When You Show Them the Real You, They Can't Take It

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  • @fredrobinson3066
    @fredrobinson3066 Місяць тому +31

    I changed from being that guy of being strong. Let my guard down at tried to be a nice guy. And now I'm sitting in my apartment heart broken. She used me never seen it coming. Coming.But I am a very strong individual. But listening to these videos are so powerful..You're a blessing. !!!!!!

    • @transcendentsacredcourage
      @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому +1

      Stay strong, brother. 🏆👑

    • @veronikaholaskova862
      @veronikaholaskova862 Місяць тому

      Sorry to hear that .i am in the same situation.I didn’t see it coming six years later woman contacted me to tell me that she was having affair with the love of my life fo two years .ABSOLUTELY BROKEN .I GAVE HIM THE WOLRD .IF she didn’t tell me i would never know .The pain is unreal but hope time will heal.just take a little steps .. we will get there with JOKER 😊

    • @rockenroller9749
      @rockenroller9749 Місяць тому +2

      @@transcendentsacredcourage hit the gym and go monk mode for a year use that as fuel to become unstoppable.

  • @divinecommerce3912
    @divinecommerce3912 Місяць тому +12

    What a powerful reframe:
    We can’t stand that people don’t “get us”… yet it also means they can’t break us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👊🏼👋💯🔥👋

  • @GoldMediaAi
    @GoldMediaAi 14 днів тому +7

    The best joker upload thus far

  • @Moodymuse60
    @Moodymuse60 Місяць тому +32

    My inner monologue dramatically changed after finding this channel....thank you for that. Thanks for your uploads ❤

  • @yasmeenmohammed9044
    @yasmeenmohammed9044 7 днів тому +3

    Looove these videos ❤

  • @TienLam-t6b
    @TienLam-t6b 10 днів тому +5

    I couldn't agree more with you that it isn't success, money or fame but rather SURVIVING AND THRIVING AGAINST ALL ODDS that would SCARE THE HELLS OUT OF THOSE WALKING FEEBLY amongst the herds of sheeps in FEARS..PERIOD..

  • @NatashaGugino
    @NatashaGugino Місяць тому +16

    If you can befriend yourself you'll never be lonely

  • @wmhhealth2018
    @wmhhealth2018 Місяць тому +62

    Authentic people with boundaries and standards scare toxic people away. I've experienced this 3 times with my last 3 girlfriends. Ultimately it's a blessing.

    • @transcendentsacredcourage
      @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому +4

      They wanted a free meal ticket. They got nothing, and rightly so.

    • @fredrikrasmussen8613
      @fredrikrasmussen8613 Місяць тому +2

      All these women have skeletons in their closets .Guys they have done wrong in the past. When they meet a new guy like the joker says a little whisper whispers in their brain reminding them how many people they buried.

    • @EsauNet800
      @EsauNet800 Місяць тому

      Go home.

    • @EsauNet800
      @EsauNet800 Місяць тому

      @@transcendentsacredcourage Just keep being goofy.

    • @Hilfiger187
      @Hilfiger187 22 дні тому

      @@fredrikrasmussen8613very true

  • @Neil-q5t
    @Neil-q5t 7 днів тому +2

    It’s True, All True. Great life Lessons! 👍

  • @weightlosedairy
    @weightlosedairy Місяць тому +35

    Thank you, Dark Force. Listening to Joker's speech helped me get through my abusive relationship with a narcissistic ex. I wouldn't say "my" because I would never want that kind of relationship. Stay away from relationships with narcissists-they can seriously damage your mental health!

    • @PounceHeadBall2
      @PounceHeadBall2 Місяць тому +1

      Every man is narcissitic as a woman's ex. What a joke. Most common terminology used.

