@@jasg771 OR… she could actually use effort into getting her U.S. visa so she can work, apply for a driver’s license, and she can go back do Indonesia with or without him. But instead she’d rather cry, complain, and be a professional victim in every situation while expecting her husband to do everything for her.
Different cultural norms in Indonesia around gender and marriage. Also it sounds like they're more disappointed about him leaving without her than the financial support (from this video alone, I haven't seen the rest).
Tata made him move by telling him no doctors in the US could diagnose her health condition so she had to go to an Indonesian doctor. Major manipulation. She and her family have tried every way she can to manipulate him, guilt, shame, blame, it's really awful.
He is not doing anything right! What is she doing? Crying every two seconds when things don't go her way. Please, she said she was stuck at home in the USA but didn't bother to apply for a work permit for almost 4 years she lived there. She didn't ask him for a car. Then she lied to go back home where she again didn't do either. He couldn't work in Indonesia she didn't try to work in her own country, claiming the salary won't be enough to sustain both, but the income from the banana chips sale will be.
Can she use Work permit, as she is being married to an American? Or they need to wait for the approval of green card first before she went to Work or do other things independently ? Just wondering since other casts before dont Work when they get there and married.
He’s not wrong for not wanting to live with her parents and struggle!!! I don’t know why they can’t understand that!!! He needs a mature woman!! I would leave her there and send her divorce papers back!!!
Well he atleast worked and tried to sustain them in the USA . She on the other hand sit on her ass in both countries and cried every two seconds things didn't go her way. She is way worse than him. @jasg771
Metalia is immature! She Crys for everything & is irrational James waits to the lady minute to have serious conversation with anyone .... I hope to not see this couple again !
Tata's parents raised her to be a spoiled brat! Why can't they understand that he is just returning to earn more money so that he and Tata can have a better life! He wants to set things straight with his family as well! What's wrong with that?! Tata failed also to do her duty as his wife! If she really loves him. She would have supported him positively without the tears and the whining! In fact, she would leave everything behind so she could support him again and join him! She is just a hypocrite who acts like a child! I guess they have broken the vow for better or for worse! She better stay there and he better move on! I don't see this working out well for both..
Parents are overbearing and need to mind their own business. Tata is toxic and I hope James goes to USA and finds another woman. One who doesn't act like a toddler.
Obviously that's what he likes! You think he doesn't know that there are more mature women in the world? That said he's probably done or said things to trigger insecurities in her! Women don't just assume a man will cheat for no reason.
Most likely she didn't even applied for the work permit. She didn't even wanted to work in Indonesia to support their income saying the money from her possible job won't be enough
After watching her sometimes it's best to leave people who are super traditional alone she should of married someone in her culture that understands their way of life and traditions because the demands she's putting on him are ridiculous the man is trying to take care of her if he would have decided to stay and sell bananas whatever she wanted him to do I bet they her and her fam would be calling him a bum in no time , he's not innocent either he lies alot he's a " yes " man they say yes to everything then when pressed the truth comes out , I don't know why she married him he has good intentions but I don't know if he's truthworthy his words and actions are different
James do not feel guilty is your wife is to be blamed. She was lying all the time and she tried to pretend she was sick to leave to go back to Indonesia and let you believe I give up everything to go with her and it’s just not working so best you go back to your family businessand work and maintain yourself. You cannot live like that. She doesn’t understand that’s not your style of living that’s their culture and it’s sad to say it does not look right.
A married couple is supposed to chart their own path and start their own traditions!! And not be trying to please their parents on either side!!! Grow up you two!!!
This has to be the most exhausting bunch to watch in the entire franchise. Break up with her! Permanently. She needs to be with someone in her own country who can handle her immaturity. At least they’ll be near each other and she won’t be away from her family.
I get the culture thing… but like, eh I’ve seen a lot of culture where kids take care of elderly parents and they come from that but that doesn’t mean they gotta be up under them 24/7 in a way it’s kinda fucked up how she’s manipulating him
How u can live without money??? Both dont have jobs. Of course he wants to go back home to make some money and be able to provide. Thats the best decision for him.
I’m so confused, it seems her parents take care of them. Is this all about money? Because being a husband isn’t all about money. It’s about daily support of each other.
But two adults, one of them American, relying on her elderly parents to support them. And neither of them got a job in Indonesia. If they had gone there with some savings, the situation could have been different.
