I wonder how Jennifer Gardner and Marc Anthony feel after hearing Ben and Jennifer talk about having never stopped loving each other and being the loves of their life
Only jlo' says that love of my life BS. Anyone you are with should be the love of your life for that time in your life. I've had more than one myself! What was worse is she said "I fell in love for the first time" at 32! After 2 marriages and a long term relationship with her high school boyfriend. That was pretty unbelievable. She's just hyping this thing with Ben up too much. I'm like Jane Fonda. I see a fall if she keeps on being so dependent on him for her happiness and she's too public. At least she kept his kids out of it completely and mostly her kids although she talks about how she's worried she'll fail them. Probably Ben's demand.
Jlo is re-writing history, Ben fell in love with Garner whilst engaged to JLo so there's a definite overlap. Ben jilted Jlo for a reason. He made Garner his first wife and mother of his children three times. Jlo and her ego can't get over the fact that he left her for another woman and married her. This whole film thingy is a dig at Garner and Jlo's exes, they cheat on her for a reason, she's a complete narcissist, where are her friends? I don't see any other women around her, strange. Ben knew the doormat Jlo would take him back because she's so needy. All of Ben's exes were probably sick of his selfish behaviour but Jlo is willing to overlook his addictions, he swaps out one addiction for another. The fact that he is happy and flirty around Jen Garner is very telling.
@@LA-gh3mi You're right...she really doesn't do well with females. The one friend she did have (Leah Remini) is gone now too. She can't function without a man in her life and jumps from one bed to another. It's glaringly obvious how insecure she is about herself.
We get it, Ben is the best thing that has ever happened to you in your life. Her entire brand is based upon her love life at the time. Every man is her “true love” and really sees her and helps her to be better than the last man did. She said the same thing about Arod.
I was thinking the same thing! She did her documentary when she was doing her 50th birthday tour. She said that about ARod. He was always encouraging her and giving her pep talks. He helped her increase her business. And.....before anyone says that he cheated, well he never met the girl in person( I do know that you can emotionally cheat) but, she was doing the same thing with Ben. So, she really can't be mad at that! I get tired of people conveniently forgetting that part. Anyway, I wish them the best.
Jlo jumped into Ben's arms so fast even before Arod's side of the bed cooled down😂 Have to wonder if the two of them were already communicating before her breakup with Arod🤔
100% agree. I've seen videos of them together, and she acts very childish around him, playing with his hand or grabbing to embrace him in a baby voice while he's trying to discuss something important. I guess over the years she was too busy trying to be successful so she didn't really have time to mature. This underscores that pseudo-success does not require maturity. It just requires an excellent PR team.
@@susanagonzalez9425 being surrounding by yes men for years n valuing yourself based on wealth (especially that wasn’t all accumulated based on her efforts) really stunts your maturity. She’s like a 54 yo teenager and she can’t see that cuz she’ll never have wisdom
En serio este trastorno es tan común en todos los que d ela nada se volvieron ricos y famosos y no quieren perder ser el centro de atención, así sea haciendo el ridículo y ser tan patéticos como Jennifer López. No se si es curable este trastorno psiquiátrico pero es algo muy común en gente de hollywood como este caso Jlo o Blake Lively
She’s all BS. Look at interviews she gave when with Marc. She credited Marc for giving her strength to sing, to give her confidence. Every thing she said in the video she said about Marc. She now acts like it was only Ben who gave her the strength.
Marc Anthony's former wife Dayanara Torres was left with two very young boys when Marc left her to pursue Jennifer as soon as he realised that the relationship between Ben and Jennifer was over. To be honest i don't think Dayanara Torres ever recovered and although she has had a number of relationships since she has never remarried.
not at all if you'd have watched her Movie and Docu - but judging without knowing is everything these days fr 😂 you would literally NEVER write this type of comment, if you would have seen the movie. Never. #CancelCultureisboringaf
@ashanyc9146 no its common for Latinas to go from bright light to Carmel or brown depending on the climate change my husband is her shade he's Latino and in the winter his skin is bright yellow but when it warms up he gets like 3 shades darker and tans really well naturally.
When she said “I didn’t think much of myself and so the world didn’t think much of me”. I don’t know if I should have empathy or if I want to shake her for wanting the “entire” world to love her. Many people find JLO cool and inspirational but to be surprised that some don’t can’t be a shock to her - just like there are people she doesn’t like. JLO is the one that wants to be seen and looked up to. It’s in her and has nothing to do with the outside world. The need to seek validation will probably be never ending unless you find peace within.
That’s her problem and she’s admitted to that. That she forever kept seeking validation and to be loved. Which is why she was in so many failed real relationships because it was for that moment. Which actually happens to people and it sucks. She talks about her parents and her mom. She has trauma. That stuff Carrie’s with you.
I know many don’t think she can sing or act. Personally I think she’s very talented and seems to work hard diligently and is highly dedicated. But. Maybe if she focused more on other people and not only herself she’d be happier. You can’t help but become self absorbed when your entire life is about yourself performing and seeking valudation. She made it. Now focus on others. She doesn’t unless there’s a camera to film it. Talented but definitely self centered.
@sophiesoprano. Well she didn’t become known world wide and a millionaire/billionaire if people didn’t care to support her. There are people who are truly lonely by no fault of their own so I can’t sympathize with someone who has children, family, husband, friends is creative and can express that and has a huge fanbase who care about her. She’s teethering on narcissism
She gave him the credit for making her see about herself, what usually our kids makes us see, since they love us unconditionally. You'd think she didn't have kids, and was still in high-school. She gave him too much credit, especially since she's been engaged half a dozen times.
It's all just a grand farce. You see, for years, nobody has cared about her. So she dreams up all these grand things to get attention. It's over the top and pathetic. Think about it, what movie has she EVER made that is MUST-SEE? NONE.
She’s so codependent it’s UNREAL….she said the same things about a rod.. and Marc Anthony. seriously, go back and watch news clips when she was with Marc Anthony she says the exact same thing that she fell in love with him, but they were both taken, but she never fell out of love with him she just “put the love to the side“ and then when they were single they got together. Actually I should say when SHE was single since Mark Anthony was married at the time..and the guy before guy before that and the guy before that ….. the woman has not been single a single month in her whole adult life. That tells you something. I honestly think these two got back together only because it was like. “ hey, I’m single again… hey, I’m single again too… God knows we can’t be partnerless for 5 minutes so you want to get back together? Sure why not 🤦🏼♀️. That’s not love.
Exactly because she admitted that she tried making those men into something they weren’t in her mind. Because the truth is, she wished all those men were the one. And after Ben she kept basically seeking for a guy that reminded her of him. Lots of people do that. They spend years being with people who resemble the one they truly love.
PiazzaGurl I could not agree more with you well said and yes she did say she tried to make those men into something there not and the good in her wanted to try her best to make it work. Truth she tried to date guys that had quality of Ben but unfortunately they did not work out for her as they was not Ben her true love. Second all Jlo wrote two albums about Ben and she never wrote two albums for the other guys and sorry I only ever seen her look at Ben in a special different way.
To add perspective, it's not about giving someone power over her happiness. She gave credit of where credit is due to where he "added" to her life. If you watch the documentary and music video adaptation, it was about her true love, was loving herself. Meanwhile, when she did the work that's when Ben came back in life. So it's more so full circle, relatable because that's life.