    • @brianproffitt1609
      @brianproffitt1609 25 днів тому +2

      ​@@PounceHeadBall2absolutely there are women narcissist to some women are just better at hiding it especially if they are older than you they have had more experience in that field

    • @lupaswolfshead9971
      @lupaswolfshead9971 7 днів тому

      @@PounceHeadBall2 gaslighting 101 in the book of female nature. First get it labelled as a neurological illness then do a 180 and label men as the narcs.

  • @brianhanes5413
    @brianhanes5413 25 днів тому +7

    Getting back up isnt easy. If it was, everyone would have done it. But it can be done.

  • @IAmWolfie1111
    @IAmWolfie1111 Місяць тому +117

    Use to care about who liked me. Now i choose to be alone for a reason. "A wolf doesnt lose sleep over the opinions of sheep" 😊

    • @leshalegg1014
      @leshalegg1014 Місяць тому +1

      👍 so true!

    • @EsauNet800
      @EsauNet800 Місяць тому +2

      Literally, nobody cares.

    • @MeganKolcun
      @MeganKolcun Місяць тому

      C’mon “Kid”…😂

    • @EsauNet800
      @EsauNet800 Місяць тому

      @@MeganKolcun So suppose funny when everyone fails to get saved because of this dude who thinks he is a wolf.

    • @IAmWolfie1111
      @IAmWolfie1111 Місяць тому

      @@EsauNet800 then why are you here?

  • @kimberleyhollyman90
    @kimberleyhollyman90 7 днів тому +3

    This.🖤

  • @gabrielkepiro474
    @gabrielkepiro474 28 днів тому +6

    Friends aren't always friends. Family literally wants you dead. Usually it leads to money and power

  • @PamMcDougal-l5i
    @PamMcDougal-l5i 11 днів тому +3

    i ve lived through alot of hard times, all my life and i ll tell you i wouldn t change a thing. i became who i am today because of it and i love myself and life. this video gave me the fire i needed to become even more. my deepest thanks and appreciation for the truth, from my soul to yours

  • @GalvMermaid50
    @GalvMermaid50 Місяць тому +121

    ❤❤❤❤❤😮😢😊
    That line: "Who do you think you are?" That very line said to me over, and over again.
    Meant to put me in my place, a reminder I was not one of them, a daily reminder of the foster system, of the fragmented family and all the crap and abuse.
    I Walked away the day the Old Man died and never looked back.
    I KNOW who I AM!!!😂 Better off without them.
    Peace out, warriors. 😊

    • @williambonnie-do7yz
      @williambonnie-do7yz Місяць тому +5

      I hope to see or meet you out there someday. I'll come humble & peaceful.
      ⭐🇺🇸👊🏻

    • @InfiniteMind9
      @InfiniteMind9 Місяць тому +1

      Nice Spoiler

    • @GalvMermaid50
      @GalvMermaid50 Місяць тому

      Back at you!!
      ​@@williambonnie-do7yz

    • @Ruined666
      @Ruined666 Місяць тому

      My father says that all the time. 🖕 To him

    • @TheJoker-p7p
      @TheJoker-p7p Місяць тому +2

      Amen brotha!

  • @user-tk3nm2ul1e
    @user-tk3nm2ul1e 14 днів тому +4

    They had their
    Chance to show
    Respect my blundries!
    Gave up on waiting so I truly
    Don't care anymore!
    Realized it was just their game to
    Get what was their focus!!
    No tru love!
    Done!

  • @jeromealexander511
    @jeromealexander511 Місяць тому +17

    I just wanna let you know who ever you are making these videos. You gave me the power to not respond to my ex today after 2.5 months of nothing. Being erased like I was nothing as I helped her and her children and put myself last to everything and gave up my freedom for 3 years. Ty. You allowed me to see myself in the mirror again

    • @KenKaniff-dw4jw
      @KenKaniff-dw4jw Місяць тому +3

      Me2 bro. 15 year relationship gone. But held onto it for my step daughter. Now there gone, I have never been stronger.

