YOO new Osaka Arc just dropped. This is probably the most mature and collected breakup/divorce video on this platform, and I'm glad you're prioritizing your own well being.
@@WeebRevolution I haven't been on discord in a long time. I use something called Element/Matrix to message people. If you ever feel like using the app, this is my account: @ayumusasuga:matrix.org
This sounds exactly like what I endured a few years ago. I got married at 21, and the woman I married gradually became more unhinged. Costantly monitoring who I was talking to, throwing tantrums whenever things didn't go her way, being mentally and sometimes physically abused by her, and near the end, I found out she had cheated on me for most of our relationship. I've moved on and haven't really dated anyone since, but in due time I think I will find the right person, and I hope you can do the same. I'm glad to hear you're no longer around this woman, because you didn't do anything to deserve being treated so horribly. Keep your head up buddy.
I'm sorry to hear you went through the same thing. I don't know how a person can claim to love another and then have their actions completely contradict that claim. It's cruel. Neither of us deserved it. Good on you for getting out of there. And thank you.
11:08 i never felt bad breaking up with anyone maybe im just really good at breaking up with people but it always felt very relieving for me also ended up dating my current gf (who was my best friend before that) a few months after breaking up with my abuser, going very well for 1.5 years now, i hope ull end up happy too
I haven’t seen any of your other videos, but this popped up on my timeline, and I put it on just because, video posted 17 hours from someone who’s about to get a divorce? That’s gonna be raw and real! I was once with a woman who I loved the “idea” of… it turned out that the idea wasn’t something she had built up, as much as something I MYSELF had built up, you know? She was terrible, and she was terrible for me, but that was always who she was. I chose to be with someone like that, and the reason I was seeking out that chaos was… to deal with someone else’s chaos instead of addressing my own. This isn’t necessarily a traditional thing to say in this circumstance, but.. Congratulations. Genuinely, congratulations. I’m happy for you and proud of you.
The way it sounds, u didn't have the opportunity to remain friends with Sophia because it sounds like she had a stubbornness towards your complaints. I think that's always sadder, it happened to me this year and makes me think I shouldn't have thought of the relationship as a good idea in the first place. But I'm glad I still experienced that relationship because I will have no doubt learned very important lessons. I'm glad you are processing things well, I got stuck in the denial stage of depression for an extended period of time and it was nuts, hopefully I never visit a place like that again.
Osaka... no. I been watching these vlogs for a long time and man have you had ups and downs. I hope things go okay for you buddy. Hang in there. don't do anything stupid.
Wishing you and your new gf all the best. Even if it wasn't a good relationship with your ex, it can still be hard to go through divorce. Ngl, this is surprising but I can understand there was a lot going on behind the videos. I think you're speaking of her and the divorce maturely. May this offer you a new happier chapter in your life.
I'm sure you already understand this, but this situation has made you stronger, and it will introspectively serve as a continual source of strength as you evolve in life.
One sure fire way to never experience the stresses and waiting periods of getting a divorce is to make sure to never marry. Marriage is a way for government to take more money from you, also to confirm that you are a slave to the system even more in the event your wife leaves.
Sorry to hear man. This came as a surprise to me because I can't remember you saying any negative things about her. I don't think I or anyone else could see the cracks. Maybe it's because the breakup and infatuation from the early stages are overlapping a bit, too. Sorry again, but I'm glad to hear that things are getting better and that you're in good spirits.
For sure. The problems we were having were never something I felt comfortable talking publicly because they were private matters. I was also afraid of retribution from her. I didn't want to make our existing arguments any more volatile by making an even slightly critical comment publicly. So, I was thrust into this situation where I felt pressured to the only emphasize the happy parts of our relationship. Creating a fake version of reality in the minds of others in the process. Thank you. Things are getting a lot better.
