My TOXIC Relationship With A Cambodian FREELANCER Living In THAILAND 🇹🇭
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- My TOXIC Relationship With A Cambodian FREELANCER Living In THAILAND 🇹🇭
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5 Years with a Cambodian Freelancer Living in Thailand, all the red flags were there but this subscriber claims he was in Love & got entangled into a Toxic Relationship & a Relationship with a Creature of the Night 😈
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Creature of the night.....ua-cam.com/video/_CXPR8IEwfc/v-deo.html😊
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I have a sneaking suspicion that this guy wears a hockey helmet everywhere he goes. The only problem is he’s not on the hockey team.
As they say... Don't cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it.
NONE of these are ever EVER your girlfriend. It’s just your turn.
True. Need real lifelike robots. You name the attributes and they deliver... If you want random go that way for awhile, otherwise customize her especially for you. It's like ordering a self designed customized suit, car, pizza...build your own princess or bitch...tweak her and tune her like a baby grand.
Hey Dan. Your looking a lot better. Great to see your well again.
Thanks mate appreciate that 😊 I have managed to put on 5 kilograms so far and another 5 to go to get back to normal 👍 my breathing is a lot better but not perfect yet but I'm certainly getting better now 🙏
This guy badly needs a psychiatrist
Surely.
Sadly he does see the forest through the thorne but somehow cannot do anything about it as he's a forgiving man who's obsessed and in lust. If he could see what he's been doing to himself it's clearly masochistic. Yet some people are oddly programmed or conditioned or just enjoy enduring pain. Thoughts of the chase and holding that prize he can call his is his obsession. But she's a player and he's a glutto. Spenfing such time and effort on such an unworthy piece of self serving shit is something he'll likely regret maybe firever. The odds are so stacked against him in this situation he should immediately see a psychiatrist.
I have lived in Cambodia for 24 years. So many stories. Be very, very careful with the ladies here but definitely avoid ay bar girl, massage girl, lady who speaks bar English or ca play pool very well lol. Cheers.
I don't feel sorry for the dummy!
If she simply apologized he would immediately take her back…
Sorry Dan, no sympathy for a man who is not in control of his emotions.
I LOVE YOU DAN! Appreciate your hard work!
Thanks very much 👍
When a girl blocks you and unblocks you many times! Its real love 😅
Or emotional immaturity?
I have sympathy for guys who gave everything to a woman and end up getting thier hearts broken. We have all been there. However, I don't feel sorry for guys who know the evidence of betrayal is there, yet they keep the relationship going. As a man, respect, dignity and loyalty is more important than sex. I wish this fella walked away a long time ago.
Man has no self respect. Stealing money out of my wallet? It's over no forgiveness.
Always Listening Dan you Look Well now Enjoy your Son you are a good Dad 🩷
Thanks a lot 😊 I appreciate the kind words 👍🤝
'Love?' 🤔 ... nah.... that, he didn't have. He had something that was very, very different to love.
She is very smart lady, sad for the man because he must wait for her to provide time for him she is busy lady 👀👀😱😂
Many men, myself included have confused a powerful sexual OBSESSION with love. In ways it is more powerful than love, but usually only for a short time, while love will endure always. Male delusion is also a powerful factor when you've got a piece of 'Very Fine Arm Candy' strutting down the Soi with you.
I would like to meet this woman, she seems right up my alley
Ha ha...yes she is nice lady 🤣
Goat had a fit even before he heard it, she had 4 other customers, not boyfriends.
This dude is the SIMP of the year.
GOAT!
Miguel, the 3 day rule was made for you. you wear your heart on your sleeve. You can talk to Dan about where and how to meet "normal" Thai women. The same will be true across Asia.
Please consider black magic love portions. They are extremely good at this.
A fool and his money easily parted. Blames her for his own inadequacies. Leave her alone and get on with getting scammed by the next woman you meet
Never met a “hairdresser” in Thailand that doesn’t get it out for a financial donation
Might as well show him her phone because he will STILL keep her and stay in love with her regardless of what’s on her phone…
It's truly hard for me to believe that guys like this exist.
I think you need a whole whiskey bottle on this one Dan....
Damn bro, He is really feeling himself now. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Glad to see you health is back 300%. You look so much better and more animated
Thanks and recoding outdoors helps 😁
Ok here's just a theory I've come up with. We might be similar to each other on how we can relate from hearing each other's stories, so here it goes. Most men don't get into the candy store early in life. And when we finally do get in we now get to learn all the lessons that come with the candy. But having to learn this at a late stage in life hasn't been in our favour, because most men have been brainwashed into thinking that it's all about HER and not who should really be in charge of a relationship. So now at our older stage we have to use our resources to our advantage, to keep ourselves happy with a companion to battle loneliness. If you don't grow up around other men to guide, teach or mentor on how the game of love really works it's all left to trial and error. Society is full of competition envy jealousy and hate. We are not equipped with advice on what you should be doing to better and protect yourself from the demonic wolves that will bleed you dry without blinking. UA-cam is just one of these helpful tools we can use to help ourselves. Surround yourself with like minded people and stay up brothers and don't get fleeced. Peace ✌🏽
She is a good business person. 😮 He bought the snake oil. 😂
As soon as I saw the title I knew the guy was American .
