Dependent Personality Disorder and Overfunctioning (2021 Rerun)
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September 27, 2021
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The “narcissistic” wife was 6 mos pp. she was probably up all night with the baby, hoping to get a nap while the baby napped, and was pissed that her husband ruined the vibes during the sliver of a chance she had to rest
Seriously, poor wife
yeah, I have been thinking also of postpartum depressions which seem to be quite common in "fresh" mums, apart from stress and fatigue, which bring certainly out the worst in people
In regards to the first question: I work with a lot of kids who have high demand avoidance/Pathological Demand Avoidant profile so I’m obviously biased towards what I’m familiar with, but decisions are one thing that can feel like a demand and become intensely overwhelming for those kids. Just thought it might be an interesting perspective!
As an adult who was diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood (along with anxiety, which I experience largely as a result of executive dysfunction plus the effects of a high ACE score), I often experience demand avoidance, and also really struggle to “activate” when confronted with a multi-step task, a task with multiple unknowns, or if a task has an ambiguous deadline or is too far into the future…or if a task holds personal significance and I have anxiety around the task itself… I always appreciate conversations around topics that deal with neurodivergence, as each of my children have a different flavor of neurodivergence. Makes for a complicated family dynamic oftentimes!
Hello! Love your channel and listen to it quite often! Don't know if you'll ever read this but at 59:27 the eMail-writer asked specifically about females being covertly aggressive to other females as a result of being a daughter that has an enmeshed relationship with her mum (it was not a question about enmeshed people in general who would as a result be aggressive to females, if I got it right). The question if the relationship with your same-gender-parent influences your relationships with same-gender-friends sounds interesting to me (especially if there is some underlying disorder). Thanks for your work, it's great and super interesting!
3:30 Dr. Honda, isn't the whole 'I want to be exactly like Mommy or Daddy' outlook part of the normal developmental milestones for 7 year olds? I know parents often refer to kids in that age group as 'mini mes' because it's very common for children that age to crave being exactly like the parent, and almost all children grow out of it.