That makes sense, I understand why you'd take that approach. And while I'd assume it's probably uncomfortable to maintain that illusion, it's probably the smartest and most mature way to handle it. All the best.
surprised you were the one to make that step, it takes a lot to do that, i think it shows that youre growing as a person and have emotional willpower, forever wishing the best osaka in your future relationships and general life edit: this is just my own opinion, but i think getting married that early in your life is generally a mistake. maybe wait more time in a future relationship, both in terms of how long youve been dating and how old you are until youre sure youre ready for that kind of commitment
good for you for having the balls to break that off after such a commitment :] and gooder for you still that you have a girl you feel understood by. things can only go up from here! cant wait to see her appear in future videos :D
@@OsakaSyndrome I wasn't seeing the video timer when watching, I was playing a game with audio on the background, but you really didn't mention reddit, but something you mentioned reminded of how agressive and toxic people can be interacting online.
Dated my ex for 7 years before we split. It was really painful but it gets better. Sounds like youre already halfway there, I cried my eyes out for a year lol
glad you did what you needed to do :) seems like a very sensible and balanced perspective, it's great and super uncommon that you have such a clear head/understanding of the situation and knew what to do in response to it, wishing you the best!
I broke up with my live-in SO of 8 years earlier this year after they cheated and it has taken me almost 6 months to get back on my feet emotionally. Stay strong buddy.
12:19 I never really dated, but I have actually presumed before that a relationship that comes after when a man and a woman have been best friends for months/l or a long time before dating, would work better in general than 2 people that don't know each other much, dating.
Damn man. I'm sorry to hear this, but I hope you come out stronger than ever through this. I don't know if you remember me but we used to play CS a bit ago. Girlfriend (that I spoke to you of) of one and a half years broke up with me a few days ago and it's definitely been rough. Either way, brother, we will get through these trying times. Wishing you all the best and I miss ya.
Hey, man. I remember playing nuke with you on streams and off. Seems like we both got the short end of the stick after being with BPD girls. I hope you feel better soon. It gets easier. I'm already feeling things ease up on my end. And I miss you too. Hope we can chat again soon sometime when my PC works again.
@@OsakaSyndrome Glad you remember me! And yeah, no, I don't know if this is a bad thing to be saying but I probably will be more cautious around girls with BPD in the future just to avoid any major fuckery occurring to me in the relationship. Thank you! I've definitely been getting better over time since time heals wounds (although may leave a scar). For sure! Whenever I see you on CS, I'll hit you up. Sorry to hear about your computer.
I remember it was tarbuck who pointed out that in general successful relationships are between people who are as close to eachother as possible, while opposing forces coming together and making it work is a romantic idea and can absolutely work out if the parties share in common larger meta things that steer them to the same terminus, a baseline incompatibility means there will be a gauntlet of potentially decades long friction points that will need to be worked through, and I think people have been given the idea on some level that pain is progress is virtue, but this dissolves as soon as you just get along with a counterpart who isn't an embodiment of your weaknesses, you will both have to conquer these issues alone before reconvening with a stronger foundation to build upon be careful that I'm not telling you things you want to hear, and may the force be with you
sad. i hate watching relationships break down, despite being more than used to it happening and to a large extent being defined by it. it’s an awful thing. wishing u all the best going forward.
I think it's better to view relationships as being more defined by what it was like the majority of the time you spent together. But the temptation to define them by how they ended is an all too common human impulse. Thank you for the kind sentiments. I'm headed in a better direction now.
Was there a dead bedroom? I have close family who work in divorce court law & couples counseling and often times “feeling unloved” is a euphemism for dead bedroom, because a lot of guys are embarrassed to admit it.
intimacy was the one good thing we consistently had. we would do adult things at least once a day. sometimes multiple times a day. but both of us had high drives. we're young.
I'm gonna be honest I was kinda expecting something to go wrong when you made that video about how being in a relationship was the best day of your life.
That's a strange way of looking at it. It's also not what I said. I said my wedding day was the best day of my life. Which is a common sentiment among people who are married. Including those who have been married for 30+ years.
