I love the self-control of the interviewer it's honestly top-notch! Nigerian Aunties/mums really need to stop body shaming, be it slim or plussize no one chose their size/looks. Sometimes, they, as the older people, are the insecure ones, and they try to put it on the younger ones, which is wrong and should definitely stop.
I think we need to start understanding that the older generation is different from us. They were taught a different thing, the same way I argue with my gen z sister about things. Interviews like this should be to educate and make people see your views. This particular interview felt argumentative and choking your views on the woman. She clearly kept saying you’re unattractive TO HER. So decorum and trying to make each other see your perspective should be the concept of these sessions. Remember the difference in view, generations and upbringing. Try to make people see your views WHILE understanding that this view was also pushed when we were kids as millennials. Calling people OROBO and all. Learn to get people to see the light without making them the villain. That’s what this interview was
The other woman is not the “older generation” please 😂😂 she is a young woman definitely not more than 45years old. Its the way they think AND dress that makes them look older than they are.
I think a plus-size person has somehow offended this auntie. I was shocked when she said plus-size woman aging faster than her husband. Says the 42 yr old woman that looks like she's in her 50s.
To think that the reasons behind their so called body shaming are so outrageous. I am not a plus size lady but I can attest that so many slim ladies are not as healthy as plus size ladies. Kindly allow people be themselves so that they can bring out the best in themselves ❤
Being plus size(fat) is affected by genetic and environmental factors which means that some fat people might not really be slim except through surgery, however what's more important is maintaining a healthy BMI between 18.5-25. I have a friend who is SLIM but his BMI was around 24. I don't even understand how that happened. Truth is that everyone need to stay healthy and fit. Exercise and eating healthy food is not left for the plus sized people. However, we won't neglect the fact that being obesed which is 'unhealthy' puts you at risk for certain medical conditions e.g hypertension, pregnancy complications, diabetes e.t.c I guess my point is that everyone need to be healthy and people shouldn't be stereotyped because of how you think they look. ❤
Every one is calling her aunty and she’s just 42years old 💀💀😂😂 here she is thinking that because she’s not fat, she looks younger but she looks like she’s pushing 60s. Her mentality and dress sense make her look way older.
I literally just had my health check and all my stats were well above average, blood pressure, risk of heart disease l, risk of diabetes, cholesterol, but I’m plus size, 🤦🏾♀️
Justice for Orobos oo as people fondly call it, this woman must have gone to school to study plus size woman because wow she knows so much about them. Mama pray for the forgiveness of sin ooo
Saying that been fat can lead to a broken marriage are lies from pit of hell. We have so many celebrities that have so many beautiful and society standard ladies,yet with broken marriages both nigeria and abroad
The part were she said a plus size person can’t do what a slim person can do got me because I just asked a “Maruwa” to get water to my house and I was carrying it into my house and my neighbour who is slimmer and “smarter” than me was just praising me that she could not carry it that she would just faint…..Biko how can I not do work better than a slimmer person
Eventhough i totally disagree with the guest on her opinions, the interviewer was very oppressive in her statements, and i know its as a way of defending herself overtime. She was even the one forcing her opinions on the guest
Wow, wow, wow. Can we actually internalize the fact that things like body size, skin colour, hair volume, dentition e.t.c. aren't things that people have control over primarily, if you then think to validate based on these things and not only that, force your opinion on people, it becomes a problem. Generally, life has happened to all of us differently, we can't all be slim, we can't all be light skin...(know this early enough), discipline, self control and being positive have so little to do with body size. There is more to your life than how you look. Have you noticed that when you acheive some things in life, people tend to overlook what they termed standards? Who even made who a judge of standards. Society has an unending thirst for what they think you should do with your life, so its you that owes yourself the best decisions in life, to be in health, to be confident and attain heights you wish to attain fulfilling purpose. I am a very Slim lady (emphasis on very Slim) and a lot of people have issues with that, i get bodyshamed often but guess what? That's your opinion, take it up with God, i didn't create myself and until you can successfully create what you think a perfect human is suppose to look like, we have nothing to discuss.
