Your Kindness Was Their Test, and They Failed

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @MZ20242
    @MZ20242 2 місяці тому +125

    Love You, JOKER!❤

  • @chucklozeau
    @chucklozeau Місяць тому +27

    Givers have to have limits because takers have none ❤ stay strong and stay true

  • @Virgo1111
    @Virgo1111 2 місяці тому +351

    You probably saved my life. I came across one of your videos at the moment I would not wish upon anyone. I felt like God spoke to me through this message and I cried my heart out but felt stronger and stronger as I kept listening, healing. I appreciate you.

    • @Standownevil
      @Standownevil 2 місяці тому +23

      Me too:) angels come in powerful packages! No more Ms Nice Gal!!! I’m taking back my power with a smile!!!!!!!

    • @davepearson6501
      @davepearson6501 2 місяці тому +16

      Same here, been saying this for weeks now, every one of these video speaks directly to me.
      Perfect timing every last one.
      And here’s the kicker……

    • @Thizzamajig
      @Thizzamajig 2 місяці тому +24

      Protect yourself but dont let the good in you die. It's your superpower.

    • @Virgo1111
      @Virgo1111 2 місяці тому

      @@davepearson6501❤

    • @Virgo1111
      @Virgo1111 2 місяці тому +6

      @@Thizzamajig Agreed!

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +90

    "Kindness is what you show after you have made the world fear you"- The universe

  • @susanmiller6870
    @susanmiller6870 2 місяці тому +97

    I've learned this Lesson the hard way. I have taken back my power. You can't fix or save people.

  • @davewilhelm2508
    @davewilhelm2508 2 місяці тому +94

    They did fail, and they managed to rip that kindness out. Once something is ripped out so many times, it tends not to fit back the same anymore. Like a broken glass, you can glue the pieces back together, but that crack is there forever. They took my kindness, my friendship, my love, my trust, and in return, they gave me pain, lies, manipulation, and broken promises. But in the end, they taught me a valuable lesson... that the only person in this world that I can truly trust is myself

    • @douglasdolmus9471
      @douglasdolmus9471 2 місяці тому +14

      Trust God instead, you can let yourself down too.

    • @transcendentsacredcourage
      @transcendentsacredcourage 2 місяці тому

      ​@@douglasdolmus9471
      Whatever.

    • @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he
      @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he Місяць тому +4

      You can trust Jesus, three slot of believers here. .. we who listen to these messages. Are hurt by really evil people, I've been hurt badly as well. ... But I have Jesus and his word.. I'm smarter now and strong and no one will ever get to do any of that to me again.

    • @rachnakarels5570
      @rachnakarels5570 Місяць тому +4

      Please watch (again) The Shawshank Redemption. The part with: "... a part, deep inside all of us..." Hope is strength...

    • @Evil-Times
      @Evil-Times Місяць тому +3

      ‼️FACTS‼️

  • @Stay-wokeee
    @Stay-wokeee 2 місяці тому +45

    Once u move with pure intentions u will never lose ❤

  • @laurapinto2602
    @laurapinto2602 2 місяці тому +124

    I learned more in those 25 minutes than in the last 21 years living next to “NARCS”! Thanks for sharing.

    • @kronoscamron7412
      @kronoscamron7412 2 місяці тому +6

      if living next to narcs for 21 years didn't teach you this.... then even this 25 mins lesson will be forgotten.

    • @VioFax
      @VioFax 2 місяці тому

      @@kronoscamron7412 🔥🎭

    • @WhiskyGravy
      @WhiskyGravy 2 місяці тому +3

      Sometimes that small shift in perspective changes EVERYTHING! Keeeeep goiing! Learn better, DO better!🙌🏻

    • @transcendentsacredcourage
      @transcendentsacredcourage 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@kronoscamron7412
      Goddamn, dude! 😂😂😂

    • @brianhannon
      @brianhannon Місяць тому +2

      Honestly these joker videos have so much wisdom.

  • @roxy7255
    @roxy7255 2 місяці тому +35

    I can’t believe how good these videos are. So unbelievably refreshing. People cannot listen to this and not take responsibility for themselves.

    • @transcendentsacredcourage
      @transcendentsacredcourage 2 місяці тому +2

      You'd be surprised. The level of denial, projection, and idiocy some people have is out of this world.

