40:03 Sham! Every man I dated was 6 ft and above but my husband of 23 years was 5ft 3! I’m 5’5! Hey was my best friend for 3 years and that turned into the love of my life! God rest his soul!
I find it ironic when a person is healed, self-actualized, living in their purpose, etc., many wonder why they haven’t found their SO. I appreciate that Laterras is taking his time to properly find his wife and not aligning himself with someone just to appease others. He’ll be doing himself a disservice. I pray that he finds the wife that he is seeking at the right time. Just like it’s not simple for many women to find/be found by their husband, the same goes for men when finding a suitable wife. It’s not simple and it shouldn’t be❤
I believe so many people rush to marry, settle, and suffer that they feel a little personally convicted that someone else is doing things differently. And maybe showing the patience and fortitude they could not....
Ohhh yall! I absolutely loved, loved, loved this episode. As I shared it , I told my Bestie that " I love when my favorite podcasters are guest on my favorite podcast"! 😂😂
Purity isn’t bad, it’s just that purity culture went to unhealthy extremes. Keeping oneself until marriage is a good thing to teach our kids & others bc it’s biblical. But we have to be honest about the joy of sex, & the dangers of sex. Holiness is always right, whether you get married after abstinence or not. Our goal is to please God with all our our hearts & actions, regardless of whether things “work out” for us or not. Great conversation ladies!! ❤❤
Listen one of my church Bestie sent me this on podcast audio and I had to come halfway through and see the video because I’m like I need to see the faces to the voices I gave my life to the Lord at 12 Married at 28 Been going through at divorce since 35 Currently 37 And when I say me and all my church besties grew up this identical, same way this is so on time and so so so so relatable Thank you all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m so glad I’m not alone
I'm new here. I follow Dear Future Wifey and that's how I got here. I loved this whole conversation! Especially around purity culture. Going to look for that episode!
This Podcast is so Dope! This is my first time watching but I'm definitely tuning into the rest of the episodes! So Authentic, Real, and Relatable! Ya'll keeps it real and talk about things that aren't normally discussed! And I Love Laterras and Dear future Wifey Podcast as well! Bravo:)
This podcast was good. I’m 45 and grew up with the same values as the hosts. I thought I was doing it the right way and a good husband would be my gift for abstinence and giving my all to God/ serving at church. I enjoyed myself serving yet I’ve always wanted a husband and to be a mother. Friends who did it their unique ways are now sending their kids to college and beginning a new season with their mates. I’m still very single and never even got engaged.
Just wanted 2 come here & say this is my 1st time seeing u ladies podcast bcuz it was a recommendation off of a dear future wifey follow up video! I am now a Subscriber & will b looking 4ward 2 watching similar episodes like this on here in my journey of waiting 4 my future hubby 🤗
I grew up in church and I must have missed the part about serving in church and the man will find you. No one was really checking for me like that in church. I guess I wasn't anyone type lol. 😂
Please let God lead Laterras to whom God has for him stop trying to set him up. Some people were not listening ,bu I enjoy this. Praying for us as being single will that God will place him in our path way
I think 4/5 people have Childhood trauma..the right Soul Mate /Partner will help that person continue to complete their healing ❤️🩹& they will grow together 💯 ✨🙏🏾
That 50% and the 70 % divorce statistic happens when there's no intimacy with Christ first in the marriage. One of the reasons for failure in the union is more emphasis on Sensuality than Intimacy. As Christians I believe if you get the intimate part of the relationship right first, according to Kingdom principles, which doesn't require Sensuality.. then the strength of your Marriage will be unshakable, as the Sensuality and all the other issues of love explode into " till death do us part "
22:42 Good is subjective when it comes to dating and relationships. With that being said dating and over 35 people are set in their ways, don’t have a desire to change. We have a lot of blind spots also because we don’t allow people close enough to see the blind areas!!!
This was a great episode and collab! Great perspectives and point of view especially on the viewpoint of dating, marriage, and faith! I can definitely relate being in my 30’s. Here for it! 🤍
I will never abandon God’s Word to listen to people who are “on and off” with abstinence. The Word of God is right! Sex is fornicarion outside of marriage. People try to convince you that you can’t control your desires. This is not true. When our thoughts and desires are directed towards God He has all power and He is able to keep you. This type of talk mocks God . God’s way is the best way and it is destructive when people come up with their own way to manipulate God’s Word to suit their fleshly desires.Those life experiences maybe true but best believe God’s Word is the only truth. Our negative experiences in church culture has nothing to do with what God says in his word. He is a God that means what He says regardless of what the culture is now. There is a danger in coveting the lives of others. Until God blesses me my desires and passions are directed towards God. He is my source and He will bless me. I am intelligent and connected to my body. I grew up with intelligent church family that taught me about my body. There are churches out there that are good. We are not bigger than God and when we begin to follow our own way and not God’s way nothing good will come from it.