We should not be cruel to our neighbours, but shaming(constructively and with good intent) is a punishment for poor behaviour. There are advatages of being fat or plus-sized as we now call it, heck some even call it bold or chubby. But the disadvantages are greater. Being fit is the best thing a human can do for him or herself. A body-fat of 25% is okay, we do not need to be professional trainers. Having a healthy BMI is quite difficult in our current society, but it is still very doable. Fasting, exercising and dieitng go a long way to create and maintain a healthy and strong body.
so how do we explain to you that there are many factors that lead to people having body fat even more than 25 percent and there is nothing they can do about it even though they have tried? Especially women
Bro do you really believe this? Well, yes I can agree to the first statement. I was born broke no mean say I no go strive to be wealthier. Having a healthy BMI is reall y difficult espescially for individuals with low metabolism. But with intent and consistency one can actaullly attain that. We are what we eat.
God will help the milllenial and genz generation. Some of the points the woman made is true but the interviewer is still defending no matter what? Most fat is not natural and yes some fat people have health issues related to the amount of fat in their body. Whether we like it or not, what makes us fat is the type of food we eat and the quantity we eat, it takes a lot of self discipline to control what we eat so sometimes we like to use big big grammar to cover it up. Yes, slim people fall sick too and if the sickness is caused by an unhealthy habit they have then they also need to discipline themselves and stop the habit. Soo if someone is getting fat because of what and how much they eat then they need to also discipline themselves. We need to stop comparing ourselves with people who eat a lot and don’t get fat, that’s their luck, I sometimes wish I am like that but I am not, so I simply tell myself the thruth and try to discipline my eating habits. The woman made some valid points regarding health.
There are people with genetic predisposition to gain weight so this your point is a no...Some people are big boned and these adds to their weight gain experience. Some people also have huge jugs and these features to fit into your stature cause a genetic predisposition doe weight. Do actual research please
@@BeckyCultureMedia you made an overarching assumption on a situation you have biases on, I pointed out that circumstances vary and not most fat is unnatural. The right thing will be you taking the feedback shared and actually doing research on these issues so you won't have these biases anymore. I didn't invalidate your point, I explained that predispositions to fat exist and you should learn on them before saying MOST FAT IS UNNATURAL
@@michelleikomi8621 Most fat people are fat because of what and how much we eat, that's the fact. Only few are as a result of health conditions. Truth 🙌
@BeckyCultureMedia you are wrong to say MOST...menopause can cause weight gain, stress can cause weight gain, genetics can cause weight gain, bacterias in your gut can cause weight gain, lack of sleep can cause weight gain. Food is not the only way you gain weight please use Google and correct this wrong hypothesis
This woman is the true definition of "I no go gree". She still no gree till the end of the discussion. When society dictates who you should be, when will you now be yourself truly. So pathetic. This kind of aunties are tied to their thoughts.
I do not understand.... why as a woman, we believe everything we do if for a "Man"😅😅😅 how about doing things for yourself. What is "going for what guys want?" That's low self-esteem right there... period
Meh… It’s satisfying and empowering to be able to run for at least 10 minutes without constantly stopping due to excess weight, however caring so much about what society and men prefer will stress you out and make you look older than your age.
There are fat inactive and lazy people as well as there are slim inactive and lazy people. Where i have problem with people is when they are lazy and inactive. Infact being plus size will make you conscious of your health. But you see some slim people, especially the ones that don't have any genetic trace of being plus size, they can be careless with their health. I've seen people that when they added some pounds, they became more attractive and prettier than when they were skinny. Let the fat people breath.
People sef , can't you just accept people the eay they are, when you are on the plus size problem, when skinny wahala,can you just allow people breathe😂
There's something called BMI... once you start getting overweight and going into being obese, you need to watch it Being obese put you at risk of cardiovascular diseases, osteoarthritis, Diabetes, hypertension etc... major thing is to cut your calorie intake. U can control it if you are intentional about it. U r obese sister and you are not medically fit as you are at risk of a lot It's actually about what you eat majorly, work more on your calorie intake sister, if possible see a dietician Slim people are not saints but I say again , being obese put you at risk of a lot of medical conditions so start with seeing a dietician to help you cut down some calories through their counseling
So, she's not married because she's plus-size? Omo! I'm tired of how wild people's mind can be. She said there's no hope for plus size people and they can get old before their husbands. I said it. Size is just a matter that women nurse.
