I Miss Feeling Pretty | EP14 - Wherever You're At

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    This episode gets deep, vulnerable, off topic, depressing, and hopefully motivating so tune in Wherever You're At while we discuss attachments to the dunya, the chokehold ‘beauty’ has on girls, purpose of the hijab, reflecting and setting new intentions, and so much more. Leave us your thoughts in the comments section!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 125

  • @urfavafghan_
    @urfavafghan_ День тому +21

    Heyy Mihed! Ur prob not gonna read this but if you do girl I jst want to tell you wallah you are so pretty mashallah. Like I know where you’re coming from I also wanna wear my hijab tight and don’t wear makeup but I look so ugly with it. I jst wanna tell you like u mashallah have literally nothing to be insecure abt seriously. I literally made dua to look beautiful jst like u when I’m not wearing makeup 😭😭 may Allah put baraka in the work you do I really appreciate these podcast I haven’t watched all of them yet but I saw the title and I has to click on it but thankss. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jss_muna
    @Jss_muna День тому +19

    Omggg Mihed your camera quality is amazing. You look so beautiful mashallahhh 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @SumeyaMohamed-gu3ln
    @SumeyaMohamed-gu3ln День тому +26

    Woaaah a podcast with a video yaaaay mihed!!

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому +9

      making movessss🩷🩷🩷🩷

    • @SumeyaMohamed-gu3ln
      @SumeyaMohamed-gu3ln День тому +4

      Haha much love mihed and please make more vids❤❤​@MihedAsma

  • @mally721
    @mally721 День тому +10

    I love this, as a hijabi in college, I find it very hard to quit makeup, I’ve tried for a whole semester n succeeded but the second Eid hit I decided to put it on because everyone else was looking gorgeous n going all out for Eid and ever since it’s been hard to go makeup free again. I think it’s because of how normalized the Muslim community has made it be and I’m sometimes thinking, if I lived in a Muslim country it would be easier. But we really need to work on our faith because our faith should come from within us and not from the environment. And I feel like the second the environment dictates our fate and what’s normalized and what’s not, that’s when we have started making partners with Allah. Because we should truly just follow the rules that the most perfect, most high has set. May Allah make it easier for us 🩷 Also don’t apologize for not going straight from point to point, it feels more cozy and personal when you’re just speaking ur thoughts cuz trust I think the same.

  • @taechakeluvr3255
    @taechakeluvr3255 День тому +10

    15:31 "i hope he doesn't look at me from the right side cuz that's my bad side" guess im not the only one who thinks like that😭😭.
    I loved this episode sm may الله bless you Mihed!!❤❣

  • @Lujyn37
    @Lujyn37 День тому +15

    just finished listening, and I have to say, you're the only person who can make me laugh, cry, and feel so many emotions in just an hour. this episode couldn’t have come at a better time subhanAllah. it’s so reassuring to know I'm not alone in thinking this way as I'm sure so many muslimahs feel the same exact way. thank you for always reminding us of Allah, and I pray that this podcast becomes one of the many reasons you enter jannah.

  • @shahnazparvin5055
    @shahnazparvin5055 День тому +23

    I've started wearing hijab since last year. Before that, I always used to get stares; people would call me pretty and admire my beauty. After wearing hijab I definitely don't get those praises and like I know this was my purpose for wearing hijab so that random people in the class and work workplace won't look at me that way but now I've started to feel ugly and unsmart for some reason. See it's natural for a woman to want to be called pretty and when they don't feel pretty it hurts their confidence or at least it's hurting mine. I'm not married, so I don't have any mahram to tell me that I'm beautiful to him. I know I shouldn't seek validation from others and I know that I'm pretty just the way I am but as someone who got a lot of praise every single day and now it's almost zero, It's a little bit hard to deal with. I hope no one will judge me. I felt like I needed to say whatever I was feeling and I believe y'all will be kind if you wanna replay. Thanks for reading, have a good day. ♥

    • @yasminebidiga8469
      @yasminebidiga8469 День тому +4

      Salam aleikoum sister, don’t give up, some days are harder than others, but the reward will be sooo worth it inshAllah. 🤍 Remember that Allah subhana wa ta’ala loves us more than we could ever comprehend. May He facilitate us to only seek His validation and to keep wearing the hijab inshaAllah, amiin.

