#1 Couples Therapist: You attract people who trigger your emotional wounds - Terry Real

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @gerrits_machinations
    @gerrits_machinations Місяць тому +24

    If you are having trouble hearing him his audio is in mono (only one ear of the headphones will hear him) and hers in in stereo (both ears) this means some speakers won't play his audio so try a pair of headphones or a different speaker

    • @jamesmbiyu5
      @jamesmbiyu5 Місяць тому

      yoooh i didn't know that

  • @ssing7113
    @ssing7113 Місяць тому +1

    Man. What wisdom in a nutshell
    Now off to go meditate and contemplate on those statements for next few weeks.
    Thank you. Never heard staying or leaving framed that way.

  • @masakios
    @masakios Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for the upload, and advices. It's exactly what we are passing through. Changing the communication from a powerful place to a connecting place is absolutely true

  • @elizabethporter358
    @elizabethporter358 Місяць тому +3

    So powerful …. clarity and closure. Thank you 🚪 🙏❤️

  • @MarianaGonzalez-le8yk
    @MarianaGonzalez-le8yk Місяць тому +2

    I totally felt when he said "take them to a therapist who will take your side" that's a key aspect of couples therapy. In my case I just wanted more physical contact and I ended up trying to change myself into a more avoidant person to keep the relationship...but in terms of the therapist I was getting to be independent

  • @samuel43834
    @samuel43834 Місяць тому +4

    Man those statements about the inner child and the love of yourself , I wasn't aware of that and it has helped me a lot not falling completely in love with one person, because I know more than love for her there is the need of external validation and being saved by someone else , looking for someone to solve my very own emotional problems

  • @maritamaltezaki8588
    @maritamaltezaki8588 Місяць тому +2

    Excellent presentation!❤

  • @avecamourskincarespa2548
    @avecamourskincarespa2548 Місяць тому +2

    Loved this so much, thank you

  • @KhushSoul
    @KhushSoul Місяць тому +2

    Where can I watch the whole interview? I love Terry Real!!

  • @BrendaRudman
    @BrendaRudman 6 днів тому

    Wherever there is addiction there is aggression

  • @shivangisingh395
    @shivangisingh395 Місяць тому

    Veryyyy good topic❤❤

  • @yeahnatya
    @yeahnatya Місяць тому +1

    Simply brilliant

  • @fivebooks8498
    @fivebooks8498 Місяць тому +3

    The pros and cons of leaving her are boarder line with me. I feel like other women are just as bad or worse. It’s not just the good parts of her that I’ll lose. It’s the fact I have to give her half of everything I worked for my whole life. If I didn’t have to give her half I would leave her in a second.

    • @BrendaRudman
      @BrendaRudman 6 днів тому

      Why do you have to give her half😢
      @fivebooks8498

    • @shay8183
      @shay8183 День тому

      That's so frustrating. :(

  • @4seasons546
    @4seasons546 Місяць тому +1

    Very good ❤

  • @goddessglow6996
    @goddessglow6996 Місяць тому

    I’m I getting enough of this relationship to make grieving what I’m not getting worth my while?

  • @lillylarson1484
    @lillylarson1484 Місяць тому +1

    👏👏👏

  • @drumflute
    @drumflute Місяць тому

    A MESSAGE FOR THAT U🤯: Its already decided others neednt interfere to cause annoyance , hope u got it what i meant, future is God's decision , dont give suggestions to choose next and again another next as trial before a final choice so thay you can continue with your dirty games, im surrounded by heavenly messengers if in need , mere humans dont pretend to be well wishers, i dont believe in you, u need not try to divert my mind for others who are crooked and negative minded , i can sense it very well, i deal with my problems in a calm way. i dont seek any consolation, this is an important matter i want to convey , im okay🎉 though amidst all fz maybe.