Honestly, many fat influencers and celebrities in Nigeria have done a lot to loose weight, and some of them have done surgery. We've Eniola Badmus, Lepacious Bose, Teni and RealWarriPikin. They said they lost weight so that they can be healthy. I know many plus size ladies that have to get knee cap replacement surgery because of their weight. Please being obese is not the ideal weight of a healthy person. Let's not deceive ourselves, it is not good to mock at people and make them feel less of themselves, it is not also good to be too fat.😊
This has to be the most I have been surprised and pissed at the same time. Unnecessary pressure and comments on issues from a warped point of view...so pathetic.
Shantel's personal awareness or should I say self-awareness is on steriod. plus self-control. Why should I slave myself with house chores when I can afford to outsource them while using my time for other things like resting, travelling or even working?
Wow why is she talking like she’s in her 70s I’m 49 and my opinion is nothing near this, so in Nigeria there’s no plus size women getting married, I’m plus sized and am active, play hockey every Week against slimmer younger women, Maria thinks that because she is slim she should be seen as superior and any threat to that hurts her,
While I get the interviewers viewpoint I strongly disagree with her statement on the husband of slim people begging plus-size people in their dms. Body shaming cuts across all sizes and don’t call a slim person “Skinny.”
You can pass your point accords without sounding somewhat derogatory towards the other extreme body size. Body shaming is completely wrong in any form.
Mentalities of these older generations need to change,Depression is real,There are a lot of smart chubby people out there,Some are very comfortable in their skin,allow people live their best life and not bring senseless examples like a chubby woman cannot carry baby,are you cursing the person?,Lets do better now 🫠
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I think they achieved something with these video's.. allowing grown up people have difficult conversations with some sort of respect
I agree. Making them know their archaic believes are not all totally true
I love the self-control of the interviewer it's honestly top-notch!
Nigerian Aunties/mums really need to stop body shaming, be it slim or plussize no one chose their size/looks. Sometimes, they, as the older people, are the insecure ones, and they try to put it on the younger ones, which is wrong and should definitely stop.
Wrong most people who are fat are that way because they can't control their diet and don't workout
I think we need to start understanding that the older generation is different from us. They were taught a different thing, the same way I argue with my gen z sister about things. Interviews like this should be to educate and make people see your views. This particular interview felt argumentative and choking your views on the woman. She clearly kept saying you’re unattractive TO HER. So decorum and trying to make each other see your perspective should be the concept of these sessions. Remember the difference in view, generations and upbringing. Try to make people see your views WHILE understanding that this view was also pushed when we were kids as millennials. Calling people OROBO and all. Learn to get people to see the light without making them the villain. That’s what this interview was
So on point👌👌👌
Taah
Exactly
The other woman is not the “older generation” please 😂😂 she is a young woman definitely not more than 45years old. Its the way they think AND dress that makes them look older than they are.
I completely agree with you
Omo....the way this benue woman deh think too funny😂😂😂😂
I'm surprised nobody has mentioned how pretty the plus sized girl is.. Also please there are a lot of men who are crazy about plus sized women.
She’s very pretty and confident. That’s attractive.
Well if we are talking about all men then not alot, few
I think a plus-size person has somehow offended this auntie.
I was shocked when she said plus-size woman aging faster than her husband. Says the 42 yr old woman that looks like she's in her 50s.
Even her head tie reaks of trouble
I am my own beauty standard
To think that the reasons behind their so called body shaming are so outrageous. I am not a plus size lady but I can attest that so many slim ladies are not as healthy as plus size ladies. Kindly allow people be themselves so that they can bring out the best in themselves ❤
Where do Joy Soap find people with this kind of communication?
This is sad totally and it’s nice having videos like this to enlighten and educate people more
Being plus size(fat) is affected by genetic and environmental factors which means that some fat people might not really be slim except through surgery, however what's more important is maintaining a healthy BMI between 18.5-25.
I have a friend who is SLIM but his BMI was around 24. I don't even understand how that happened.
