Seth Godin | How to learn and master emotional intelligence

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  • In this episode of Behind the Brand I sat down with author Seth Godin who explains why he asked, Let's stop calling them 'soft skills' when referring to skills harder to measure like emotional intelligence.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 172

  • @BenHanten
    @BenHanten 5 років тому +51

    Every time I hear Seth Godin speak I end up staying up all night with my mind wired awake on ideas.

  • @joydrane6647
    @joydrane6647 4 роки тому +21

    This guy is AMAZING! I've only been aware of him (on UA-cam) for about two weeks. I can't watch enough. His empathy, is so wide, like it covers every area no matter what area he's speaking on. WOW! What a teacher. The Knowledge he shares is so "usable" right here, right now. I just sent this video to my 22 year old grandson :-)? Thank You Behind the Brand. Thank You Seth Godin.

  • @guillaumeplay627
    @guillaumeplay627 2 роки тому +5

    Once upon a time, there lived a man who really wanted to develop his writing... He enjoyed thinking outside the box and was interested in Seth Godin's work.😼

  • @khanshoyeb7
    @khanshoyeb7 2 роки тому +3

    " Shame is an external force that we choose to internalize " This was 🔥

  • @abdulhannan3218
    @abdulhannan3218 7 років тому +5

    Thank you so much for bringing these interviews to us. They are great. I am very grateful for that. You are amazing. Keep the good stuff coming.

  • @agunianassos
    @agunianassos 6 років тому +12

    Thanks Brian for this amazing interview! I love Seth and hugely enjoyed your energy & chemistry. And there were so many golden nuggets there to take away!

  • @anne-marievini4980
    @anne-marievini4980 4 роки тому +1

    This talk is as much a life skills as it is about business.. thank-you

  • @genuinepersonlol
    @genuinepersonlol 7 років тому +10

    Seth Godin your are great please keep up. You helped me a lot thanks

    • @philyeah2765
      @philyeah2765 7 років тому +4

      He doesn't read the UA-cam comments.

  • @americanbuilttolast
    @americanbuilttolast 5 років тому +2

    Live for today-Dream about tomorrow-Learn from yesterday instead of regretting it. Thank you, Gentlemen!

  • @lanawebster2078
    @lanawebster2078 4 роки тому +1

    Love the learning to dance with the resistance...I love to dance so....excellent way to begin........

  • @mireillemassue7540
    @mireillemassue7540 7 років тому +6

    Brian well done. I liked how you shared something of yourself, your own insecurities and self doubts made the conversation more interesting because you created the environment that made us all aware that we have our own self doubts, and insecurities and yet if we step up we can make our own magic, make an impact in our own environment. It takes leadership skills to be open, honest and vulnerable. thank you for this conversation. this too me is the power of sharing our work that we are not alone in our trying.

  • @lauralanier975
    @lauralanier975 7 років тому +2

    Very informative and wise feedback from you guys!! Thank you!

  • @javierv6278
    @javierv6278 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the interview Bryan !!

  • @JosefMarc
    @JosefMarc 7 років тому +8

    Even if you're already seen/read/heard many hours of Seth Godin or Bryan Elliott, this one is a special gem. So candid, so honest. It's like watching expert craftsmen at work -- fascinating in ways that go beyond just what they're doing. It's how they do it, the human joy of doing it. And like Bryan, I only wish I'd found Seth Godin earlier.

  • @scramblendan
    @scramblendan 4 роки тому +1

    Seth is amazing and I really like your work. You "unpack" things well and what you bring to be learned is really good content. I'm going to share an observation with you. You are just a little too modest. When someone pays you a compliments just say thank you. Rock on 👍

  • @ms.5779
    @ms.5779 6 років тому +2

    I didn't know of him or you until an hour ago..glad I do now. Your adoption story stopped my surfing thru videos..Thanks, I think your great 👍...binging on a your work now...great way to spend a slow rainy day at home

  • @karinzdailyhustle8194
    @karinzdailyhustle8194 6 років тому +2

    Just saw your interview with Seth Godin by chance. I always loved how Seth's brilliant one liners can be so thought provoking and life changing. Thank you for sharing his golden nuggets with the world

  • @jbcbarroco
    @jbcbarroco 7 років тому +4

    One of the best marketing, business & life practical philosophers ever. Keep up the great job.