    • @SaraGasmi-tr4so
      @SaraGasmi-tr4so 22 години тому

      @shahnazparvin5055

    • @shahnazparvin5055
      @shahnazparvin5055 19 годин тому +1

      @@yasminebidiga8469 walikum assalam, ameen sister. I don't think I'm going to stop wearing hijab but yes as you said, some days it's just hard. But in shaa Allah I'll try to continue by the mercy of Allah SWT.

    • @dararosa
      @dararosa 19 годин тому +3

      Assalamu Alaikum sister. I really can relate to everything you've said, because that was my struggle too. I am wearing the hijab for over a year now, walhamdulillah and trusssst meeee it'll get better 💗. I've never felt more beautiful , confident etc. than I am right now, Alhamdulillah. What helped me was learning more about the hijab, why Allah swt. wants us to wear it etc. and also learnt more about the deen and overall the role of a woman in Islam. I also learnt more about the lives of the first wife and the daughter of our prophet sas, the role models for us women. Also always always remind yourself why and for whom you're doing it. It will get better in sha Allah and you won't need/seek that validation anymore. You'll learn to love yourself and appreciate the hijab and modesty even more. And I am pretty pretty sure, you look beautiful in your hijab. 💗

    • @hhj676
      @hhj676 10 годин тому +2

      Ask Allah to replace it with something better. The random compliments will not benefit you in your life at all but Allah can replace it with something better like a loving husband.

  • @sarahmansoor151
    @sarahmansoor151 День тому +8

    you not wearing makeup socially with full coverage hijab makes me more confident doing the same ❤️

  • @yjkjyj
    @yjkjyj День тому +9

    20:26 “I’m not here to look pretty” is such a comfort. I need to repeat this to myself and let go

  • @nourelhouda967
    @nourelhouda967 19 годин тому +11

    I appreciate your take on the subject Mihed and I think almost all hijabis share this struggle.
    Imagine how brutal it is out there when you don’t have a husband to get that « pretty validation » from 😂 ( may Allah bless yours)
    For my single ladies ( and married ofc), my advice is to really beautify yourself at home it’s life changing. I mean not staying in random pjs the whole day if you are at home , no you choose a dress or smtg you wouldn’t wear outside, also makeup etc and making this a routine so that when you do go outside you don’t need to prove anything to anyone, you already see yourself as pretty and not everyone gets to see that only the people who deserve it 🫶
    This really has helped me as a new hijabi , also focus on personal and feminine hygiene since people care about fits etc and forget the absolute basics.
    May Allah make it easy for us 🫶

    • @balsammohammed9140
      @balsammohammed9140 17 годин тому +1

      cl i used to do this n it would lowkey trigger me LMAO. I would lit look at myself and be OMG IF ONLY I DIDNT WEAR THE HIJAB I WOULD EATT IF ONLY I WORE MAKEUP W MY HIJAB. But it may totally work for u jst my experience lmao

    • @nourelhouda967
      @nourelhouda967 16 годин тому

      @@balsammohammed9140 yess I completely get you ! I used to and still think like this sometimes however if I do have this mindset , that means I will never see myself « beautified » 😭 so I just talk to myself and say who do I want to look pretty for ? ( also thinking about a potential husband InchAllah who will have all of this makes it worth it😂) and slowly you stop caring about what absolute strangers have to think about you because that way you are giving them so much power etc
      It’s a never ending battle with the nafs and shaytan but I’m sure we can make it inchAllah 🫶

  • @TeodoraHhh-g5n
    @TeodoraHhh-g5n День тому +21

    This is so much needed like girl I am a new hijabi that started college ( today it was the first day and I didn’t end up going because I was scared 😢)

    • @Bbissou
      @Bbissou День тому +4

      You can do it girl!! You’re stronger than you think 💪✨ May Allah make it even easier for you 🤲 Welcome to the hijabi club! ☺️

    • @TeodoraHhh-g5n
      @TeodoraHhh-g5n День тому +1

      @@Bbissou I’m literally crying because I have to go tomorrow. Thank you for your message ❤️

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому +15

      College is full of diverse people in terms of ethnicity and style so the fear that you feel is probably just cold feet for this new stage of your life. Trust me, people don’t care as much as we think they do! With Allah on your side, you will be okay my love 🤍

