How to *actually* REINVENT YOURSELF in 2024

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
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    In today’s video, we’re talking about how to reinvent yourself, shift your identity, and step into your dream life! I hope this video breaks it down for you so you can actually understand and apply it to your life. Once you can master this process, it will change everything 💕
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    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 How to Reinvent Yourself
    0:29 Your identity creates your reality
    2:05 There are 2 ways to change your life
    4:46 Step 1
    5:48 Step 2
    9:55 Step 3
    15:54 If you’re struggling with step 3, here’s my advice…
    16:12 Let yourself climb the ladder
    20:07 Try her on in new places
    21:24 If your close friends/family hold you back
    22:21 Don’t waste these opportunities
    24:26 Lastly, step 4 - how to complete the cycle
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  • @gabrielahada
    @gabrielahada 6 місяців тому +2582

    We don’t owe anyone consistency with our past selves! We can reinvent ourselves at any point without explanation to the people around us. Thank you for this!

    • @kattt8183
      @kattt8183 5 місяців тому +20

      I really needed to see this 😌❤️

    • @devildiamond68
      @devildiamond68 5 місяців тому +10

      Okrrrr, evolve always ♥️

    • @ispeakmandarin
      @ispeakmandarin 5 місяців тому +7

      That's what life should be, live at the present!!!!

    • @joybiyela5513
      @joybiyela5513 5 місяців тому +7

      Well said. How do I like this a 100 million times?!❤️

    • @CuteKAS
      @CuteKAS 5 місяців тому +7

      Love this, never understood the majority’s obsession with being consistent. I can’t count the times people stopped trusting me because I stopped viewing something in a consistent manner.

  • @artistic.harman
    @artistic.harman 4 місяці тому +648

    finally a youtuber who doesnt scream or shout and set unrealistic expectations or just beating the shit of the person to tell them to do better. keep up the good work girl

    • @priyasukhai8615
      @priyasukhai8615 3 місяці тому +1

      23525w

    • @yinyangcalmness178
      @yinyangcalmness178 2 місяці тому +5

      My point exactly. I despise people screaming at me. Glad I'm not alone in this journey of reinventing.

    • @crystalhandy2584
      @crystalhandy2584 2 місяці тому

      ​@@priyasukhai8615What does the numbers mean?

    • @linaquaries792
      @linaquaries792 18 днів тому

      agreed ! you should check out tam kaur as well. She sometimes speaks loudly but it don't feel like she's screaming at me hahah and I've never seen a youtuber give this much value in every single video

    • @sophiastarotmore2844
      @sophiastarotmore2844 17 днів тому +1

      🪻🪻💜💜💜💜💜
      Thank you so much. I struggled to see myself as successful until now. I took your advice and layered it with examples of times when I had felt truly successful and it not only worked but I felt relieved because I could feel the release of the energy it took to keep myself feeling unsuccessful! 🎉

  • @rixolans
    @rixolans Місяць тому +543

    it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womans magic truths on borlest

    • @senatemona5402
      @senatemona5402 Місяць тому

      Going to google this

    • @Stormy_Dawn
      @Stormy_Dawn 2 дні тому

      Each page looks like I'm about to get hacked if I download it. Lol

  • @susanbrown4766
    @susanbrown4766 2 місяці тому +235

    Im 62, came across this w a bit of a smirk and an eye roll.
    I guess I was practicing some ageism and thought what on Earth can this beautiful young lady teach me? After all,
    I've seen so many of these over the years.... But I was way off...I have never heard anything that was this practical with specific, realistic "tips", for lack of a better word.
    Thank you so much and you should be very proud of yourself:)

    • @mirandareneeart
      @mirandareneeart 2 місяці тому +2

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
      Thank you so much.🥰

    • @BlackjackMonster07
      @BlackjackMonster07 Місяць тому +9

      Thank you for admitting fault and being transparent! It’s very refreshing and appreciated :) I’m glad you took some benefits from this video! I was similar to you, not in terms of the ageism but I was like “oh…just another self-help video, nothing I didn’t hear before” but I’m glad I clicked on it, because it was easy to listen through and was genuinely so helpful!

  • @adamrosefire
    @adamrosefire 5 місяців тому +467

    Takeaways:
    -you have to embody the person you want to be, just like a great actor becomes the role.
    -In order to move into the new identity, you have to allow the old one to die, which can be painful.
    -It is important to be consistent with your new identity, aligning your actions with the new you. -To facilitate the shift, practice being the bold new you in public places where no one knows you.

  • @adiki7235
    @adiki7235 4 місяці тому +76

    “behaviour will always fall in line with identity.”