  • @judededude
    @judededude 3 роки тому +2

    What I love about this interview is that Bryan and Seth sit and talk like old school friends. Cross sharing their experiences and wisdom but they share it with all of us... humanity is changing when people share openly and honestly like these two

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +1

      Appreciate the kind words Jude

    • @judededude
      @judededude 3 роки тому

      @@BehindtheBrand very welcomed Bryan, love your craft

  • @ngochuong9999
    @ngochuong9999 2 роки тому +1

    Love your channel, would you make more about case about coffee industry please !

  • @bobninda
    @bobninda 5 років тому +3

    Incredible interview. Well done.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому

      Thanks so much Bob, hope you find more videos on my channel that you like...

  • @greenhoodie
    @greenhoodie 6 років тому +2

    It is quite the cosy setting! But great information. Thanks.

  • @tktmaQnf123
    @tktmaQnf123 4 роки тому +1

    another super important lesson at about 7:20. Thanks for the interview!

  • @bonitaderosa3134
    @bonitaderosa3134 4 роки тому +2

    I could listen to both of you all day - but I need to get back to work:) Thanks for what you do.

  • @tygulick
    @tygulick 4 роки тому +2

    Seth is an American treasure. I'm in awe.

  • @malihehhomayoum7624
    @malihehhomayoum7624 3 роки тому +2

    i did i changed my culture i m from Iran but i live since 24 years in switzerland what he says complitlay right i like it 👍💯

  • @SteffenJuenemann
    @SteffenJuenemann 4 роки тому +2

    Great conversation! What ist the book from Adam Grant you are talking about...?

  • @mattqanimation7372
    @mattqanimation7372 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome Interview! Thank you=) "Self-reassurance is the only reassurance we can look for"

  • @MrPorquoipas
    @MrPorquoipas 7 років тому +1

    Seth Godin what a great guy and definitely is helping me

  • @bedszone
    @bedszone 7 років тому +2

    great interview - I love Seth Godins' marketing wisdom

  • @lanawebster2078
    @lanawebster2078 4 роки тому +1

    Behind the Brand...enjoyed your program!

  • @victorialynn6248
    @victorialynn6248 5 років тому +5

    This is great advice. As a teacher I struggle with culture in my classroom. It's hard to ignore the haters. But this inspires me for the New Year. Thank you

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching Victoria, what subjects do you teach in your class and what age group?

    • @victorialynn6248
      @victorialynn6248 5 років тому +1

      @@BehindtheBrand I teach middle school and high school art. Ages 11 -18

  • @WeConnectHumans
    @WeConnectHumans 3 роки тому +2

    "...If that number is connect it to your happiness. You've to rewared yourself" dammmm
    Seth Godin it's so far the most important people a meet on social media to inspire me... What a influence!

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks Henrique! I hope you're subscribed because I have a lot more Seth Godin videos for you!

    • @WeConnectHumans
      @WeConnectHumans 3 роки тому

      @@BehindtheBrand For sure... I just move to UK to study English and build a project about learning English and Portuguese... And one of the reason is to do Seth Godin "This is Marketing Seminar" because I used to study MARKETING and I love the concept I read on the book too
      Seth Godin is the man who never talk to me about "money focus" but instead he motivated us to bring the work who matter to people who care enough. For me this is an AMAZING MINDSET!

    • @deano6410
      @deano6410 3 роки тому +2

      He said rewire yourself, not reward yourself

    • @WeConnectHumans
      @WeConnectHumans 3 роки тому +1

      @@deano6410 thanks! I am learning english by listening and studying Marketing content

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +1

      Dean Hunt 🎯

  • @Jacksonandwilson
    @Jacksonandwilson 6 років тому

    Hey Bryan- Working late at the office and listening to this wonderful interview. First, thank you. Second, it's been too long. Let's grab lunch or dinner in the New Year. Enjoy the holiday and let's talk soon! Mitch

  • @joshuatoa8150
    @joshuatoa8150 7 років тому +3

    The body language of the host makes for an inorganic viewing experience.