@@alisabrowning2572 No she said she couldn't love herself. You have to love yourself first you cannot depend on somebody for that. With or without him she needs to
@ravenc4912 that's not how I heard it. People have been judging her and she had been feeling insecure about herself and him giving her that validation about herself is what she needed. She's said this over and over again
-Sometimes- *_MOST times._* Sure everyone periodically needs a bit of external validation, and certainly appreciation; but the true goal should be your comment, but *_ALWAYS._* 🤍
Absolutely none of this needed to be made public… I feel sorry for Ben. Dealing with a narcissist can be extremely difficult. Especially if that narcissistic is your significant other. Stay strong, brother. ✌️
I think she forgot this guy was still going to strip clubs when he was engaged to her and then ditched out on a wedding that cost a fortune. It didn’t take him five minutes to pick up with someone else and actually get married. That doesn’t sound like someone who sees your value, respects you or could ever help you see the best things about yourself when he moved on so quickly. It’s beyond hard to live with the fact that you were robbed of having the family with someone you should have had. She can never go back and regain that time. It’s tough being denied something so sacred as having a family with someone you loved so much. He resented that it was her new found fame that was bringing all the spotlight and cameras to their relationship. The more magazines were in pursuit if Jennifer the more resentment I think he felt. Competition is never a good thing when it’s created by outside forces pitting two people, who are supposed to love each other, against each other. No doubt he regretted the way he responded but sometimes the damage is simply done.
@@dangerouslydaphJennifer never loved Marc. She has spent her whole adult life running from the pain and humiliation she was dealt when Ben ducked out on their wedding. For 20 years she passed time with distractions hoping that one day they’d reunite. I sincerely believe she needed to see confirmation that their love wasn’t just one sided all those years ago. Ben eviscerated her. Marc was safe because he was desperate to be with her and she knew she held all the power going into that marriage, with no risk of ever being hurt because she didn’t love him. Marc was comfortable and he was a quick convenient salve for her wounded heart. People will often choose to get involved with a partner they’re not that emotionally invested in or they’ll immediately take up with someone they know they’re safe with after such a traumatic split. She still loved Ben throughout her marriage to Marc. Her ego needed the kind of worship Marc gave her right after that breakup. She even says herself that she has only been in love one time in her life. We all know that she is talking about Ben. He dealt her a devastating blow 20 years ago, so luring her back only to dump her again has got to have an incalculable impact on every facet of her life.
Kind of a stretch. My first love left me for another woman whom he married and had kids with. I got married quickly after too and had kids. Now 25 years later we are back together with kids the same age all in college and he and I know we just were not in the place we needed to be in for each other back then. Now we are. Been together 3 years now and going strong. I have never had a love that was so easy. So sometimes it’s just not the right time. Had nothing to do with him robbing her of anything. She went and lived her own life too.
It’s almost like she wants to convince everyone that it’s true love! Just live JLo no need to convince us. I respect celebrities that keep their personal lives private.
Yeah I agree! It’s over the top! Like she needs to prove that they are real! Also they said they broke up because of all the media attention, and yet here they are doing to same thing again!🤦🏽♀️
True. One celebrity i admire is the actress Michelle Pfeiffer she has been married to her second husband David Kelly for about 30 years and they keep their private life private. Michelle Pfeiffer's first marriage ended in divorce and she never spoke about it to the media.
I know I remember what he did right before the wedding and it was the catalyst to their breakup. Now they’re both trying to rewrite history as though the breakup wasn’t set off by it. He crushed her!! If they’re happy, so be it, but the fact that they will never have children together because of his immature impulsive behavior is an epic tragedy.
First I didn't see any tears. Kind of reminded me of when my toddler "cries" because he doesn't get what he wants. Second if you need a man or anyone else to show you how much you are worth there's definitely something going on with you. You can't depend on other's to make you feel happy or fulfilled. That is something you find within.
@@meghanmisaliarshe’s always had harsh angles and looked very ordinary! I always thought she resembled a man when she was still just dancing. Once she blew up, she got a fab production team. I don’t care about a persons looks but the only thing she really ever has had going for her is that she works very hard and doesn’t give up, her work ethic and determination is very strong. Otherwise, she’s not very talented at anything I’ve seen and it’s all smoke in mirrors.
Exactly. And the concept of “soul mates” and “twin souls” and “twin flames” are not real constructs. These terms are usually flung-around by narcissists, or otherwise mentally, or emotionally unhealthy, toxic people, to entrain and manipulate their intimate partner into entering or remaining in their shared fantasy. These terms usually signify a toxic union/trauma bonding of whatever nature.
They married and have kids with other people ,and here talking about having never stopping loving each other all those years 😮. What vows did they give at their weddings to their exs
This what happens when you rebound and marry other ppl, to try and force yourself to move on. You can love many ppl, but everyone you love, is not the same. Happens more than you think.
I admire J Lo’s accomplishments, but this stuff is irritating. The supposed message here is that true love exists. How revolutionary. I feel like I’m watching a midlife crisis unfold and it all feels so incredibly self-centered. They both had full lives until their reunion. I don’t like how partners from the past are devalued and turned to mere footnotes, while their super special love survived everything. Give me a break.
she’s always had harsh angles and looked very ordinary! Once she blew up, she got a fab production team. I don’t care about a persons looks but the only thing she really ever has had going for her is that she works very hard and doesn’t give up, her work ethic and determination is very strong. Otherwise, she’s not very talented at anything I’ve seen and it’s all smoke in mirrors.
Yes, I think it is good to be alone for some time to figure out what you really want in life. Jumping from one failed relationship to the next is not good. Give yourself time to heal first. ✨ Jlo is a beautiful and hardworking woman so why need a man all the time. Spend time alone with your children even just for a year to sort yourself out. She has lots of money 💰 so why need a man all the time?
@@Gigachadbased-p34 I disagree he knew how she is that is why he left her the first time. He would have been better off trying to make it work with Jen G. But he chose THIS attention seeker. No sympathy for them just the poor kids.
Well, it looks like Ben did not want the relationship in the spotlight back then, and he still does not like it. Has J.Lo learned anything from the past? He is not unhappy for no reason in almost all the pictures taken by PAPPARAZI.
@@Mita0.0.0 Ben Affleck doesn't need JLo to survive👀 I don't see him wanting to be in the spotlight for years. They will break up soon. Both of them are stressed and there is undeniable tension between the two.
There are no pictures of her picking up her kids from school. When they were younger. She doesn't seem to be much of a mother. You always see Ben with his children especially when they were younger.
I am so sorry to see her crying like that but it is also hard to feel sorry for her when you hear all the time that she treat staff poorly. I read it many times even today. They all say she is very rude. So if she can see this message... Jennifer be nicer to people who are not rich
Those are all rumors. Her staff has been with her for over 25 years. If she was truly such a “nightmare” - why does she have the same crew she had since 1997? So much of the stories you’ve heard have been completely false and proven so.
The story about her diva attitude has been out there forever. Why didn’t she give up her dressing room to Kelly Roland ? How much up keep these women need.
I love these two together. I think they considered eachother the one who got away for all these years, even while married to other people. Wish them the best.
And keep posting pictures of then together on her Instagram. When he didn't want that smh. My husband said she is obsessed and desperate of him. She's crazy. 😂
She is an insecure human being. When a man gets to know who she really is they leave her.🤷♀Its something about her that any guy she married just loses interest in her.
They are super greedy. They cannot rake in enough money into their empire. When the economists discuss the One Percent grabbing up all the wealth...it's this. And then she acts as if she's doing the public a favor by "sharing" and giving advice on how to live the beautiful life. All the while marketing, marketing, marketing.
She is very insecure and has little to no self esteem or confidence in herself! She is always looking for someone (anyone) who will say I love you! A lot of people say she is dripping with self esteem and self confidence but that is self importance which is a very different thing. Every man who gives her any attention is her true love! She doesn’t care who will love her as long as someone does. It is easy and tempting to see her bad attitude as self confidence but if you look closely you will see that what she displays is self importance. The differences are there nce being that self confident comes from within and is the importance we place upon our selves. It comes from how we impact and change our world. Self importance on the other hand is more dependent on how we believe others want us to see ourselves and being reactionary rather than causatory! While she comes across as powerful and dynamic she is immature, afraid and timid. She has a self important attitude and will have people fired for just looking at her. She is known to be incredibly mean and and self righteous. I truly believe that this stems from insecurity! It is the thought process of if they get to know me they will not like me so no one gets to know me. She thinks too much of herself but in a very superficial way!