  • @ainaragurrutxaga6013
    @ainaragurrutxaga6013 Місяць тому +29

    I would love to become that dog that's lying in the sofa. He seems so happy with his identity ❤️

  • @bridgettemacfadden4928
    @bridgettemacfadden4928 2 місяці тому +62

    May all our delulu come trululu r💰💵🏘️

  • @RainbowPyramid
    @RainbowPyramid 5 місяців тому +404

    This is perhaps the BEST video I have ever watched. So many of those "just manifest" suggestions don't work for me because I feel the cognative dissonance. How can I believe "I am wealthy" when I am behind on my mortgage. I CAN BELIEVE "I am a successful business woman and my profits continue to increase"

    • @MagicalMindsByAmra
      @MagicalMindsByAmra 5 місяців тому +15

      So true, and important. We can only manifest what we believe can be manifested⭐️

    • @sonalsharma7495
      @sonalsharma7495 4 місяці тому +3

      well said👏

    • @user-fm5eh1fi5z
      @user-fm5eh1fi5z 4 місяці тому +3

      Same, the Joker example made something click in my mind

    • @iamwendysnowsnow5834
      @iamwendysnowsnow5834 3 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @ew.3275
    @ew.3275 6 місяців тому +328

    It all starts with an identity shift.
    Get clear on your identity.
    Change the identity and your habits will align.
    No rebirth without death
    Let go
    Anything that does not align has to be let go
    Be aware who you are
    Embody the role, internalize
    Meditate with the new u
    Your identity creates your reality
    Behavior is a reflection of identity
    Talk think feel assume like you embody that person
    Tips n tricks
    Start on a step in the ladder
    Small Jumps
    Try embodying when going to a place no one knows u
    A test drive
    Speak to your close friends
    Big moments in life can be used to capitalize
    Dont waste beginnings
    It needs consistency intentional effort

    • @justalina_S
      @justalina_S 5 місяців тому +21

      I just screenshot this. I’m going to read it each morning as a reminder of all these powerful things, which if implanted daily, will be beneficial and impactful on helping me step into my higher self. Thanks again 🙏🏾

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 5 місяців тому

      no problemm :))
      @@justalina_S

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 5 місяців тому

      ur welcome :)) u can do this!@@justalina_S

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 5 місяців тому

      @@kirstenprice2750 frfr

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 5 місяців тому

      yessir
      @@kirstenprice2750

  • @cassifink5394
    @cassifink5394 2 місяці тому +44

    This video made me cry. The part where you said “I couldn’t embody I’m healed so I said I was on the way to healing” it was so reassuring to hear, because that’s exactly how I feel.
    I see all these things about manifestation and energy but I’m in my darkest days and I feel that I can totally embody “I’m on the way to healing”
    This video gave me hope, thank you.

  • @user-tifa
    @user-tifa 2 місяці тому +30

    6 minutes in but this is already without a doubt the best glow up video of the millions ive watched since grade 8 and im about to GRADUATE next month, can u imagine?

  • @kasiowelove1
    @kasiowelove1 6 місяців тому +505

    💜 Thank you for this video. I’m forced to reinvent myself from a married to a divorced woman, but also a survivor of a neglective and mentally abusing, toxic relationship. And also - as someone who overcame depression and suicidal thoughts. So, I’m actually happy to finally become someone I always wanted to be!

    • @hameshachakma
      @hameshachakma 6 місяців тому +26

      Girl, we’re so very proud of you. I hope you get to live your dream life and rock that beautiful smile of yours.

    • @user-ux8zt9io9k
      @user-ux8zt9io9k 6 місяців тому +22

      You are not alone 🥺

    • @thequietkate
      @thequietkate 6 місяців тому +24

      So proud of you, especially for overcoming depression! I also spent most of 2022/2023 getting out of a deep depressive state and it is incredibly difficult. It is easy to get angry at yourself for “wasting time” by being depressed, but you should take some time to celebrate! Make 2024 a year of rewarding yourself for healing and overcoming such a major challenge!

    • @forever12gems55
      @forever12gems55 6 місяців тому +7

      Much strength to u ❤. It' s really brave thing. I hope/wish to u that God send you strength and give peace and thing u want in this new journey

    • @marycomstock6098
      @marycomstock6098 5 місяців тому +21

      I am also transitioning from married to divorced, and that transformation also brings me freedom from emotional neglect and toxicity. 2024 has amazing things in store for us, I just know it! Many blessings ❤

  • @emae5235
    @emae5235 6 місяців тому +89

    "no longer relevant, because it's not part of your story", is the best advice I've heard in so long. Thank you as always!

    • @MagicalMindsByAmra
      @MagicalMindsByAmra 5 місяців тому +3

      So important to remind ourselves of this! The ego really takes many ways to keep itself alive in status quo. When we truly see it for what it is - which is just an old, no longer relevant story, it can no longer exist🙏

  • @clarissataylor8689
    @clarissataylor8689 2 місяці тому +8

    💜 I have literally watched this video 4 times in a row today… I have never watched a video like that’s that actually helps you understand HOW to become a different person. I have been struggling with this for years and finally I found it! I am so hopeful now. Thank you! 💜

  • @qelb5046
    @qelb5046 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for speaking so clear and precisely....
    Calm. Confident.
    Beauty.💜

  • @Kallenxo
    @Kallenxo 5 місяців тому +245

    “There is no rebirth without death” that is sooo powerful. Wow you are incredibly helpful 😭❤️ I had my first child at 21 and my second at 24 with my now husband and every year I’ve gotten farther from myself. I used to be a straight up diva. For the last 3 years I’ve tried reclaiming who I am. But this quote really struck me. I’m so ready to be me again.. it’s going to take some discipline but I’m just so ready. Your videos are truly helping me. Thank you so much.