    • @TeodoraHhh-g5n
      @TeodoraHhh-g5n День тому

      @@MihedAsma Thank you for your kind words it means a lot to me❤️

    • @dreambou
      @dreambou День тому

      Sis you can do it 🔥 be confident with your unique as Muslim girl
      be proud of your religion and make Dua to Allah SWT to make it easy for you and help you , don't let other's opinions control your feelings or life Allah SWT is with you

  • @tesnimero
    @tesnimero День тому +7

    you don’t know how much it means to me that you posted this video. when you say you don’t have someone to compare to, that’s exactly how I felt until you posted this and you worded everything I feel so perfectly. shoukran bzef bzefff from your algerian sister. also your face card neverrrrr declines allahumabarik

  • @authenticallyaisha
    @authenticallyaisha 7 годин тому +1

    This is such a beautiful and necessary reminder sis. I also want to say tho that you don’t have to completely give up feeling pretty. Especially as a married woman, I feel like your husband should be validating your beauty on the daily basis. Also invest in your at home closet. Wear nice clothes at home and go to more all-girls parties and events. Get your hair done! Also spending less time on social media really helps. The issue is more about not beautifying yourself in public and around non-mehrem men. May Allah reward you for your efforts and keep you steadfast. Ameen

  • @siddrahalhindi
    @siddrahalhindi День тому +5

    I watched/listened to this with tears in my eyes because I have honestly been feeling so alone and almost crazy for having these same exact thoughts. It really has become a time where doing the right thing feels like the wrong thing because no one else seems to be doing it etc. Holding onto our faith is like holding onto a hot coal, but alhamdullilah for the strength to continue holding on. May Allah (swt) make it easy for us to continue striving for His sake. May He guide us & our ummah because our society has changed so much recently. Thank you for sharing! I hope we can all shift to the better and help each other get back to the straight path. It doesn’t feel so hard when you have someone to do it with you. If you ever come down to NY we can grab coffee and appreciate the fall leaves together ♥️

  • @HelzaHabeeb
    @HelzaHabeeb День тому +6

    you so real man, May Allah make it easy for us, and detach us from this temporary dunya

  • @miriamshaw295
    @miriamshaw295 6 годин тому

    I lovedddd this video. This is such a necessary conversation and it made me feel so seen 😭🩷 I think that many people shame Muslim women for wanting to feel pretty or have your beauty be acknowledged by other people, even though this is a totally natural thing, we’re still people at the end of the day. Because so much of our value in society is placed in our appearance, it’s not easy to unlearn that, and it’s only natural to struggle with these feelings. It shouldn’t be something that people shame others for. I’m so glad you decided to share this, and you’re definitely not alone !! Thank youuu 💖

  • @Heidiksjs
    @Heidiksjs День тому +5

    Your akhlaq and personality is what you bring to the table! Its beauitful in itself!

  • @yasminebidiga8469
    @yasminebidiga8469 День тому +1

    Thank you for this podcast Mihed, may Allah ease all of our paths to Jannah al firdaws, ameen. And also concerning salâh, we should remember ourselves that Allah is Ar Rahman Ar Rahim, He prescribed us salâh to soothe our hearts from the hardships of this dunya,we have the blessing and opportunity to go back to Him at least 5 times everyday; to be listened to, to open our hearts to Him and seek strength and comfort trough Him, Al Aziz, Al Mu’min. Our Lord wants ease and everlasting success for us, so lets all strive to stop sabotaging ourselves and to hold on tight to Him (qran, prayers) ameen. (Sorry for errors, I speak french and recently reverted and also hijabi Al hamdoulilah)

  • @narueyy
    @narueyy День тому +3

    Mihed I swearrrrr you are the Most BEAUTIFUL hijabi Girl without Make Up I EVER SAW!!! Allahumma Barik! I alwayssss Tell my friends about Ur beauty in and OUT!!

  • @englishwithlana2775
    @englishwithlana2775 День тому +3

    I am kind of shocked hearing you talking about face card. Habibti your smile is breathtakingly beautiful! Just smile, whenever you feel insecure about not wearing make up.