    • @roxy7255
      @roxy7255 2 місяці тому +1

      @@transcendentsacredcourage true some people prefer to stay in ignorance some sort of emotional masochism.

  • @CandyFoley-o8w
    @CandyFoley-o8w Місяць тому +41

    Some people don't deserve the love and kindness or a good hearted person.

  • @Wayshower444
    @Wayshower444 2 місяці тому +32

    Spot on. For me, Christian programming of turn the other cheek, forgive, be kind was just a way to try to earn love and self-worth from others because I had none of my own. "See how nice and giving I am? I'm a good person. Aren't I worthy of love?"
    If you want to love your neighbor as yourself, you've got to love yourself first. Otherwise you'll be a sacrificial lamb bleating about how you've been wronged right before the slaughter.

    • @WhiskyGravy
      @WhiskyGravy 2 місяці тому +3

      Well said 👏🏼

    • @jacintamcpadden7258
      @jacintamcpadden7258 Місяць тому +4

      Agreed but I’d still rather be the light of Christ than darkness. I learned the real needy from the greedy and the children of this world from the Spiritual world. Discernment takes lots of hard lessons and can make you strong not full of darkness. Don’t let people’s bad attitude affect your light just dust your feet and walk away.

    • @MysticManifesting
      @MysticManifesting Місяць тому

      @@jacintamcpadden7258 I become lighter and lighter through transmutation of those dark energies. I now have great boundaries and high self-esteem because I am healed much of the darkness within me. I'm flushing out the narcissists much quicker these days. Gotta feel the energies and watch the actions, not listen to the words.

    • @helamys8176
      @helamys8176 Місяць тому +1

      @@MysticManifestinghow do you do it? I have troubles to accept the darkness inside of me

    • @MysticManifesting
      @MysticManifesting Місяць тому +1

      @@helamys8176 Darkness is just the absence of light, like mold growing in a dank corner in the basement. You have to shine a light on it. How can you possibly like and respect yourself when you do things you know to be wrong? You must act with integrity and be brutally honest with yourself, which includes recognizing errors in thinking and correcting them. You are not what other people say you are; you are what you say you are, but then you have to live up to that assessment.

  • @eleashaeatman
    @eleashaeatman 2 місяці тому +15

    They chose to fail you. That’s the painful part but that’s also the liberating part.

  • @indirastojanoski6866
    @indirastojanoski6866 2 місяці тому +30

    Detach from them feels quite liberating today. I love you too JOKER. You obviously know the life.

    • @MadolcheGabbana
      @MadolcheGabbana Місяць тому

      A real sociopath m... Would eat you lol
      Stay safe

  • @WoodLox
    @WoodLox Місяць тому +6

    Being kind will get you used but if you can read their intent then you gained insight that defines them and protects you. What they seen as weak was really your strength, intelligence.

  • @Robin-i5x
    @Robin-i5x 2 місяці тому +84

    It's kindness that God wants us to demonstrate. I know this that this world runs on darkness. But I'm called to be a light in a dark world. In the might name of Jesus christ amen ✝️. The devil will not win because God already won. I clam victory in the mighty name of Jesus christ 🙏 amen

    • @JeffreyRitter-gr7zs
      @JeffreyRitter-gr7zs 2 місяці тому +7

      Amen. ❤

    • @AmyAllan-wd3cm
      @AmyAllan-wd3cm 2 місяці тому +7

      Amen ❤❤

    • @coolbreeze6198
      @coolbreeze6198 2 місяці тому +4

      🙏

    • @andregray4209
      @andregray4209 2 місяці тому +2

      Kindness never stopped war?

    • @Jaysee555-s3r
      @Jaysee555-s3r 2 місяці тому +4

      Nothing is more important than Jesus I agree! My wife and I are Christians but this dots the ts and crosses the ts with her amen

  • @davidstroud4012
    @davidstroud4012 2 місяці тому +41

    They will reap what they sow so it don’t matter

    • @shockwave6416
      @shockwave6416 Місяць тому +3

      The universe runs on karma! Nothing escapes it.

