My daughter is 37! We have been working on our relationship for years! Always have fun together!! Even painting her house together is fun to us!! She is a good friend cause I know I was a good friend when she was little! We played games, danced, went to parks, read books daily! So much fun! Best time in my life to have them in my experience here on earth! They still teach me to this day!
This is so true. Parents should tell their kids that we are human too. We also make mistakes and you can too. Just be you. And see your children would start seeing you from different perspective.
Well said Guruji...I loved the mu..mu...part..so true. We love wen they r infants n we play around with them n wen they slowly grow up as young boys We start our moral.policing...lose patience on them. Maybe in the current gen we as parents r too busy working n losing patience.
I do agree with you, Sir Sanhguru. In my case I have a disrespectful son who didn’t like advices and disciplines he was influenced by his cousin and his friends. I started to pray and gave him space to explore but I have to be careful the way I talk to him he’s very sensitive. There’s a saying practice what you preach… As time went by he realized his mistakes that it’s only his mom who can help him whatever problem he had/has. He is now 30 years old, has a job and a place to stay. I still keep praying for him. The Bible says pray without ceasing.🙏😇❤️
"I am not the body I am not the mind I am a mother to this world"🙏Whoever surrendered to this master spiritual teacher become a mother.. Mother to the world. Love Sadhguru ❤
Things you can learn on an iPad are very limited. Your child is not learning motor skills/fine motor skills as he would be with a pen and paper. No human interaction. The iPad does too much entertaining leaving no room for imagination. So the children grow up needing to be constantly entertained, without imagination, probably in poor health cause they sit too much, and with undeveloped fine motor skills cause they didn’t train all of the muscles in their hands, but instead just dragged a finger across the screen No thank you! I can teach my child myself instead of giving him a robot iPad
@Liliya Laughlin that was not the point I was making. I meant supervised learning. I am an English tutor, so I use an Android tablet, and the kid uses it for drawing. It is not meant to suppress their imagination or for entertainment but to use colors to create one image in their minds. These tech tools are created to supplement not meant for entertainment purposes alone. So, yes, I am thankful for having one to teach the kids. But I also take the kids to the park to explore nature and the colors and creatures present in nature. I like adopting a hybrid approach using traditional tools like pen, paper, books, and technology for learning. Not for entertainment but for learning because a tablet has so many features within it. If they want to hone those skills, they can do so and one day become a graphic designer or an artist.
When my children come home from school having learned something I don't know about I always tell them: they are the house expect on this subject, and I defer to their knowledge on the subject. It usually make exploring the subject further together much more rewarding for us
One day, when it was the fashion, my 15 year old son came home with a stud in each pierced ear. I noticed it alright but decided not to say anything. It was no fun for him, meaning I'm on same level, game for anything! After graduating and looking for first job he took it off.
I don't wish to be younger than my teens but I wish I am wiser than them n knows what they feel before they even tell me anythg . Before even they feel bad..I know how to make them good..n let them be healthy n happy forever till end of time ..even after I am gone. We don't belong to their millennial or alpha gen. But at least close up the gap..my both kids are very different n we all are different.
Sir the last part of your speech was very true that we should shine a bit in front of our teenager children.. That way they surely will love you, support you, respect you and follow you in life👌great👍🙏
I remember telling myself I’d tell my kids there are certain things I don’t know and I would love them to help me out … the next thing I know ….. I heard them discussing with one another . ‘ Don’t ask her she is aanda, zero , knows nothing , …. I gave them a piece of my mind …. Now they are back on track .😀
Vanakum 👏 guru all correct 💯,I lost my Gran kid by being very strict, my daughter was same, Boss to the kid they went away to the Dad an never come back,Ii wish ur advice I see when the kids was small,our Old school behavior won't work todayfor the New generation, Txs 👏🌹 no harm in trying to be young like the child,u under better,"Bad temper,"scolding all is of no use,👏🙏😅🤞
The reason parents choose to discipline bec that is easier then being an inspirational person changing our own self is hard easier to demand that do what u tell them and not what they observe u being a role model is hard
No single rule applies to all parents and kid combination. Each pair is different and unique. Some kids on admitting ignorance can overtake parents and treat them with disrespect and overlook advice and get into trouble. Some kids under stress might under perform. Some under control and stressed can out perform and behave well. What worked for you with your kid may not work for another kid. Its always parents that decide how to deal with their kids.. Each situation and family is unique. Its better not to advise on this to anyone. Let them do whats suitable for their circumstances and nature of their kids.
