All these passport brothers think it’s easy just to go to another country and find a traditional wife without learning her culture and traditions are delusionals.
Many Americans look down on immigrants who don’t speak English. Well, people in other countries feel the same way when Americans immigrate without trying seriously to learn the language.
Maybe they wouldn't need to go to such lengths if their nations society didn't so heavily favor women over men. You don't need to be a misogynist to see this.
As someone who lives in SEA, I wish you would be true, but the reality, sadly, is that many SEA women regardless of age would still marry you if you don't even understand the most basic parts of their language. On the other hand, I know about a dozen couples who happily live together for years...without understanding each other.
Finally, another culture making an American accountable for learning the local language. If u move to another non-English speaking country, don’t expect everyone to speak English with you just because you’re American and English is considered the global language. 😅
@@Jprager uhmmm same is true with any other language. Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Russian, Polish, Arab, Hindi, and more… Mono-lingual Americans expect others to speak English to them, and yet they do not make the effort to learn the other language even if they want to live there. 🤷🏻♀️
I know another Indonesian who married the British. The husband want to learn bahasa and other Indonesian culture but the wife refused to teach him and just made fun of his pronunciation. No, she doesn't speak English properly or wants to learn the husband culture either, it was a very weird relationship.
1) Why did he not bring a Google Translator App on his phone to converse in Indonesian lanuage with her parents? 2) Her parents already accepted her living in USA, all he had to do was move to warm climate like Florida and with his elevator tech skills, he could have earned over $100K/year,. 3) He knew indonesian culture very big on having children so he must keep his promise. He is so stupid.
I don't like to judge but I knew they weren't smart when he quit his job and let his parents down for the second time too struggle with his SO in a different country where they will share a house with 7 people. It is far from rational logic.
To be fair, the promises he made were extorted out of him by the father who thinks he owns his daughter, and made them a conditions for him to marry her...
Women are treated as commodities in many Asian countries. In China and Thailand, for example, you still pay the dowry to marry the girl and the man's family has to pay for the wedding, housing and so on. James should have known what he was getting into
This couple is the worst. So deceitful! Bless their innocent dog. I hope his family gets custody of the dog because these two misfits do not deserve to be in charge of another living being.
I don’t like this guy. He reminds me of my ex who is nice at times, but keeps secrets from his parents. This dude had plenty of time to learn the language. There are UA-cam videos and also his wife could have helped as well. Although I do believe that they look cute together, but it wasn’t fair to her that she didn’t know that he never wanted kids.
My partner has been going to Indonesia with me to visit my family for the past 9 years yet has never learnt the language, or even my dialect. So I guess it takes time. Especially when I was translating all the time for him. In Holland, I learnt to teach in Dutch within 3 years because I didn’t have a translator with me, so i was forced to learnt fast. Takes 2 to tango.
James James James ….. your word is the only thing you have!! You give your word to another man, especially a father law that should not be broken!! Regardless how you “feel”.
James should not be an ingrate. He is there for free. He should reserve his comments to himself. If he wants a nice accomodation then he should rent according to his taste... On the other hand, before you date anyone, make sure you can communicate!
What about them learning English? He left his parents and a good job. Hope he doesn't end up with nothing. Now they make the rules, they force the daughter also to have children, what a life !First steady job ,then children ,if he wants them.
no way he'll be stayin there,obviously just for the show,at least many ppl who watch this will appreciate their blessings nd bathrooms with no lizzards lol
That's what you get when you don't communicate to people. And what's exactly wrong with the lizards ?? They are totally normal to pop up in the house even here in Italy and they are very useful. Do you have a need to extinct every being alive?
This man gave up on American women. I’m sorry his high school sweet heart broke his heart…. But he is going to learn that is he very American and he needs a western woman. This situation is going to be set on fire and it’s going to be Asian dramatic with an American looking around like WTF did I get myself into!!!!
These 2 are shady seem like scammers. The fake unecessary crying over absolutely nothing is strange in itself but seems they do it to manipulate the situation.
Meitalia gets mad and downright nasty with James for having to translate for him. I think she is being ridiculous to think he will master her language right away. She seems to have a lot of resentment towards him. I don't know why she thinks they should have a baby when they can't even make enough money to feed themselves. She can make so much more money in the states. He should have thought twice before marrying her. He moved from his home to live in poverty. She doesn't get it!
Well I met my igbo husband thru mutual friends whom live in Australia and 7yrs we dated long distance and now married for 8yrs on top. But we did the ldr thing for 7yrs near 8yrs😂
Is he supposed to live in Indonesia? Or is the lady going to the USA to live? Also anyone with an ounce of respect for others especially when you’re a family or going to be a family will try to learn to communicate together - that means the father too.
You mean the father who was not informed about them crushing his place for life and was kind enough to give them the space? You are still more entitled?