  • @patrickquinn4961
    @patrickquinn4961 Місяць тому +17

    Giving up was never an option. Proud of how far I have come .shock .surprise at my own mental and physical inner strength (

  • @MissRoseLily
    @MissRoseLily Місяць тому +10

    Always! Truth sure does scare them, they soon scurry off,good, f..k off, good riddance! ❤

  • @AnnetteCarolanFourie
    @AnnetteCarolanFourie 19 днів тому +2

    You are loved and a lovely person yes

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 Місяць тому +7

    STAY STRONG LADIES❤!!!

  • @mokaberthadahmlow-moleka1116
    @mokaberthadahmlow-moleka1116 19 днів тому +3

    Thanks very much for sharing this wonderful Massage ❤❤❤

  • @mistyschachter4173
    @mistyschachter4173 Місяць тому +4

    ❤🎉😊 I am so grateful for like-minded survivor's yes I will always get back up I know exactly who I am

  • @americawaters4257
    @americawaters4257 7 днів тому +2

    I don't want to be what I don't like.
    You don't have to snuff out your light to protect yourself. That's their goal.

  • @jansefran1752
    @jansefran1752 Місяць тому +28

    They can NOT handle us ...

    • @EsauNet800
      @EsauNet800 Місяць тому

      Trust me, I can handle you. And you are fading away.

    • @KenKaniff-dw4jw
      @KenKaniff-dw4jw Місяць тому

      ​@@EsauNet800what about me?

  • @brendapezeron4984
    @brendapezeron4984 Місяць тому +11

    Amen halleluyah thanks for this beautiful message of truth

  • @lolxd9396
    @lolxd9396 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you narrator, I really needed this awakening of who I really am. 💯🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎

  • @PaulaMcCrum
    @PaulaMcCrum Місяць тому +3

    This is so true. The only person anyone needs is themselves. We are stronger than we know ❤

  • @rashadturner5660
    @rashadturner5660 Місяць тому +3

    He said the minute you get real they push you out and don't want you at their table...😂 good 👍 praising God, living free, getting money traveling the world, and living your dreams aint at they table...I dont want it😂😂🎉🎉but it wasn't easy😢

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 Місяць тому +5

    Very true. Someone I trusted and truly cared about betrayed me, threw me under the bus. A man I had known for twenty-four years turned his back on me during one of the worst moments in my life, was even less than friendly. I asked for his help and advice and he couldn't give me a straight answer. He beat around the bush as if he didn't want me to lieave his life, but he didn't want me to need him either. Oddly, he had a mild heart attach about 6 weeks ago. Karma? Only God knows it all. I may never trust again, speak candidly with another person, ask anyone for their advice. No, I wasn't married to him. I've already been married and once was enough.

  • @susrikamila9771
    @susrikamila9771 29 днів тому +2

    I really like the emphasis in your words. Thank You 'Dad Joker' ❤

  • @Outlaw4640
    @Outlaw4640 Місяць тому +9

    Definitely love this channel!! Great for meditation. Build and strengthen your mind!

  • @tanyakashyap6944
    @tanyakashyap6944 Місяць тому +13

    Dark is beautiful ❤️

  • @ps.corleonepatrick
    @ps.corleonepatrick Місяць тому +2

    Danced to all there tunes, now the tables are turned!!! It has always been a test of there own integrity!!
    🍀👽🍀⚫🙏🏼⚪🍀👽🍀

  • @Ruined666
    @Ruined666 Місяць тому +15

    Hahahaha omfg... You nailed it. Every. Single. Word.
    I've been brought down so many times. Taken the blame for others. I'm so used to being treated like shit and still smiling.
    I dance with my demons morning, noon, and night. It's been 45 years and my mother told me she wished I was never born.
    I'm not a good little soldier for anyone but myself. I'm the black sheep. And I'll always be the black sheep. I call my mother out on everything. I call my sister out as well. The fact that my mother/sister doesn't even know my cell phone number. Speaks volumes.
    I have ripped the mask off.
    What do you think got me to be the black sheep???