I agree! I have six sons and they are all different. Each child has needed something different from me, some have been challenging and others have been easy going. Each individual need’s a unique love. Who said this parenting would be easy? It depends where you live also! I agree with some of his points but it’s not a one fits all approach, there’s a fine line between being a friend to your children and giving them the freedom to believe they have authority over you.
I agree with the Guru here. Once upon a time, my teenage child confided that they used to ignore me because they love the frustration it brought upon me - cause I kept advising them as if they're toddlers
Beautiful Sir. Balance is the most difficult yet most important part of becoming a parent. Also, children learn fear from parents. Otherwise every child is born fear free. Joyful & friendly to bring out their best potential without feeling that we own them, coz we can't.❤. Thank you🙏🏼.
Its always 2 sides in relation. Some times children grew up and adore their drank bumps parents who abandoned them at yang age, some- estrange their parents who gave them love and support.
My son ignores us. He is 34. I was strict when he was young but we also had many years of family fun doing games, camping, activities everything. He keeps contact and texts my husband. But he ignores me. My heart breaks every time I think of it. I tried to talk with him but it doesn’t t work. So I stopped everything hoping someday he will comeback and tell me why he is so distant with me. Thanks. 😢
I can imagine this must be very hard for you. Maybe you can ask why he ignores you. Or if he is angry on you.. I am 34 myself and became very sad and angry towards my mother this year. I love my mother but this is more a fact than a feeling. For me its often painfull to be with her. She gives me the feeling Im not good enough. Im practising to deal with this feelings now, so I can feel her love again and mine. Hopefully this helps a little. Goodluck 😘
@@rosavanginneke1967 thank you..maybe I do this with him without knowing. I will be careful how I speak, encourage and make positive encouragements to him. Thanks
If he has a wife or partner, who feels that you are a threat to their relationship, maybe because he loves you more than his partner, then it may be his partners bad influence of turning him against you, dear Mum. Karma and time will tell
Sadhguru gives such great advice ! His teaching is changing the world only if people are willing to embrace his advice ! He's such a Great Gift to humanity! Thank you Sadhguru 💖🌹💖
Yes, only because the ones who have been following western culture, and know nothing about our ancient Hindhu scriptures will realize that whatever values that they were brought up with does not match up with the teachings of our Ramayan, Gita and most importantly the Mahabharatha
My child is like this naturally and don't listen to me..I try but it's like talking to myself..trying to teach the child how to stay out of trouble. I'm about to lose my mind!
I know it's hard, my mother was over controlling and tried to that to me. It backfired. We didn't get along, and I did get into trouble, and she used to scold me a lot.
Exactly...I've been trying to say these things for months... nobody can hear me. May we all receive what we need. What we want to need and what we need to want. 🙏♥️🙏
Normal human being do not need any tricks so that their kids will fall in luv with parents, every kids live their parents and parents always luv their kids whatever the situation. Kids can show anger smtime wth parents only as parents will tolerate, not all. A mother, a father do not need mother's advice to raise kids.
Soon the Earth will be Transformed into a Safe+ Beautiful Paradise. We are invited to Learn about Jehovah God + How to Respectfully be His Friend to live Forever in this Paradise❤️Learn more @ JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
🙏🏻our children worship us. And we worship our parents. As well as our children. There's not another description about it. We nurture and support each other. Thats a base of living I don't ever have to question. I don't have to read right and wrong into my living. I'm not wrong and you're not right. And the humans I've been created out of and the humans I create are not a side bar of my life. Ha. quite the opposite. No?