JLo deserves all the happiness in the world. Can’t blame someone for always searching for love. She just needed to know that it was inside the whole time. Ben truly is the lover of her life. I like how she explained she never fell out of love either but had to put it to the side. That’s called life. The only reason she gets judged so much is because she’s a public figure.
JLo left out the part that Ben cheated on her with a stripper and that is why they broke of their wedding 20+ years ago. He was with the stripper for weeks while filming out of the country. Ben when on to marry Jenn and guess what he did to her? he cheated on Jen the entire time they were married with prostitutes/strippers. NOT A GOOD type of man to marry. Now he is back with JLo and she thinks he is different. He's not. This is NOT the "greatest love story". She needs to learn to be her own best friend and not depend on men to build her up.
@@jansmith3158lmao 😂 I think it’s funny how people like yourself talk like they’re some firsthand eye witness to what happened. Especially when it’s people you’ve most likely never met a day in your life. It’s kind of weird. You know what you hear and that is all
@@SelenaAaliyahQUINTANILLAHaughtsmfh 😂 some of ya are weird af. You talk like you’re related to these people and you know exactly what’s going on. You even went as far as speaking on Ben and his true feelings 😂 someone that doesn’t even know you exist. That’s strange
I know what it is like to love someone, lose them and still be in love with them years later, but just put them on the back burner. Things still pop up like it just happened 5 minutes ago, the brain is so weird.
I actually don't believe her. I don't think she was spiraling for 18 years like she said. Remember how she joked she would let him and diddy drown if she had a life raft? I think it's all in her head only after Ben got dumped by Ana and he had all kinds of failed relationships so he decided to get in touch with her when she got so embarrassed by some reality star getting DMs from Alex. I think her ego soared from that but is that something that will last?
It could happen, but you can't discount other relationships you've had in between, especially those that brought you children. They had to have meant something and likely you were in love with them. I believe two people can fall in love *again* when they reconnect, but they can fall in love with different people in between at times when they're out of love with you. 🤷🏻♀️ ((And just to clarify, when I'm saying "you" I mean people in general, or JLo in this case, not actually you, OP... haha))
If you were so healed and truly felt love, it would spill over into the rest of the world. The way she treats regular people is repulsive. I don't care about people's personal life, how do you treat others that you have nothing to gain from. Keanu Reeves is an absolute superstar on screen and real life take notes jlo you don't have to be a jerk to be successful.
"I have never fallen out of love with you" - Yeah, no wonder her marriage to Marc Anthony never worked out. Keep in mind that "Rebound" marriage with Anthony which happened months after Ben called off the wedding with Jennifer, came at the expense of Marc Anthony's wife and kids (who were still babies at the time). This woman is pure ME ME ME.
@@wcolautti This is Ben's 2nd marriage (his lasted over 10 years). This is Jennifer's 4th marriage. Where her average time married is around 3 and a half years. The blame he deserves is gravitating back to Jlo. However, its important to note his state of mind at the time of their "reunion". He was a recovering addict who was at his lowest and was being humiliated by thots on "elite" dating sites. JLo had been pining from him even when she was married to Marc Anthony. I remember seeing her gush over Ben in interviews. It was sick considering Anthony left his wife and sons who were babies at the time for JLo. Ben was lonely and vulnerable and at his lowest. Jennifer saw an opportunity to finally do what she was denied 20 years ago. She basically dragged him down the alter (multiple times) and despite claiming "it was Ben's idea" all the necessary paperwork was filed by her. You can see in this clip that her mind time had frozen since when she and Ben were last together. But it hadn't. She's like a cross over between Great Expectations and the Great Gatsby.
She is a codependent and she will never be happy if her happiness is reliant on another human she cannot be alone she always with some man it’s pathetic
Interview from July 2010: Ben Affleck has spoken out about his high-profile relationship with former girlfriend Jennifer Lopez - insisting it was bad for his movie career. The actor began dating the singer in 2002 after starring in Gigli with her, and the pair later became engaged before splitting up shortly before their scheduled wedding in 2004. Affleck is adamant he should never have got involved in the first place - because the publicity surrounding their romance tainted his career. He says, “I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn’t. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity.” “I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren’t getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it’s bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down.” And he admits he is much happier with his wife Jennifer Garner and their two daughters, three-year-old Violet and six-month-old Seraphina to look after. He adds, “Work has taken a back seat. My job is not as important as it was. Saying that having a family changed my life is a cliche. But it’s true - it re-arranged my life and made me see clearly.”
You can love someone, but know you're not IN LOVE with them. Jen Gardner is his ex wife ,& mother of his kids, but He is Not IN LOVE with her. That's a big difference when you settle.
But didn’t she literally say “A-Rod is my soulmate!”?? Hmm. Seems like she loves the one she’s with because she can’t have the one she wants?? She wanted J. Garners family and rep. Garner is the whole package. Beauty, brains, humor, humility, unconditional love, and supportive to Ben when he struggled. He gave up on them. We all remember who J Lo is. She doesn’t? I call major BS. •Cry on camera ✅ •AND END SCENE 🎬 •Stops crying immediately 😐
She didn’t think much of herself?? Who is she kidding. People have seen her interviews, her comments, her unending self aggrandizement, her social media posts. Now they are both trying to rewrite history.
You got it wrong. Deep down she doesn’t think much of herself THATS WHY she feels the need to prove it to the world. Her pics, … everything she does scream for attention and admiration because She DOESNT feel it in herself so she needs it from the outside. So yeah, she doesn’t think much of herself.
I believe Jen feels that Ben is the best thing that has ever happened to her.. When a man knows that, he won't respect you. I never hear him go on like that about her, and he blamed his ex for his alcohol problem and cheating. I hope he doesn't do the same to her. Her entire brand is wrapped up in her love life at the time! Every man is her “true love” and really sees her and helps her to be better than the last man did. She said the same thing about Mark Anthony and Arod.
Not true. Ben wanted to marry and have babies with J-Lo. He was so in love with her. He showed how much he loved her by going back in 2021 bc he had a lot to apologize for bc he denied and betrayed her. His life was in display when he suffered a lot with those public drunken displays over still loving and wanting her but thinking he had lost her forever.think
J lo is very hard working and my inspiration, i have always admired her, she showed the world that all women are valuable and attractive at all ages not only when they are at their twenties.
No, I do not want to use any of JLo's love, dance, or singing stories to believe love does exist. She has said that about every man she's married. This is simply convenient and believable for hopeful fairytale seekers. Ben and Jen's fans and groupies will worship this bravo "acting" series.
Nobody makes you believe in something. You have to work it out by yourself so that you can hear yourself and make the change which is the real transformation. No need to make a film about it Jen. It seems by your tears there is much work to be done internally without the external "love" of a partner....
narcissists low key be having the lowest self esteem, compensating so hard they come across as arrogant. if you try to save one, they’ll destroy you for trying
He fell in love w/ Garner. That's why he broke up w/ her. Jlo loves media. & hams it up. She's always had a healthy self image & has more talent in so many areas that have made her mega wealthy.
Obviously he loved Jlo more. He said on the Howard Stern Show that he was miserable in his marriage to Garner and if he had stayed in it he would probably be still drinking and she was someone he should not have married. People were upset because he said that but it was his experience and his truth. I think because people like Garner he should have stayed with her but you never know what’s going on in two people private behind the scene. Another thing Garner was 4 months pregnant when he married her. Everyone knew he married her out of obligation and not love. He was not going to have illegitimate child in his life. That would have affected their careers too much if she had been walking around pregnant and not married. Why not just be happy about his marriage to Jlo. They seem to be.