  • @y.a.7328
    @y.a.7328 День тому +3

    miheddd subhanAllah. i can't express to u how much i appreciate your transparency about this topic. i watch your videos and see you speaking about not wearing makeup, which is one of the goals i'm struggling with and as someone who's not conventionally attractive, barely got any compliments or felt pretty my whole life - i used to think "it's easy for her to say" not in a negative way, but in a way that i always thought how could she have any negative thoughts about herself without makeup, because in my eyes you were always so beautiful without it allahuma barik. so to hear you speak about this, it made me feel less alone, your perspective on how these thoughts are not us and are actually shaytaan helped change my mindset so much. i pray Allah makes it easy for you and I and every muslim girl that is struggling to accept the beauty Allah has naturally bestowed upon us. i think it's soooo important to recognize that the world and society we live in doesn't make it easy and i just wanna give u a big hug for addressing this and being honest with ur audience. may Allah bless you always, allahuma Aameen

  • @nesresine2085
    @nesresine2085 День тому +4

    I love your video, keep being someone who wants to please Allah ❤because we get rewarded for striving in the path of Allah and I can relate to what you are saying but we can overcome this problem I pray that allah makes you steadfast 😊

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому +1

      ameen thank you so much! 🩷

  • @mariamsidibe9430
    @mariamsidibe9430 День тому +2

    O MY I relate SO much to the no makeup + tight hijab combo! It is such a struggle especially of you wanna give up makeup

  • @chhf08765
    @chhf08765 11 годин тому +2

    If any of yall have smth hurting you, making you upset, or something weighing on your heart, read this list of 4 duaas every day and you’ll see Allahs Faraj inshallah 🩷
    1. la illaha illa allah wahdahu la shareeka lah lahu-lmulku wa lahu-lhamdu wa howa ala kouli shay-in qadeer
    2. rabbi ighfir li wa tub alaya
    3. la hawla wa la quwata illa billah
    4.ibrahimic prayers upon the prophet (allahuma sali ala muhammed wa ala ali muhammed kama salayta ala ibrahim wa ala ali ibrahim, innaka hamidun majeed. allahuma barik 3ala muhammed wa 3ala ali muhammed kama barakta 3ala ibrahim wa 3ala ali ibrahim, innaka hamidun majeed

  • @Hunamer
    @Hunamer 23 години тому +2

    so glad you didn’t scrap this and not upload it - loved every second ❤

  • @فاطمهفاطمه-م4ض
    @فاطمهفاطمه-م4ض День тому +6

    نحن مسنا الضر وين الامه الاسلاميه بكيت متنا من القهر لمن اشكي يا ناس نحن نموت من الجوع والله ماتكلمت الا من جوع ومن ضيق الحال انا وكامل اسرتي تشردنا من بيوتنا بَسَبَبَ الَحَرَبَ نَحَنَ فَيَ حَالَهَ لَايَعَلَمَ بَهَا الَا الَلَهَ حَسَبَنَا الَلَهَ وًّنَعَمَ الَوكيَلَ فَيَ مَنَ اوًّصَلَنَا الَى هَاذا الَحَالَ والله تعبت من هذا الدنيا والله ياخوان تعبت اختك في حال ميعلم به الا الله وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ اخَوًّنَيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ ٥نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ بَاقَيَ عَلَيَنَا انَيَ دخلة على الله ثمَّ عليكِ اني في وجه الله ثم في وجهك اني اترجاك اتوسل اليك تساعدني لوجه الله. الله يَأْخي منَ الصَبَاحُ حُتا الان يَحُرّم علينا الاكل غير الماء اني اقسم بالله العلي العظيم على كتاب الله اني بنت يتيمه من ومعي اخوان صغار اقسم بالله على كتاب الله ان اخوتي ماعاد يقدرو ينطقو بكلمة من شدت الجوع وبيتنا ايجار وصاحب البيت مقدر ضروفنا يريد الإجار او بيخرجنا إلى الشارع و اني اسالك بالله وانشدك بمحمد رسول الله يا اخي لوانت مسلم وتحب الخير انك تساعدني بقدر استطاعتك ان تتواصل معي او تراسلني واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967717354582 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولا تتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اني بنت يمنيه نازحين منالحرب انا واسرتي بيتنا اجار الشهر بـ20 الف يمني والان علينا 60 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع فيااخي انت رجال إذا شفت اسرتك جاوعين تعمل المستحيل من اجل تامن لهم الاكل ولكن انابنت عيني بصيره ويدي قصيره ليس لي اب يسمح دمعتى ويحمينى من الذل والاهانة .🥺واخواتي سغار ساعدنا انقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع نتبهدل او نموت من الجوع انا اقسم بالله الذي رفع سبع سموات بلا عمد وبسط الارض ومهداني لااكذب عليك بحرف من هذا الرساله واني ماطلبتك إلى من ضيق وقسوت الضروف والحال الذي احنافيه واني وأسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعدتنا انك لتاخر علينا احنا في اشد الحاجة والضروف القاسيه جزاك الله خير الجزا وحسبي الله ونعم الوكيل ولا حول ولا قوه الا بالله العلي العظيم ;-'-•"!;'(')"\|\(/(° ؛؛؛,,,|•ิ ؛؛؛,,,↑. ؛؛؛,,,Π•)\|¶:)'|؛؛؛,,,\\>؛؛؛,,,|\≧؛؛؛,,,@♡؛؛؛,,,♤♤؛@♤؛؛؛,,,؛؛؛,,,//¶;://}◊😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔¯-‹\_◊-‹|_◊/¯-‹◊¯-‹ااااااااااا،،،،\_◊-‹|_|_◊/¯◊¯\-‹◊|🎉😊🎉😊🎉😢😊😢

