6 Things To Do to Earn Your Child’s Friendship - Sadhguru

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  • @jeremyjensen4385
    @jeremyjensen4385 4 роки тому +126

    I finally respected my dad when he said he didn't have any answers. He could only tell me his experience. Now I do this with my boys

    • @MM-ql5ji
      @MM-ql5ji 2 роки тому +2

      Your words gave me courage too.. am going to b a mama of my first boy child scared and also looking forward

  • @bharatvarma9278
    @bharatvarma9278 5 років тому +426

    1)Get off the pedestal. (be their friends)
    2)Dedicate time for them
    3)Don’t try to live through them
    4)Let them discipline themselves
    5)Stop preparing them for something
    6)Lastly, shine a little bit

  • @Changethewaywekeepitreal
    @Changethewaywekeepitreal Рік тому +2

    I’m 27 years old. I have 2 small children of my own. I’ve always said I wanted to do completely different bc I was exposed to constant anger, frustration, no playing, no going out with neither of my parents until I was a teenager. I was really angry always. I never believed in the Christian God that I was exposed to. I was expressive about it and my family, all of it thought there was something really wrong with me. Anyway… so much time wasted thinking something MUST be completely wrong with me. Sadhguru, thank you so much! At first listening to you was ‘enlightening’ but now I can’t stop listening to you. From the time I wake up until the time I go to sleep. It makes me sad I have to unlearn so much. From the way I eat, to the way I breathe, to the way I walk, it’s so much and I would of appreciated being told by them that this is what they know, not the ultimate truth. I don’t know how long it’s going to take me but my heart is in it❤️

  • @ChristaBello
    @ChristaBello 5 років тому +137

    What a valuable info from a wise man on earth “Sadhguru”. Wishing you all parents and parents-to-be THE WISDOM to nurture and grow your children.

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +2

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @RobJenkinsDubTechno
    @RobJenkinsDubTechno 5 років тому +187

    "You aren't here to change the world. The world is here to change you."

    • @AakashKumar-tn6yh
      @AakashKumar-tn6yh 5 років тому +7

      Very well said

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +8

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @vaishnavikaushik1776
      @vaishnavikaushik1776 3 роки тому

      @@AakashKumar-tn6yh 😂

    • @YOGA19917
      @YOGA19917 3 роки тому

      No.
      I don't agree with this

    • @Nice-re5nm
      @Nice-re5nm 3 роки тому +1

      This is a joke

  • @thereseytea2639
    @thereseytea2639 5 років тому +375

    Woke up at 3:33am from a scary dream! Had a nightmare that my kids was taken away from me for adoption. This video popped up ! My spirit guides is trying to tell me something😭😭😭 I really need to spend more time with my kids😭🙏🏼

    • @subash8181
      @subash8181 5 років тому +16

      All of us need to. Al the best.

    • @stellaqaustralia
      @stellaqaustralia 5 років тому +15

      There is no better investment. There is no second chance.

    • @candice44441
      @candice44441 5 років тому +17

      It is never too late. Enjoy your children.

    • @someone0117
      @someone0117 5 років тому +5

      its not jus about spending more time... did you see the video?

    • @flyingfairy2055
      @flyingfairy2055 5 років тому +2

      Theresey Tea i hopefully will never have to say or write that 💐🕊💫🌿🔮🧚🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🧚🏼‍♀️🌟💫🌻🌺🌸😱🌱🕊

  • @DIP305
    @DIP305 3 роки тому +15

    Everything he said is correct I've felt my father lacked all of these qualities and I voiced every point he raised.This reassures me the things I wanted but never got are the things I must never forget because hopefully I will have a child of my own and this cycle ends with me.

    • @andykumar4103
      @andykumar4103 2 роки тому

      The cycle never ends. it's just an illusion. Perfect parent is the one who chooses not to become parent. There's no such thing as perfect parenting.

  • @roiferreach100
    @roiferreach100 5 років тому +7

    I am a father and I am blown away with your advice. Opened my eyes on those things Sadhguru said that I am doing wrong. Thank You Sadhguru.

  • @jamesryan6224
    @jamesryan6224 5 років тому +34

    Be friends with your spouse, be BEST friends with your Children when they are young.