  • @sofiaware3702
    @sofiaware3702 2 місяці тому +84

    This is a lecture that parents should present to their children

    • @ismailpatel7222
      @ismailpatel7222 2 місяці тому +11

      But basically the parents are the children 😅😅😅

    • @AutumnGold0706
      @AutumnGold0706 2 місяці тому +7

      I wish I had known so much about life as a young grown up but I was taught absolutely nothing.🍁🎃

    • @GrimReefer-zc9vu
      @GrimReefer-zc9vu 2 місяці тому

      That's like asking Grapist to explain why grape is bad...
      The parents are the issue...
      They disrespect the value of family and providing their child with the best possible chance at life... Most of these Gutter rats don't even get their child a father...
      They preach you dont need no dad... then wonder why their sons don't want to grow up...
      Do I aspire to become something that is not needed???
      She took away family values and fatherhood from me both my actual dad and my aspirations of becoming one I have nothing left but the spite and hate she filled with...
      She wanted to keep the bastard child of a boy that have more respect for his used jizzrags than he did for her...
      Well....
      LIKE FATHER LIKE SON!!!
      BE VERY CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR!!!
      WELCOME TO THE GLORIOUS AGE OF BASTARDS!!!

    • @DjJackson-c9r
      @DjJackson-c9r 2 місяці тому +2

      Sadly this describe my family

    • @Brandy3319
      @Brandy3319 2 місяці тому

      Ha!

  • @Taylor44555
    @Taylor44555 2 місяці тому +32

    Always be kind off the bat. Be aware of the wolves there though. & get away from them as fast as you can once you realize it.

    • @teamjesus6383
      @teamjesus6383 2 місяці тому +6

      They’re everywhere

    • @Dream7773
      @Dream7773 2 місяці тому

      @@teamjesus6383I have met many in my life. They all carry a mask in the beginning.

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +13

    "People don't change, they just get better at hiding who they are"- The universe

  • @carollaperuta7494
    @carollaperuta7494 2 місяці тому +42

    Yes, they failed miserably. Thank you for the insight, Joker .

  • @joshslaton8604
    @joshslaton8604 Місяць тому +6

    This is the story of my life and I'm tired of having a pure heart with only good intentions and being used and abused and then finally being discarded when I show them I can be someone that they can't handle for real and I'm stronger than them and anyone they know

  • @anxietypoint
    @anxietypoint Місяць тому +6

    This was an amazing pep talk. I really needed to hear some strong words like this regardless of the algorithm. To the content creator thanks a lot!

  • @-LuckyU-
    @-LuckyU- Місяць тому +7

    My wife told me i was too nice. This is exactly what I needed to hear. 😂

  • @cSantiago.
    @cSantiago. 2 місяці тому +15

    I refuse to bind my heart with bitterness and malice. God remove of there is if any

  • @celestialwonders
    @celestialwonders 2 місяці тому +38

    Narcissism 101, Thank you Joker.

  • @mr.stevenson7005
    @mr.stevenson7005 2 місяці тому +38

    Treat people accordingly.

    • @reachlove6779
      @reachlove6779 Місяць тому +1

      I at my lowest point. Always treat people with respect and kindness.
      I’m not thinking about the negative side anymore. All is forgotten .
      Today is a new day to :
      Love 🎉life

    • @mr.stevenson7005
      @mr.stevenson7005 Місяць тому

      @@reachlove6779 yeah but you don’t let people walk over you, I treat them with love and if they abuse it I leave. People are very emotionally draining, they make it hard to love them sometimes, and as an empath I need my alone time to recharge.

    • @mr.stevenson7005
      @mr.stevenson7005 Місяць тому

      @@reachlove6779 thank you for being beautiful and thoughtful

  • @sportlams
    @sportlams Місяць тому +165

    It's all about our decisions and what we do. Discipline is about making decisions that are aligned with our intentions. Inspiration may get us started, but it's the habit that keeps us going. Habits stay with us even when we don’t have the inspiration. All of it I grabbed from the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential

    • @Fishmas_Tree
      @Fishmas_Tree Місяць тому +1

      lol you went to a book to think? just wait til you actually find out. smh

    • @manwhoeatsfishinbedwithlig3791
      @manwhoeatsfishinbedwithlig3791 Місяць тому +1

      @@Fishmas_Tree”looks like we got our selfs a reader”😂

    • @Fishmas_Tree
      @Fishmas_Tree Місяць тому

      @@manwhoeatsfishinbedwithlig3791 as if that were something special that nobody else does lol

  • @kaylaregea
    @kaylaregea 2 місяці тому +9

    I wish my mother taught me this as a little girl, I would have been saved from a lot of heartache

  • @rhonda267
    @rhonda267 2 місяці тому +16

    Everyone of these resonates with me and my life in one way or another. Thank you for this channel.