@@paulaburnside1135Ben also said how much he loved Garner after they were broken up. I don't see Ben looking very happy, nowadays. But maybe that's just his personality. Honestly who knows. But if they broke up in few years, I wouldn't be suprised. We just don't know.
When she was crying, she seemed to be acting...but I believe that her feelings about Ben are genuine and I pray that they make it to the end together. Also, wow! Makeup is a magical lie!
Watching 9-9-24...they are divorced. So much for love...she betrayed him by putting the most sacred , his love letters to her on social media. He walked out. I don't blame him
This goes to all the people that talk negative about others... Talking negative about people is how you feel about yourself.. think about this everytime you want to say something bad about someone.. you have a blessed day❤❤❤
Jlo just needs to stay singie shes beautiful she needs to remind herself all the tears she shed after all her breakups im 57 latina 28 yrs ended 2014 all i did was cry until i couldn't nomore so i know the pain us womens have to stay strong being singie is the best waye to go
Oh c'mon...you said the same about Alex...Chris...Marc...Casper.....even Oiani..."saw the best in you" (if there even was🤭 any!?!?)...cry me a river with no tears!!!🥲🥲🥲
We all know she didn't think much of herself. That is why she hops from guy to guy. She needs their validation for existence. She still doesn't think much of herself because she has never given herself the moment to learn who she is, develop independence and confidence.
I wonder how Jennifer Gardner and Marc Anthony feel after hearing Ben and Jennifer talk about having never stopped loving each other and being the loves of their life
😂😂😂
Only jlo' says that love of my life BS. Anyone you are with should be the love of your life for that time in your life. I've had more than one myself! What was worse is she said "I fell in love for the first time" at 32! After 2 marriages and a long term relationship with her high school boyfriend. That was pretty unbelievable. She's just hyping this thing with Ben up too much. I'm like Jane Fonda. I see a fall if she keeps on being so dependent on him for her happiness and she's too public. At least she kept his kids out of it completely and mostly her kids although she talks about how she's worried she'll fail them. Probably Ben's demand.
Jlo is re-writing history, Ben fell in love with Garner whilst engaged to JLo so there's a definite overlap. Ben jilted Jlo for a reason. He made Garner his first wife and mother of his children three times. Jlo and her ego can't get over the fact that he left her for another woman and married her. This whole film thingy is a dig at Garner and Jlo's exes, they cheat on her for a reason, she's a complete narcissist, where are her friends? I don't see any other women around her, strange. Ben knew the doormat Jlo would take him back because she's so needy. All of Ben's exes were probably sick of his selfish behaviour but Jlo is willing to overlook his addictions, he swaps out one addiction for another. The fact that he is happy and flirty around Jen Garner is very telling.
@@LA-gh3mi You're right...she really doesn't do well with females. The one friend she did have (Leah Remini) is gone now too. She can't function without a man in her life and jumps from one bed to another. It's glaringly obvious how insecure she is about herself.
Yeah that was pretty rude and inconsiderate to say
We get it, Ben is the best thing that has ever happened to you in your life. Her entire brand is based upon her love life at the time. Every man is her “true love” and really sees her and helps her to be better than the last man did. She said the same thing about Arod.
I was thinking the same thing! She did her documentary when she was doing her 50th birthday tour. She said that about ARod. He was always encouraging her and giving her pep talks. He helped her increase her business. And.....before anyone says that he cheated, well he never met the girl in person( I do know that you can emotionally cheat) but, she was doing the same thing with Ben. So, she really can't be mad at that! I get tired of people conveniently forgetting that part. Anyway, I wish them the best.
True,people are fools to fall for her PR stunts.Ben sounds like he is speaking his lines for an audition.
@@lisafulton3288 ben never cheated the rest did or was abusive from what she said
Jlo jumped into Ben's arms so fast even before Arod's side of the bed cooled down😂 Have to wonder if the two of them were already communicating before her breakup with Arod🤔
@@cindygallegos2697 Im sensing it's JLO the Pen-Pal hide your husbands.😂
JLo is in love with being in love.
JLO is in love with being in love with JLO
He’ll be disappointing her.
Which is why they won’t last… yet again
Ben disappoints everyone..
leave Jlo alone!!
This is exactly how I sounded like, when I was in high school.
100% agree. I've seen videos of them together, and she acts very childish around him, playing with his hand or grabbing to embrace him in a baby voice while he's trying to discuss something important. I guess over the years she was too busy trying to be successful so she didn't really have time to mature. This underscores that pseudo-success does not require maturity. It just requires an excellent PR team.
@@susanagonzalez9425 being surrounding by yes men for years n valuing yourself based on wealth (especially that wasn’t all accumulated based on her efforts) really stunts your maturity. She’s like a 54 yo teenager and she can’t see that cuz she’ll never have wisdom
I think Jlo watches to much telenovelas😂
@@Liberty19845😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Narcissism is a terrible disease I hope one day she is cured and cares for the well being of her kids,I pity the kids involved in all this.
Yh all of us with narc parents still hope there's a cure but guess what 20 years later same disease different approach 😅💔
That's so true! Hahaaa! 😂
😮😮@@niceplayground
En serio este trastorno es tan común en todos los que d ela nada se volvieron ricos y famosos y no quieren perder ser el centro de atención, así sea haciendo el ridículo y ser tan patéticos como Jennifer López. No se si es curable este trastorno psiquiátrico pero es algo muy común en gente de hollywood como este caso Jlo o Blake Lively
That's not true.@lauramendoza5938
She’s all BS. Look at interviews she gave when with Marc. She credited Marc for giving her strength to sing, to give her confidence. Every thing she said in the video she said about Marc. She now acts like it was only Ben who gave her the strength.
Ben will get bored and cheat if he hasn’t already 🙄
She said Marc encouraged her on her singing ability. Think that was about it.
Didn't she also say Marc was the ,"start of her FairyTale?" 😂😂
Yes Marc was the old love who came back and saved her. We member!
Marc Anthony's former wife Dayanara Torres was left with two very young boys when Marc left her to pursue Jennifer as soon as he realised that the relationship between Ben and Jennifer was over. To be honest i don't think Dayanara Torres ever recovered and although she has had a number of relationships since she has never remarried.
Hard to take her seriously when she talks about being in love.
not at all if you'd have watched her Movie and Docu - but judging without knowing is everything these days fr 😂
you would literally NEVER write this type of comment, if you would have seen the movie. Never. #CancelCultureisboringaf
@@visualhatefvck yes I would
Her skin is also very pale. but you will never see her true skin Color.
@ashanyc9146 no its common for Latinas to go from bright light to Carmel or brown depending on the climate change my husband is her shade he's Latino and in the winter his skin is bright yellow but when it warms up he gets like 3 shades darker and tans really well naturally.
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When she said “I didn’t think much of myself and so the world didn’t think much of me”. I don’t know if I should have empathy or if I want to shake her for wanting the “entire” world to love her. Many people find JLO cool and inspirational but to be surprised that some don’t can’t be a shock to her - just like there are people she doesn’t like. JLO is the one that wants to be seen and looked up to. It’s in her and has nothing to do with the outside world. The need to seek validation will probably be never ending unless you find peace within.
That’s her problem and she’s admitted to that. That she forever kept seeking validation and to be loved. Which is why she was in so many failed real relationships because it was for that moment. Which actually happens to people and it sucks. She talks about her parents and her mom. She has trauma. That stuff Carrie’s with you.
I know many don’t think she can sing or act. Personally I think she’s very talented and seems to work hard diligently and is highly dedicated. But. Maybe if she focused more on other people and not only herself she’d be happier. You can’t help but become self absorbed when your entire life is about yourself performing and seeking valudation. She made it. Now focus on others. She doesn’t unless there’s a camera to film it. Talented but definitely self centered.
She's a joke to me !
I think she meant she felt nobody in the world thought much about her. Even if you are a big star it is possible to feel like that.