  • @shecooki322
    @shecooki322 4 роки тому +24

    Every time I watch Sudhguru's video, listening to him is like wow... I could listen to him all day 🙏🏽 Everything he says is so true and you know it already but when Sadhguru says it, its like I am looking at life in a whole new different world!

    • @berkdural7373
      @berkdural7373 2 роки тому

      “Eloquence, at its greatest pitch, leaves little room for reason or reflection, but addresses entirely to the desires and affections, captivating the willing hearers and subduing their understanding.” - David Hume
      So watch out for that effect.. I, personally, fell into that mistake with many guru and teacher and also with, even a little, Sadhguru..

  • @milenatripkovic9788
    @milenatripkovic9788 4 роки тому +78

    My child told me "Mama I want to grow ans to be like you..You are mama, the strongest and the most beautiful mama of all mothers of all my friends ❤
    Buut..He is still 7 yrs old boy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Let the magic last 😉

    • @kiti2788
      @kiti2788 3 роки тому +6

      But jokes apart you should be proud of urself that you have raised him right & he can looks up to you.
      Come on lady now that's something..!😄

    • @viyavictoria4694
      @viyavictoria4694 3 роки тому

      My child told me this morning that "mama i want to grow to be like you.... you are the strongest and the most beautiful mama of all mothers of all my friends but he still 8 years old boy 😆😆😆😆
      Let the magic last

    • @fionamayfield4762
      @fionamayfield4762 3 роки тому +2

      My kid told me I'm fat and funny. Both are true.

    • @jessicacatchings5941
      @jessicacatchings5941 3 роки тому

      Mine told other kids he doesn't listen to me because I'm fat 😂

  • @AnIndianPatriot958
    @AnIndianPatriot958 5 років тому +6

    7 dislikes, seriously... Can't believe which part of the video they didn't like.
    Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏, you have become the light for all the darkness and illusions in this world. But as you rightly put, there are people who love darkness and can't accept the truth of life.

  • @Rnk_Dr
    @Rnk_Dr 5 років тому +78

    "It is exposure, not the moral teaching that is going to stick."

  • @susantaylor147
    @susantaylor147 3 роки тому +10

    Now I understand why my granddaughter has always insisted that she was me....although I always tel her that she is lovely as herself... I didn't understand why she wanted to be like me... We always have fun together...we dance, sing, do silly things together, cook, bake together.. Your words resonated deeply....Now I understand why our bond is so strong! Mutual respect! 💟💟💟 Thank you kind sir!

    • @Kathy-20J-73
      @Kathy-20J-73 2 роки тому +1

      Life is eternal
      If she says she WAS you
      She was....... 🌹

    • @susantaylor147
      @susantaylor147 2 роки тому

      @@Kathy-20J-73 🌻

  • @pallavirbhat
    @pallavirbhat 5 років тому +29

    He is the real guru - he has so much knowledge!
    lucky that i found him😊

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 5 років тому +108

    children *imitate* you, from 0 to 7 they go through an "imprint period" forming their perspective of life and a personality. It isn't about being wrong or right as a parent, but about striving to *become the greatest version of yourself for yourself and for your children* :)

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +6

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 5 років тому +2

      @@ilovelife6249 sending you all my love!!!!! Lovely to see you ♡♡♡

    • @kavyapradhan626
      @kavyapradhan626 3 роки тому +1

      😆😁I got lucky to get to see the child like form of my parents 😹 they raised me well into this world not being a mother or father but instead a family member who is there even at good times and hard times

    • @jax2292
      @jax2292 3 роки тому

      Is it too late if they are 14 then? 😭😭

  • @worldtraveller2185
    @worldtraveller2185 4 роки тому +8

    All the wisdom the world needs in 19 minutes. Thank you Sadhguru.

  • @rocksparadox
    @rocksparadox 4 роки тому +48

    His wisdom is so soothing, even as a person without children, these explanations helped me find more appreciation for the energy my parents invested in me.

  • @dailydoseoflife4907
    @dailydoseoflife4907 5 років тому +381

    Sudhguru is the breath of fresh air the world needed🙏🤷‍♂️

    • @roiferreach100
      @roiferreach100 5 років тому +4

      Agree. Sadhguru is the nature's gift.