    • @KevinMcmahon-l5n
      @KevinMcmahon-l5n Місяць тому +1

      I'm with U I resonate sooo deeply

    • @Ruined666
      @Ruined666 Місяць тому +1

      You single...
      I'm joking...
      Kinda

    • @KevinMcmahon-l5n
      @KevinMcmahon-l5n Місяць тому +1

      @@Ruined666 not really it's complicated

  • @EXTREMExSHEPHERD
    @EXTREMExSHEPHERD 23 дні тому +2

    I used to care what others think and do things certainly! Was always told, im still battling but i have no excuses! Im the blacksheep of my fam, i dont care what anyone thinks nowadays! Ive been disowned by my parents cause i dont bow down too no one. I call out anyone i think is fake or on some bs! Stay strong folks

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 Місяць тому +5

    Truth hurts them !!

  • @VioletOne88
    @VioletOne88 Місяць тому +5

    Loved this!🥰 Awesome 😎 ty!!! 🎉🙌🏼💯💯💯

  • @wajihahmuhammad
    @wajihahmuhammad Місяць тому +8

    God is merciful towards believers.. I have no regrets. As long as i was my best self, they can go to hell. And yes, i let them leave, and kept my silence. And still i rise.!!!!!!!!

    • @BazMhenga
      @BazMhenga Місяць тому +1

      It really hurts at first but when the scar heals you come out the other end more stronger than you were and the things they do karma repays twice of what they did to you

  • @Granny-o4w
    @Granny-o4w Місяць тому +10

    Jesus Christ is king!!!!!

    • @joannturi3968
      @joannturi3968 Місяць тому +1

      And He is returning soon to rescue us!

    • @luc1d356
      @luc1d356 4 дні тому +1

      He is coming back to judge us , not rescue. Prepare now.

  • @idobackflipsonyagirlsback4664
    @idobackflipsonyagirlsback4664 Місяць тому +4

    Ya know what, I needed this. I need this type of content to better myself and my life I currently live. I thank you and all of the other creators that does content like this. I truly and highly respect you all.

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 Місяць тому +3

    You're survived no matter what while they become losers..that's the matters!

  • @galinaverbitsky9357
    @galinaverbitsky9357 Місяць тому +5

    Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @Yui-Chan9124
    @Yui-Chan9124 Місяць тому +6

    I always love the saxophone playing in the background!

  • @kristinahtrix8640
    @kristinahtrix8640 Місяць тому +5

    Yes I claim it I will never give up Amen 🙏

  • @janm4442
    @janm4442 27 днів тому +1

    Brilliant video.
    Thanks for it.

  • @kaidjackson1200
    @kaidjackson1200 17 днів тому +2

    THIS CHANNEL HAS LOWKEY SAVED MY LIFE, NOT TO GET DRAMATIC BUT I WAS THIS CLOSE TO ENDING MY LIFE. THANK YOU DARK FORCE 🙏🏿!

  • @brendapezeron4984
    @brendapezeron4984 Місяць тому +8

    Thanks glory to my father yahweh

  • @davidrobertwood9993
    @davidrobertwood9993 19 днів тому +2

    Not listening to this 2020 😂love amzing

  • @gemmahernandez949
    @gemmahernandez949 2 дні тому

    Thank you 👍🏿 my love for the strength and wisdom bless ❤

  • @Joe-hf3cn
    @Joe-hf3cn 28 днів тому +1

    Great subject matter. Okaaay, subscribed …I need merch too

  • @roxanajames-hernandez6166
    @roxanajames-hernandez6166 Місяць тому +5

    My revenge is going to be to let them see GOD help rise above every insult, lie, and betrayal that they did towards me by prospering in my newly created company and live my best life ever through the power of the Holy Spirit!!