@sophiesoprano. Well she didn’t become known world wide and a millionaire/billionaire if people didn’t care to support her. There are people who are truly lonely by no fault of their own so I can’t sympathize with someone who has children, family, husband, friends is creative and can express that and has a huge fanbase who care about her. She’s teethering on narcissism
Lady, please read the room, we're not about to fall for your 6th "once-in-a-lifetime" love story 😂
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Lol
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FACTS
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She gave him the credit for making her see about herself, what usually our kids makes us see, since they love us unconditionally. You'd think she didn't have kids, and was still in high-school. She gave him too much credit, especially since she's been engaged half a dozen times.
It's all just a grand farce. You see, for years, nobody has cared about her. So she dreams up all these grand things to get attention. It's over the top and pathetic. Think about it, what movie has she EVER made that is MUST-SEE? NONE.
She’s so codependent it’s UNREAL….she said the same things about a rod.. and Marc Anthony. seriously, go back and watch news clips when she was with Marc Anthony she says the exact same thing that she fell in love with him, but they were both taken, but she never fell out of love with him she just “put the love to the side“ and then when they were single they got together. Actually I should say when SHE was single since Mark Anthony was married at the time..and the guy before guy before that and the guy before that ….. the woman has not been single a single month in her whole adult life. That tells you something. I honestly think these two got back together only because it was like. “ hey, I’m single again… hey, I’m single again too… God knows we can’t be partnerless for 5 minutes so you want to get back together? Sure why not 🤦🏼♀️. That’s not love.
Exactly. I agree. Feel bad for her
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I don't think she really knows which man I'm her life has giving her the support the love the confidence or anything to get her to where she is😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly because she admitted that she tried making those men into something they weren’t in her mind. Because the truth is, she wished all those men were the one. And after Ben she kept basically seeking for a guy that reminded her of him. Lots of people do that. They spend years being with people who resemble the one they truly love.
PiazzaGurl I could not agree more with you well said and yes she did say she tried to make those men into something there not and the good in her wanted to try her best to make it work. Truth she tried to date guys that had quality of Ben but unfortunately they did not work out for her as they was not Ben her true love. Second all Jlo wrote two albums about Ben and she never wrote two albums for the other guys and sorry I only ever seen her look at Ben in a special different way.
Man she gives that man a lot of power over her happiness.
Thinking the same.she is so beautiful and cant see it
To add perspective, it's not about giving someone power over her happiness. She gave credit of where credit is due to where he "added" to her life. If you watch the documentary and music video adaptation, it was about her true love, was loving herself. Meanwhile, when she did the work that's when Ben came back in life. So it's more so full circle, relatable because that's life.
@@alisabrowning2572 No she said she couldn't love herself. You have to love yourself first you cannot depend on somebody for that. With or without him she needs to
@ravenc4912 that's not how I heard it. People have been judging her and she had been feeling insecure about herself and him giving her that validation about herself is what she needed. She's said this over and over again
She sees it as true love. A woman should never give anyone that much control over your happiness. She is undoing her self.
Sometimes you need to feel secure yourself , not depending on someone .
Its seems she is not okay alone....that is too bad
YUP
she’s so codependent it’s unreal
-Sometimes- *_MOST times._*
Sure everyone periodically needs a bit of external validation, and certainly appreciation; but the true goal should be your comment, but *_ALWAYS._* 🤍
I see Jlo is very needy 😑 and she's always acting/fake
I wonder how ber Children feel when she tells the World she loves Ben while married to their Father
those kids definitely need therapy
Absolutely none of this needed to be made public… I feel sorry for Ben.
Dealing with a narcissist can be extremely difficult. Especially if that narcissistic is your significant other.
Stay strong, brother. ✌️
Your Ben has no satisfaction ethier his brain everywhere
I think she forgot this guy was still going to strip clubs when he was engaged to her and then ditched out on a wedding that cost a fortune. It didn’t take him five minutes to pick up with someone else and actually get married. That doesn’t sound like someone who sees your value, respects you or could ever help you see the best things about yourself when he moved on so quickly. It’s beyond hard to live with the fact that you were robbed of having the family with someone you should have had. She can never go back and regain that time. It’s tough being denied something so sacred as having a family with someone you loved so much. He resented that it was her new found fame that was bringing all the spotlight and cameras to their relationship. The more magazines were in pursuit if Jennifer the more resentment I think he felt. Competition is never a good thing when it’s created by outside forces pitting two people, who are supposed to love each other, against each other. No doubt he regretted the way he responded but sometimes the damage is simply done.
Beautifully said
Truly shes naive...😢
Uhhhmmm J quickly moved onto Marc toooo. Which one got married first as soon as they broke up with each other???
@@dangerouslydaphJennifer never loved Marc. She has spent her whole adult life running from the pain and humiliation she was dealt when Ben ducked out on their wedding. For 20 years she passed time with distractions hoping that one day they’d reunite. I sincerely believe she needed to see confirmation that their love wasn’t just one sided all those years ago. Ben eviscerated her. Marc was safe because he was desperate to be with her and she knew she held all the power going into that marriage, with no risk of ever being hurt because she didn’t love him. Marc was comfortable and he was a quick convenient salve for her wounded heart. People will often choose to get involved with a partner they’re not that emotionally invested in or they’ll immediately take up with someone they know they’re safe with after such a traumatic split. She still loved Ben throughout her marriage to Marc. Her ego needed the kind of worship Marc gave her right after that breakup. She even says herself that she has only been in love one time in her life. We all know that she is talking about Ben. He dealt her a devastating blow 20 years ago, so luring her back only to dump her again has got to have an incalculable impact on every facet of her life.
Kind of a stretch. My first love left me for another woman whom he married and had kids with. I got married quickly after too and had kids. Now 25 years later we are back together with kids the same age all in college and he and I know we just were not in the place we needed to be in for each other back then. Now we are. Been together 3 years now and going strong. I have never had a love that was so easy. So sometimes it’s just not the right time. Had nothing to do with him robbing her of anything. She went and lived her own life too.
It’s almost like she wants to convince everyone that it’s true love! Just live JLo no need to convince us. I respect celebrities that keep their personal lives private.
Yeah I agree! It’s over the top! Like she needs to prove that they are real! Also they said they broke up because of all the media attention, and yet here they are doing to same thing again!🤦🏽♀️
Yes, something isn’t right. It’s the vibe I get from them.
Agree. She should of never made herself or lovelife a gimmick and kept acting but Ego and Greed play a huge part in her behavior from what I see.
True. One celebrity i admire is the actress Michelle Pfeiffer she has been married to her second husband David Kelly for about 30 years and they keep their private life private. Michelle Pfeiffer's first marriage ended in divorce and she never spoke about it to the media.
Good point most celebrities who have long lasting relationships don’t advertise their love to anyone.
J. Lo really acting like we dont remember 😂😂😂
shes the epitome of delulu lol
I know I remember what he did right before the wedding and it was the catalyst to their breakup. Now they’re both trying to rewrite history as though the breakup wasn’t set off by it. He crushed her!! If they’re happy, so be it, but the fact that they will never have children together because of his immature impulsive behavior is an epic tragedy.
He cheated on her with a bunch of dancers in Vancouver @ Brandy’s Strip Club
@@benicio1967is it really an epic tragedy?? 😂😂😂
These are adults that act like kids
First I didn't see any tears. Kind of reminded me of when my toddler "cries" because he doesn't get what he wants. Second if you need a man or anyone else to show you how much you are worth there's definitely something going on with you. You can't depend on other's to make you feel happy or fulfilled. That is something you find within.
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Wow Jen looks like a completely different person without makeup
Yeah rough and ordinary
@@franklinblack2716and a lot older.
Kinda masculine actually.
That's why it it is called make up lol you are made up to look different
That is an untruth I simply won’t tolerate. She’s insanely beautiful with or without makeup.