  • @seemapatilJapan
    @seemapatilJapan 3 роки тому +1

    Excellent interview skills to get the best out of Seth.

  • @gracedeiparine9600
    @gracedeiparine9600 5 років тому +1

    I could not believe I just now found him. I have heard of his name quite spoken in others, and I have watched other motivational speakers, but somehow, Seth said something in " Your Job is to make Art - Seth Godin Crafts and Commerce 2017" and what he said completely just change my perspective about what I do. I am an artist and although I have just been creating and doing few shows or exhibits, there are ideas that I have that I want to present to the world in moving my craft forward and what he said in that video has put my mind in a whole new different level about how to put my art into a marketing level and how I feel I can contribute to the world. Like he said, we have the goods and skill, though this part of the video explain even further. I guess there is something in Seth that speaks about compassion for people like me who wants to make a difference and to make the world a better place but what to do next, I am at total loss. And I have to admit that now, that I was scared to move because of being criticized or whatever reasons, but I also know that I have something to offer and it may be able to help someone out there who feels the same way as I did...thanks for this share. This really captivated me and caught my attention. I feel so much better that there are things and situations about this interview that speaks to the core of the heart and it is natural.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому

      Thanks Grace, I appreciate the thoughtful comments. I made a Playlist with all of my videos with Seth on the channel if you'd like to check it out. Enjoy!

    • @gracedeiparine9600
      @gracedeiparine9600 5 років тому

      Thank you very much.

  • @JTCoinRings
    @JTCoinRings 4 роки тому

    Great interview.

  • @khalidsafir
    @khalidsafir 6 років тому +1

    Besides being so informal, which I love, there's so much good stuff in this vid. Just to pick one the last points about giving, I've benefitted from the doing the same in two main, weird, ways. First, by helping I come accross amazing skills. Once I tried to help a charity with a website, the contact from there was rude, told me to go away, even though I helped him before. In exchange, he accidentally pushed me into a new tech, in those days, Wordpress. I made a lot of cool stuff with it and money. The second, maybe more important way, is I have tonnes more confidence, positivity, creativity and mental toughness than hardly anyone else I know. It should be said that I make it a regular part of my week to be doing stuff for other people - not showing off, just trying to add value to this great interview.

  • @benyawarath
    @benyawarath 3 роки тому +4

    Great interview, thank you so much! "Culture bests everything, and our job is to build culture."

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching! 🙏 Hope you're subscribed...if you tell me what else you're interested in learning I'll make another video recommendation from my channel.

  • @albonqueely1327
    @albonqueely1327 4 роки тому +1

    Amen guys x

  • @khalidsafir
    @khalidsafir 6 років тому +1

    I know that they're sitting so close because they're trying to fit onto a phone camera, portrait mode, but I love the fact that the interviewer has his arm round the back of Seth's chair, it's so UA-cam!

  • @edpena4878
    @edpena4878 Рік тому

    How did you respond when that projector fall ? Great video, thanks.

  • @bloomuniversal
    @bloomuniversal 6 років тому +2

    Thanks so much for this. I'd love to hear Seth talking more about 'soft skills.' As an educator, it's a buzz-word that I've heard a lot, but it never sat well with me. '21st Century skills' also doesn't sit well with me. I prefer future-proof skills for now. I'd love to hear this topic expanded upon, as fuel for my creative work in education. Thanks for sharing.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  6 років тому

      Thanks Kate, as a matter of fact I'm planning another ep with Seth soon. Stay tuned...hope you'll consider subscribing so you don't miss it.

    • @bloomuniversal
      @bloomuniversal 6 років тому +1

      Yes, please ask him. Classic classroom education is typically informed by educators and educational research, but I'm aiming to infuse the classic research with the forward-thinking approach of people like Seth. I'd really appreciate his view point on 'soft skills.' Thank you.

