Exactly. No one is perfect they say. There must be dat one thing that is not still perfect in your eyes no matter how u try. That reminds me of the khoi people of south Africa if am correct. Naturally they are endowed with big butts. Still many people all around d world now pay huge amount of money to do BBL. Does it mean those women with that kind of butt are not healthy or they are suffering from one kind of illness or they are lazy to reduce their ass?
Damn… the ignorance is alarming I now see why this discuss needs to take place. I didn’t expect that a young guys like this would refuse to unlearn & relearn. Yeah, you might have a preference doesn’t make it a standard. Only consolation his he sort of added that there’s another perspective. Bravo 👏
The goal is to be healthy, build confidence and esteem ,to love yourself.. If there's so much more that you can do to better yourself, please do!! You can always do better as a plus size but while at it, Hold your confidence tight.! Do it for the right reasons not because society said. Selah!
Someone with insecurities projecting on others.... this guy is someone who has flaws, and he is projecting. From his points and views, he lacks emotional intelligence and just spews anything that drops as a thought in his head. The person he will marry, I wish her the best.
I doubt if this is scripted... Micheal is a nerd... He loves books and he has authored books too... He was my senior at Oxford Creative International School. We know him for speaking his mind. However, if you watch till the end, you will notice that he thanked the lady for opening him to another side of reasoning. God bless Micheal. 🙏
Toni God bless you,this small boy wey never see life is talking rubbish,calling someone's fat nature mediocre, I hope you get your healing soon, so you could see beyond your glasses
Two wrong statements he said: 1. Every woman should look like Tems 2. The value of a man is in what he provides. And then he says he doesn’t have a prime appearance. My opinion: Do not argue about self acceptance with someone that hasn’t accepted themselves. This is gaslighting at its peak! I honestly applaud the lady for her level of self control. God help us❗️
In this day and age that a lot of women do the provision but cover that up to massage their partners ego. If na only provision man fit give e no get use in this age and time.
I honestly hope this Michael boy knows what society says about people that look like him. Maybe then, he would calm down. If we all listen to what society wants or says then we are all doomed! Michael not excluded. Sad sad sad mindset to be in a young boy like this. I do hope age tells better on his deluded mind.
So you said Tems is your standard and you said you want slim women. Make it make sense. Just say you want a curvy girl, abi which one is delulu of a grown young man.
I honestly didn't believe humans like this existed until this video. Imagine someone spewing so much bitterness. Michael, you need to heal, you're too bitter.
First, Tolani isn't fat. Second, both of them are too emotional. Third, Tolani just described Michael and the women in the comment section are happy. Fourth, this whole podcast is to the supposed sorry-case of women. Fifth, Tolani is beautiful but she's expressing low self esteem. Sixth, everyone has a choice: Tolani described what she doesn't like in Michael. Seventh, I think Men should start this
Wawu! This is alarming. Why does it have to do with attracting a man? I will work on myself for myself not because of any one. Who even set the society standards though?
Toni is not even fat She's thick and beautiful and looks attractive There are very slim girls that want to gain weight and have a type of body .e.g me In my own opinion every girl has their body goals but what is unhealthy is if that body goal should be because of what the society want
I dont think he ever said not to love yourself, he meant do not accept yourself as being fat if you are fat not just because of society but because of the imapct on your health
The fact that a man thinks what he accepts or does not accept should affect how a woman see herself is crazy to me. It’s okay if you don’t find someone attractive but the audacity to believe your silly opinion should count to women who live in those bodies is insane.
The final Apology is the most annoying part for me cause it’s nt accepted…… you can’t hurt People with ur words and then come around and say sorry was your Brain Malfunctioning at first???
Omooooo….. ahhhhh hmmmmmm. Meeting someone like this will be a nightmare; funny how I read a book like this and I honestly never really understood how deep this goes. God will help us ohhh. People can honestly be soooo dumb. I’m sure that after all said sef; the character he’s playing will still be very dumb because 😂😂😂😂
This is so sad He has body dysmorphia and has a low self esteem It’s so sad He is trying to project his own low self esteem and body dysmorphia unto other people
@@marvelajayi1439 i said it's scripted because the episode about marriage, that was my spiritual mom of almost 2 decades and she has never held such opinions and thoughts to us like that.
So this one and his type will marry “Tems” body and then the lady will give birth or have hormonal issues that causes weight gain, then they leave? Anyway, this is why every woman must choose carefully, not following money only but value systems and thought process!
Toni, don’t stress yourself on this type of person that is talking about how women can change to fit into his idea of the beauty standards but cannot look into the mirror to fashion himself to the ideal standard of a man. Nonsense!!! Anyway, I just hope he learns something from because it is too bad.