Truth is that everyone need to stay healthy and fit. Exercise and eating healthy food is not left for the plus sized people. However, we won't neglect the fact that being obesed which is 'unhealthy' puts you at risk for certain medical conditions e.g hypertension, pregnancy complications, diabetes e.t.c
I guess my point is that everyone need to be healthy and people shouldn't be stereotyped because of how you think they look.
❤
people who are quick to point out the imperfections of others are insecure people trying to make themselves feel better.
Every one is calling her aunty and she’s just 42years old 💀💀😂😂 here she is thinking that because she’s not fat, she looks younger but she looks like she’s pushing 60s. Her mentality and dress sense make her look way older.
😂😂😂😂she is 42???? Hell no
I love the plus size lady 😍 her confidence 🤩😌😁.
It was borderline rudeness
Super well done to you. I love how you carefully pick your guests, the balance is topnotch.
We need to keep changing the narrative..
Well-done again
Please where do you find the “guests”? Just curious.
Sincerely I co-ask because.....
It can’t be that hard… people with such mindsets are everywhere
@@adewaletobi As in ehn.... It's so disheartening to know😫😫😫
I wanted to know too
I pray against this kind of mother inlaw 😩😂
Hit the gym and you wouldn’t need to worry about her.
Ride on my baby, you are doing really great 🎉❤
I literally just had my health check and all my stats were well above average, blood pressure, risk of heart disease l, risk of diabetes, cholesterol, but I’m plus size, 🤦🏾♀️
Justice for Orobos oo as people fondly call it, this woman must have gone to school to study plus size woman because wow she knows so much about them. Mama pray for the forgiveness of sin ooo
I cant believe she said theres no hope for plus size people to be married
Saying that been fat can lead to a broken marriage are lies from pit of hell. We have so many celebrities that have so many beautiful and society standard ladies,yet with broken marriages both nigeria and abroad
The part were she said a plus size person can’t do what a slim person can do got me because I just asked a “Maruwa” to get water to my house and I was carrying it into my house and my neighbour who is slimmer and “smarter” than me was just praising me that she could not carry it that she would just faint…..Biko how can I not do work better than a slimmer person
First question. Where do they get this people?. Did they volunteer themselves to be interviewed?
The root of the aunties beliefs is not by age, it's the environment of her upbringing 😢 it's well
I also started a talk show interview that’s based. On body shaming but some people should stop that. It makes us look uncomfortable.
I wish she asked Maria “when was the last time you ran”
Some older people need a renewing of mind. See the way the woman is talking rubbish with confidence. It is well
Do you get!!!! Absolute rubbish. I know a lot of very smart plus size ladies, I mean very smart.
She’s not even upto 47
Eventhough i totally disagree with the guest on her opinions, the interviewer was very oppressive in her statements, and i know its as a way of defending herself overtime. She was even the one forcing her opinions on the guest
This is going to be painful to watch. I don't think I am ready yet.
Wow, wow, wow.
Can we actually internalize the fact that things like body size, skin colour, hair volume, dentition e.t.c. aren't things that people have control over primarily, if you then think to validate based on these things and not only that, force your opinion on people, it becomes a problem.
Generally, life has happened to all of us differently, we can't all be slim, we can't all be light skin...(know this early enough), discipline, self control and being positive have so little to do with body size. There is more to your life than how you look. Have you noticed that when you acheive some things in life, people tend to overlook what they termed standards? Who even made who a judge of standards.
Society has an unending thirst for what they think you should do with your life, so its you that owes yourself the best decisions in life, to be in health, to be confident and attain heights you wish to attain fulfilling purpose.
I am a very Slim lady (emphasis on very Slim) and a lot of people have issues with that, i get bodyshamed often but guess what? That's your opinion, take it up with God, i didn't create myself and until you can successfully create what you think a perfect human is suppose to look like, we have nothing to discuss.