  • @DoubleOMalley
    @DoubleOMalley Місяць тому +4

    Amazing script. Amazing delivery. The best thing I've heard on here in years. Well done. Thank you for this. Life-altering content.

  • @DrmCom2003
    @DrmCom2003 2 місяці тому +40

    People like that will always fail you. They turn it into an art form.

    • @AutumnGold0706
      @AutumnGold0706 2 місяці тому +5

      My brother has no soul and I truly mean that. Some people are just born evil. He actually interviewed women when he wanted a wife. 😅

    • @narz5825
      @narz5825 2 місяці тому

      💯

    • @devlishlyweird
      @devlishlyweird 2 місяці тому

      Idk sounds like he's careful😂​@@AutumnGold0706

  • @jeffroberts8246
    @jeffroberts8246 Місяць тому +2

    These videos always speak right to the very core of my soul almost as if they were made for me.

  • @kimb6508
    @kimb6508 2 місяці тому +39

    you didn't lose. they only won short term. long term they lost possibly the best thing that could happen to them. dont let the world take your light away from you. stay kind but only to those who deserve it.

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +7

    "They don't care, and they never did"- The universe

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +7

    "You gain power when you stop caring what other people think"- The universe

  • @lorishu48103
    @lorishu48103 Місяць тому +4

    Don’t worry about kindness or vengeance. Just focus on Courage and believe in Your own destiny. Walk away if you don’t feel nurtured. Relationships are not transactional. Only give what you can afford to lose. Take care of yourself first. Revenge /power isn’t for everyone. I have peace in my soul.

  • @cheesebubbles1933
    @cheesebubbles1933 Місяць тому +1

    This is the most powerful thing ive heard in my life. It relates so strongly to what ive been going through im the last month. This video touched the deepest part of my soul.

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +9

    "They panic when they realize they can't use you anymore"- The universe

  • @Dumaghetto01
    @Dumaghetto01 2 місяці тому +6

    The amount of manipulation i have been through in years and now i just see through everything.. 😊 “whats yours is mine, what’s mine is mine” the motto of manipulators 😅

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +6

    "People don't respect kindness, they take advantage of it!"- The universe

  • @gabrielaraimondo2430
    @gabrielaraimondo2430 Місяць тому +1

    I broke free! My heart was shattered and I was thinking these same things, we didn't play the same game😢 so I put my foot down! And he ran like a scared rat! Justice was served! Now I am stronger!❤
    Thank you for the advice!😊😊

  • @DjJackson-c9r
    @DjJackson-c9r 2 місяці тому +4

    I needed this, they done played with the wrong one.. GOD always got me bc I was a good guy.. I got balance now.. I'm not trying to be cool again.. I got peace without family or friends.. But my focus is to be better! You'll be back but I won't be there! But GOD BLESS!!

  • @Adam-the-rock-hound
    @Adam-the-rock-hound 2 місяці тому +19

    “They just get better at hiding who they really are.” So true

  • @TanyaM-yp7gk
    @TanyaM-yp7gk 2 місяці тому +23

    One factor missing here: God.
    I don't play games. Vengence belongs to Him. He rewards every work, whether good or evil. My job is to wait on Him, let every hater play their hand for God to reward. I will remain kind.

  • @chrishallett2342
    @chrishallett2342 2 місяці тому +13

    I love this guy pure facts ❤

  • @kathpercy7941
    @kathpercy7941 2 місяці тому +11

    Over 3 decades in an abusive marriage taking care of his family all my kindness was weaponised against me shattered trust from all the betrayals lies and deceit healing this broken heart and moving forward oh I was expected to be there forever
    they never thought I would walk away 🙏💕

    • @WhiskyGravy
      @WhiskyGravy 2 місяці тому

      My comment keeps being removed but GOOD FOR YOU!! gives me hope!!

