthecchwclub5620 I'm sorry you've experienced it too.
So true, I've done this. Men ignore the red flags of a woman saying what's wrong in the relationship and what needs to change. After so long, we just give up but we physically stay until we find someone better or a way out.
True. So sad going through this. When we've fallen, and then they let us slowly drift, it is agony, everyd ay. Losing the love of my life, while he is still next to me. I can't be the only one who tries. I've felt the pain of losing him, and trying to heal without being around him. And the pain of slowly losing him, while he is still right there next to me is worrrllldddsss more painful. It takes A LOT for a woman to lose hope in the love of her life. But when my heart breaks more (due to his lack of effort and just to take the time to hear me, not that I’m right or anyone is wrong, but just for him to hear what I’m saying) because I’m in his presence, experiencing his inaction in loving me, then I have to leave. I do believe there’s love, or that he thinks he does, and maybe he does, but love is a VERB. Not an EMOTION. So don’t know how to act in love for someone either. I fight I am here to show him what and how unconditional love looks. So hopefully, he knows more about how to when the next girl is around. Because there is a big lesson for us both in me choosing to leave. Painful as it may be for us both.
Love respects, and pauses to listen, love marries, or gives birth. Love cries and hugs, and love melts. Love forgives and defends. Love expects greatness, love sets a standard, love communicates. Love tries to understand. And love leaves when it’s too painful loving someone who doesn’t reciprocate action back.
He is sitting next to me, while I try not to start crying.
Thank you for the video
You're not alone. I'm hiding out in the bathroom stalling so that he'll hopefully be already asleep by the time I've brushed my teeth & I'm ready to go to bed. It's awkward & uncomfortable otherwise
I did "lots of noise" for 6 years but got called too sensitive, making drama out of nothing, those were jokes and so on but slowly I felt how I mentally and emotionally was drifting away more and more until 2 years ago when I got new friends who I opened up to and gave me the confirmation I needed but knew a long time ago: I'm not crazy and he doesn't give a shit.
Broke up with him 2 weeks ago and last week he came talking about being sorry, having a hard time controlling his ego and so on... I still turned my back to him and kept walking away.
Sounds like a narcissist. Just divorced one 4 months ago.
Once i ck out...i cant stand him..hate everything about him!
No more chances and making up just to break up.
Done deal.
Chris this is spot on plus more.
For me, Im still here and in 39yrs. Should of checked out long time ago. We give way to many chances as you said because we Hope we can get a person to understand and they would change things. Fast forward to now, and both loosing our jobs in 2020 and now together more, I thought I could lovingly motivate, do & share things together, have healthy talks etc. But now have realized 100% that the person cares only for themself. I started to search for the last two years for reasons on behaviour.......coming across something I had never new but was all my answers...(Narcissisum).
Chris I heard to talk briefly on this once.
**This leaves you emotionaly, mentally drained with your health effected.
* Planning an exit and Hopefully one day soin.
God Bless you Chris and everyone here. ✝️🙌💗
He's speaking Big facts no need to Fact Check, it's the Truth
I Am Very Emotional Drained From All This Rollercoaster Of Emotions He Put Me Through,25 Years of This Games I Am Very Grateful And Stronger Than Before
The first obviously sign for us women that we are checking out is we start to develop crushes on other men. When a man has your attention and affection, he is the only one you care about.
Men think in their ego that they got it on lock because other girls are constantly barking up their ego tree.. but a REAL woman.. LIVES IN HER HEART! It takes LOVE APPRECIATION RESPECT LOYALTY ATTENTION… I mean a male wants these things too right? You get what you give.. and you give what you get.. yin and yang
This explains my divorce after 22 years of marriage. When you leave for your sanity, it's over. No looking back. If she is going to be lonely, she chooses to be alone 😢😢
Love your work Chris. Women and men are very different... Sometimes feels like we're speaking a different language.
My guy said "I'm so happy you come back to me when I can see how miserable it makes you." 😮
He just didn't understand how hard I tried, how long I waited, and now I've left he's angry with me.
You're spot on.