As Del Boy would say what a 24 karat plonker
O my god buddy that just crazy please just run from her she will never change ...
The only Cambodian I knew was our Cambodian maid. 😅. She was bonkers, had terrible mood swings and addicted to cough syrup. She kept pretending to be sick and asking to go to the clinic. I realised soon, she wanted more cough syrup. I sent her back after one year, cut short her 2 year contract. We could not trust her with our small kids.
I don't understand why weak men do this evrytime when you can find a god women in Thailand
Good women aren't so easy to find, they are locked behind a language barrier and hard working without any freetime to ever see them somewhere. All good women I just found by accident, but never in holiday and when looking for...
@@frankindabank But the other type, is a lot in the tourist & expat areas! Some men are either lazy or stupid, go to the local bar, looking for a girlfriend!
Maybe not easy to find good women. But its hella easy to know the women you find easily are not good women. Act accordingly
@@1312Mork2 Yeah exactly. Just keep your distance from the really bad ones and everything is fine. And honestly it was always super obvious to me which ones to stay away from. It felt like they already had their hands in my pocket for my money even just after 10 mins of getting to know her...
you can find a god women if don't run after bar girls
Obviously you seem to have low self esteem and don’t think you deserve better as well as being hooked on the drama. You think if you do this she will treat you better but a narcissist never will. The drama will end one day either when you do get her and actually spend enough time to realise wtf did I pursue her for because even great sex get old one day or more likely you will be so broken in 10 years time and have absolutely nothing
Spot on. Drama addiction is a very real thing. Studies have shown that the drama and chaos of these relationships has the same effect on the brain as opiates.
Trauma bonds are strong. Unlike love, bonding is both a biological and emotional process. Bonding survives, even when you don't love the person anymore or even like them. These bonds have to be broken in order to move on and heal. The longer a relationship involving a trauma bond goes on, the harder it is to leave. This is especially true when enmeshment occurs, which is the breakdown of boundaries between people.
Trauma bonds are caused by inconsistency in relationships. Love bombing followed by abuse, followed by more love bombing, for example. That's inconsistency. It keeps people off-kilter and continuously looking for a way to get back the good feelings.
Trauma and upset cause hormones to be released in the body, like cortisol. The honeymoon part of the relationship - where everything is nice - causes more hormones to be released, like dopamine. After years of being exposed to this pattern, your body starts to think that this is how it's supposed to be, and so does your mind. It doesn't really know anything else. You become, for all intents and purposes, addicted to the chemical dump, the excitement, the drama.
When the mind and body are constantly on a rollercoaster of extreme highs and lows, of endless drama the body reacts. The hormones, chemicals and endorphins become part of everyday life and the body begins to believe this is how it's suppose to be and that it can not function any other way. Many may begin to feel bored, irritated, angry and anxious when things are peaceful. Like any other addict they have become caught in a pattern and more is required to feel the same good feeling they had in the beginning. The good feelings are so important that any and all costs to attain them are acceptable. People addicted to drama and trauma may throw their entire lives away.
This cycle is sometimes called an arousal-jag. "Regular" relationships feel less intense and are therefore often experienced as boring, uninteresting or shallow. It feels like only the abusive person can fill that need, which is why it's so hard to stay away. The excitement and intensity of this arousal-jag is often mistaken for love. It isn't. It's a chemical and emotional pattern your body became accustomed to and then dependent on as a result of abuse and inconsistency. It's about the cycle, not the person. The narcissistic person is a trigger for you addiction, You associate them with getting a fix. The narcissist is addicted to the drama too.
The addiction aspect here works in the brain in a similar way to opiate addiction and appears to be almost identical in form and function to an addiction to gambling.
There is an intial excitement and reward that induces people to begin engaging (lovebombing during the idealization stage), there is operant conditioning that creates behavioral responses (splitting and extreme black & white perception resulting in alternating between idealization and devaluation), and intermittent reinforcement of that behavior delivered on a variable ratio schedule (the narcissist's reaction to things is unpredictable).
Gambling creates patterns of operant conditioning and schedules of intermittent reinforcement that can create an addiction, particularly when coupled with existing vulnerabilities of some kind, such as beliefs surrounding our ability or responsibility to cope with and manage toxic relationships, ego narratives regarding losing or failing, and more.