  • @hannathebrave2200
    @hannathebrave2200 2 місяці тому +29

    Devil is a liar .✝️🫵🙄

    • @EJosephBoga
      @EJosephBoga 2 місяці тому +1

      Fairytales

    • @vickigonya9432
      @vickigonya9432 2 місяці тому

      If GOD TREATS 😂THOSE HE SUPPOSEDLY LOVES THIS WAY IVE BEEN TREATED FOR YEARS= I DONT BELONG IN THAT CLUB

    • @Navy2711
      @Navy2711 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@EJosephBogayou are living in facade wake up

    • @EJosephBoga
      @EJosephBoga 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Navy2711 Says the guy running protection for tyrants and criminals and calling it “fIgHtN fEr yEr fReEDUmBz”

    • @EE33339
      @EE33339 2 місяці тому

      🪞

  • @dirmusloner7963
    @dirmusloner7963 2 місяці тому +8

    A fact, when you change your mindset and slowly change and show them that the image of "doormat" is just an illusion and you are a silent wolf and you decide to awake the wolf inside you to clean your property they are afraid. A native American story said that inside every man and woman there are 2 wolves fighting, one symbises our kindness, courage, honor, love etc the other is our anger, bitterness, sorrow, ego, etc, the wolf that wins is the one we feed more. A kind and silent wolf is FAR MORE DANGEROUS and must be APPROACHED with CAUTION than a wolf that howls always.

    • @JustLor7777
      @JustLor7777 2 місяці тому +1

      *eye always l🖤ve this native American story, it's just fr fu awesome💯🔥*

    • @dirmusloner7963
      @dirmusloner7963 2 місяці тому +2

      @@JustLor7777 Also the tiger and lion might be stronger than the wolf, but in the circus I didn't see a wolf perform, I saw tigers lions etc but a wolf in a circus? Never

    • @JustLor7777
      @JustLor7777 2 місяці тому

      ​​@@dirmusloner7963 *100%right,* *and no, no wolf's...,but i saw* *bears...,unfortunately...,also in a* *circus...i don't like a* *circus...because of the suffering* *from the animals...but okay...that's* *not were it's about now...,but on the other hand,...it is,...we can compare it with the system...a friggin f&cking prison* *thahatttt is...the biggest predator there is...* *let's focus on that, so that our children can keep their freedom now..!...and in the future...!...*
      *but it's pretty amazing...how*
      *strong bears are...🔥...*

    • @dirmusloner7963
      @dirmusloner7963 2 місяці тому +1

      @@JustLor7777 I see your point and I agree. But think, 99% of people if not all of them they think that apex predator is the tiger, the lion, the leopard, the snakes etc. But if we really take time to think about it, the apex predator is the wolf because it is the only one that have articulate and calculated tactic when it comes to hunting. And if a wolf hunts alone then we realise what Miyamoto Musashi wrote in his book of five rings by quote "To win every battle you must fight as if you are already dead". Trust me, many would say that a broken person is dangerous cause of Sharp edges from the cuts and wounds he got. BUT when a broken person is comepared to a person that have a wolf's mindset and approaches his every day life like a calcutaed articulate soldier approaches warfare and fights for his goals as if he is already dead, then the realization hits tabt a broken person is just a weak whiny little kid in the midst of battles around

    • @JustLor7777
      @JustLor7777 2 місяці тому

      ​​​​@@dirmusloner7963*Unfortunately...this friggin f&cking world is one big circus...let me be a wolf...ey'm 58...the times that they thought...they could break me...are far behind me...eye learned a lot in life...loads...and honestly...this is how eye think about it...it's not my circus...F🖤ck em all...!...have a friggin f&cking great day my friend*
      *10~10~2024*
      *Donderdag~tien~oktober~tweeduizendvierentwintigXXIV*

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 2 місяці тому +25

    Heavenly Father, I come to you today as a single mother in need of your protection. As a single parent I’m overwhelmed at times. Lord give me strength as I struggle to provide for my children both have special needs. As I struggle to pay my rent each month and struggle to pay bills. I Thank you Heavenly FATHER because I can always find refuge in you. Please keep me and my children safe from all harm and danger. Watch over us, and let our thoughts always be on you.❤️❤️

    • @iPresidency
      @iPresidency 2 місяці тому

      I am Sure u get heard ❤

    • @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he
      @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he Місяць тому

      He took care of me and my five children, and provided for us and still is. He trustable

  • @everythingnuffingveronica6813
    @everythingnuffingveronica6813 2 місяці тому +11

    Never become wot you fight. Peace be within you.. ✨️ I care yet I'm caring more 4 myself.. kindness 🕊🗡⚖️

  • @angelamunoz3427
    @angelamunoz3427 2 місяці тому +6

    I walk with my head held high and in victory ..because they created Karma and I mirrored my father his love back into the world..

