Wife Wants Divorce & You Don't? This 3-STEP PROCESS Can Help You Save The Marriage

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  • Your wife wants a divorce, but you don't.
    Is there any way to save the marriage if she wants out?
    In this video, David Mathews (Marriage Helper Workshop Facilitator) explains a 3-step process that will DRAMATICALLY INCREASE the chances of you saving your marriage.
    The principles taught in this video are NOT going to save your marriage overnight. Anyone who guarantees that they can save your marriage is a fraud.
    However, if you TRULY implement these 3 steps... it will have the best, long-lasting impact on not only your marriage, but yourself as an individual.
    Be sure to turn up the volume, prepare to take notes, and beget ready to commit to starting on these steps TODAY.
    Because if anything works, this will.
    We truly hope this video brings you encouragement.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 76

  • @MarriageHelper
    @MarriageHelper  3 роки тому +3

    Learn more about the Save My Marriage Course that David mentions in this video, HERE!
    marriagehelper.com/save-my-marriage/
    We can't wait to see you on the next support call!
    Blessings,
    Marriage Helper

  • @treybarnes5549
    @treybarnes5549 2 роки тому +10

    honoring her and respecting her. It seems so crazy that women are really wanting to have men in submission to them. Disrespecting her and trying to control her, then turn around telling men how they want men to behave. Having men on pins and needles makes it so hard these days for men. How is it okay to treat men like that?

  • @LockingLoading
    @LockingLoading 3 роки тому +19

    Can we get more videos with David? I love his breakdowns and his commentary is great!

  • @s.a.m4482
    @s.a.m4482 Рік тому +3

    This information is full of golden nuggets!!!!
    As a wife of 20 + years, who is in the struggle of a lifetime with my husband. I’m trying to save my marriage but my husband is not putting in the work. He has a history of psychological & emotional abuse towards me & the kids, he now says he wants the marriage to work but refuses to change, I’m not sure I can take anymore.

    • @murphyfx
      @murphyfx 3 місяці тому

      Be patience with him please. Pray for him. He loved you.

  • @thebiharivoice
    @thebiharivoice Рік тому +12

    Women can get away with this kind of bad behavior because the society has allowed them to do so...but if men do so..they will be shamed and monetary punitive measures will be imposed by court..along with missing the kids.
    When will society change to acknowledge the pain felt by men?

  • @diklahay2685
    @diklahay2685 Рік тому +2

    Best video ever!
    How can I save my marriage if my husband left the house, no children, and a minimal connection just about leaving our rent department and selling our fornitures?
    He said he still loves me, but cannot live with me anymore.

  • @glassjester
    @glassjester 2 роки тому +7

    So... "Smart Contact" basically means "Walking on Eggshells." Great.

  • @trashmouthpodcast
    @trashmouthpodcast 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing advice brother, going to put it to action!

  • @larry8013
    @larry8013 Рік тому +2

    This is the best advice I have gotten since my separation, thank you David!

    • @frankgeary7574
      @frankgeary7574 4 місяці тому

      How’s it going? My ex is gone and I think I can’t go through this

  • @trok90k
    @trok90k 2 місяці тому +1

    Does smart contact work if you're living under the same roof? Wife doesnt seem to care about me or my well being anymore. I still will send a good morning text and maybe see how her day is going around lunch. I see from this video that i need to cut all of that out. I just do it bc i genuinely care but i see that may be working against me.

  • @LavenderGardenia
    @LavenderGardenia Рік тому +1

    It's amazing to see the amount of people that come here to listen to the video and then decide they are better off doing what they have been doing all along..
    For any spouse that is struggling with the concept in this video, try putting yourself in the place of the "wife" in the analogy and make your spouse the "husband". Do you still want to persue that marriage when your spouse doesn't honor your wishes (and they are the one standing)?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Рік тому +1

      You sound like a very strong person. We love that you are being able to put yourself in a different perspective to formulate your own opinions on the matter. This is a great start to learning how to show acceptance towards other people! Thanks for sharing your opinion my friend. It sounds like you are on a great path to making permanent, positive change in your marriage!

  • @micahvenable92
    @micahvenable92 3 роки тому +2

    This video couldn’t have been dropped at a better time! Iv broken no contact and my wife got very angry and me and shut me down....she listened to what I had to say, but just said I am not your wife anymore, I do not trust you enough to ever be in a marriage with you anymore. Idc if I’m legally married in the states eyes I am not your wife anymore that’s why we’re separated and she was very ugly about it so I panicked and poured my heart out to her. I didn’t ask for her to take me back I told her I still have a lot to learn but I am becoming the best version of myself no matter what and she just shut me down and didn’t respond til she said can I go I have stuff to do. We will be seperated one month on the first. I’m hoping I didn’t make things way worse then they already were

    • @davidroets8090
      @davidroets8090 3 роки тому +5

      Im sorry man. I have been there one time before. And unfortunately. I am once again in a similar situation. All we can control is what we do and do not do.
      My wife knows how i feel about her like yours. All we can do is what is right.
      I can't force her to love/like/listen to me.
      In the beginning I didn't force her to want these things. Thats all I focus on. Is being better than I was yesterday today. And better tomorrow than today. And be available for her to come to me.

