I remember working 2 years ago at my old job Potbellys (sandwich shop) This guy always comes in wanting EXTRA portions he doesn't want to pay for. So one day he gave me a compliment, I said "thanks" and I put my head down to shut down anymore conversations to focus on doing my job which was making his sandwich.. he got upset I put the amount EVERYONE gets and walked out as I put his bread through the oven. He came back the next day tried to pursue me again. But caught an attitude that I treated him like a regular costumer. And wasn't impressed. He then saw that I was smiling and being friendly towards MY BOSS who happened to be a white man and yelled violently that I was an "UNCLE TOM" all of my co-workers FROZE as he stormed out. He completely embarrassed himself. Men project constantly when they are rejected and they just won't take accountability for it. I'm so over it.
The "Can you cook?" question is a big one. My friend said some men don't even really want to date. They are just looking for "friends" who will cook for them. The only time some of these fools come around is on holidays, looking for greens and macaroni and cheese. Greedy bastards.
Wait, wait...I have one. Dude: "Can I get your number?" Me: I'm sorry, but no." Dude: "Why cant I get your number?" Me: "I apologize, but no, thank you." Dude: "Why not? Can't we be friends?" Me: I'm sorry. I have to go. No, thank you." Dude: "Why can't I get your number?" Me: 😑 How many times are you gonna ask me? I said no.
My thing is this. I don't care. I refuse to live in fear. If I'm gonna die, oh well. They still won't get my number so I still won. And they will spend the rest of their miserable lives in prison. Double win.
Alot of these men are very disrespectful, they want to know all your business, but very short on there information, they have some kind of hate towards black woman.
Evana L. Dang! At least you're honest about your experience. Sometimes women & men use marriage to insult single women like marriage is all rainbows & unicorn.
Evana L. I just got a divorce, but I liked being married until he became mean. My ex was actually a better boyfriend. As soon as we got married, he would leave or be moody-just horrible!
And then these dudes wonder why black women have an attitude (or look mean) when they approach us. We get sick of their intrusive questions because we know most of these dudes just want some sex.
+Ms.Bubba123 exactly! Heard one at a time here and there, you can deal with it. But after years of this shit the tolerance is gone and you just want them all to die.
Deborrah Cooper Yeah they're not genuine. They are not trying to find the love of their life. They just want to get their dicks wet and probably got a woman at home already. Nobody has time for that sister-wife stuff. lol
I had a dude recently asked me why I didn’t have kids, mind you he is 43 with six and the oldest two were born before he left high school. I said because I haven’t been married. The conversation was over then.
@@citygirl8181 That was nice. I always used to say dumb shit like "kids? I hate children so why would I do that?" or "men who want kids irk my soul" or "what do I look like, a damn breeding bunny rabbit? I got way more important things to do. FOH!" and one guy I told "cause I like booze and I didn't want to stop drinking for 9 months". He is probably still cursing at me!
I was walking to the corner store with my daughter who was two at the time. This fool comes up and starts talking to me. Then he says "oh is this your little girl?". Then proceeded to pick her up to put on his hip😦. I stopped in my tracks and gave him the meanest look I had and said "PUT HER DOWN NOW"! Thankfully he did and walked away with a confused look on his face like" what did I do wrong".
Great video! I have had black men say some of those things to me here in the U.K. I have got to the point where I am turned off of black men now and no longer find them attractive or desirable. This makes me feel sad deep down because I should be able to find a mate among my own people as every other races of women do but I find that most black men are just not worth the emotional energy. Also as a woman without children I also get the stupid comments about that too and looks of surprise as though I am some alien. Funnily enough white people dont react like that when I say I don't have children. For them it isn't a big issue. For black people however, even though I may have said that I am not married they are surprised that I don't have children. They always put the cart before the horse and then wonder why black people are at the bottom of every important social marker such as economics etc and at the top of the bad social markers such as new HIV infection rates, poor housing etcAs I said before and especially with the 49 per cent interracial dating rate of black men here in the U.K., I no longer find black men attractive or desirable. Also to be honest I have been through too much with them starting from an early age. With regard to black men and their general approach, I find them cheap, lacking in intellectual pursuits, predatory and selfish. For example Deborrah, you mentioned that rather than take a woman somewhere nice, they want to go to her house etc! Also as a woman that does speak well and always have, I find that it brings out the insecurity in black people in general not only black men. I am tired of the fragile ego of black people altogether not only black men.
Sherri Solomon yes I agree with. It is OK for them to marry non black women, but we are a traitor if we want to marry non black men. They cannot have their cake and eat it too. I am involve with a white man and proud of it and do not care what they think. I am completely turn off from black men for good. I will never never never ever be with them again. I am sick of the emotional abuse. They have always abused me verbally, physically, and emotionally. I have experienced verbal and emotional abuse from black men the most.
Wow thats horrible its going on in UK too! Dont feel bad about lack of attraction BC I'm young & have only been attracted to 1 black male in the last 7 yrs & have not been involved sexually with them since. It is unfortunate & makes us feel weird but there is nothing wrong with us THEY r the Problem and the women who enable & worship them! I'm with u sistah!
I know where you're coming from, esp being well spoken. That always came with accusations of "you sound white". Back in the day I worked for a press release distribution agency. It had a small printing section, which occasionally I would visit to check on progress of a release, if it was urgent. There were about 6/7 men who worked down there, two of whom were black. I always dreaded going because they wanted me to be "homedown" with them instead of being friendly, but professional. They thought that I was "stuck up". I'm quite a reserved, introverted woman which rarely goes down well in the black community in any case.
There was this old guy who felt entitled and told me that he wanted to get with me. I declined his offer and he then told me, "You think you look like Sade but you look more like Tracy Chapman." He was so butt hurt. I actually don't look like Sade or Tracy Chapman. SMH.
It's hilarious how many butthurt males are making comments on this video and downvoting it, mad as hell!! They don't want to hear the truth about their ratchetness. But every visit to the video I get paid, so keep it coming clowns! PS...your comments will all be deleted however.
Thank you for making this video. All black queens are being exposed to this ratchetness..., no style...absolutely no integrity...no positive character-traites whatsoever..., and then they have the nerve to be in denial about..., that's the part I don't understand. It's like they are possessed. My sons don't even carry themselves in that manor..., but they are praying men who love TMH.
@@noshuamarbury9393 I'm a witness to that because I know some..., but it seems today the bad out-weight the good..., and sisters gotta be careful...use their spiritual discernment..., cause some of those bastards are real smooth and hidden.