❤Chris your such a mentor to all men! We need you to teach our men of All ages! Yes even our mature men need schooling. Thank God for uou Chris Perry!❤
Thank you! You are on point my brother❤
You’re welcome and thank you.🙏🏼💯
@chrisgqperry I say AMEN and God bless you Chris for everything i have learned from you and I say thank you 🙏 …37 years of my life i have giving all of myself to my husband and children, family like a puppy dog…Sweet, kind, loving and caring person 500% but all this time they took me for granted, but now i have lurned to love myself first and now the tables have turned and i never have been feeling better in my hole life…i ‘m not scared anymore and I feel like a queen now and i hope one day I can trust someone again because my body have So many scars of all the little lies they have give me…And now they all say i have changed…Well i don’t mind and i don’t care anymore because I have levelled up in my own postive energy and i like it🧘🏻♀️
And guess who are the little puppy’s now…Much love, Sabine from Belgium🌹
Thank Chris this vid made me cry . I tried with my narc for 4 years. He didn’t love me enough to fight and maybe because he never knew how. Painful it is. I told him he will never know how much he hurt me.
Yes l do agree wright now lm practising how to leave thanks alot good Job keep it up its help
I was married for 15 years. The last few years was spent desperately trying to fix my marriage while also getting help for myself. He did not take it serious and put little effort into repairing our marriage. I began to detach. Eventually, I left because I felt like I was living with a roommate instead of a husband. I still cared, but staying was killing me...I was becoming suicidal. I had to choose my mental health in order to still be present for our children.
Sometimes we just leave with all the "lly's". Mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and financial in one Exodus.
Because when you are done, you are just done.
Omg! I have been saying this for years and years and years! And No One believes me until it happens to them!
Everyday...sooo many changes..men are tied up in what they think they're doing.".ohh I putting it down in the bedroom"...uhh maybe..even so that is only gonna so far.
Yes we do. We’re making exit plans . Amen 🙏🏾
Who told you this fact?I am so amazed by how you got to know this.This is so 100% on point.If I were aman,I would take this advice seriously. This is freaking true free advice to men seeking to have their wives for keeps !
Yo i never let a tear fall..never try to change him,i just leave him..couse i deserve better💪
It resonated. I was the best wife someone could have. However I was dealing with a covert who tried to destroy me because he hated my beauty, confidence, intelligence, independence, artistical talents and profissional success. He began acting cold, delusional, acting evil and listenning his mother, a rival who wanted to be me and steal my life and money I help him build. I warned him but he invalidated my feelings. I transformed myself and left him. Now I am trying to heal and rebuild my life. However these people keeping teasing me from distance. But justice will be used.
TBH, only good ppl deserve good women and she always remember how wicked ppl actually are
Those gems that you drop are SOOO True! Thank you, especially to The most high that download everything to you! Peace and much love to you!❤❤
Good night. Everything your saying is the whole truth. I had experience this. That why. God bless you for your wisdom 😊. To open jong and older women's there eyes and mind.
A woman will checkout way before she turns in the key.🔑
Thank You for the love & enlightenment, Chris! 🙌🏼
Always a pleasure! 💯 Love from 🇨🇦
Oh my gosh, I am so glad to have found your channel. Every single video relates to me 100%. It's amazing that you can understand women and their feelings. Great channel. I'll tell you now, not being ready to invest in another relationship is amazing, I'm more focused on myself right now
Hi GQ you are always right I wish all men can see it the way you do
I've already shared it with him but he keeps sweet talking me and even getting his mom involved to keep me around. This has been going on since January of last year and I've been supporting him since. Everytime I stand up for myself they both keep making promises but never revealing them so I put it in God's hands 🤲
Chris you speak nothing but facts. And i appreciate that 🗣️🗣️💯
It's a two way street..
Respect an understanding an
Communication an
Compromise
An love an loyalty ❤
Truth❤ I waited for years, working with him for a change, trying, it never came. I couldnt anymore..
You are AMAZING!!! You truly understand the inner world of a woman.
Thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤
That part 💯👌 20 yrs and stayed loyal then i woke tf up always will have love for em but im on my own shit like when he meet me I wanted you I dont never need you and he broke my heart a couple times in that double life he was livin #boybyeyou20yrsolderthenme
By the time a woman agrees with this….
Showing this video to her man will only start a fight bc of lack of empathy or caring at all…not bring healing.
