Parenting: Raise Yourself Before You Raise Your Kids - Sadhguru

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  • Sadhguru looks at how a child needs a friend, not a boss. If we enforce our ideas upon a child, he will lose his sense of independence, and this could result in rebelliousness later on. Once you become a parent, the most important thing is that you have to be 100% straight. You just have to protect them from the wrong influences, the rest let them free, he says. At the same time, they should remain free from your influence, he points out.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 94

  • @SunGodNika-bi2jr
    @SunGodNika-bi2jr 6 років тому +715

    I wish I had a father like sadhguru

  • @Hollowdarling
    @Hollowdarling 4 роки тому +185

    Speaking as a Latino raised in Puerto Rico, this was so beautiful to hear and see. I wish more elders had the intellect and empathy this person has.

  • @marianap1121
    @marianap1121 2 роки тому +354

    children are not your property! love that - you are so right

  • @kavitaverma9929
    @kavitaverma9929 4 роки тому +323

    I wish my parents can listen to you Guruji 😣

  • @Ggdivhjkjl
    @Ggdivhjkjl 8 років тому +459

    Marvelous to see a man talking sense about parenting in today's world.

  • @8270361507
    @8270361507 6 років тому +434

    Major respect to this man. A very good and true genuine human being. All people before planning to have children should watch this because there are plenty of people who have children as some kind of asset to fulfill something rather than allowing them to grow and flourish themselves.

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 Рік тому +22

    My narcissistic mother and sister became toxic because they never take the time to raise themselves. That is why I watched this video. To avoid becoming them.

  • @melanie6697
    @melanie6697 7 років тому +321

    He is so correct! I try to practice this with my kids and so far it is working well. It builds confidence and a sense of self.

  • @adriansherlockdamondark.1094
    @adriansherlockdamondark.1094 4 роки тому +252

    Best words I've ever heard on the topic of parenting.

  • @duuuuuuuuuuuup
    @duuuuuuuuuuuup 6 років тому +191

    I'm experiencing such deep love towards this being. He is lovely and incredibly precious

  • @deepanagaraj2072
    @deepanagaraj2072 6 років тому +229

    some parents really need this!!
    excellent one..!!thank you sadhguru :-)

  • @malcontent6303
    @malcontent6303 7 років тому +291

    Sometimes Parents need to make decisions which their child doesn't agree with but they should always include their children in decisions which affect them. Many parents think they listen to their kids when in fact what they are really doing is telling their kids what to think. They conflate respect and obedience when the two are entirely separate concepts

    • @thedarknessofnana
      @thedarknessofnana 6 років тому +11

      Mal Content agreed. I feel what you described in the beginning of your reply goes along with that 'guiding them from negative influences' bit that he said.

  • @faza553
    @faza553 8 років тому +146

    Most will misunderstand the deep truth of this sage advice.

  • @bhoopalsinghRoheria
    @bhoopalsinghRoheria 6 років тому +115

    Beautiful. I never heard anything like from any other eminent people.

  • @maxifernandes2654
    @maxifernandes2654 2 роки тому +35

    Hope my husband could know about being a parent is such a blessing

  • @savoryicon
    @savoryicon 6 років тому +173

    In western countries they let their children go to work and earn their money, makes the child independent. Even better, I feel, introduce them to success philosophy which they can understand at their pace. Most children have learned behaviour, which is what they learn looking at their parents, we cannot teach what we do not possess. Let them learn from able masters.

  • @warrior7478
    @warrior7478 6 років тому +25

    He is a true guru with natural n real solutions without any conflicts. Bcoz today's we all r leading a fake n artificial life n going into a dark cell n he is a light. Plz listen sadguru n remove all darkness from yor life.try to be natural n honest with yourself n live n love natural life n follow law of nature.

  • @terigopula
    @terigopula 6 років тому +73

    Haha my life would have been absolutely miraculous, if I had 1/100th of Sadhguru's wisdom.
    Goosebumps every single time whenever I hear u Sadhguru.
    #respect #youAreTheBest :)

  • @tierax8992
    @tierax8992 Рік тому +11

    It was like talking to my father I never had

  • @naniroda495
    @naniroda495 6 років тому +53

    Best speech ever on parenting! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @yasaswisriram1285
    @yasaswisriram1285 8 років тому +89

    A wonderful explanation. Every parent should watch this

  • @bhaveluthra
    @bhaveluthra 7 років тому +27

    so beautiful.... This is a true path.... Hail to you. Respect!!!

  • @nishthamishra7573
    @nishthamishra7573 7 років тому +39

    I love him he is superb

  • @snr5950
    @snr5950 7 років тому +25

    Thanq Sadguru for the sagely n precious advice to all parents.