The relationship with a narcissist is a cycle of punishment and reward. Another element in the relationship that works to create addiction is the partial or intermittent reinforcement that we also see in gambling. When you gamble, you aren't rewarded every time you play, but you are rewarded enough to convince you that if you keep playing, you will be rewarded again. The reinforcement (the punishment or reward) does not come every time you engage in the behavior.
The reward also doesn't follow any type of pattern and is not predictable. This is called a variable ratio schedule. A variable ratio schedule of intermittent reinforcement produces the highest, most steady response rates because of the uncertainty of when the reward will come. Behavioral responses and patterns created using a variable ratio schedule of intermittent reinforcement are often stronger and can be much harder to break. The uncertainty of when the reward will come not only reinforces the operant conditioning, but for some it actually causes more dopamine to be released in the brain - especially when they feel they came close to winning.
Dopamine production in the brain suggests that losses may actually motivate gambling behavior more than wins. This is the way a slot machine operates. People are excited by the reward of winning money of course, and that is what induces them to begin playing and to continue playing to a certain point, but they can become addicted due to to the uncertainty of the reward schedule. A predictable game is dull, even if you win. An uncertain one is much more fun and attractive and dopamine-inducing. This can result in what is called "loss-chasing," where instead of getting up from the machine or table after they've lost, compulsive gamblers "double down" and keep playing.
As with gambling, there is the hope of a jackpot or other big reward, but also as with gambling, that is not what keeps people engaged after a certain point, because the promise of a reward that never comes is not enough by itself. Without any positive reinforcement, that will not keep people engaged. It is the smaller rewards and the perceived near-misses that induce people to keep chasing. This builds anticipation, cranks up dopamine production in the brain and gives people the feeling that they almost won.
In relationships with narcissists, people experience the same thing and it induces them to keep engaging, keep trying, keep working for the reward.
This is why people still feel so engaged and invested in the relationship after they are receiving much more punishment than reward, which eventually happens as the idealization time between devaluations becomes shorter and less intense over time and the narcissist begins to see the relationship and the other person as irredeemable.
Not only do "losses" also stimulate dopamine production which actually makes them into rewards in a manner of speaking, but punishment is still a reinforcement and therefore the relevant operant conditioning is still being actively reinforced. Trying to avoid negative reinforcement such as punishment and the reward-seeking addiction component of these relationships keeps people performing according to this conditioning and still "in the game" even when they no longer want to play and even when their losses are too big to logically continue, just as we see in compulsive gambling.
This is yet another reason why no contact is so important. As long as the operant conditioning is still active - and it is if you're interacting with the person - and as long as intermittent reinforcement is still offered on a variable ratio schedule - and it is if you're still interacting with the person, then this situation is very difficult to break out of. We have to act against the conditioning in order to break it and when it's still being continually reinforced, this is extremely difficult.
@@kmarie7051the narcissist normally self-destructs, even without realizing it, from my experience they do not" take advice" or listen to reason,are not teachable. Its like they are driven from the inside to self-deztruct, never plan for the future, dont talk about the future,only live for the thrills of the moment. Even unto death .Even if it leads to their death. It normally does.
HE was the psycho boyfriend…
If this story is true (I always have my doubts)...I try to avoid criticizing the dudes getting rinsed, and I really _hate_ sounding like a life coach, but this guy seriously needs to work on himself.
I can only guess this guy has little self-esteem and even less confidence. That, or he enjoys drama and conflict. A self-respecting man who values himself wouldn't put up with this level of nonsense for 5 days, much less 5 years.
Thailand isn't for the faint-hearted, I hate to do victime blaming though but some lessons if not learned through wisdom are learnt through suffering. If it's about the sex, just knock on any soapie's door, that'll be better.
Bro got rinse so many times, and then she called the police on him.
That would have been it for me.
Crazy simpage
Any one who thinks love is real you have lost the game right there….. love is in Disney movies and hollyweird…..
Dan , maybe you should wear thai Isan clothes , now , when you work in their fields , with cattle , chicken and everything 😂😂
You mean your street walker girlfriend is dating 4 other guys and cheating on you!? Really…wow, I’m surprised!😂😂😂
Why even bother, to look for a girlfriend...in..PATTAYA????
Hehe yea nobody needs that there. a Girlfriend there is more expensive then 30 different freelancer per Month
Wow! What a wild story… the crazy thing is that this kind of thing happens in other places where there are these type of girls.
Pitiful.
They say love is blind !!! But this guy is also deaf !! 😂🤦♂️
Move on please 🙏
Haha what a dummy. And I learned to bring my wallet into the shower room with me decades ago and I learned that at home in the US. Wallet pilfering whilst the owner is asleep or in the shower is a global womens tactic, not just a Thai trick;)
Ok this guy is really stupid for putting up with all of this. How can you still love her after this? These are the kind of people that sicken me. I would want to have absolutely nothing to do with people like this.