  • @Santafefashionweek
    @Santafefashionweek 3 роки тому +1

    Great information, you two play well together

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you kindly!

    • @Santafefashionweek
      @Santafefashionweek 3 роки тому

      @@BehindtheBrand you and Seth have helped us take a deep dive into looking into our brand and has helped us take our focus to a tighter and more defined company, we really can't thank the two of you enough, if your into fashion we invite you to check out our fashion vlog, much love

  • @hh7788ify
    @hh7788ify 3 роки тому +1

    Great Interviewer and guest!! Very good

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching! 🙏 Here's the next video I recommend... "Why There's No Overnight Success" ua-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/v-deo.html

  • @Theseniorlist
    @Theseniorlist 7 років тому +1

    Great discussion!

  • @vitalysamonov3399
    @vitalysamonov3399 6 років тому

    this is great!

  • @knowsomething9384
    @knowsomething9384 3 роки тому +1

    Seth Godin is inspirational, as always. As a Star Wars fan, I do want to push back slightly on the interpretation of Yoda's "do or do not" wisdom. I think of it more as "don't be wishy-washy." In other words, if you want something, put your full effort into it, which is pretty much in alignment with Seth's advice. Great talk, though! :)

  • @TheRolfenize
    @TheRolfenize 3 роки тому +1

    Brian, can't find the book that you are talking about? Would be excited to read it!
    Again great interviews!

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      Still writing it! Hope to have it done by 2021.

    • @TheRolfenize
      @TheRolfenize 3 роки тому

      🙏Looking forward to it!

  • @YawMoney
    @YawMoney 6 років тому +1

    i love this video

  • @StephanieTips
    @StephanieTips 7 років тому +2

    Any suggestion on a book from Seth Godin that dives deep into humanity/human behavior/human attitude? Something that encases the deep knowledge he has of human beings/humanity. Thanks!

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 6 років тому

      Stefania I just found this channel host and guest. They are amazing..will definitely look for books Seth have written.

  • @paulstippich9693
    @paulstippich9693 6 років тому +2

    Shun the non believers. Woooooo, tough but good. Great little piece of advice to focus on those that care and consume your work currently.

  • @TheZGALa
    @TheZGALa 5 років тому +1

    Did you get your book done? I am still working on a few...hopefully ready for editing by December 1, 7, and 14th, 2018.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому

      my book as been a work in progress...might be done this time next year 2019

  • @valley3621
    @valley3621 5 років тому +4

    "Showing up is a great tool."

  • @MrApplewine
    @MrApplewine 4 роки тому +1

    Emotional Skills

  • @rapharsierra5140
    @rapharsierra5140 3 роки тому +1

    They are not good. They’re really good! Thank you!

  • @JRS133
    @JRS133 11 місяців тому +1

    How does one get ALT MBA information ?

  • @booyaka870
    @booyaka870 5 років тому

    34:44 More mistakes in the service of service! Right intention, wrong result. Intention trumps result. What's in your heart is what matters.

  • @LandlordLinks
    @LandlordLinks 6 років тому +1

    it's wonderful just to hear him speak. but w/o the prompting or interruptions. so one person only.

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  6 років тому +1

      Thanks for watching

    • @Rina.J89
      @Rina.J89 5 років тому

      I thought he was a great interviewer and he asked all the right questions. For example I too thought there was a paradox when Seth says we should ship before perfection, and at the same time you should only launch a product when it’s perfect. His question about that hit the spot.
      He was a very good at directing Seth on what specifics to address. Well done I like your channel!

  • @judededude
    @judededude 3 роки тому +1

    Weird....this video was published in 2017 and its only now hitting my recommendations...what smart change did you make Byran ? 😊

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому +2

      Ha! Yes, I'm playing the long game...and I'm fine with being one of the best kept secrets on UA-cam!

    • @judededude
      @judededude 3 роки тому

      @@BehindtheBrand well played

  • @rsaunable
    @rsaunable 2 роки тому

    This is a bizarre setup. Neither one look comfortable being that close to one another... it just looks silly too. BUT!!! The discussion was brilliant!!! Seth Godin is the consummate American!