    • @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991
      @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991
      @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him

    • @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991
      @nafsuzzakiyyakabiru9991 2 роки тому

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  • @kentuckyjustice1408
    @kentuckyjustice1408 3 роки тому +3

    I've spoken with a psychologist, describing the changes in my wife's behavior. He said I need to get her somewhere to have an interview for evaluation, and suggested she get to her gynecologist as soon as possible. He says it sounds like she is in crisis. My wife says there's nothing wrong with her, and will not go anywhere. She's moved out and wants a divorce. I don't. What in the world can I do? She's the love of my life and my best friend.

  • @greenlener
    @greenlener 2 роки тому

    Thanks David, will continue to do.

  • @mercykidiri7391
    @mercykidiri7391 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks you sir

  • @jessejames88
    @jessejames88 3 роки тому +3

    This was superb. Thank you! Cheers & God bless.

  • @cityjaytv7631
    @cityjaytv7631 2 роки тому

    Thanks 👽👍🏽

  • @jhaebrown
    @jhaebrown Рік тому

    I don’t think the PIES and SMART will work for me anymore because my spouse left and decided live with his mistress. Their affair rekindled last year, it started in 2012 (his 2nd affair too)

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Рік тому +1

      Hey friend, PIES and SMART Contact is not a trick or method to get them back. It is designed to be applied to life moving forward. Meaning, you don't stop doing it. Ever. Even if they leave. Even if they come back. You always work on becoming the best version of yourself. And God forbid this marriage doesn't work out, you are the best version of yourself for the next relationship. But PIES and SMART Contact are a way of life! Never stop! Keep going friend! You've got this! We would love to be your support system along the way because we believe there is always hope. Don't hesitate to reach out if we can help you my friend. You can call us at 1 866 903 0990.
      Blessings,

  • @danielmeehan425
    @danielmeehan425 2 роки тому +6

    Let her go! She doesn’t see your value and wants to leave. Let her go!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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    • @glassjester
      @glassjester 2 роки тому

      Even if she takes your children?

    • @danielmeehan425
      @danielmeehan425 2 роки тому +3

      @@glassjester I dunno, I think you gotta fight to keep your family together. I’m just saying in the end if she wants to leave, let her go. Matters about the children become a different conversation. It just gets to a bad point there. Especially if your the bread winner and she thinks it’s okay to just get up and leave and take the kids without being able to provide for herself. Cannot be summed up by just saying “let her go” but if she wants to leave the conversation becomes “ok leave, but I want 50/50 time with our children, and you can leave this house whenever you like”.

  • @raiganmtz
    @raiganmtz 2 роки тому

    Ok. If my spouse asks me to sleep in the spare bedroom, do I do it?

    • @jamescummins5824
      @jamescummins5824 Рік тому

      no way that beds comfortable and she is the one with the problem so let her decide either share the bed with you or use the spare dont put yourself out because she trying to be difficult

    • @raiganmtz
      @raiganmtz Рік тому +1

      @@jamescummins5824 HE already moved out. She who is me, didn’t have the problem. No I didn’t go to the other room.

  • @glassjester
    @glassjester 2 роки тому +2

    He violated respect by entering HIS OWN home and taking care of the yard? For God's sake, that wife needs to grow up.

  • @josettemembrila9226
    @josettemembrila9226 3 роки тому +1

    How can I do this if we don’t have kids! 😕

  • @murphyfx
    @murphyfx 3 місяці тому

    Divorce affected children groeth in life a lot

  • @brandon6231
    @brandon6231 3 роки тому +13

    Life should not be this complicated. Sometimes the juice isn't worth the squeeze

  • @kamalkumartrivedi8470
    @kamalkumartrivedi8470 3 роки тому +2

    Jeene ka ho shokh to Marne ko ho ja taiyaar...
    TRANSLATION:
    If you want to LIVE, THAN GET READY TO DIE!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me get my ex back permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @glassjester
    @glassjester 2 роки тому +4

    3-Step Process = Be a good little boy and obey your wife's every selfish whim. Amazing.

  • @IDIEATIH
    @IDIEATIH 3 роки тому +13

    Shortcut to divorces. The guy always gets screwed over. End of story.

    • @jbougger
      @jbougger 3 роки тому +2

      Pretty much. Her mind is made it. Time to move on. I'm still working on that.

    • @danielmeehan425
      @danielmeehan425 2 роки тому +3

      Yep, give your time and energy to your kids and keep the rest for yourself! Let her go!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

      Whats""app him👇

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 роки тому

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  • @Ironstarfish
    @Ironstarfish 13 днів тому

    "Lets suppose its the wife" lol, its always the woman