Yeah i dont think a relationship with a prostitute is a very good idea...🤣
Lol "Love" ... This guy does not have a clue what love is.
He’s obsessed with her…
She wasn't his girlfriend - he was her victim. How does it all get so tangled up?
Sounds like AI generated... Kind of vibe about it Dan, someone is pulling one on you...
He only has his self to blame 😂
Nice to see you in a good shape, Dan. 🙏 You ask why we let us treat like this? It must be the Stockholm syndrome. 555
Hahaha and cheers 😁
His story gave me a headache.. lol!
Eventually he will get someone who plays the game better - he will Simp without knowing.
Low quality males like this make it harder for the quality men who should be mating. It would be better for Miguel and men like him if they just stayed away from women
Hi Dan. Noticed you’re a wedding ring. Have we missed something? 🤔🤔🤔
😂😂 haha…. Noooo….. it just hurt my other finger so I just switched it into the only other finger it will fit on 😅😅
really pathetic and actually quite sad is the phenomenon of simps .. how can any man be such an utter loser???
Guys,
Don't carry on with a low hanging fruit like what this guy did.
Guys like this dummy make it worse for us.
So many simps n stupid that comes to Thailand and having relationship with a W. once a W always a W.
how can that guy stay in love with something so toxic. Here honey must have tasted really good 555
This guy needs professional help
With every girl I start seeing in the USA, I always expect they have at least 1 "friends with benefit or Ex" she is getting some on the side. That way it keeps me from doing something stupid.
A bar girl and surprised she has other men ?😮😅
birds of a feather flock together
love is a 2-way street. you loved her but she never loved you. please move on. fortunately, you didn't get married and lose even more money.
He’s in love😂
Letting stupid juice take control
Thanks for sharing the story bud 🙏😄👍🏼.
No love story here. He is in lust and she is using him.
She did not destroy him. He is a man child that is weak as a toddler and destroyed himself.
I have been in love many times. Suck it up. Learn from it and move on.
Guys like this give us men a bad name.
What a pu$$y 😅😅😅.
My opinion. And we all know that opinions are like a$$holes, we all have one 🤷🏻♂️😂😂😂
Keep it going bud. Be well 😄💪🏼
Lust not love, my man. Why do men think these women work at bars, massage parlors, etc? Because they have to, they have mouths to feed and bills to pay. Why are men so upset that this is a transaction? If you want to play, you pay. This is how the world works once you are past your teens and early 20s.
He should watch the movie series. The Matrix.
Stupid is,stupid does it. What a simp. It's lust lot love. If he sees other women when she's gone, well, they do the same. Again, educate yourself.
Crazy story Dan but will not be the last.
And an advice never trust anyone abroad. You're the stranger in their country.
That's the norm
"a love story", no this is not a love story.
Painful to listen to
This guy needs to stay in the USA.
This guy needs to work 80 hours a week to avoid any trouble.
Super Simp!
Is me Miguel, Thank you for sharing my story, you do great, I like and I hope that helps other men to avoid the same situation, It was not about sex the love her, but we had sex 3 times a day everyday, it was because she took care of me, like my hair, nail, cooking, cleaning, but 2 times she cooks and after cooking she didn't eat and I ate and my feet were double size, big, I almost go to the Hospital. It will take take to forget her and maybe I will never forget her. Thank you so much to everyone.
Would have these women paying me in pattaya
the mother of fools is always pregnant 😂
He like toxic women. I don’t feel bad for him at all
Trauma bonded, beware
A mug
It looks absolutely terrible there! So dry and just horrible
It’s quiet, clean air…. But it can get very boring………
@@thaitalkwithdanI totally understand. I live in Issan and I will be sending you a story soon. It's a positive story unlike what you usually share. Could be a boring one lol
Haha "relationship", blind ignorance is rampant for farangs dishing out paychecks for a first date
I think its bs
Introduce your girlfriend to us Dan
What girlfriend ? 😳
@thaitalkwithdan So are you happily single like me or back with your ex 😉
@@y66llhuaweu98 I am still living with my X and we are trying to work things out but on the understanding that we can’t have a repeat of the past…..
Dan, are you being serious here?
Is Love a mental condition?
It certainly is bud…. Look up Cupid that they use for Valentine’s Day….. see who Cupid really is ,it has zero to do with love….. it’s an evil world we live in……
@Goofydownrange we need to get all the men on the same page. Far too many are mistaking lost for love. You can't or shouldn't love someone that treats you this way.
@@Joe-og8um “The stupid juice” runs supreme
lol enuf said
🤦🏻
SIMP
She should be in jail.