    • @chroniclesofcarrie1118
      @chroniclesofcarrie1118 5 місяців тому +2

      💜

    • @MagicalMindsByAmra
      @MagicalMindsByAmra 5 місяців тому +6

      You were never really lost, just preparing yourself to find the newer, better version of you that has been growing and expanding in the background 💎

    • @NishaNetraLaxmi
      @NishaNetraLaxmi 4 місяці тому +2

      Alots of power to you, You can reclaim your power 💪

  • @albenatsacheva3315
    @albenatsacheva3315 5 місяців тому +134

    💜 Thank you Jillz for this video. The example you gave from the book "Atomic Habits" is exactly what I did with smoking. First I threw away all cigarettes, tobacco and lighters that I had and started repeating in my head: "I am a non-smoker, and what is it that non-smokers don't do - we don't smoke". Probably sounds stupid but it's been more than 1,5 years and I have completely changed my identity so that the idea of smoking itself seems weird and crazy. I hope everyone this year can become the person they have always wanted to be. The challenge is to shift all your identities regarding different things but I think it is possible if we're consistent as you said.
    Happy and healthy 2024 for everyone reading this 💜

    • @hannahdewinter5515
      @hannahdewinter5515 5 місяців тому +6

      Just started reading this yesterday to help me stop vaping among other habits ❤

    • @gabbylopez3010
      @gabbylopez3010 3 місяці тому +1

      I don't know you but I'm proud of you!!

  • @christilane8412
    @christilane8412 3 місяці тому +6

    You have touched on EVERY single issue I'm trying to change. Èven the autoimmune disease!! The letting go even some ppl that have never been healthy for you. Or better yet, toxic and they know but in their eyes you're not worth it to not be treated this way. So thanks!! Morgellons free here I come!!💜💜 # HEALINGMYBLINDNESS

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx 3 місяці тому +7

    "Omg 😱😲 i just love how generous you are!" You made my day! I am soooo happy and grateful! ❤😊

  • @bashirauwal5825
    @bashirauwal5825 5 місяців тому +158

    Hi thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago. I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey 💗

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 4 місяці тому +6

      Change your mentality, read self help books, broaden your knowledge, budget and avoid impulse spending, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on.....
      I hope you find it helpful

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 4 місяці тому +4

      I learned to be frugal, minimal on spending and paying myself first through investing, made plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plans consistently

    • @albertcharles4415
      @albertcharles4415 4 місяці тому

      Please can you recommend books and a good professional I can learn from ?:)

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 4 місяці тому

      There are numerous investment options (real estate, stocks, crypto, ETFs) but my greatest recommendation is to have a pro lead you towards a successful one and make good financial decisions

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 4 місяці тому

      Rich Dad, Poor Dad " is one of the financial books I'm familiar with. A financial IA will provide you with additional book recommendations and General assistance

  • @kimberlyevertsz7276
    @kimberlyevertsz7276 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Jillz! Have a wonderful day

  • @suphahfafakaleh551
    @suphahfafakaleh551 4 місяці тому +1

    THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO I HAVE WATCHED ON REINVENTING ONESELF! CLEARLY, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT AND IT'S FULL OF THAT TRANSFERING POWER TO MANIFEST! WELL DONE AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING❤❤

  • @hiannahgus574
    @hiannahgus574 6 місяців тому +55

    💜 Thank you for this wonderful, inspiring video. I have recreated myself a few times already. The last time was, like you, away from the ill woman with autoimmune diseases to an active, healthy, vibrant woman who inspires others. I not only got healthy, I lost 60 pounds and do Pilates. I feel great. Now I am doing it again, as I go into a new time in my life. I am creating the women who lives the wonderful, rich, full life I am choosing to live today full of joie de vivre, love, and passion for life. Keep up the good work! Many blessings! ❤

  • @io100x100
    @io100x100 5 місяців тому +42

    I want to share my experience. I've always been shy, insecure, with some social anxiety. My parents though would criticise me for that (I didn't like it either) so I started changing, taking more risks even though I was feeling super uncomfortable, talking with a lot of people, working out more... and a little by little I became that, and my friends forgot that old version of me. I still struggle with self-love, but I'm trying to change it, I'll change it this year 💪 (There is nothing wrong with being shy, I wish my experience with my parents would have been better because I think by criticising me they contributed a lot on my insecurities, but it is what it is. I don't want to be in a victim mindset since we can always change and improve ❤💪)

    • @yes_noa
      @yes_noa 4 місяці тому +1

      I am just like you and I want to change this year!