You are living in sin and talking about God. A pastor who said she knows some things in the Bible? Read you bible. LT you are saying the word of God is not true
40:03 Sham! Every man I dated was 6 ft and above but my husband of 23 years was 5ft 3! I’m 5’5! Hey was my best friend for 3 years and that turned into the love of my life! God rest his soul!
I find it ironic when a person is healed, self-actualized, living in their purpose, etc., many wonder why they haven’t found their SO. I appreciate that Laterras is taking his time to properly find his wife and not aligning himself with someone just to appease others. He’ll be doing himself a disservice. I pray that he finds the wife that he is seeking at the right time. Just like it’s not simple for many women to find/be found by their husband, the same goes for men when finding a suitable wife. It’s not simple and it shouldn’t be❤
@@amminarose Thank you for your high EQ! Much appreciated.
I believe so many people rush to marry, settle, and suffer that they feel a little personally convicted that someone else is doing things differently. And maybe showing the patience and fortitude they could not....
Auntie Sham and Laterras would be PERFECT for each other 😍 Clock it!
Keep talking! Just saying!
i saw that too 👀
This has been the most refreshing, funny, and REAL conversation!!! I love this podcast!
My 1st time here. I came for the Laterras interview and found a new Podcast. Love you ladies!! Love this interview.
Me too Sis‼️ me too 😊
Me too Sis
the chemistryyyy between shamarian and la
I mean left him speechless on the leadership part lol I’m here for it!
I thought I was the only one thinking this 😅 so yall see it too??
I was waiting for this comment😂
All I saw was friendship.. 🥴
I’m glad someone else seen it 😍 Came here for this comment!
The comments about Auntie Sham and Mr.Laterras are killing meeeee😂😂😂😂
Ohhh yall! I absolutely loved, loved, loved this episode. As I shared it , I told my Bestie that " I love when my favorite podcasters are guest on my favorite podcast"! 😂😂
I smellll ShamLaaa brewing 👀🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Or LaSham 👀😁
@ This is betterrrr
😂😂😂
Right 😂😂
Purity isn’t bad, it’s just that purity culture went to unhealthy extremes. Keeping oneself until marriage is a good thing to teach our kids & others bc it’s biblical. But we have to be honest about the joy of sex, & the dangers of sex. Holiness is always right, whether you get married after abstinence or not. Our goal is to please God with all our our hearts & actions, regardless of whether things “work out” for us or not. Great conversation ladies!! ❤❤
Listen one of my church Bestie sent me this on podcast audio and I had to come halfway through and see the video because I’m like I need to see the faces to the voices
I gave my life to the Lord at 12
Married at 28
Been going through at divorce since 35
Currently 37
And when I say me and all my church besties grew up this identical, same way this is so on time and so so so so relatable
Thank you all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m so glad I’m not alone
1:36:07 Great episode ladies! Happy 100th show🎉🎉🎉
I'm new here. I follow Dear Future Wifey and that's how I got here. I loved this whole conversation! Especially around purity culture. Going to look for that episode!
This Podcast is so Dope! This is my first time watching but I'm definitely tuning into the rest of the episodes! So Authentic, Real, and Relatable! Ya'll keeps it real and talk about things that aren't normally discussed! And I Love Laterras and Dear future Wifey Podcast as well! Bravo:)
This was a great episode. May all of you be blessed with the Spouses that God has for you.
I love you guys! You are so transparent and honest!
There's nothing like a true organic connection!
Such a good podcast! I love Laterras! Always a good conversation when he is in the mix!
We love a podcast mashuppppppp 😭🩷
You ladies are speaking the truth!
Great episode, topic and guest.
I Love this interview!!!
This podcast was good. I’m 45 and grew up with the same values as the hosts. I thought I was doing it the right way and a good husband would be my gift for abstinence and giving my all to God/ serving at church. I enjoyed myself serving yet I’ve always wanted a husband and to be a mother.
Friends who did it their unique ways are now sending their kids to college and beginning a new season with their mates.
I’m still very single and never even got engaged.
Real conversation. 34:34-35:10 He’s a man of great faith! May God reward his faith. #LevelUp🎉
Just wanted 2 come here & say this is my 1st time seeing u ladies podcast bcuz it was a recommendation off of a dear future wifey follow up video!
I am now a Subscriber & will b looking 4ward 2 watching similar episodes like this on here in my journey of waiting 4 my future hubby 🤗
I grew up in church and I must have missed the part about serving in church and the man will find you. No one was really checking for me like that in church. I guess I wasn't anyone type lol. 😂
I always knew this collab was coming!