Well said. We parents don't need the advice of people who were never prepared to be a parent (who wish that they were as young as their offsprings) if those parents made mistakes, then take responsibility to care for those mistakes, not become like them, meaning that, if you, (the parent) had no guidance, then your children will obviously grow up into becoming irresponsible parents to create more future irresponsible creatures,
Wow! Thank you sir for this vlogs of yours, now I knew, to apply it to my grand children, friends etc. That's why some children they dont follow your advice even though u r telling the right for them.
Dear Sir. I would like to disagree with you when you say parents wish that they were young and were born too early. When one becomes a mother, the only thing in her mind will be to protect her child. And from her own life's experiences, she will try to guide her child in the right direction. Or else they would become just like the monkeys whose mothers knew nothing because they belong to the jungle. We as parents should take the responsibility to guide our children in the right direction. Not leave them to do as they please.
@@hkf8678 If children judge parents are wring they will not copy parents. These days social media and society gives lots of role models behavioral norms for youngsters. Parents play least role. Please observe and understand this. What you say could be right before the arrival if internet
What if ur kids no longer listen to u or respect you they want to be the parents.. Live their way of life.. I must not remind them to do prayer tidy before afternoon prayer time sts in to speak with respect not say u or raize voice . Keep room doors closed...keep to room avoid parent what do i do.
I think disciplining a child is very essential. Otherwise, we could have more murderers and rapists roaming around. I don't agree with Sadhguru completely
I disowned mine and have never felt better. And cursed my oldest sister to hopefully pay her karmic evil debts within the next 48 hours. The universe believes in balance ...yin and yang ... Right guru dude? We can call in debts and I have.
Yes, I do believe in Karma a lot, good and bad. Why did u disown? How did u disown? We can never own anyone just like no one can own us. We are not slaves. Everything and everyone in this life, just like this body, is all temporary in nature. I lost it all and know I am going to be losing more. Every day, we lose hair on our head. Yes, I do agree people do evil and bad stuff, just like we are capable of doing it too, dude.
It's very hard to make people fall in love ❤️ with you. Let it be a natural process. Don't try too hard. Just be your self. Movies give us the wrong impression sometimes.
Regarding discipline, you saydoing in particular way is not discipline, Sadhguru. Doing yogic practice in a particular way as a routine is discipline. Contradicts. We have to learn better things, agreed
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My daughter is 37! We have been working on our relationship for years! Always have fun together!! Even painting her house together is fun to us!! She is a good friend cause I know I was a good friend when she was little! We played games, danced, went to parks, read books daily! So much fun! Best time in my life to have them in my experience here on earth! They still teach me to this day!
This is so true. Parents should tell their kids that we are human too. We also make mistakes and you can too. Just be you. And see your children would start seeing you from different perspective.
I am 72 years old, how I wish I was told this when I had my children. X hopefully I can do this with my grandchildren.
You can still tell your children this. It's never too late 😊
Me too! 18:06
Well said Guruji...I loved the mu..mu...part..so true. We love wen they r infants n we play around with them n wen they slowly grow up as young boys We start our moral.policing...lose patience on them. Maybe in the current gen we as parents r too busy working n losing patience.
I do agree with you, Sir Sanhguru. In my case I have a disrespectful son who didn’t like advices and disciplines he was influenced by his cousin and his friends. I started to pray and gave him space to explore but I have to be careful the way I talk to him he’s very sensitive. There’s a saying practice what you preach… As time went by he realized his mistakes that it’s only his mom who can help him whatever problem he had/has. He is now 30 years old, has a job and a place to stay. I still keep praying for him. The Bible says pray without ceasing.🙏😇❤️
I loved this Talk So much I had to listen to it immediately Again 😮 ! Sadhguru is Brilliant ❤
"I am not the body I am not the mind I am a mother to this world"🙏Whoever surrendered to this master spiritual teacher become a mother.. Mother to the world. Love Sadhguru ❤
Sadhguru shines AGAIN with His PROFOUND Advice ❤
Thank you very much Guru ji. True falling in love will surely solves. 👃👃👃
there is only one thing to do: "Fall in love with them." Thank you sir 🙏
“So you buy him an iPad to get rid of the child” - golden words. I wish more people have watched this video.