These men need to realize it harder to take care of foreign women the culture diffference and obligation family wise is different. Should have found a women where he was and fiancially independent.
Every American thats gets with a different culture they expect for them to do something in return for being with there daughter like fix our home send us money take care of our families like have you ever Heard of getting a Job and support ur own family 😡
How about the fact he lets them live in his house ?! It's not a hotel. Also your culture is build on exploiting cheap labour and other countries so it's only fair you give something in return.
I've visited my mum and dad's home country, and I was pretty much the same. It's not always easy to process a huge change in the standard of living one is used to. These men can never find middle-class women from these countries wonder why lol
They are elderly. It was HIS DECISION to enter that culture. Why would they be forced to change based on someone else's decision?? Please count American parents who learned local language of a fiancé moving to USA. Or does this work only one way ??
All these passport brothers think it’s easy just to go to another country and find a traditional wife without learning her culture and traditions are delusionals.
technically shes a passport sister. She moved to his country
My Brazilian wife left me!!!!😖
Many Americans look down on immigrants who don’t speak English. Well, people in other countries feel the same way when Americans immigrate without trying seriously to learn the language.
Maybe they wouldn't need to go to such lengths if their nations society didn't so heavily favor women over men. You don't need to be a misogynist to see this.
As someone who lives in SEA, I wish you would be true, but the reality, sadly, is that many SEA women regardless of age would still marry you if you don't even understand the most basic parts of their language.
On the other hand, I know about a dozen couples who happily live together for years...without understanding each other.
James is so hopeless. Metalia is like Jasmine+Mary 2.0. The combined version of the most emotionally volatile women on 90 Day.
Not to mention, she also has a touch of Angela Deem. She’s emotionally unstable
Absolutely 💯 she is worse than all those three combined. She pretends to be a victim she is terrible
Meitalia*
@@renatosantosreviews2000 who cares about her name she is useless and an abuser
He's living in a rude awakening! People need to think about seriously about other people's culture!
Exactly
Yes, especially if he promised 5 years ago
Finally, another culture making an American accountable for learning the local language. If u move to another non-English speaking country, don’t expect everyone to speak English with you just because you’re American and English is considered the global language. 😅
But if an American tries to get a foreigner to learn English in America, it's racist, lol.
Bahasa is a very specific language though, it’s not easy to come by allot of speakers around the world
But if an American does that, it's wacist. You guys are so funny.
he needs to be in indenosia to learn though .he s not going to learn alone in the US
@@Jprager uhmmm same is true with any other language. Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Russian, Polish, Arab, Hindi, and more… Mono-lingual Americans expect others to speak English to them, and yet they do not make the effort to learn the other language even if they want to live there. 🤷🏻♀️
She should also be accountable for not teaching/practice her language when they were living together in America, both are very irresponsible
I know another Indonesian who married the British. The husband want to learn bahasa and other Indonesian culture but the wife refused to teach him and just made fun of his pronunciation.
No, she doesn't speak English properly or wants to learn the husband culture either, it was a very weird relationship.
1) Why did he not bring a Google Translator App on his phone to converse in Indonesian lanuage with her parents? 2) Her parents already accepted her living in USA, all he had to do was move to warm climate like Florida and with his elevator tech skills, he could have earned over $100K/year,. 3) He knew indonesian culture very big on having children so he must keep his promise. He is so stupid.
Yea, they are not very bright, lol
I don't like to judge but I knew they weren't smart when he quit his job and let his parents down for the second time too struggle with his SO in a different country where they will share a house with 7 people. It is far from rational logic.
It won't last, because James I don't think he will stay in Indonesia forever, he needs to man up and stop being controlled by his wife.
Hes a man child
I just found out about this guy. Really don’t like him at this point. Huge red flag he doesn’t keep his promises. Loser
To be fair, the promises he made were extorted out of him by the father who thinks he owns his daughter, and made them a conditions for him to marry her...
Women are treated as commodities in many Asian countries. In China and Thailand, for example, you still pay the dowry to marry the girl and the man's family has to pay for the wedding, housing and so on. James should have known what he was getting into
This couple is the worst. So deceitful! Bless their innocent dog. I hope his family gets custody of the dog because these two misfits do not deserve to be in charge of another living being.
I know! Jojo is precious!
They just need James to fix everything for them.
James is a complete disappointment for everyone except for the 90 day fiance producers 😂
I don’t like this guy. He reminds me of my ex who is nice at times, but keeps secrets from his parents. This dude had plenty of time to learn the language. There are UA-cam videos and also his wife could have helped as well. Although I do believe that they look cute together, but it wasn’t fair to her that she didn’t know that he never wanted kids.
My partner has been going to Indonesia with me to visit my family for the past 9 years yet has never learnt the language, or even my dialect. So I guess it takes time. Especially when I was translating all the time for him. In Holland, I learnt to teach in Dutch within 3 years because I didn’t have a translator with me, so i was forced to learnt fast. Takes 2 to tango.