Dating today is just different. Letarras is showing a lot of maturity by being patient, and he knows what he wants.
TT Sham has me cracking up all through this episode 😂😂
The way I’m replaying this episode already🤣
Auntie Sham and Laterras 😍🫱🏽🫲🏾 clock that tea!!!! Sprinkle Sprinkle
Wow this is soooo Great. I loved every minute of this episode.
I love this interview
This was good and I love Laterras!!!
Please let God lead Laterras to whom God has for him stop trying to set him up. Some people were not listening ,bu I enjoy this. Praying for us as being single will that God will place him in our path way
Loved this!! I love the honesty in all your episodes. ❤
I see chemistry 👀
Most times God will send someone into our lives,but we so picky and we miss out.😮
Latteras was having himself a good old time😂😂 I’ve never seen him laugh this much even on his own pod 😭😂
Sarah had a son way past what we know as menopause. Yes God designed our bodies to function a certain way, but He still has the final say.
Sham is EXTRA funny!😂😂😂😂😂
❤ Stand on your wallet. Stand on your character. Stand on your faith. ❤
Did L T. say "from friend to finance?" ❤
Let the man be the man❤
This was a great show. S/O to y’all and Unc Laterras 😬
Loved the episode 🎉
This was too good! 😂❤
I Love Love Love ❤️
I think 4/5 people have Childhood trauma..the right Soul Mate /Partner will help that person continue to complete their healing ❤️🩹& they will grow together 💯 ✨🙏🏾
A purity ring was usually for teenagers. And boys was also encouraged to join at my childhood church.
Teach Laterras
This was a funny but real episode 🤣🤣✊🏾
Love love this episode! Please Laterras can you ask our auntie ShaMarian out please? I see the connection😍
Yaaasssss
That 50% and the 70 % divorce statistic happens when there's no intimacy with Christ first in the marriage. One of the reasons for failure in the union is more emphasis on Sensuality than Intimacy. As Christians I believe if you get the intimate part of the relationship right first, according to Kingdom principles, which doesn't require Sensuality.. then the strength of your Marriage will be unshakable, as the Sensuality and all the other issues of love explode into " till death do us part "
Lolll I love how this turned into his podcast🤣
Sex outside of marriage is a sin yall I don’t want you to believe it’s not
@@KTMomentsOfTransparency no one at any point at said it wasn’t a sin.
We want to be princess baby angels too lol
Yes!
Felt you on the love being soft, yess
Stop forcing it people if they ain’t engaged in 6 months then wasn’t meant to be. A man that finds a wife finds a good thing.
Stand on your faith
Stand on your character
Stand on your wallet
In that order
1:24:02 HA!! I was the one to stand before the church twice!! Geez!!
@@jessicawilliams270 baaaaaabbbyyyy bless you!
What she said 😆
Purity culture and religious indoctrination
If a mans core values out Weighted his height with God at the center along with everything else Laterras said height will not be an issue.
❤❤
There is no perfect person in this world.
Sir that doesn’t happen 😂😂😂
22:42 Good is subjective when it comes to dating and relationships. With that being said dating and over 35 people are set in their ways, don’t have a desire to change. We have a lot of blind spots also because we don’t allow people close enough to see the blind areas!!!
This was a great episode and collab! Great perspectives and point of view especially on the viewpoint of dating, marriage, and faith! I can definitely relate being in my 30’s. Here for it! 🤍
Please point me to my short king I'm 5'9 I'll take them
😂
Ah reach!!!!!!
I’m gonna have to watch this one a few more times. In Jesus’ name.
And you belive in God? Which God?
I don't know I can't get past the 12-year-old thing what what is going on here
I will never abandon God’s Word to listen to people who are “on and off” with abstinence. The Word of God is right! Sex is fornicarion outside of marriage. People try to convince you that you can’t control your desires. This is not true. When our thoughts and desires are directed towards God He has all power and He is able to keep you. This type of talk mocks God . God’s way is the best way and it is destructive when people come up with their own way to manipulate God’s Word to suit their fleshly desires.Those life experiences maybe true but best believe God’s Word is the only truth. Our negative experiences in church culture has nothing to do with what God says in his word. He is a God that means what He says regardless of what the culture is now. There is a danger in coveting the lives of others. Until God blesses me my desires and passions are directed towards God. He is my source and He will bless me. I am intelligent and connected to my body. I grew up with intelligent church family that taught me about my body. There are churches out there that are good. We are not bigger than God and when we begin to follow our own way and not God’s way nothing good will come from it.
Miséricorde
You are living in sin and talking about God. A pastor who said she knows some things in the Bible? Read you bible. LT you are saying the word of God is not true