    • @lucrtrvl
      @lucrtrvl 3 місяці тому +1

      I was shy to the point that I couldn’t make a call to a restaurant to make a reservation or to just call unfamiliar places or to talk on a phone with strangers. That was until I had to take job as a Network Operations Engineer at a telecom company. Which included but wasn’t limited to calling all over the world to troubleshoot with other telecom specialists. I can’t believe now that someone wouldn’t be able to dial a number and start a conversation with any person anywhere in the world. That shows how easily we can shift our identity.

  • @scraphappyjen4561
    @scraphappyjen4561 21 годину тому

    We are on the precipice of a big move and I have the opportunity to shift my entire personality. New location, new house, new job, new friends, new daily routine, new everything and I can already see the shift in myself. In trying to find somewhere to live and exploring job opportunities I am seeing myself in these new roles and thriving but more than that I feel like I’m more of myself in this next phase of my life. I dress differently for property viewings, I present myself as more capable in my mannerisms and communication. I behave differently towards my husband. I feel more confident. I am so happy to let go of the person I’ve been. Thank you for putting context to all of this, an identity shift is truly what I am experiencing.

  • @blossomcherry8935
    @blossomcherry8935 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this video! I loved every single moment of it!💜

  • @user-gr1ly1tj3e
    @user-gr1ly1tj3e 5 місяців тому +39

    Holy crap! I have literally never thought of changing habits and changing things about myself in this way. Girl, this is freaking genius!! Makes so much sense that the things you do mirror the way you feel about yourself. It completely changes the perspective ❤

  • @paulinapardo163
    @paulinapardo163 5 місяців тому +67

    This February I'm moving to another city because this past year I felt like I was getting diluted and grey by living with my parents and I don't want to be this person any more. I already experienced the personality shift once. I spent 3 months in other country, and it was like I was reborn like a totally different person that I liked, but then I had to come back and little by little I turned numb. So I'm ready to recover the enhanced version I created in that trip 💜

    • @Mantra-Ananda
      @Mantra-Ananda 5 місяців тому +1

      Awesome! 🎉

    • @AllAboutSCAR16
      @AllAboutSCAR16 4 місяці тому

      Good luck on your journey and take care!! Dang I wish I could afford to live in other country!

    • @ladysmithanderson3355
      @ladysmithanderson3355 4 місяці тому +3

      I’m in the same boat. I’m living in a place that’s bring no new opportunities or even available men to date. I’m moving to a new city soon. I’m with you!!

  • @mariasarmento6473
    @mariasarmento6473 2 місяці тому +6

    Embodying is finding that person withing you. If you want to become something different than what you already are, it means you feel that pull within you. You're attracted to that idea because you recognize that potential in yourself, calling you to aim higher. To become a new person you just have to rap into that feeling and nurture that pull instead of what you were nurturing before.

  • @thezaiyway
    @thezaiyway 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Jillz. I make it a task to watch a video of yours every week and it has totally helped my mindset change and identity shift 💜💜💜💜

  • @superchat-superchat
    @superchat-superchat 6 місяців тому +28

    Habits become your identity
    Identity is reflected in ur habits
    How to shift ur identity -
    1. Who is she? What's her life like? What does she believe abt herself? How does she feel in her body? What kind of stories she lives by? At the core, who is she? Not external, but internal. Know everything abt her. And decide that you are going to become her.
    2. Rebirth comes after death. Letting go of everything that doesn't align with the new you. The past is no longer relevant. Grief is normal in this process. Decide what all parts of urself have to die. Letting go of people, clothing items, etc.
    3. Embody the character

  • @viviane21011
    @viviane21011 5 місяців тому +22

    "Sometimes we are forced to new beginnings when we don't want them". Yes. 💜

  • @user-ld6wt5gy3c
    @user-ld6wt5gy3c 3 місяці тому +2

    💜Thanks for the video! Just what I needed!

  • @gemmadidit4118
    @gemmadidit4118 10 днів тому

    💜 What I love about UA-cam is that wisdom comes in all forms and faces. I don't know how old you are...and honestly it doesn't matter, because you have rocked my world! Thank you🤗.

  • @nikolgeorgieva8316
    @nikolgeorgieva8316 5 місяців тому +17

    First, when I saw the title, I was very skeptical to watch it because I watch so many gurus and life coaches who record so many videos about this thing and talk nonsense. After that, I can state that it was one of the most valuable things I have ever seen. You explained everything in detail and made me look at things from a different perspective. ❤️

  • @AmyRoss23
    @AmyRoss23 6 місяців тому +18

    At the moment the biggest thing I’m trying to prioritise is changing my mindset and improving my mental health. I loved this video thank you Jillz!

  • @roelandahartman5634
    @roelandahartman5634 3 місяці тому

    Hi! I just found your channel and this one blew my mind, I’m still trying to wrap my mind around it. I first watched the one with tips how to keep yourself disciplined, how you renamed that word and called it devotion changed my entire perspective! I know who I want to be, not in detail but I’ll be re watching this video multiple times and I’ll become who I want to be. Even better. I must become her. There’s no other option❤🙏 god bless you!

