Castle Milk Stout | Black Conversations Season 4 Episode 3 | BLACK FAMILY

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  • Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
  • This episode the panel discusses family dynamics and it's impact on one's world view.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 72

  • @enzo_za4847
    @enzo_za4847 19 днів тому +15

    Rip to Me Connie ❤
    I'm loving these conversations cause they're reminding us of who we're truly are🙏

  • @nthabi_n3494
    @nthabi_n3494 Місяць тому +32

    As a young woman, I would like to thank this platform, I'm definitely learning each and every episode. ❤

  • @wandi_kunene
    @wandi_kunene Місяць тому +34

    These kind of conversations need to be held more often in this morally deteriorating society

  • @charismagamez
    @charismagamez 19 днів тому +6

    Rest In Peace Mama ❤️

  • @Huli_Longtom
    @Huli_Longtom Місяць тому +16

    Thank you Castle Milk Stout for yet another AMAZING conversation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.

  • @bonganipercyzulu
    @bonganipercyzulu Місяць тому +15

    Bab Nimrod is so well articulate and wise, there so much truth and wisdom in his speech.

  • @iam_aphe
    @iam_aphe Місяць тому +6

    This is one of the most important platforms for SA, anditsho nje. Every episode has been very educational and engaging and gives you something to think about. Good job to this production. I'm a fan

  • @bonganiradebe3937
    @bonganiradebe3937 Місяць тому +10

    Conversations that need to trend because this is how we build a society

  • @lungamajombozi7969
    @lungamajombozi7969 Місяць тому +10

    uBab’ Nimrod was a great host! This was a lovely conversation and parents and youth can learn a lot from this!

  • @Huli_Longtom
    @Huli_Longtom Місяць тому +9

    Banele wasn't prepared for this conversation 🤐

  • @marvelmaweni1451
    @marvelmaweni1451 Місяць тому +12

    Not Mama Connie talking about girls not eating eggs right when I was indulging in them 😊 This was a nice conversation

    • @lovelyladylee275
      @lovelyladylee275 Місяць тому +1

      I know of a family where the girls did not eat eggs and they matured much quicker than me, i.e., teenage pregnancy

  • @mamolewamodiba9159
    @mamolewamodiba9159 Місяць тому +7

    As black families we also need to talk about change of mindset. Apartheid system from what we hear made a black person to believe less about himself. Can we learn and instill positive mindset in our next generation

  • @scelomathula1748
    @scelomathula1748 Місяць тому +16

    Mina nje ngibona ukuthi ni add 60 more minutes, these are beautiful and important conversations kant 'iskhathi sincane.
    Always great seeing u mama Connie Chiume no mama Lilian Dube. Okay. But please , iskhathi .. Aseblief.!?

  • @zandicarter5113
    @zandicarter5113 Місяць тому +9

    44:55 Banele Rewo said "... forgive your parents " profound advice

  • @makanyanemohau689
    @makanyanemohau689 18 днів тому +2

    Oooh!Lord this topic it's so painful for me😭😭😭.

  • @londiwembokazi447
    @londiwembokazi447 Місяць тому +5

    Nimrod is so good with holding a dialogue, good community skills, very wise and matured...I wish he could lead all the episodes in these conversations...
    *unxilile* 😂😂... I agree with Moshe ayy that guy is really off topic and really taking non sense...we need matured and wise people for the panel please.

  • @temaphangamkhonta9202
    @temaphangamkhonta9202 Місяць тому +5

    I need a conversation on Depression as Africans

  • @sanelesibeko4520
    @sanelesibeko4520 Місяць тому +10

    Shout out Smash for his fresh reasoning and season with his cheating self

  • @MphoDTladi
    @MphoDTladi 13 днів тому

    Thank you so so much Castle Milk Stout
    From Ancestral day to this episodes I thank you so much❤

  • @ayandaamaguguamahle
    @ayandaamaguguamahle Місяць тому +4

    I adore the honesty❤

  • @sinazonongena7541
    @sinazonongena7541 Місяць тому +1

    This is an insightful conversation and we need to have more of these conversations.

  • @user-mv7bq5ds9b
    @user-mv7bq5ds9b Місяць тому +2

    Great Episode and Profound Thank you Castle Milk Stout Salute👑

  • @florencenyelimane9980
    @florencenyelimane9980 21 день тому +1

    I really appreciate these topics ❤

  • @tlhalefontoe7238
    @tlhalefontoe7238 19 днів тому +1

    Love,loved this EPISODE. CAN WE HAVE PT 2?

  • @user-yn5vt6og3o
    @user-yn5vt6og3o Місяць тому +5

    Lillian mara😅😅😅

  • @tshepangmatome2900
    @tshepangmatome2900 Місяць тому +8

    I think this conversation are needed with an audience to interact with..........yes we appreciate the panelists but they are marginalized because they are speaking for themselves nevertheless thnQ milk stout for this conversation.
    I think we need the next topic shld be our townships and we also must be included not only celebrities or known figures🎉

  • @StarTown7634
    @StarTown7634 Місяць тому +1

    I absolutely loved this topic and all the panelists. I'd love to part of such conversations.

  • @Dutwice
    @Dutwice Місяць тому +2

    Amazing conversation yet again. Thank you for this important chat. Love it!

  • @melaniemolapo2765
    @melaniemolapo2765 Місяць тому +6

    Really enjoy these conversations

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 Місяць тому +4

    😂😂😂😂mme Lillian 😂😂😂"we must provide cz thy breastfeeded us😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mbalenhlenkosi2870
    @mbalenhlenkosi2870 Місяць тому +6

    Asian culture, especially Korean and Indian, live the practice of so-called "black tax". Parents educate and tend their children, and the understanding is that when the children are working, they then in return take care of their parents... to the point that as they age or are in pension age, they move into your space with your new family. Furthermore, having lived in numerous countries abroad, the government of these countries provide tax payments for any member in the working class who has a parent or parent in law in the pension age.