So grateful to have found this perspective. I was beginning to feel like I was truly crazy for taking issue with the ridiculous amount of disrespect and nosey ass inquiries many black women are conditioned to accept or be okay with. The behavior I've witnessed black women being encouraged to accept is appalling. Black women have a right to have standards, boundaries and be respected as much as any other group of women. To see so many out in the world that haven't even mastered the basics as far as decency, trustworthiness and dependability...a truly hopeless state of affairs.
I hear "can u have friends or I'm sure he wouldn't mind u having a friend" a lot. I lie sometimes & tell men I have a boyfriend or husband. I've been insulted to for rejecting them. (shrugs)
There's a guy that shows up at my work regularly. He thinks he should say stupid things like what you're discussing here. Since I deal with patron accounts, he knows I have access to his number. He told me to call him. I told him that would be a conflict of interest. He ask why & I said, "I'm not interested." The other day he came in & said, "I'm still waiting for your call..." I told him patience is a virtue & to have a great day lol. If he comes at me again, he'll be banned from my work altogether.
I want dudes ri know I give no fucks about your opinion or feelings about this video. It's not to praise you. get praise from the chick you're screwing. I cuss cause I'm grown and say WTF I feel like saying, exactly the way I please. I make videos to get women straight, not you. none of your whining ass comments will ever go live on this channel, so stop wasting your time. go away.
Actually yeah I am. Thanks weirdo if you have zero interest in black women wtf are you on you tube where they are getting together and socializing? Seems like you want in but will never be invited to the party...or are you a white agent trying to cause separation? Lol either way we still don't want you. Btw are these fools commenting stupid shit then deleting their comments?
Carlos' Way I don't see a mass immigration of Brazilian women in America married to Black American men. So where is your Brazilian wife/fiance? All the black men who I know that kept talking about going to South America did not bring back any wives.
Girlwonder Lol Brazilian women don't want they ass. They just want that green card. they think those Brazilian women gonna dump Fillippe for their no good Black ass. lolol
omg that smile shit is so annoying. they don't know if you just had a death happen, lost a job, just had some overall bad news, are depressed about something like a death anniversary and just say that out of nowhere and expect you to just jump and be agreeable.
I laughed so hard through this video but the biggest laugh came when you said you always make sure you know security in a venue just in case. That's the only good thing I got from the NOI. Security is key when you've got no breaks. xx
I've met random guys on the street who asked me if I was straight, if I was single, and all kinds of personal questions but never asked what my name was. It's fucking disrespectful and it's like they only see you as a nameless sex object. Disgusting and distrubing.
Let's not forget the non verbal, passive aggressive and downright creepy/stalking sh** t as well. Here is a list of what I have experienced from black men who were total strangers while I was out in public: sexual tongue gestures, shoulder tap or head nod with underlying tone of "time to go fuck", a cashier, after blatantly "noticing" me, (and of course his line was the only one open at store) upon ringing up my items began to complain about how much his "neck hurts" with a vibe of seeing if I was going to offer my concern, a neck rub, etc (I did not), the security dude at the DMV (who kept starring) follows me to my car (I never spoke with him inside DMV) as I am putting my tags on my car asks me (condescendingly) "Do you know what you're doing?" Like I'm a dumb shit who needed his unsolicited help. (I told him to f off.) And lastly, I am a singer, and one night a friend invited me to sing as a guest at her show. After the show, not one, but TWO negros who played in her band fucking followed me to my car. It was scary! I confronted one of them and the other claimed he just wanted to make sure I got to my car ok. And let me be clear: they followed me to my car UNINVITED. WTF!!! This is just a small list of such non sense I have experienced over the years. And for any defensive man who might read this, I did not misinterpret these behaviors as I am adept at reading my intuition and vibes from others. Additionally, NONE of these men were attractive to me or men I would consider dating. Mainly due to these despicable actions and energy.
Quana Ramira I share all of these experiences. They're always looking to romanticize their actions as if a woman's physical safety is ever up for debate.
You are funny as hell, I have subscribed. I am happily married to a Puerto Rican man. Single ladies, get yourself a man that treats you the way you want to be treated. There are many good men out there. You must have a open heart and mind.
@Janique. That also happened to me but in a slightly different way. I invited a man for a visit to my house as I knew him well enough but as a friend not as a romantic acquaintance. I had no idea that he was even interested in me that way. When he came he started trying to chat me up and said that he was going to go and take a bath and then he wanted to have sex with me! We ended up getting into a physical fight when he realised that I was not going to sleep with him and neither would I allow him to take a bath in my house. I suppose you could call it an attempted rape. Luckily I knew how to handle myself otherwise who knows what else might have happened!
This video is accurate. I know a lot of bl man that said shit like that to me. The reason im SINGLE!! Im a new subscriber i love you Deborrah , greetings from the Netherlands
Thank you Deborrah Cooper for this video and all you do I've been single now 2 plus years and as much as I would love a future with a strong black man I've learned during this time loving me is much better. Building my empire verse building his empire. lol what a fool I was and lots of time wasted. Investment in self is so much more rewarding.
I hate that "smile" bullsh*t!! Like who walks around smiling all damn day long. Sir...if you walked up and I didn't automatically smile....then you're not the one. Next. Lol
Here's another one. I was wearing a pretty floral Tunic this one day and as I walked past this black dude he asked me, "Why you wearing that Daishiki?" 😕
I have a job where i cook samples so i have men constantly asking if i cook like this at home or when i'll cook for them. IT"S MY JOB. I have heard of all the this talked about in this video, and i can say if this is what is out there in the dating world i'm GLAD i don't put myself out there!!!!!
Once when a guy was interested in me, I told him I had a boyfriend. I was dumb and wanted to be nice so when he asked for a hug I gave it to him and he grabbed my butt. I cried a bit afterward.
What about when someone asks about details regarding your employment? "Where do you work?" or "What time of the day will you be at work?" "we can have lunch together at your job." I blatantly tell these men "You don't need to know where I work because I don't allow strangers showing up at my place of employment." I also tell them that ppl showing up at my job (without a valid reason) are likely to be arrested. I wonder if anyone else has experienced this before?
'Mutha...Why is THAT your business?' LMAOOOOO...This is so funny to me b/c I knew a guy who used to ALWAYS want to come over, and eat dinner, but NEVER had any groceries in hand...JUST A NUT FOOL! I Had to escort him to the front door...GOODNIGHT AND GOOD LUCK!
Redbone Dianna Exactly!. I'm an escort and wont even see them i dont want their money cus its always a catch i send them to the brazillan chick i know with stds (B careful ladies.)😁
I could give so many comments that it would result in a book. For example with one guy we were having a conversation when I noticed he had pulled it out. He thought that would make me want him.