    • @cSantiago.
      @cSantiago. 2 місяці тому

      God's law is sowing and reeping (harvest)
      Karma is Buddhism

  • @kaneread9954
    @kaneread9954 2 місяці тому +5

    These motivation speeches are so legendary this stuff is King these videos helped me a lot this is the best motivation stuff I've ever listened to

  • @Joshua-l2f1g
    @Joshua-l2f1g 2 місяці тому +10

    Much Love, Appreciation, Respect and Gratitude ❤️

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +4

    "They will never change and you need to accept that"

  • @nadiaperron
    @nadiaperron 2 місяці тому +6

    This account keeps me in black cat energy. And I love it!

    • @GG66671-m
      @GG66671-m Місяць тому

      I have two back cats..but been unlucky my whole life anyway ✌️🙏🏻😂🫶🙋🏼‍♂️

  • @Marka301
    @Marka301 Місяць тому +2

    as much as I don’t like to admit it that is factual and 100% true

  • @Britdv
    @Britdv 2 місяці тому +7

    Wow😮, this just showed up in my Y-Tube feed & I was meant to see it. Thank U❤

  • @maaes8530
    @maaes8530 Місяць тому +2

    Once you stop being kind and once you stop being the person they expect you to be .... that's when they lose power

  • @PfcFloyd
    @PfcFloyd 2 місяці тому +2

    Kindness & compassion are superpowers , regardless of what "they" give back. The key to the heart is contained within your own suffering. It's all just a matter of perspective.

    • @Adam-the-rock-hound
      @Adam-the-rock-hound 2 місяці тому +1

      You gotta pick and choose where and who you’re suffering for though

  • @LucyLu-r4t
    @LucyLu-r4t Місяць тому +1

    This whole thing has taught me to be more cautious about certain people. It was a lesson and I'm grateful for this. Thanks 🙏

  • @benjaminodom1752
    @benjaminodom1752 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks! 💯🫵💜

  • @Askrelive
    @Askrelive 2 місяці тому +8

    Never felt this bad.. ♥️ I am in silence as he is..

  • @teresavalencia5664
    @teresavalencia5664 2 місяці тому +14

    Absolutely right 💯 That's why I'm by myself

  • @PowerGurhl
    @PowerGurhl Місяць тому +1

    You choose who to give your kindness too not everyone is worthy of it. It doesn’t mean you turn dark and evil. It just means you are indifferent but there are people worthy of all you give. Your intuition we’ll let you know who to do so with.

  • @noramichael3844
    @noramichael3844 Місяць тому +2

    You describe my life
    I will listen it again and again
    God I'm crying... that's my life

  • @SouthernSultan阿力
    @SouthernSultan阿力 2 місяці тому +33

    Indeed they failed
    Spectacularly

  • @RavenStormcloud8841
    @RavenStormcloud8841 2 місяці тому +10

    That's the purpose of discernment after the fact. I am not longer naive. 😂

  • @Forbidden33
    @Forbidden33 Місяць тому +1

    I already learned my lesson. I'd rather people hate me than let them take advantage & I now only give love to the few deserving.

  • @LILyMissSunshine
    @LILyMissSunshine Місяць тому +3

    thank you! I really needed this pep talk - arigato universe for making me stumble on it😌✨

  • @BeingBlissed__
    @BeingBlissed__ 2 місяці тому +9

    Thank you for the message 🙏🏽✝️💪🏽😊

  • @risamas1638
    @risamas1638 Місяць тому +4

    Wish I heard this 20 years ago

  • @RockinRoxi21
    @RockinRoxi21 Місяць тому +2

    You just unblinded my third eye I swear.