@@jacquiandp-dog7755she lies her ass two, a lot. And she is manipulative and selfish on top of that. And good he doesn't want a child because she has no business of taking care of one.
If ever a man was justified to cheat, it's James. Find you a good American girl who would love and support you instead of always tearing you down. Who knows? You might even find a lady in the 90 Day franchise whose own romance didn't work out who would be interested in dating you. Divorce her on the grounds that she doesn't want to remain with you and build a life because she loves her own family more than you.
The amount of times Tata has cried since this season began.. I think she has shed more tears than all of the contestants … season and last combined… she could’ve just gone back with him and figured it out together
Everyone saying they're broke, no jobs. That's true but watch a year from now they'll be on Pillow Talk watching from their very own house. It seems this happens often which i find a little unusual.
She cries to much! She needs some growing up to do and just find a guy in her home country. James is a great provider and needs to just find an Asian girl in America. Too much drama on her end and her sister is so mean and evil!!!
@@kalpanabharatme he worked when in USA while she stayed her ass at home for almost 4 years. She could have applied for a work permit she didn't. Why a man should provide solely for a young healty partner capable of working. Isn't 21 century or something. Aren't women so damn independent. Not to mention they didn't had children or she isn't pregnant or something to say she can't work. Wtf
@@loredanadincu4300 He’s the one talking about needing to be a provider. She was helping with making the jewellery they sell online. No indication she didn’t want to work.
@robertaeveritt3060 Yes, there are a lot of indicators she doesn't want to work. She complained about being lonely in the house all the time but did nothing to remediate that for almost 4 years. She didn't get her work f permit for 4 years in the USA. He told her in Indonesia that the money from the banana chips selling won't be enough. She said at one point she can't go to work in her own damn country because the money she will make won't help sustain the both of them. But the banana chips she was talking on and on about would have. She had no problem letting her parents pay for stuff for them. Ask him if he wants her back in the USA to be his sister sponsor so she can come too. And when he says he can't make enough for that because he already has her, she doesn't say I will work too or something to help. And just because he said he wants to be the provider doesn't mean you should stay at home on your ass all day when you can f work or go to school or something. She is a f young fit woman with no kids at home or on the way. She can f work , especially when she sees her husband is struggling, like in Indonesia. But she didn't bother. She is a liar , selfish, manipulative ass who throws temper tantrums every time she can't get her way. And he is just a liar. At least he worked in the USA and now he goes back to try and make more money or something. All she is doing is what I said above and telling to her sisters about their problems.
i dont like her she is spoilt and spiteful and tries to pretend she is an innocent child when she is really a grown woman of nearly 30. years old....she cries fake tears to get what she wants ......she even disrespects her husband wanting him to have a liar (angel) in his life who has caused much trouble.......i hope he leaves her and finds a nice girl
Hope in the US he finds a good woman who loves him truly and willing to compromise and share a life with him.. how can she claims to love him while breaking him and criticize him over and over again. Nothing he does will ever be enough and worse she tell her family everything that she think is wrong with him. She even wants him to sponsor the sister that defamed him and hurt him. She’s immature and self absorbed woman. Brat.
She not ready for marriage. Have more growing to do and should have work on her development. And being more independent she cry all the time that exhausting her husband needs her to be a grown women.
Why is Tatiana so lazy??? And sorry the husband sucks because he doesn't speak up and stand up to his wife. All she does is cry because she doesn't want to leave her family but doesn't want to work 🙄 girl pls go work like everyone else has to
Also did i miss something?? Has he done something in the last couple months for the trust to be lost?? I thought he abandoned and betrayed his whole family to move with her so what else she mad avoht
James should just make sure Tata goes home to see her family at least twice a year. And if he can’t afford that working for his family, he needs a second job.
He was right to leave. He never should have gone there.
He should still come to visit his in laws. Probably visit twice a year so his wife will be less homesick
well he couldn't have been on the show if he didn't
@@jasg771 OR… she could actually use effort into getting her U.S. visa so she can work, apply for a driver’s license, and she can go back do Indonesia with or without him. But instead she’d rather cry, complain, and be a professional victim in every situation while expecting her husband to do everything for her.
Exactly! Whats the point to sit around at home with her parents and not making a single penny.
She is annoying AF, crybaby spoiled little girl.
