Attraction Grows In Space

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  • If you want to increase your girlfriend’s attraction for you then you need to give her space.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 189

  • @Manjeetkumar-gx2gr
    @Manjeetkumar-gx2gr 7 років тому +308

    your r going to be my phone's wallpaper

    • @SamS-fd5qt
      @SamS-fd5qt 6 років тому +10

      Manjeet kumar I really hope you’re a female because I don’t know why a guy would put another guy as his wallpaper on his phone.

    • @MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS
      @MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS 6 років тому +11

      Sam Saini WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT??

    • @jijo5721
      @jijo5721 5 років тому +1

      Haha

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore 5 років тому +8

      He's a great guy. Now put yourself on your wallpaper.

    • @joelrivas27
      @joelrivas27 5 років тому +2

      @@SamS-fd5qt homophobia??

  • @TripleOptionFootballAcademy
    @TripleOptionFootballAcademy 6 років тому +205

    +develop attraction
    You. Are. A. Genius. I listened to you and she came back after she stopped communicating with me over a five-day period. Because of you, I didn’t message her and demonstrate neediness. Thank you!

    • @rascal211
      @rascal211 Рік тому +3

      Five days is nothing. Try lasting months

    • @XVNRX
      @XVNRX Рік тому +2

      5 days … lol must be nice

  • @THEMAN-ru8ek
    @THEMAN-ru8ek 2 роки тому +22

    "ATTRACTION GROWS IN SPACE..SO EMBRACE THE SPACE!!!"

  • @Karllutt
    @Karllutt 8 років тому +97

    I love your very optimistic perspective and from experience I can say that you're absolutely right. Keep doing what you're doing!

  • @ivancito7790
    @ivancito7790 3 роки тому +47

    I wish I'd seen this video 2 months ago.... I literally JUST blew it with an amazing girl I was building a connection with literally for this reason. I didn't realize she was asking for space/was testing me to see how I'd react, until it was too late. Well, I guess the lesson is ingrained forever now, after such a painful loss.

    • @supercunthunt7756
      @supercunthunt7756 3 роки тому +8

      dont be sad, i dont know how old you are but every men learns this lesson in the hard way. Life will go on and youre not simping or texting for a girl anymore

    • @agmg3059
      @agmg3059 3 роки тому +2

      She will be vack my friend but dont chase flip the script make her chase you act unintrested

    • @ivancito7790
      @ivancito7790 3 роки тому +10

      @@agmg3059 nah, she blocked me, and honestly, I don’t give a shit. Plenty of fish in the sea, and we shouldn’t forget some girls have issues.

    • @peternall6566
      @peternall6566 2 роки тому +1

      @@ivancito7790 I concur.
      Good Luck my friend.

    • @sasbttrr
      @sasbttrr 2 роки тому

      How was she testing you

  • @rulonjjj
    @rulonjjj 3 роки тому +12

    I just got off the phone with Chris. So much valuable info and such a good dude! Highly recommended!!

  • @Gamesnvibes
    @Gamesnvibes 4 роки тому +28

    Just wanna say thank you for this solid advice and all your videos man Ive had some problems in the past where I let my anxiety take over me and all the negativity and getting needy not realizing that it was mostly me that was the problem. I’m glad I found you to this day because I have a thing with this girl and I’m hoping to get with her but also not lose myself and when I found your channel I started to realize and change the way i think and just wanna say thank you 🙌

    • @ashutoshdas7574
      @ashutoshdas7574 2 роки тому

      Hey.. you got the girl? And how much time did it take for her to come back,m

  • @Xenoforge78
    @Xenoforge78 2 роки тому +5

    My dude, you're the friend I wish I had. Fortunately, you're here on youtube lol. Thanks for your work, you've not only put my mind at ease but help me be more proficient with dealing with relationships in general, rock on my dude!

  • @jackbravo2172
    @jackbravo2172 8 років тому +117

    It sounds like these types of guys were overly Mothered and there was an absence of a Masculine Father in the house when they were growing up cause they get this behavior from childhood and being clingy to the Mother.

    • @gambit_toys6554
      @gambit_toys6554 6 років тому +15

      I am the product of this! Look at the divorce rate and how the kids get awarded to the mothers and not the dads.

    • @mohicanmowl
      @mohicanmowl 4 роки тому +13

      You guys are opening my mind. I would Always think this stuff would never happen to me, but It did. When I wonder why, I see that the Reason Is that when I was a kid I'd have to Chase My mom as My dad was not with us. Guess what? The further My mom would go, the bigger the fear. Heal yourselves guys, dig into your past. Wil not be Easy, but Will be worth It.