  • @Bazila132
    @Bazila132 День тому +2

    Salaam mihedd!
    Love your videos from Kashmir 🍁🌟

  • @ilahamezaary4992
    @ilahamezaary4992 23 години тому +1

    Mihed!! Lemme tell you girl, you have done an amazing job with this one. The quality of the video and audio are amazing, you made your points clearly and helped me personally a lot, I cried twice while listening to it. I love the way I could relate to everything you said, except I never felt pretty in the past. Trying hard everyday to become more modest, wear less make up and do everything for the sake of Allah swt. Please keep reminding us cause “reminder benefits the believers”. Don’t worry about the times your thoughts flow freely, those are incredibly important thoughts that pass through everybody’s mind and give the podcast a real perspective. May Allah swt reward you for this and each episode. ❤

  • @meerabzahoor
    @meerabzahoor День тому +1

    I get this so baddds, if I don’t feel good or confident or comfortable in what I look like that day, my whole day is ruined 😭 it’s all I think about, and sometimes if I don’t wear makeup I regret and am like I SHLDVE worn it, then when I wear makeup I feel like I’m wearing too much 😭😭😭😭

  • @Nnnooo1
    @Nnnooo1 День тому +1

    Girl, we understand you at least I thoroughly did! I undersatnd exactly how you feel about the hijabi and makeup thing. No need to over explain yourself

  • @mwacheas
    @mwacheas День тому +1

    Eeekkkk I've been waiting for a visual pod for years😫❤️ thanks a bunch Mihed💋💋

  • @tamanna1514
    @tamanna1514 День тому +1

    yess, it makes so much sense- i felt that, ur not the only one. I feel like this episode came at the right time for me- I also wear hijab or trying to wear it the "right" way but there are days I truly do struggle and feel like this isn't for me but ik its a journey that takes time, there is so much we don't want to give up but at the end of the day we are doing it to please allah and not others. your honestly doing such a great job on this podcast it was definitely a good thing to address. Something is always better than nothing. Inshallah praying that you will achieve these goals for yourself and Islam.

  • @nissid7308
    @nissid7308 День тому +1

    Miheddd, do you have a link for the plastic coffee cups you’re using?😮

  • @Bepetocrossaint
    @Bepetocrossaint День тому +2

    Hold up the queen has posted

  • @OmAhmad-dz6cp
    @OmAhmad-dz6cp День тому +4

    16:30
    Actually one purpose of hijab is: not be attractive or show beauty to men who are not of your "maharm". So it is normal to feel like your hijab "turn off" your face beauty
    + don't forget that we live now in the era of everywhere beauty industry. Every day people spend millions of dollars just to look beauty! Our eyes just used to see a PERFECT face, make up and out fit.
    So it is a hard struggle for every hijab girl. But alhamdulillah it is not in vain because finally it makes thawab and ajr bigger

  • @Nafeesa_nafi
    @Nafeesa_nafi День тому +1

    ما شاء الله تبارك الله it's hereeee

  • @Naimah-zgd
    @Naimah-zgd День тому +1

    Allahuma Barik, love this episode💗💗. May Allah grant your heart desire💞

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому +1

      ameen same to you!!🤍🤍

  • @AaAa-qq5wr
    @AaAa-qq5wr День тому +1

    There are so many girls who don’t wear makeup or loose hijabs you don’t see them because they aren’t on social media. Farah is the only one i can think her but i think in general we should have role models in real life and not social media💘💘