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +5

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @dailydoseoflife4907
      @dailydoseoflife4907 5 років тому

      @@ilovelife6249 Thank you🤗

    • @geekhacks
      @geekhacks 5 років тому +3

      This air is following in this part of the world for thousands of years 🙏

    • @veerappen2119
      @veerappen2119 3 роки тому

      @@roiferreach100 mm

  • @soumyaranjanbiswal3944
    @soumyaranjanbiswal3944 5 років тому +5

    Every indian parent need to see this video..

  • @Ben-mb4ft
    @Ben-mb4ft 5 років тому +124

    I am from Austria and there's quit a lot of stress between parents and their children / teachers and students.
    It's much more common here that elders demand respect instead of earning it.
    so this video is really appreciated. very well put together thank you. will forward it to some people.
    how is it in your country my friends?

    • @rrr5_Finance2
      @rrr5_Finance2 5 років тому +7

      i think same in bharat

    • @awasthiashutosh
      @awasthiashutosh 5 років тому +17

      This is all because of western education

    • @Ben-mb4ft
      @Ben-mb4ft 5 років тому +12

      @@awasthiashutosh it sure has a big influence on that yeah. still remember all the tension school created between my mother and me. I didn't want to go to school, she wanted me to go and BAM hahaha nearly threw me out one time
      I think a much better way is the school that they have in the isha yoga center, so much smilling faces there

    • @flyingfairy2055
      @flyingfairy2055 5 років тому +7

      germany is struggling with their current dictatur

    • @zokajz1021
      @zokajz1021 5 років тому +11

      Same lol but i grow up whit older people i was most of my time whit older gen and most of my friend's are older then me just my school friend's ain't i enjoy whit older because you can learn so much from them and you get wise and u know more,about life you have respect manners diciplin all what you need in your life

  • @775.-
    @775.- 5 років тому +18

    Unfortunetly 90% of parents today , don't know how to raise but they're gladly wanna make as much kids as they can. karma isn't merciful.

  • @anupamasanjeevkumar5457
    @anupamasanjeevkumar5457 3 роки тому +6

    I have 2 teenage boys and sadhgurus speech made me lighter after many days.Thank you very much.

  • @anitainmo489
    @anitainmo489 5 років тому +129

    How I wish I had someone to give me such wisdom 25 years ago.

    • @mr.c2485
      @mr.c2485 5 років тому +18

      Anita Prasad
      Never too late. Even a single year of wisdom is capable of infinite peace for all who encounter you. There is no such thing as wasted time.
      Your life is blessed!

    • @hotplanetary8297
      @hotplanetary8297 4 роки тому +6

      I to wish some one would have told me this 40 years ago

    • @lithypaul8897
      @lithypaul8897 3 роки тому

      @@mr.c2485 11qq

    • @lithypaul8897
      @lithypaul8897 3 роки тому

      @@mr.c2485 qq

    • @lithypaul8897
      @lithypaul8897 3 роки тому

      @@mr.c2485 qqqqqqqqqq?qqqqq

  • @deepikachandrashekaryallal1425
    @deepikachandrashekaryallal1425 4 роки тому +12

    "They are not the extension of the ambitions". Good to hear but from the moment a child is born, parents start building n nesting their own dreams n ambitions (which were left incomplete) around the child. Most of them struggle n sacrifice for this to be done and they believe that "children are the only hope"

  • @nikitafatakawala4924
    @nikitafatakawala4924 3 роки тому +7

    These 6 phrases are so magical.. Motivates me to be the best mother to my child.. Learnt so many things here.. Really an eye-opener.. Thank you so much Sadhguru.. Always keep showering ur love, blessings & wisdom like this.. Namaskaram.. 🙏

  • @innersmilebydrsanjeevmonga9369
    @innersmilebydrsanjeevmonga9369 5 років тому +22

    Very true one should always live with his kids like friends

  • @Manes-Ancestrales
    @Manes-Ancestrales 5 років тому +20

    Children ,not our dreams ❤️🙏🏿
    Sadhguru Forever...