    • @GreekRedpiller
      @GreekRedpiller 2 роки тому

      you re totally right,i lost my father due to cancer when i was 10 and i grew up with my mother being told that i have to treat women well if i want to succeed with girls.Unfortunately i had to learn the ugly truth after 2 heartbreaks that women are attracted in insecure situations and not when you offer them the paradise itself.

    • @andrewrodriguez7727
      @andrewrodriguez7727 2 місяці тому

      This!!!! Needed this info. Thanks man.
      Sincerely, mommas boy.

  • @sad-boinguae2852
    @sad-boinguae2852 Рік тому +4

    This is effective i tried to and it works when she ask for space i gave it right away and let her enjoy the life she wanted after 4 days she reach out and she told me she can’t sleep for no reason 🙏 be strong guys true love never fails dont manipulate instead do the right thing and set boundaries and self respect because no one will provide it for you 🙏

  • @AlphaBadboy-lk5ys
    @AlphaBadboy-lk5ys Рік тому +2

    Thanks, brother... This guy will save you time and heartaches in a relationship. The best!

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 3 роки тому +10

    I gave my ex so much space she has her own Galaxy

  • @stepbystepseduction5126
    @stepbystepseduction5126 4 роки тому +13

    Give her too much space, and she would be off to space on a spaceX rocket. Balance it as well. Chris has a very good video on not being a cold fish & doing no contact the right way.

  • @kevinbarlett4318
    @kevinbarlett4318 6 років тому +31

    This is in the beginning of the relationship.

    • @Ucihaist
      @Ucihaist 4 роки тому +2

      not for long in relationship maybe

    • @ianmichael3912
      @ianmichael3912 4 роки тому +4

      Ucihaist in a relationship its a little different but not far off.. if she asks for space, give it to her. In a healthy long term relationship, communicating and respecting needs is key

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 3 роки тому +1

      It’s for all parts of relationships

    • @bestprimal9790
      @bestprimal9790 2 роки тому +3

      @@ianmichael3912 you shouldn’t wait till she asks you to give her space. You must ALWAYS space things out and not over-indulge with your gf. You should learn to cultivate space to keep the long term relationship alive.

  • @gauravsikarwar441
    @gauravsikarwar441 3 роки тому +6

    Your knowledge and your advice is godly man....so much respect for you ...

  • @akashroy3447
    @akashroy3447 4 роки тому +4

    What else do u need maaan??? We're rocking now bruh.. His videos are just waaay more than enough..

  • @marcus716
    @marcus716 2 роки тому +3

    This and all other type of mistakes can be avoided by being on your purpose. Be honest to yourself

  • @MuhammadHassan-fj7ee
    @MuhammadHassan-fj7ee 4 роки тому +8

    In your every video, you use to say "attraction grows in space", I 100% agree with it, but if someone is in love with a coworker, and all the time they are in contact with each other, then how space could be maintained. Therefore, your expert opinion is needed on this aspect too.

    • @bengsimmons4234
      @bengsimmons4234 4 роки тому +2

      Muhammad Hassan if your girlfriend cheats on you. Just let her go. Don’t be afraid to walk away you or else your girl will be your fuck buddy thats all.

  • @michaelstephens6962
    @michaelstephens6962 3 роки тому +16

    My girlfriend pulls away from me and tbh I'm going to follow your advice and see if it works out

    • @jhptsdx6275
      @jhptsdx6275 3 роки тому +2

      Hope it works out brother

    • @johnkennedy8795
      @johnkennedy8795 3 роки тому

      Well? Did you sort her out and did you pull away and did she come back?

    • @ThePunis-Her
      @ThePunis-Her 3 роки тому +3

      @@johnkennedy8795 He killed himself i gues

    • @bestprimal9790
      @bestprimal9790 2 роки тому

      @@ThePunis-Her LMAO

    • @marcus716
      @marcus716 2 роки тому

      @@ThePunis-Her rofl

  • @WILLIAM197115
    @WILLIAM197115 5 років тому +5

    Everything you need to know is already in these Video's. You don't need to spend $75 U S $100 Canadian to get 1 and I mean 1 mostly computer gernated email to help you with your break up! Folks this is not complicated If she leavs you don't chase......If you chase she will run! Don't wast your time and money like I did......and when I sent him another email because I had a few question. Chris here was very rude letting me know that I had paid $100 for 1 email.......telling me if I don't like it don't pay [a little late].......Nice!! So here it is you don't have allot of control in keeping your girlfriend, but you could at least keep your money!!