Love this ♥️
I disagree, not to get rid of the child but to learn. We need some of these tools nowadays to learn.
Things you can learn on an iPad are very limited. Your child is not learning motor skills/fine motor skills as he would be with a pen and paper. No human interaction. The iPad does too much entertaining leaving no room for imagination. So the children grow up needing to be constantly entertained, without imagination, probably in poor health cause they sit too much, and with undeveloped fine motor skills cause they didn’t train all of the muscles in their hands, but instead just dragged a finger across the screen
No thank you! I can teach my child myself instead of giving him a robot iPad
@Liliya Laughlin that was not the point I was making. I meant supervised learning. I am an English tutor, so I use an Android tablet, and the kid uses it for drawing. It is not meant to suppress their imagination or for entertainment but to use colors to create one image in their minds. These tech tools are created to supplement not meant for entertainment purposes alone. So, yes, I am thankful for having one to teach the kids. But I also take the kids to the park to explore nature and the colors and creatures present in nature. I like adopting a hybrid approach using traditional tools like pen, paper, books, and technology for learning. Not for entertainment but for learning because a tablet has so many features within it. If they want to hone those skills, they can do so and one day become a graphic designer or an artist.
When my children come home from school having learned something I don't know about I always tell them: they are the house expect on this subject, and I defer to their knowledge on the subject. It usually make exploring the subject further together much more rewarding for us
One day, when it was the fashion, my 15 year old son came home with a stud in each pierced ear. I noticed it alright but decided not to say anything. It was no fun for him, meaning I'm on same level, game for anything! After graduating and looking for first job he took it off.
I don't wish to be younger than my teens but I wish I am wiser than them n knows what they feel before they even tell me anythg . Before even they feel bad..I know how to make them good..n let them be healthy n happy forever till end of time ..even after I am gone. We don't belong to their millennial or alpha gen. But at least close up the gap..my both kids are very different n we all are different.
Wish every parent watches this video and implements it.
Thank you SadGuru.
Sir the last part of your speech was very true that we should shine a bit in front of our teenager children.. That way they surely will love you, support you, respect you and follow you in life👌great👍🙏
The greatest pain is when we go wrong. Thank you for reminding us of the way of light
Just started listening to you like it a lot it has changed me
I remember telling myself I’d tell my kids there are certain things I don’t know and I would love them to help me out … the next thing I know ….. I heard them discussing with one another . ‘ Don’t ask her she is aanda, zero , knows nothing , …. I gave them a piece of my mind …. Now they are back on track .😀
I had my good share nothing worked hoping for the best in time to come
Vanakum 👏 guru all correct 💯,I lost my Gran kid by being very strict, my daughter was same, Boss to the kid they went away to the Dad an never come back,Ii wish ur advice I see when the kids was small,our Old school behavior won't work todayfor the New generation, Txs 👏🌹 no harm in trying to be young like the child,u under better,"Bad temper,"scolding all is of no use,👏🙏😅🤞
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Children view the world with new eyes . Parents we already have made up our minds about it or not now it's their turn
God bless you.
The reason parents choose to discipline bec that is easier then being an inspirational person changing our own self is hard easier to demand that do what u tell them and not what they observe u being a role model is hard
Thank you very much for the wonderful video, Sadhguru gaaru 🙏A much needed one. I made me realise what really works. Thanks a lot Sadhuguru gaaru🙏
Insightful
Thank you 💖
Zaburdust ideas Sadguru.I appreciate you.
Thank you so very much for this.
No single rule applies to all parents and kid combination. Each pair is different and unique. Some kids on admitting ignorance can overtake parents and treat them with disrespect and overlook advice and get into trouble. Some kids under stress might under perform. Some under control and stressed can out perform and behave well. What worked for you with your kid may not work for another kid. Its always parents that decide how to deal with their kids.. Each situation and family is unique. Its better not to advise on this to anyone. Let them do whats suitable for their circumstances and nature of their kids.