16:17 Do you think this quote can apply to ouselves too, and in the matter of self-improvent, or is this view more about not trying to brute-force changing others only?
Maybe it does. It depends on how you look at it. I'm of the opinion that we make choices about our lives. And we have the power to start making different, better choices.
no woman no cry. it's for the better. relationships are useless in modern times, marriage is doomed in most cases. not saying it for the sympathy, just facts. enjoy being single!
also i know you are a leftie, but I hope this experience helps you to understand true female nature. women are all about hypergamy, relationships are just not for you. I am sorry if it sounds harsh, but thats the reality.
@@OsakaSyndrome well we don't have to agree, echo chambers do no good. I guess you posted the vid to receive different opinions and here we are! though YT removed my comment but I guess you managed to read it anyways. in any case, as someone who got through 10+ relationships and break ups losing all naivety regarding women on my way to present moment - I feel you. and i am pretty sure you will be fine. just value the experience and try not to make same mistakes in the future. you are clearly not dumb and we all learn from our own mistakes, there is no other way around. cheers!
Shame this didn't work out for you. I feel vindicated in not having relationships though. While I've never been married, I understand the "I don't like the person this is turning me into" point, living with my family had me feeling that way. People with issues, tend to only be able to get relationships with other people who have issues, which often makes both of them worse off. Wasn't she living separately from you a lot of the time, that might make the divorce easier if you were already apart.
I'm still looking into what the process is. It looks like we just agree before a court that it didn't work out and then sign a few things. And you are right. It's important for people to be a healthy stage in their life where they understand themselves and know how to empathize with others before entering a relationship. If they are to enter one at all. Unhealthy + healthy does not mix and unhealthy + unhealthy definitely does not mix.
It was for the best. I appreciate your support, man. Also, my computer broke so that's why I haven't been able to get ahold of you. I only *just* into this account today.
Thanks. I did end up pulling a lot better. My current girlfriend is smoking hot. One of the prettiest I've ever seen. Can't wait to do a video with her.
>gets married >Has bad outcome >Immediately seeks another bad outcome. Buddy, women are INCENTIVIZED to divorce. Along with ruining your life in hundreds of other ways outside of marriage. The only winning move is not to play.
i don't recommend any drugs ever. being sober has helped me study Spanish, exercise, and practice other skills in a consistent way. drugs will only hinder your ability to do things in the long term. and adderall has no clinical benefit whatsoever to people without adhd, in fact, it can worsen attention in that population. what you really need to focus on is building consistent habits. even working on something for 15 minutes a day, as long as you do it every day, can snowball into working on it for several hours a day.
How active are you? How much sunlight do you get? Have you been tested for any nutritional deficiencies? What about thyroid issues? What does your diet look like? Do you socialize with friends and family? You should talk about all of these things with a doctor. They all have an impact on focus. I also a made video for you talking about these issues: ua-cam.com/video/_mmrmcpWjoI/v-deo.html
I agree on BPD. I didn't know she had BPD until after we got married. There's nothing wrong with being trans, though. I've met plenty of trans people who are normal and also not mentally ill at all. They just identify a certain way without thinking much more of it.
@@OsakaSyndrome sorry i speak in twitch emotes, this vid made me genuinely sad but i dont have anything meaningful to say cus i havent had a meaningful relationship since my teens but i am wishing u the best!!!!
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It's Better to have loved and to have lost than to never have loved at all. Divorced at 23 is better than no relation ever at 33.
YOO new Osaka Arc just dropped. This is probably the most mature and collected breakup/divorce video on this platform, and I'm glad you're prioritizing your own well being.
Thank you, Calliope.
@@OsakaSyndromeI tried to message you on patreon but I don’t think you use it anymore, do you use discord or whatsapp?
@@WeebRevolution I haven't been on discord in a long time. I use something called Element/Matrix to message people.