@deva190, I hear this too often. What is wrong with people? A woman told me she ran into a guy she knew socially through friends at a nice bar/restaurant. At the end of the evening he offered to walk her to her car. He was parked across the lot, so she offered him a ride to his car. She parked in front of his car and looked over and he had pulled it out.
I just love your videos lmao! Subbed! Do you happen to have a video(s) on BM rampant sexual violence against little girls? BM pedophilic behavior has destroyed so many girls/womens mental health and pretty much their lives.
M Batista Tell me about this. The high school I attend is near a construction site, so there's a bunch of busted looking men watching us walk to school every day. One time I was waiting for the bus after school, and this construction worker (gray hair, scruffy beard, smelled like weed, every "get away from me" signal you could think of) asked if he could take me out sometime. I told him I was only in high school, and he said "well, you _look_ like a woman. I'm only 33, girl, all this gray hair is just stress." OK, even if he WAS 33 (which is some bullshit), in what world does this busted ass 33 year old construction worker think a 16 year old student at one of the best schools in the city would go out with him? Smdh. Luckily I've never been attacked. Love these videos Deb, keep 'em coming 😊❤
Deborrah Cooper I agree. It is a very sickening and potentially triggering subject that most don't like to discuss. Some people don't realize how prevalent it is, especially with BM. BM act like sexual violence against little girls in their families is no big deal. 😖😜
@@mbatista5891 Witness D.L Hughley who refused to believe his daughter when she told him that she was sexually assaulted by a friend of his, because he liked the friend. He came round eventually, but to disbelieve her in the first place and he was fine admitting to that publicly? I wonder if a white celebrity would have publicised this?
I don't like the way black men talk to me and I'm a black woman I haven't dated a black man since high school I've only been dating white men for 17 years and now I'm married to my white husband I don't cook because I don't know how but he doesn't care because he is an awesome cook and I don't work but he doesn't mind taking care of me
Deborah Cooper You rock. I have experienced some of the aspect of this videos. Your videos are good example to let black women know there are more options of men. Do not settle yourself for less. It took until me I got 25 years old to realize that. I learn my lesson the hard way. Respect yourself. I have a lot more respect yourself after these learned lessons.
Oh they love to get in our hair and makeup gay asses. Many men have tried to control what I do with both. I shut them down every time. And they love to say Im "tough on men" because I expect to be treated with respect. A guy just told me yesterday I was bougie because I told him a story about me being upset that a date where a guy wouldn't pay for valet and we ended up not eating at a restaurant where we had a reservation. Just trifling.
Deborrah Cooper Yes Mam! Deborah, I have had ALL of these comments said to me. SMH. I went on a date the other night--a good looking brother. Successful. Thirty minutes into the date he informed me he was the cream of the crop and that not many women met his standard. I wasn't quite his type but I had a big booty so he decided to see what I was about. Right. So I went to the ladies room and then left the restaurant and went home. It took that fool an hour to figure out I had left. Boy bye!
Kenya Anderson The sad thing is that there are women out there who would have responded positively to that crude ass comment that's why he felt so comfortable saying it to you. I'm so glad you left his ass at the restaurant 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
+LEYANNA28 Most likely nobody has ever responded to it, but they keep doing it anyway here hoping to hit paydirt some day. However for the majority. they just do it because they enjoy humiliating women and causing them psychological pain. It's not really about a success rate or women going for their shit at all.
WOW, so glad I cam across this video. Was feeling down for being single but this puts some perspective on this. I refuse to be with just any dude who isn't bringing anything positive and inspiring to the table. All of these experiences I have experienced.
I tried dating a BM..I don’t think I’ll ever get over the things he did and said to me. Disrespectful yes but that’s putting it lightly...that level of disrespect is border line cruelty.
Unfortunately, I believe it's the culture. Other older BM teach the younger ones to abuse women and game in us vs how to be solid strong purposeful leaders some women would be proud to have as a son, brother or husband. Smdh
I totally agree with you that "you are what you attract" is the most utter bs 🙄 😒 😑 mentioned by men and women. I truly think me being with my ex was for him to teach how to treat women and trust good women, and for me to learn how to date and how to set up my boundaries higher!
Wow I'm from the south too I'm from Texas & its so oo oo much worse down there. I was gone for 7 yrs & visited last year everyone is the same. Almost no one I know is evolving they're merely existing & most have become energy vampires. If I go back its to Houston to eat 😬 Ugh those guys down there r so delayed & miserable.
LOL! I lived there 4yrs & I enjoyed it way more than dfw BC I lived in jersey village worked & went to school in cypress so I stayed out of the wards & depressing areas but I still wasn't satisfied lol not 1 man of value approached me & it was only 1 guy I was attracted to the entire time. Those church men out there are horrible!!!!
the smile crap gets me angry, why are you telling me to smile I'm not making a sad, angry, or mean face at you? also why are you intruding on my personal space when I'm in the store? I don't work here. African men are also very entitled. I could be in a coffee shop and an african man will ask me to fix his coffee or say why do I have to purchase water. I tell them I don't work here and everyone purchases there own water in this country.
Truth... I’m so tired of it. “You need to kick your own ass’s cause I can’t get to you “ 😂. Really I want to tell guys what they are doing wrong to their face but I’m scared of being shot or cursed out so I just say I’m happily married so no. Guys these days are so dumb and entitled.
All of that and more, is why I don't date black dudes anymore. Ps. I have natural hair and its really long curly and really pretty. A black man with the biggest grin on his face told me he liked my weave... I'm like DA fuck? After I told him my hair was real he just said "Oh I like your hair" like omigosh?! What makes you think it's ok to think my hair is fake?!
I had my hair in a twist out one day a few years ago, and this guy at the BART station passed me on the stairwell, then turned around and asked me "is that your real hair?" What is their fixation on women's hair?
@@Debsterism it's like this big deal for them... The hair gotta be real cause then they can touch or play with it. Or its this idea she's a real woman not fake....its so dumb...some are even so gross to want you to process/straighten your hair and I'm like... No you either accept me as is or fuck off
White women are asked similar intrusive and offensive questions, as well. You are excellent!!! I wish I'd found you a long time ago. I'm learning so much from you.
You are very welcome. Yes I've had some white guys ask me some dumbass questions but that was always when I was outside California. Just stupid. One told me I was smart and he didn't know black people could be smart like that. This was in Texas. To excuse him he was only 19 years old at the time but so was I. And here you are saying that dumb shit??? Oh boy you know he got an earful cause I went (what they now call) HAM on his butt. Glad you found your way here - better late than never. P.lease subscribe and share a few links to help the channel grow. :)
CHile, this video gave me LIFE! This is the damn truth. I hate when men think that it is appropriate to talk about sex with a woman that they don't know. I ain't even trying to be politically correct.I make it clear that I am NOT interested. I shut their shit down quick, fast and in a hurry. Calling me bitch doesn't deter me. I say THANK YOU, I am a bitch and don't yo black ass forget it, move yo useless, toothless on.