@@meghanmisaliarshe’s always had harsh angles and looked very ordinary! I always thought she resembled a man when she was still just dancing. Once she blew up, she got a fab production team. I don’t care about a persons looks but the only thing she really ever has had going for her is that she works very hard and doesn’t give up, her work ethic and determination is very strong. Otherwise, she’s not very talented at anything I’ve seen and it’s all smoke in mirrors.
She said the same thing about Alex Rodriguez
And Marc.
She definitely did not, yall reaching.😂
@@thafinalgirl2647
Y’all? Lol. I think you’re delusional.
And ojani,back in the 90s
And idem soon about the coming 5th hubby 😅😅😅
She is an actress. She has said Arod is her twin soul. 😄
Lmao .. soulmate terms and tw8n flame 🔥 terms are OVERRATED...TWIN 🔥 are very rare!
Exactly. And the concept of “soul mates” and “twin souls” and “twin flames” are not real constructs. These terms are usually flung-around by narcissists, or otherwise mentally, or emotionally unhealthy, toxic people, to entrain and manipulate their intimate partner into entering or remaining in their shared fantasy. These terms usually signify a toxic union/trauma bonding of whatever nature.
AROD is very selfish but charming. It’s easy to believe when you are still in it
Cry me a river. You need to stop going 90 miles an hour and chill. He's good for you. He needed to grow up. Enough of Matt bromance
@@icyblue8a rod is a cheater and a juicer. One day he will roid rage and it won't be pretty
She's so full of it. Everything is p.r. with her. Just live your life, lady.
She is a transgender and they're trained actor's Milking money through this dramas.. And ben is a female to male trans..
Don’t worship humans. Trust in God. HE made you.
Amen! ❤
TRUTH. AMEN. 🙏✝️❤
Amene
True she's so obsessed with falling in love and the twin flame/soul mate journey she forgets about the real Creator
Ameen
I don’t want a relationship on social media……she does a documentary 😂😂😂😂
So it lasts longer, got it ?
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If she loved herself she wouldn’t need to always be with a man to make her happy
True Happyiness comes from within
Love urself above everything, true...but when you REALLY find true love ... Love DOUBLE!
It’s been a journey for her, everyone evolves differently and we shouldn’t judge each other so harshly.
@@KatharinaK117❤❤
We do need man people
They married and have kids with other people ,and here talking about having never stopping loving each other all those years 😮.
What vows did they give at their weddings to their exs
He doesn’t say he has never stopped loving her. She is the only one saying that.
We will never know since the public was not there.
It’s in such poor taste.
This what happens when you rebound and marry other ppl, to try and force yourself to move on. You can love many ppl, but everyone you love, is not the same. Happens more than you think.
Just telling lies . How can any relationship work or survive
You said that about Marc Anthony when you were recording the Spanish album. 🙄
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Oop😂😂
Sounds like you were in the studio with them😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Were you the fly on the wall???
They deserve each other , Jennifer garner is a beautiful person she deserves better , jlo is all about herself she doesn’t give a damn who she hurts .
Jennifer Garner has hurt people, too. Scott Foley and Michael Vartan.
An actress indeed selling her documentary😂
With the hope to win an Oscar in March 24,lol😅
It's not working..🤷🤷🤷🤔🤔💯💯💯
@@ricky6935 what if the title changes to "the greatest love story never...sold" 🤔
"Me,Me,Me"
Jlo
In fact, it's "this is ALL about me, ne, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me" 😂😂😂😂😂😉
I get it but hello it is HER StORy
exactly. her entire job is me me me. she even titled it this is me now. as if it hasnt always been me
Please don't forget "I" to the nth power!
@@Dafna-ke2wrthat's ALL she EVER talks about or wants to talk about!
I admire J Lo’s accomplishments, but this stuff is irritating. The supposed message here is that true love exists. How revolutionary. I feel like I’m watching a midlife crisis unfold and it all feels so incredibly self-centered. They both had full lives until their reunion. I don’t like how partners from the past are devalued and turned to mere footnotes, while their super special love survived everything. Give me a break.
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Without make up she looks like everyone...
Yep. So basic
Like most celebrities
she’s always had harsh angles and looked very ordinary! Once she blew up, she got a fab production team. I don’t care about a persons looks but the only thing she really ever has had going for her is that she works very hard and doesn’t give up, her work ethic and determination is very strong. Otherwise, she’s not very talented at anything I’ve seen and it’s all smoke in mirrors.
@@ChalNjurshEp that's very true.
I think she needs to see a therapist.
Why because she is in love ?
@@rubyk445 it’s not love it’s infatuation and she does it every few years …she’s 54 not 20
Yes, I think it is good to be alone for some time to figure out what you really want in life. Jumping from one failed relationship to the next is not good. Give yourself time to heal first. ✨ Jlo is a beautiful and hardworking woman so why need a man all the time. Spend time alone with your children even just for a year to sort yourself out. She has lots of money 💰 so why need a man all the time?
She talks like a high school girl
@@rubyk445she's in love with the idea of being in love.
These 2 deserve each other.
Yes both very evil illuminati celebs.
Nah, Ben's done some bad things but I'd never put another man through this !
@@Gigachadbased-p34 I disagree he knew how she is that is why he left her the first time. He would have been better off trying to make it work with Jen G. But he chose THIS attention seeker. No sympathy for them just the poor kids.
@@blessedgirly7402i think Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are better suited for each other. You can see the love there
@@Gigachadbased-p34he definitely deserves it 😂 look at how he treated his ex
Oh come on Jen, nobody could love you more than you love yourself.
Why so cruel?
Bingo!
Every man is her "true love"
Right
lol true
Say what?! 😅
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So what !! Let her to live her life
Poor Jennifer. As beautiful and tallented as she is. I cant believe that she didn't think much of herself. We are our own worst enemies.
JLO suffers from mental illness
She lies
Don’t pity someoen as self-absorbed as she is
Well, it looks like Ben did not want the relationship in the spotlight back then, and he still does not like it. Has J.Lo learned anything from the past? He is not unhappy for no reason in almost all the pictures taken by PAPPARAZI.
Yeah he seems to be hating every moment of this
He is not too bright because he should of known she will always remain in the spotlight. He must not hate it that much! 💰💰🤑🙄
@@Mita0.0.0 Ben Affleck doesn't need JLo to survive👀 I don't see him wanting to be in the spotlight for years.
They will break up soon. Both of them are stressed and there is undeniable tension between the two.
There are no pictures of her picking up her kids from school. When they were younger. She doesn't seem to be much of a mother. You always see Ben with his children especially when they were younger.
@@dimples2000 Back then she forgot to call the papps.
I am so sorry to see her crying like that but it is also hard to feel sorry for her when you hear all the time that she treat staff poorly. I read it many times even today. They all say she is very rude. So if she can see this message... Jennifer be nicer to people who are not rich
Those are all rumors. Her staff has been with her for over 25 years. If she was truly such a “nightmare” - why does she have the same crew she had since 1997? So much of the stories you’ve heard have been completely false and proven so.
@@matutahootbecause she pays them well lol
@@matutahoot
You’re so delusional. 🙄
The story about her diva attitude has been out there forever. Why didn’t she give up her dressing room to Kelly Roland ? How much up keep these women need.
@@rsingh9900 if that was true she really is not good
I love these two together.
I think they considered eachother the one who got away for all these years, even while married to other people. Wish them the best.
If a woman love she loves and give everything in a relationship so really feel for JLO❤
He doesn’t like social media yet she just needs the attention and make a fucking movie and album!
And keep posting pictures of then together on her Instagram. When he didn't want that smh. My husband said she is obsessed and desperate of him. She's crazy. 😂
She is an insecure human being. When a man gets to know who she really is they leave her.🤷♀Its something about her that any guy she married just loses interest in her.