If you ever feel like using the app, this is my account: @ayumusasuga:matrix.org
This sounds exactly like what I endured a few years ago. I got married at 21, and the woman I married gradually became more unhinged. Costantly monitoring who I was talking to, throwing tantrums whenever things didn't go her way, being mentally and sometimes physically abused by her, and near the end, I found out she had cheated on me for most of our relationship. I've moved on and haven't really dated anyone since, but in due time I think I will find the right person, and I hope you can do the same. I'm glad to hear you're no longer around this woman, because you didn't do anything to deserve being treated so horribly. Keep your head up buddy.
I'm sorry to hear you went through the same thing. I don't know how a person can claim to love another and then have their actions completely contradict that claim. It's cruel. Neither of us deserved it. Good on you for getting out of there. And thank you.
Silver lining: this is the best you've looked in years
:/ I’m rooting for you man. Your vulnerability is uplifting & inspiring as always. Praying for you
Thank you so much
every marriage I see young people go into, I easily see crumble.
It's true.
crazy hope things turn out ok for you both
thank you
11:08 i never felt bad breaking up with anyone maybe im just really good at breaking up with people but it always felt very relieving for me
also ended up dating my current gf (who was my best friend before that) a few months after breaking up with my abuser, going very well for 1.5 years now, i hope ull end up happy too
I'm glad you are in a better place now, as well.
I haven’t seen any of your other videos, but this popped up on my timeline, and I put it on just because, video posted 17 hours from someone who’s about to get a divorce? That’s gonna be raw and real! I was once with a woman who I loved the “idea” of… it turned out that the idea wasn’t something she had built up, as much as something I MYSELF had built up, you know? She was terrible, and she was terrible for me, but that was always who she was. I chose to be with someone like that, and the reason I was seeking out that chaos was… to deal with someone else’s chaos instead of addressing my own. This isn’t necessarily a traditional thing to say in this circumstance, but.. Congratulations. Genuinely, congratulations. I’m happy for you and proud of you.
Well said. And thanks.
The way it sounds, u didn't have the opportunity to remain friends with Sophia because it sounds like she had a stubbornness towards your complaints.
I think that's always sadder, it happened to me this year and makes me think I shouldn't have thought of the relationship as a good idea in the first place. But I'm glad I still experienced that relationship because I will have no doubt learned very important lessons.
I'm glad you are processing things well, I got stuck in the denial stage of depression for an extended period of time and it was nuts, hopefully I never visit a place like that again.
Osaka... no. I been watching these vlogs for a long time and man have you had ups and downs. I hope things go okay for you buddy. Hang in there. don't do anything stupid.
I appreciate your concern, man. I'll be okay. I think this event represents a turning point for me. Where things begin to improve again.
Wishing you and your new gf all the best. Even if it wasn't a good relationship with your ex, it can still be hard to go through divorce. Ngl, this is surprising but I can understand there was a lot going on behind the videos. I think you're speaking of her and the divorce maturely. May this offer you a new happier chapter in your life.
Thank you very much. I think there are good things coming, in the future, for everyone currently or previously involved.
Osaka-san is finally single now. this is my chance
nope. i have a gf as i said in the video.
Damn merry Christmas btw
I'm sure you already understand this, but this situation has made you stronger, and it will introspectively serve as a continual source of strength as you evolve in life.
One sure fire way to never experience the stresses and waiting periods of getting a divorce is to make sure to never marry. Marriage is a way for government to take more money from you, also to confirm that you are a slave to the system even more in the event your wife leaves.
It's true. Marriage is a trap to expand capitalism. I didn't quite understand that at the time.
Hope you the best, Happy holidays man!
Sorry to hear man. This came as a surprise to me because I can't remember you saying any negative things about her. I don't think I or anyone else could see the cracks. Maybe it's because the breakup and infatuation from the early stages are overlapping a bit, too.
Sorry again, but I'm glad to hear that things are getting better and that you're in good spirits.