We should not be cruel to our neighbours, but shaming(constructively and with good intent) is a punishment for poor behaviour. There are advatages of being fat or plus-sized as we now call it, heck some even call it bold or chubby. But the disadvantages are greater. Being fit is the best thing a human can do for him or herself. A body-fat of 25% is okay, we do not need to be professional trainers. Having a healthy BMI is quite difficult in our current society, but it is still very doable. Fasting, exercising and dieitng go a long way to create and maintain a healthy and strong body.
so how do we explain to you that there are many factors that lead to people having body fat even more than 25 percent and there is nothing they can do about it even though they have tried? Especially women
@@ayosays5846especially hormonal issues!😢
@@ayosays5846 please enlighten me, what factors asides; 1. Calorie surplus, 2. Slow metabolism, 3. genes, 4. Low activity, 5. Low resting metabolic rate. 6. Stress and poor sleep
This wonan oh. Her patience is something else
“Do you eat ice cream?” Really, aunty?
😂😂😂😂
Meaning if your husband gains weight you will divorce him?
Hello baby girl, it been a long while🥰🥰 🥰
Where do they see these aunties sef?
But most of plus size people are not the cause of their plus size nah.
So society should not make them feel less of their-self.
Bro do you really believe this? Well, yes I can agree to the first statement. I was born broke no mean say I no go strive to be wealthier. Having a healthy BMI is reall y difficult espescially for individuals with low metabolism. But with intent and consistency one can actaullly attain that. We are what we eat.
@@geezforex2635just because you threw a few knowledgeable words around doesnot mean that you are wise like you think.
Educate yourself biko
God will help the milllenial and genz generation. Some of the points the woman made is true but the interviewer is still defending no matter what?
Most fat is not natural and yes some fat people have health issues related to the amount of fat in their body.
Whether we like it or not, what makes us fat is the type of food we eat and the quantity we eat, it takes a lot of self discipline to control what we eat so sometimes we like to use big big grammar to cover it up.
Yes, slim people fall sick too and if the sickness is caused by an unhealthy habit they have then they also need to discipline themselves and stop the habit. Soo if someone is getting fat because of what and how much they eat then they need to also discipline themselves.
We need to stop comparing ourselves with people who eat a lot and don’t get fat, that’s their luck, I sometimes wish I am like that but I am not, so I simply tell myself the thruth and try to discipline my eating habits.
The woman made some valid points regarding health.
There are people with genetic predisposition to gain weight so this your point is a no...Some people are big boned and these adds to their weight gain experience.
Some people also have huge jugs and these features to fit into your stature cause a genetic predisposition doe weight.
Do actual research please
@@michelleikomi8621 My point is not a "no" yours is just an addition to it. Everything I said is valid. Do your research 😊
@@BeckyCultureMedia you made an overarching assumption on a situation you have biases on, I pointed out that circumstances vary and not most fat is unnatural.
The right thing will be you taking the feedback shared and actually doing research on these issues so you won't have these biases anymore.
I didn't invalidate your point, I explained that predispositions to fat exist and you should learn on them before saying MOST FAT IS UNNATURAL
@@michelleikomi8621 Most fat people are fat because of what and how much we eat, that's the fact. Only few are as a result of health conditions. Truth 🙌
@BeckyCultureMedia you are wrong to say MOST...menopause can cause weight gain, stress can cause weight gain, genetics can cause weight gain, bacterias in your gut can cause weight gain, lack of sleep can cause weight gain.
Food is not the only way you gain weight please use Google and correct this wrong hypothesis
Madam auntie u are looking so older than 42😂😂i thought d auntis is 50 plus o,untill she mentioned 42 and she is slim o😂
Where do you find the kind of people you bring on the show? Smh
No for real tho, where do they find these people with this level of confidence for rubbish
I am beginning to think it is staged cos do people like this really exist?😂
This woman is the true definition of "I no go gree". She still no gree till the end of the discussion. When society dictates who you should be, when will you now be yourself truly. So pathetic. This kind of aunties are tied to their thoughts.
She’s 42 yet looking older than 60
Obesity is a risk factor to most Non communicable diseases 🙂
I do not understand.... why as a woman, we believe everything we do if for a "Man"😅😅😅 how about doing things for yourself. What is "going for what guys want?" That's low self-esteem right there... period
You that is 42 looking like my mom that is almost 60, okay ooo
This “auntie” is totally unrepentant 😂😂
Meh… It’s satisfying and empowering to be able to run for at least 10 minutes without constantly stopping due to excess weight, however caring so much about what society and men prefer will stress you out and make you look older than your age.