  • @DEADDEMONS410
    @DEADDEMONS410 Місяць тому +5

    "People don't realize your worth unless you make them"- The universe

  • @kanokwanjanda3838
    @kanokwanjanda3838 2 місяці тому +5

    Suited my current situation, thank you for opening my eyes ❤

  • @lindageiling5922
    @lindageiling5922 2 місяці тому +9

    I went with a Taker. He used my love against me, used, abused. N left me . All the money. All his excuses. He left me like I didn't exist. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 most of my life. Takers found me

  • @smilingbright981
    @smilingbright981 Місяць тому

    They are no longer apart of me . This video is amazing .❤ . Now I walk alone and ignore the shadows . If they are darkness then they can just reflect them selves behind me like shadows and I will not look back just move forward to have my own happiness, be kind to myself , have my peace of mind . As they saw through me I can now see threw them . Lesson learned and stored to my memory . I'm no stranger to the dark world anymore, I can read them like the back of my hand now and they can't read me anymore. Now I'm unpredictable in their eyes .they may have stolen my smile but they can't steal my light 🕯️. My light will shine so bright and they will hate me for it yet miss it at the same time .

  • @fatimaherf1783
    @fatimaherf1783 2 місяці тому +9

    I Just want to survive..this..And I will.."ins'Allah"

  • @Standownevil
    @Standownevil 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you ☺️ I’m taking back my power and it feels right!!

  • @lucypellek8940
    @lucypellek8940 2 місяці тому +17

    They say "be kind" because God loved and showed kindness. That got him put on the cross. So here we're crucified also. Either way, we suffer for it because there's evil in the world. 😢 I've started walking away from people. I don't stay where there's no peace, where people drain me and where there's disrespect.

    • @Britdv
      @Britdv 2 місяці тому +2

      That's Exactly true.💯%. I'm an Empath so I pick up Energies from everyone & everything. It's a Blessing & a Curse.
      Now I've learned I'll stand alone as I refuse to allow any negative energy in my "space"... otherwise I'll continue to be dragged further into the Abyss of Hell.
      Evil 😈in this World lurks around every corner, ready to consume the kindness of others;, it comes in many forms & guises...be Vigilant 👀 &👂& Trust UR instincts. That's the path I'm taking🚶‍♀️

    • @Mo0shii
      @Mo0shii 2 місяці тому +1

      I wont give up showing good,
      it is for the few who sees
      and to show them we are out there too.

    • @aparsons7374
      @aparsons7374 2 місяці тому +1

      Your discontent is unwarranted and misguided. God wasn't crucified,but exalted. The sacrifice is worth the outcome. We all sacrifice in everyday life at the will of love.

    • @Britdv
      @Britdv 2 місяці тому

      @@Mo0shii I will do good that's my nature, I've just learned to be careful. Not all people are the same; they don't come from truth and honesty inside and many have hidden agendas disguised as Love. I'm just more vigilant now👂👀🗣️.

    • @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he
      @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he Місяць тому

      Jesus chose to go to the cross, his blood bought us out of hell.. he rose, the first born out of the dead. For us... . We have been in really sick relationships and survived..... We're stronger and smarter.. I'm not looking for a man.. but if I meet someone I'll be very cautious, and make sure he is a believer...

  • @Bossustler
    @Bossustler 2 місяці тому +4

    Always on Time Father..
    For all that occurs is beneficial to my good and Your Glory
    💫🕊️👑
    Merciful Yet Firm

  • @emmaleaone
    @emmaleaone Місяць тому +1

    Ohhhh my God this is truth! It’s painful but it’s ok because the pain is only a symptom.. the resilience is important!

  • @astrotrain3332
    @astrotrain3332 Місяць тому +3

    I don't care what anyone says... this timeline has some pretty cool stuff in it, come on, this is awesome

  • @TigerDNF
    @TigerDNF 2 місяці тому +2

    But God commands us to forgive and it’s very hard. I agree with you! God says Enough is Enough, his Vengeance and Justice for his chosen ones come and they won’t know what hit them.

  • @shagunGour-x9c
    @shagunGour-x9c 26 днів тому

    Today you telling me an ugly truth about "myself" . THANK YOU!! SO MUCH!!!!!

  • @miNx2.1
    @miNx2.1 2 місяці тому +2

    kindness without balance is like feeding every bloodsucking animals with your blood until you run-out dry and when you've got nothing, that's when they'll leave you alone.
    I'll never wanna be a kind person ever again, I just want to be nice and not to be used again.