For sure. The problems we were having were never something I felt comfortable talking publicly because they were private matters. I was also afraid of retribution from her. I didn't want to make our existing arguments any more volatile by making an even slightly critical comment publicly. So, I was thrust into this situation where I felt pressured to the only emphasize the happy parts of our relationship. Creating a fake version of reality in the minds of others in the process.
Thank you. Things are getting a lot better.
That makes sense, I understand why you'd take that approach. And while I'd assume it's probably uncomfortable to maintain that illusion, it's probably the smartest and most mature way to handle it.
All the best.
Waiting for the Osaka's Dating Tips video
LOL. Not a bad idea, tbh.
surprised you were the one to make that step, it takes a lot to do that, i think it shows that youre growing as a person and have emotional willpower, forever wishing the best osaka in your future relationships and general life
edit: this is just my own opinion, but i think getting married that early in your life is generally a mistake. maybe wait more time in a future relationship, both in terms of how long youve been dating and how old you are until youre sure youre ready for that kind of commitment
Have you tried turning the marriage on and off?
lol
good for you for having the balls to break that off after such a commitment :] and gooder for you still that you have a girl you feel understood by. things can only go up from here! cant wait to see her appear in future videos :D
Thank you! Looking forward to having her on too!
I don't remember in what exact part of this video it was , but you inspired me to delete reddit finally. Thanks.
i don't remember mentioning reddit but that's awesome
@@OsakaSyndrome I wasn't seeing the video timer when watching, I was playing a game with audio on the background, but you really didn't mention reddit, but something you mentioned reminded of how agressive and toxic people can be interacting online.
all the best
Sucks to hear, but it sounds like you made the right decision. Good luck with the future.
Thanks.
damn it now i can't watch classics like "hanging out with my wife".
lmao
Dated my ex for 7 years before we split. It was really painful but it gets better. Sounds like youre already halfway there, I cried my eyes out for a year lol
glad you did what you needed to do :) seems like a very sensible and balanced perspective, it's great and super uncommon that you have such a clear head/understanding of the situation and knew what to do in response to it, wishing you the best!
Thank you so much!
I broke up with my live-in SO of 8 years earlier this year after they cheated and it has taken me almost 6 months to get back on my feet emotionally. Stay strong buddy.
I'm sorry to hear that, man. Thank you for the support.
Well said sir. Been there myself. Good luck to you brother
Thanks, you too.
12:19 I never really dated, but I have actually presumed before that a relationship that comes after when a man and a woman have been best friends for months/l or a long time before dating, would work better in general than 2 people that don't know each other much, dating.
Actually, I remember I once asked if girlfriend is like " a girl best friend who you have sex and kiss with"
Wishing you the best.
Thank you! You too!
I hope everything gets better
Much appreciated.
Damn man. I'm sorry to hear this, but I hope you come out stronger than ever through this. I don't know if you remember me but we used to play CS a bit ago. Girlfriend (that I spoke to you of) of one and a half years broke up with me a few days ago and it's definitely been rough. Either way, brother, we will get through these trying times. Wishing you all the best and I miss ya.
Hey, man. I remember playing nuke with you on streams and off. Seems like we both got the short end of the stick after being with BPD girls. I hope you feel better soon. It gets easier. I'm already feeling things ease up on my end. And I miss you too. Hope we can chat again soon sometime when my PC works again.
@@OsakaSyndrome Glad you remember me! And yeah, no, I don't know if this is a bad thing to be saying but I probably will be more cautious around girls with BPD in the future just to avoid any major fuckery occurring to me in the relationship. Thank you! I've definitely been getting better over time since time heals wounds (although may leave a scar). For sure! Whenever I see you on CS, I'll hit you up. Sorry to hear about your computer.