I am fuming rn, this guy was on point but he just tripped for her. Y’all should face reality, being fat is just not acceptable mainly when you have the power to change it, face reality my dear. Stop creating safe spaces for yourselves. Safe spaces serves as a hideouts from reality, technically you can’t make any progress while hiding in a safe space. A man becomes shameless when he is trying to resolve his financial situation, if you’re trying to solve a problem you won’t mind people because you know that the situation will change soonest, you’re only looking for a safe space because you’re being lazy about changing your condition. If you ask them who their dream guy is, they’ll tell you rich, tall, handsome and God fearing. They have standard but we can’t, if we do then we’re called all sort of names. Y’all are actually guilty of messing up the society with the mindset that you have, not us.
Good day sir, First of all nobody said you should not have standards. Have your list for your dream lady…that’s all on you but please and please just leave we plus sizes alone in our world. When you see us and you don’t like what you see move on to the next, you don’t have to pressure us to conform to what you or the society paint as right. Secondly you say we are guilty of messing up the society…..please how does me being confident in my skin mess the society. It’s statement like this that make plus size people feel they can do better for themselves because their body size is hindering them.
😂😂😂 he is making me laugh....if you were created as a size 12, I agree with him that you should maintain it but aging defiles it later, same way he could not help the fact that he now uses glasses, he has thick lips n a sad skin but hey its not his fault
No man was created to be poor also,but woman come on national television to broke shame men elots .I guess is saying what he feels and want if you're not cool with it move
I'm just praying this is a scripted video with stupid editors and directors actually birthing this complete rubbish to life cos I have a lot to say to them
How about if I tell him, men should have full beards and no wear double lens, let’s not even talk about his broken tooth and terrible fashion sense…. Let’s start from there!
Telling me to stay healthy is completely different from body shaming me🥺🥺it’s really sad
No one can work their body into a certain shape. What kind of person is this guy? He should shape his eyesight into perfect 20/20, olodo!
His teeth too…rubbish!
Exactly oo
Or his teeth. Very nonsensical being.
That teeth is really annoying me. He didnt work to get his teeth to the standard of how teeth should look like @@TheDenikeOlori
Exactly. No one is perfect they say. There must be dat one thing that is not still perfect in your eyes no matter how u try. That reminds me of the khoi people of south Africa if am correct. Naturally they are endowed with big butts. Still many people all around d world now pay huge amount of money to do BBL. Does it mean those women with that kind of butt are not healthy or they are suffering from one kind of illness or they are lazy to reduce their ass?
Damn… the ignorance is alarming
I now see why this discuss needs to take place. I didn’t expect that a young guys like this would refuse to unlearn & relearn.
Yeah, you might have a preference doesn’t make it a standard.
Only consolation his he sort of added that there’s another perspective. Bravo 👏
I have so many things i want to say but I leave it to God.
Don't let them project their insecurities on youuu❤
The goal is to be healthy, build confidence and esteem ,to love yourself..
If there's so much more that you can do to better yourself, please do!!
You can always do better as a plus size but while at it, Hold your confidence tight.! Do it for the right reasons not because society said. Selah!
This guy just came out to say plenty rubbish... Beauty, they say, is in the eyes of the beholder!!
Is being fat healthy and attractive
@@ericgeorge4084is being skinny healthy and attractive?
@@chi9165yes😂
PLEASE CAN YOU PUT THE DOWNLOAD FEATURE FOR OFFLINE LISTEN!!!!!!
Toni you did good, thank you
Are you guys sure this thing is not scripted?
This can’t be the way someone thinks in real life 😫😫😫
If this is how he thinks, then half of the women in his life are doomed 😂😂
I'm praying it's scripted😢
Bro! It will shock u to know that many thinks this way
Someone with insecurities projecting on others.... this guy is someone who has flaws, and he is projecting. From his points and views, he lacks emotional intelligence and just spews anything that drops as a thought in his head.
The person he will marry, I wish her the best.
I doubt if this is scripted... Micheal is a nerd... He loves books and he has authored books too...
He was my senior at Oxford Creative International School. We know him for speaking his mind.
However, if you watch till the end, you will notice that he thanked the lady for opening him to another side of reasoning.
God bless Micheal. 🙏
This author/ nerd is really ignorant
Not all plus size women are lazy…Some of them are even more active than the slim ones who are supposedly more active.
Toni God bless you,this small boy wey never see life is talking rubbish,calling someone's fat nature mediocre, I hope you get your healing soon, so you could see beyond your glasses
Why’re they saying affordability as though women are commodities ranging in prices??
Exactly oo I don’t Blane him I blame those that go under the knife to look beautiful for men and those that will do anything for men
"I can't place my finger on it". Proceeds to place his silly finger on it.