  • @exoticenby
    @exoticenby Місяць тому

    I literally needed this so much I could cry. I’ve watched so many videos like these but never came across one like yours. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @Kysentha
    @Kysentha 6 місяців тому +16

    This is one of my favorite videos you've released, Jillz! I really resonate with you of needing deaths for rebirths, especially when it comes. to people who can't let go of the "old" you. My boyfriend of nearly 8 years broke up two months ago, and I felt that he and his parents never could see me past the insecure new college grad who was trying to find her footing as a working professional and figuring out what she wanted out of life. The death of the relationship lets me embody who I truly want to be. I also love your tip of embodying who you want to be when you're out and about in places where nobody knows you.

  • @pepper8163
    @pepper8163 6 місяців тому +4

    I just discovered your channel and I'm very thankful for all your words of encouragement to star this 2024. You are a true inspiration . Also it's adorable to see your dog sleeping in the background, he or she brings lots of peace to this video ❤❤❤

  • @eljabe7584
    @eljabe7584 2 години тому

    This is SO good! LOVING it!! Thank you.💜

  • @kromatic3610
    @kromatic3610 6 місяців тому +11

    💜 Wow, Jillz! This video is chock full of information! Let's reinforce that identity/mindset/paradigm shift for 2024! Love it!!!

  • @pragyakansal9017
    @pragyakansal9017 5 місяців тому +3

    I love this so much! I feel like every change I've tried to make in the past has been so action or outcome focused, which is why I've never been able to create lasting change, because relying on action alone takes willpower and leads to so much more resistance. I am now focusing on shifting my identity and the way that I perceive myself by using "I am" statements to define my identity versus "I have to do" or "I want to do" statements, which are solely action and outcome focused statements.

  • @ingridr4374
    @ingridr4374 3 місяці тому +1

    This video made my day. I have so much hope for the future. Thanks ❤

  • @viviannypassos5778
    @viviannypassos5778 3 місяці тому +3

    Queen! I loved your content! 💜

  • @msimonard
    @msimonard 6 місяців тому +6

    Once again you seem like a bff and a fairy who just explains everything so easily and comfortably.
    I met your channel last year and every now and then I catch myself hoping for your next video release.
    I just wrote on my diary last night about how I feel like a fish out of water because I’m saying goodbye to the old me and preparing myself to meet the new me… but in the process I fell like I’m in between, like I’m in a limbo.
    So thank you so much for this video and best wishes from Brazil. 🇧🇷💗

  • @mijngebruikersnaam
    @mijngebruikersnaam 6 місяців тому +7

    halfway through the video and decided to let you know that your videos are so beautiful. the information is available for all of us through books, the internet etc but the way you explain it is so unique. keep doing you

  • @Im_AshParker
    @Im_AshParker 11 днів тому

    The universe knew I needed this video! I've been dying to make changes to become what I really want in my life. I feel so lost in the process. The way you explain things really helps. Now I just need to figure out how to tell people in my life to let go of the old things that have identified me that are no longer who I want to be.
    Thank you for making this video. I'm going to listen to it everyday while I create the new me. ❤

  • @prettycozylife
    @prettycozylife 6 місяців тому +82

    Yay!! New video is out! I really look forward to your videos. They have become a part of my Sunday routine and are such a great to start for the upcoming week.✨📔☕️ I ended and started the year going back to some of your manifestation videos from years past and made a great board that makes me excited every time I see it! Truly appreciate all the work you put into this channel and the help you give to us ladies recuperating from the highly masculine, corporate world. Ok, now time to watch. 😂 I’ve got my kitty in my lap, coffee in my hands and ready to take 2024 by storm. Hope everyone is having a good start to the year. Let’s get it! Softly…😊

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  6 місяців тому +7

      I love this!!! Wishing you the best start to 2024 💜

  • @s0nyaschannel
    @s0nyaschannel 2 місяці тому

    I am in my second act. I really appreciate this video. Solidifies many things I know, but having you confirm it is extremely healing.

  • @unmaskyourmagic6167
    @unmaskyourmagic6167 5 місяців тому +3

    This is the video I was searching for when I typed in, "I'm always late how to change my life." Now I'm down a wormhole in your videos :) I love that you talk about the energy of it all. That's my jam. Thank you.

  • @prernagandhi567
    @prernagandhi567 6 місяців тому +12

    💜 Thank you Jillz! My life has changed from the moment I started following your content. Sometimes it feels so aligned, and so in sync as if somehow the Universe is sharing my thoughts, my struggles, and everything I need right now with you, and there another video of you pops up with exactly what I feel I need right now. I am super grateful for you 💜 Thank you for existing and sharing such wonderful content and energy with me💜

  • @annetteangulo5942
    @annetteangulo5942 3 місяці тому +1

    This video was literally what I needed, I'm so grateful I found this video when I did 🙏