There are fat inactive and lazy people as well as there are slim inactive and lazy people. Where i have problem with people is when they are lazy and inactive.
Infact being plus size will make you conscious of your health. But you see some slim people, especially the ones that don't have any genetic trace of being plus size, they can be careless with their health.
I've seen people that when they added some pounds, they became more attractive and prettier than when they were skinny. Let the fat people breath.
People sef , can't you just accept people the eay they are, when you are on the plus size problem, when skinny wahala,can you just allow people breathe😂
There's something called BMI... once you start getting overweight and going into being obese, you need to watch it
Being obese put you at risk of cardiovascular diseases, osteoarthritis, Diabetes, hypertension etc... major thing is to cut your calorie intake. U can control it if you are intentional about it.
U r obese sister and you are not medically fit as you are at risk of a lot
It's actually about what you eat majorly, work more on your calorie intake sister, if possible see a dietician
Slim people are not saints but I say again , being obese put you at risk of a lot of medical conditions so start with seeing a dietician to help you cut down some calories through their counseling
So, she's not married because she's plus-size? Omo! I'm tired of how wild people's mind can be. She said there's no hope for plus size people and they can get old before their husbands. I said it. Size is just a matter that women nurse.
“Do you take icecream “ 😂😂😂
Wo e weak me too😅😅
The question came unprovoked 😂. Like from where to where?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ei
Honestly, many fat influencers and celebrities in Nigeria have done a lot to loose weight, and some of them have done surgery. We've Eniola Badmus, Lepacious Bose, Teni and RealWarriPikin. They said they lost weight so that they can be healthy. I know many plus size ladies that have to get knee cap replacement surgery because of their weight. Please being obese is not the ideal weight of a healthy person. Let's not deceive ourselves, it is not good to mock at people and make them feel less of themselves, it is not also good to be too fat.😊
Most men love plus size women.....till it's time to settle down and they start looking for Genevieve Nnaji 😂
lol… you’re not nice at all.
Even Yul edochie???
First to comment
42 .. ha. You don't mean it! You look older Madam !
The makeup did not help😅
I mean, she's only 42, having perspective of a 62yrs old 😟
This woman is 42 ,but she looks like my 87 year old mom.
This is not older generation , common she is just 42. She should do better. Calling someone un attractive
Megan it’s her guts for me🤦🏼♀️ so annoying,anyways I give it to this interviewer she so calm
This has to be the most I have been surprised and pissed at the same time. Unnecessary pressure and comments on issues from a warped point of view...so pathetic.
Even she that is slim loooks like a 60year old woman
I have a slim friend that’s as lazy as hell
Why will you carry me for Christ sake
Shantel's personal awareness or should I say self-awareness is on steriod. plus self-control.
Why should I slave myself with house chores when I can afford to outsource them while using my time for other things like resting, travelling or even working?
I pity her daughter in-law in future if she’s on the big side
Is it really about the men 🤦♀️🤦♀️
So we fat people should stop ice cream
42 ke!!!!!! Nah
Wow why is she talking like she’s in her 70s I’m 49 and my opinion is nothing near this, so in Nigeria there’s no plus size women getting married, I’m plus sized and am active, play hockey every
Week against slimmer younger women, Maria thinks that because she is slim she should be seen as superior and any threat to that hurts her,
How old is the old woman again??? 42 eiiiiii hmmm and she’s body shaming 😅
This older woman is pissing me off
While I get the interviewers viewpoint I strongly disagree with her statement on the husband of slim people begging plus-size people in their dms.
Body shaming cuts across all sizes and don’t call a slim person “Skinny.”
You can pass your point accords without sounding somewhat derogatory towards the other extreme body size. Body shaming is completely wrong in any form.
With her bad English 🤦♀️🤦♀️nextttt
Mentalities of these older generations need to change,Depression is real,There are a lot of smart chubby people out there,Some are very comfortable in their skin,allow people live their best life and not bring senseless examples like a chubby woman cannot carry baby,are you cursing the person?,Lets do better now 🫠
I am my own beauty standard
I am my own beauty standard
I am my own beauty standard
I am my own beauty standard