Why cant Tata get a job and support herself? She is an adult, she can take care of herself.
Different cultural norms in Indonesia around gender and marriage. Also it sounds like they're more disappointed about him leaving without her than the financial support (from this video alone, I haven't seen the rest).
She said it’s hours away from here parents home/ village
She is a teenager
Tata made him move by telling him no doctors in the US could diagnose her health condition so she had to go to an Indonesian doctor. Major manipulation. She and her family have tried every way she can to manipulate him, guilt, shame, blame, it's really awful.
All she does is cry ...not 1 episode without tears...so exhausting
i dont like her or trust her
He is not doing anything right! What is she doing? Crying every two seconds when things don't go her way. Please, she said she was stuck at home in the USA but didn't bother to apply for a work permit for almost 4 years she lived there. She didn't ask him for a car. Then she lied to go back home where she again didn't do either. He couldn't work in Indonesia she didn't try to work in her own country, claiming the salary won't be enough to sustain both, but the income from the banana chips sale will be.
Like she is just lazy,crying baby
Can she use Work permit, as she is being married to an American? Or they need to wait for the approval of green card first before she went to Work or do other things independently ?
Just wondering since other casts before dont Work when they get there and married.
she needs to get a job she is a grown woman imagine if she had a kid she is too selfish to think of anyone but herself......i really dont like her
If you’re so worried, why not go with him? She’s not smart at all & is incredibly insufferable.
He needs to leave her, for good. She’s extremely immature and entitled.
He’s not wrong for not wanting to live with her parents and struggle!!! I don’t know why they can’t understand that!!! He needs a mature woman!! I would leave her there and send her divorce papers back!!!
Mature women won't want him
@ 🤣😂
He is the opposite of mature 😵💫😵💫
Well he atleast worked and tried to sustain them in the USA . She on the other hand sit on her ass in both countries and cried every two seconds things didn't go her way. She is way worse than him. @jasg771
@ 🤣😂
She is such a big kid and should not be married! Grow up, girl!
Are you high? The guy is the issue here
i agree she is spoilt and spiteful and pretends she is an innocent child.....she is a grown woman of nearly 30
@@BlueRazor69 the guy is not the issue here.....some of us "like" men lol not spoilt women
Metalia is immature! She Crys for everything & is irrational James waits to the lady minute to have serious conversation with anyone .... I hope to not see this couple again !
Leave Tata and put this odd relationship behind you.
She talks like a 4 year old child 😂
Tata's parents raised her to be a spoiled brat! Why can't they understand that he is just returning to earn more money so that he and Tata can have a better life! He wants to set things straight with his family as well! What's wrong with that?! Tata failed also to do her duty as his wife! If she really loves him. She would have supported him positively without the tears and the whining! In fact, she would leave everything behind so she could support him again and join him! She is just a hypocrite who acts like a child! I guess they have broken the vow for better or for worse! She better stay there and he better move on! I don't see this working out well for both..
Please break up. This is crying without end on all sides...
They are so dysfunctional, not to mention immature and ANNOYING.
Parents are overbearing and need to mind their own business. Tata is toxic and I hope James goes to USA and finds another woman. One who doesn't act like a toddler.
Obviously that's what he likes! You think he doesn't know that there are more mature women in the world?
That said he's probably done or said things to trigger insecurities in her! Women don't just assume a man will cheat for no reason.
If she's so bored and lonely in the us why dosen't she get a job? If she has been there for three years she must be allowed to work ?
Most likely she didn't even applied for the work permit. She didn't even wanted to work in Indonesia to support their income saying the money from her possible job won't be enough
@@loredanadincu4300 you are probably right. What a stupid excuse.
She's lazy
Remember she was into making jewelry stuff in the US I think that was her job lol
Gosh her voice is annoying.
I bet yours is worse
@@mugsnat6860 tata?
@@mugsnat6860Nah.
@@mugsnat6860Why you taking it personal, Tata fan.
she sounds like a frog :')
She's soo annoying 😢😭🚮🚮🚮
Her facial expressions are so disturbing!!! 😳
😂
The relationship has run its course
Tata is a annoying crybaby
What’s the point in taking care of her if you are keeping her in a life that she doesn’t want
Lol except it’s not your heart she’s worried about, it’s another body part.