  • @josephmochoari
    @josephmochoari Місяць тому +12

    ke rata mama Lillian blynd🤣😂🔥

  • @bonolomarichen1446
    @bonolomarichen1446 Місяць тому +1

    These is what the boys need to here and I agree with everything cause I have experienced raising two kids one is just being maintained but father is not present and other father is just absent

  • @DJ_CODE_SA
    @DJ_CODE_SA 19 днів тому +2

    Rest In Peace Mme❤

  • @dumisanindlovu4396
    @dumisanindlovu4396 Місяць тому +2

    I believe the black family unit is evolving but with that said we need to keep the family values that kept our forfathers in the functioning communities they had.
    Our children need to be taught responsibility, accountability and commitment when you decide to engage with the other sex(vice versa).Marriage is the foundation of a healthy family structure. Kids need to be raised in two parent households.

  • @thabisograememahungela3272
    @thabisograememahungela3272 Місяць тому +3

    Yazi le ndaba yama black families needs another conversation. It is so crucial for us young people to listen and have dialogues about it. My 2 cent is that economic systems and social media are major influences when it comes to black relationships. Eskathini sa'manje all you need as a guy is to just have money and you can pretty much get most ladies. Like you no longer even have to be a good person. You just need to have money. Lokho kuyenza the standard to be so low, which spills down to people having children unplanned and with no family planning. Ladies khuphulani i'standard please because as ama'awthi yonke into siyenzela nina. If you could look at kahle kahle.

  • @eatile6403
    @eatile6403 20 днів тому +2

    REST IN PEACE MAMA CONNIE

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 Місяць тому +3

    I grew up with my cousins in my grandmother's house nd we were never allowed to say wena your someone's child we were one

  • @dunisanimakondo96
    @dunisanimakondo96 Місяць тому +3

    ah Mam'Lilian mara 🤣

  • @sibongisenitawoni4671
    @sibongisenitawoni4671 Місяць тому +2

    Enjoyed the conversation .

  • @lebohangmakgoka3316
    @lebohangmakgoka3316 12 днів тому

    RIP MAMA Connie Chiume 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

  • @MorganKhahlisi
    @MorganKhahlisi Місяць тому +4

    That was a short conversation though. I wanted to hear more.

    • @Huli_Longtom
      @Huli_Longtom Місяць тому

      I feel that way everytime they drop an episode, it always feels short

  • @KpepperGreen
    @KpepperGreen 8 днів тому

    Mom CONNIE!!!!😭

  • @siphosethusihlangu
    @siphosethusihlangu Місяць тому +1

    Beautiful as always

  • @user-oy9yt4rt1m
    @user-oy9yt4rt1m 23 дні тому

    "Ngya actisha" for me😂❤

  • @ubuhlebakwasibiya6087
    @ubuhlebakwasibiya6087 13 днів тому

    Rest in peace Mam Connie 💔❤‍🩹♥

  • @tebogomagz5797
    @tebogomagz5797 8 днів тому

    Rest in peace hle my baby❤❤❤

  • @ambanimuilambudzi
    @ambanimuilambudzi Місяць тому

    Big up to Castle Milk Stout.......

  • @omolemo4397
    @omolemo4397 Місяць тому +3

    a re black diamonds ? 😂

  • @itumelengmoloi6506
    @itumelengmoloi6506 Місяць тому

    "Ukhulumile boyfriend yam"😅😅😅mam Lillian

  • @HolloMatlala1
    @HolloMatlala1 Місяць тому

    42:52 My Life before 2020....Now ke Drama fela, Being a Black Christian in Africa is Hard.

  • @Masa6lackalion
    @Masa6lackalion Місяць тому +3

    Banele don't make sense 😅

    • @bonganipercyzulu
      @bonganipercyzulu Місяць тому +3

      I was so disappointed in him, he speaks like a typical kasi gent that doesn’t care

  • @JackieKennels
    @JackieKennels 15 днів тому

    I expected more from mam Lillian Dube than what she shared.

  • @HolloMatlala1
    @HolloMatlala1 Місяць тому

    #Truth from ma 2xstep Rings generation.... This is why I will never respect a person who splits or helps split a Black Family. If TODAY they can split a Family, TOMMORROW they can split a nation. But personally lets play the game and continue destroying future communities.
    Extended family's are destroyed by Feuds and competition leading to Spiritual Warfare, which can't be shared in the open

  • @ntombozukomatomane9826
    @ntombozukomatomane9826 Місяць тому

    Can they add ordinary South Africans who are not popular, we always hear from the same people. Diversity can add value.

  • @tigerwalkcommunications7426
    @tigerwalkcommunications7426 Місяць тому

    Cut the long intros guys for more time for conversation

  • @hopemoloto3299
    @hopemoloto3299 Місяць тому +1

    I understand helping your parents, but siblings kids ? Also I’m an only child, I might be removed.

  • @obinnasigenu4449
    @obinnasigenu4449 Місяць тому +1

    Banele is making a few good points but he is just an angry man, and to a certain extent he is not making sense.

  • @sarcynick
    @sarcynick Місяць тому +3

    Even our adults can't give each other a chance to finish talking🥲 #BasicRespect

  • @ditiloshupinyaneng9362
    @ditiloshupinyaneng9362 Місяць тому

    Lot of sobering conversations…🫱🏿‍🫲🏾💚👏🏿…base Mbo Siyabulela/Kwandele asivimbi…masigoduke…✌🏿💚🫱🏿‍🫲🏾