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po 3 роки тому +20

    As a parent there is time to be a parent , and then a time comes to transition into a guide, philosopher and friend

  • @nomusachamane9190
    @nomusachamane9190 3 роки тому +2

    Sadhguru has changed my life. A well spoken and educated man. I Love you sadhguru, you are a father, brother, grandfather and a food for a soul. God bless you.

  • @primerealtor4349
    @primerealtor4349 2 роки тому +2

    Truth be told, after having my second child I moved out of my city apartment to the country. This was such a great decision and very enriching for the children, life out of the hustle of the city is magic for children.

  • @rsss8659
    @rsss8659 5 років тому +33

    Sadhguru doesn't usually do this. This is one of the very few videos where he is giving a structured solution. Usually his objective is to confuse people so that their intellect is stimulated and they become eager to find their own solution. But this video is a departure. Some one in his team has changed and the new video editing team trying "structured" approach. Not that it is wrong. However, I think giving a six point solution just ends the conversation. Whereas, when he usually leaves a question partially answered, it creates "longing to know". It's just my opinion.
    Sadhguru, I want to humbly thank you for the influence you have been in our lives.

    • @kavyapradhan626
      @kavyapradhan626 3 роки тому +5

      Honestly he isn't confusing people it's just that we don't get the answer we usually accept and ignore the essence of his words; while learning anything if you put your prejudice before you won't be able to understand . Once you're open about it you will get it what he is talking about

    • @babydoll.888
      @babydoll.888 3 роки тому +1

      @@kavyapradhan626 I am in similar thoughts 🙏

    • @mistythompson5579
      @mistythompson5579 3 роки тому +1

      I think a six point solution is exactly what we need for this topic

  • @We_r_blessed
    @We_r_blessed 4 роки тому +17

    Listening to this,i realised how wrong i was doing with my little kids.i will try to follow the advise and lets have friendship with my kids from now.😀

    • @softia9
      @softia9 2 роки тому

      i wish my parents were like this :( they don’t even try to parent better they just do the same thing they were taught as a kid (and my mom was from a bad environment so it’s pretty bad)

  • @SukeshPhour
    @SukeshPhour 5 років тому +8

    01:23 Get off Your Pedestal
    04:35 Dedicate time for them
    08:35 Don't try to live through them
    10:46 Let them discipline themselves
    13:27 Stop preparing them for something
    15:31 Lastly shine a little bit💫
    16:03 The Lady in tears
    🙏💝Namaskaram🙏💝

  • @lovehumans5516
    @lovehumans5516 5 років тому +15

    This is a very intelligent man.

  • @leenadutta1253
    @leenadutta1253 3 роки тому +3

    Children upbringing is so innovative, friendly and approachable that it's not the child but the parent too grows mentally, physically, emotionally and above all spirituality too.
    Just one note...
    I like to smile let my child also smile...
    I like to enjoy let my child also enjoy...
    I like to explore freedom let my child too explore freedom...

  • @MtHopeAntiques
    @MtHopeAntiques 4 роки тому +8

    Wow! I was always told to be friendly towards my kids,but not friends, I like your way better❤️🙏

  • @arpit_jain
    @arpit_jain 5 років тому +49

    Loved this video. Need this video in Hindi as well, because this is for elders.

    • @swapnilpradhan5550
      @swapnilpradhan5550 5 років тому +9

      Yup! Infact in as many language as possible 😊

    • @avinashavi9369
      @avinashavi9369 5 років тому

      @Arpit Jain glad u care for all parts of the society,
      Imagine the replies when someone comments for an English version under a hindi video for the same reason.
      P.S : not criticizing just mentioning.

    • @dontbeafraidimhere5421
      @dontbeafraidimhere5421 5 років тому +1

      Not only Hindi all major Indian languages also

    • @sachinrathore5601
      @sachinrathore5601 5 років тому

      Available on sadguru Hindi channel

  • @somilshah6365
    @somilshah6365 5 років тому +42

    I would request to keep a survey at the end of this video. The Survey should include the age's of the people who watched this video. You would be surprised I bet

  • @janchakravarthy
    @janchakravarthy 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you for this wonderful video. This popped up in my feed as I was having a meltdown from trying to home school my 3 year old during the lockdown. I felt like Sadhguru was talking to me and telling me not to fix my mistakes through my son.