Well said
I agree too!
I agree! I have six sons and they are all different. Each child has needed something different from me, some have been challenging and others have been easy going. Each individual need’s a unique love. Who said this parenting would be easy? It depends where you live also! I agree with some of his points but it’s not a one fits all approach, there’s a fine line between being a friend to your children and giving them the freedom to believe they have authority over you.
I agree with the Guru here. Once upon a time, my teenage child confided that they used to ignore me because they love the frustration it brought upon me - cause I kept advising them as if they're toddlers
Thank you for sharing 🙏
Beautiful Sir. Balance is the most difficult yet most important part of becoming a parent. Also, children learn fear from parents. Otherwise every child is born fear free. Joyful & friendly to bring out their best potential without feeling that we own them, coz we can't.❤. Thank you🙏🏼.
Thank you for the valuable advice. Its open up my eyes.
Its always 2 sides in relation. Some times children grew up and adore their drank bumps parents who abandoned them at yang age, some- estrange their parents who gave them love and support.
Your 💯 right I’ve been one of these parents ATM! Wise words with common sense!
I love this👍🙏
My son ignores us. He is 34. I was strict when he was young but we also had many years of family fun doing games, camping, activities everything. He keeps contact and texts my husband. But he ignores me. My heart breaks every time I think of it. I tried to talk with him but it doesn’t t work. So I stopped everything hoping someday he will comeback and tell me why he is so distant with me. Thanks. 😢
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If the person doesn't speak up,just ignore.We are not jyothishis to guess .
I can imagine this must be very hard for you. Maybe you can ask why he ignores you. Or if he is angry on you..
I am 34 myself and became very sad and angry towards my mother this year.
I love my mother but this is more a fact than a feeling. For me its often painfull to be with her. She gives me the feeling Im not good enough. Im practising to deal with this feelings now, so I can feel her love again and mine.
Hopefully this helps a little. Goodluck 😘
@@rosavanginneke1967 thank you..maybe I do this with him without knowing. I will be careful how I speak, encourage and make positive encouragements to him. Thanks
If he has a wife or partner, who feels that you are a threat to their relationship, maybe because he loves you more than his partner, then it may be his partners bad influence of turning him against you, dear Mum. Karma and time will tell
Thanks
I love this!
thanks sadghu
I thank you for this insight!
Sadhguru gives such great advice ! His teaching is changing the world only if people are willing to embrace his advice ! He's such a Great Gift to humanity! Thank you Sadhguru 💖🌹💖
Yes, only because the ones who have been following western culture, and know nothing about our ancient Hindhu scriptures will realize that whatever values that they were brought up with does not match up with the teachings of our Ramayan, Gita and most importantly the Mahabharatha
I absolutely agree glad to have been able to do most of this. They were and still my true friends. Thaks .
Nice job bro.i like your video
Thank you 🙏 for helping me, it's never too late for me to change
Is this video available in tamil
My child is like this naturally and don't listen to me..I try but it's like talking to myself..trying to teach the child how to stay out of trouble. I'm about to lose my mind!
I know it's hard, my mother was over controlling and tried to that to me. It backfired. We didn't get along, and I did get into trouble, and she used to scold me a lot.
Exactly...I've been trying to say these things for months... nobody can hear me. May we all receive what we need. What we want to need and what we need to want. 🙏♥️🙏
I do same sadguru, I make relationship with my son he is my best friend
SADHGURU
Normal human being do not need any tricks so that their kids will fall in luv with parents, every kids live their parents and parents always luv their kids whatever the situation. Kids can show anger smtime wth parents only as parents will tolerate, not all. A mother, a father do not need mother's advice to raise kids.
Soon the Earth will be Transformed into a Safe+ Beautiful Paradise. We are invited to Learn about Jehovah God + How to Respectfully be His Friend to live Forever in this Paradise❤️Learn more @ JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
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You can not have good relationship with the your child's to be friend.Friends braking up as well. It's simple.