The things men do for love I'd never go to a poor country without knowing the language he will regret it
Indonesia is not a “poor country”! Bali is there. And every country has great and not so great areas. It’s ignorant to think otherwise.
Some of these countries you call poor are in that state because of your rich country, you need them to stay poor so you can be rich
James James James ….. your word is the only thing you have!! You give your word to another man, especially a father law that should not be broken!! Regardless how you “feel”.
That won’t be the first promise he breaks
James should not be an ingrate. He is there for free. He should reserve his comments to himself. If he wants a nice accomodation then he should rent according to his taste... On the other hand, before you date anyone, make sure you can communicate!
This makes no sense
He's pathetic
He could have learned Indonesian by now. It's not hard to learn
he probably never thought he would be moving so why learn the language...
So he expects her entire family to learn the language for him probably why the sister doesn't like him
What about them learning English? He left his parents and a good job. Hope he doesn't end up with nothing. Now they make the rules, they force the daughter also to have children, what a life !First steady job ,then children ,if he wants them.
His in their country
no way he'll be stayin there,obviously just for the show,at least many ppl who watch this will appreciate their blessings nd bathrooms with no lizzards lol
That's what you get when you don't communicate to people. And what's exactly wrong with the lizards ?? They are totally normal to pop up in the house even here in Italy and they are very useful. Do you have a need to extinct every being alive?
so liar liar liar and we are supposed to think he is okay. gee tell us more about first failed marriage
He is clueless 🫣
This man gave up on American women. I’m sorry his high school sweet heart broke his heart…. But he is going to learn that is he very American and he needs a western woman. This situation is going to be set on fire and it’s going to be Asian dramatic with an American looking around like WTF did I get myself into!!!!
These 2 are shady seem like scammers. The fake unecessary crying over absolutely nothing is strange in itself but seems they do it to manipulate the situation.
Meitalia gets mad and downright nasty with James for having to translate for him. I think she is being ridiculous to think he will master her language right away. She seems to have a lot of resentment towards him. I don't know why she thinks they should have a baby when they can't even make enough money to feed themselves. She can make so much more money in the states. He should have thought twice before marrying her. He moved from his home to live in poverty. She doesn't get it!
This guy… why do people do these things? Never date out of your culture if you don’t plan on learning it.
She's way too good for brandon 2.0!
my love story now better than this couple 😂 im indonesian with american too
Same here mine better, I am Indonesian too, only thing my fiancee is British. 😅
Well I met my igbo husband thru mutual friends whom live in Australia and 7yrs we dated long distance and now married for 8yrs on top. But we did the ldr thing for 7yrs near 8yrs😂
Hope everythings doing well you Guys 💕 LDR isnt easy things 🙏🏻
Im here 5years relationship too ✊🏻
what a dump
*THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BABY TWO ADULTS* ‼️😭
Is he supposed to live in Indonesia? Or is the lady going to the USA to live? Also anyone with an ounce of respect for others especially when you’re a family or going to be a family will try to learn to communicate together - that means the father too.
You mean the father who was not informed about them crushing his place for life and was kind enough to give them the space? You are still more entitled?
What do you expect! Thrid world country ? Do the research dude
😂😂😂 this man is in for it!🙆🏾♂️
On the list of annoying couples….:
These men need to realize it harder to take care of foreign women the culture diffference and obligation family wise is different. Should have found a women where he was and fiancially independent.
Bruh 5 years is plenty of time to download Duolingo at the very least
If they expect him to learn Indonesian they should also learn to speak a lick of English.
Are they in America?
That guy is so frking cringe
This is really a dramatic episode.Kids..
That girls nickname is crybaby 😂
Speaking English with a weird semi-Indonesian accent will not make these people understand you 😂😂😂😂
I am not giving up my cushy American life for anything.
You not giving up food stamps you mean😂😂
😮😮😢😢
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Roach in the corner of room timestamp 00:17
Every American thats gets with a different culture they expect for them to do something in return for being with there daughter like fix our home send us money take care of our families like have you ever Heard of getting a Job and support ur own family 😡
How about the fact he lets them live in his house ?! It's not a hotel. Also your culture is build on exploiting cheap labour and other countries so it's only fair you give something in return.
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The ignorance of Americans when they dealing with other cultures.....so selfish
I would bet you're just as, if not more selfish. 😅
I've visited my mum and dad's home country, and I was pretty much the same. It's not always easy to process a huge change in the standard of living one is used to. These men can never find middle-class women from these countries wonder why lol
Bum
I don't like her or her parents..Her parents should learn a little english if he learns their language..its only fair
They are elderly. It was HIS DECISION to enter that culture. Why would they be forced to change based on someone else's decision?? Please count American parents who learned local language of a fiancé moving to USA. Or does this work only one way ??