As a woman dealing with this….I know this
They only care when you walk a way and go silent except for answering questions in a short word or sentence and no longer desire conversation with him.
This is so true, because I did this with my first husband. He was so surprised.
Pure Facts 👌🏾🙏🏾
Yes i relate to that i agree to that because that is true
You are very accurate. Went we left first is mentally and very slow. But I went to take the decision to leave it is final.
I agree with your perspective, Sir!
Loooord always on point 🤣
It’s funny you say that, but my problem is a mental problem and mental problems. Just don’t go away overnight. It’s a slow agonizing process that I have been overcoming and getting better every day and still she just doesn’t believe me that I’m not doing the things that I used to do I love her with all my heart and I’m doing everything I can to keep a positive positive attitude, and I always have hoping God that he gives me a sign that she still has hope and love for me because I’m trying with everything I have in my body to do everything I need to do let her know that I love her and I need her and I do right by her man I want to be the man that she loves the man that can be honest with her and open with her the man that’s going to stand by her the man that’s gonna give her everything that she needs support Financial everything the man who’s gonna be loyal to her man’s never gonna put her anywhere except in front and shoulders so the whole world can see that I’m in love with one person and one person only
Yes we plan, this is 100% right! I’ve done it few times
A "nagging " woman is being made to repeat herself endlessly, to beg the man that claims to love her. Beggar Queen and goodbye.
Well said!
Thanks for sharing the true nature of love and kindness within a friendship or relationship .. 😮
Amen.Preach brother.
When a woman stops to telling what she misses and even not complain or explain then its the beginning that she loses the hope.
I definitely did this… he is dropping them gems. 💎
This is so on the mark absolutely full-on truth I'm a very patient woman 28 years of marriage..It's all about him what he wants for himself he will never change.Im going to ask him too I want him to want too.Im Out♡
Thanks Chris I appreciate and love listening to you whenever I come across your posts, you’re a gem a genuine person ❤❤❤❤
Good message bro
Amen Praise be God wait on the Lord to send you that special Godly woman or man ❤ thanks Cris and God bless you.
So true, I actually always spoke up about though…you’re gonna miss me when I’m gone!
This is so true its such a sad story makes alot of women give up on love
I know I have. When I get free this time, I am not doing this again. I'm 54 years old & my life has never been MINE. I want to know what that's like & all my relationships have ended the same way...betrayal. Betrayal trauma is real & it's so destructive. It's just not worth the risk of going through that again. Too old for the drama that I never wanted in the first place. There's no way I'm going to allow myself to depend on some man to take care of me at the end of my life. I'm the only one I trust enough to do that.
Amen, I say the relationship is over way before the paperwork There are only so much we can keep telling them before we jump ship.
Spitting facts ❤❤❤
This is so true , and a true fact
So True 😳 Absolutely 💯
I just subscribed. You are wise beyond your years and, I love you and, your channel.
Yes, that is what happens when needs are dismissed. This was my story
So true! How do you know all this?? 😍
Thanks Be To God for this Blessings And This Messager Gbu Always
I walked out on my fiancé exactly as Chris said. To this day l did not come back and he does not understand why l left. 😢 the lack of communication, effort, time, his female friends, no boundaries. He wants to get married but cannot be a husband. Wants the title but cannot be the leader, the man. To put me first, his priority, instead always being the handyman, the escort (escort his female friend to a party). Getting annoyed with me because l didn’t agree to him going. Dancing with other female friends at parties and didn’t see there was anything wrong. He lashes out unnecessary, make me to be the bad guy and I’m at fault. We were supposed to get married next year 🙁🙁
Very very very true. I left him mentally before physically I was tired and he chose not to notice
Yes I Totally Claim This Positive Energy it is True They take us for Granted
Mentally checked out years ago and husband was in total shock when she walked out
I had to lower my expections so I would stop being disappointed. Disappointed that he might initiate a night out, because he wanted to do something nice.
Disappointed that he might clean up after himself or me cooking dinner because he knew I liked a clean house/kitchen and it would show gratitude for the effort I went to for him.
Disappointed that we didn’t do hardly anything together. He was an island in our relationship and yet he was STILL shocked when I told him I’m out.
Your opinion is 💯 cleared
Yes u r soooooo right this is Facts