Deborrah Cooper Yes ma'am. I always wondered what women thoughts were about this subject. You definitely wouldn't like South Florida growing up as a little girls
YESSSSSS!! You are incredible love.. Thank you SO much for making this hilarious video beautiful You had me DYING the whole damn time! You hit the nail on the head about everything! I'm just so glad that someone finally put all this bullshit into words so perfectly for real.. THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO BROADCASTED NATIONALLY LLS ❤
Houston TX, in poor black areas: From strangers, "You would be perfect if you were 5 shades lighter!" Called "RED" while I'm dark skin. I didn't give this hood dude my number at a Convenient store next to my college and he said, "what your pimp won't let you have friends." "How many square ft is your house". "How much does your job pay." "Who do you stay with?" "Can I stay with you M-Th so I save gas on my commute.(This was at a NYs Eve, Tony Toni Tone concert) My white friends were like, their glad to be white. Moved out of the ghetto the second I graduated!
Weird thing is that, even the most religious men disrespected me also. I know it was worst in my 20s during college. But it slows down when you get in your 30s and move out the hood.
I remember working 2 years ago at my old job Potbellys (sandwich shop) This guy always comes in wanting EXTRA portions he doesn't want to pay for. So one day he gave me a compliment, I said "thanks" and I put my head down to shut down anymore conversations to focus on doing my job which was making his sandwich.. he got upset I put the amount EVERYONE gets and walked out as I put his bread through the oven. He came back the next day tried to pursue me again. But caught an attitude that I treated him like a regular costumer. And wasn't impressed. He then saw that I was smiling and being friendly towards MY BOSS who happened to be a white man and yelled violently that I was an "UNCLE TOM" all of my co-workers FROZE as he stormed out. He completely embarrassed himself. Men project constantly when they are rejected and they just won't take accountability for it. I'm so over it.
+Jasmine Bushby Narcissism is prevalent amongst males. Smdh
Ah! But my degree DOES keep me warm at night...by paying these bills & keeping the heat on. Deborrah is so damned right with these.
lmao right 🤣👏👏👏
It depends. Some degress are a waste of time and financial resources. Some others are very effective.
@@antoniomontagnani4886 tvdavis wasn't even talking about that. So, what you saying?
And comforters😂😂and unlike him a comfort
Don’t get me started on men that try to change the thermostat! Nah, I’m leaving that mess on 78 degrees baby.
The "Can you cook?" question is a big one. My friend said some men don't even really want to date. They are just looking for "friends" who will cook for them. The only time some of these fools come around is on holidays, looking for greens and macaroni and cheese. Greedy bastards.
Faatima H 😂
+All FHAB hollering!!!
LMAO
She said Greedy Bastards,lmao
Wait, wait...I have one. Dude: "Can I get your number?"
Me: I'm sorry, but no."
Dude: "Why cant I get your number?"
Me: "I apologize, but no, thank you."
Dude: "Why not? Can't we be friends?"
Me: I'm sorry. I have to go. No, thank you."
Dude: "Why can't I get your number?"
Me: 😑
How many times are you gonna ask me? I said no.
You are too nice. After I say NO the first time, I either walk off or say "are you hard of hearing?"
My thing is this. I don't care. I refuse to live in fear. If I'm gonna die, oh well. They still won't get my number so I still won. And they will spend the rest of their miserable lives in prison. Double win.
Alot of these men are very disrespectful, they want to know all your business, but very short on there information, they have some kind of hate towards black woman.
Or it's the other way around where they want to talk about themself all day and don't want to hear anything about you.
True makes no sense smgdh
Wendy Rosen this is not an all lives matter moment sweetheart this video is talking about black people
@Larry Jones Sometimes white men do the same thing too. It has nothing to do with race, it has more to do with machismo and misogyny.
It's envy because they are useless
I am very happily single. Very. Being married sucked for me. Hated just about every minute of it.
Evana L. Dang! At least you're honest about your experience. Sometimes women & men use marriage to insult single women like marriage is all rainbows & unicorn.
Evana L. so did i, just hated it! Its been 20 years and never married again - once was enough for me!
Evana L. I just got a divorce, but I liked being married until he became mean. My ex was actually a better boyfriend. As soon as we got married, he would leave or be moody-just horrible!
+caramelvampire1 ha! Why you thought that?
that was my experience too! Divorced now and happy as a clam.
And then these dudes wonder why black women have an attitude (or look mean) when they approach us. We get sick of their intrusive questions because we know most of these dudes just want some sex.
+Ms.Bubba123 exactly! Heard one at a time here and there, you can deal with it. But after years of this shit the tolerance is gone and you just want them all to die.
Deborrah Cooper Yeah they're not genuine. They are not trying to find the love of their life. They just want to get their dicks wet and probably got a woman at home already. Nobody has time for that sister-wife stuff. lol
TheOriginalDeanna Right. They have 4 or 5 side chicks and can't afford to take any of them on a decent date. lol
Ms.Bubba123 They be having a few baby mamas, babies all over the place, girlfriends, and wives on the side while working in a factory some damn where
TheOriginalDeanna They live beyond their means and then they blame white supremacy and black women when shit doesn't go their way.
BM always tell me to smile.Its ridiculous. Or "Why don't you have kids"
Karah DWPride
White women ask me to smile all the time too, because I don't smile, maybe Black American men get it from white women.
Islam Muhammad ok..that's cool
I had a dude recently asked me why I didn’t have kids, mind you he is 43 with six and the oldest two were born before he left high school. I said because I haven’t been married. The conversation was over then.
@@citygirl8181 That was nice. I always used to say dumb shit like "kids? I hate children so why would I do that?" or "men who want kids irk my soul" or "what do I look like, a damn breeding bunny rabbit? I got way more important things to do. FOH!" and one guy I told "cause I like booze and I didn't want to stop drinking for 9 months". He is probably still cursing at me!
Islam Muhammad lmao blaming white women for the way u grown men act, that’s a new one. I thought everything was da white mans fault
I was walking to the corner store with my daughter who was two at the time. This fool comes up and starts talking to me. Then he says "oh is this your little girl?". Then proceeded to pick her up to put on his hip😦. I stopped in my tracks and gave him the meanest look I had and said "PUT HER DOWN NOW"! Thankfully he did and walked away with a confused look on his face like" what did I do wrong".
He is lucky he didn't get stabbed!!!!
Deborrah Cooper yes he is. It was very frightening. I had never seen that guy before.