  • @jarradhurley4866
    @jarradhurley4866 2 роки тому +2

    One thing that strikes me when watching these videos and dealing with women in my life is that women DO NOT CARE about the way men feel. If they do something you dont like, they see that as your problem. Women expect men to be better than they are in basically every way.

  • @slimee5549
    @slimee5549 4 роки тому +18

    So attraction grows in outer space?

  • @davyvanhee5084
    @davyvanhee5084 2 роки тому +2

    Your videos are amazing Chris
    Thank you for your advice

  • @dlx6028
    @dlx6028 Рік тому +2

    *Too much circulation makes the price go down*

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 5 місяців тому

    This is an issue with a co-worker too. I probably gave her too much attention. The biggest thing I did was always looking at her and that didn't give her a chance to look at me. But they say some women love attention so I was trying to flatter her with my attention looking at her. Even at work you have to stay on your mission and do your work and not always checking her out or waiting for her to walk by so you can say hi and chit-chat.

  • @devrajkashyap8620
    @devrajkashyap8620 5 років тому +14

    What do I do now? I did all wrong and I started this very late...

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 5 років тому +9

      Pull away, and start working on your own purpose

  • @MrHandzzz
    @MrHandzzz 5 років тому +17

    How do you push a girl long distance that texts once a day?

    • @roottargz
      @roottargz 4 роки тому +10

      Update your DP once a while, post status updates having fun and successful life and stop pestering her with messages, pull away all the attention you are giving her. It will take time, but she will start engaging more.

    • @jilokizito1705
      @jilokizito1705 3 роки тому +9

      Find another girl closer to you.

  • @robertmoore294
    @robertmoore294 4 роки тому +5

    I believe it was three weeks I haven't talked to my girl, yesterday yeah but it's not the same like it use to be. If we do it again this week, make it four then I'm going to think really hard about this situation. How much space does a beautiful woman who I love need? But I'm not going to complain anymore because when it becomes too long that's when I'm going to know something isn't right. Than, I'm just going to keep accepting something that I don't have to get myself into. I feel like I'm in a nutshell really. Don't know what the hell is going on, just busy. But I'm busy too. thanks for this video tho

    • @rickydickydoodogrhimes1
      @rickydickydoodogrhimes1 Рік тому +1

      How are you now?

    • @robertmoore294
      @robertmoore294 Рік тому

      @@rickydickydoodogrhimes1 I'm feeling better cat. That was 2 years ago lol

    • @gauravkumai
      @gauravkumai 11 місяців тому

      ​@@robertmoore294What happened afterwards bro?

  • @HabiburRahman-xy3lb
    @HabiburRahman-xy3lb 7 років тому +5

    Hi, I'm in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years. Recently she was in a rebound relationship and broke with me. After few months she back to me again. Then everything was going well. But we are not from the same country. I'm living her country now. I want to be with her for whole life. She also want. But she shared about me with her parents,and they are not agreed for our relationship. So now she want to break up because of her parents but she said maybe we can be together in the future if we can manage everything. But right now she doesn't wanna be in a relationship,she said she needs time to think about it. Coz it's just not about ourselves,it's related to our families. But even she doesn't wanna loose me. Pls give me a advice what should I do now?

    • @piyushgandhi793
      @piyushgandhi793 5 років тому

      Did it sort out the way you wanted it to?

    • @marloninquirer
      @marloninquirer 4 роки тому

      its really tough if her parents disapprove. been in that situation many times and i should say it takes alot of courage, guts, love and commitment on her end to be able to get past that. one thing for sure love isnt enough. you just cant force someone to commit it must come from her. if shes really commited she'll stay with you no matter what. i know you love her but you also have to ask yourself if u wanna be with this woman who cant commit (for now) and instead of fighting for the relationship will leave you when the going gets tough?

    • @SadisticNinja
      @SadisticNinja 4 роки тому

      Pro english

  • @neilrotoni9170
    @neilrotoni9170 4 роки тому +7

    Embrace the space

  • @JesusFlores-vx3vh
    @JesusFlores-vx3vh 5 років тому +8

    Is this for the beginning of the relationship or should it be like this even when you marry her?

    • @adamsamazingapples
      @adamsamazingapples 5 років тому +14

      Any time in any relationship man. Just be on your purpose and be naturally busy improving yourself and you will attract positive things; not just women.

  • @hnt1445
    @hnt1445 3 роки тому +1

    What exactly do you mean by "space"? Does that mean no contact whatsoever for a period of time or just minimal contact?

  • @rascal211
    @rascal211 Рік тому

    Attraction can also die in space as the girl may have other options and go for one of those other options.