  • @jeremiaharmstrong5899
    @jeremiaharmstrong5899 10 місяців тому

    Everybody apparently hates me because every comment is about me like the whole world is using me as the example for these kind of videos. what not to do. I feel the hostility and condescension constantly.

  • @myahmedtma7668
    @myahmedtma7668 6 років тому +1

    please add subtitles to this video

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 2 роки тому

    🖤

  • @WamuyuGatheru
    @WamuyuGatheru 5 років тому +1

    could the volume be upped?

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 3 роки тому +1

    Seth Godin makes " things" more human.

  • @andyrodriguez5211
    @andyrodriguez5211 3 роки тому +1

    I like how you say
    Shame is external
    Sth we internalize
    And we choose to receive it
    Also, that reassurance is futile
    We need to self motivate

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  3 роки тому

      Thanks Andy! Here's the next video I recommend... "Why There's No Overnight Success" ua-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/v-deo.html

  • @linkedorangecounty5422
    @linkedorangecounty5422 3 роки тому +1

    🙌

  • @lanawebster2078
    @lanawebster2078 4 роки тому

    Oh my word, Seth Godkin, I also am obsessive about dark chocolate.....I knew I liked you....truly I like what you say....

  • @lucario4399
    @lucario4399 2 роки тому +1

    12:20

  • @christ6874
    @christ6874 3 роки тому +1

    Seth’s microphone isn’t picking up his voice clearly. I’m already on max volume on my earbuds and the key words that he is saying is muffled. Especially the words at the end of his sentences.

  • @lylachristopherson865
    @lylachristopherson865 3 роки тому +4

    -EW- They're sitting so close. I'm here trapped in Covid-19 days, so their closeness is envious.

  • @ropersix
    @ropersix 6 років тому

    Standardize tests were invented (and used) by China during the Han Dynasty (206 BC - 220 AD). So they've been around a lot longer than 80 years, and might be a lot more fundamental and embedded in human nature than a mere blip in Western Industrial Revolution history.

  • @Conversationswithonestranger
    @Conversationswithonestranger 5 місяців тому +1

    24:48 Culture beats everything...Do you think this is also valid for bad culture (I do...) ?

  • @martinvestergaardportraits5654
    @martinvestergaardportraits5654 5 років тому +1

    Sound quality is bad

  • @timothyappleseed2986
    @timothyappleseed2986 6 років тому

    Shame results from not living up to the expectation of others when you feel that you should have.

  • @Nerd.Immunity.
    @Nerd.Immunity. 5 років тому +4

    Why does that man have his arm around Seth?

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому +2

      rams s ha! We we’re scrunched in to do a vertical LIVE video on my phone-and we’re good friends!

    • @Nerd.Immunity.
      @Nerd.Immunity. 5 років тому +1

      Behind the Brand I forget to mention great video, love your content and Seth as always dispensing pearls.

  • @hallbepea
    @hallbepea 5 років тому +1

    Sorry for the critique, but the audio was so bad I had to stop watching

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 років тому

      sorry about that Brad, i remember we had some tech difficulties that day...here's another Seth video you might like ua-cam.com/video/BPK_qzeH_yk/v-deo.html

  • @projectof5123
    @projectof5123 2 роки тому

    Seth Godin is a genius, but he will never ever make a clickbait title like this one... 😠

  • @patriciomora9663
    @patriciomora9663 7 років тому +7

    why are you sitting so close?

    • @RJYounglingTricking
      @RJYounglingTricking 6 років тому

      Patricio Mora prob cuz of the IG live portrait mode

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  6 років тому +1

      originally published as a FB LIVE, needed to sit close to fit in frame.

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 6 років тому

      Patricio Mora for camera view..

  • @SacredMusicTribe
    @SacredMusicTribe 3 роки тому

    Is this dudes arm around Seth godin ?? 🤨🤨

  • @Vikingshop
    @Vikingshop 2 роки тому +1

    It is kind of awkquard that you are sitting next to each other, facing the camera......

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