This discussion/conversation seems deeper than it looks
Two wrong statements he said:
1. Every woman should look like Tems
2. The value of a man is in what he provides.
And then he says he doesn’t have a prime appearance.
My opinion: Do not argue about self acceptance with someone that hasn’t accepted themselves.
This is gaslighting at its peak!
I honestly applaud the lady for her level of self control. God help us❗️
In this day and age that a lot of women do the provision but cover that up to massage their partners ego.
If na only provision man fit give e no get use in this age and time.
@@temiloluwaakindele4685lies…he’s right on that statement, as man your value resides on what you can provide otherwise nobody gives a f about you
I honestly hope this Michael boy knows what society says about people that look like him. Maybe then, he would calm down. If we all listen to what society wants or says then we are all doomed! Michael not excluded. Sad sad sad mindset to be in a young boy like this. I do hope age tells better on his deluded mind.
Okay! The end was beautiful…. Watch till the end.
Who ever gets married to Micheal. Sorry oooooh
He is really not ready for a woman's body change during and after pregnancy
So you said Tems is your standard and you said you want slim women. Make it make sense. Just say you want a curvy girl, abi which one is delulu of a grown young man.
Same thing I said on Instagram
Tems is slim my dearrr
To him that is slim😂
Oh oh..I see😃
Y’all check what you’re dating Shaa ,All I could think of is the lady this guy is probably dating 😂😂
Does he know that his eye glasses is not preference traditionally? He should do something about it.
Girlsssss, let put ourselves in the fridge to preserve ourselves ohhh😭
Her closing remarks!🥺👏💯🙌
“That’s how all the men want them to look” . So if they call men to come out this one too will come out?😒
I'm a man but I will never understand some thing he said sha
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you can't be looking like this and have so much to say
Ohh please, even a size 8 could walk on staircase and pant
At the end it was beautiful.
From the thickness of his lens you should know he can't see.. he is speaking due to his inability to see
"I can get my body right" but you cannot get your face right🤣
Is Tems slim???
Took a lot of strength I didn’t know I had to watch this video
It is his extremely love level of emotional intelligence for me😂😂😂
I mean he made it clear he doesn’t have sisters. So clearly, he’s permitted to be this daft.
This is the best video one can lay hold of
Standard is better than preference
You can never put your finger on it .
God abeg o .
Who trained these boys 😢
Person dey display him insecurity dey blab like say he get sense 😂
I honestly didn't believe humans like this existed until this video. Imagine someone spewing so much bitterness. Michael, you need to heal, you're too bitter.
First, Tolani isn't fat. Second, both of them are too emotional. Third, Tolani just described Michael and the women in the comment section are happy. Fourth, this whole podcast is to the supposed sorry-case of women. Fifth, Tolani is beautiful but she's expressing low self esteem. Sixth, everyone has a choice: Tolani described what she doesn't like in Michael. Seventh, I think Men should start this
Which kain incoherent analysis be this na😂
This can't be real. Such backward mindedness😢
Wawu! This is alarming. Why does it have to do with attracting a man? I will work on myself for myself not because of any one. Who even set the society standards though?
Toni is not even fat
She's thick and beautiful and looks attractive
There are very slim girls that want to gain weight and have a type of body .e.g me
In my own opinion every girl has their body goals but what is unhealthy is if that body goal should be because of what the society want
I really feel sad for this young man
I dont think he ever said not to love yourself, he meant do not accept yourself as being fat if you are fat not just because of society but because of the imapct on your health
The fact that a man thinks what he accepts or does not accept should affect how a woman see herself is crazy to me. It’s okay if you don’t find someone attractive but the audacity to believe your silly opinion should count to women who live in those bodies is insane.
Life doesn't revolve around social media
Dis one na upcoming manosphere podcast presenter.
Who trained this boy🤦🏾♀️
This boy's mummy has been here earlier. They have the same foolery in common🙄
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Who's the mum , chaiii
The final Apology is the most annoying part for me cause it’s nt accepted…… you can’t hurt People with ur words and then come around and say sorry was your Brain Malfunctioning at first???
This is whats on ground😂😂😂😂 it reach your turn you are saying, this is whats on ground😂😂😂
HE ATE HER UP 😭😭😭😭😭
Your mum should have done better fr.
For women self he's not the beauty standards if we want to go there
Let's not go there😭
Omooooo….. ahhhhh hmmmmmm. Meeting someone like this will be a nightmare; funny how I read a book like this and I honestly never really understood how deep this goes. God will help us ohhh. People can honestly be soooo dumb. I’m sure that after all said sef; the character he’s playing will still be very dumb because 😂😂😂😂
This one that looks like bag of rice?? This boy is not alright.