  • @shazerj6067
    @shazerj6067 3 роки тому +4

    I gave space to my girl friend and now she lives on Mars hahahahhahahahaha

  • @kimanidmx
    @kimanidmx 10 місяців тому

    What if you aren't intimate yet but she pulls away will space work?

  • @oobibab9572
    @oobibab9572 6 років тому +19

    Is this applicable for an Long distance relationship?

  • @Cooper_1998
    @Cooper_1998 Рік тому

    Would this apply for a girl you've just stated seening?

  • @macogorkmen2318
    @macogorkmen2318 Рік тому

    Hi Chris,how can you know that much about women,amezing.

  • @abelgodinez4044
    @abelgodinez4044 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I saw this sooner. Is it possible for recovery after failing this test??? If not ,it is what it is but she was such a smoke showww 🔥

  • @mohammed96011
    @mohammed96011 4 роки тому +3

    How do you pull back when you live with her?

    • @triggerd7385
      @triggerd7385 4 роки тому +2

      Hang out with friends at the times your normally together. Come back at the end of the day and go to sleep. If your around her 5 days a week cut it to 3 by becoming busy. Once she's brings this up to you come back like not happened.

  • @fahim618
    @fahim618 7 років тому +12

    she asked me to give her space and I'm giving now but is there any possibility that she would forget and leave me?

    • @fahim618
      @fahim618 7 років тому +2

      AcidMike thanks for your advice brother. hope she will back if won't then it's not a big deal. it's not the end of the earth. thanks again :)

    • @deliadelassus9285
      @deliadelassus9285 3 роки тому

      Exactly i faced right now. She asked space so i'm giving now. Worried whether she will be back again or not

    • @fahim618
      @fahim618 3 роки тому +4

      @@deliadelassus9285 don't worry and don't show that you are depressed or anything like that just chill. Everything will be alright. Even if she won't come back you will be just fine. But I know it's hard and take time. For some people take too long but eventually they heal they learn they become stronger, better. Just show that you are just fine and don't annoy her just let her come back when she misses you. Good luck ☺️

    • @deliadelassus9285
      @deliadelassus9285 3 роки тому

      @@fahim618 she said she will call me when she's ready to talk again untill asked me not to call or text.

    • @fahim618
      @fahim618 3 роки тому +1

      @@deliadelassus9285 yes don't call or text and don't even wait just be busy do your things and when she calls or text don't be exaggerated. At least don't show it to her.

  • @htownthareal985
    @htownthareal985 2 місяці тому

    I agree because at I didn’t understand her what she said

  • @davidluis9743
    @davidluis9743 6 років тому +8

    Thank you you help me lot

  • @cathalsheehan9596
    @cathalsheehan9596 5 років тому +6

    Can you give someone too much space though? I won’t get an opportunity to reattract my ex for 9 months, will it be too late then?

    • @maxiclasher
      @maxiclasher 5 років тому +2

      Wait for her to contact you, then make a definite date. If she doesn't contact you, she's lot interested so don't contact her.

    • @zafrensaje
      @zafrensaje 4 роки тому +2

      move on

  • @douglasmcdick440
    @douglasmcdick440 3 роки тому +2

    Am I the only one that heard a car tire screech at like 1:23

  • @blastingreviews2
    @blastingreviews2 2 роки тому

    My gf is using less emojis not saying goodnight anymore not asking about my days anymore just seems super un interested so I’m gonna have to give some space hopefully it works

  • @spearmint4093
    @spearmint4093 8 років тому +5

    Do you have a guide how to get my ex - BOYFRIEND back???? :( i already did no contact 4 (!) MONTHS but its not working :(

    • @jackbravo2172
      @jackbravo2172 8 років тому +7

      If you have tried to communicate with him and that didn't work and you have tried no contact and he still doesn't reach out to you or miss you, then let him go. You'll be wasting your time on someone who is no longer making an effort.

    • @damnson7870
      @damnson7870 7 років тому +5

      JE ENN just move you are going to get someone much better I promise you that

    • @spearmint4093
      @spearmint4093 7 років тому

      edu william thanks dear! i hope so. but i dated another guy 4 months then 2 months ago he ghosted on me from nowhere! :( still hasn't said a word to me 💔

    • @damnson7870
      @damnson7870 7 років тому +1

      ***** fuck they always show up from no where when you move on with your life. Keep it cool and his your ex for a reason that's all

    • @spearmint4093
      @spearmint4093 7 років тому

      edu william yeah i think so too. i just moved on so i think he might soon reach out. i am socializing excersising and taking care of me and my close ones as crazy now looking and feeling better than ever and also slept with a new guy couple days ago.. despite this probably is a one night stand or someone i can just have as a fuck buddy im still feeling well for now and date other guys etc.. and dont want to see the old ex anymore. none of them. they all can go to hell for giving up on us!