Themelanated Gurl.... These men need to learn boundaries. They might need to put that in the schools curriculum.
or shot.. I keep a gun on me
***** No he was just being a perv. You don't pick up anyone's child especially if you don't know the women or her child. SMH
"why you ain't married" Response "Why aren't you!" LOL
my responce is " why aint you Dead yet "
My reply is usually "no one has asked." The answer is sometimes a turn off to men or then they think that you might be lying.
Not that I ever asked that question but if I did and that was a woman's response...I would say because I was waiting to find and ask you first 😜
Great video! I have had black men say some of those things to me here in the U.K. I have got to the point where I am turned off of black men now and no longer find them attractive or desirable. This makes me feel sad deep down because I should be able to find a mate among my own people as every other races of women do but I find that most black men are just not worth the emotional energy. Also as a woman without children I also get the stupid comments about that too and looks of surprise as though I am some alien. Funnily enough white people dont react like that when I say I don't have children. For them it isn't a big issue. For black people however, even though I may have said that I am not married they are surprised that I don't have children. They always put the cart before the horse and then wonder why black people are at the bottom of every important social marker such as economics etc and at the top of the bad social markers such as new HIV infection rates, poor housing etcAs I said before and especially with the 49 per cent interracial dating rate of black men here in the U.K., I no longer find black men attractive or desirable. Also to be honest I have been through too much with them starting from an early age. With regard to black men and their general approach, I find them cheap, lacking in intellectual pursuits, predatory and selfish. For example Deborrah, you mentioned that rather than take a woman somewhere nice, they want to go to her house etc! Also as a woman that does speak well and always have, I find that it brings out the insecurity in black people in general not only black men. I am tired of the fragile ego of black people altogether not only black men.
Meriamen then they want to call you a BEDWENCH in the US when you want to go with a white man.
Sherri Solomon yes I agree with. It is OK for them to marry non black women, but we are a traitor if we want to marry non black men. They cannot have their cake and eat it too. I am involve with a white man and proud of it and do not care what they think. I am completely turn off from black men for good. I will never never never ever be with them again. I am sick of the emotional abuse. They have always abused me verbally, physically, and emotionally. I have experienced verbal and emotional abuse from black men the most.
Christine Tanks More power to your happiness. Personally I would rather be with another minority vs white if I dated out. But to each his own.
Wow thats horrible its going on in UK too! Dont feel bad about lack of attraction BC I'm young & have only been attracted to 1 black male in the last 7 yrs & have not been involved sexually with them since. It is unfortunate & makes us feel weird but there is nothing wrong with us THEY r the Problem and the women who enable & worship them! I'm with u sistah!
I know where you're coming from, esp being well spoken. That always came with accusations of "you sound white". Back in the day I worked for a press release distribution agency. It had a small printing section, which occasionally I would visit to check on progress of a release, if it was urgent.
There were about 6/7 men who worked down there, two of whom were black. I always dreaded going because they wanted me to be "homedown" with them instead of being friendly, but professional. They thought that I was "stuck up". I'm quite a reserved, introverted woman which rarely goes down well in the black community in any case.
There was this old guy who felt entitled and told me that he wanted to get with me. I declined his offer and he then told me, "You think you look like Sade but you look more like Tracy Chapman." He was so butt hurt. I actually don't look like Sade or Tracy Chapman. SMH.
Well sir, you think you look like Denzel, but you really look like Uncle Ruckus
Like like that’s a bad thing Tracy Chapman is beautiful honey
@@coffeeblack9316 Its the colorism for me and thinking this was a good comment... 🤣
It's hilarious how many butthurt males are making comments on this video and downvoting it, mad as hell!! They don't want to hear the truth about their ratchetness. But every visit to the video I get paid, so keep it coming clowns!
PS...your comments will all be deleted however.
Deborrah Cooper that color purple still!!!
Deborrah Cooper true and you are so beautiful 😍
Thank you for making this video. All black queens are being exposed to this ratchetness..., no style...absolutely no integrity...no positive character-traites whatsoever..., and then they have the nerve to be in denial about..., that's the part I don't understand.
It's like they are possessed. My sons don't even carry themselves in that manor..., but they are praying men who love TMH.
@@noshuamarbury9393
I'm a witness to that because I know some..., but it seems today the bad out-weight the good..., and sisters gotta be careful...use their spiritual discernment..., cause some of those bastards are real smooth and hidden.
Made sure I liked it
A Black man asked me if I could still have kids? CAUSE AIN'T NO MAN GONE WONT ME IF I CAINT HAVE NO KIDS! ( WOW )😒
Ebony x what? These fools are beyond stupid.
Ebony x Yeah well I get the ones that want me to have a baby. I'm like are you out your fucking mind? THANK GOD I'm near 50 can't have them. Lol!!!!
I had a nigga I barely Knew tell me SO YOU WOUDN'T WANNA HAVE A LITTLE BABY FOR ME ?😣
+Ebony x For $1,000,000 in cash maybe.
@Ebony. I have had black men say similar things to me too and I am not in the US ! Believe me this is a global issue in the mindset of black men!
So grateful to have found this perspective. I was beginning to feel like I was truly crazy for taking issue with the ridiculous amount of disrespect and nosey ass inquiries many black women are conditioned to accept or be okay with. The behavior I've witnessed black women being encouraged to accept is appalling. Black women have a right to have standards, boundaries and be respected as much as any other group of women. To see so many out in the world that haven't even mastered the basics as far as decency, trustworthiness and dependability...a truly hopeless state of affairs.
I hear "can u have friends or I'm sure he wouldn't mind u having a friend" a lot. I lie sometimes & tell men I have a boyfriend or husband. I've been insulted to for rejecting them. (shrugs)
They always use that "can you have a friend" line. When I was a teen they'll ask "are you dedicated to your man?" Tf? lol
Ms.Bubba123 I don't know where they get those lines from but there rediculous & a turn off.
Basically. lol
Tonia Holmes I tell them I don't have time to talk because I have to go home to my FIVE sons.
Sherri Solomon That's a good one. Lmao
There's a guy that shows up at my work regularly. He thinks he should say stupid things like what you're discussing here. Since I deal with patron accounts, he knows I have access to his number. He told me to call him. I told him that would be a conflict of interest. He ask why & I said, "I'm not interested." The other day he came in & said, "I'm still waiting for your call..." I told him patience is a virtue & to have a great day lol. If he comes at me again, he'll be banned from my work altogether.
I want dudes ri know I give no fucks about your opinion or feelings about this video. It's not to praise you. get praise from the chick you're screwing. I cuss cause I'm grown and say WTF I feel like saying, exactly the way I please. I make videos to get women straight, not you. none of your whining ass comments will ever go live on this channel, so stop wasting your time. go away.