I remember it was tarbuck who pointed out that in general successful relationships are between people who are as close to eachother as possible, while opposing forces coming together and making it work is a romantic idea and can absolutely work out if the parties share in common larger meta things that steer them to the same terminus, a baseline incompatibility means there will be a gauntlet of potentially decades long friction points that will need to be worked through, and I think people have been given the idea on some level that pain is progress is virtue, but this dissolves as soon as you just get along with a counterpart who isn't an embodiment of your weaknesses, you will both have to conquer these issues alone before reconvening with a stronger foundation to build upon
be careful that I'm not telling you things you want to hear, and may the force be with you
sad. i hate watching relationships break down, despite being more than used to it happening and to a large extent being defined by it. it’s an awful thing. wishing u all the best going forward.
I think it's better to view relationships as being more defined by what it was like the majority of the time you spent together. But the temptation to define them by how they ended is an all too common human impulse. Thank you for the kind sentiments. I'm headed in a better direction now.
Was there a dead bedroom? I have close family who work in divorce court law & couples counseling and often times “feeling unloved” is a euphemism for dead bedroom, because a lot of guys are embarrassed to admit it.
intimacy was the one good thing we consistently had. we would do adult things at least once a day. sometimes multiple times a day. but both of us had high drives. we're young.
I hope you get through this oke ._.
you were married??
im surprised too
bruh lmao
I'm gonna be honest I was kinda expecting something to go wrong when you made that video about how being in a relationship was the best day of your life.
That's a strange way of looking at it. It's also not what I said. I said my wedding day was the best day of my life. Which is a common sentiment among people who are married. Including those who have been married for 30+ years.
Sorry to hear, but at least this'll be a learning experience to take into your current relationship.
Thank you, Dee.
@@OsakaSyndrome Anytime man.
The algorithm blesses me yet again
youtube who tf is this fellow?
i vlog my life
The 🐐
mythical algorithm pull
welcome to the channel
Aromanticism for the win?
What happend bro. I thought you were a wife haver?
ohhh, hon- I'm so so so sorry :c
it's ok. i'm all good.
Thank you UA-cam algorithm
Thank you for watching.
@ of course, I admire your strength in sharing your story. Wishing you the best.
16:17 Do you think this quote can apply to ouselves too, and in the matter of self-improvent, or is this view more about not trying to brute-force changing others only?
Maybe it does. It depends on how you look at it. I'm of the opinion that we make choices about our lives. And we have the power to start making different, better choices.
@@OsakaSyndrome yeah, it's probably easier to convince ourselves to change, than others.
Bro already has a new girlfriend Osaka you’re a true inspiration 🫡
Appreciated. I love my life. :)
@@OsakaSyndromethe first thing I do when an animal bites me is put my hand in another, similar a animals mouth.
This is logical.
no woman no cry. it's for the better. relationships are useless in modern times, marriage is doomed in most cases. not saying it for the sympathy, just facts.
enjoy being single!
also i know you are a leftie, but I hope this experience helps you to understand true female nature. women are all about hypergamy, relationships are just not for you. I am sorry if it sounds harsh, but thats the reality.
I appreciate your support, bro. Even though I do not agree with all your conclusions.
Why you mentioned "no women no cry"?
@@OsakaSyndrome well we don't have to agree, echo chambers do no good. I guess you posted the vid to receive different opinions and here we are!
though YT removed my comment but I guess you managed to read it anyways.
in any case, as someone who got through 10+ relationships and break ups losing all naivety regarding women on my way to present moment - I feel you.
and i am pretty sure you will be fine. just value the experience and try not to make same mistakes in the future. you are clearly not dumb and we all learn from our own mistakes, there is no other way around.
cheers!
Shame this didn't work out for you. I feel vindicated in not having relationships though.
While I've never been married, I understand the "I don't like the person this is turning me into" point, living with my family had me feeling that way. People with issues, tend to only be able to get relationships with other people who have issues, which often makes both of them worse off.
Wasn't she living separately from you a lot of the time, that might make the divorce easier if you were already apart.