Truth
After watching her sometimes it's best to leave people who are super traditional alone she should of married someone in her culture that understands their way of life and traditions because the demands she's putting on him are ridiculous the man is trying to take care of her if he would have decided to stay and sell bananas whatever she wanted him to do I bet they her and her fam would be calling him a bum in no time , he's not innocent either he lies alot he's a " yes " man they say yes to everything then when pressed the truth comes out , I don't know why she married him he has good intentions but I don't know if he's truthworthy his words and actions are different
see i told ya .. natalia shes not afraid of going to US cause she ll be alone.. she just dont want him near his girl-friends
Just divorce...
where do you live? I'm looking for a 90 day fiance 😘😘
She’s always crying. Every episode.
Every single episode!!!!!
Every single minute of every single episode.
She is the biggest child there is. 🤦🏽♀️
James do not feel guilty is your wife is to be blamed. She was lying all the time and she tried to pretend she was sick to leave to go back to Indonesia and let you believe I give up everything to go with her and it’s just not working so best you go back to your family businessand work and maintain yourself. You cannot live like that. She doesn’t understand that’s not your style of living that’s their culture and it’s sad to say it does not look right.
James has probably done or said things to trigger insecurities in Tata! Women don't just assume a man will cheat for no reason.
THEY BOTH NEED TO GROW UP. PLUS LEARN HOW TO BE HONEST & TRUTHFUL .
Tata would probably cheat first because she wants to be constantly coddled.
A married couple is supposed to chart their own path and start their own traditions!! And not be trying to please their parents on either side!!! Grow up you two!!!
She is spoilt and crying all the time
This has to be the most exhausting bunch to watch in the entire franchise. Break up with her! Permanently. She needs to be with someone in her own country who can handle her immaturity. At least they’ll be near each other and she won’t be away from her family.
I get the culture thing… but like, eh I’ve seen a lot of culture where kids take care of elderly parents and they come from that but that doesn’t mean they gotta be up under them 24/7 in a way it’s kinda fucked up how she’s manipulating him
no one wants james but tata
That's exactly what I thought. Who wants a coward like him? Highly unattractive
How u can live without money??? Both dont have jobs. Of course he wants to go back home to make some money and be able to provide. Thats the best decision for him.
Poor planning guys
Ugh he should leave and never come back she’s nauseating 🤮
He has been itching to go back to America ever since he arrived in Indonesia 😅
I'm so sick of these two.
Me tooooooo!!!!!
divorce that baby and come back home
Then why not find someone in your own country?
You don't get tired of drama, crying the whole time
I’m so confused, it seems her parents take care of them. Is this all about money? Because being a husband isn’t all about money. It’s about daily support of each other.
But two adults, one of them American, relying on her elderly parents to support them. And neither of them got a job in Indonesia. If they had gone there with some savings, the situation could have been different.
Daily support doesn't pay bills either lmao
@@neeeenah Lol and they don't even have that! Tata cries and James lies! 💩
@@jacquiandp-dog7755she lies her ass two, a lot. And she is manipulative and selfish on top of that. And good he doesn't want a child because she has no business of taking care of one.
What a torment to watch this tata character
If ever a man was justified to cheat, it's James. Find you a good American girl who would love and support you instead of always tearing you down. Who knows? You might even find a lady in the 90 Day franchise whose own romance didn't work out who would be interested in dating you. Divorce her on the grounds that she doesn't want to remain with you and build a life because she loves her own family more than you.
The amount of times Tata has cried since this season began.. I think she has shed more tears than all of the contestants … season and last combined… she could’ve just gone back with him and figured it out together
You have to live your life together without family from the both side!!!!
My words!
First thing he ll do: cheat !😅
He didn’t like living with her family. I didn’t know it was so stressful for him that he would run.
James is also a people pleaser who makes promises he knows are very difficult to keep. Be honest upfront, it will save you from such foolishness!
Don't make promises You can't keep. But kudos for James for returning to a place he can grow.
I notice the indonesian women that have been on 90df over the years have been very annoying 😂
Everyone saying they're broke, no jobs. That's true but watch a year from now they'll be on Pillow Talk watching from their very own house. It seems this happens often which i find a little unusual.
She cries to much! She needs some growing up to do and just find a guy in her home country. James is a great provider and needs to just find an Asian girl in America. Too much drama on her end and her sister is so mean and evil!!!
Why does he need to find an Asian girl?
In which world is he a great provider?