Lmao! I love you Ms. Deborrah!
+veronicajade20 right back atcha!
Deborrah Cooper Hope you respond to my comment. Thanks for this video!!!
Besides my 1st comment was a reply to Jerry Washington fake ass.lol
Actually yeah I am. Thanks weirdo if you have zero interest in black women wtf are you on you tube where they are getting together and socializing? Seems like you want in but will never be invited to the party...or are you a white agent trying to cause separation? Lol either way we still don't want you.
Btw are these fools commenting stupid shit then deleting their comments?
You're so accurate its scary! I stay away from men that ask these red flag questions upon meeting.
Weren't they going to Brazil many years ago? Where are there Brazilian wives?
+Girlwonder Ain't that the truth!
They probably dropped their seeds into the Brazilian women wombs and rolled out like most of them do best.
Carlos' Way I don't see a mass immigration of Brazilian women in America married to Black American men. So where is your Brazilian wife/fiance? All the black men who I know that kept talking about going to South America did not bring back any wives.
Girlwonder Because they are pumping and dumping these women just like they do in the states.
Girlwonder Lol Brazilian women don't want they ass. They just want that green card. they think those Brazilian women gonna dump Fillippe for their no good Black ass. lolol
omg that smile shit is so annoying. they don't know if you just had a death happen, lost a job, just had some overall bad news, are depressed about something like a death anniversary and just say that out of nowhere and expect you to just jump and be agreeable.
I laughed so hard through this video but the biggest laugh came when you said you always make sure you know security in a venue just in case. That's the only good thing I got from the NOI. Security is key when you've got no breaks. xx
I've met random guys on the street who asked me if I was straight, if I was single, and all kinds of personal questions but never asked what my name was. It's fucking disrespectful and it's like they only see you as a nameless sex object. Disgusting and distrubing.
Scary how many women have heard these tired pathetic intrusive lines over & over again.
Ain't it tho?
Let's not forget the non verbal, passive aggressive and downright creepy/stalking sh** t as well. Here is a list of what I have experienced from black men who were total strangers while I was out in public: sexual tongue gestures, shoulder tap or head nod with underlying tone of "time to go fuck", a cashier, after blatantly "noticing" me, (and of course his line was the only one open at store) upon ringing up my items began to complain about how much his "neck hurts" with a vibe of seeing if I was going to offer my concern, a neck rub, etc (I did not), the security dude at the DMV (who kept starring) follows me to my car (I never spoke with him inside DMV) as I am putting my tags on my car asks me (condescendingly) "Do you know what you're doing?" Like I'm a dumb shit who needed his unsolicited help. (I told him to f off.) And lastly, I am a singer, and one night a friend invited me to sing as a guest at her show. After the show, not one, but TWO negros who played in her band fucking followed me to my car. It was scary! I confronted one of them and the other claimed he just wanted to make sure I got to my car ok. And let me be clear: they followed me to my car UNINVITED. WTF!!! This is just a small list of such non sense I have experienced over the years. And for any defensive man who might read this, I did not misinterpret these behaviors as I am adept at reading my intuition and vibes from others. Additionally, NONE of these men were attractive to me or men I would consider dating. Mainly due to these despicable actions and energy.
Quana Ramira I share all of these experiences.
They're always looking to romanticize their actions as if a woman's physical safety is ever up for debate.
"Heyyyyy baby smile"/ It that your real hair / Your got long hair for a dark skinned female. You got cakes like FOH
You are funny as hell, I have subscribed. I am happily married to a Puerto Rican man. Single ladies, get yourself a man that treats you the way you want to be treated. There are many good men out there. You must have a open heart and mind.
one guy asked me if he could shower at my house lol hell no
+Janique Hutchinson What!? Damn.
@Janique. That also happened to me but in a slightly different way. I invited a man for a visit to my house as I knew him well enough but as a friend not as a romantic acquaintance. I had no idea that he was even interested in me that way.
When he came he started trying to chat me up and said that he was going to go and take a bath and then he wanted to have sex with me! We ended up getting into a physical fight when he realised that I was not going to sleep with him and neither would I allow him to take a bath in my house. I suppose you could call it an attempted rape. Luckily I knew how to handle myself otherwise who knows what else might have happened!
And fuck up your clean bathroom!!!
huh??????? smdh
Deborrah I love you lol Your mouth has no filter, you say what dafuq you want and that's why I love yah
+Pia Francis LOLOL
love her!!!!!!❤
This video is accurate. I know a lot of bl man that said shit like that to me. The reason im SINGLE!! Im a new subscriber i love you Deborrah , greetings from the Netherlands
You had me laughing throughout this whole video and I, of course, enjoyed the advice. Thanks for this one!
Thank you Deborrah Cooper for this video and all you do I've been single now 2 plus years and as much as I would love a future with a strong black man I've learned during this time loving me is much better. Building my empire verse building his empire. lol what a fool I was and lots of time wasted. Investment in self is so much more rewarding.
+sher201447 Tell it!!!
"Underground stupid factory" lol
They learn it from each other.
Re. Why ain't you married? .. Cause I keep meeting men like you.
"You need to kick your own ass cause I can't get to you "😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just died
Girl, sometimes even I am amazed at the crazy shit that comes out of my mouth!
I hate that "smile" bullsh*t!! Like who walks around smiling all damn day long. Sir...if you walked up and I didn't automatically smile....then you're not the one. Next. Lol
"Where's my hug at" 😂😂😂😭😭💀💀💨💨👻👻
VENUS 😂😂. Those old church niggas would always ask the young kids especially girls that where I grew up lol. Creepy.
YES! A handshake will do. This is why I’m considering a strictly handshake rule.
Here's another one. I was wearing a pretty floral Tunic this one day and as I walked past this black dude he asked me, "Why you wearing that Daishiki?" 😕
Lady Evergreen LML
idiota
Your answer none of your business my husband loves it and he's all that matters
I have a job where i cook samples so i have men constantly asking if i cook like this at home or when i'll cook for them. IT"S MY JOB. I have heard of all the this talked about in this video, and i can say if this is what is out there in the dating world i'm GLAD i don't put myself out there!!!!!
Him: "When will you cook for me like this?"
Me: "When you pay me hourly plus commission like this!"
Like that reply. I'm using it
Once when a guy was interested in me, I told him I had a boyfriend. I was dumb and wanted to be nice so when he asked for a hug I gave it to him and he grabbed my butt. I cried a bit afterward.
I am laughing my ass off and she hasn't got to the stupid ass questions yet.
The video title slayed me dead. I don't think I've faved a video so fast.