  • @_justpeachy_004
    @_justpeachy_004 Місяць тому

    You have changed my way of thinking and I am SO grateful for it❤I’ve recently experienced a random need to just let everything go so I can achieve my dreams. I’ve struggled for years with being socially awkward, insecure and a huge over-thinker. It’s held me back from so many experiences in my life and I’m done letting it control me. Thank you so much for helping me start my journey to reinvent myself❤❤

  • @Nina_Hallsjo
    @Nina_Hallsjo 6 місяців тому +5

    💜💜💜 You explain this in such a good and understandable way. I’ve been in a weird kind of vacuum in my life for the last year, and I’m really trying to break out of it. Embodiment! That’s the key word I’ve been looking for! Thank you

  • @Lautaro2401
    @Lautaro2401 4 місяці тому +4

    This video is a Master Piece! I love the powerful information that you share with us and the great and beautiful way you communicate! Thank You Jillz! 💜 Keep the great work in helping others manifest the life of their dreams!

  • @eliasnia
    @eliasnia 3 місяці тому +1

    💜 this is what i needed right now and this explanation is perfect!

  • @ashleighnoon
    @ashleighnoon 3 місяці тому

    💜💜💜 This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. I have been doing an amazing job already changing things to be better for myself. I am healing and I am happy and grateful. This just added so much more confidence in what I am doing and who I am.

  • @kelia.booknest
    @kelia.booknest 5 місяців тому +5

    💜 I’m on your channel for the very first time and I really needed this, thank you. I’m in an awkward situation of wanting to breakup but scared at the same time to make a mistake. And also strongly believing that I’m made to live on my own… I had shifted my identity about 8 years ago when I got divorced, and obviously I was younger so everything came along nicely. It’s a hard job but shifting identity is worth the way I feel 🙂

  • @bellaflora.
    @bellaflora. 6 місяців тому +8

    This is extremely helpful for me right now as I am also healing “incurable”autoimmune disease. I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m definitely leaning in and embracing the change. I feel like my inner butterfly is about to emerge! Your videos are genius, btw. Thank you 🦋🪷💗

  • @Nurten_bayraktar_
    @Nurten_bayraktar_ 3 місяці тому +1

    The channel I needed the most!❤ Thank you for this amazing channel ❤️🙏

  • @kch3019
    @kch3019 Місяць тому

    Girl I am really glad I bumped into this vid, I have been watching self identity vids the whole morning and this explained it best. Thanks!!

  • @Kat-yg9np
    @Kat-yg9np 5 місяців тому +9

    💜 Having recently decided to end a relationship - THIS could not possibly have come at a BETTER time in my life! Thank you so very much Jillz!

  • @Miss__Elle
    @Miss__Elle 6 місяців тому +12

    💜 i started my transformation 2 years ago and now I am in a phase where old life has collapsed , and the new one hasn't really come together yet. I'm grateful for the inspiration you provide on my journey 😘

    • @mjw2013xx
      @mjw2013xx 5 місяців тому

      The "liminal" stage between 2 worlds

  • @anageorgina
    @anageorgina 3 місяці тому

    Such a profound topic! It's been my work for the last 2 years. First going through a long, confusing, painful death, and then creating again. Great point, very insightful!

  • @sarahkayharrison8258
    @sarahkayharrison8258 12 днів тому

    Love love love love love love love love love this… I have done this with my health too, now I’m doing it with love and wealth, but I needed this reminder. Thank you. 🎉

  • @gingerdad127
    @gingerdad127 4 місяці тому +4

    IMO this is the best identity changing video on UA-cam, thank you so much for this content ❤❤❤❤

  • @MaryMichelleWorthy
    @MaryMichelleWorthy 6 місяців тому +3

    Haven’t even finished it, but Jillz you have outdone yourself with this one. Bravo girl❤

  • @raminatrade6293
    @raminatrade6293 4 місяці тому +1

    💜 Thank you, I am very grateful to you for sharing it.

  • @ARTOFROM
    @ARTOFROM 5 днів тому +2

    💜💜💜💜💜P.S I took notes down and sketching and painting this proccess of identity shift into manefestation via art. I always wanted to share my journey via youtube but now i will start today becoming the woman I aspire to be.

  • @Idk_Simi
    @Idk_Simi 6 місяців тому +25

    Hey Jillz, I'm actually a new subscriber but I have watched a couple of your videos and I already feel much better about myself and can't wait to become the best version of myself. Keep up the good work, you are truly inspiring and sort of like a role model to me. Have a nice day!