  • @CarlWhite-dc2yi
    @CarlWhite-dc2yi 15 днів тому +2

    That is very true

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 Місяць тому +5

    Well said.

  • @fatimaherf1783
    @fatimaherf1783 Місяць тому +4

    Yes..little by little..You rid yourself of baggage..and it becomes lighter..at the end of the tunnel..🙂

  • @littlechirstmas123
    @littlechirstmas123 17 днів тому +2

    ❤Amen ❤❤

  • @KevinMcmahon-l5n
    @KevinMcmahon-l5n Місяць тому +3

    Take her away 😮😂🔥

  • @AlexFlores-pk5xc
    @AlexFlores-pk5xc 25 днів тому

    I love the world 🌎 with a passion Hallelujah

  • @transcendentsacredcourage
    @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому +5

    Joker is a modern day philosopher, likely Diogenes.

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 Місяць тому +3

    Enough Time - Given …😂Enough - To Give ….Let Them Go Themselves Without Me ….. 😂Exit …….🌞

  • @grim7965
    @grim7965 Місяць тому

    Thanks, Joker. Thank you so much!!

  • @katherinemcmurphy379
    @katherinemcmurphy379 16 днів тому

    I be his wife and stand with him because of he new the words told wasn't going to let that fear stop true words thank you❤

  • @stantheman4964
    @stantheman4964 Місяць тому +5

    Indurance 🎯

  • @transcendentsacredcourage
    @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому +2

    Joker was basically talking about me this entire video. Goddamn.

  • @robryan2875
    @robryan2875 Місяць тому +4

    There is no they. There's only me.❤

  • @Tomohawk-e1n
    @Tomohawk-e1n Місяць тому +4

    My wee dose of Dark Force, magic.

  • @vincentgardiner2278
    @vincentgardiner2278 Місяць тому +3

    I can also not worry about it and just do my thing.

    • @vincentgardiner2278
      @vincentgardiner2278 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉

  • @brownmut5518
    @brownmut5518 Місяць тому +3

    The real me is an introvert who only needs my wife and children. They called my bluff by mistaking my kindness for weakness and now they get nothing. I dont miss them as muchnas they miss me. When they phone i decline and end the conversation going on almost 10 years now

  • @guinansmith8385
    @guinansmith8385 Місяць тому

    Your amazing, U hear me ! 👏🏾

  • @MsPangY
    @MsPangY Місяць тому +2

    I saw this version of me one day, didn’t know when but it’s happening 😮😢❤

  • @alexander.chance
    @alexander.chance 5 днів тому +1

    was a puppet... never again

  • @AnnetteCarolanFourie
    @AnnetteCarolanFourie 19 днів тому

    Sending you lots of love and real care you are always loved yes take care ❤🫂💖

  • @leannewalsh5339
    @leannewalsh5339 Місяць тому

    Thankyou 🎉i use my pain to transform into becoming a stronger person 🎉

  • @rachiefitz2919
    @rachiefitz2919 Місяць тому +10

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @skigidi
    @skigidi Місяць тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @Mr.SMiLeY1025
    @Mr.SMiLeY1025 Місяць тому +1

    People change,we change,people change that is not our fault
    How much we change,IS

  • @gabylopez6990
    @gabylopez6990 Місяць тому +1

    All your content is perfect! Thank you so much ❤. But, please... could you just put the subtitles without movement? I really appreciate if you could do that, I am improving my English learning with your videos, and enjoy so much listening your beautiful voice while I am reading 😊...but some times is tiring with the movement on them 😞. Greetings from MÉXICO ‼️🙏

  • @shtuu18
    @shtuu18 Місяць тому +1

    Take away the part of feeling resentful towards them and tbis is how i feel. I want them to admit what they did and why, then i could tell them its okay and i understand. Walking away is easy but it fixes nothing. I want to love all who have ever been in my life, friend or foe. I suffer from inability to see myself. What is in me screams to me i am ugly, i am stupid, i am incapable and no one would ever care about someone like me. Then people in my life turn to me and accuse me of thinking im so much better. I wish i did but i dont, i feel i am below all others.