  • @mr.c2485
    @mr.c2485 5 років тому +11

    Respect isn’t something that can be demanded. True respect is commanded....and that by giving of self.

  • @alevanek9388
    @alevanek9388 5 років тому +10

    This video is simply wonderful. Pure wisdom!! Sadhguru, I am SO blessed to have found you!!!

  • @pascalxus
    @pascalxus 5 років тому +42

    i know so many parent who buy their kids more and more toys, just so the kids will leave them alone.

    • @Indermanes313
      @Indermanes313 4 роки тому +9

      I am the one of them but from now I will try to change my self for my 4 years daughte. Every second goes never comes back,

  • @valasador9439
    @valasador9439 3 роки тому

    The insight that i catch is "try to imagine your childhood and what do you really want to do" will tell what your child really want

  • @lajwantishahani1225
    @lajwantishahani1225 5 років тому +5

    Sadhguru, you shine like the north star, being the gentle guide with your humor without being preachy! That's what makes people, irrespective of age or nationality, listen to you 🙏

  • @adriansherlockdamondark.1094
    @adriansherlockdamondark.1094 4 роки тому +11

    Wonderful teachings! Although I'm a westerner, I love the words of this wise man so much.

  • @roxanasmith9585
    @roxanasmith9585 5 років тому +3

    How do you even get to the point to actually think like that amazing wise man? 😱😭 i love how his impulses have left a stamp on my brain, at several occasions his words pop up in my head and I try alternative ways of thinking or reacting. It doesn’t work all the time,i have to admit, it is actually hard. I wish it was a natural way to see things from a neutral standpoint like him. Completely unbiased. That’s a challenge and whoever is trying to make a little difference every day, you deserve full respect ❤️

  • @janmynders5257
    @janmynders5257 Рік тому

    Who ever said you cannot be friends with your children was nor a good parent. I have heard people my age szy this. I have always been friends with my children & my nephew & niece who both came to l8ve at my house. T U Sadhguru

  • @anibratadutta8898
    @anibratadutta8898 5 років тому +5

    Theories of this video not only helpful for raising child, also helpful improving relationship with other people

  • @engine9435
    @engine9435 5 років тому +12

    All makes sense and seems pretty much like common sense if you live through your heart. 🙏🏽 Sudguru for all that you present.

  • @adityapatankar3692
    @adityapatankar3692 4 роки тому +9

    When you become parent don't feel old be a child be his/her friend

  • @nishaparag
    @nishaparag 3 роки тому +2

    Sathguru for the first time in my life my questions are answered by watching and listening to you. Feel less stressed by just following what you have said it works thank you.

  • @sangitashilpi2638
    @sangitashilpi2638 4 роки тому +4

    How relaxing! His words are that musical rythm that brings harmony even in the most chaotic of environment. Plus, that concluding music!! How mesmerising!! I came here with a heavy heart and now I'm going back with abundant joy 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵😊

  • @jayasinghadhasbama6937
    @jayasinghadhasbama6937 3 роки тому +1

    Very good points by Sadhguru.
    Afrer having heard Sadhguru's talk, i understood many things and followed his guidance.
    I didn't push my child to score the first mark.I didn't expect it.
    I allowed her to do what she likes(It should be a good one)and really it is giving me a positive impact.
    All parents need to know this.
    Thank you Sadhguru. 🙏❤❤❤❤

  • @YOGA19917
    @YOGA19917 3 роки тому +3

    I am so lucky to have gadgets like this because .
    I can see helpful videos like this
    Thankyou Sadhguru for this and more

  • @TV108DE
    @TV108DE 3 роки тому +1

    Btw.: The media people underlining and amplifying Sadhguru's insights are of highly skillfull quality and supporting love when doing HIS work.

  • @kevinw9073
    @kevinw9073 5 років тому +3

    Being your childs best friend is about all you can ask for.