What about when someone asks about details regarding your employment? "Where do you work?" or "What time of the day will you be at work?" "we can have lunch together at your job." I blatantly tell these men "You don't need to know where I work because I don't allow strangers showing up at my place of employment." I also tell them that ppl showing up at my job (without a valid reason) are likely to be arrested. I wonder if anyone else has experienced this before?
+vagirl804 wow, they ask you all those details? Hell no I wouldn't give out that stalker food! Any woman who gave out that data is a fool.
+vagirl804 plus they might wanna know when youre at work so they can rob your house. I DON'T trust these fools.
I'm screaming "I'm a broom riding witch" FFS! 😂😂😂
I cannot stand the over familiar shit!
This thumbnail is too funny!!! Men also love to scare women with the “crazy cat lady” curse. Well I ain’t seen a cat do a lady wrong in her life!
They always want to meet at your house.
JLogic better then mammys basement i guess...
All the damn time
'Mutha...Why is THAT your business?' LMAOOOOO...This is so funny to me b/c I knew a guy who used to ALWAYS want to come over, and eat dinner, but NEVER had any groceries in hand...JUST A NUT FOOL! I Had to escort him to the front door...GOODNIGHT AND GOOD LUCK!
GOODNIGHT AND GOOD LUCK? LMAO!
Sounds broke & cheap
@@sophisticatedmm3632 Broke, cheap and hongry
Always trying to get something for free... Damn leeches!!!
Redbone Dianna Exactly!. I'm an escort and wont even see them i dont want their money cus its always a catch i send them to the brazillan chick i know with stds (B careful ladies.)😁
10000 thumbs uppp!!!!
"Go back into the hole you slid out off!!" OMG!!! 😂😂😂
I could give so many comments that it would result in a book. For example with one guy we were having a conversation when I noticed he had pulled it out. He thought that would make me want him.
@deva190, I hear this too often. What is wrong with people? A woman told me she ran into a guy she knew socially through friends at a nice bar/restaurant. At the end of the evening he offered to walk her to her car. He was parked across the lot, so she offered him a ride to his car. She parked in front of his car and looked over and he had pulled it out.
Fatima LOL!!!
I just love your videos lmao! Subbed! Do you happen to have a video(s) on BM rampant sexual violence against little girls? BM pedophilic behavior has destroyed so many girls/womens mental health and pretty much their lives.
+M Batista not yet. I'm struggling with how to present it in a way that isn't a trigger and so far coming up blank. Sigh.
M Batista Tell me about this. The high school I attend is near a construction site, so there's a bunch of busted looking men watching us walk to school every day. One time I was waiting for the bus after school, and this construction worker (gray hair, scruffy beard, smelled like weed, every "get away from me" signal you could think of) asked if he could take me out sometime. I told him I was only in high school, and he said "well, you _look_ like a woman. I'm only 33, girl, all this gray hair is just stress." OK, even if he WAS 33 (which is some bullshit), in what world does this busted ass 33 year old construction worker think a 16 year old student at one of the best schools in the city would go out with him? Smdh. Luckily I've never been attacked. Love these videos Deb, keep 'em coming 😊❤
Deborrah Cooper I agree. It is a very sickening and potentially triggering subject that most don't like to discuss. Some people don't realize how prevalent it is, especially with BM. BM act like sexual violence against little girls in their families is no big deal. 😖😜
@@mbatista5891 Witness D.L Hughley who refused to believe his daughter when she told him that she was sexually assaulted by a friend of his, because he liked the friend. He came round eventually, but to disbelieve her in the first place and he was fine admitting to that publicly? I wonder if a white celebrity would have publicised this?
I don't like the way black men talk to me and I'm a black woman I haven't dated a black man since high school I've only been dating white men for 17 years and now I'm married to my white husband I don't cook because I don't know how but he doesn't care because he is an awesome cook and I don't work but he doesn't mind taking care of me
I hope you clean the house at least.
I treat them the way they treat me.
Deborah Cooper You rock. I have experienced some of the aspect of this videos. Your videos are good example to let black women know there are more options of men. Do not settle yourself for less. It took until me I got 25 years old to realize that. I learn my lesson the hard way. Respect yourself. I have a lot more respect yourself after these learned lessons.
Who cares? Too many fish in the sea that aren't BLACK! Go get 'em!
😂😂😂😂😂 go on down the trail with your roach ass 😂😭 I'm holllllering u r hilarious! Yes Queen!
Oh they love to get in our hair and makeup gay asses. Many men have tried to control what I do with both. I shut them down every time. And they love to say Im "tough on men" because I expect to be treated with respect. A guy just told me yesterday I was bougie because I told him a story about me being upset that a date where a guy wouldn't pay for valet and we ended up not eating at a restaurant where we had a reservation. Just trifling.
She lost me with the "don't ask me if I smoke weed" lol
Gave it a like even before I heard it.
+Kenya Anderson - I think you are my biggest fan. LOL
Kenya Anderson Girl!! I seen the title and liked it real quick haha. I love me some Deb!
Deborrah Cooper Yes Mam! Deborah, I have had ALL of these comments said to me. SMH. I went on a date the other night--a good looking brother. Successful. Thirty minutes into the date he informed me he was the cream of the crop and that not many women met his standard. I wasn't quite his type but I had a big booty so he decided to see what I was about. Right. So I went to the ladies room and then left the restaurant and went home. It took that fool an hour to figure out I had left. Boy bye!
Kenya Anderson The sad thing is that there are women out there who would have responded positively to that crude ass comment that's why he felt so comfortable saying it to you. I'm so glad you left his ass at the restaurant 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
+LEYANNA28 Most likely nobody has ever responded to it, but they keep doing it anyway here hoping to hit paydirt some day. However for the majority. they just do it because they enjoy humiliating women and causing them psychological pain. It's not really about a success rate or women going for their shit at all.
Love you Deborrah!
You about to start a Revolution Girl.
WOW, so glad I cam across this video. Was feeling down for being single but this puts some perspective on this. I refuse to be with just any dude who isn't bringing anything positive and inspiring to the table. All of these experiences I have experienced.
OMG! You are so real and so hilarious! I love it!
"Dried up baby that they gave you" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I tried dating a BM..I don’t think I’ll ever get over the things he did and said to me. Disrespectful yes but that’s putting it lightly...that level of disrespect is border line cruelty.
Unfortunately, I believe it's the culture. Other older BM teach the younger ones to abuse women and game in us vs how to be solid strong purposeful leaders some women would be proud to have as a son, brother or husband. Smdh
@@Debsterism which is why I’m not marrying an American black man.
You're not what you attract cause lots like to put on the nice guy routine that changes as soon as you show love.