@@kalpanabharatme he worked when in USA while she stayed her ass at home for almost 4 years. She could have applied for a work permit she didn't. Why a man should provide solely for a young healty partner capable of working. Isn't 21 century or something. Aren't women so damn independent. Not to mention they didn't had children or she isn't pregnant or something to say she can't work. Wtf
@@loredanadincu4300 He’s the one talking about needing to be a provider. She was helping with making the jewellery they sell online. No indication she didn’t want to work.
@robertaeveritt3060 Yes, there are a lot of indicators she doesn't want to work. She complained about being lonely in the house all the time but did nothing to remediate that for almost 4 years. She didn't get her work f permit for 4 years in the USA. He told her in Indonesia that the money from the banana chips selling won't be enough. She said at one point she can't go to work in her own damn country because the money she will make won't help sustain the both of them. But the banana chips she was talking on and on about would have. She had no problem letting her parents pay for stuff for them. Ask him if he wants her back in the USA to be his sister sponsor so she can come too. And when he says he can't make enough for that because he already has her, she doesn't say I will work too or something to help. And just because he said he wants to be the provider doesn't mean you should stay at home on your ass all day when you can f work or go to school or something. She is a f young fit woman with no kids at home or on the way. She can f work , especially when she sees her husband is struggling, like in Indonesia. But she didn't bother. She is a liar , selfish, manipulative ass who throws temper tantrums every time she can't get her way. And he is just a liar. At least he worked in the USA and now he goes back to try and make more money or something. All she is doing is what I said above and telling to her sisters about their problems.
i dont like her she is spoilt and spiteful and tries to pretend she is an innocent child when she is really a grown woman of nearly 30. years old....she cries fake tears to get what she wants ......she even disrespects her husband wanting him to have a liar (angel) in his life who has caused much trouble.......i hope he leaves her and finds a nice girl
Yes girl he will find someone else to bring to US. You're being difficult. There are many asians he can easily bring.
Dude just grow up and give that man a break
Girl, bye.
Whew Tata sure crys a lot. It's annoying
Do you both a favor and leave her for good
This is annoying! Tata is lazy and crybaby. She never should have married
Tata is so pathetic, she's giving Jazmine a run for her money.
But he should’ve researched the country and culture he went to before marrying someone from there
oh man he needs to divorce her AND her family
Hope in the US he finds a good woman who loves him truly and willing to compromise and share a life with him.. how can she claims to love him while breaking him and criticize him over and over again. Nothing he does will ever be enough and worse she tell her family everything that she think is wrong with him. She even wants him to sponsor the sister that defamed him and hurt him. She’s immature and self absorbed woman. Brat.
We would have all cheated on you
😂😂😂
Oh my god she cried all the time
Tata & Ed has same habit - crying😅
he should not have left jojo.😭
Well I had to come and check if she cried, even though I knew it would annoy me. And yup, sure enough, just as everyone probably expected 🤣
Her tears never stop 😂
As much as dude cry’s she should be afraid of cheating with either sex
She not ready for marriage. Have more growing to do and should have work on her development. And being more independent she cry all the time that exhausting her husband needs her to be a grown women.
I knew she was gonna cry 😂
He is gonna dip TRUST she ran him away
James can take Angel as 2nd wife, shouldnt be a problem. The crying monster woud then stop crying and beinf annoying.
James needs to better himself fast!
Bruh she should go to US for the experience.
She seems very lazy. She should try to work In the USA. And she reallyyyyy wants to get pregnant and he does not. They aren’t a good match.
Why do they all cry so much!
Yes he will
James run that lady is too jealous Run Run
Im getting tired of them
All she does is cry. The story is getting old
He should just disappear they are all clingy
Why is Tatiana so lazy??? And sorry the husband sucks because he doesn't speak up and stand up to his wife. All she does is cry because she doesn't want to leave her family but doesn't want to work 🙄 girl pls go work like everyone else has to
Also did i miss something?? Has he done something in the last couple months for the trust to be lost?? I thought he abandoned and betrayed his whole family to move with her so what else she mad avoht
James should just make sure Tata goes home to see her family at least twice a year. And if he can’t afford that working for his family, he needs a second job.
😮😢😂😢😢😢TRUE truth
Let’s go Metallica
Ta ta tata😂
if you don't want that happened you should GO with him lol if not why you got married
I’m glad he left