  • @nagarajuabhinav1571
    @nagarajuabhinav1571 5 років тому +9

    Sadhguru is the solution for every problem on this planet 🙏🙏🙏

  • @harleenkaur7451
    @harleenkaur7451 4 роки тому +2

    Sadhguru, you are simply a magician needed by almost everyone in this world, thanks , I bow in Gratitude, keep guiding and tranforming our lives

  • @taniagil3122
    @taniagil3122 3 роки тому +2

    Wow. I am grateful for this teaching. Thank you.

  • @DonConejo
    @DonConejo 4 роки тому +3

    Shine a little bit! Wow! This 6 things works for all kind of relationships!

  • @stanleyodoemenem8495
    @stanleyodoemenem8495 3 роки тому +1

    From now on, I will be a better father to my children

  • @niaariah5872
    @niaariah5872 4 роки тому +39

    I've needed to hear this..... I have been having the hardest time with my daughter

    • @parminderhundal3041
      @parminderhundal3041 3 роки тому

      Work out

    • @mistythompson5579
      @mistythompson5579 3 роки тому +1

      Me too I'm devastated 😭

    • @Humblequeen-m5c
      @Humblequeen-m5c 3 роки тому

      This too shall pass, I have trouble too with all she’s injecting in a her food wise that I don’t approve well Now am quiet she’s my friend

  • @luckyatoz569
    @luckyatoz569 4 роки тому +2

    Sadhguru is gift for this planet

  • @Im1BossyChick
    @Im1BossyChick 3 роки тому +2

    So much of this I already live by with my beloved Son, but this is encouragement to heighten my efforts. I love you , Sadhguru. Thank you.

  • @valarmathydhanasekar405
    @valarmathydhanasekar405 5 років тому +12

    Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.

  • @PrabhakarRao1959
    @PrabhakarRao1959 Рік тому

    Wonderful, for the would be parents and for those who are already the parents.......
    It's also for KG to PG teachers...
    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @missirritated4872
    @missirritated4872 5 років тому +20

    I get such a kick out of when he chuckles!♡♡♡

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +4

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @missirritated4872
      @missirritated4872 5 років тому +3

      @@ilovelife6249 thank you! Blessings to you dear friend!

  • @kevinw9073
    @kevinw9073 4 роки тому +11

    Never too late to be a friend to your child. Time is all you have.

  • @prakashsharma-xr1wm
    @prakashsharma-xr1wm 3 роки тому +1

    Going to be parent soon, and this video makes so much of sense,
    Love you Sadhguru

  • @foodiehaven1
    @foodiehaven1 3 роки тому +2

    This video just wanted my heart....just the kind of parent I want to be

  • @gusbecerra52
    @gusbecerra52 3 роки тому +1

    Sadghuru you are my guardian angel...i think the Universe tells you what to speak to us

  • @rameshv4100
    @rameshv4100 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful compilation, thank you. As always wonderful Sadguru. Pranaam.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +32

    If a child doesn't respect you and look up to you, the bond will always be shallow.

    • @pallavsarkar2818
      @pallavsarkar2818 5 років тому +8

      One should never look up to anyone.
      Neither should they look down to anyone.
      🙏

    • @mr.c2485
      @mr.c2485 5 років тому +2

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me
      Respect demanded will be rejected. Respect commanded will be accepted. Parents must master the difference between the two.

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +1

      @@pallavsarkar2818
      True

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +1

      @@mr.c2485
      True...

  • @teresiakitivo3847
    @teresiakitivo3847 5 років тому +4

    Oh my God that was a great teaching's I ever had thank you.

  • @andrijagrgic2357
    @andrijagrgic2357 3 роки тому +1

    He does have a point there. But all the experiences you had as a parent cannot mean nothing.
    Of course you have to let your child make their own mistakes, but through all the experiences good and bad you went through, you can at least advise your child. Advise that won't let your child get into trouble over their heads.

  • @b.l.a.c.k-shiva
    @b.l.a.c.k-shiva 4 роки тому +6

    Omg yes 💖 I made videos on this similar thinking. I'm so glad to have found you. Peace and Health

  • @realjayjobes1849
    @realjayjobes1849 5 років тому +64

    “Listen to their kind of rap music!” Yes, yes Sadhguru I agree.