  • @dianadiem6950
    @dianadiem6950 25 днів тому

    Love you all rg info scarsum so on target no body can imitate yu yuor voice your narritive Awesome ❤❤❤❤

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 Місяць тому

    To whom puts these out IM THANKFUL FOR YOU. THEY SHOULD BE AS WELL. IF NOT THET WILL LEARN ALL BY THEMSELVES
    . TRUTH BE TOLD. TRUTH HURTS DOESNT IT. BUMMER

  • @bobfronk7235
    @bobfronk7235 14 днів тому

    I will say. Amen. 🙏🏻

  • @AdamWojtyla
    @AdamWojtyla 3 дні тому

    drink coffee and you show them your true face.Because you have the power.

  • @HamletsMill1969
    @HamletsMill1969 Місяць тому

    Be alone. Be a mystery. Let them live in fear. Let them live in their imagination.

  • @markduncan6690
    @markduncan6690 Місяць тому +1

    My Remaining Family have nothing to do with me,as a result of an accident I suffered from! They don’t want to see me ,because I have to walk assisted!

  • @Vermillion73
    @Vermillion73 Місяць тому +2

    THESE COWARDS ARE FOOD FOR ME!!!

  • @maryloubeal2807
    @maryloubeal2807 18 днів тому

    Let it out dudde 🎉 you'll feel again. 20, 30, 40 yrs later. PTSD time Godzilla 😅

  • @ChesterDidzena-go7he
    @ChesterDidzena-go7he 22 дні тому

    Who doesn't giving a dame is the most crazy times start to happen with it all

  • @Count-w6n
    @Count-w6n 8 днів тому

    Spare me. That's their fantasy. Whoever ( they) are.

  • @SoulsearchingMan-w8n
    @SoulsearchingMan-w8n Місяць тому

    Great stuff love it!

  • @KathBona
    @KathBona Місяць тому

    Their deceitful lil world we are YOUR worst nightmare why ...... GOD

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 Місяць тому

    ❤❤VMY LOVE THIS IZ TRUTH. KNOW YOURSEKF LOVE YOURSEKF. THATS ALL YOU NEED. I WAKK MY OATH. LOVE FIND YOUR PATH... WHEN YOU DO... YOU WILL THEN HAVE THE EYES TO SEE❤

  • @Ruined666
    @Ruined666 Місяць тому +23

    Psst. They wont be looking back.
    Why. Cause I'll be ahead.
    I dont understand why people cant take other people being different. But everyone "claims" they do.
    How can a person thrive with gangstalkers?
    Theyre there to stop me from working, stop me from having s home, snd try to make me crazy.
    I dont understand why people are so fucked. I think its time for me to go... 🕊️ And lesve this pain here. Im done being beat up. Theres nothing left here but memories, pain, snd now gangstalkers.

    • @KathBona
      @KathBona Місяць тому

      I hope your a spirit posting

  • @patrickklemens7872
    @patrickklemens7872 Місяць тому

    My last friend left recently.one more family member any day now. It has been tough

  • @Saidkamol-h8q
    @Saidkamol-h8q Місяць тому +3

    bitter thruth

  • @User-z1j
    @User-z1j 27 днів тому

    You show them your true self, but it still damn not good enough for them.

  • @yasmeenmohammed9044
    @yasmeenmohammed9044 7 днів тому

    Listen kid ! 😂

  • @pennyyork6493
    @pennyyork6493 14 днів тому

    I've learned that lesson years ago the world is cruel

  • @transcendentsacredcourage
    @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому

    Demon Joker was coming out near the end of the video, but he contained it. 😂😂😂

  • @brianm1185
    @brianm1185 Місяць тому +1

    Love this channel