  • @Airdash5678
    @Airdash5678 Місяць тому +2

    I’m so tired of these “reality check” videos popping up everywhere now. Let me tell you one major thing that every person misses when they try to be realistic. There are times when empathy and determination can be rewarded based on the environments you’re in. It’s not that the world is dark. It’s simply because you’re not at the right place and you’re not with the right people. It’s not that the world doesn’t want to care about you, you simply need to give the world a reason why it should care since there’s a lot of people it focuses on. Even if things don’t work out you can be thankful it would’ve still been a lot or at least few people that understood. That’s all that matters. And you shouldn’t stop being kind simply because everyone else tests you or sees it as weakness, you should keep doing it because you feel that sensation more where as everyone else is missing out on that mental thrill and it’s their fault for pushing away an opportunity you’ve shared and given.
    Sure there are people out there that will try to use you or not see you as worth but that does not mean you’re not worth anything. You don’t need to watch wasted content like this on UA-cam just to understand practicality. You only need to know your strengths and weaknesses that later can become added strengths

  • @HerbertRoss-f1t
    @HerbertRoss-f1t Місяць тому

    such an important topic and one that should be taken seriously, I know I can never be dark or cruel, my resurrection is in strength and courage. Speak softly but carry a big stick my friend. Light in darkness is a dangerous thing, a risk for the willing.

  • @kristijankuzman9532
    @kristijankuzman9532 Місяць тому

    You will be a hero of your story only if you think on yourself!!!

  • @FitnessForLife-GetRipped-cf4wb
    @FitnessForLife-GetRipped-cf4wb 2 місяці тому +5

    “Nothing exists without its opposite. One must be strong to be vulnerable, just as one must be vulnerable to be strong.” ☯️
    Quote above written by my self.
    “"The void is that which stands
    right in the middle of "this' and 'that'. The void is all-inclusive, having no opposite - there is nothing
    which it excludes or opposes. It is a living void, because all forms come out of it and whoever realizes the void is filled with life and power and the love of all things."
    (Bruce Lee Quote Above)
    ❤❤

  • @cindykimerer5552
    @cindykimerer5552 Місяць тому +1

    Good to hear about self protection. However, when we do something nice to those who are bad to us, we inherit a blessing. That is in the Bible anyway. Thank you for the reminder to be strong. This is important to hear and understand. Teach your children to always protect themselves first and to "Thine Own Self Be True." Thank you.

  • @EverydayErich
    @EverydayErich Місяць тому +1

    Whoever does this videos
    Plz keep up
    Need more lessons ,before the day comes, that i have seen...
    And no one told

    • @EverydayErich
      @EverydayErich Місяць тому

      Your channel is no BS
      U r differnt like i am...
      Teach me more, as fast as possible, pls ... New year coming😉

  • @ctymensma
    @ctymensma 2 місяці тому +3

    Being friendly is being strong but being kind is foolish.
    A soft hard is strong but you have to protect it.

  • @roberthelland6942
    @roberthelland6942 2 місяці тому +4

    They gave me the teaching of self love and upgrade

  • @jeanettewilliams3730
    @jeanettewilliams3730 2 місяці тому +1

    ALL I BELIVE IS WHAT I AM STANDING ON IS KNOWLEDGE OF GODS TRUTH.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dmc1093
    @dmc1093 2 місяці тому +4

    Kindness is light , they cant handle it, but you see , kind people are gods people !! And harm us ,you harm yourself, Karma has away of kicken people in the ass, those that have crossed me , always recieve Karma , I am protected , remember the nice ones are the Sharks ...we are nuce to a point .... then we bite !! Never push a nice person ...word of warning ...

  • @nebel-i5w
    @nebel-i5w Місяць тому

    Thank you. Solid reminders.

  • @aidabaez5240
    @aidabaez5240 2 місяці тому +1

    On point! I’m stronger and wiser now! God bless…💃🏻

  • @andrewlerdard-dickson5201
    @andrewlerdard-dickson5201 Місяць тому +2

    The Prison System is full of People that took such advice like this

  • @chars437
    @chars437 Місяць тому

    So sad but TRUE. Thank you

  • @AnthonyLopez-gk7uu
    @AnthonyLopez-gk7uu 2 місяці тому +4

    I appreciate your work thank you very much.