    • @hafsusa6683
      @hafsusa6683 14 годин тому

      I agree, most girls who preserve the hijab correctly wouldn't want to be on the Internet 🤍

  • @mariamlovescoco
    @mariamlovescoco День тому +1

    If I had a face like yours (mA) I wouldn’t even care to wear makeup 😅

  • @its14na
    @its14na День тому +1

    love how you always post when i most need it 💗💗💗 may الله bless you

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому

      ameen, always here for you girl 😚🩵

  • @chhf08765
    @chhf08765 12 годин тому

    Wow mihed.. I love your words so much subhanallah you just have such qubul and acceptance whenever I hear your words I just feel so understood and SO grateful that somebody is also on the same track as me. genuinely we need more hijabis like you that promote true modesty because i also struggle with feeling like the only one that wears abayas khimars and no makeup to college 😭love you SO much mihed and I truly ask that Allah gives you every last bit of happiness in this dunya and the akhira and rewards you immensely for this🤍and girl idk what you’re ON, you are a NATURAL DROP DEAD BEAUTY- there’s nothing but pure nur I can see radiating from your face and that’s the best beauty habibti 🥺🌹COURAGEEEE mon amie

  • @balsammohammed9140
    @balsammohammed9140 17 годин тому

    as someone who used to do A FULL FACE everyday n wear my hijab a lil looser I was lit gettn compliments left right and centre and would lit get sm attention n it would feed my self confidence in a way u wouldnt imagine. Now, my neck is covered all my clothes are abbayas and i wear just concealer cz of my crazy eyebags so lit no makeup and wallah its HARD. I go to college everyday and hijabis are lit glammed up looking GORGOUSE like dead drop gorgouse and obv as if it wasnt even hard lookn at other girls who r pretty and dont wear the hijab NOW I HAVE HIJABIS TO COMPARE MYSELF TO BRO. Its a struggle however i want to say to any girl who wants to finally take the step IT WILL ALL PASS. For all ik this feeln might be w mw till the day iI die however when i go to jannah INSHALLAH this will all be worth it. Remember people in the day of judgment will describe their WHOLE lifetime as a DAY OR TWO so my honnest thought is THUG IT OUT bcse this will all pass before me n u even know it. Also remember the more u struggle the more hasanat u will get to embrace ur struggles instead

  • @aishaahmed6704
    @aishaahmed6704 День тому

    OMGG I LOVE FAJRNOOR YALL I can confirm they have the best quality abayas and the word for word Quran that they sell is amazinggggg for memorizing with meaning

  • @Morenikejiiii
    @Morenikejiiii День тому +1

    I’m here😭❤️

  • @hs6585
    @hs6585 18 годин тому

    Yehh like I’ve always Had this worry I seem plain and need to wear makeup even like at weddings that urge or my dark circles are shaking and I’m torn between wearing makeup and not or really dimming it down to light like using a blob of concealer but makeup that is revealing like foundation, lipstick, mascara and eyeshadow that all noticeable I try to avoid but man it’s hard 😭😭. And the not wearing jewellery like earrings and necklaces when ( I don’t mean this in a looking down way) but feels so normalised to do when you see social media but it’s like where to draw that line or beautification and just being yourself 😅

  • @IsraUmar
    @IsraUmar 21 годину тому

    Milhed, jazakallah khayr. Thank you for this video. I have never felt so heard and validated. Your thoughts are literally almost identical as mine. I always thought I was the odd one out fr, like I was alone in these thoughts. Thank you for being vulnerable, raw and honest. May Allah reward you abundantly,and may we unite in jannah so I can thank you personally 🤍🤍🤍

  • @meryemkhalfaoui845
    @meryemkhalfaoui845 День тому +1

    ❤❤❤ Misss yr vedios

  • @sharifatkone5454
    @sharifatkone5454 День тому

    Girl you ate with this episode!!! I literally resonate with everything you said I was getting scared I was like is this me or mihed hosting the episode 🤨🤨🤨 but the analogy of going to a fight with no weapons is so real. That is exactly how I feel now that I’ve started wearing abayas and skirts and no makeup. And honestly to be real it’s harder when I feel like I’m competing with the Muslim girls who wear makeup and the tight clothes idk I’m just like I could look that good too 😩. But we are not here for that like you said, and I always have to remind myself of that. Like we are here to worship Allah and the higher the difficulty of what we’re doing then the higher the reward. I ask Allah for steadfastness for all the amazing Muslim women around the world taking steps towards improving their hijab ❤️💋