🙏🏻our children worship us. And we worship our parents. As well as our children. There's not another description about it. We nurture and support each other. Thats a base of living I don't ever have to question. I don't have to read right and wrong into my living. I'm not wrong and you're not right. And the humans I've been created out of and the humans I create are not a side bar of my life. Ha. quite the opposite. No?
Well said. We parents don't need the advice of people who were never prepared to be a parent (who wish that they were as young as their offsprings) if those parents made mistakes, then take responsibility to care for those mistakes, not become like them, meaning that, if you, (the parent) had no guidance, then your children will obviously grow up into becoming irresponsible parents to create more future irresponsible creatures,
Wow! Thank you sir for this vlogs of yours, now I knew, to apply it to my grand children, friends etc. That's why some children they dont follow your advice even though u r telling the right for them.
It is true
A very good explanation by Sadguru,
Amen
Insightful..but a mother's love is very different.... Only a strong women can follow strongly and see a child fall and get up themselves..
Thank you😘❤️😍
🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹Namaskaram Sadhgurujii Yes, Exactly I too 2nd it now. Thank you so much dear. ❤️
I dont have any
To attract youngsters and earn more supporting them😆
A mother is born, with her child.
Please, understand, both r same
I Love sadghuru 💞
rosita ebanez ,reyben pantoja, princess pantoja, roes entrreso, ronald entereso close kmi ng mga anak ko at bff
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Dear Sir. I would like to disagree with you when you say parents wish that they were young and were born too early. When one becomes a mother, the only thing in her mind will be to protect her child. And from her own life's experiences, she will try to guide her child in the right direction. Or else they would become just like the monkeys whose mothers knew nothing because they belong to the jungle. We as parents should take the responsibility to guide our children in the right direction. Not leave them to do as they please.
what i got from this is parents must be a good example that a child can emulate, can look up to. It is also a way of guiding them.
@lovey
Thats right.
@@hkf8678
If children judge parents are wring they will not copy parents. These days social media and society gives lots of role models behavioral norms for youngsters. Parents play least role. Please observe and understand this. What you say could be right before the arrival if internet
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What if ur kids no longer listen to u or respect you they want to be the parents.. Live their way of life.. I must not remind them to do prayer tidy before afternoon prayer time sts in to speak with respect not say u or raize voice . Keep room doors closed...keep to room avoid parent what do i do.
Thank you Guru for the insight from our young children's mind
I think disciplining a child is very essential. Otherwise, we could have more murderers and rapists roaming around. I don't agree with Sadhguru completely
Sadhguru
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I disowned mine and have never felt better. And cursed my oldest sister to hopefully pay her karmic evil debts within the next 48 hours. The universe believes in balance ...yin and yang ... Right guru dude? We can call in debts and I have.
So much hate, what happened Robin? Hope you are well.
Yes, I do believe in Karma a lot, good and bad. Why did u disown? How did u disown? We can never own anyone just like no one can own us. We are not slaves. Everything and everyone in this life, just like this body, is all temporary in nature. I lost it all and know I am going to be losing more. Every day, we lose hair on our head. Yes, I do agree people do evil and bad stuff, just like we are capable of doing it too, dude.
Why does Sadhguru always use the word damned? Verry strange to hear you say that all the time 🤔
Instead of using Fu@## he uses damned. 😆
This should be in hindi language
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How to make ur husband fall in love with u
Be the best version of yourself, if he still doesn’t, it’s clearly a sign from the universe that you deserve better, you need to make a change.
Make him your buddy! 😆
It's very hard to make people fall in love ❤️ with you. Let it be a natural process. Don't try too hard. Just be your self. Movies give us the wrong impression sometimes.
But you advised your child not to look up to you.
Regarding discipline, you saydoing in particular way is not discipline, Sadhguru. Doing yogic practice in a particular way as a routine is discipline. Contradicts. We have to learn better things, agreed
Watch and listen to the video again and again till you get what he means.
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