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  6 місяців тому +2

      Aww welcome!!! So happy to have you here 💕

  • @saveyrishi
    @saveyrishi 6 місяців тому +14

    The way you break down thing and explain topics is beautiful. I love your videos! 💛

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  6 місяців тому

      Ah thank you!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @dottieprestel2743
    @dottieprestel2743 3 місяці тому +3

    I just moved into a new apartment this past weekend of Easter and woke up in my new place Easter morning (time of Rebirth). This video is perfect timing ❤😊

  • @tammysausa6742
    @tammysausa6742 2 місяці тому +1

    💜 loved this message!! Thank you

  • @mar_in_color
    @mar_in_color 5 місяців тому +22

    I’m in exactly the same boat as past you right now, struggling with an autoimmune condition and deciding that I’m not taking “oh well deal with it” for an answer! I quit my job and am actively reinventing myself and honestly so grateful for the illness because I never would have had the guts to take these leaps without a big enough catalyst. I am so excited to get to know the new me I’m building 💚💙💜

  • @rebeccajonh
    @rebeccajonh 6 місяців тому +24

    💜 Thanks, Jillz! I just recently discovered your channel and LOVE your videos! I've been through hell with my health in my life so I totally relate and after 20 years unable to walk and the past 5 being homebound and bedridden, I miraculously regained my ability to walk through the grace of God alone without medical intervention! I truly believe in the power of prayer and energy healing through it all. Thanks for ALL you do for the community!!!!! Sending you love and hugs!!!!!

    • @seoocathainestateofbrianka8043
      @seoocathainestateofbrianka8043 5 місяців тому

      Essentially the grace of god is through the power of belief- Joe Dispenza's testimonials are demonstrating just that with cancers. That is the automatically switched off healing part of our brain and the trauma memory blocking in body. The power of prayer and the power of belief are one and the same. Prayer is essentially meditation. It's source-god. Many people don't know how to 'pray' they plead change-which assumes scarcity. It's why that type of prayer doesn't work. However abundance prayer, that you used, whereby possibility is expanded and invited from higher intelligence. Allowing and attuning into whole brainwave coherence. So I agree with you, for some they call it god, for some their relationship to religion makes them not want to ascribe transformation to god. So well done to you.

  • @cassiamarocki
    @cassiamarocki 3 місяці тому +1

    💜 This was the most helpful video I saw on the topic. Thank you!

  • @leaignacio3482
    @leaignacio3482 28 днів тому

    💜 I've had this on my Watch Later playlist for the longest time and now I'm wishing I didn't put it off for so long!! This video is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for breaking down this concept so thoroughly and practically! o know it'll be difficult to let go of my past identity but this... this gave me hope that it is indeed possible. I swear to go back to this when I can finally say "I've reinvented myself"💜

  • @BeBeReed
    @BeBeReed 4 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for the real talk! 💜💜💜

  • @ginwilcox9555
    @ginwilcox9555 3 місяці тому +2

    💜 Thank you. I needed this video.

  • @Show_Love_Serina
    @Show_Love_Serina 2 місяці тому +1

    Needed this so much rn. Thank you! 💜

  • @makruhilarrosa5918
    @makruhilarrosa5918 5 місяців тому +21

    💜 I've never heard personal reinvention talked about this way. It has really blown my mind. It's a more soft, more intuitive method to archive your new self, and I can't wait to put this in practice. Thank you very much for posting this video

  • @MilindBorkar_MENTOR
    @MilindBorkar_MENTOR 5 місяців тому +3

    This is a powerful video, I am thankful to you from my bottom of heart ❤️

  • @marianduran3149
    @marianduran3149 17 днів тому

    💜 I’ll have to listen to this again; you gave us so many valuable tips. Thanks!

  • @exquisitelyelizabeth6531
    @exquisitelyelizabeth6531 4 місяці тому

    Absolutely love how you explain identity shifting. Its amazing. Love your calm voice. Thank you for sharing❤

  • @gurpreetkaursandhu
    @gurpreetkaursandhu 5 місяців тому +9

    💜 broke up after accepting all the flaws in him, saw no growth in me in any aspect. Working on my self.

  • @lttlod1
    @lttlod1 6 місяців тому +5

    This is soooo good! I've noticed lately my old self has come up again to try and be released. I'm struggling with shifting fully out of who I was and who I want to become. My 20 year career that was my passion isn't fitting me any longer. I'm working towards something more aligned that I feel more passionate about and doesn't fry my nervous system on a daily basis! I'm trying to go from seeing myself as single to being in a relationship one day. Trying to break through glass ceilings is tough but I like the ladder example, take a step towards what I want and who I want to become fully : )

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  6 місяців тому +1

      Just having the self awareness to realize that the old self is coming back up is huge! Half the battle right there 😊

  • @rileypaigemc7018
    @rileypaigemc7018 3 місяці тому +1

    1 minute in and my jaw dropped ! You will never moved passed the limits of your identity. GIRL

  • @graceartsgifts
    @graceartsgifts 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful 😍 such practical steps and advice, this helps more than you know!❤ God bless ❤❤

  • @kokikara
    @kokikara 6 місяців тому +5

    Jillz thanks so much for the tip to move from A-B instead of A-Z. I was visioning/manifesting a lot of things that seem so far away and it feels too distanced. I like your example of healing, I'm gonna apply that. ❤

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  6 місяців тому +1

      Ahh I’m glad it was helpful!! 😘

  • @mahshadashrafi7838
    @mahshadashrafi7838 5 місяців тому +8

    This is so strange yet wholesome. Last night I was crying cause there's a chance I'm developing an autoimmune disease and I need to make a major shift. And today I came across this amazing video. I'm not sure I've got the whole thing but I'm grateful for I take it as a sign. Thank you