  • @SafayyahTayee
    @SafayyahTayee 14 годин тому

    Mihed I absolutely love you and this. May Allah reward you and give you sabr. I totally understand and this won't change your mind because you don't see it yourself but you are truly so beautiful :)

  • @Nafeesa_nafi
    @Nafeesa_nafi День тому

    Love you Mihed, I have been eagerly waiting for your videos. May Allah bless you أمين يا رب ❤️💜 🎀 🌙🦋👜⭐😘💕💌🌹🍄💫🐻🍉🍒🎁

  • @q1ta
    @q1ta 13 годин тому

    girl im five minutes in and let me tell you i relate to the rebrand thing SO MUCH. i thought it was just me, ill always be changing aesthtetics and my room so often to feel 'fresh' 😭

  • @shirinshaikh6802
    @shirinshaikh6802 День тому

    Salam Mihed, I really like your videos and i get happy when you record a youtube video..... You are my support, your videos heal me in someway I get good vibes from you... You are my sister my friend in this world praising Allah swt getting a little closer everyday to Allah swt gaining knowlede of deen i hope to meet you someday take care.....

  • @SalihaCudri
    @SalihaCudri День тому

    Girl I literally go through the same thing I do wear makeup but 90% of the time I don’t because I always been a natural girl and since being covered up again it definitely has it’s challenges because some days I’m like I’m so pretty and other days when I throw my hijab on I’m like ughhhh especially now that I’m on YT and I go to edit my videos but girllll your beautiful and we need to remind eachother that the face card given regardless no matter what May Allah make it easier on all us covered girls and the girls wanting to cover Ameen 💜

  • @fariiduhh
    @fariiduhh День тому

    Salam Mihed! Fall in Pennsylvania is gorg!! Check out the Pocono mountains mid-October :)

  • @hedef_
    @hedef_ 19 годин тому

    Wanting to look good is something that is in our fitrah. Using these feelings in a halal circle will be useful. And thank you Mihad it was a beneficial video ♡

  • @hayleyabrams
    @hayleyabrams 23 години тому

    i finally feel understood after hearing you talk about getting overwhelmed easily, and thank you so much for talking about the internal struggles of staying true to islam

  • @ItsBoutheina
    @ItsBoutheina День тому

    20:40 it's like I just wanna be part of your symphonyyyy when it comes to seeing mostly everyone looking pretty on social media those days 😭 we got this bestie may Allah make it easier for us 💗

  • @itssmomina
    @itssmomina День тому

    Beauty! Benefical podcast Alhumdullillah ♥️♥️

  • @saywhaaanisa5427
    @saywhaaanisa5427 День тому

    So relatable and RIGHT ON TIME. Thank you Micheal ❤🎉

  • @TheRumanaHere
    @TheRumanaHere День тому

    Thank you Mihed!! I have been struggling with hijab and this podcast has helped heaps.

  • @maryamtairek4276
    @maryamtairek4276 День тому

    The internal thoughts are so real and they aren't really talked about , loved everything about this podcast !!!

  • @sabrazira
    @sabrazira День тому

    salam aleykum mihed 💞, this vid is so beautiful and i have been feeling the struggle without makeup as well but im so glad u mentioned it, needed this

  • @anwarfayha7530
    @anwarfayha7530 День тому

    First time completely hearing a podcast 💕Masha allah , its interesting 😍try to do up more 🤍🤍

  • @umm.mabsoett-hd9kf
    @umm.mabsoett-hd9kf День тому

    You should look up Farah. She also makes podcasts with hijab.

  • @aishaahmed6704
    @aishaahmed6704 День тому

    THIS IS SOO CUTESY
    Mabroook Mihed🥳🥳

  • @Fideyaaa
    @Fideyaaa 22 години тому

    Gurll thankyou for making me less alone about these struggles❤

  • @houdaaboud210
    @houdaaboud210 17 годин тому

    Your podcast are my safe place and my reminder for the akhira ❤

  • @imaneb3462
    @imaneb3462 День тому +2

    For the donations , how are they delivered please ? I know a family that needs food and some clothes . I have her number phone. Do you wanna text her ? No aids are reaching her and her situation is so hard.

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  День тому

      For individual families it’s better to share links, please start a go fund me and send it here!