  • @miha3847
    @miha3847 2 роки тому +21

    I think I found my best life advice in the moment , thank you so much Sr !!!!!

  • @harinesriramoju5340
    @harinesriramoju5340 7 років тому +29

    thanq sadguru.i think i feel like iam understanding something.

  • @TheOvaisshamsi
    @TheOvaisshamsi 7 років тому +11

    Excellent
    A very Good Massage for Parent

  • @stm32user
    @stm32user 7 років тому +10

    nice my sadhguru grandpa. I love you so much...

  • @drjaya8838
    @drjaya8838 7 років тому +59

    Grateful to you guruji... This is true spirituality. different from mere devotion. Thank you.

  • @mariasimic2271
    @mariasimic2271 7 років тому +27

    Thank You ! ❤️

  • @lilil2081
    @lilil2081 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏
    Namo Amituofo 🙏

  • @harsha9792
    @harsha9792 6 років тому +51

    Humour in serious talk... Simply liked it..!!

  • @shivabr3112
    @shivabr3112 8 років тому +42

    Most comforting message for parents ......

  • @nielaniela3900
    @nielaniela3900 8 років тому +9

    sadhguru jou are amazing

  • @prachikhirwadkar6870
    @prachikhirwadkar6870 6 років тому +5

    awesome....intended to learn a new things about life..

  • @tanmayeevishwanath1266
    @tanmayeevishwanath1266 Рік тому +2

    It's so into reality , and I am surprised to see that sadhguru is little older than my parents but they really understand the present generation .👏💥

  • @satminderkaur5344
    @satminderkaur5344 8 років тому +11

    beautiful ...

  • @jean-francois5505
    @jean-francois5505 8 років тому +5

    Thank's Good reflexion

  • @artikaintura5846
    @artikaintura5846 6 років тому +31

    guruji, i want hindi version of all your vedios for my mother . is that possible?

  • @jandepajanostan7086
    @jandepajanostan7086 5 років тому +10

    Wow absolutely right❤. His wisdom is awesome...

  • @akankshamaurya6456
    @akankshamaurya6456 5 років тому +16

    Thankyou so much for sharing this wonderful knowledge.

  • @kathleenvang2339
    @kathleenvang2339 6 років тому +11

    absolutely right.

  • @renuchhawal9875
    @renuchhawal9875 8 років тому +16

    Bless me God with such a wisdom all z time

  • @anuradha-zd8kn
    @anuradha-zd8kn 6 років тому +7

    very nice explanation.

  • @KillerFaceification
    @KillerFaceification 7 років тому +9

    I definitely agree

  • @AnanttNagarkar
    @AnanttNagarkar 5 років тому +13

    Sadhguru personifies Clarity and wisdom!

  • @frankiebrooks641
    @frankiebrooks641 8 років тому +6

    Awesome thanks

  • @gigraphickinstallers
    @gigraphickinstallers 8 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @renusingh4629
    @renusingh4629 5 років тому +20

    You always have cool ways to make us understand anything

  • @shreeaum
    @shreeaum 6 років тому +185

    Sadguru thrashed stupid minds of parents. Jai sadguru maharaj. Your blessings brings well being of society.

  • @michaelfraser3991
    @michaelfraser3991 8 років тому +10

    Dwarpa Yuga 315 ascending; I wrote a long paragraph at how wrong I thought you were. Who am I to judge you? Glad to see you know all the answers to parenting. The bits of good advice you shared I will try to assimilate and the rest will leave to the streets and prison systems.

  • @ishaveer
    @ishaveer 6 років тому +32

    Do Inner Engineer program conducted by Sadhguru in your city! Its can take you a long way :)

  • @ItzKyra_seyz
    @ItzKyra_seyz 6 років тому +6

    makes sense !!!

  • @RiteshAgarwalGwalior
    @RiteshAgarwalGwalior 8 років тому +47

    I am strongly influenced by your words.. I would like to have you as my Guru...

  • @ramyasharma2008
    @ramyasharma2008 2 місяці тому

    Every parent should listen this, also elder siblings

  • @palashbiswas8936
    @palashbiswas8936 6 років тому +7

    Namashkaram sadhguru🙏🙏🙏

  • @PriyaSharma-jq5zn
    @PriyaSharma-jq5zn 5 років тому +45

    Very supportive for children 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thank you Sadhguru

  • @favouriteworld3702
    @favouriteworld3702 7 років тому +12

    perfect and very great speech

  • @SujataMukherjee01
    @SujataMukherjee01 8 років тому +33

    guruji many people just become parent just to become one without knowing what it really takes to become a true parent,some become helicopter like,they must listen to this session

  • @ashaservanda8861
    @ashaservanda8861 8 років тому +10

    that's right!!!