They are super greedy. They cannot rake in enough money into their empire. When the economists discuss the One Percent grabbing up all the wealth...it's this. And then she acts as if she's doing the public a favor by "sharing" and giving advice on how to live the beautiful life. All the while marketing, marketing, marketing.
@@julieb7785 You are absolutely right.
Love seeing her without makeup, her real self. Love that she's sharing her vulnerability too.
would've been nice if she got rid of the chewing gum as well
She looks like her daughter without makeup
Yeah you can see she ain’t that pretty
She's not showing much vulnerability or her life it's nothing we dont already know.
@@dimples2000 isn’t her daughter a trans woman
She has said this about every man that looked her way 😂
I mean you aren’t in the public eye but I’m sure you been on your knees more and said the same thing for less…you just aren’t in the public eye
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I mean what should she say?
She is very insecure and has little to no self esteem or confidence in herself! She is always looking for someone (anyone) who will say I love you!
A lot of people say she is dripping with self esteem and self confidence but that is self importance which is a very different thing. Every man who gives her any attention is her true love! She doesn’t care who will love her as long as someone does.
It is easy and tempting to see her bad attitude as self confidence but if you look closely you will see that what she displays is self importance. The differences are there nce being that self confident comes from within and is the importance we place upon our selves. It comes from how we impact and change our world. Self importance on the other hand is more dependent on how we believe others want us to see ourselves and being reactionary rather than causatory!
While she comes across as powerful and dynamic she is immature, afraid and timid. She has a self important attitude and will have people fired for just looking at her. She is known to be incredibly mean and and self righteous. I truly believe that this stems from insecurity! It is the thought process of if they get to know me they will not like me so no one gets to know me. She thinks too much of herself but in a very superficial way!
@@Rebornation0712 you talking like you know jlo personally..you people are nuts and not just one..the trail mix 😂
Who else is here after the divorce announcement? LMAO. 😂😂😂😭
Me 😂😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️ I feel bad for her but she knew better
Are they really getting divorced ????? (Almost again)
@@ChalNjurshEpyep.. it's over
The most beautiful couple in the world, Mr. and Mrs. Affleck, I love you so much when you are together, may God protect you ❤❤🥰🥰🙏🙏
They deserve each other.
JLo deserves all the happiness in the world. Can’t blame someone for always searching for love. She just needed to know that it was inside the whole time. Ben truly is the lover of her life. I like how she explained she never fell out of love either but had to put it to the side. That’s called life. The only reason she gets judged so much is because she’s a public figure.
Ben does not love Jennifer Lopez it's a PR STUNT
@SelenaAaliyahQUINTANILLAHaught Girl bye. Your a troll. Stop hating. And seek therapy
JLo left out the part that Ben cheated on her with a stripper and that is why they broke of their wedding 20+ years ago. He was with the stripper for weeks while filming out of the country. Ben when on to marry Jenn and guess what he did to her? he cheated on Jen the entire time they were married with prostitutes/strippers. NOT A GOOD type of man to marry. Now he is back with JLo and she thinks he is different. He's not.
This is NOT the "greatest love story".
She needs to learn to be her own best friend and not depend on men to build her up.
@@jansmith3158lmao 😂 I think it’s funny how people like yourself talk like they’re some firsthand eye witness to what happened. Especially when it’s people you’ve most likely never met a day in your life. It’s kind of weird. You know what you hear and that is all
@@SelenaAaliyahQUINTANILLAHaughtsmfh 😂 some of ya are weird af. You talk like you’re related to these people and you know exactly what’s going on. You even went as far as speaking on Ben and his true feelings 😂 someone that doesn’t even know you exist. That’s strange
My preyers and supporr for J-Lo to get through this disaster and betrayal. You go sis, you are strong, gifted and beautiful!
Worshipping the self is an inescapable trap.
I know what it is like to love someone, lose them and still be in love with them years later, but just put them on the back burner. Things still pop up like it just happened 5 minutes ago, the brain is so weird.
The heart wants what it wants ❤
I actually don't believe her. I don't think she was spiraling for 18 years like she said. Remember how she joked she would let him and diddy drown if she had a life raft? I think it's all in her head only after Ben got dumped by Ana and he had all kinds of failed relationships so he decided to get in touch with her when she got so embarrassed by some reality star getting DMs from Alex. I think her ego soared from that but is that something that will last?
It could happen, but you can't discount other relationships you've had in between, especially those that brought you children. They had to have meant something and likely you were in love with them. I believe two people can fall in love *again* when they reconnect, but they can fall in love with different people in between at times when they're out of love with you. 🤷🏻♀️
((And just to clarify, when I'm saying "you" I mean people in general, or JLo in this case, not actually you, OP... haha))
@@kk-xi8livery true
Someone ? She’s been in love 6 times which is impossible
Not convinced
If you were so healed and truly felt love, it would spill over into the rest of the world. The way she treats regular people is repulsive. I don't care about people's personal life, how do you treat others that you have nothing to gain from. Keanu Reeves is an absolute superstar on screen and real life take notes jlo you don't have to be a jerk to be successful.
You're right
She’s awful
Jlo needs to be private like he is!!! If she wants it to last!!! Also the hate is Starting again!!
"I have never fallen out of love with you" - Yeah, no wonder her marriage to Marc Anthony never worked out. Keep in mind that "Rebound" marriage with Anthony which happened months after Ben called off the wedding with Jennifer, came at the expense of Marc Anthony's wife and kids (who were still babies at the time). This woman is pure ME ME ME.
Please assign blame to him as well.
@@wcolautti
This is Ben's 2nd marriage (his lasted over 10 years).
This is Jennifer's 4th marriage. Where her average time married is around 3 and a half years.
The blame he deserves is gravitating back to Jlo. However, its important to note his state of mind at the time of their "reunion".
He was a recovering addict who was at his lowest and was being humiliated by thots on "elite" dating sites. JLo had been pining from him even when she was married to Marc Anthony. I remember seeing her gush over Ben in interviews. It was sick considering Anthony left his wife and sons who were babies at the time for JLo.
Ben was lonely and vulnerable and at his lowest. Jennifer saw an opportunity to finally do what she was denied 20 years ago. She basically dragged him down the alter (multiple times) and despite claiming "it was Ben's idea" all the necessary paperwork was filed by her.
You can see in this clip that her mind time had frozen since when she and Ben were last together. But it hadn't.
She's like a cross over between Great Expectations and the Great Gatsby.
Your self esteem comes from within. Not men
She is a codependent and she will never be happy if her happiness is reliant on another human she cannot be alone she always with some man it’s pathetic
She’s a narcissist
That is why Ben has always been JLo's First & Last True Love 💞
Agreed
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How about the babysitters?
I wonder if she liked when she slammed the door on her
It's not true love
Nobody knows my story like he DOES.
Oh PLEASE!!!!!!!!
The other men you married before know you too.
I pray 🤲 for Jennifer and Ben to forever glow with love and have faith 💛 ✨️ 🙏 💖
I remember it was him who dumped her 3 days before the wedding.
Exactly; didn't his mother not approve of her??? Does she approve of her now?
@asamatteroffact9247 It doesn't matter, they are together now, even if his didn't like her, he likes her! 🤷♀️🫶
@@DeLordESto1290 you are correct, but I always thought that his mother should have stayed out of their business..
She says: we broke up. But he dumped her ass
Interview from July 2010: Ben Affleck has spoken out about his high-profile relationship with former girlfriend Jennifer Lopez - insisting it was bad for his movie career.
The actor began dating the singer in 2002 after starring in Gigli with her, and the pair later became engaged before splitting up shortly before their scheduled wedding in 2004.
Affleck is adamant he should never have got involved in the first place - because the publicity surrounding their romance tainted his career.
He says, “I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn’t. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity.”
“I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren’t getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it’s bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down.”