    • @imaneb3462
      @imaneb3462 День тому

      @@MihedAsma thank you mihad for your response. How can can I create the "go fund me " ? I am really not familiar with this. If you can help i really appreaciate it.. I swear the pictures she's sharing with me are unbearable to even watch

  • @Razan_Hussien
    @Razan_Hussien 17 годин тому

    Love your podcast 🤍🤍 So pretty mashallah

  • @Lujyn37
    @Lujyn37 День тому

    thank you for feeding us today can’t wait to tune in

  • @safa2111
    @safa2111 День тому

    im in class and this showed up, safe to say i cannot wait to go home and watch this

  • @tahsinhossain1389
    @tahsinhossain1389 День тому

    Girl you are one of the most beautiful girls ever seen

  • @fatinii7710
    @fatinii7710 20 годин тому

    MashaAllah cantiknya

  • @thatgurlaminaa
    @thatgurlaminaa 14 годин тому

    ahhhhh I love this video format gurll

  • @a.s2764
    @a.s2764 День тому

    This made me so happy! Can't wait to watch x

  • @Lujyn37
    @Lujyn37 День тому

    delete all these comments i wanna be first

  • @md773
    @md773 8 годин тому

    Random but u have such a pretty voice mashallah

  • @elih9799
    @elih9799 День тому

    please post more often pleaseee 💞

  • @chanelalankaya6269
    @chanelalankaya6269 День тому

    MASALLAH ❤UR SO PRETTY❤❤❤❤

  • @us3r1100
    @us3r1100 День тому

    JazakAllah Khair💗

  • @Patrickstar-op6zi
    @Patrickstar-op6zi День тому

    I love this !!!!

  • @raniamhh_
    @raniamhh_ День тому

    The only thing i kind of disagree is that you associate beautifying urself to beautifying it to others, like girll you can wear a cute outfit, put make-up on js for urself (obv at home, not with non-mahrams). May Allah reward ur intentions and effort ❤❤

    • @maramadel6484
      @maramadel6484 День тому

      I think u meant with mehrams🤍 cuz with non-mehram it’s haram wether ur intention is for urself or no (mostly when u know it’s haram and u still do it is gonna be for others sake or following ur desires which would lead to worse things
      )

    • @raniamhh_
      @raniamhh_ День тому

      @@maramadel6484 yesyess I was meant to put a "not" before. Thank you, jazakallahu khair

  • @nolimitninii
    @nolimitninii День тому +3

    yesss can’t wait to watch this rn😭💕 love u mihedddd 🥰

  • @khadeeja2154
    @khadeeja2154 День тому

    i would kill to look like u

    • @Bbissou
      @Bbissou День тому +3

      May Allah make your journey to self love swift and easy! 🤲✨

    • @khadeeja2154
      @khadeeja2154 День тому

      @@Bbissou Ameen

  • @Dana0o
    @Dana0o День тому

    you‘re not alone💕💕 I am here struggling too- I am on my journey as well❤️‍🩹 I find it very hard as well & then shaytan also comes. But may Allah strengthen you and make it easy for you 💕 maybe write some reasons why you are doing it
    -Allahs pleasure
    -deen over dunya
    -reward etc
    Allah would never protect us from something (he protects us when he forbids sth) that is good for us. I can really understand your struggle, but really it’s in your head. If you could see yourself through my eyes you would know what I mean, allahumma barik.
    It’s also from the shaytan, like ofc he won’t just let you get closer to Allah
    It will become easier day by day InshaAllah

  • @sahamforever.
    @sahamforever. 14 годин тому

    Mihed don’t worry girl, you’re not the only one on this no makeup journey! It’s so refreshing to see others who are also perfecting their hijab for the sake of Allah 🤍

  • @aariefahjacobs1072
    @aariefahjacobs1072 День тому

    Loved this convo 🩷may Allah make it easy on all the ladies struggling with hijab , like Mihed said, it's important to build a relationship with your hijab , try to understand the reason behind wearing it ❤ You'll get there

  • @Rifia.1
    @Rifia.1 20 годин тому

    OMG guuuurl you are sooo pretty and beautiful machallah🫶🏼🫶🏼 Allahi hafdak🤲🏼🩷

  • @rada9572
    @rada9572 22 години тому

    my 1st time listening to you ill give u my feedback in 59mins☝🏻🩷

    • @MihedAsma
      @MihedAsma  17 годин тому

      where’s the feedback!!👏🏼👏🏼