I totally agree with you that "you are what you attract" is the most utter bs 🙄 😒 😑 mentioned by men and women. I truly think me being with my ex was for him to teach how to treat women and trust good women, and for me to learn how to date and how to set up my boundaries higher!
Wow I'm from the south too I'm from Texas & its so oo oo much worse down there. I was gone for 7 yrs & visited last year everyone is the same. Almost no one I know is evolving they're merely existing & most have become energy vampires. If I go back its to Houston to eat 😬 Ugh those guys down there r so delayed & miserable.
+Belle Amour Chile I know. I lived in Houston five years and that was enough for me.
LOL! I lived there 4yrs & I enjoyed it way more than dfw BC I lived in jersey village worked & went to school in cypress so I stayed out of the wards & depressing areas but I still wasn't satisfied lol not 1 man of value approached me & it was only 1 guy I was attracted to the entire time. Those church men out there are horrible!!!!
the smile crap gets me angry, why are you telling me to smile I'm not making a sad, angry, or mean face at you? also why are you intruding on my personal space when I'm in the store? I don't work here. African men are also very entitled. I could be in a coffee shop and an african man will ask me to fix his coffee or say why do I have to purchase water. I tell them I don't work here and everyone purchases there own water in this country.
This is a great video your the only woman I have ever subscribed to I agree with your logic
Wow. Well welcome. Let's see how long this lasts. LOL
Disrespectful men
I LOL at many times. Thank you😁😁
Truth... I’m so tired of it. “You need to kick your own ass’s cause I can’t get to you “ 😂. Really I want to tell guys what they are doing wrong to their face but I’m scared of being shot or cursed out so I just say I’m happily married so no. Guys these days are so dumb and entitled.
"Low level roach nigga" 😭😭😭
I’m at lost for words I’m so tired of standing by our men I’m tired being a nun is looking optional
“Low Level Roach Nigga”. OMG I hollered and threw my head back. Get it Deborrah!👏🏾
lol I called my ex “Dusty Negroach”
Hey Miss lady😂 you are so spot on with everything I loved this video and I’m sharing with all my friends.
You are AWESOME! I am in tears laughing. And it's all true. Much love and thank you for the wisdom. And I've heard all this shit.
I've heard so many of these...
All of that and more, is why I don't date black dudes anymore.
Ps.
I have natural hair and its really long curly and really pretty. A black man with the biggest grin on his face told me he liked my weave... I'm like DA fuck? After I told him my hair was real he just said "Oh I like your hair" like omigosh?! What makes you think it's ok to think my hair is fake?!
I had my hair in a twist out one day a few years ago, and this guy at the BART station passed me on the stairwell, then turned around and asked me "is that your real hair?" What is their fixation on women's hair?
@@Debsterism it's like this big deal for them... The hair gotta be real cause then they can touch or play with it. Or its this idea she's a real woman not fake....its so dumb...some are even so gross to want you to process/straighten your hair and I'm like... No you either accept me as is or fuck off
White women are asked similar intrusive and offensive questions, as well. You are excellent!!! I wish I'd found you a long time ago. I'm learning so much from you.
You are very welcome. Yes I've had some white guys ask me some dumbass questions but that was always when I was outside California. Just stupid. One told me I was smart and he didn't know black people could be smart like that. This was in Texas. To excuse him he was only 19 years old at the time but so was I. And here you are saying that dumb shit??? Oh boy you know he got an earful cause I went (what they now call) HAM on his butt.
Glad you found your way here - better late than never. P.lease subscribe and share a few links to help the channel grow. :)
Bwhaaa! This video is so funny but so true. Those lines are lame & tired. SMH
These guy's are intelligent fools..🤣..Thx for the upload ..👍🏾
When Ice Cube gives that look...😂
+E Dunlap My favorite too!!
One guy said, "I'm sorry." I said, "Why?" He said, "I had a dream about you and I want to apologized for everything I did to you in it." Really?
OMG can you get any dumber.
I don't understand the comment?
That means his line was dumb. I mean the dumbest. Can it get any dumber? LOLOL
Right!!! He was the only one to think it was cute.
CHile, this video gave me LIFE! This is the damn truth. I hate when men think that it is appropriate to talk about sex with a woman that they don't know. I ain't even trying to be politically correct.I make it clear that I am NOT interested. I shut their shit down quick, fast and in a hurry. Calling me bitch doesn't deter me. I say THANK YOU, I am a bitch and don't yo black ass forget it, move yo useless, toothless on.
They definitely say "Miss Lady" here in Texas lol
Ugh. I just want to dry up and blow away to escape the ratchet dustiness
🙄🙄
@@Debsterism 🤣
You got me in tears.......
I hope they are tears of laughter!
Deborrah Cooper Yes ma'am. I always wondered what women thoughts were about this subject. You definitely wouldn't like South Florida growing up as a little girls
YESSSSSS!!
You are incredible love..
Thank you SO much for making this hilarious video beautiful
You had me DYING the whole damn time! You hit the nail on the head about everything!
I'm just so glad that someone finally put all this bullshit into words so perfectly for real..
THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO BROADCASTED NATIONALLY
LLS ❤
Houston TX, in poor black areas: From strangers, "You would be perfect if you were 5 shades lighter!" Called "RED" while I'm dark skin. I didn't give this hood dude my number at a Convenient store next to my college and he said, "what your pimp won't let you have friends." "How many square ft is your house". "How much does your job pay." "Who do you stay with?" "Can I stay with you M-Th so I save gas on my commute.(This was at a NYs Eve, Tony Toni Tone concert) My white friends were like, their glad to be white. Moved out of the ghetto the second I graduated!
Ugh. Country bumpkin no couth having shitheads.
Are you mixed??
Yes.... With my mama and my daddy🎤
Weird thing is that, even the most religious men disrespected me also. I know it was worst in my 20s during college. But it slows down when you get in your 30s and move out the hood.
Religious ones are the worst! They feel like they have Jesus and God plus the passa as their wingmen.
I laughed so hard. You are so funny !!!! And spoke the truth . 🙌🏾
So true. Good commentary.
Much appreciated
Interesting video - especially when you mentioned, this is part of "Black Male Culture" ...deep
Thank you so much!!!! Your are helping me see threw these fools 👍
Ugh I hate when men ask if I cook. Wtf I'm not a chef lol. This applies to ALL MEN. WHY THEY SO USELESS?!? LOL
I love your channel. I admit, I’m way too nice. After listening to you, it’s time to give no fucks!
This is so sad to hear but so true. BM need to step it up and stop being so dog gone immature.
😂😅😂😅 LMAO! Hilarious but true. Love this! So glad I found you.
+CuteLittleVirgo Me too!