    • @__GirlGetUp__
      @__GirlGetUp__ 5 місяців тому

      This work will help your autoimmune. That and parasite detoxing. I healed my endometriosis symptoms doing those 2 things ❤❤❤❤

    • @mahshadashrafi7838
      @mahshadashrafi7838 5 місяців тому

      @@__GirlGetUp__ thank you dear❤️

    • @tinasarahhofer3853
      @tinasarahhofer3853 4 місяці тому

      @@__GirlGetUp__ please tell me how you healed your Endo - if you don’t mind! I am so desperate, I feel like total crap and missing out on life…

  • @ladyofdragons28
    @ladyofdragons28 Місяць тому

    💜💜💜 I loved this video so much! I watch videos along these lines all the time, yet in the past have had trouble implementing change; this video, and the examples you gave helped me to pinpoint the error in my thought patterns, and to implement change!Thank you so much!

  • @meerajeram4033
    @meerajeram4033 3 місяці тому

    💜💜💜 Thank you for this 🙏🏼 This is the first video that breaks down step by step how to actually reinvent yourself. I am needing to do this now for my next chapter and this is perfect!

  • @user-ic9np7yt5p
    @user-ic9np7yt5p 28 днів тому +4

    14:23, when I was a child till my teenage years, my mom used to call me. You're a bad,dump, annoying, and dirty person.
    But later, I passed my teenage time. My mom changed, and she learned energy she did self-improvement and became more aware
    Then she used to tell my smaller sister, who is 10 younger than me she is amazing, beautiful, and an angel she is.
    I can definitely tell the difference. I can't stop seeing myself as a dump, annoying, and dirty person I am. I still have childhood trauma. I don't have any friends and boring people pleaser because this makes me feel I'm a good person.
    While my small sister has a magnetic charismatic personality. She is lovely. I love her so much too she is very confident and can say anything in her mind without fear.
    I forgave my mom bc I know at that time she didn't know it. If she knew it, she wouldn't do that.
    I struggle to do this. Somehow, I have low self-esteem and do not find myself worthy. I want to be a charismatic extrovert, sweet person. I try, but these words just stick with me every second for 6 years I acted as a happy normal person but every second a part of me said the same thing my mom told me never letting me be happy for a second. This year, I faced most of my beliefs and thoughts but still working on loving myself and seeing myself worthy.
    My fear is that in next month I will go back to my country and see all my relatives that I haven't seen since my teenage years. I'm that person, mom explained in their head, but now I have changed somehow, but I am not strong enough to resist it bc you all guys know what gonna happen. Pray for me to turn out good

    • @GSAlchemy
      @GSAlchemy 12 днів тому +2

      You’ve got this. Wishing you allll the best❤

    • @user-ic9np7yt5p
      @user-ic9np7yt5p 12 днів тому

      @GSAlchemy thanks 😊 I wish you the best, too ❣️

  • @alannafino2493
    @alannafino2493 5 місяців тому +8

    Early last year I made an intention to figure out what was going on with my masculinity and femininity. I had just graduated from a genders studies program and was feeling very out of sorts. I came from an unsafe abusive home and am the oldest child with three younger brothers so I have always been more in my masculine .. your videos have helped me heal my feminine more than any therapist or gender program. Thank you for the wonderful content Jillz!

  • @scottiea72
    @scottiea72 5 днів тому

    Thank you for making this video! 💜

  • @CM-qh4wj
    @CM-qh4wj 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for turning my day around! You're making a difference!!!

  • @sajkdnsaklfhnj
    @sajkdnsaklfhnj 5 місяців тому +3

    Absolutely agree... And yes, you must let the old version die before you can become the new you. And that process is difficult sometimes. When you're evolving and find out an old habit or belief and a little inner conflict emerges 😵‍💫 yes sometimes that happens unexpectedly. And in those moments you must decide if you're going forward in this new path or will stay stuck in the old version 😅
    I like how you speak about all this in a soft and sweet way 😂🎉❤

  • @bsitsme
    @bsitsme 3 місяці тому +10

    One advice I would give based on experience is that DO NOT pretend or "fake it till you make it " because it will lead you to burn out and to a point where feel like you're lying to yourself which is the truth and that feeling/intuition/conscience is what is speaking to you. It's like me being in my past self energy trying to replicate future self who I 'want' to be as opposed to getting real with myself and stepping into the future self energy in the present moment authentically even if it means to do things slowly, step by step which is the requirement of any form of change.. Hope I made sense
    Your life won't change for you to align,
    You have to change for your life to align

    • @strawberru_milk
      @strawberru_milk 2 місяці тому +2

      this is true... it led me burn out and forget myself and i even felt like im lying to myself. so next time when i do this i will just do it by step and step, slowly, not all at once. 😢

    • @iuliiaposelskaia4495
      @iuliiaposelskaia4495 2 місяці тому +3

      Back this up! I think “fake it till you make it” may bring more harm than good, as it was my case. It really depends on a personality type.