  • @rasooljabbar6877
    @rasooljabbar6877 5 років тому +4

    Shall I chase first then let her chase me ?

    • @roottargz
      @roottargz 4 роки тому +4

      Show her great time, have lots of fun and establish your rapport with her, then gradually mirror her emotions, pull back when she pulls back and let her chase you.

    • @alessbritish228
      @alessbritish228 4 роки тому +2

      @@roottargz You're the man.

    • @essentialoilsme
      @essentialoilsme 3 роки тому

      @@roottargz great advice

  • @TheEliteMixer
    @TheEliteMixer Рік тому

    I would hire you as my dating coach if I was single

  • @COBFMV
    @COBFMV 4 роки тому +1

    listen to this man

  • @charliebrownhill953
    @charliebrownhill953 7 років тому +6

    How long before no contact works

    • @marloninquirer
      @marloninquirer 4 роки тому +1

      depends on the woman if she really loves you. in my case, some took 2 days, 5 days, a week. others took even 2 months

    • @roottargz
      @roottargz 4 роки тому +7

      The girl I loved the most took 4 months to come back to me. The girl I liked the least took couple of days. You see the pattern there?

    • @THEMAN-ru8ek
      @THEMAN-ru8ek Рік тому

      Forever it works!!!!

  • @buddytheseven2619
    @buddytheseven2619 3 роки тому

    is it why most marriages are ended up in divorce because no spaces to keep each other apart.

    • @jimbo6413
      @jimbo6413 3 роки тому

      Yup...I'd say a good number of divorces. Marriage carries along with it this built in expectation that the husband and wife "complete" each other and *must* do every last thing together. That's patently absurd of course. I don't care how much you may love another person (or they may love you)...the fact is that if you're exposed to them every single day for years at a stretch then at some point you're not only going to become bored, but you'll actually begin to resent their presence. That's not to say that infidelity is okay because it's not. But there has to be a happy medium where both the husband and wife can pursue their own interests/hobbies and get some down time. Bottom line, marriage is, by it's very nature, a paradigm of emotional neediness. That's not to say that it's inherently bad, but unless it's effectively managed (meaning the husband and wife can distance when they need some breathing room) then it just becomes a source of tension and, as I said earlier, resentment.

  • @ravencris2644
    @ravencris2644 4 роки тому +3

    If u were in a LDR does attraction comeback,

  • @apontutul
    @apontutul Рік тому

    Yeah girl take as much of space universe blackhole

  • @lorderectus1849
    @lorderectus1849 Рік тому

    Give them all the space they need it’s simple don’t get involved!

  • @KVNCSTA
    @KVNCSTA 2 роки тому +1

    So so true.

  • @augustoherrera228
    @augustoherrera228 6 років тому +4

    What do in do when she says this I just thought of maybe we both settle each other's problem first then if we are done with it thats the time we will focus on our relationship because i think its not healthy anymore. Dont worry i still love you but we just need to do this for ourselves.

    • @roottargz
      @roottargz 4 роки тому

      Listen to her and give her space, establish a no contact rule. Only get back to her when she reaches out to you and then you mirror her emotions. As Chris said, attraction develops in space.

  • @shodan198
    @shodan198 6 років тому +4

    Does this work with ex's as well?

  • @NinongCris
    @NinongCris 3 роки тому +1

    Im back here again

  • @dechenphuntsok8576
    @dechenphuntsok8576 3 роки тому

    Does this work for everyone?

    • @j249
      @j249 3 роки тому +1

      yes

  • @jasoncarb29
    @jasoncarb29 4 роки тому

    Fuck this, I'm gonna be an astronaut

  • @gorrilablackjack2813
    @gorrilablackjack2813 5 років тому

    No contact only works when STOP GIVING A SHIT!!

  • @ErnieLeblanc
    @ErnieLeblanc Рік тому

    Get a different Kunt for each day of the week so that each one can miss you for a ''Hole'' week!🇺🇸💯🎯💥🎯💯🇺🇸

  • @alitaha2278
    @alitaha2278 5 років тому +10

    Mgtow

  • @marcus716
    @marcus716 2 роки тому

    1:55 😉

  • @01amitkumar
    @01amitkumar 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @iqrafatima8025
    @iqrafatima8025 2 роки тому

    🖒🖒🖒🖒