And he admits he is much happier with his wife Jennifer Garner and their two daughters, three-year-old Violet and six-month-old Seraphina to look after.
He adds, “Work has taken a back seat. My job is not as important as it was. Saying that having a family changed my life is a cliche. But it’s true - it re-arranged my life and made me see clearly.”
Wow 😳.
You can love someone, but know you're not IN LOVE with them. Jen Gardner is his ex wife ,& mother of his kids, but He is Not IN LOVE with her. That's a big difference when you settle.
They try to keep what Ben said about JLO a Secret 🤣
@@Catwoman748😂
I remember this interview .... Jlo is a touch delusional and trying to rewrite history
But didn’t she literally say “A-Rod is my soulmate!”??
Hmm. Seems like she loves the one she’s with because she can’t have the one she wants?? She wanted J. Garners family and rep. Garner is the whole package. Beauty, brains, humor, humility, unconditional love, and supportive to Ben when he struggled. He gave up on them.
We all remember who J Lo is. She doesn’t? I call major BS.
•Cry on camera ✅
•AND END SCENE 🎬
•Stops crying immediately 😐
Was bragging about her alex...
I don’t care what anyone says I like them together better period ❤❤
The fact that she would openly dismiss their previous spouses tells me all I need to know about her.
Props to whoever does J.Lo's make-up because I wasn't sure who I was watching until she started to speak.
She looks amazing for a woman in their 50s without any makeup on, stop being so negative!
So true. Jennifer really isn't that pretty. But with the best HAIR AND MAKEUP 💄 GLAM TEAM IN HOLLYWOOD SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL.
She didn’t think much of herself?? Who is she kidding. People have seen her interviews, her comments, her unending self aggrandizement, her social media posts. Now they are both trying to rewrite history.
She has her lows! We're all human
She is in LOVE with herself! Nobody loves J.Lo ..more than J.LO!!!
You got it wrong. Deep down she doesn’t think much of herself THATS WHY she feels the need to prove it to the world. Her pics, … everything she does scream for attention and admiration because She DOESNT feel it in herself so she needs it from the outside. So yeah, she doesn’t think much of herself.
@@mayanathaoYet she manages to come off as the biggest narcissist on the planet. Well, that’s a conundrum.
Well it is precisely that that relieves a frail ego and someone who thinks no one loves her.
Pls stop hating on JLo. She’s one of the hardest working professionals in the business, and she’s allowed to express herself.
Beingb hard working doesn't mean everyone will forget what a snobby 🐝 she is!
she always say my biggest love of my life but can’t keep any of them..
I believe Jen feels that Ben is the best thing that has ever happened to her.. When a man knows that, he won't respect you. I never hear him go on like that about her, and he blamed his ex for his alcohol problem and cheating. I hope he doesn't do the same to her. Her entire brand is wrapped up in her love life at the time! Every man is her “true love” and really sees her and helps her to be better than the last man did. She said the same thing about Mark Anthony and Arod.
True
Not true. Ben wanted to marry and have babies with J-Lo. He was so in love with her. He showed how much he loved her by going back in 2021 bc he had a lot to apologize for bc he denied and betrayed her.
His life was in display when he suffered a lot with those public drunken displays over still loving and wanting her but thinking he had lost her forever.think
They are trying too hard to shove this documentary hard down our throats. Is it not doing well in terms of views?
Too painful for my eyes & ears!!!
Does anyone think this documentary could have "won"an Oscar in March 2024?😂😂😂 So again, cry me a river !
I THOUGHT SHE COULD NOT ACT, BEST PERFORMANCE EVER, DEFINETELY AN AWARD
Another day. Another soulmate
J lo is very hard working and my inspiration, i have always admired her, she showed the world that all women are valuable and attractive at all ages not only when they are at their twenties.
No, I do not want to use any of JLo's love, dance, or singing stories to believe love does exist. She has said that about every man she's married. This is simply convenient and believable for hopeful fairytale seekers. Ben and Jen's fans and groupies will worship this bravo "acting" series.
She has has this support from Arod too. Cris Judd. They used to support her esteem
Nobody makes you believe in something. You have to work it out by yourself so that you can hear yourself and make the change which is the real transformation. No need to make a film about it Jen. It seems by your tears there is much work to be done internally without the external "love" of a partner....
Can’t agree more .
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narcissists low key be having the lowest self esteem, compensating so hard they come across as arrogant.
if you try to save one, they’ll destroy you for trying
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Jlo is in love with J. Lo.
He fell in love w/ Garner. That's why he broke up w/ her. Jlo loves media. & hams it up. She's always had a healthy self image & has more talent in so many areas that have made her mega wealthy.
Obviously he loved Jlo more. He said on the Howard Stern Show that he was miserable in his marriage to Garner and if he had stayed in it he would probably be still drinking and she was someone he should not have married. People were upset because he said that but it was his experience and his truth. I think because people like Garner he should have stayed with her but you never know what’s going on in two people private behind the scene. Another thing Garner was 4 months pregnant when he married her. Everyone knew he married her out of obligation and not love. He was not going to have illegitimate child in his life. That would have affected their careers too much if she had been walking around pregnant and not married. Why not just be happy about his marriage to Jlo. They seem to be.
@@paulaburnside1135Ben also said how much he loved Garner after they were broken up. I don't see Ben looking very happy, nowadays. But maybe that's just his personality. Honestly who knows. But if they broke up in few years, I wouldn't be suprised. We just don't know.
well he dumped her again & Garner is again his go to
When she was crying, she seemed to be acting...but I believe that her feelings about Ben are genuine and I pray that they make it to the end together.
Also, wow! Makeup is a magical lie!
Boo Hoo!! #1 Narcisst!! Feel so sorry for her kids. So many men!!!
Why can’t you just be happy for them. If you have kids hope they’re okay since you’re wasting your concern on rich peoples kids.
No tears meanwhile when she cries
I’m sure their kids must be happy hearing this. I feel for Jennifer Garner
I don’t understand being so in love to the point of three days before marriage, that the love is so intense that you break it off?
We are not silly. Every relationship she got were the love of her life🙄soul mate etc … etc
I didn't know love existed until these two got back together, Im so glad she told us that
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You shouldn't need someone to make you whole.
Some people do
Toxic
Holy shit, she’s a solid 4 without makeup. Gives me hope
Not just the makeup but she doesn't have the hair extensions
or bronzer either. She really looks different without all of that.
Watching 9-9-24...they are divorced. So much for love...she betrayed him by putting the most sacred , his love letters to her on social media. He walked out. I don't blame him
Yeah, Yeah - lets see where all this goes in one to two years.
Why can’t you just be happy for them. Is your life that miserable.
Sorry for Ben .
The Greatest Narcissist Story Never Told......
This goes to all the people that talk negative about others... Talking negative about people is how you feel about yourself.. think about this everytime you want to say something bad about someone.. you have a blessed day❤❤❤
JLo has talked negative about other women (actresses and singers) many times. Maybe you should send your message to her e-mail.
Jlo just needs to stay singie shes beautiful she needs to remind herself all the tears she shed after all her breakups im 57 latina 28 yrs ended 2014 all i did was cry until i couldn't nomore so i know the pain us womens have to stay strong being singie is the best waye to go
Life is all about falling in love and falling out of love.
It’s about finding your peace in the chaos!
I like the peace
Oh c'mon...you said the same about Alex...Chris...Marc...Casper.....even Oiani..."saw the best in you" (if there even was🤭 any!?!?)...cry me a river with no tears!!!🥲🥲🥲
We all know she didn't think much of herself. That is why she hops from guy to guy. She needs their validation for existence. She still doesn't think much of herself because she has never given herself the moment to learn who she is, develop independence and confidence.
Maybe you need to be telling yourself that cause you sound stupid
I LOVED this production!!! I always thought Ben broke her heart and he was always the one. I’m glad they found each again.