I'm still looking into what the process is. It looks like we just agree before a court that it didn't work out and then sign a few things. And you are right. It's important for people to be a healthy stage in their life where they understand themselves and know how to empathize with others before entering a relationship. If they are to enter one at all. Unhealthy + healthy does not mix and unhealthy + unhealthy definitely does not mix.
the bp always comes to collect
what is the bp?
Unfortunately true...
@@OsakaSyndrome Omg you are so innocent please stay that way PLEASE
@dinarichyperborean1455 DONT TELL HIM THERE WILL BE NO WAY BACK LMAO
what is that?
it will all be ok dude. there's more fish in the sea :)
Very true :)
man I'm so sorry :((((((
It was for the best. I appreciate your support, man.
Also, my computer broke so that's why I haven't been able to get ahold of you. I only *just* into this account today.
@@OsakaSyndrome lul it's oke
@@OsakaSyndromelul it's oke
Hope it gets fixed tho
you live and you learn ig
it's true
Sorry about the divorce man, I hope the both of you find better. Get a trades job and the ex-wife jokes at 23 wont be uncommon lol.
Lmao true
Being alone for a while will be good for her? Sounds like wishful thinking. Sorry about what happend either way.
I appreciate it.
She doesn't deserve you! lol
I honestly think you can pull better. You have a nicer face.
Thanks. I did end up pulling a lot better. My current girlfriend is smoking hot. One of the prettiest I've ever seen. Can't wait to do a video with her.
@@OsakaSyndrome Proud of you, bro!
>gets married
>Has bad outcome
>Immediately seeks another bad outcome.
Buddy, women are INCENTIVIZED to divorce. Along with ruining your life in hundreds of other ways outside of marriage.
The only winning move is not to play.
can i be your boyfriend then
lol have a fun life bro
Chillax buddy
off topic but do you recommend addy for a NEET that wants to stop rotting and learn a skill online ?
i don't recommend any drugs ever. being sober has helped me study Spanish, exercise, and practice other skills in a consistent way. drugs will only hinder your ability to do things in the long term. and adderall has no clinical benefit whatsoever to people without adhd, in fact, it can worsen attention in that population. what you really need to focus on is building consistent habits. even working on something for 15 minutes a day, as long as you do it every day, can snowball into working on it for several hours a day.
@@OsakaSyndrome How can I focus then ? I'm at the bottom of the barrel at 24 yet still can't bring myself to do anything remotely useful for 5 minutes
How active are you? How much sunlight do you get? Have you been tested for any nutritional deficiencies? What about thyroid issues? What does your diet look like? Do you socialize with friends and family? You should talk about all of these things with a doctor. They all have an impact on focus.
I also a made video for you talking about these issues: ua-cam.com/video/_mmrmcpWjoI/v-deo.html
Idk who you are but good luck
thanks
marrying at 20 wtf bro
it's silly in retrospect but people get married much earlier than that where i am from.
you lowkey look like ned from title fight.
lol
sorry man
it's all good
Same here.
Sorry to hear.
So is she getting the osaka or the syndrome?
❤
🫂
nice
it's pretty nice yea
VolkSSaKKKa!!! :D
Lets be real bro, you cant couple up with BPD'ers and troons, find people who seek simplicity not complexity, simplicity is the way of Being.
I agree on BPD. I didn't know she had BPD until after we got married. There's nothing wrong with being trans, though. I've met plenty of trans people who are normal and also not mentally ill at all. They just identify a certain way without thinking much more of it.
As a woman with BPD I approve this message.
@@OsakaSyndrome "met plenty of trans people who are normal" lol no
Que?
lo mismo de siempre
😭
Strive to be a better version of yourself.
Will do. Always.
sadge
pepe
@@OsakaSyndrome sorry i speak in twitch emotes, this vid made me genuinely sad but i dont have anything meaningful to say cus i havent had a meaningful relationship since my teens but i am wishing u the best!!!!