It’s is crooked teeth for me and not being able to bag his spec and living on lulu land
This is so sad
He has body dysmorphia and has a low self esteem
It’s so sad
He is trying to project his own low self esteem and body dysmorphia unto other people
You can't be looking like the floor and saying all this 😂😂😂 please guy please
I just want to see his mother, girlfriend or wife
He's from my State 😭😭😭ahh he's embarrassing us
His life is so sad lmao😭. W his jagajaga teeth and his gold fish lense😭. I want to be chubby so bad guyyy🧍🏽♀️. My body isn't doing it tch.
Toni 🎉weldone my love. leave that short man with his big glasses😂 radarada
You have one life to live!!! Why not live it better by being healthy not fat.
The moment i realised that this show was actually scripted this way just to drive conversations, i stopped hating on these people 😃😄
It's not scripted o. I think they do surveys before bringing someone with a particular mindset. It's not scripted at all
@@marvelajayi1439 i said it's scripted because the episode about marriage, that was my spiritual mom of almost 2 decades and she has never held such opinions and thoughts to us like that.
You just never knew that side of her @@Thatsamemo
@@nancyokosi1 hmmm
Ahn ahn UA-cam saw delve first before Paul graham
So this one and his type will marry “Tems” body and then the lady will give birth or have hormonal issues that causes weight gain, then they leave? Anyway, this is why every woman must choose carefully, not following money only but value systems and thought process!
Toni, don’t stress yourself on this type of person that is talking about how women can change to fit into his idea of the beauty standards but cannot look into the mirror to fashion himself to the ideal standard of a man.
Nonsense!!!
Anyway, I just hope he learns something from because it is too bad.
Toni has said everything!!! 18:39
Coming from someone that’s not even a spec, see his teeth and his eye glass
See hin teeth like scattered bullet mtcheew
Not him sexualizing Tems..ew
I am fuming rn, this guy was on point but he just tripped for her.
Y’all should face reality, being fat is just not acceptable mainly when you have the power to change it, face reality my dear. Stop creating safe spaces for yourselves. Safe spaces serves as a hideouts from reality, technically you can’t make any progress while hiding in a safe space. A man becomes shameless when he is trying to resolve his financial situation, if you’re trying to solve a problem you won’t mind people because you know that the situation will change soonest, you’re only looking for a safe space because you’re being lazy about changing your condition.
If you ask them who their dream guy is, they’ll tell you rich, tall, handsome and God fearing.
They have standard but we can’t, if we do then we’re called all sort of names.
Y’all are actually guilty of messing up the society with the mindset that you have, not us.
Good day sir,
First of all nobody said you should not have standards. Have your list for your dream lady…that’s all on you but please and please just leave we plus sizes alone in our world.
When you see us and you don’t like what you see move on to the next, you don’t have to pressure us to conform to what you or the society paint as right.
Secondly you say we are guilty of messing up the society…..please how does me being confident in my skin mess the society. It’s statement like this that make plus size people feel they can do better for themselves because their body size is hindering them.
Funny thing if he's going by standards he is not up to the standard build for a man
There are better ways Micheal could have spoken but he chose otherwise. Anyways plus sized ladies gather here let's have a toast.
Hello babies…was this staged or real? Someone please let me know. Mansi boku
I expected this young guy to have sense but I’m so disappointed
😂😂😂 he is making me laugh....if you were created as a size 12, I agree with him that you should maintain it but aging defiles it later, same way he could not help the fact that he now uses glasses, he has thick lips n a sad skin but hey its not his fault
He said child rearing
No man was created to be poor also,but woman come on national television to broke shame men elots .I guess is saying what he feels and want if you're not cool with it move
It’s a family problem then…you should have said that earlier
I'm just praying this is a scripted video with stupid editors and directors actually birthing this complete rubbish to life cos I have a lot to say to them
This cannot be real
Expensive with that your crooked tooth,oponu oshi
Until I met social media, I didn’t know that “fat” and “Orobo” were insultive. 13:04
See him googles 😒😂 ODE boy. Talking about tradition Mtcheew …Cartoon isn’t real life.
see this short man parading himself with his broken front teeth.oga abeg take several seats
How about if I tell him, men should have full beards and no wear double lens, let’s not even talk about his broken tooth and terrible fashion sense…. Let’s start from there!
This is satire right?
maybe instead of crying surgeries and self consolation take the hurt and get to the gym
And I really don’t like the shape of his head
this is coming from a short man😀
So much ignorance here
This guy no get small sense
Please can you drop this guy’s handle?😭🥹🥹
I just want to say ‘hi’
"I can get my body right" but you cannot get your face right🤣
Like can you get your teeth right...😂😂
"I can get my body right" but you cannot get your face right🤣
Or his eyes right…..wahala just plenty