  • @HamzaKhan-lm8yz
    @HamzaKhan-lm8yz 4 роки тому +16

    Whatever Sadhguru has said in this video is happening to me by my parents.

  • @MeenakshiAnantram
    @MeenakshiAnantram 8 років тому +18

    I admire the thoughts...fantastic stuff

  • @farhad56560
    @farhad56560 8 років тому +12

    totally agree 100%

  • @mitchellknight1852
    @mitchellknight1852 Рік тому

    Thank You Sadhguru 🙏🌄🎉

  • @kaivalyasiddhi195
    @kaivalyasiddhi195 8 років тому +7

    great words....

  • @rambhakthanumanram4330
    @rambhakthanumanram4330 6 років тому +5

    Very true

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Рік тому

    Yes a child needs it!!!

  • @chandini8833
    @chandini8833 6 років тому +7

    Perfectly said

  • @johnraju1
    @johnraju1 8 років тому +15

    Wonderful thought

  • @blessedarethebroken3089
    @blessedarethebroken3089 5 років тому +11

    💙

  • @menenaanee818
    @menenaanee818 Рік тому

    Timeless

  • @vahn883
    @vahn883 6 років тому +15

    This guy looks so cool and hes so cool🤓🖒

  • @flamechick6
    @flamechick6 8 років тому +29

    excellent

  • @elennabaron1465
    @elennabaron1465 4 роки тому +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Sheebakumar
    @Sheebakumar 4 роки тому +1

    very well said
    #sheebakumar

  • @arielsuralta3998
    @arielsuralta3998 2 роки тому +6

    Damm its right

  • @suleymanartun8932
    @suleymanartun8932 5 років тому +18

    But there is no guarentee.😂
    Very good speech, thanks.

  • @karna6651
    @karna6651 8 років тому +3

    Superr

  • @jitanderkumarkhurana672
    @jitanderkumarkhurana672 6 років тому +10

    Teachings worth their weight in gold

  • @ojasvijain9477
    @ojasvijain9477 Рік тому +1

    10:44 - 11:22

  • @joeslob1199
    @joeslob1199 6 років тому +4

    and so the story would continue...plus or minus .

  • @huaren6229
    @huaren6229 8 років тому +4

    😢

  • @viyyapusaratchandra
    @viyyapusaratchandra 9 місяців тому +1

    Children aren't your slaves, love them don't put your stupidity ideas on them because they forget to love people 💔

  • @ee_30_harshitaarya33
    @ee_30_harshitaarya33 Рік тому +1

    RESPECT THE SACRIFICES OF OUR PARENTS BUT TOXIC PARENTING IS NOT GOOD. PARENTS ALWAYS COMPLAIN THAT CHILDREN SHOULD BE AS OBEDIENT AS LORD RAMA BUT PARENTS SHOULD NOT FORGET THAT HE ALSO GOT FATHER LIKE KING DASHRATH WHO WAS NON ABUSIVE AND WHO USED TO RESPECT HIS WIVES INSTEAD OF BEATING AND ABUSING THEM AND HE WAS A GREAT HUMAN BEING TOO 🙏🙏

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 Рік тому

    #Sadhguru🙏
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  • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
    @MISSMADISONMEDIA Рік тому +1

    Allow me to offer a teacher’s perspective: …..PLEASE

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 8 років тому +4

    ...

  • @pandurangasmaladakar8105
    @pandurangasmaladakar8105 3 роки тому +2

    Kannada dub maadi plz

  • @shilpamarudha5732
    @shilpamarudha5732 4 роки тому +18

    Typical Truth, but ‘easier said than done’ in the current generation of so unsafe, unstable and judgemental people around!
    Hope things would change with more practicality and sensible enough if the future generation kids are lucky /blessed enough.

  • @rajnishah2214
    @rajnishah2214 6 років тому +14

    Thought is good . But not practical

  • @mokesuvik5980
    @mokesuvik5980 Рік тому +2

    But sadly most parents take us as their property..I am being beaten up throughout my childhood for marks & mentally abused too & all by parents..They r frustrated & if I m going for playing, they slapped me-this was the regular scene..Indian parents suck..sorry but not sorry…

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Рік тому

    He is wrong. Easy for him to say what he says cuz his daughter is well behaved. Not West Indians. If you dont teach they will make your life a hell.
    Most people who talk abt parenting have well behaved children

    • @mamtasingh4723
      @mamtasingh4723 10 місяців тому +1

      He is not wrong. Children become adults and those adults be the way they were treated in their childhood. If his daughter is well behaved then it must be because he was a good father, it must be because he never was toxic with his daughter. Listen, parents need to accept this.