    • @magicpentameter
      @magicpentameter 5 років тому +9

      Me too! My mother refuses to listen to anything that she thinks even sounds like rap, I don't feel comfortable sharing any music I find with her because of it.
      Her loss 😕

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +5

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @123Dannyboyful
    @123Dannyboyful 3 роки тому +6

    I always feel better and relaxed after listening. “ It just makes sense.“

  • @anneworlds7626
    @anneworlds7626 5 років тому +2

    Well said sadhguru
    Everything it has to be firmly
    And same time showing affection towards into our child
    We’re not perfect as a parents
    We try our best we can look after our families..
    Treat our kids like our best friend and companion.. more happiness to come ...

    • @ilovelife6249
      @ilovelife6249 5 років тому +1

      With the grace of Sadhguru.....May you and your Family remain Healthy and Happy
      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @anneworlds7626
      @anneworlds7626 5 років тому

      I Love Life thanks you

  • @udupi123456
    @udupi123456 5 років тому +9

    worth spending 19:14 mins..

  • @prachurjo_dewanjee
    @prachurjo_dewanjee 3 роки тому +5

    Phenomenal Clarity & wisdom by Sadhguru 🙏

  • @vanysachterbahnfahrt
    @vanysachterbahnfahrt 2 роки тому

    I am proud that I understood so many things. But I can work on More LESS MEDIA and more sleeping und nature Even with a tent. Beeing a bettet example myself. But I am eye to eye with My Children. I dont care about grades. Just that They Are happy and Good humans. And I dont See them as My Extension. I dont discipline them. I am really proud. But still improving. Thank you sadghuru

  • @cassagrg
    @cassagrg 2 роки тому +1

    I saved this post 2 years ago because I liked it. Now , I’m going to become a papa on march of next year, I’ll try my best to implement these lessons in my life too. But I’ll have to watch it again and again , otherwise I’ll forget 😆.
    Thank you sadhguru 😀

  • @RCh.1
    @RCh.1 5 років тому +16

    It is too easy making a generation better than ours, because ours has sunk pretty low on all personal standards 💔

  • @lM-wp4sn
    @lM-wp4sn 3 роки тому +3

    I enjoy listening to your wise words. Thank you for sharing 🙏🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @ParthKhulbe
    @ParthKhulbe 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you thank you thank you.. mother of 6year boy... Thank u 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @rameshv4100
    @rameshv4100 2 роки тому +1

    Children are not our property, our property is their's ! ;-) Pranaam.

  • @karencampbell1946
    @karencampbell1946 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this, we all need a little reminder of the importance of raising children, Ipads and televisions are a curse. God bless xx

  • @justdoit6315
    @justdoit6315 5 років тому +4

    Thank you so much and lots of love.❤

  • @lekshmimithun8759
    @lekshmimithun8759 2 роки тому +2

    I ❤️ U Sadhguru 🤗

  • @aprilmoon1509
    @aprilmoon1509 3 роки тому

    These 6 things to be a better parent will work I believe for any relationship - for a friend, spouse, siblings ...

  • @avnipatel2401
    @avnipatel2401 3 роки тому +1

    awesome!! I will follow your tips Sadhguru

  • @tammygraham7452
    @tammygraham7452 4 роки тому +1

    Just finish praying, crying.asking for guidance to been a good parent (:

  • @cartlone2732
    @cartlone2732 2 роки тому

    Very true nice. 👍
    We both enjoyed our children so much... Not easy but we feel blessed to have them. They've so much to share and tell.
    Build-up a friendship with them instead of controlling. Give them freedom to live their life. What works for you doesn't mean they have to follow. Our child grows according to time and changes.

  • @julianapaz8866
    @julianapaz8866 3 роки тому +2

    This is a balsame for the ❤

  • @aspakp1791
    @aspakp1791 5 років тому +4

    Tq sadguru giving such a beautifula tips to today's generation

  • @d.amirthavarshinik.r.jayan4687
    @d.amirthavarshinik.r.jayan4687 3 роки тому +1

    You are just amazing
    These tips are really useful

  • @pherltv
    @pherltv 3 роки тому +2

    I learned a lot from this video. This is how I was parented by my late dad.

  • @mageshsheebarani9646
    @mageshsheebarani9646 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Sadhguru....Namaskaram.